Marriage & Divorce: Question: Want to suggest counseling, but am scared to bring it up? |
- Question: Want to suggest counseling, but am scared to bring it up?
- Question: If a girl tells a guy she's attracted, but doesn't say she married, is that a form of lying?
- Question: My husband has ED he's 54 it's been 7 years without full sex. I want more is it unkind to want a lover?
- Question: Why do white women date black guys more than other minorities when dating interracially?
- Question: Should I tell my husband that his friends are hitting on me?
- Question: My husband asked if we can have sex on Chaturbate to make money were so broke should I do it?
- Question: Why does my husband go on an on about his ex's lust for sex and all the things they did? It hurts like hell!?
- Question: Looking back in old age at the married women I had, never bothered me at the time why am I feeling guilty at 67?
- Question: Why do men pester you for sex all the time?
- Question: Parents, do you kiss your spouse in front of your kids, even on purpous sometimes (please read)?
- Question: My husband bought a pal home from the pub and suggested in a joke that he have me! WTF ? Why would a loving husband even think this?
- Question: Opinions wanted- Am I over reacting?
- Question: I worked with a man who I later married?
- Question: Having sex with a military mans wife?
- Question: He's gone, and here I am alone, three months should I look for love?
- Question: Does this make sense? Man I've recently met is separated from his cheating, druggy wife. He is taking care of their 7 yr old..?
- Question: Any advice on co-parenting and divorce ?
- Question: How to keep it all together...?
- Question: Have you ever fantasized about your man with a big D in his mouth?
- Question: On a girls night out we all take our wedding rings off, is this bad or just girlie fun?
- Question: My wife ran off with a guy now it's over, should I take her back?
- Question: Should I tell my husband that his friends are hitting on me?
- Question: Having the pre wedding jitters do you all get this girls?
- Question: Do my wife really loves me?
- Question: I think my mom is cheating on my dad. What should I do?
- Question: How often do married couples have sex ?
- Question: How many times have you cheated on your spouse?
- Question: My Dad is in love with my Mom again, is this okay as they are divorced and remarried to others?
- Question: Seniors a question for you.....?
- Question: How long after my disability hearing will I get nenefits?
- Question: Husband wants to go to a week-long summer country concert in July only with guy friends.?
- Question: Would a bigger wiener satisfy my wife?
- Question: May a marriage between a 19 year old female and a 66 year old man be eternal?
- Question: Wife is a lazy beeotch, should i divorce her?
- Question: Is it ok for my white wife to refer to my penis as "Ni**er D*ck" during sex?
- Question: Getting over wife's ex-partner jealousy?
- Question: Is it okay not to have sex for the 1st few months of marriage?
- Question: Man and woman met and got married 3 months later, woman didn t change her name or add his name with her maiden name on Facebook...?
- Question: My wife physically hit me ..?
- Question: How would you feel if your husband didn't take you on a date for 10 years? And then he finally took you to a concert he likes?
- Question: I caught my wife pleasing herself to snoop dogs videos...?
- Question: Why is it so hard to find a decent wife at 40 of age?
| Question: Want to suggest counseling, but am scared to bring it up? Posted: 30 May 2017 09:15 PM PDT I want to bring up the idea of seeing a marriage counselor, but I'm scared to rehash old wounds and make things worse. To start off, I cheated on my wife 6 months ago. I won't go into details, it was a one time thing with a woman I used to work with and I confessed right after it happened. My wife kicked me out for a few days and let me back in after I begged her to do so. To date we haven't talked about it since and the only person I know she has told is her best friend. Life at home is extremely tense and on occasion it's just like before. I want to see a counselor to try and work things out but I'm scared to even bring it up since she hasn't mentioned anything, should I? If so, how? |
| Posted: 30 May 2017 07:55 PM PDT If a girl is married, and tells another guy she's attracted to him, and never says she's already married, is that a form of lying? |
| Posted: 30 May 2017 07:52 PM PDT I've been the ultimate faithfully caring wife but at 48 and no full penetration for 7 years I see my sex life thru the change / hormones ending soon and I want to be ( blunt) fvcked a few more times by a real man. Is that unreasonable? I have a guy friend who would service me if I made the slightest move, should I? |
| Question: Why do white women date black guys more than other minorities when dating interracially? Posted: 30 May 2017 07:48 PM PDT I've noticed this. I live in Nyc and have seen them dating black guys more than other minorities when in an interracial relationship. I don't get it. |
| Question: Should I tell my husband that his friends are hitting on me? Posted: 30 May 2017 07:34 PM PDT We've been married for 4 years, we're both 24, and I'm pregnant with our first child. My husband has 3 lifelong friends, they're like brothers, he trusts them a lot, and at first I tried being friends with them too. One of them is a really nice guy and has always been very respectful to me, the other two are always hitting on me. They very often come over to our house, not when I'm alone, always when my husband is at home. When he isn't close enough to hear what we're talking, his friends always say flirty stuff, say that I'm hot, etc. One of them has told my husband that I'm gorgeous and that he's lucky, but he took it as an innocent compliment, because he's naive and not a jealous person. A day after that, his friend got drunk and told me he wanted to kiss me. The other one has invited me out, of course I said no, and I told him I was going to tell his wife, but he said he doesn't care. I've already told them to stop, and I avoid being more than a few feet from my husband's side when they're around, but sometimes it happens, and it makes me really uncomfortable. This is not the first time men have hit on me, usually I would just ignore it, I love my husband and I would never cheat on him, but I thought that maybe he should know what his friends have been saying to me. The problem is that I can't prove it, and idk, I'm scared the he might not believe me, like I said, they're like brothers, so he's not expecting such behavior coming from his friends. What should I do? |
| Posted: 30 May 2017 06:26 PM PDT You just make love real time and people pay to watch but I feel so torn between the money and our dignity what do I do? |
| Posted: 30 May 2017 06:08 PM PDT I've told him to stop but he says 'Why can't you be the same? What's wrong with anal etc ' which I will not do or entertain no matter how much he wants it? I am me not her! |
| Posted: 30 May 2017 06:04 PM PDT Had many at the Tennis club and elsewhere now I am reflecting in the damage I did to those fine marriages is it old age? |
| Question: Why do men pester you for sex all the time? Posted: 30 May 2017 05:56 PM PDT I love my husband but god after 8 years he hasn't skied down at all, its day and night. Do they ever quiet down and just want it twice a week like I do? |
| Posted: 30 May 2017 05:52 PM PDT Okay so I've been with my sweetheart for 10 in a half years (11 years in October) and married for 5 months. We have an 8 year old daughter and a 4 year old son. I know we were 19 when our daughter was born. Dumb right? We're 28 now. Anyways at first I was hesitant is kissing in front of our daughter when she was younger but my husband said we should kiss infront of her and how else is she going to know and don't be afraid. We kiss in front of your children a lot, but not the deep stuff like making out and sex. No way. Out children say, "Ewwww" but we don't care. Our children NEED to be expose by this. I even kiss him in front of them on purpous. He does. We even so it on purpous so we can get out children to learn and we show them mommy and daddy love and have affection for each other. Not ALWAYS on purpous. I even ran to my husband and kissed the **** outta him right in front of our kids, but not french kissing. My husband and I had a fight the other day. We even made up in front of your children. Is that bad? Ps: My parents kissed in front of us and I'm glad they still have that love for each other. They have been married for 37 years and still in love with other. So amazing and my husband's parents have been together for 34 years and still in love. |
| Posted: 30 May 2017 05:47 PM PDT Been married twelve years and he turns up with his pal drunk and with their tongues hanging out. He had been told by his pal that he thought I was hot, and so he suggested at the pub that I might be up for it with the pal as he watched!!! I threw his pal out and we haven't spoken for two days Is it drink that loosens their morals and completely rids them of respect? WTF? |
| Question: Opinions wanted- Am I over reacting? Posted: 30 May 2017 05:45 PM PDT I am married, but we reside separately as we get along better that way. Shortly after our initial separation, the husband informed me that his brother "hates my f'ng guts" as well as "hopes we do not work out"- (about a year ago). Husband's brother currently resides in Hawaii (plans to move soon) which he wants to visit again in a few months (he went alone when we 1st separated). He asked me if I would want to go if he came up with the money. He tells me he has smoothed things over with his brother and sister-in-law by being honest about his mistakes and not placing all the blame on me. However, he has told me that he has owned up to his mistakes to them before when he he actually was ego-saving (see pic-- Husband knows about the pics). I have never been and would like to see Hawaii, but I would be dependent upon my husband for finances while there, no personal vehicle, and I believe he plans to stay in their residence. I am afraid I would feel trapped in a place where I am not truly wanted and my husband telling me I am overreacting. Thoughts? |
| Question: I worked with a man who I later married? Posted: 30 May 2017 05:26 PM PDT I knew he was married but I also knew he wasn't happy with her.He finally did marry me after I had gotten pregnant, The pregnancy was out of the blue because I had just given him oral release. Some of the semen had found their way inside me and I got a baby. I kind of feel bad for his ex wife, we kicked her out and into a seedy hotel at end of town. I kind of get sentimental this time of year. It wasn't her fault she lost her man to me, I was just younger and better for him. I'd like to do something for her, make her a nice dinner ? or what would you suggest? |
| Question: Having sex with a military mans wife? Posted: 30 May 2017 05:06 PM PDT she tells me hes violent and wants to leave him but deep down what if shes just saying that so she can have someone like me to have sex with? i dont have a problem with it, but what if the guy is normal and hes just gone all the time? i am in the army and he is in the navy. his wife is young shes 20 and hes underwater majority of times. she said he threaten her and hits her sometimes as he has ptsd but yet she goes and lets me bang her? specially me being a different race and i know her husband is very conservative . they are both pretty country southern folks . but still i cant help but feel bad banging this guys wife... for all i know he could be a good guy. One night after we got done banging she was laying on my chest i looked up at the wall at one of his military photos with his fellow comrade. i asked her why didnt she divorce him yet and she opened up to me a little and said that she tried but he got very angry and disturbed than stuck a gun to her head and threaten to pull the trigger. this guy is very nuts. she talked about how he sits around watching fox news all day talking about being a patriot that will take back this country even though hes in the military?. hes very very unstable and isnt fit to serve. so I can see why she is doing this. He doesn't pay no attention to is what she told me and always drinks beer. but yet i still dont know what to do, i am only doing this because i feel bad for her she needs this so i dont think i am THAT wrong for it . |
| Question: He's gone, and here I am alone, three months should I look for love? Posted: 30 May 2017 04:41 PM PDT He moved in with her and I am so lonely would love to just be hugged by a nice guy. We are seperated and for some stupid reason my heart still aches for him no one else, but I need love Should I go find it?what did you do? |
| Posted: 30 May 2017 04:26 PM PDT Plus her two kids, 10,.and 16, from another marriage. She ran up alot of credit card debt, and he filed for chapter 13 bankruptcy. And had been paying the court every two weeks . However, now he says the wife never showed up in court, and and he has to Re apply for chapter 13, without her on the case. That makes no sense to me at all. Can somone explain this to me? Why should she go Scott free when she's the one who actually caused the debt? They aren't divorced, and it's only been a few months since she's moved out. No divorce papers have been filed. He's worried to file for divorce thinking he will have to sell the house, but I doubt any judge would would let that happen since she's the one who cheated and abandoned her kids and him. I just don't get this whole situation. |
| Question: Any advice on co-parenting and divorce ? Posted: 30 May 2017 04:14 PM PDT My ex walked out on me and my two kids when I was pregnant of our second daughter. He never had any interest in meeting her neither at the hospital nor after he simply walked out and that was that for 2 years . He had a DUI and couldn t drive for some time, I would drive an hour and a half to meet him so he could see his kids. Then he stopped being consistent. Never sends anything for their birthdays never calls and the sad part is that he knows where I live my address has not changed. I decided to keep my relationship with his parents since they have been very supportive. However his mother was a family therapist and I feel like she s always trying to defend her son s actions by coming up with things like oh he s bipolar thts why he gets upset like that ," in this entire time we have been separated and not divorced yet because I filed and tried on several occasions to get him served but his mother told the server that he doesnt live there and she wasn t gonna get involved. I went to court 3 times and he was a no show . NOW he has two kids with his girlfriend and is telling me he s gonna file in a different county and is going to petition for visitation/custody . Am I wrong for not trying to put any effort in him seeing his kids ? What s the right thing to do in this situation? I feel like as a parent my job is to protect my kids and provide for them the best . Any advice is welcomed but please don t be rude just honest |
| Question: How to keep it all together...? Posted: 30 May 2017 04:05 PM PDT Approx 2yrs ago, shortly after getting married (we dated for 8yrs prior), my wife began getting ill to the point of hospitalization. In the time following, she has lost all of her friends for various reasons and has become what I can only describe as overly critical and depressed. She sees no upside, everyone is against her, she has no hope for anything, she doesn't even realize she has a support network (which she certainly does). She continues to fight her illness, but it has certainly taken a toll as does her stressful job. She has not come upstairs to bed once in those 2yrs (she says it hurts to climb stairs at night) nor has she been intimate at all (not once, not even a little). At times it feels like she doesn't even want to get better. She will frequently say she has "accepted" this life and I have to either get used to it or leave. It also seems like she has lost all interest in our marriage. I have now been to 2 therapists and she refuses to go at all. I am at a total loss. I want her to be happy, I want her to be healthy, I want her to fight through this, and I don't want to leave her. I have been as supportive as humanly possible over these 2yrs (despite having my shortcomings). I and her family have no idea what to do next because the situation is not improving. Any advice is welcome. I just want my wife and life back. |
| Question: Have you ever fantasized about your man with a big D in his mouth? Posted: 30 May 2017 03:55 PM PDT My wife has this fantasy |
| Question: On a girls night out we all take our wedding rings off, is this bad or just girlie fun? Posted: 30 May 2017 03:54 PM PDT I put make up on the white mark on my finger Never done more than dance with some guys but most see your wedding band and pass by, it's just for fun |
| Question: My wife ran off with a guy now it's over, should I take her back? Posted: 30 May 2017 03:47 PM PDT It hurts like hell but his money ran out after 7 weeks and she wants to come back to the family home. I want her sooo bad, but can I trust her ever again? |
| Question: Should I tell my husband that his friends are hitting on me? Posted: 30 May 2017 03:33 PM PDT We've been married for 4 years, we're both 24, and I'm pregnant with our first child. My husband has 3 lifelong friends, they're like brothers, he trusts them a lot, and at first I tried being friends with them too. One of them is a really nice guy and has always been very respectful to me, the other two are always hitting on me. They very often come over our house, not when I'm alone, always when my husband is at home. When he isn't exactly close enough to hear what we're talking, his friends always say flirty stuff, say that I'm hot, etc. One of them has told my husband that I'm gorgeous and that he's lucky, but he took it as an innocent compliment, because he's naive and not a jealous person. A day after that, his friend got drunk and told me he wanted to kiss me. The other one has invited me out, of course I said no, and I told him I was going to tell his wife, but he said he doesn't care. I've already told them to stop, and I avoid being more than a few feet from my husband's side when they're around, but sometimes it happens, and it makes me really uncomfortable. This is not the first time men have hit on me, usually I would just ignore it, I love my husband and I would never cheat on him, but I thought that maybe he should know what his friends have been saying to me. The problem is that I can't prove it, and idk, I'm scared the he might not believe me, like I said, they're like brothers, so he's not expecting such behavior coming from his friends. What should I do? |
| Question: Having the pre wedding jitters do you all get this girls? Posted: 30 May 2017 03:24 PM PDT I've had a bit of a wild life, lots of guys, done things I am ashamed of married men swinging etc. Settled down with a great guy I love now he's steady and loves me, doesn't know 'all' of my past. Now it's three weeks away I am wondering if my wild side might pop its ugly head up when we are married? Any other women had this doubt? |
| Question: Do my wife really loves me? Posted: 30 May 2017 03:14 PM PDT I have a wife and she already have a daughter (6 month old baby) who isn t biologically mine. However, The real father does not want to give support to her baby and I am taking responsibility. However, my wife and her ex-husband consistently chatting and talking through viber without letting me know. Whenever I consult my wife what is the reason why they are still talking she always never answer my question and gets freaking mad at me telling me why I am so authoritative. She s getting mad to turn around like reverse psychology for me not the bother checking her phone and asking her why her ex-husband and her are still talking. |
| Question: I think my mom is cheating on my dad. What should I do? Posted: 30 May 2017 02:47 PM PDT I used my mom's phone today for homework and when I open it up it was one messages. At first I didn't notice anything so I was about to leave the app when is saw the word baby. Upon further inspection I saw that my mom and this guy were having a talking to each other like a married couple. I don't know who he is and I don't know what to do. Please help! |
| Question: How often do married couples have sex ? Posted: 30 May 2017 02:28 PM PDT Me and my wife have been married for a month we usually have sex about once or twice a week or whenever she wants it. We're going on our honeymoon next week. How often should we have sex ? |
| Question: How many times have you cheated on your spouse? Posted: 30 May 2017 02:25 PM PDT For me three on current spouse and one on first spouse. I did not cheat on 2nd spouse. |
| Posted: 30 May 2017 02:24 PM PDT They divorced in 1999 and remarried other people. Now Dad is in love with my Mom and talking to her all day. He has apologized for having an affair and says he wants to get back with her. However, Mom is married to my step-Dad who I like. He is mad she is spending weekends alone with her ex-husband and my Dad is married to my step-mother who doesn't know. My mother says she feels for my Dad because he is her soul mate but has respect for her husband, not love, as the father of her other two kids. I don't know if they (my parents) have had sex or not yet but they spend weekends alone. So is this okay since they were once married or is it like having an affair like Dad did when married to my Mom before? |
| Question: Seniors a question for you.....? Posted: 30 May 2017 02:08 PM PDT How would you feel?? I married a man 12 years older than me, he has 4 kids, I have one daughter, she lives out of the country, so she is never around, I have no family. When my husbands kids comes around, Xmas, Thanksgiving, etc. I as the Step mother does all the grocery shopping, we pay for the food, (we do not have a lot of money) I cook it, CLEAN up after the meals, I get NO help from HIS kids...they all sit around watching football...none of them offer to help cook, pay, clean...NOTHING....I am not acknowledged on my B/D, Xmas....when their kids graduate they get $ from my husband, well of course they do....one Thanksgiving I cooked a HUGE meal, turkey, prime rib and duck....last minute no one showed! My husband is just glad to see all of them, its a lot of work for me...he gets pissed because I should not complain about the work involved....when his grandkids needed a baby sitter, yes you guessed it, here I am! They borrowed money some never returned or if it was returned, handed it to my husband, stating Thank You....me? I can go to hell....what should I do, any help would be greatly appreciated!!! Thank You...had it up to my eye balls...P.S. I have discussed this with my husband, he YELLS....I should be HAPPY they come to visit him...yes, I am but I don t like the way I am treated, I end up doing all the work, my husband knows it irritates me, so he does help clean up, but his kids , all of them 40 years plus old, will still just sit and watches t.v, while WE clean |
| Question: How long after my disability hearing will I get nenefits? Posted: 30 May 2017 01:16 PM PDT |
| Question: Husband wants to go to a week-long summer country concert in July only with guy friends.? Posted: 30 May 2017 11:44 AM PDT I told my husband that I wouldn't mind guys hunting/fishing trips, but I am not comfortable with this. He said all his friends wives are letting their husbands go. They are his work friends and I've never met them before. Am I overreacting? I've never been to a country concert, so I will appreciate some advices. |
| Question: Would a bigger wiener satisfy my wife? Posted: 30 May 2017 11:10 AM PDT For memorial day we grilled some hot dogs, my wife got upset because she got stuck with a smaller wiener and said she doesnt like them because they dont fill her buns. She demanded that i find her a big wiener or she wouldnt be happy. Should i be worried? |
| Question: May a marriage between a 19 year old female and a 66 year old man be eternal? Posted: 30 May 2017 10:25 AM PDT My White neighbor who's 66 met a young Filipino woman through a dating site and paid to have her come to America ,they are planning to get married,yet they've only known each other for 2 months,is that enough time to truly know someone? |
| Question: Wife is a lazy beeotch, should i divorce her? Posted: 30 May 2017 09:51 AM PDT My wife is fat and lazy, after work she comes home and doesnt even want to cook. She would rather me stop what im doing (playing xbox) and help give the kids bathes. When she gets up for work in the morning, she trys to wake me up to take out the trash which is ridiculous because she knows i stayed out late with my friends. She says i need to help out with bills but donating blood only pays so much and i need cigarettes! Should i divorce her? |
| Question: Is it ok for my white wife to refer to my penis as "Ni**er D*ck" during sex? Posted: 30 May 2017 06:02 AM PDT |
| Question: Getting over wife's ex-partner jealousy? Posted: 30 May 2017 01:33 AM PDT So I got married a few months ago. I am a foreigner living in Asia (wife is Asian). Last year we split due to long distance. We got back together after 6 months and I decided to move to her city. She told me she went to a bar and had a one night stand with a foreign guy. I was under the impression that he had left the city, but he hasn't. We have a few mutual friends (to whom he has bragged to), which has made me uncomfortable and uncomfortable living here sometimes. It is not a big city, the foreign crowd is small so I see him occasionally which makes me feel a little down. I have started to avoid the foreign crowd in the hopes of putting him out of my life/mind but I know it's impossible. Part of me thought about moving cities or back to my home country but I know that is a bit extreme and silly. I know that he will most likely leave in the next 12 months. I feel I had bad luck, what are the chances of her sleeping with a guy who is a big part of the foreign community (which is small), this city has a million people. She was drunk so I'm also worried if he took photos or videos of her. So my question is does anyone have any advice on how to get over this. I've never been in this position of having to regularly see my partner's previous partner. |
| Question: Is it okay not to have sex for the 1st few months of marriage? Posted: 30 May 2017 12:46 AM PDT I'm getting married this month to my fiancé and I still don't have a 6 pack abs. (I'm 128 lbs 5'4). We are still virgin and I'm never going to show my future wife my fatty tummy... |
| Posted: 29 May 2017 11:28 PM PDT She didn t add marriage as life event, and even though he put that he was married to her with her name, she didn t show any relationship status on her page. They have no pictures of themselves together on either profile. When he posted on her wall something saying she was beautiful and he loved her, she didn t even like it or comment at all. If you look at her profile, it s like he doesn t even exist. What do you think? He s a long time friend of mine, and I m concerned that she may not be as wonderful as he thought. |
| Question: My wife physically hit me ..? Posted: 29 May 2017 10:41 PM PDT i have been married for 3 years..have a 2 year old child ...my wife and i are not compatible..we always argue, verbal fight and i noticed she recently being physical to me punching and hitting me with hard objects when we fight...of course i never fight back...i got injured several times from her hitting me...nowadays i try to stay low and dont argue with her as much...but every time we are not agree over anything, she starts to raise her voice and this give me great anxiety and in some case heart pian or my head starts burning...honestly i dont know what to do...everytime i suggest her to divorce, she gets very aggressive and make me not want to pursue..i dont think i can spend the rest of my life with someone that verbally and physically attack me and gives me anxiety.... please help |
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| Question: I caught my wife pleasing herself to snoop dogs videos...? Posted: 29 May 2017 08:31 PM PDT I swear I have cameras set up across my living room is case of any accidents. I have footage of my wife masturbating to a video called "drop it like it's hot." By snoop dogg featuring pharrel William. |
| Question: Why is it so hard to find a decent wife at 40 of age? Posted: 29 May 2017 03:41 PM PDT The choices at this age seem very limited. Most women are married past 30 of age. I've had bad experiences with divorcees ( banged up mentally and physically aka human garbage ). Single moms are also worthless cause whoever was banging them didn't even have any decency or consideration to take care of her or his kids after unloading his fluids in all her cavities. So im not taking another guys trash back and fixing what he broke. Any other choices ? Thanks Jack, finally someone that understands me. Often i feel like im Tesla or Beethoven in this cruel world made of ignorant and tasteless people. |
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