Family: Question: Step-parent(me) situation, I need advice? PT 3?

Question: Step-parent(me) situation, I need advice? PT 3?

Posted: 29 May 2017 01:56 PM PDT

The baby has started calling me mama. It warms my heart, but I often worry about when the mother comes back around and hears it. I'm trying to be step-parent, a college student and a succesful supervisor at work. I'm beginning to notice both families expect me to put in the work but never even get the title of stepmother. Im just doing this all whenever her mom gets clean, is what it feels like. The father is beginning to treat me like its never enough, andd I need to move in with him asap. Which I kind of get, co-parenting can be difficult from two houses. For the child especially. We both agreed that he would never ask me to drop out of college and I would NEVER ask him to step away from being a father, I am a stepchild myself. But lately I feel like I'm putting in all the effort. Relationship wise. I wanna be the best for this child, but I feel like I am failing at giving her and her father a good life. I've never done this. My sister told me some people aren't meant to be step parents, and it makes my stomach twist. The father gets offened when I won't take money, and said he paid for the mothers car, gas, clothes, and spending money( she wasn't fond of jobs, pre baby even a few months into our relationship he paid for her phone and gas). I just want him to see a relationship is a partnership and I'm willing to help provide. I just need some pointers, I want to see her grow up for years to come.

Question: Step-parent (me) situation, I need advice? PT. 2?

Posted: 29 May 2017 01:55 PM PDT

Of course the mother found out and called me a homewrecker, a *wh*** and some other things. I proceeded with caution, another woman is now around the baby, she will have her claws out. I even heavily insisted with the father that I desired her express permission before I met the baby. We may not have seen eye to eye, but she is still a mother and must respected as such. Eventually after that, she quit caring for the baby and left her with me and her father, whilst telling everyone that I hated the baby and wanted the baby gone. The whole county now whispers that I am a heartless home wrecker. I fell in love with her before I fell in love with her father( which I did). Every time I'm brought up, she lays the insults on thick. I don't feel anything. I just can't get angry or fire back at her, though I'm not intimidated either. I still tell the baby that thats her mother, and that she loves her very much, though she is out trying to remain 18 (at 22 now)and partying with more drugs. The baby gets restless when she appears and leaves suddenly for 3 months at a time. I try to fill the gaps, and even told her father that she doesn't have to call me mom, that I could always be her "kris". I help put her to bed, hold her when she's sick, feed her at dinner, got her a "1st birthday" shirt to smash her cake in, and took pictures for her mom (who didn't show up because she refused to be present where I was). I offered to not attend and just celebrate at a later date so her mom would be there for her. She still refused

Question: I need advice on how to handle my father until I can move back out?

Posted: 29 May 2017 01:51 PM PDT

I m at my wit s end. He talks too much. I feel bad because I know it makes him feel bad that I don t want to talk to him. And I realize that I m lucky I have a father that wants to talk to me, but the amount that he talks and the questions that he asks are like he s trying to both write and tell a novel at the same time. He could literally talk for hours. Even does this thing where he ll put his hands behind his head, sits back, and closes his eyes and talks. And he expects me to sit there and listen to him, he doesn t want or need me to say anything, just listen to him ramble (I dont have time for something like that). But I have tried giving him that time if I have it, in hopes that will make him happy for a while, but it only backfires on me and causes him to want to talk more. I moved back in with them to help them fix up their place and now it s time for me to move back out, but I have another few months before I can and I m about to go insane. Both because he drives me insane and the guilt for making him feel bad I don t want to talk everyday all day.

Question: I have a cousin who despises her parents and tries to bring me into it. What do I say when she does this?

Posted: 29 May 2017 01:49 PM PDT

Question: What do I do when my sister abuses me?

Posted: 29 May 2017 01:48 PM PDT

Question: How do I get them to treat me like an adult?

Posted: 29 May 2017 01:45 PM PDT

I just separated from the Air Force. I was stationed in Okinawa, Japan so I have not been home for four years. But I was in constant contact with my parents and sister through telephone calls, Skype, facebook and email. I got back a week and a half ago. My plan was I'd stay at home until I found a job and got some paychecks and then move out for my own place. That seems like a really good plan because they think I'm still 16 years old. When I leave the house they want to know where I'm going, what I'll be doing and when I'll be back. I'm having a barbecue this afternoon and just came in with some groceries Among the other things I got were a couple 24-cases of beer. Mom wanted to know if I drank like that all the time in the Air Force and Dad wanted to know if I thought it was a good idea to live off my savings. When I explained the beer was for a party, my Dad said he thought I would have figured out I couldn't buy my friends. I started to mow the grass, without being asked, and Dad told me to put the mower back until the grass was dry. I said Sir yes sir. and he said, "I would have thought four years in the military would have cured you of your smart mouth." So after getting a job offer, I had an apartment guide and mom started crying and said she hasn't seen me for four years and I want to leave already. Dad said I have a perfectly good house here and why would I want to throw money away on rent.

Question: Step-parent(me) situation, I need advice.?

Posted: 29 May 2017 01:45 PM PDT

My boyfriend has a one and a half year old. I met her when she was 5 months old, so I've been with her for about a year now, and July will be a year with her father. The father, biological mother and I have pre-existing relationships. The father and I dated after they both split (pre baby), and he proceeded to carry on with her and go back to her. I wished them the best of luck and moved on. She did not like me and made him expel me from his life entirely because she didn't want to be disrespected. So we went our seperate ways. They had a baby during this time and decided to split as the mother decided on her 21st birthday she wanted to experiment with drugs. Father decides that's a no go and they cut ties. Enter me. He found me again via facebook, and I had started college during this time (I started a bit late). Apologized for how things went and wanted to try again. I was hesitant and said to take it super super slow. So we did. (I was didn't want unnecessary distractions hindering my education, plus I was trying to avoid "baby-mama" drama),(also, I'm not calling the baby a hindrance). I want to see her grow up for years to come.

Question: Why does it seem like my mother wants to fight with me?

Posted: 29 May 2017 01:44 PM PDT

Almost every day she does this. She asks what I want for dinner, if I tell her she makes something out of it like it's a big deal. Then she brings up how I act and says children shouldn't talk back to their parents and I really haven't said anything that will offend someone. I say whatever, or yeah, yeah, nothing harmful. But when my older sister calls on the phone or on face book says she wants to kill us and she hates us she acts like it's nothing. (Plus my mother's friends with her to on there). When my older sister does this my mom yells at me like it's my fault and I half of the time I have no clue what my older sister is yelling about other then the fact she seems like she hates me? What should I do? I can't live on like this. Ever since my father died it hasn't been the same. What I am saying is I want to be friends with everyone in my family. But I don't know how.... :'(

Question: Dad is an alcoholic and Mom is always blaming me. What would Al-Anon teach and can I go even though I am 15?

Posted: 29 May 2017 01:41 PM PDT

Question: How to make my sister stop?

Posted: 29 May 2017 01:05 PM PDT

My sister is 2 and she always cries when my mom is in the other room or not there in general, she won't stop crying and won't be with anyone else! Me my mum and my dad are going to Spain and so is all her friends and relatives.And the only person she can be with at this point is my grandma,so how do i make her stop crying so much when my mom is away? She can barely be without her for one night so how will she stand 5?

Question: What to do about my mother?

Posted: 29 May 2017 12:57 PM PDT

Okay, over the last year my mother has almost become stuck to me. She's constantly texting me and calling me and if I don't answer one phone call I'm in huge trouble. She's always trying to probe into my personal life (ie sex, boyfriends) but the thing is, she was never like this when I was growing up and she even left my dad for a period of time and left me with him. She wasn't bothered with anything I did when I was younger and I even wished that she'd pay more attention to me but now shes practically glued to me and it's really irritating me because I'm moving out next year and want my own freedom without my mother constantly calling me and texting me. Living at home is honestly a nightmare because she'll come into my room and just go through everything (take my clothes for herself, go through my make up or just burst open the door and throw herself onto my bed) I never have privacy anymore and I really don't know what to do

Question: Mother constantly invades my privacy , please help ?

Posted: 29 May 2017 12:03 PM PDT

i'm a 15 year old girl . my mom takes my phone every night at 10 . and gives it to me the next day around 4 or 5 . the time in between , she's looking through my messages , social media , photos , etc . i understand she's my mom and she wants to make sure i'm not getting into trouble but it's gotten way out of hand . she posts things on my social media accounts , pretending to be me . she texts my friends back . opens snapchats , even screenshots them (which notifies the other person) . she's done all this and more . yet when i confront her about it , she tells me i'm being disrespectful . that what's mine is hers . this is not okay . am i over reacting ? how do i make her stop ?

Question: I'm 14 and my parents do lot let me wear a bikini, help!!?

Posted: 29 May 2017 12:01 PM PDT

I've wanted to since I was 11, but my parents are to afraid of anyone looking at me like a sex-object to even consider it. It drives me insane because even though I'm usually insecure, I feel like I can be confident wearing one and I'd be happy wearing one. Especially since I live in California, and I'm moving to Florida in a few weeks I'll be in hot summer weather. I don't even want to be seen by my own family in a one-piece of tankini. I can't help it, my body doesn't work for something like that but they don't realize or even try to understand how I feel. Please help me, this isn't the only thing they do to suffocate me as a teenager. *not (instead of "lot" for the title

Question: I'm 14 and my parents do lot let me wear a bikini, help!!?

Posted: 29 May 2017 12:01 PM PDT

I've wanted to since I was 11, but my parents are to afraid of anyone looking at me like a sex-object to even consider it. It drives me insane because even though I'm usually insecure, I feel like I can be confident wearing one and I'd be happy wearing one. Especially since I live in California, and I'm moving to Florida in a few weeks I'll be in hot summer weather. I don't even want to be seen by my own family in a one-piece of tankini. I can't help it, my body doesn't work for something like that but they don't realize or even try to understand how I feel. Please help me, this isn't the only thing they do to suffocate me as a teenager.

Question: My son said his boyfriends dad has been smoking cigarettes around him. should I confront him next time I drop my son off there?

Posted: 29 May 2017 12:00 PM PDT

I will kick his *** if he dont stop smoking around my son

Question: Psycopath sister keeps calling me gay and fat?

Posted: 29 May 2017 11:51 AM PDT

she broke me 100$ microphone so i started calling her a fat monkey so she started getting vulgar calling me gay and fat and we started fighting and now i dont know what to do?? my parents disowned her and she s 18 and she is still living in my house. she throwed knives at me and started calling the police saying that i throwed them, and even called the mental hospital on me twice. i dont know if i should beat her up until she gets scared of me or what should i do?? because everytime i leave my desk i have this fear that she might break my laptop, and i dont know what to do! please help

Question: Teenage girls who can drive would you have done this?

Posted: 29 May 2017 11:02 AM PDT

I just got home from taking my sister to her friends house. Since I did not go in anyplace I just drove in my bare feet and did not bring my shoes.

Question: Short tempered Mother & Daughter relationship conflict?

Posted: 29 May 2017 10:04 AM PDT

This is a tough topic to discuss about especially among my friends, so please bare with me. Everyone thinks my mom is cool and reality wise, she's a monster at home particularly towards me. I'm the eldest daughter and i have two younger brothers. she gives them more attention than to me, primarily the middle son (2 years younger than me) & i always get jealous & compliant about it. whenever i try to converse with my mom, she either tells me to shut up or get lost because apparently, im bothering her privacy until my brother comes she starts hugging him and asks him interesting questions then they both engage in a 3 hour talk and im just left behind as if im invisible. my mom calls me selfish, egoistic, self-centered & i agree, but when i try to convince her i'll try to change, shes like "whatever" and she says hurtful things like "youll never find success" or "all your friends dont care about you" it hurts because ive stayed at the same school with the same people for 10 years. she also short-tempered, she gets mad extremely fast and makes a big deal out of everything, she even gets angry when i try to help her in the kitchen, the next moment you'll find her yelling at my dad complaining about me of how i never helped her. now im turning ill tempered just like her i sometimes cant wait graduate this **** hole high school life so i can live alone with peace and tranquility without unnecesarry heated conflicts & wasted emotions & outrage on nothing!

Question: Should I move out today?

Posted: 29 May 2017 09:24 AM PDT

Basically when i got home my car hood was up and I had the keys with me. My moms bf was yelling at me saying I had no oil when my light is NOT on. He's messing with my stuff when i'm not even there. Attempts to threaten to cut wires in my car if I don't go get oil when I can't drive after 9 until next week, on memorial day weekend with the cops out. Also says i'm giving my car to my 30 year old cousin. Put his hands on my mom and said shes the reason why i'm f*cked up. When i'm graduating this weekend with honors, getting promoted with my job next week, pay my own bills, i'm basically independent other than coming home to sleep. I never leave my room because stupid stuff like this happens so frequently. He tries to parent me when he doesn't parent his own two kids. They are younger than me, dropouts, on drugs, have kids of their own, and have been arrested multiple times. Should I move out today?

Question: How to run away?

Posted: 29 May 2017 09:01 AM PDT

So i have issues at home and they've been getting worse lately so I want to go to my friends place until my parents calm down. I'll have to leave at night cuz they won't let me leave. What do I need to bring etc, how not to get caught etc, but I still love my parents but they make me feel horrible about myself. Thanks bai

Question: Why am I so mad at my dad giving my little sister some of my ice cream?

Posted: 29 May 2017 08:38 AM PDT

Its Ramadan and I am fasting but I bought the ice cream to share with the whole family at dinner time but he gave her a little spoon full and I just got so mad. I honestly don t even want the ice cream anymore. But why am i mad for something so small?

Question: Disturbed about my brother in law's actions?!?

Posted: 29 May 2017 08:34 AM PDT

My brother in law (husband's brother) had a girlfriend in his 20s. They had twins together. He and his girlfriend broke up when they were about 1, and he had full custody. (She had a lot of issues back then.) The boys are now about 13 years old. After the break up, his ex girlfriends sister moved in with him to help with the kids. This lasted YEARS. They never confirmed they were together, but we aren't stupid-they lived together; it was obvious. A few years ago, she moved to another state. I recently found out that my brother in law has visited her a few times. This makes me EXTREMELY anxious. I worry she will get pregnant and they will have a baby. That would mean the brothers would be half brothers AND cousins. I worried for a while that she moved out of state because maybe she was pregnant or something. But then, I saw on Facebook last spring that someone made a joke to her about how she would have kids when people could live on Mars. Isn't this really messed up? Is this my business? I have been worrying about it since I found out he still visits her. What should I do?

Question: Adults. I'm an 18 year old male. Anything you have to say to me?

Posted: 29 May 2017 08:33 AM PDT

Question: What can I do if someone takes my son out of state longer than what I agreed to?

Posted: 29 May 2017 08:15 AM PDT

Hello yahoo, I was asked by my son s GMA if my son could tag along with her daughter (his aunt) on a trip to New York to visit my son s granddad. The Mom said they would only be there for TWO WEEKS. I would never agree to let my son go 700 miles away for any longer. He is just one years old, and when I call to check on him his grandad always fuss with me. I call, not because I don t trust them but I miss my son. Before you throw empty stones at me. I let him go to meet his family and it gave me some time to work without stressing about a babysitter. Anyways they are suppose to be back this Thursday, but now they are saying they aren t coming back until mid June , his grandad even threaten to keep him up there. I don t have the money to go there and get him because if I did he would be home by now. I will never in my life let him go anywhere else again with them.

Question: I hate my mother...what do I do?

Posted: 29 May 2017 07:45 AM PDT

She is a horrible person, full of **** and was never supportive in any way she is now sick and needs care and quite frankly I don't give a **** I have a great job and I could care for her if I wanted my sister is willing to care for her if I give her the money but I'm just not going to do that I think she deserves to suffer for all she did to me

Question: Mom died, is he still my step dad?

Posted: 29 May 2017 06:53 AM PDT

My mother died in a car accident last month. I came across a question that I cant answer myself. Will this dude still be considered my step dad? They were married and stuff but I hope the answer is no.

Question: I just want a hug from my daddy but my dad hates me?

Posted: 29 May 2017 06:44 AM PDT

im 16

Question: How do I stop feeling so sad at Memorial Day weekend in the future as mt brother died Memorial Day 2014 in a car crash?

Posted: 29 May 2017 06:11 AM PDT

I am so miserable at this time of the year. He died two weeks after graduation from college. It has been three years and I feel so down at Memorial Day. How do I get over this on this weekend each year? Actual anniversary is May 25 so last Thursday but I feel it for the weekend. I was ten years younger so idolized him.

Question: I have a sister who is poisonous to be around. Should I get my parents involved or leave them out of it?

Posted: 29 May 2017 06:07 AM PDT

I'm and adult but she is in the middle of adulthood-childhood. She is 23 so an adult but lives at home with the attitude of a 8 year old. She bullies people, name calls, is blunt, and demands everything of our mother who gives it all to her. Our mother made her this way. The reason I care is because my sister bullies me like kids in school did. I am 29 and have some growing up to do myself. However, it hurts when she does this. So if I visit my parents (lets say once or twice a month) it means seeing the poisonous sister. I have a brother who has criminal issues but he is trying to get things together and has always had a redeeming side. My sister has no good qualities and I feel bad saying that as I know I have to love her. So should I say something to my parents or as an adult do I just leave them out of it?

Question: How can I get my parents not to beat me anymore?

Posted: 29 May 2017 06:03 AM PDT

RELAX, they never would hit me. I meant beat me in cards. They are wonderful parents and would never harm me. By beat me I meant beat me in cards and games.

Question: How to get my mom to smoke outside?

Posted: 29 May 2017 05:51 AM PDT

She won't quit after I've begged her time after time so I give up asking. The problem is she smokes inside and I hate it, it smells awful. I asked her the other day to smoke outside as a compromise, but she just gets mardy with me. I can't bear it, it makes me so angry, how can I get her to smoke outside?

Question: Is nudity in the family a strange thing?

Posted: 29 May 2017 04:54 AM PDT

Question: Anyone know how to feel with an African mind reader?

Posted: 29 May 2017 04:49 AM PDT

She had been harassing me for a year now and I don't know how to tell police. She talks to me in my head and reads every thought, criticizing me saying I hate you, don't call me that word, retard, asshole, racist, I will kill you or your family, and do not tell cops. She was my next door neighbor, until almost everyone had to move out due to construction. She still has not left me alone, so I have company. She does not rest.

Question: Can my younger brother change an inscription on our mothers grave without my permission?

Posted: 29 May 2017 04:12 AM PDT

Question: My 6 year old cousin has been calling me her boyfriend for about a month, is this normal?

Posted: 29 May 2017 02:32 AM PDT

I'm a 19 year old boy and my cousin is a 6 year old girl. I babysit her every weekend and everytime we're alone, she tells me that I'm her boyfriend and we're on a date. Also she always wants to hug me while she sits on my lap. Is this normal? Does she really think I'm her boyfriend?

Question: How to end up sleeping in the hospital?

Posted: 29 May 2017 01:50 AM PDT

My mother passed away when I was 6 and I live with my father I'm fifteen and I need to getaway from him he's verbally and physically abusive and I can't stand living with him. The only way I could getaway from him is by convincing my grandmother and everyone else that I'm not doing well and my friend told me you should do something that will make you end up sleeping in the hospital and I know my grandmother will take me in then. Yes I am willing to go to the extreme. Please help

Question: What ethnicity do me and my mom look like?

Posted: 29 May 2017 01:45 AM PDT

Question: What does this mean to you?

Posted: 29 May 2017 01:40 AM PDT

you are a blessing in my life

Question: I feel pressured to either keep my citizenship or keep my family's estates.. i would appreciate your input about my situation?

Posted: 29 May 2017 12:48 AM PDT

I was born in the Federated States of Micronesia but my father is a US citizen so I am a dual citizen. Micronesia does not allow dual citizenship and their law states that a few years after the 18th birthday, one must decide if he or she wants to keep her FSM citizenship. It also states that those who are not citizens of this country may not own land but my family has owned land in this country for generations due to my grandfather and great grandfather and so on.. being chiefs. Land around many parts of the FSM is owned by clans and families- the chief being the head of both. I do not want to give up my US citizenship and remain only an FSM citizen. My life is here in the US but my family has the right to keep our land. I should not be pressured into picking a citizenship to keep what is rightfully mine. I am 17 years old, turning 18 later on this year and the pressure is getting stronger as time goes by. Forgive me if I sound entitled, thinking about this just makes me furious. I feel that I've been put into an unfair position and this being out of my control makes me feel even worst. I would appreciate any advice you have for me to help me feel like this isn't as bad as it seems.

Question: My parents have been fighting! HELP!?

Posted: 29 May 2017 12:43 AM PDT

My parents have been fighting a lot recently. My dad and mom agreed and my dad could stay at his mom and dads house. They are a mile away from us. And A couple of days ago I noticed that all their marriage pictures are taken down. They didn t talk about divorcing but they have been arguing. Not abusive and violent or screaming. But arguing. I m 14 I have a sister, 16, and a brother 9, and it s been eating me alive and I just can t stop thinking about it. My parents have been so close in my life and I can t stand seeing this happen to my family. I need your help guys. Please. I ve been praying every night because my family is all I got. PLEASE

Question: Called me a blessing in their life, what does that mean?

Posted: 28 May 2017 11:20 PM PDT

Question: My brother is a spoiled brat?

Posted: 28 May 2017 11:18 PM PDT

Okay first of all, I'm 20. I don't live with my brother and I never have. He lives with my mom and I grew up with my grandma. He is 13 and I have a 3 year old daughter. He is very rude and disrespectful to everyone. He calls my mom a ***** all the time, he doesn't listen to, her disrespects by saying the most horrible things to her. I've heard him say that he wishes she was dead. She never disciplines him. Sometimes she tries to take his phone and he just refuses and she gives up. She still buys him all the newest things. He recently got a Nintendo switch and iPhone 7 despite the fact that he's broken 4 phones in one year. He gets extremely mean and disrespectful to me and my grandma. He has told my grandma to shut up many times. Almost every time I see him, he tells me that he hates me or he doesn't like me. But then usually a few hours later he is fine. He purposely says things to hurt people. He once told me "when I have kids you won't be allowed to be around them because you had a baby when you were 17." This hurt me a lot and when I stopped talking to him for a while, my mother got mad at me. She constantly makes excuses for his behavior. She says it's because he's tired or hungry or he has ADHD, which he has never tested positive for. He curses all the time and all she does is say stop, but he laughs at her. He's very jealous of me and my daughter. He always says that I'm my moms favorite and stuff like that when she literally lets him get away with everything.

Question: How safe is it for teenagers to be driving late at night alone?

Posted: 28 May 2017 10:04 PM PDT

My parents encouraged me to take a job an hour and a half away from our house (we live 30+ minutes away from where we go to school and work anyway) and told me I could stay with my brother in a cabin/shed thing we have (which is about an hour from my work) on nights I work. I work till midnight and now my parents told me they don't want me to stay on my own. They literally leave me alone all of the time, never check in on me, and I'm very independent (I'm not just saying that I've been left home alone since I was like 7 a lot and done fine) now after encouraging me to take a job far away they pull this. Nobody will stay with me because this place doesn't even have water (I was gonna bring some and basically rough it, bum showers from friends houses the next day) I can't stay with my friends because I'll get off of work too late. So basically my parents pulled a fast one on me, I'm a 17 year old girl who will Be driving 3-4 nights a week at 12-2am alone. Is this really safer than me staying alone in a cabin in the woods? Would you encourage your kid to do the same thing and then pull a fast one of them? Looking for your feedback On the situation lol

Question: Would you consider this favoritism?

Posted: 28 May 2017 09:55 PM PDT

Today my mother kept harassing throughout the day. I wanted to workout without any distractions so I closed my door. She began yelling at me telling me to open my door. I asked if I could keep it closed because it helps me focus while working out. She started insulting me and saying that I should shut up and go in my room and that she doesn't want to hear what I have to say. Whenever I tried to talk she would walk away from me. So I did what she said and she complained for hours. My brother never does what he's supposed to do and she doesn't say a word to him. He's allowed to play video games for one hour but plays video games the entire day. She says absolutely nothing to him. When I asked her why she targets me she said that I should stop comparing myself to other people. She said that I'm crazy, and that I probably have mental illness and that if I talk to people like this in the in the future they'll probably punch me in the face for asking questions instead of worrying about myself.

Question: How do i get my distant mother to trust me, her teenage daughter? I know its normal at my age but its going to far. Please help me. Please.?

Posted: 28 May 2017 09:30 PM PDT

Question: Is what my dad says true ?

Posted: 28 May 2017 09:28 PM PDT

He has told me that I don't need compassion from anyone. I might be wrong for saying this but he is very unemotional around me and my brother. He has these burts of anger where he insults me or my brother in a very hurtful way and he won't even apologize or explain why he acts this way, and it sucks because I don't feel very close to my family and I think being around my dad all the time is making me feel this way. I do feel some resentment because there were certain situations that really left me feeling scared and he has put fear into me, at a young age he would say "fu*k you" whenever I "made him mad" keep in mind I was only a 7 or 8 year old boy. Anyways, I feel like my dad has impacted the way I act in my own life, I always bottle up a lot of things and I feel like I have so much anger inside of me at times. But I keep myself composed most of the time, I do not socialize much though even with my family I feel weird at times because I'm self conscious.

Question: Was what he did illegal?

Posted: 28 May 2017 09:19 PM PDT

I am a 19 yo guy. My Dad when I was 15. He didn't have life insurance and the medical bills and funeral costs forced mom to sell the house and we moved into the upstairs of a two family house. Soon after I turned 16 I came home and the owner of the house was waiting for me in our living room. He told me Mom was two months behind on the rent and he was going to evict us. But he would give her more time if I made it worth his while. He wanted sex. He didn't force me and 16 is considered age of consent. I didn't want to, because if we got evicted, I thought we would have ended up on the streets. I've never told anyone before but if what he did was illegal, and it should be, then I'm ready to report it.

Question: What do you call the stepchild of a stepchild?

Posted: 28 May 2017 08:31 PM PDT

Question: Why won't my daughter do anything with the family anymore?

Posted: 28 May 2017 08:06 PM PDT

She's 15 and ever since she's become a teenager she seems to want nothing to do with our family. She just lays in bed on her phone all day. She gets up to walk the dog for several hours and go on her runs, but other than that she is only in her room with her door closed for a large portion of the day. She used to eat dinner with us but now she doesn't come down to eat with us much anymore. She is shutting us out from her life. Sometimes she'll seem really happy, but a lot of the time she shows little emotion at all. I'll ask her how her day went and she'll just respond with one or two word answers. I want her to do everything with us like she used to. I won't let her hang out with her friends anymore because if she is always "too busy" to spend time with us then she shouldn't have time for them either. When she is with her friends she is totally different, really outgoing and funny, just like she used to be with us. I made her see a therapist last year but she hated it and said she was fine and there was no point. I don't know if this has to do with anything but she has a chronic pain condition and takes medications that might affect her mood. She used to always mention being in pain but I don't talk to her much anymore so I have no idea if that is why she is always in her room. Can someone help I want my daughter back? I forgot to add that she somehow manages to keep straight A's in all of her classes.

Question: Is it weird that my mom still treats me like a child?

Posted: 28 May 2017 07:54 PM PDT

I'm 13 years old and I live with my mommy and my grandma. ( I'm her only child and my dad passed away). My mom is the only one I have and she love and cares about me alot. I really love how she treats me because I feel safe. I still kiss her on the lips , and still call her mommy. every time she watches tv, I love to sit on her lap and lay on her arms to take a nap and she always give me kisses. She always tell me that I will always be her baby girl. She won't let me go out with my friends because she promised my dad that she will protect me. Do you find it weird like my friends say?

Question: Hello, I was wondering who is right and who is wrong. My mother has become very very mean in her old age and she is always yelling at me?

Posted: 28 May 2017 07:48 PM PDT

We have had piles and piles of trash that has been sitting in our house for months and she won't do anything with it and she really refuses to let me do anything with it. And now there are flies/moths buzzing all around the house now because of the trash. right where I sleep and I don't have anywhere else to sleep. I offered to help her with the trash and she yelled and screamed at me about that too.

Question: Worried about my sister and baby nephew being missing?

Posted: 28 May 2017 07:42 PM PDT

Hello (sorry for any grammar errors) so it's been a week since my sister and I talked for the last time, it was actually on may 21, we were speaking in a whatsapp video call and I could see my little nephew that I still dont know in person but I just love him so much, and after that my sister posted a pic on fb with my nephew and it's been her last post when she posts even two pics daily. My other sisters were trying to reach out to her since last tuesday and she doesn't reply the messages or calls neither whatsapp nor mail, I have sent some messages as well in whatsapp but it only has an arrow like she haven't been online since then. My sister lives in an european country, a mediterranean country that I don't wanna name because I'm kinda paranoid and we live in latin america. She's alone there with her baby, she married a man with a personality disorder and he supposedly abused her constantly, she finally divorced him like 4 years, and had lots of affairs with lots of men after that and finally got pregnant by one of the men. I know her life is crazy but I don't wanna judge her now, I'm so worried I feel like crying right now I love her so much and my baby nephew as well and want to see them soon, and we don't have anyone to contact there to ask about her, what can I do to get to her? I'm desperate now

Question: My mother never stops talking and is very loud?

Posted: 28 May 2017 07:40 PM PDT

So my mom never stops talking and sge gives me headaches daily and I think she is giving me hearing loss. She has no silent voice and is either the same loud tone or she screams. when she is "whispering" the loudness is normal conversation level. She mainly repeats herself and that gives her something to talk about constantly because she is just repeating it. Wether I make a small mistake or a big one, she feels the need to nag me on that mistake for AT LEAST 10 minutes straight. Often times I dont even know what she is saying because she speaks in another language and mix it with english ehich sounds disgusting. She talks to herself also and thinks out loud which is very annoying. Don't say I should explain to her how I feel because Ive done that countless times, she will either show empathy but talk anyway or totally dismiss me. I am 16 and I cannot take this, on top of this I havr migrain headaches everyday. I don't even see my dad that often because my mom talks so much. He is either at work or somewhere else. It has been so bad that it is prompting me towards suicide. Please someone help.

Question: Is it weird I got a ***** sharing a hottube with my 43 year old aunt and 67 year old grandma?

Posted: 28 May 2017 07:37 PM PDT

Question: What would happen in this situation ?

Posted: 28 May 2017 07:35 PM PDT

My friend is paranoid on what will happen so I'm asking for her. She's going to tell the teacher on Friday her father molested her, and she wants to know what will happen. She has to see her mom in visits and doesn't think she's qualified on being a good parent. So what will happen if the truth test thing answers failed for her father and passed for her father? And she wants to know if she's going to fastercare what would happen? Thank u

Question: What do I do?

Posted: 28 May 2017 07:25 PM PDT

So recently money had been tight so my 1yr old and I had to move in with my mom. My bf/ child s father and I had been living together but money was tight because he was injured and only I could work. My daughter is the most important thing I wanted her to have a stable home...he is not living with us because my mom hates him with her entire soul and honestly he is still at our old house until next months rent is due I have no idea what he is planning to do and I feel horrible but I had to get my child and I out. I love him with all my heart but my mom is making it a condition that I not speak to him and even does not want me to take our child to see him she is saying choose family or him I am hurting to my heart that basically my daughter and I won t have a place to live if we see him and since I have no other help I have no choice but to go with it and it sucks even more that I can t talk to him because his phone is not in service we only had enough for mine my heart is breaking advice or just some encouraging words I can t stop crying it hurts so much no mean words please i already feel like the world is on top of me

Question: I shaved my sister's head and now she think she has cancer. What do I do?

Posted: 28 May 2017 07:25 PM PDT

While she slept I shaved it. Pretty funny. Now everyone is wondering how her hair fell out. She thinks it's cancer. I don't want to get into trouble. Its kinda funny with her panicking. I just don't want my parents to conclude that I shaved her hair. Is there any way hair can fall out naturally so that my sister can accept that as the cause?

Question: What happens if I run away at 17 in Cali?

Posted: 28 May 2017 07:18 PM PDT

Hello just to make a long story short I got caught with weed my parents hate it but I love it and I know some friends whose parents are cool with them smoking but I was close to fighting my dad yesterday over it so I'm planning to leave the house and move with my friend who lives like a mile away he'll take me in and I'm going to start working too . I still want to attend the school I'm going to but my parents wanna switch me so that's another reason why. I'm goi. To live there and pay rent but will the police get involved? Will they track me down or go to my school to take me back to my parents? I'm not going to be in any risk either plus I have a clean record. Please don't tell me I should talk to my parents or to change my mind bc I don't wanna hear it . The more awnsers the better 💯 thanks in advance :)

Question: Tough situation with my parents being separated?

Posted: 28 May 2017 07:16 PM PDT

My parents have been separated for nearly a year now, both in their early 70s. Since their separation, I've noticed that they both seem happier. My dad has been dating another woman who is much younger (just about my age - late 20s), who is really cool. The three of us all get along really well when we're together. The problem is, my mom has been thinking about getting back together with my dad, and when I spoke to him, he said that he was considering it. I know this sounds bad, but I much prefer hanging out with my dad and his new girlfriend, than I do with my mom. I prefer them having their separate lives. I know that I should want my parents to get back together, but I see how happy they are now, and know how miserable they will be if they reconcile. Plus, I don't want my dad's girlfriend out of the picture. How can I tell my mom and dad that them staying separated is best for everyone involved?