Friends: Question: I need advice w highschool? |
- Question: I need advice w highschool?
- Question: My mom's boyfriend is being abusive... help please?
- Question: My friend stabbed me in the back, please help?
- Question: How did your friends change from freshman to senior year of high school?
- Question: What do I do?
- Question: Is my friend making excuses to not see me?
- Question: My friend told personal stuff about me to my employers? What should I do about it?
- Question: Why do I appeal to kids so easily?
- Question: How can I deal with missing my old life?
- Question: I'm a short middle schooler being tormented by jocks and their ring leader, the leader of the jocks is someone I used to bully? Ideas?
- Question: What am I supposed to do?
- Question: Friend? Or not?
- Question: Help. Class trouble?
- Question: Why is my guy friend so protective of me?
- Question: Why do I not have any friends and when I want friends I don't want them?
- Question: What do I do if both of my friends say they are gay and start dating and I become the third wheel?
- Question: Do friends protect and take care of each other? Please answer?
- Question: Would you want a friend with Asperger's, or would you rather have a friend with down syndrome?
- Question: Is she my friend?
- Question: Does my friend think she's better than me?
- Question: I really like my step cousin ? Does she like me back ?
- Question: Has anyone been so jealous of their friend that they ended up resenting them?
- Question: What did i do wrong?
- Question: Does she have social anxiety?
- Question: Does a real friend just sit back and watch their good friend do stupid things?
- Question: Is it still okay to share your own news when someone has just shared something bigger?
- Question: A little blown...?
- Question: I really enjoy having sex with this guy but I don't know what to do?
- Question: I like my step cousin ? She's perfect...?
- Question: How can I get it from him?
- Question: Are you the type of person where most people irritate you?
- Question: Should i see my friend like real friend anymore?
- Question: My friends are making me feel really bad, what do I do?
- Question: How should I put it?
- Question: How should I come about this topic to my best friend?
- Question: Issues with a friend....what would YOU say to them?
- Question: My mind hates me...?
- Question: I really enjoy having sex with this guy but I don't know what to do.?
- Question: Girl sent me a picture of herself in skimpy clothes, then said it was an accident ? (She's 14)?
- Question: How do i get my friend back?
- Question: How do you deal with someone that all but declares love for you, but you have no romantic interest in that person?
- Question: Unique gift ideas?
- Question: Is this the best way to start drama for the girl I hate?
- Question: Poll: Who's your best friend on here?
- Question: Any 14-16 year old want to be friends?
- Question: My friend keeps deleting me in all social media but we are friends in public why he keeps deleting me in social media whats the reasons ?
- Question: How to get back with my ex best freind so that we go out out of school together?
- Question: How come I can't make any friends? I am so alone...?
- Question: Is this ok?
- Question: Is my mom ok looking.she feels plain?
- Question: What does it mean when a girl sends you pictures of her in skimpy clothes ? (she's 14)?
- Question: Hi how ru?
- Question: What do you guys think about this situation?
- Question: Do you find this weird?
- Question: I keep giving up? How can I change that?
- Question: 14 year old in school called me a pedophile because I say stupid stuff I'm 14 2 and this annoys me?
- Question: Is it wrong to be attracted to my best friend's wife?
- Question: I HATE my so called best friend.. what should I do?
- Question: Why am I still in this friendzone?
- Question: BFF drop out school cuz she bullied.?
| Question: I need advice w highschool? Posted: 12 May 2017 05:35 PM PDT so I guess I made friends w the wrong people and they did me dirty, so I cut them off and people are getting me into drama, beef and fights. I go to francis lewis hs which is the worst. there are so many RUMORS of me , and theres a video going around of some poor girl sucking dick and being recorded and people are saying its me when its not. people are making up rumors saying im with all these boys sucking all of their ***** calling me a hoe and everyone is saying I talk **** when I don t. im a ******* freshman in highschool im still 14 years old and everyone is ragging me into so much drama , so many girls want to fight me because they think im talking ****, and stealing their money while its all false. I just want to ******* kill myself I hate highschool its not fair. half of the people in school don t like me for **** I don t say or don t do . |
| Question: My mom's boyfriend is being abusive... help please? Posted: 12 May 2017 05:29 PM PDT I'm 13yrs old and i'm a girl..I've been having many issues with my mom's boyfriend.. First, my parents got divorced a few months ago and my mom has been dating this man named "Tyler" Well, he started living in our house since 3 weeks ago and he has been making my life MISERABLE!!! and when i said miserable, I MEAN IT. He's treating me like a toy and only cares about himself and my mom.. So today we didn't have school because it was a teacher work day.. This morning, I woke up and I couldn't find my cat anywhere in my house..I looked everywhere and couldn't find him so i got really scared..because i had him for 2 years and i loved him more than anything. So I asked Tyler where my dog is and he told me that he sold my cat yesterday when i was at my friend's house for a sleepover.. Well I got very upset because he jut sold my cat without even asking me!! I mean who does that???!! I got really mad and asked for him to say sorry...then he SLAPPED ME on the face really hard and said SHUT UP!!! ... Then just now ( and hes done this several times ) he was treating me like a s e x toy and abused me and touched me.. my mom isnt home right now and im really scared to come out of my closet.. help.. I can't tell my dad, I have him in my contacts on my phone but he lives in a different state and so he can't really do anything about it :( |
| Question: My friend stabbed me in the back, please help? Posted: 12 May 2017 05:09 PM PDT My friend- ex friend- called me a dirty little lesbian to my friends and spread rumors that my BFF and I are a couple because her and I are "friends with benefits", all because I didn't "like him back." It really hurt me, I told my mom someone called me names but didn't say what or who. Is there something I can do to, idk, forget him totally?? :/ |
| Question: How did your friends change from freshman to senior year of high school? Posted: 12 May 2017 04:49 PM PDT |
| Posted: 12 May 2017 04:41 PM PDT So in the beginning of the year, my friend introduced me to a boy who said i was "cute". He added me and we talked for a couple weeks and I got feelings for him fast. For two months we didn t talk at all. I knew he was talking to my friends though. He talked to one of my best friends for a bit and switched to the other one. It wasn t a big deal to me then. During the last days of 2016, he told my friend to tell me to add him on snapchat. Of course I did because I still thought about him a lot and I wanted to talk to him. We ve talked almost everyday since then but half of the time he just acts really bored. The other half he makes me feel special. We ve even hung out once. We went cruising and it was such a good time. We just talked the whole time and I really just liked to be next to him. I knew he talked to other girls but I thought that it was dumb of me to be jealous because we aren t anything. I just think it s really weird that he s never talked to me in school. My "best friend" only bothered to tell me today that he messaged her a week ago and told her that she looked nice. That s not a big deal but I can t help my feelings for him and it kind of hurt that i m not the only one he wants to talk to. It s been like 6 and a half months that I ve had feelings for him and I feel like I m wasting so much of my time but at the same time I can t help it because I just like him so much. What do I do? Why does he act like he cares about me if he really doesn t? |
| Question: Is my friend making excuses to not see me? Posted: 12 May 2017 04:37 PM PDT My friend and his girlfriend live 70 miles away from me it's an hour in the train, it's about £10 train fair. They said they was going to come up after Christmas and see me but didn't end up coming and said they have no money, so I went to see them on the 22 February my birthday. But haven't seen them since, they said they was coming up after easter and haven't come. I asked my friend why and he said he has no money to come up and can't afford it, but he could of saved up. I even said I will give him the money for his train ticket and he said ''No because I'll end up spending it on something else and don't want to take your money'' And I've said today I will buy his tickets and send them to him and he agreed to it, but he said he needs to talk to his girlfriend because he said he doesn't know what day he's free. He said I'm strrrssing him out because I kept asking him what days he is free and he kept saying ''I'm busy Tuesday and Thursday because I'm working and Saturday I'm collecting my dads lottery tickets and I'm covering for someone at work as they are off'' Just seems like he doesn't really wanna come? |
| Question: My friend told personal stuff about me to my employers? What should I do about it? Posted: 12 May 2017 04:30 PM PDT |
| Question: Why do I appeal to kids so easily? Posted: 12 May 2017 04:16 PM PDT I have the personality of a second grader and I'm in eighth grade. I'm helping around the elementary part in my school and I'm mostly around the first and second graders. They always want to be around me and want me to sit with them. Is it that older kids fascinate them? I don't know but I become great friends with them. Like CLOSE friends, they tell me their crushes, run up to me for hugs, telling me their secrets, want me to carry them ect. Why do I appeal to kids? |
| Question: How can I deal with missing my old life? Posted: 12 May 2017 04:07 PM PDT I'm an 18 year old guy and I started working about a month ago. Before that, I had taken a year off after finishing high school to figure out what I wanted to do. During that year I had no responsibilities. I had my own schedule and I was free to do whatever I wanted. Now, I work almost every day a week. One day off is usually all I get. Never two in a row, like a weekend. I like the amount of hours and money. I just don't get time to relax. How should I deal with missing my old life? I had no idea how easy my life was. It was no worries. |
| Posted: 12 May 2017 04:02 PM PDT So in 5th grade I was considered tall I was 5'5 and I bullied everyone because I was starting in the basketball team. This one guy who was kinda chubby I bullied in and out of school. Well he hit a huge growth spurt, he's 6'5 in 7th grade and a star basketball player now. He continually bullies me, he pushes me into lockers, steals stuff and holds it over my head. He even took my back pack and put it on the rim of the basketball goal. When I had the gym coach get it down he lied and said I did it and his friends backed up his story. He continually makes my life a living hell. He threw away my homework destroyed my backpack. At one point at a party he flirted with my crush when I was trying to flirt with her and then kissed her in front of me and carried her away while they laughed at me. I know I was mean to him but I never thought he could hurt me or my social life this bad. What makes it worse is that he is a teen model for s clothing line and all the girls at my school love him now. He doesn't bully anyone else except me. It turns out he's being mean to me because I also bullied a close female friend of his into anorexia |
| Question: What am I supposed to do? Posted: 12 May 2017 04:01 PM PDT I fell in love with my best friend, we were friends for over 6 years (at that time), she was the first girlI fall in love with, so it was hard for me to tell her how I felt, + I didn't want to ruin our friendship, so after 6 years of hiding my feelings, I told her how I felt (she was leaving school the next year, she moved to a different country), I always knew she didn't feel the same, I know I don't look good, I was fine with it, but anyway, when I told her, she never replied, she ignored me, I literally haven't heard her voice or even seen her since that day, another 6 years have passed, I kept apologizing her but she never answered my messages,12 years, literally for 12 years not a single day has passed without me thinking about her, I have these moments where I feel slightly better and think I can finally move on but I just end up missing her even more, I feel empty, like there's a huge hole in my heart, I feel like my life has no meaning to it. I know that most of you are gonna tell me to move on, talk to other girls and do different kinds of stuff. But none of that works, i've tried moving on numerous times but I just can't. Also i'm not even someone girls would find hot or attractive or whatever, i've been bullied about the way I look before, and she used to stand up to me when that happened. But now she's gone, and I have no idea if she hates me or not, I have no idea if she still remembers me or not. I've always known that I never had a chance, but not telling her was eating my alive, and ever since that happened i've always thought I made a mistake when I did, because I lost my friend. I really don't know what to do anymore, I feel worthless, I just keep thinking about what have I done for her to ignore me like that, I can't even find enough words to describe how I feel right now |
| Posted: 12 May 2017 03:53 PM PDT Today in GYM I walked up to my friend, said Hi and she said could you please leave me alone so I did as she said, not really knowing what I did. A few minutes later I saw her hanging out with a huge group of people, so I was hurt, why wouldn't she want to hang out with me?( we don't hang out often...) Also, when we first started being friends she started punching my boobs, and called me sh*t which I asked her to stop, but she ignored me. When we were outside she saw a cat scratch on my arm and asked if I cut my self, which I replied No to, then she said good because I was going to tell you to practice your aim. And all this makes me wonder, is she really a friend? I don't want to be too quick to judge, because she is friends with my crush, and I am scared that she may spread rumors about me to my crush. I don't know what to do. Please help! |
| Question: Help. Class trouble? Posted: 12 May 2017 03:33 PM PDT Ok so at lunch sometime ago my russian friend told me a rude word in russia. I asked a girl in my class if thats what it meant and she got really mad at me. Later that day. I wrote a sincere apology letter to her and said i was sorry i was just asking her what that actually meant. At the beginning at the year, she started hitting, kicking, slapping, and pinching me and stealing my stuff and blackmails me to do stuff for her and then she gives it back. Today. i left my cards on the bench and she took it and one of my friends accused her of taking my stuff in front of the teacher. And she asked, why are u accusing me. I was just gonna give it back. And then my friend said that she was always being mean to me and taking my stuff away. The teacher adked the girl why are u being mean to her. The girl just brought up this incident as evidence and other things i didnt do. The teacher belives her not me and told the principal about it. Im afraid the school will email my parents or her parents will email mine and talk about the incident. My parents will never believe me. What should I do? |
| Question: Why is my guy friend so protective of me? Posted: 12 May 2017 03:25 PM PDT Why are guys protective of their girl friends? I was wondering why guys are so protective of their friends that are girls? One of my guy friends tends to be very protective of me. When it starts to get a little dark outside, sometimes he will walk me home so that I feel safe. If I get freaked out by walking out at night " It's OK, because your with me", and he'll make it seem like when I'm with him, I wouldn't get hurt or get hit by a car because he would either push me out of the way before I get hit, or stop me from going in front of a moving car if I was out of it, or something by putting his arm out in front of me as a barrier between me and the car. Then, he'll make sure not to bring me anywhere with people he knows I would feel uncomfortable around. For instance, there was a drunk couple stood near me and he told me to stand near him. One time he grilled me about my abusive ex-boyfriend for two hours and kept asking intimate questions about our relationship. He kept asking me 'do you still text him?' And 'was there anybody else you've been with' So why is it that he's so protective of me? Why does he act as if when I'm with him, he'll always make sure that I am safe and he wouldn't let anything bad happen to me? Do you think he has a bit of feelings for me or is it just plain guy ego? |
| Question: Why do I not have any friends and when I want friends I don't want them? Posted: 12 May 2017 03:25 PM PDT |
| Posted: 12 May 2017 03:10 PM PDT I am not homophobic, but its so awkward. I really sometimes wish they would break up. Is this right? But they are my best friends, but I don't feel like I know one of them anymore. To be honest, I don't really think she is being truthful to herself. They always ditch me. I hate it, but I can't say I do. What do I do? |
| Question: Do friends protect and take care of each other? Please answer? Posted: 12 May 2017 02:50 PM PDT The reason I'm asking this is because I'm a female and I was at my friend's house and she told her daughter she takes care of me meaning that I take care of my friend but I just wondering do friends actually take care of each other and protect each other? |
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| Posted: 12 May 2017 02:10 PM PDT She said "you have my support xo" is she? |
| Question: Does my friend think she's better than me? Posted: 12 May 2017 01:59 PM PDT I have been best friends with this one girl for YEARS. In college we did everything together. In the past few years, after graduating, she has gone on to do big things with her life. She works a pretty high profile job in a big city, and has a lot of other exciting things going on. And I'm very proud of her. Me? I still live in our home town and live a pay check to pay check lifestyle. Nothing too exciting, and I've been some irresponsible decisions that have put me where I'm at. I take full responsibility. But since Beth moved to Boston, things have changed. She doesn't have as much time for me, only seems to like hanging out with people who are also successful and have white collar jobs like herself, and judges people our age for things that SHE did in college. Sometimes I think she thinks she is better than me now... how do I address this with her? |
| Question: I really like my step cousin ? Does she like me back ? Posted: 12 May 2017 01:47 PM PDT She's a very cute girl. Her body is perfect, she's smart and a nice person. She was very friendly towards me. Their family visited us a couple days ago and I couldn't stay away from her even for a minute... She's one of the most attractive girls I've ever seen(and I've seen many) I even flirted with her and she seemed to like it. She even gave me her number, skype and social media. I checked everything about her and she's single(I was very surprised about it) On last day, she got touchy and even hugged me a couple of times. After she left, we started texting. She sometimes gives me cute nicknames. I asked her "what kind of guys do you like?" and she described "her perfect guy" EXACTLY with the same features like me. Did she say it on purpose to signal me that she likes me, too ? She says that she would like to meet up again, but alone and go to woods or a lake where there are no people. I'm 15, she's 6 months younger than me(still 14) Sorry for asking this 2nd time... I didn't get many answers :( Was she hinting on anything when she said that we should go to the woods alone or a lake ? I would want to see her without clothes... |
| Question: Has anyone been so jealous of their friend that they ended up resenting them? Posted: 12 May 2017 01:26 PM PDT I m in my mid 20 s, as is my BFF. We were besties all through college and roommates. Shelby (my bff) graduated college 3 years ago and has since gotten her masters. She recently moved to NYC for a job, lives in manhattan, gets to travel a ton and do cool things.not to mention, she s tall, thin, and beautiful. Me? I failed out of college, still live in my hometown that nobody ever escapes, work in the service industry still and am lucky if I can afford to go out to eat. I never get to travel or do cool things and have nothing to be proud of. But I ve been dealt some bad cards in life. I want to be happy for Shelby and her success, I really do. But every time I see something on her social media or Snapchat of her doing something cool I want to scream. When she comes to visit and people ask her about living in NYC and her new job, I pray for someone to change the subject because I don t want to listen to her yap about how great her new life is. Truth is.. she s a really nice person and works her *** off. But it s hard for me to be happy for her because her life is fabulous and mine is quite the opposite. Has anyone dealt with this? How did you get over it? |
| Question: What did i do wrong? Posted: 12 May 2017 01:16 PM PDT So a few weeks ago I went to a friend's bdaywith my kiddos. I recently got back with my ex, father's of my children. Anyways my friend messages me, asking if I'm single, and that a certain guy at the party was a little interested in me. I asked who, and said I did get back with my ex A few days later, I messaged him via FB said Hey! (I am not trying to hook up, date, or cheat -- i don't have a lot of friends though. I msg him for conversation. He says "You look familiar." "You're the quiet girl from the party" etc. I just asked him what he was doing. He said he wished me luck with my relationship etc. Then somewhere in the convo he says "What did you expect me to say when u contacted me lol". I said "nothing". so he goes "Well I don't ignore pretty woman... So saying nothing would be dumb" and so i said --> lol i didn't think conversation hurt anyone? but i wasn't trying to bug u, or intrude. Haha you are something else <-- is what he replied. I told him I'm confused, i didnt get why he was acting like that. Don't be.. well thank you for contacting me I'll ttyl best of luck <-- so he says this. Woooah. I'm sorry for making you angry by saying Hi. lol alrighty then. <-- i respond with this. He says... I'm far from angry lol just trying to figure you out so I said -->lol idk what i'm saying to come off so bad Then he says, -->You aren't coming off bad.. I'll start over Hi I'm Jacob lol he read me saying my name and hasnt said anything since. what did i do? |
| Question: Does she have social anxiety? Posted: 12 May 2017 01:13 PM PDT one day at work there was a girl in the window who was waving at me and when i waved back she ducked and disappeared from sight. does she? |
| Question: Does a real friend just sit back and watch their good friend do stupid things? Posted: 12 May 2017 12:59 PM PDT One of my good friends is dating a guy that I absolutely hate. In addition to being a disrespect asshole in general, this guy has admitted to murdering multiple people over very petty things (e.g. revenge for people either stealing his money or weed). He also told me he's robbed someone at gunpoint with friends because he knew said person had $20,000 inside their home. Not that it matters, but he's from the South Side of Chicago and doesn't have a good reason for lying about all this. Even if he is, I still think he's a POS for thinking that's cool to make up stories about. I also think he's cheated on my friend multiple times because when they fight (which is frequent) he always threatens to bring girls back to her apartment (where he lives on her dime) while she's at work. My friend wants to come stay with me for Memorial Day and she wants to bring him. I've told her multiple times about how she can do WAY better, and if it were me, I would've kicked his *** to the curb by now. She just doesn't listen. I absolutely hate the thought that a murderous, burglar would be staying at my place. My question is, would a real friend tell their friend that she's completely wasting her time and being extremely foolish in regards to the person she's dating and that it's making my opinion of her plummet, or is a real friend there through thick and thin, regardless of the dumb decisions the other friend makes? |
| Question: Is it still okay to share your own news when someone has just shared something bigger? Posted: 12 May 2017 12:55 PM PDT I've been working hard teaching since January and my class for this spring session is about to end in a couple of hours. I've been waiting all week to share something for my best friend to see, in relation to my excitement, but her sister just posted something equally grand about her own work. Now I feel insecure. I've waited all this time and felt really good all day but, I don't want it to look like I'm trying to compete with her sister's spotlight or anything. Honestly, I don't have much positive to share, so I felt like this would have been something nice. I'm thinking about waiting until Monday instead but at the same time I'm a little down about that idea. I mean, this is it for my first session. I don't celebrate much but I really felt I've done good for once. I respect her feelings about her sister and just don't want to make an issue. My accomplishment isn't all that important to anyone in the long run but still, I'd like to feel proud about something I've done right. Anyway, I guess I'm asking mostly if I'm just thinking about it too much and would it be rude to just go ahead as planned? |
| Posted: 12 May 2017 12:49 PM PDT Just to vent on some sadness I'm feeling. A close friends husband hit on me and after telling my friend about the incident I was blamed and was told the friendship is over. It just sucks how things happen now a days.....Are all guy's like this now? Was I wrong for speaking up? |
| Question: I really enjoy having sex with this guy but I don't know what to do? Posted: 12 May 2017 12:39 PM PDT But he and I live in different states and we are not in a long distance relationship. I met him online and I went to see him for the first time in June of 2015. I saw him again last year in June and I'm going to see him again next month. The thing is I really want to go see him more often. I asked him if I could and he said sure I just enjoy going to see him. |
| Question: I like my step cousin ? She's perfect...? Posted: 12 May 2017 12:38 PM PDT She's a very cute girl. Her body is perfect, she's smart and a nice person. She was very friendly towards me. Their family visited us a couple days ago and I couldn't stay away from her even for a minute... She's one of the most attractive girls I've ever seen(and I've seen many) I even flirted with her and she seemed to like it. She even gave me her number, skype and social media. I checked everything about her and she's single(I was very surprised about it) On last day, she got touchy and even hugged me a couple of times. After she left, we started texting. She sometimes gives me cute nicknames. I asked her "what kind of guys do you like?" and she described "her perfect guy" EXACTLY with the same features like me. Did she say it on purpose to signal me that she likes me, too ? She says that she would like to meet up again, but alone and go to woods or a lake where there are no people. I'm 15, she's 6 months younger than me(still 14) Was she hinting on anything when she said that we should go to the woods alone or a lake ? |
| Question: How can I get it from him? Posted: 12 May 2017 12:25 PM PDT So my friend lives in Berlin and I live in Dubai his birthday is coming up so I m sending him a gift but I need his address and postal code...any ideas on how to get them without him knowing that I m sending him something |
| Question: Are you the type of person where most people irritate you? Posted: 12 May 2017 12:24 PM PDT I wish I wasn't like this, but I notice most people really irritate me. I rarely let them know they're doing this to me, but I tend to end up drifting away from talking to them anymore, and they never really know why. |
| Question: Should i see my friend like real friend anymore? Posted: 12 May 2017 12:20 PM PDT Wtf? I was having fun with 3 of my friends like almost everyday. We always smoking and we are always good with each other. Today i smoked with 2 of them and 3rd friend came. So he told us he is so drunk like animal cus he was drinking alcohol with friends still we smoked again and this time with him. Then we were sitting on bench in park. And i was talking with one friend and i was the only who talk.When you smoke you talk and you are more friendly.The 3rd friend who came last ,who was drinking told me to shut up. Ok i stopped and after 10 min i spoke again but i was n o t talking crazy, just normal,he thought i talk with myself? Then he kicked me in the leg. I told him "**** u maaan wtf?" and he stood in front of me and said "Did i told u to shut up" and slaped me a little . I said "Wtf man, are you insane why u hitted me" and he hitted me even harder again in face. And i freaked out. then he sat on other bench and he told me he did it cus i was still talking. WTf? He could say LOUDER and i would get it , but to react this aggresively.kick in leg then 2 slaps? i told them i dont want to hang with them anymore. Sorry for band English. Not my native langauge langauge* |
| Question: My friends are making me feel really bad, what do I do? Posted: 12 May 2017 12:17 PM PDT It's the end of the year, and my favorite thing at the end of the year is getting my yearbook to look through and have people sign. I'm a freshman (class of 2020). At my school, freshman have their own building that they are held to, which sucks. I think it is a really stupid system personally, especially since no one even considers us high schoolers. It's hard to explain. When I went to get my yearbook and signing book, I was told that I couldn't get it because I'm a freshman. Apparently, freshman are getting their signing books next week (despite announcements this morning saying otherwise) and yearbooks in August. But 10-12 graders get them today. As if that was the only thing that was bothering me, my friends are saying that we don't get treated like real people because we're freshman. I was really upset and ranting about this whole ordeal, when my one friend Jared kept beating me down saying how yearbooks are so stupid and that we are just freshman and so many other hurtful things that made me feel really guilty. All of my other friends in other states (I've moved a lot in my life) get their yearbooks (which include signing books inside them) next week and they are treated fairly because they aren't split into a "Freshman Academy". What am I supposed to do? We may only have 2 weeks left of school, but this has been hanging over my head for months. |
| Question: How should I put it? Posted: 12 May 2017 12:09 PM PDT So I have this friend that is kinda frustrating to deal with. She s oversensitive and kinda... I don t know how to put it. Here s the problem: -She usually isolates herself and acts like we re ignoring her. (body language: a frown, kinda closed off) -She takes out her bad attitude on one of my other friends. -At our friend get-togethers she doesn t participate in any activities, sits on her phone, looking depressed. -Only talks to the guys at the get-togethers and usually she talks about what is horribly wrong in her life. -Doesn t take jokes well (even when they re not for her.) We ve asked what s wrong with her and overtime she says "nothing" and we continue to persist and ask but we get the same answer. We drop it and take her word for it. Then later she complains about how we didn t ask what s wrong with her. It s confusing and frustraiting and honestly I don t know what to say to her. She bothers the girls in the group and we honestly want to tell her soon, but none of us want to do it in fear of her becoming over defensive and getting offended. I need a person s third person perspective of the situation. Any advice? Thank You! |
| Question: How should I come about this topic to my best friend? Posted: 12 May 2017 11:48 AM PDT So my best friend and I have been close for over 15 years and we've traveled around to places around the world together, attended family functions, etc. We had a long distance friendship for most of it and we are incredibly honest to each other about everything. I just don't know how to talk to her about this subject though. Well she moved to the same city and state I lived in for the first time in five years and I was actually moving away at the time for a better opportunity. It's almost been two years and she still has never come to see my apartment, house or me. It's all me taking the trip to come see her. I've been extremely busy so I haven't really been on her about it, but it bothers me because she's my best friend and she constantly tells me she's so busy, but she really wants to come. I respected that until I noticed five months into the year that she's been to Disney 7 times and Universal once just in this amount of time which takes a longer amount of time to travel to than my place. We've went months without talking and I'll always be there for her, but I feel like I'm on the back burner in this whole situation. How should I talk to her about this? |
| Question: Issues with a friend....what would YOU say to them? Posted: 12 May 2017 11:19 AM PDT I have known my friend for 8 months. He is a great friend, but the problem is, he can be rude/insulting. He asked me "Why are you studying in college for no job?" in other words, he has no hope and thinks I'm wasting my time in college. (I'm a biology major). When he texts me, sometimes he says "I'll be right back" ....but I don't hear from him until the next day. He doesn't even apologize for it. He says he respects my beliefs as an atheist, but he has suggested three times that I should convert to Catholic....and tells me "maybe your beliefs are wrong". I am a very shy and kind-hearted person. I don't want to lose my friendship. He is a good friend to me, but he tells me rude stuff....How can I handle it in a mature way? I just need an idea how to handle it in a mature way without insulting him back, or dropping him as a friend. Nice, serious, and mature answers only please! |
| Question: My mind hates me...? Posted: 12 May 2017 11:10 AM PDT So, in my life there have been times that I have doubted myself.Now, I live a non secret double life as my reality consists the world of gaming and the world of school.No matter what gaming has became a big part of my life, therefore you can easily say that I have my own group of friends that belong to that community.I cannot imagine my gaming without their company, nor my life cause some of them I have grown very close with. Yet, the problem begins now.Ever since 2015, my life has been in a complete mess.I met one guy that was the very first that I can say that was really hitting on me and I guess I kinda liked it at the beginning.He belonged to that group of gamer friends.But, I quickly gave up on my liking of him, yet, he became a person that made me pity him and feel sorry for him and that continued for a bit more than a school year.After that, some of our common friends thought that they should help and told me that i should stop talking to him. In the end, I did.After that though, in his school everybody started calling me a slut.I did not know.I learnt at one point during 2016.Moving on from that strange semi-confession story, I had 2 out of my 4 left over friends confess their undying passion to me and one to hate me till the core cause i kind of wanted to trick him in a lie to avoid a situation and he correctly did not believed me (but regardless out of pride I continued my story) I am left in a sea of emptiness cause I feel bad and guilty. What's the condition doc? also my mind plays a big role in this cause i feel like that is all my fault. But i am addicted to talking to those people and I find salvation in doing so in a way, yet I feel crap about it all at the same time. When I was little I wished for someone that loved me, I guess you should be careful of what you wish for in the end... |
| Question: I really enjoy having sex with this guy but I don't know what to do.? Posted: 12 May 2017 10:53 AM PDT But he and I live in different states and we are not in a long distance relationship. I met him online and I went to see him for the first time in June of 2015. I saw him again last year in June and I'm going to see him again next month. The thing is I really want to go see him more often. I asked him if I could and he said sure I just enjoy going to see him. |
| Posted: 12 May 2017 10:51 AM PDT She's 14. She sent me a picture of her posing in skimpy clothes. She almost had her boobs out and butt, too... She then said it was an accident and didn't want to send me it, but I opened it 30 minutes after she sent it to me and she could have deleted that picture. She sometimes flirts with me, hugs me and wraps her legs around my legs. She once asked me to carry her on my back and always smiles at me. Does she like me ? (I like her. She's good looking and smart) If she does, why is she sending me pictures of her in skimpy clothes ? And is it normal that I sometimes masturbate to those pictures ? It's just a huge turn on... (And it's not child porn... She wasn't naked or anything like that, but very revealing clothes. I'm 14(almost 15) She also always fixes her hair when she sees me. |
| Question: How do i get my friend back? Posted: 12 May 2017 10:39 AM PDT im 14 and my friend and I have been friends forever. but a couple of weeks ago she started ignoring me. i don't know why and i even talked to her about it. she said that we were friends but i feel like she isn't trying and that hen she speaks to me, she is really distant. help? |
| Posted: 12 May 2017 10:38 AM PDT Even if they're cool as hell and you enjoy spending time with them it feels unfair to the other person. |
| Posted: 12 May 2017 10:28 AM PDT My daughter doesn't quite know what to get her best friend who will be 17. I could only suggest generic things but she has insisted she wants it to be special enough. Her friend is very unique, talented, colourful, clever and genuinely one of a kind (you only need one look at her to know it). All we can deduce of her is that she always smell goods and likes that holographic trend the kids like these days, and also plants and tea. My daughter has wrote her a witty card (fitting for her personality) and we just need to finish with a good gift or perhaps even an assortment of small gifts. Any help? |
| Question: Is this the best way to start drama for the girl I hate? Posted: 12 May 2017 10:18 AM PDT The girl I hate is Sarah. I found her whole friends list on her facebook profile. I'm thinking of messaging the people she is friends with and telling them that Sarah doesn't want to be friends with them anymore. |
| Question: Poll: Who's your best friend on here? Posted: 12 May 2017 10:02 AM PDT |
| Question: Any 14-16 year old want to be friends? Posted: 12 May 2017 09:48 AM PDT I have such a hard time making friends and keeping friends but I want to give it one more chance. I have a Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat and Kik so we can talk there. I'm not sure if looks matter but I'm really tall, don't know what size precisely. I'm Irish (Born here, raised here) but my parents are Ghanaian (So obviously I'm black). I do talk a lot and much more respectfully on the internet than in reality. I wear makeup just for my photos posted anywhere but I never wear makeup outside church in real life because I'm not a professional at it. I'm 14 years old, the second youngest in my whole entire year at school. I love anything computer-related whether it's playing games or learning how to create avatars. I mostly LOVE virtual games, I get to be another person in another reality. I love learning new things and really want to learn coding and programming and how to cook delicious meals so I don't have to eat my parent's african meals anymore (Unless I like it though). I'm attempting to be a youtuber but I don't know what I want to be exactly still. I'm not very smart but I can be sarcastic, in a nice way and bubbly. I will always find something for us to talk about but I would also love a little effort into a conversation (I don't like being the one asking questions the whole time, I will soon run out of ideas and interest) I love playing sports. I don't consider anyone to be ugly so I don't mind who I talk to, I just want to talk to at least someone, that's it! |
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| Question: How to get back with my ex best freind so that we go out out of school together? Posted: 12 May 2017 09:29 AM PDT So I've recently started being freinds with my old best friend again as we get on really well cos I just left my other freinds as they were really bxtchy. And i am getting on really well with her but this girl that became good freinds with her while I wasn't calls my old best freind her bff but not the other way around. Anyway I don't want to try and break them up I just want to start hanging out with my old bff like we used to but I'm not sure how to bring that up as I've only got close to her for about a week now. However there is a week of school coming up and I don't want to be sat at home doing nothing when I could be having a blast with her. And I'm also worried that it will be awkward for our families as well cos I'm not sure what she told hers when we " broke up". How do I get her to hang out with me out of skl without her current freind getting in the way and how do I bring it up? |
| Question: How come I can't make any friends? I am so alone...? Posted: 12 May 2017 09:27 AM PDT I have no proper people in my life back then. What I mean by that is that my parents didn't care about: 1. I was hurt and bullied a few times back then and whenever I told my parents about it (I tell my parents everything) They would blame me somehow like why was I outside anyways or because I'm ugly and never take care of skin, that's why they don't like me ;2. The people I always ended being friends with will always turn out to be using me just to help them get 'popular' how?by using my facebook account to message people if they would ever consider being friends with them. Of course since i'm not prettier than me, They usually ended up leaving me ; people considered 'friends' brought so much drama into my life like a girl that came to live with her dad. She claimed her dad was abusive and got the police involved(false).-This was all outside school, inside school she pretended she did not know me- Then she got into a fight with a girl at school which led her to attempt suicide and I just couldn't handle it at all or the fact that one of my closest friends is Gay and her relationships are just a mess and she expect me to sort out her relationships for her?Or the fact my best friend from primary school is so popular, she is avoiding me? I'm just 14 and honestly I'm just going to give up on life altogether. I feel so alone and depressed. Nobody will ever like me or be there for me.What am I to do now?If I die nobody will care, not even my parents, That's how I feel nowadays... |
| Posted: 12 May 2017 09:05 AM PDT My friend suggested that I make a bucket list. Is it ok to do that? I've just never thought of that before |
| Question: Is my mom ok looking.she feels plain? Posted: 12 May 2017 09:02 AM PDT http://imgur.com/a/Kc9QP |
| Question: What does it mean when a girl sends you pictures of her in skimpy clothes ? (she's 14)? Posted: 12 May 2017 08:58 AM PDT She's 14. She sent me a picture of her posing in skimpy clothes. She almost had her boobs out and butt, too... She then said it was an accident and didn't want to send me it, but I opened it 30 minutes after she sent it to me and she could have deleted that picture. She sometimes flirts with me, hugs me and wraps her legs around my legs. She once asked me to carry her on my back and always smiles at me. Does she like me ? (I like her. She's good looking and smart) If she does, why is she sending me pictures of her in skimpy clothes ? And is it normal that I sometimes masturbate to those pictures ? It's just a huge turn on... (And it's not child porn... She wasn't naked or anything like that, but very revealing clothes. I'm 14(almost 15) |
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| Question: What do you guys think about this situation? Posted: 12 May 2017 08:22 AM PDT My friend witnessed my ex doing something stupid by trying to con me out of money? I asked her to be a witness but she doesn't want to get involved. It kind of made me feel bad because she was a witness and she is not his friend. She is my best friend. I'm the single mom who has custody of her kids and he lied trying to get money from me using my kids saying it cost him money to get them their shots that summer. I guess it is common for people not to want to get involved in court matters. What do you think? |
| Question: Do you find this weird? Posted: 12 May 2017 07:46 AM PDT So this year was my first year at my current school. I met somebody who was also new and we became best friends. We re extremely close and recently I found out that my parents might make me switch schools. My friend was very upset and so was I (because I love my friends in this school including her) and she tried helping me to convince them to let me stay. Long story short, it didn t work and I ll be switching next year. I just told my friend and now she wants to switch with me. I m not happy about it and I m not sure why. My first thought was that others would judge the two of us, especially her, if she switches schools just because of me. She said it would be fun, and I think it could be, but I still don t want her to for some reason. I find it embarrassing and a little to clingy in a way. Does it strike you as weird that she would switch just for me?? By the way it s private schools so there s a kind of complicated process for getting into schools and transferring. |
| Question: I keep giving up? How can I change that? Posted: 12 May 2017 06:37 AM PDT I keep giving up when things get hard and I hate when I am that person.. I sometimes stop giving up and then it happens all over again. There's a situation on friendship island that I need to fix before it takes a turn and I lose my friend forever but she feels like I give up on everything and I don't want to give up this friendship cause I care about her a lot. 3 questions 1. How can I stop giving up 2. How can I never go back to being that person 3. How can I start to talk about the situation with my friend? (I'm never really good at it) and learn to try and keep my friendships.. |
| Posted: 12 May 2017 06:30 AM PDT Should I knock him out his friends are Bollocks 2 and he keeps saying this |
| Question: Is it wrong to be attracted to my best friend's wife? Posted: 12 May 2017 05:14 AM PDT Nothing has happened, but there is definitely mutual attraction. During parties and visits, we both look at each other in admiration. I know she wants to talk about it but both of us are too chicken to initiate the truth. I don't want to hurt my friend's marriage, but I am blinded by love! |
| Question: I HATE my so called best friend.. what should I do? Posted: 12 May 2017 04:46 AM PDT so I've been friends with this guy for like 6 years and we are pretty close and I love him so much as a bro.. until recently when our group of friends had girls in them and then he completely change when the girls are around.. he act like a ****** doormat being completely submissive and doing everything for them "like carrying their bags or buying stuff for them from store.. etc" and he even doesn't like them that much he keeps talking **** about them when they use him and I told him a million times it's because he is ****** acting like a doormat and it's his fault and I can't stand him when he act like this.. but he still doesn't change.. seriously I'm so tired of his behavior and I don't even want to be friends with him anymore but I just can't leave him and break our friendship.. what should I do?? |
| Question: Why am I still in this friendzone? Posted: 12 May 2017 04:46 AM PDT This guy at my job and I are very close. We're both in our early 20s. Over a year ago we started calling each other cousins because of how close we were.(we didn't start getting really close until about 9 months ago.) he picks me up from my house, buys me things when I need them, we go shopping, we go out to eat, he gets jealous when I talk about other guys, and he went through my phone when he thought I was talking to someone. he took me to his barber shop a few days ago, and he lets me drive his car. The only thing is that he stills calls me cuz, or cousin. We spent all day at the mall and then when he walked in to work that night he said "hey cuzzo" I was like "I have a name" He said, "yea, it's cuzzo, I call you cuz." That hurt me, I got emotional after work and he asked me what was wrong. he's now trying to make me claim his actual cousins as my cousins and I don't like that. I'm having trouble because we're both good looking, so why fam zone me like this? I at least want to be friends, not damn cousins. |
| Question: BFF drop out school cuz she bullied.? Posted: 12 May 2017 04:13 AM PDT Hi,I m Japanese student.My BFF was bullied and dropped out school. She was so pretty,smart and Kind.Then bully was jealous.So they bullied her.l wanna ask U,ls bullying a prob in your country as like her case? |
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