Hes 41& Im 26 -Imet him a few yrs ago &we're not quite friends but more than acquaintances. I had feelings for him for a while but then found out he has a live-in GF of 8 yrs! We have a couple mutual friends, who I feel like are hinting to me that he likes me -one always asks me "have u seen (guy)?" or says hey "(guy) was just talking about u -he says u got the fellowship!" &the other once said "(guy) REALLY likes you" Every time I see him, we hug each other, the convo flows really easily. Hes asked me if Im seeing anyone &what my approach to dating is, &also our mutual friends have told me he asked them about me. Idk I just get the vibe that he likes me too but then I doubt myself bc of the gf situation I moved across the country for grad school 2 years ago,& since then, every yr he fb messages me to say happy bday, asks me how Ive been, tells me something about himself, &then we have a convo for a few hrs, even tho he can clearly see that hundreds of other ppl wrote on my wall instead of PMing me. For everyone else (that I kno of) he writes on their walls for their bday -he only PMs me. Does it mean anything if a guy PMs u on fb for ur bday instead of writing on your wall like everyone else? I still have feelings for him, but I live across the country,& I also dont want to do anything while he has a gf - basically i dont want to break them up, but i would date him if he were single what do you think all this means? Does he like me, & if so, how come he hasnt made a move?

Today my coworker/friend and I were having our break. He heard someone speaking Spanish and said the person should speak English. I asked him why he was being racist like that. I was upset especially after telling him about a recent incident when a women treated me badly and mocked me as if I didn't know English. All he said is that he's a c*** (what I called the woman in the story I told him). A couple of minutes later he just left without saying a word. We've usually gotten along so well besides this. I won't see him for a few days so I don't know if he'll message me at all by then or if I should.

Hi guys, so there is this guy I like, and my friends told him I like him. Then he didnt answer but he smirked at them when they told him that I like him. What does it mean that he smirked when he found out that I like him? Please respond. thanks :).

Ex: If I didn't have a girlfriend/boyfriend then I would smash you. I'm a bit confused because you're like saying it out of loyalty to your significant other of not cheating, but at the same time it sounds really iffy... idk..

I lied to my best friend about why I didn't answer her 8 phone calls. I was with my boyfriend at the time and I didn't realise she called me until an hour- hour and a half later. When I realised that she did I had instant anxiety. I didn't call her back because I was scared that she was going to get mad, because I was with him and the fact I didn't receive/hear her calls. She isn't fond of my boyfriend, she never has been, and that's why I was so scared. I've had this ideology for months now. To the point where if he is mentioned in the conversation I give blunt answers and don't talk about him much, because I feel like she genuinely doesn't care and that she will just mad. Anyways, she found out I lied to her, and I admitted to it straight away, I felt bad enough. So she was mad and didn't talk to me for a while. Then she called me late at night, asking for an explanation, and so I explained to her my fear of her getting mad, and how I should have brought it up months ago. But she just saw it as an excuse. And then declared that my bf has changed me, and is ruining our friendship. She then said "It's either him or me, you can't have both". I can't choose. Obviously friendships are more important but my relationship with my bf is important too. And no matter who I choose, I'm going to be unhappy, and she doesn't understand that. I really don't know what to do. I'm going to go visit her in person soon, to try and clear things up again, but i doubt that will change anything.

lolIt's not like I'd ever do anything more than flirt because he is best friends with my boyfriend. Its just my boyfriend is away at basic training and I'm just a flirt so I really don't see the harm. Does this make me a terrible person or is it completely normal and I'm just over analzying the situation?

Everyone calls me hoe, but I've never done anything to deserve to be called a hoe. I don't get called a hoe as much as I used to, but I've only had 3 boyfriends, is that lot? The 3 boyfriends that I've had have lasted for probably 3 weeks and then I don't have feelings for them anymore. I've been trying to stop and I've gone 5 months without one, but I still get called a hoe. Boys don't like me and my friends make fun of me what do I do??

I started texting this girl a few weeks ago and since then me and her have hungout twice. The thing is since the 2 times we hungout she hasn't been texting me nearly as much as she did before. I'm really confused if she likes me though because on our second we went to a movie and we didn't cuddle or anything but almost the whole movie she kept getting closer to me and sitting shoulder to shoulder. So I'm confused because she's not texting me very much now but then she did that at the movie so do you think she likes me or not?

I'm 20, in college. Only child so I was raised to be perfect and criticized alooot to the point my self esteem is pretty bad and self worth isn't that good either. At 10, I was molested by a relative(no one knows about this) who was about 5 years older than me, this screwed up my personality to the point that I taught I was gay when I was 16 and decided to hook up with a stranger even tho I was not in anyway attracted to guys. Hook up lasted only 2 minutes, worst two minutes of my life. I regret it. I'm attracted to girls romantic wise but not really sexually, just a bit. I've never slept with a girl before coz I regard sex as a dirty act, this is a common belief guys who were sexually abused have So there's this girl that I really like, I know she likes me too and she has a history of sexual abuse(by her ex) which led her to be a bit promiscuous with a few people am friends with. I know for a fact that she's interested in me and vice versa but my question is IF I MAKE A MOVE ON HER AND IT WORKS OUT, DO YOU THINK MY PAST MATTERS? I wouldn't want to hide anything from her and I'll tell her everything about me which no one knows but how do you think she will react? She's hella smart, introverted, super nice and quite and nothing bad comes out of her mouth. She thinks of me as the nicest guy around and really funny... what she doesn't know is the things that happened to me and things I did as a result Idc about her past, you think she will about mine?

She wants me to go to church every Sunday with her and her family. we had fights cuz I really don't want to go. I believe in god but im really not a fan of attending church. Its so boring. How can I make her understand

Hi I'm 15 and a guy who I'm friends with and also very into asked me to get ramen with him on Saturday. I'm literally shaking as I write this because I've never been on a date and I'm also not allowed to date. I'm just gonna tell my mom that I'm meeting up with some friends but I'm not. I'm so incredibly nervous because I like this guy so much but I have no idea how to act on a date or what to say! Please help

My Ex and I have kind of been on good terms, we've hung out once or twice since we broke out and it's been causal both times. But recently she's been annoying me because I started talking to some other girl. She somehow found out and brought it up the last time we hung out. Now she's been really hot and cold with me when it comes to texting. Also my sister says that my Ex awkwardly stares at her whenever she sees her. Does she just want me back because i''m talking to another girl or does she legitimate want me back? I know no one can give me a completely straight answer but its just good to get my thoughts down on paper. Thanks for any advice anyone has.

Lol, okay here's another rant. I'm 14 years old, havent hit puberty yet, 5'3 and 130 pounds. My best friend has always been loyal to me from the start. She's really sweet and I like her a lot. We had a prom yesterday and she came in there looking sexy asf. She didn't seem like the sweet, nice girl I remembered. She looks like a full grown woman in my opinion. I feel like a little boy compared to her though she's one month older than me. I feel if we go out I won't be good enough for her.. I don't feel that confident. Help me out guys!! Heres a pic

So this is what's been going on 1. 6 months ago my girlfriend broke up with me for an f-ed up reason. Like a week later a girl in one of my college classes came up to me and was like "we should study together." She's way smarter than me and didn't even need my help. So we studied together a few times and it seemed like she liked me. She would touch my arm all the time and she started dressing better than usual and looked super hot. I was still traumatized from my last relationship, so I didn't ask her out right away. 2. A couple weeks after we started hanging out, she randomly started talking about going on tinder dates all the time. She showed me some guy she went out with and said he was hot. then she told me that i should get on tinder so I thought I got friendzoned. 3. I saw her all the time at school and she would touch my shoulder and arm and whatnot and she was all like "you're so handsome." I went out with her and a couple of her friends a few times and she always talked about going on tinder dates. 4. a while later I asked her out for coffee. She was like "i can't do it today but save the date because my roommate is going on a tinder date and we have to go watch her and make sure she's ok. So I went to the restaurant and i didn't see her or her roommate. i texted her. she texted back 3 hours later and was like "sorry. change of plans." i never got an explanation about why she didn't show up 5. A month ago she said to me "we should go out sometime. Not this week because I'm busy, but sometime soon." A week later I asked her out to this new restaurant. I said "what day is good for you?" she was like "Probably Friday. I'll let you know." On Thursday I texted her "are we going there tomorrow?" she texted back "I'll let you know. I have to check my schedule." I didn't hear back from her and then I didn't see her for a week and she acted like nothing happened 6. We're from different states, so we're probably not going to see each other over the summer and a couple days ago she saw me in the library. She gave me a hug and almost started to cry and was like "I look forward to seeing you. I'm going to miss you." Then she invited me to go eat with her and her friend. I went and she started talking about a tinder date she was going to go on that night. i feel like she's f-ing with me. i probably won't see her this summer so should i GHOST her?

Like is there one girl that's better than. The rest

After school on Friday it was revealed that my crush and I like on another. However, I was told this at the end of the day and was unable to speak to her following the exciting news. It is now Saturday and I want to text her something to break the ice so to speak. Do you guys have any ideas of what to send? Thanks

Everyone's like "don't you want to track him down and fight him" and I'm like nah I'm cool. Is that weird?

Okay so we got married back on December. He was my first kiss, so that explains everything about my non existent sex life before him. I wasn't his first. Anyway I knew about sex in a biological point of view and from friends but like it's different when you're actually doing it. I was in a lot of pain the first time and I still feel pain. One time I didn't feel pain but then we did it again the next day and it was like I was a virgin all over again. Anyway I looked into how to get rid of the pain and I learned that it takes a female a while to actually be horny and wet and all that for intercourse and that's why foreplay is important. We barely have foreplay, I mean we do but it's short. And I just feel like he doesn't care if it feels good for me. He was very nice and understanding the first few times but later on when I would tell him to stop and I even would pull him out he would force it back in and say 'just a few more minutes.' Then after he said sorry and hugged me and tried to make me feel better. I appreciated that. But after that I stopped telling him to stop but he could always tell I'm not enjoying it and I really don't think he cares. I don't know how to like sit him down and tell him that I want to enjoy this too but I don't know... I don't know what to do. Help. He's an amazing husband. Emotionally he's great. He understands me and everything that's why I married him. He loves me. So that isn't a problem. It's just the sex thing

This is how our conversation went so far 😂😭😭😭 Me : heyy Him: who is this Me: is this ___? Him: yea? Me: I wanna tell you something Him: who's this Ok so this is what I want to text him but I'm too scared "You'd know me if you see me.. but I just wanted to tell you that I've always thought that you were extremely attractive but never really had the courage to speak to you because I wasn't too sure how you'd react. Please don't think I'm crazy because I promise you I'm not im just trying to do things out my comfort zone nd this was one of them". Should I send him that lol if not help me write something also him and I use to work together .. he asked me for my name one day and that was basically it

It seems like all of them are plagued by extreme misandry now. :\ Has the media fully manipulated the female population into loathing all of us?

I ve never seen it, so I don t know if I was being insulted or not. I don t like to be insulted. Thanks, all!

My boyfriend is great to me. There s no denying that. Whenever I try to talk about my feelings or whatever, he never listens! It seems like i have to tell him to pay attention. He zones out a lot during our conversations and always forgets everything i say, which I think has to to do with the fact that hes an acid weed user. Whenever i ask him to do something, like listen to me more or try to be more open with communication, he always says "i will babe" and then never does. Its becoming a problem for me because I don t feel respected. I come from a pretty broken family at home and everytime I try to talk to him about the horrible stuff that happens he just acts like its no big deal! But when really minor problems happen to him he makes it all about him and expects me to do everything he wants until he feels better. Its gotten to the point where I go to others to talk since he never seems to want to and he gets mad at me for that! He told me "its disappointing you won t come to me and i cant help you" after thats all i ever try to do. I almost thought he was going to break up with me for it! I try to do everything he wants to make him happy and keep the relationship super fair and balanced, but it really hurts to feel like he doesn t respect me enough to listen to me and do things that would make me happy. What should I do? Thank you xx avid weed user*

A guy who I dated for 2 times fell head over heels for me. But we could not be together due to religious reasons. Family would never allow it. Before we seperated, he told me that he will never ever forget about me even after he has kids or turns 75. And he wanted me to do the same for him. When I said I'm not sure, he started getting really upset. Then I just agreed to it to appease him. what did he mean when he told me that he will never forget me?

Last night we talked on the phone for 5 hours that was out first time she got really freaky at one point she told me she was touching her self she also called me babe she texts me a lot but then at points she takes for ever to respond even when she s on what does everyone think about this?