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- Question: Is my wife considered a relative?
- Question: My brother is terrifying and I want him to not exist.?
- Question: I masturbate to picture of my step brother?
- Question: Can a Grandmother do a D N A test to prove its her sons baby?
- Question: How late is too late to call?
- Question: Why can't my grandpa reach his cane?
- Question: My sister says ,I changed.......I won't roll around on the floor or race after her for nonsense .......I am just growing up?
- Question: My brother passed away 24 yrs. ago. Where can I get a picture of what he would look like today!?
- Question: Hey guys after I had a 2 hour long yank-a-thon I realised my parents don't love me. What would you guys do?
- Question: What should my children call their step-grandfather?
- Question: Crazy sister?
- Question: What does having a biological family member mean?
- Question: Am I stupid if I failed kindergarten?
- Question: My mom is so old when will she DIE?
- Question: I work as a sitter for a single mom of 9 yr. old twins. I work from 9pm to 6:30am. I basically sleep there and the mom works as a nurse.?
- Question: Why is my family constantly trying to involve themselves in each others' relationships?
- Question: My brother is so mean now and doesn't care about me?
- Question: What did I do?
- Question: Is it okay to still be unemployed at this point?
- Question: My brother looks at my girlfriends butt all the time.?
- Question: Why is today's youth so stupid?
- Question: How can I help my sister ?
- Question: Would you be upset if you gave someone something and several years later they gave it away?
- Question: Am I obligated to give my mom my food?
- Question: Found out my Dad meets young women the same age as me (23) on a 'sugar daddy' dating website. Should I feel creeped out?
- Question: How can I calm my sister down ?
- Question: How To Handle A Bitchy Grandmother?
- Question: Can I move out of state with my child?
- Question: I have been sick for about two years. I ve been missing school so many days. My parents do nothing to help me.?
- Question: How do you overcome the bitterness?
- Question: I don't like most of my family, why are they so against us?
- Question: Disagreements and conflicts with parents?
- Question: Is my mum too protective? Or am I just being a "moody teen"?
- Question: I'm am almost 30 years old and as a child I was exposed to hardcore porn by a nameless member of my family and the qestion was it sexual...?
- Question: Older people, would you like to recieve a handwritten letter?
- Question: Feeling guilty because my mother is sad.?
- Question: NSFW help me for the love of God I can't stop thinking about my sister sexually?
- Question: I'm 21. Am I allowed to take my little sister and leave to a homeless shelter?
- Question: Can a parent give their 15 yr old permission to live with her boyfriend or girlfriend's mom?
- Question: Woman threatened to slap my 65 year old mom on Mothers day.?
- Question: Do elder/older people like recieving hand written letters ?
- Question: Should I give up on my in-laws? All ideas area welcome.?
- Question: How do I cry?
- Question: What would my step brother's brother be in relation to me?
- Question: My mom always sleeps with me when dad is gone.?
- Question: Why are sisters so cruel sometimes?
- Question: My dad owes me money but he's not giving it back to me?
- Question: Is it hard to get into the Navy?
- Question: My Dad is marrying his new Girlfriend?
- Question: Girlfriend treats me worse than ever now that I am nice, sweet, caring etc.?
- Question: Where can I live?
- Question: Honest opinions please: is this weird?
- Question: Was I wrong not to call my mother for Mother's Day?
- Question: I am the son of an alcoholic. How do I recover from all the hurt my mother inflicted by NOT letting me see my alcoholic father?
- Question: How do I rise above my little brother who is also a bully?
- Question: I have a brother and a sister who are both 18 and I'm 14 does the quote "respect your elders" have to do with older siblings too or no?
- Question: True or false: how a man treats his mother is how he'll end up treating his wife?
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Question: Is my wife considered a relative? Posted: 15 May 2017 01:11 PM PDT Her brother, sister, and parents are my in-laws. Her nephews and nieces are now my nephews and nieces, so is my wife also considered a relative? (please no wise cracks about Kentuckians, incest, or the like) |
Question: My brother is terrifying and I want him to not exist.? Posted: 15 May 2017 01:00 PM PDT I'm having really scary thoughts. My brother is going complete psycho. A little background. My brother is about 30 years old and he does Coke, weed, drinks , etc. The thing is, he has his license suspended so he can't drive the car,my dad makes that rule very clear but he keeps taking the car for about a year now. Well today my dad finally decided to hide the keys. My brother keeps asking me for them and saying that me and my dad are playing games and says "OK you wanna play these games, I'm gonna slash the tires, no one is gonna have the car now". He also started trashing the house to find the keys, I went to the kitchen and he poured food all over the floor. I asked him why he did that and told him to clean it up but he started yelling really loud and said if I say one more thing he'll beat me up. Now I'm terrified and I don't want him in this house anymore. My dad already gave him a month notice to leave the house but I'm scared that he'll freak out and do something really bad, after all he has nothing to lose and he's getting kicked out. Even if we do kick him out I'm scared that he'll find his way back in and do things to us. I didn't want to say this but yes, I'm talking about murder. I may be overreacting but my brother is a coke-head and I'm just getting really scared and I want him gone from my life forever. He wasn't always like this. He used to be a cool brother and we got along really well, but his life turned to **** and he's taking it out on us now. Any advice? |
Question: I masturbate to picture of my step brother? Posted: 15 May 2017 12:57 PM PDT I'm 15(girl). I sometimes masturbate to pictues of my step brother. He's hot. When I'm doing it, I fantasize about us having sex or making out... Is that normal ? He's 15, too. (I don't flirt with him or signal him anything, but I have a crush on him.) Pls no mean answers ;/ I don't care about religious or "moral" viewpoints. We're not related by blood, so it's not that bad.. Sorry. This is 2nd time I posted this question. Got only 1 answer last time. |
Question: Can a Grandmother do a D N A test to prove its her sons baby? Posted: 15 May 2017 12:47 PM PDT My question is Can a grand mother do a swab D N A test to prove that baby is her sons, Or could his sister be a better tester? |
Question: How late is too late to call? Posted: 15 May 2017 12:46 PM PDT My husband and I disagree on this, please help. What is the latest acceptable time to receive/make call? I think 9 p.m. is the latest, he thinks 10 p.m. is acceptable. We have 3 small children--that are all in bed by 8:30 p.m. My parents never allowed my brother and me to make or receive calls past 9 p.m. (as teenagers). That only seems appropriate, what do you think? |
Question: Why can't my grandpa reach his cane? Posted: 15 May 2017 12:18 PM PDT |
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Question: What should my children call their step-grandfather? Posted: 15 May 2017 10:58 AM PDT He makes my mom happy so I don't want to simply use his first name. However, I don't want him to share the same name as my real father, or my father-in-law (grampa and papa), and in turn disrespect them as the biological grandparents. I want my children to grow up understanding that he is not their "real" grandfather (but loved as family), and there are consequences to things like divorce. How should I handle this while being as considerate to his feelings as possible? |
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Question: What does having a biological family member mean? Posted: 15 May 2017 10:38 AM PDT Okay so I was just curious, what does "biological sister or brother" mean? Is it the same as half sister? And if so, what is a half sister or a family member? |
Question: Am I stupid if I failed kindergarten? Posted: 15 May 2017 10:01 AM PDT |
Question: My mom is so old when will she DIE? Posted: 15 May 2017 09:55 AM PDT |
Posted: 15 May 2017 08:42 AM PDT I work Sunday night through Wednesday night as a rule. Yesterday was Mother's Day. I live in Pennsylvania, and I went to Staten Island to be with my sons and grandkids. I left early rushing home to be at work on time at 9pm. I received a text from the mother at 8:57pm telling me I did not have to work. I was very frustrated and felt I was treated quite shabbily. I answered her back "ok, thanks". Since then I have received three texts explaining to me how she went to Philadelphia for a funeral. I hardly find this believable as I just saw her a few days ago and everything was okay. When there is a death, it takes time to plan. Not only that, she knew hours before she texted me where she was and that there was a possibility I would not have to come last night. In that case, I would have been able to stay with my family, even OVERNIGHT instead of rushing home and leaving them in the middle of dinner at 7pm. I become more and more furious when I really think about it. I have to go to work this evening at 9pm. How can I tactfully and respectfully please ask her in the future to be more considerate and let me know soon enough so that if I am visiting my family I do not have to leave unnecessarily early. I need the job and don't want to be disrespectful, but then again what she did was totally thoughtless and rude, and I need to stand up for myself. Thank you. |
Question: Why is my family constantly trying to involve themselves in each others' relationships? Posted: 15 May 2017 08:41 AM PDT It seems like every time I turn around, one family member is telling trying to tell me how to interact with another family member, or pressure me to do something for someone else. I've really had it with their guilt-tripping and meddling. If that person who they're supposedly speaking on behalf of wants something from me, they can damn well ask me themselves. Am I wrong for operating this way? |
Question: My brother is so mean now and doesn't care about me? Posted: 15 May 2017 08:29 AM PDT I am 17 and he is 15 and I noticed in the past year and a half that he honestly is a completely different person. He hangs out with the popular crowd, he wouldn't do anything bad but he cusses now , which I really don't like and I rarely talk to him now just cause we are both so busy but when we go out for like family dinners we always end up fighting and I try to talk to him and ask him what's going on in his life and I get no response and it just makes me so mad , I recently had my second knee surgery , the first time my family found out I had to get surgery and he was so nice to me , he made me laugh , he even bought me a gift , this time for my second surgery he didn't even say one word to me , he showed up to the hospital with my parents and still not even one word from him wishing me good luck or anything . This just shows how little he cares and how much he has changed it makes me so sad because I really do care about him and his life but he's just so mean now , any advice ? |
Posted: 15 May 2017 08:24 AM PDT During dinner I brought up a time when mom didn't like a post my brother in law made about something and my sister said, let it go. This was only the second time I brought it up like what the FOCK! |
Question: Is it okay to still be unemployed at this point? Posted: 15 May 2017 08:12 AM PDT I once again asked another (low) self esteem question on yahoo and ranting like a journal entry about being unattractive. two people answered suggesting I get a job "you are old enough to get a job and then you can buy your own makeup!" (I never said I wanted to buy makeup. I just said I wasn't allowed to wear it. I never really want to buying much of anything) "Have you finished your little pity party? You are 18 and need to get a job or two so you can move out and be a grown up but as long as you insist staying Mommy and Daddy just for the money and freebies in your life you follow their rules.". Well guess what, I still call my mother mummy! I can't picture myself living in my own house this year or the next, considering my anxiety and lack of social skills. I want to move out at 20-24. My parents aren't the type of family that kicks their kids out once they're 18. I turned 18 a day ago. I repeated the ninth grade when I moved schools. So now I'm one of the oldest people in my year group because most people either turn 18 at the end of the year, or graduate as 17 year olds. Nonetheless, I need to concentrate on school work. Even though I'm the biggest slacker. I want to get a job next year. I don't know what I want to be |
Question: My brother looks at my girlfriends butt all the time.? Posted: 15 May 2017 07:49 AM PDT He is 15. Shes 24. |
Question: Why is today's youth so stupid? Posted: 15 May 2017 07:46 AM PDT Ok, so I live in front of a park and tonight [at around 9 p.m] my mother saw a small fire in this part of the park surrounded by bushes and trees. She was concerned so she went down there to check it out. She saw some teenagers [around 14-16 year olds] running out of the bush where the fire was to the playground. So she asked what they were doing and they were like "What?" and wouldn't answer. When she asked them again, they ran away. So she had to come back to our house and get the fire extinguisher and put out the fire. I'm so angry that this group of teenagers were so irresponsible and they didn't even have the decency to answer my mother's question. If my mother hadn't put out the fire the whole darn park would've probably gone up in flames. What goes through their minds? How could they be so disrespectful? Is this normal behaviour? |
Question: How can I help my sister ? Posted: 15 May 2017 07:40 AM PDT My older sister is very jealous of her boyfriend. He's a rock star he use to play drums in a band she said he been married before he has 3 kids and grandkids and a great grand kid. He's 76 almost 77 she's only 24. He might be 76 he doesn't look that old at all especially when he wears his sunglasses he still looks younger. She's pissed off at him yesterday she said she was yelling at him and got into a fight with him. He was trying to have sex with her she didn't want it she kept pushing him away. They had sex a few times she said it hurts and she doesn't like it. She's really upset and angry with him even though she loves him and is crazy about him. She's jealous of his ex and all the kids he has. She's mad because she's on birth control and can't have kids all her friends have kids. They've been together since Valentine's Day. How can I help her ? |
Posted: 15 May 2017 07:28 AM PDT I had been going through some of my old stuff left behind at my parents house when I came across some books given to me by my mother when I was in middle school. I work with kids and I knew that one of my client would like to have them since they are about horses so i set them aside. Later on, my mother finds them laying out and asks me what I m going to do with them so I tell her. She then gets angry with me saying that since she bought them for me I should ask her before taking them? In my opinion, a gift has no strings attached. I could understand if a 14 year old decided to give away his bed without asking; but I m an adult and completely self-sufficient (yes, I have a few small things left at my parents house but who doesn t?). Do you think I should have asked her permission first or is she being unreasonable? |
Question: Am I obligated to give my mom my food? Posted: 15 May 2017 07:22 AM PDT Im 16 and I live with my mom. In our house everyone one is responsible for themselves; we wash our own clothes, clean up after ourselves, and even grocery shop for ourselves (I think all of this is fair). When we go grocery shopping we split the food stamps 50/50 so we have the same amount of spending money my problem is that every month she constantly begs me for food. My mom is 39 but she the worst shopper ever she has a refrigerator, coffee maker, and microwave in her bedroom so she buys microwavable food that doesn't last because she's to lazy to come downstairs and cook for herself. When I go grocery shopping I make a list and plan out my meals so I have just enough food to last until next month but a few days ago she kept begging for food. I told her I didn't have enough and I offered her some noodles and to help make a grocery list but she started yelling and me saying she's not going to do anything for me even though she already doesn't because I walk around with holes in my clothes. Personally I feel like I shouldn't have to give my food when I don't have enough and we get same amount of spending money. I just want to know am I obligated to give my mom my food. |
Posted: 15 May 2017 07:15 AM PDT Hey everyone, I'm a 23 year old woman and recently when I was using my Dad's computer (without him knowing), I accidentally found out he's been using a dating website called 'seekingarrangement.com' which is aimed at rich older men wanting to date younger women in their early 20's (usually college girls really needing money). I'm so shocked at this and I'm really not quite sure what to think. He's a 53 year old White male and he's been divorced from my Mom for 7 years so I understand he has the right to start dating again, but the girls he's been meeting are usually around my age (20 – 26 years old) so it makes it way too weird! He's a lawyer with his own successful law practice so it also makes me angry these girls are probably only using him for his money. I looked through all his messages and he's met up with around 8 girls already, the youngest was only 20 years old and the oldest 26, all of them the typical slutty type with profiles openly looking for one night stands and casual sex, which is so disturbing. Am I really being paranoid about all this?! I know he's an adult and all the girls are adults but it still feels really wrong. I'm also in college and live away from home, and the thought that while i'm away he's bringing girls the same age as me back to the house where I use to live for casual sex, one night stands, brief flings or whatever makes me feel so disgusted. Should I speak to him about this, or simply put up with it cause they are consenting adults? |
Question: How can I calm my sister down ? Posted: 15 May 2017 06:58 AM PDT My sister is really upset she's obsessed with the Beatles and Manson she was watching a movie about them last night she had a bad dream that Manson had killed Paul and Ringo. He did it the same way he killed everyone else she said he tied them up and stabbed them. Ringo is her favorite she has a huge crush on him and she likes Paul now too she didn't like him at first now she does. She also likes learning about Manson but watching stuff about him gives her nightmares. I really hate the Beatles so I don't really care if anything happens to them but I don't tell her that it'll make her even more upset. She's worried he's gonna get out of prison and go after them she said that's how Lennon died from being shot by a crazy fan like Manson. How can I calm her down ? |
Question: How To Handle A Bitchy Grandmother? Posted: 15 May 2017 06:48 AM PDT Under certain circumstances, I was forced to move out of California to Mississippi to live with my grandparents. After almost 4 years of living in their house, I can honestly say that only my grandpa truly loves me unconditionally, and my grandma is a hearltess ***** that deserves to die. Reasons: 1) I do everything she asks of me, and more, yet she constantly says I don't do **** for her 2) I always reply to her "yes ma'am" but she complains of how mistreated she is by me 24/7 3) She calls my a *****, asshole, or ungrateful wretch if I politely say "no thank you" to any of her offers. 4) She'll purposely leave me to rot somewhere for hours, after I've emailed and called the house, because she got in trouble the night before by my pa for something she did to me. 5) She takes my words out of context and gossips about me to everyone she knows so that I look like the bad guy, and whenever I politely tell her to stop, she always says the same goddamn phrase: "I offer you food and shelter therefore I can do whatever the hell I want!" 6) I'll ask her not to put a certain food in another dish because I don't like it, and after she promises she won't, she'll go ahead and do it anyways. Then when I don't eat it, she calls me an ungrateful ***** and complains about how I hate everything she makes. 7) She tries to steal my checks because she wants to shop, when everyone knows that she is the very reason why my grandpa is in debt 8) She never says "hi, have a good day, I love you, hope you get better, I missed you, etc." to me. 9) She threatens to kick me out 24/7 10) She is probably bi-polar because I know my mom is. |
Question: Can I move out of state with my child? Posted: 15 May 2017 06:48 AM PDT My whole family is moving out of Kansas to go to Florida I obviously want to be with them. Not to mention I don't have a job my mom supports us so I really don't have a choice anyways. My child's dad only comes to see her once a month if that, he is an alcoholic and drug user and it's not like I want to take my kid away from him but he doesn't even bother to come see her when we live 15 minutes apart. So my question is can I move out of state with my child? I would obviously let him know what was going on but we are not married, we have nothing in the courts, he doesn't pay child support or anything. |
Posted: 15 May 2017 05:28 AM PDT I have been sick for about two years. I ve been diagnosed with pre- diabities. But I m skinny, so skinny. And I look healthy. But I wake up every morning in pain. In horrible pain in my stomach. I cant sleep, I have insomnia. And I miss so much school that I cant keep track to make up the missed work. And I want to go to school. But I physically can t. I just- Cant. My stomach hurts at the moment, its 8:23 in the morning and I m supposed to be in school. But it hurts to move. And my parents don t believe me. My dad is with us and when I don t go to school my mom calls my dad, and knowing my aggressive dad he takes away my phone. And I hope they know if something else is wrong with me, and I die someday from it, that they can take my phone away all they want. But they re not helping me, they re making everything worse by not believing me. And I m just going to get worse and worse and worse. And I ve missed so much school I feel as if this isn t unfair. I m going to be left back. And I just- I cant anymore. |
Question: How do you overcome the bitterness? Posted: 15 May 2017 05:16 AM PDT My children are now adults and are bitter toward me because I was the only disciplinary in their lives growing up. I was also the only one who gave them emotional support and backed them every inch of the way when needed. I still have their backs. When their father, (my husband) needed to step in and support me or needed to step up and parent our children, he stepped back and out of the picture, leaving all the difficult stuff for me to deal with. He said he never knew what to say so he didn't say anything. He just went about his life, living in his own little world. This left our children thinking I was the bad guy while he remained the "cool" dad who never gave them any trouble. I am more than hurt over this because I have poured my entire self into my children with the hopes they would be successful and happy. They struggle with both, and somehow, it's my fault......... My punishments were not harsh nor abusive..but I did ground and take away privileges... The only time my oldest was smacked was once by her father, when she was chewing her food loudly..he'd react to that, which still bothers me, yet walk away from her being disobedient/defiant and calling me names. She outgrew the mouthy stuff but holds a grudge toward me thinking I am the reason her relationships don't work out like they should or for feeling like she missed out on things her peers got to do |
Question: I don't like most of my family, why are they so against us? Posted: 15 May 2017 04:47 AM PDT One cousin was staying with us while looking for somewhere to stay but during that time he was so mean to me & my siblings. He told me to go hang myself & I was only 12, he was 27. He also bullied my brother who was only 5, dangling him upside down etc. What 27 year old bullies kids? He hit me in front of my mum & she said nothing because at the time she thought we were all provoking him but both my parents know the truth now. After telling him to move out because he stayed over year for free,he left & started gossiping about us to other family members & now after all my dad done for him he's against him. My dad opened a shop in his country (for the 2nd time) & put certain family members in charge. But they said no money was coming in, turns out they took the money for themselves,one of my cousins actually used the money for his wedding which my dad didn't even know was getting married in this first place. He refused to say anything because he doesn't want any more problems with his family or lose them. He had no choice but to close the shop. This is the SECOND time. There's so many examples but it's mainly how they treat my parents like they're the bad ones & ever since we let certain family members stay, they've just been gossiping about us since I was 9 (I'm 19 now) & my siblings 6, 4 and 2. I haven't met most of them because we live in different countries & I'm not planning to. Why are they so against us? I'm starting to wonder if they're just jealous or something. |
Question: Disagreements and conflicts with parents? Posted: 15 May 2017 03:41 AM PDT me and my mother have been having a lot of disagreements and many arguments over the years but these months they have increased like crazy im only 15 but i feel like i need my private space my mothere never listens to me and if i even try to talk to her about a subject or explain to her she is wrong,she punishes me, i barley go out with friends and she never lets me go anywhere unless she drops me off and she has to be there to see everything and she insists i am irresponsible and everytime i simply try to talk to her about this she gets angry at me for being disrespectful honestly sometimes I heavily curse at her under my breath. the hardest part is feeling bad when i insult her or vice versa but she wont ******* listen to me like ever no matter what i try no matter how relaxed i am and its affecting my school life and friends heavily |
Question: Is my mum too protective? Or am I just being a "moody teen"? Posted: 15 May 2017 03:19 AM PDT I'm 18 and most of my 18 year old friends I know have curfews of say 10-11 pm. I'm told to come home as soon as the street lights are on (so this could be say 7 pm or 5 pm depending on the season). If the street lights are on I'm not allowed to go outside at all (for example, it was still light out side but the lights were on, and I needed to pick up my friend, I got my phone taken away for 2 weeks because I went out and picked her up) When I go out I not only have to tell my mum where I'm going, or who is going ect (standard safety stuff) but every single little detail and I mean every little detail She makes me say a long goodbye to every one of my family members in case I get kidnapped that day (her words) Every day she finds out when my bus is arriving (it takes about 15 minutes to walk from the stop to my house) and if I'm 10 minutes late she calls me. Last time she did it I asked her why she called and she said "You were late. Where are you?" "getting food" "Something could of happened to you!" Is she over protective or am I just a moody teen? |
Posted: 15 May 2017 12:23 AM PDT Abuse. I was 10 I have only had one girlfriend and i'm terrified by the opposite sex even thow the one thing i want in my secular (without my God I would have taken my life) life is a wife and family that loves me. |
Question: Older people, would you like to recieve a handwritten letter? Posted: 14 May 2017 11:05 PM PDT I am writing my Bestfriend who lives across the country a sweet letter and sending it in the mail. She's an older woman. I'm a bit worried because it's really long, although it's an extremely special important letter. She said she enjoys reading my letters but this is the longest. It's 3 1/2 pages. I'm just worried. It's sweet and is expressing what an impact she had on my life as a mentor and what things I had gone through, how she's helped me to over come everything and all that I've learned. Would you have recieving a long letter in the mail? |
Question: Feeling guilty because my mother is sad.? Posted: 14 May 2017 10:59 PM PDT I live in California now, currently 22, full time student. I live with my girlfriend and have been together with her for 6 years. (Moved out from my parents house to California where her place is) My parents live halfway across the US. I went and visited them. I leave on Tuesday back to California and know my mom will be upset. I feel really guilty about it, any tips? |
Question: NSFW help me for the love of God I can't stop thinking about my sister sexually? Posted: 14 May 2017 10:56 PM PDT OK so I'm 16 and my sister is 17 things have been going pretty good for us the last couple years and we've been a lot more friendly than when we were younger we used to be mortal enemies. But these last couple years my sister has got really touchy-feely and the other night we were sitting there watching a movie and she kind a lead up against me and she kind of put her arm around me and kept making circles long my arm. It got me really horny and I got a *****. &she actually put her head down more and then she noticed it and she said Bro you got something you got to take care of? And I was like sorry it's just hard to hear and I got up and went to the bathroom and decided to catch up on the text to my friend so I took a few minutes. And when I came back I could hear moaning and my sister was masturbating right there on the couch in the dark. So I made a little bit of noise in the kitchen to alert her that I was there and she stopped and we continued watching the movie. My sister also has been leaving her door open enough that when I walked by to go to the bathroom I could see her changing. And I just been jacking off like crazy to her. Now I know that it just is wrong and I don't want to do it but I don't know how to stop it we we haven't done anything yet but please if anybody knows what to do it would be really appreciated. |
Question: I'm 21. Am I allowed to take my little sister and leave to a homeless shelter? Posted: 14 May 2017 10:30 PM PDT Or would it be kidnapping? I don't want to go into detail, but we REALLY need to leave the house. We're afraid for our safety, and my mums too, but I know she won't come with us. |
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Question: Woman threatened to slap my 65 year old mom on Mothers day.? Posted: 14 May 2017 09:44 PM PDT I was walking to the grocery store with my mom on mothers day during the afternoon. We were laughing and chatting when two women (one had a carriage and the other held hands with a small boy.) crossed the street and walked right in front of us. I had actually thought they may have done it deliberately because they were so close to us. "Well, that was rude." I had said more to my mom than them. My mom just nodded. So we passed a trio of men selling flowers on the corner. I had walked up a bit and my mom walked alongside the two women. All of a sudden I heard "Her and her Daugher can get slapped.!!!" my mom walked over to me and told me that all she had told one of the women was "Excuse me". as she passed by with her shopping cart. I don't understand why you would threaten a 65 year old woman ? Plus it was mothers day , and she was a mother as well ? Should I have said something to them ? |
Question: Do elder/older people like recieving hand written letters ? Posted: 14 May 2017 09:40 PM PDT I am writing my Bestfriend who lives across the country a sweet letter and sending it in the mail. She's an older woman. I'm a bit worried because it's really long, although it's an extremely special important letter. She said she enjoys reading my letters but this is the longest. It's 3 1/2 pages. I'm just worried. It's sweet and is expressing what an impact she had on my life as a mentor and what things I had gone through, how she's helped me to over come everything and all that I've learned. Would you have recieving a long letter in the mail? |
Question: Should I give up on my in-laws? All ideas area welcome.? Posted: 14 May 2017 09:04 PM PDT I have many brothers in-law, yet we are complete polar opposites. I grew up primarily in the city and they, rural. We have absolutely nothing in common. They always talk about farming, hunting, etc... I honestly appreciate the skill it takes but it does not pique my interest. I try and met them half-way, yet they do not reciprocate and expect me to assimilate. It is exhausting and I am beginning to loath them. |
Posted: 14 May 2017 09:03 PM PDT I have recently been feeling upset with the loss of a sibling... I can't seem to bring myself to cry no matter how much I miss him. |
Question: What would my step brother's brother be in relation to me? Posted: 14 May 2017 09:02 PM PDT Question says it all. |
Question: My mom always sleeps with me when dad is gone.? Posted: 14 May 2017 08:58 PM PDT |
Question: Why are sisters so cruel sometimes? Posted: 14 May 2017 08:52 PM PDT im actually pretty close with my sister. but ive noticed the more im nice to her and i love her, the more cruel she becomes. she offends me, treats me bad, shouts at me for no reason, laughs me off. i share a room with her so i feel my soul crushing every minute. |
Question: My dad owes me money but he's not giving it back to me? Posted: 14 May 2017 08:36 PM PDT i went to america and when i came back i had asked him if he can change the US dollars to canadian dollars and he promised he would. I came back on april 23rd and he still haven't payed me back? I asked him to return the money like a million times and he said he'll give it to me on the weekend but then he never gives it back. I have no idea what he does with the money but he said that he gave it to my mother and she kept it safe but i dont want my mom to keep my money it's my money and i worked hard for it i tutoredkids for it so i want it!! He owes me $425 CAD +$100 (because he promised me my birthday money and he still hasn't given to me yet even though my bday was on april 16) So how do i get back the money?? |
Question: Is it hard to get into the Navy? Posted: 14 May 2017 08:33 PM PDT She has been this way for like five years now. She calls me bitches, *****, and so forth. She says inappropriate things in front of all her kids. (sexual things) She told me she wanted to get an abortion but her mom wouldn t let her and she didn t have money. She says she doesn t want all of her kids, not just me. One day she said she s gonna leave because she has the money + boyfriend who s in jail which I said but she said she has other guys. I was in the hospital for a suicide evaluation primarily because of her and the way she treats all of us. When we got to the house, she said you don t have to kill yourself I ll drive you to do it. I fear for my brother s and sisters when I leave. |
Question: My Dad is marrying his new Girlfriend? Posted: 14 May 2017 08:09 PM PDT My dad has been married twice already in the span of 14 years. Recently, I've moved in with my mom because I couldn't handle the dysfunctional life at my fathers. It just seems he can never be alone. Anyway, that's not the point. He is getting married for the 3rd to someone he's dated for 2 years. To make matters worse he's just finalized his divorce with his 2nd wife two weeks ago. Even though I don't live with him anymore he still didn't discuss with me if it was okay to marry her. Since he thinks it doesn't affect me...but, it does. Here are my questions: 1) How can I tell my dad I don't support the wedding? 2) My dad basically bribed me and bought this gift. How can I say I don't accept this while not hurting his feelings? 3) How can I make him know that I'm upset and hurt that he didn't discuss this with me. ( I already talked to him but he didn't think I was serious) 4) if you have any tips please tell me Thank you |
Question: Girlfriend treats me worse than ever now that I am nice, sweet, caring etc.? Posted: 14 May 2017 07:40 PM PDT I used to be a raging ahole to my girlfriend, name calling yelling etc. And one day we sat down and had a long discussion and ever since that I have changed. (5 months since) and have been pretty proud of myself. I don't ever yell, call her names anything since that day. Now that I am like this she is the only yelling at me and calling me names, stupid, piece of sht, garbage, etc. All the time for no reason, and I actually cry sometimes from the hurt she gives me, when I cry she is not there for me, she tells me I am ugly when I cry, that I am annoying, exhausting, shut up, pathetic, and everything else in the book. I am confused, she punishes me. I have a broken knee in 5 places and can't do anything for 3 months, she makes fun of that, laughs at me over it, won't help me make food, take me to the store or anything. So I literally am stuck starving most of the time in pain (new injury, pending surgery). And I cry sometimes through all the nasty things she says to me and the fact I am very helpless, can't drive, can't do anything. She is not there for me. I don't know what to do. I have been in multiple long term relationships, and really love more than I have ever felt for anyone. She used to be really good to be when I was a horrible person, but now I am just trash to her. Please help with advice, I am so depressed |
Posted: 14 May 2017 07:38 PM PDT I m a 15 year old girl. I live with my mom, my brother, my 22 year old sister, my sisters one month old baby, and my sisters 25 year old boyfriend. My sister has been physically and emotionally abusive to me since I was little. Her boyfriend is crazy. He wants us to put our 12 year old dog down even though she has no health problems so he can "have more room". Neither of them have jobs and use all my moms money and convince her to have parties and get drunk so they can too. He s been trying to make my brother move out so he can have his room and live in there with my sister and her baby. We only have 3 bedrooms and one bathroom. They currently have turned our living room into their bedroom and it s so messy and gross. My mom is also abusive mentally, she tried to kick me out once when I was 12 so she could let her bum boyfriend live with us and she s been recently trying to make me leave because I don t like my sisters boyfriend. It s like my mom doesn t even care about me. She never tells my sister or her boyfriend no, they do whatever they want. They re allowed to call me names and my sisters allowed to hit me. I hate living in an environment like this. Sometimes my mom even brings guys over to have sex while I m there. My whole family life is messy and I hate living here but I don t speak to my dad and have no where to go. What do I do? Everything is too much. |
Question: Honest opinions please: is this weird? Posted: 14 May 2017 07:30 PM PDT My mother is married and has 3 children including myself from previous relationships. We are all grown and never grew up with my stepfather except the youngest who was about 6 or 7 when they got together. My stepfather has 7 children, none of whom are with my mother nor have they ever had a relationship with her. Now on to my question....every Mother s Day, my step dad buys my mother a gift and takes her out to dinner I guess to show his appreciation for her being the mother to the kids they never had together. Idk, but what I find to be totally selfish on their part and just down right odd is that we (her actual children and people with the most pertinent reason to celebrate this day with her) are never invited. They go out alone just the 2 of them every Mother's Day. Am I wrong to think this is weird considering they have NO kids in common so why make it such a personal celebration between the 2 of them? |
Question: Was I wrong not to call my mother for Mother's Day? Posted: 14 May 2017 07:24 PM PDT She wasn't always nice to her elders so I figured why be nice to her. |
Posted: 14 May 2017 07:23 PM PDT You would think seeing him would be what would be hurtful but it was just the opposite. He had children from another marriage who saw him. My mother did not let me see him. I feel so much shame for this. He has died now but I am full of shame. My mother thought she was being protective and was otherwise a good mother, yet her holding me back brought a lifetime of shame to me. I only met my father two or three times when my siblings (all older other then my twin sister) would see him several times a year. He died in 2014 and not a day goes by I don't feel ashamed that I seldom saw him. I am 22 now and old enough to see who I want but I wasn't old enough to when he died. Sometimes I think my mother was just mad at him and using me to get him back but overall she says she was protecting us. I am not mad at her, I am mad at myself for not fighting more to see him. I cannot forgive myself. I went to Al-Anon but that is more for people in current situations with an alcoholic. My father is dead so is drinking is not an issue anymore, it is the shame I feel of being an unfaithful son that hurts. My mother used to say her former step-children, my father's older kids, think we are being unfaithful by my mother leaving him due to the drinking. She said we, I think that means they think poorly of me though they are nice to my face when they see me at a reunion. All this eats away at me like a cancer. I am full of shame. |
Question: How do I rise above my little brother who is also a bully? Posted: 14 May 2017 07:07 PM PDT For years, my little brother has been spoiled. My grandma was the only person he respected. After she passed away, he went out of control. He smokes, he drinks, he cusses out my mom, and he doesn t go to school. Lately, he s taken to bullying me and trying to pick a fight with me. I m not very strong. He is very strong. I m bigger, but slower, and he s smaller and faster. I hate listening him talk down to me. He doesn t even treat me like a brother anymore. He treats me like garbage. I can sort of fight. I m not really good at it, but I know what I m doing. He, on the other hand, took 3 years of MMA. He constantly threatens me and I don t know what to do. He doesn t even use his skills. I ve fought him once and it was a tie. Should I attempt to learn how to fight as well, or should I just count the days until he gets himself thrown in jail? |
Posted: 14 May 2017 07:01 PM PDT - I respect my parents but do I have to respect them? |
Question: True or false: how a man treats his mother is how he'll end up treating his wife? Posted: 14 May 2017 06:57 PM PDT I've been seeing this guy for a while and I'm starting to notice how seriously codependent his mother is, and how often bosses her around. I'm not going to intervene in their relationship because it's a hot mess I'm just wondering for myself at this point is it a red flag? "and how he often bosses her around" sorry typo |
Question: How to get my mom to stop inviting my grandmother? Posted: 14 May 2017 06:31 PM PDT She invites my grandmother to EVERYTHING. Band concerts, games, banquets, etc. it's all of MY hard work, not hers to invite people to. I'm mixed on my moms side, so my grandmother is full and so is my mom. people always find out I'm mixed and then look at me completely differently. I don't want all of these people to find out at my banquet tomorrow, because it was just supposed to be a small thing but my mom invited her anyway. I don't even want to do anything anymore because I know she'll get invited. It's becoming a big problem. Not only does it make me embarrassed because it sticks out so much and because people always find out I'm mixed and then almost pity me, but then it's all about her. I was just so excited to pick out my outfit for tomorrow's banquet and was planning everything out, when I found out she was coming, when literally even some parents don't go, andI just know it'll be all about her. It was supposed to my perfect day that I worked so hard for and now she'll be thee and I'll have to pretend that her ignorant opinions that oppose mine don't bother me and that I don't care that she takes advantage of my family. I can't tell my mom because she loves her so much, my brother is too absorbed in his relationship to care about anything and my mom won't listen to my dad. It's something I cry over every night. I hate myself for being mixed and tomorrow everyone will know, and it'll be the only topic of discussion with me forever. How can I get my mom to stop? |
Question: Am I lucky to have parents who didn't punish me just for having bad grades? Posted: 14 May 2017 06:30 PM PDT I know a lot of people and friends who had parents who punished them just for not getting good grades in school. But my father told me he doesn't care about my grades at all. When I was young, he was happy just for being alive. He told me he doesn't care if I get an F in class, as long as I tried, then he is happy and proud of me. Even recently, he told me that as long as I pass and get a degree in engineering, then I am going to have a life where I never have to worry about money. He also says that he doesn't care what grades I get and that he is happy just for the fact that I am attempting to get a degree in engineering. Is this how every parent should be with their kid? Charlesetta - Why do you believe that one should be punished for getting bad grades? That is what Asian families do and that is why Asians have the highest suicide rates in the world and why they live the unhappiest life ever. Have you ever seen an Asian smile? |
Question: Can I keep my child s Grandma out pf his life? Posted: 14 May 2017 06:16 PM PDT Is it possible fir her to try to get visitations or anything? This is for future reference. I don t have any kids but I dislike my husband s mother and would very much love to keep her out of our lives and my husband agrees. But is it possible for her to do anything about that? |
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