Family: Question: What is the Biblical thing to do?

Question: What is the Biblical thing to do?

Posted: 30 May 2017 02:32 PM PDT

My mother, now deceased, had made two investments: one for a granddaughter (with my mom and me listed as joint tenants and my promise to give the granddaughter the funds when mom died, $20K), and one for a grandson (with my mom and sister listed as joint tenants and my sister's promise to give the grandson the funds when mom died, $20K). My mom died, and my sister kept the money for herself, denying her promise. So, I want to do the right thing, but I don't know whether to give my niece her entire $20K, or split the money with her brother, my nephew, and give them each $10K. I can think of nothing in scripture to guide me on this one. Any thoughts? Thank you so much.

Question: My uncle is an angry alcoholic who has left rehab. How do we stay safe from his bottles?

Posted: 30 May 2017 02:30 PM PDT

Question: My sister is a poisonous person to be around. How can I get my parents to see her wicked ways?

Posted: 30 May 2017 02:26 PM PDT

Question: My mother is bad to me. How do I detach from her emotional abuse when I see her on holidays?

Posted: 30 May 2017 02:26 PM PDT

I only see her on holidays where other family is there

Question: Why should your mother be declared mother of the year?

Posted: 30 May 2017 02:22 PM PDT

Question: HELP, Dad is an alcoholic, how do I get him to love me?

Posted: 30 May 2017 02:21 PM PDT

Question: My mom wont answer her phone,and she isn't in the house.. what do i do?

Posted: 30 May 2017 02:17 PM PDT

I know some people dont care, or think this is a dumb question, i looked everywhere all the doors were locked. my dad and brother said they haven't seen her. and she wont answer her phone.

Question: Is it wrong that I hate talking to my parents about my problems?

Posted: 30 May 2017 02:16 PM PDT

I'm going to try to keep this short. I rather talk to a suicide hotline or a stranger (who is understanding), than to talk to my parents about my problems. I have problems, like everyone else does. A few years ago, my parents kept asking me why I don't talk to them about my problems. I kept giving them BS answers. I feel like my parents won't be understanding. I am afraid of being judged by my parents. There are some things that my parents have done to piss me off. That's why I hate talking to them about my problems. I appreciate my parents. I love them. They're not bad people. They raised me my whole life. But I don't feel comfortable talking to my parents about my problems. What do you think? Any thoughts on my perspective?

Question: I don't know how to deal with this?

Posted: 30 May 2017 02:10 PM PDT

I miss my life. My life was so amazing when I was younger, I had all of my 3 siblings with me, my parents rarely argued, I had friends, everything was perfect. Now I'm only 14, and things have completely changed. I'm afraid I really can't handle it all. All of my siblings have moved out, I barely see any of them. My parents argue and fight a lot more often, and it emotionally affects me. I don't have many friends any more, I lost a lot in fifth grade because of a girl that shamed me and made me lose very close friends. Made me seem terrible, a true bully she was. I want my life back. I miss my brothers and sister terribly, I miss the feeling of never being alone. I feel so incredibly lonely all the time I just break down and cry. I miss being younger so much. I know I still am. But my life has turned for the worse, while my siblings are doing great. I can't help but envy them. I just don't know what to do anymore. This doesn't feel like the life I've always lived. I just want to be happy again.

Question: My baby sister hates me?

Posted: 30 May 2017 01:55 PM PDT

I'm her big sister, and I think she's 18 months by now. A few days ago she was all nice to me and if I asked her for a hug, she said "Yes!" or if I asked her for a kiss, she said "Yes!" and gave me what I wanted. It was adorable. I've never hit my baby sister, however I have squeezed her when she ticked me off. Not in a hard way, just in a way where I dig my nails into her skin (My nails are smooth, it's not that painful, I've had it done to me before) and she gets a shocked look and runs away. Only when she hits me I do this. My mother favorites her, and my father feeds her out of his own hand. I don't know why, starting a few days ago my sister has been mad at me. She talks to me in her childish babble and smiles at me, but if I get near her she backs away. If I corner her, she begins to cry or whine. My mother sees this and blames me. What do I do? I'd like to add that she also hits me constantly and loves to knock the glasses out of my face, while whining and screaming. She doesn't let me give her hugs or kisses anymore, either. I think my father may be turning her against me, as he has a burning hatred for me (Not in the way like "he didn't get me an iphone 7" I mean that when my mother was in the hospital with my sister after birth, all he fed me was bread. He avoids talking to me and yells at me any chance he gets.

Question: Why Would My Dad Say I am Crazy for wanting to do Youtube?

Posted: 30 May 2017 01:52 PM PDT

So I told my Dad I was thinking of doing fashion tips on Youtube he said people would think I am crazy. I said what people and why? He said just people they might think you think you are all that? My Dad is very loving and always has told me to strive for the best but he is also that safe conservative person always telling me just to have a J-O-B and save money and retire 30 years later thats all he wants me to do. But what he said made me feel like crap. What do you all think?

Question: Im 17 years i get an ssc from my dads death i gotten kicked out my moms on and off. she uses the check to pay the truck she has. needAnswers?

Posted: 30 May 2017 01:46 PM PDT

NEED HELP MY MOTHER IS MISTREATING ME

Question: My parents are really strict?

Posted: 30 May 2017 01:39 PM PDT

Bear with me .. So i am 23 years old and have a financially stable father and my mother is a stay home mom. my dad is very strict to the point that if you decide to make your own decision and it doesn't suit him he looks down on you. right now I'm living in a country that i a absolutely hate very much to study medicine ... i picked the major but not the country ... but my father is constantly telling me how proud he is of me but this place got em very depressed. some times i feel so alone and no one to express my feelings towards. i feel caged. i feel like i can't express my frustrations to my parents because they will be disappointed at me .. and sometimes i feel like I'm not doing enough. i really hate my life. i have already lost my relationship with a lot of people and have bad sleeping patterns.. no energy in the morning and distract myself with shows .. i can't even study properly .. i think i am depressed. but sometimes i feel like i am overacting . i honestly feel like even if i died i wouldn't mind ... this is no cry for help... i just need advice from someone.

Question: How can I be a better daughter?

Posted: 30 May 2017 01:34 PM PDT

20/female. So first off, I'm living with my parents instead of ever moving out because they admitted to me that they need me there. I'm ***NOT*** living off them AT ALL. I'm living there so I can help them at all times as they deal with a lot of stress and have high blood pressure. Plus with the anxiety I deal with, I'm ALWAYS overworrying about them and it causes me anxiety attacks pretty badly. I'm doing ALL the cleaning and yard work everyday so they can stress less. I'm going to start helping with paying their bills since they are ALWAYS stressing because they barely have the money to pay them. I just don't feel I'm good enough. I don't know, maybe it's my depression talking. But how can I be much better?

Question: How do you deal with people who "try" to one-up you ?

Posted: 30 May 2017 01:23 PM PDT

My life is going great right now and my husband and I are very fortunate to own a beautiful home by the ocean. However when people know you're living well, they begin to hate. I've always sensed that one of my cousins is really competitive and jealous towards me. She has made several comments that basically confirmed that she is jealous of me. Every time we talk, she is always so curious to know what I am studying and what I want to do and then she pulls something out of her a** and says she wants to do something better than what I'm doing to give herself an ego boost. For example- If i want to become a family doctor, she wants to become a surgeon. I've always gotten a weird vibe from her and she is constantly seeking attention from my family to fish for compliments. Every time I see her at a family event, she just can't stop talking about herself and Its kind of concerning because it just shows how insecure she really is. She still lives at home with her kid and she brags about things she doesn't have. I was just wondering what is the best way to deal with insecure people who "try" to one- up you ?

Question: Who gets the bigger room? Older sister or younger brother?

Posted: 30 May 2017 01:03 PM PDT

Im a 15 year old girl and my brother is 11. He s had the bigger room his entire life and I ve had the smallest bedroom in the house my whole life. He s really stubborn and hates change but I am SICK of having the small room when all of my friends have big rooms. I don t understand why the oldest child (ME) dosen t get the bigger room in this case. I ve been trying for YEARS to get him to switch with me and sometimes he ll agree, only to change his mind in a few hours. I try to tell him that I m in his room more than he is (he is never in his room.) and that I only want it for 3 years because that s when I ll leave for college. And he still wont agree. Someone please tell me I m not crazy. And please help!!!

Question: How to deal with teenage girl's attitude?

Posted: 30 May 2017 12:44 PM PDT

My daughter is 15 years old, and recently I found out that she lost the diamond earrings I let her wear. She actually took them from me, and when I noticed she said she needs to borrow them. I let her with a firm message that they are real diamonds that I got as a gift from her dad, so pls be careful. Yesterday I noticed she doesn't wear them anymore, and when asked she said she has no idea where they are. No remorse, no plans to even look for them, no apology. I told her to look for them, and she said "what's the point when I don't know where they are?". Yesterday she went swimming with revealing bikini showing half of her breasts, and when I told her to change she said "you're just jealous cuz you have no breasts". I am sick and tired of her attitude and have no idea what to do and how to punish her. Usually when I take her phone away for misbehaving, her attitude gets even nastier. I don't want to say I hate my own daughter, but I feel like I am getting there. Those two stories above are just small examples of what she has done. I have cried in front of her and told her how disappointed she made me, I have tried taking phones away, tried making her do chores, etc. Nothing seems to work. What should I do?

Question: Teenage girls would you do this?

Posted: 30 May 2017 12:42 PM PDT

I have to leave in a few minutes to go pick up my younger sister at her friends house. Since I am not going in anyplace I am going to drive in my bare feet and not bring my shoes.

Question: Should I tell my sister (42) to **** off for asking my son (14) to sleep in the same bed as her this past weekend?

Posted: 30 May 2017 12:24 PM PDT

Question: Brother keeps stealing?

Posted: 30 May 2017 12:09 PM PDT

I'm 17 years old, nearly 18, saving up to move out, he's 14 years old, he stole 2 phones, one from out neighbor, and another one from a friend, he steals food at night, and eats it all constantly, but recently he stole $20 out of $80 i had, and my parents threatened him with military school for it, but today i went in my "piggy" bank, which is just a animal cracker plastic bear i keep in my /parent's/ closet, and my parents lock the door, and they put cameras up, and they caught him, leaving the house, walking all the way to their bedroom door, climbing in, and stealing all but $3 out of my bank, and honestly, i hate him so much, and i dont know what to do anymore.

Question: My mom has started online dating and is putting herself and family at risk. I just don't know what to do!?

Posted: 30 May 2017 12:05 PM PDT

My dad passed away 4 yrs ago and my mom has started online dating. I support this, except she "meets" these guys and then opens up her whole life to them immediately. She has almost been scammed several times but doesn't learn. Recently she had her 1st date with a guy at her HOUSE and he spent the whole weekend. In doing some investigating (I used to be a Parole Agent) I found this guy has 10+ prior felonies (meth, trespassing, driving offenses, etc) and 5 open felonies for fraud and forgery. All of this was brought to her and she still continued with him because "he explained everything." This guy committed the felonies, ran off to Louisiana and had to be extradited back to our state! Of course, she cautiously believed his excuses. She finally broke it off and I tried to warn her that she needs to not have "1st" dates at her house and be more cautious in who she opens up to. She told me to stay out of her love life. Criminals can still ruin your life long after you've "broken up," which she doesn't understand. I'm worried for her safety and ours, as she adds these random guys to her facebook, thus exposing her family to this person. I have a 7 month old to worry about and I don't trust my mother anymore due to her dating choices. Nobody seems to understand and honestly, it's embarrassing. I'm at a complete loss.

Question: Should I attend my sister s wedding?

Posted: 30 May 2017 11:54 AM PDT

I am 58 and my sister will be 52. We haven't always been close mainly because of age, living quite a distance apart for years and because we're basically different in personality. My brother, sister and I were all adopted as infants because our parents couldn't have children. My sister is big into posting her entire life on Facebook and, at the time we were "friends" on FB, I noticed she was asking people back in our hometown if they knew certain people by name who happened to be members of her birth family. I sent her a private message saying that might not be appropriate until she was able to contact any birth family members privately. She said she didn't need my advice and eventually said I "her sister by paper only". That was 3 years ago. She has now invited me and my husband to her wedding. Because I am retired and winter in her neck of the woods, I was already going to be gone on the date of her wedding and wasn't planning on making arrangements to go to it. But now I will be in town. She has a good relationship with her birth family, which I do not begrudge her one iota and has had some of her birth family members over to her home while I was in the area, but has never invited me to meet them. I would like to go because there will be aunts and cousins there I haven't seen in awhile and she is marrying a decent guy, whom I happen to like. Words do hurt. I am on the fence about going to her wedding because she has never apologized for saying what she did.

Question: Should I defend my stepfather?

Posted: 30 May 2017 11:10 AM PDT

I was raised by my stepdad since I was 3. My mom passed away when I was 9 and I've lived with my stepdad (whom I call Dad) ever since. I'm now 15. My biological dad came back into my life (i.e. town) recently, but my late mom has petitioned for termination of his parental rights (and rightly so), and I've been adopted by my stepdad. So no chance I'll live with him. This guy really resents my dad (stepdad), and has bathmouthed him to everyone who wants to hear (mostly relatives). Should I right the wrong? Although people know that my stepdad is a better parent of the two, they did let my bio-dad talk badly about him. They didn't tell him to shut up. For example. my stepdad is not a cuddling type but he doesn't cuddle his own kids either (my kid brother and sister who are 9). Besides I'm a boy. But he always listens to me and helps me with my homeworks etc. despite being super busy. He taught us to play piano and we often play together for hours when he's home. He travels a lot bc of his job but we have a trusted nanny so it's not true that he's abandoning us. He's fun in his own way. Should I tell my bio-dad to shut up if I happen to be around when he talks BS like that, for example when I'm visiting my aunts?

Question: By law what is child abuse?

Posted: 30 May 2017 10:54 AM PDT

This is something's that's bothered me for a long time now. I have this step dad that I feel he takes thing to far in punishments but I see all over the internet that hitting is just a form of punishment. However, what about being picked up by hair? Woken up with two-three hours of sleep to scrub the house? Being hit with a belt 50 times for not cleaning my room, and if I move I get hit on the back of the knees? Standing in 100+ degree heat with my hands behind my back for hours for 'timeout'? Not being allowed to eat with the family and being forced to eat stale bread with a smear of peanut butter and water? My mom is finally getting a divorce and I can't help but look back and wonder if this is ok?

Question: How do I tell my mom That I want to live with my dad full time?

Posted: 30 May 2017 10:47 AM PDT

Question: How many kids are enough?

Posted: 30 May 2017 10:42 AM PDT

Question: Am I being emotionally abused?

Posted: 30 May 2017 10:28 AM PDT

Recently I've started to wonder if I am. My parents were both emotionally abused as children, so I know the possibility isn't far off. But I'm autistic and my sister has told me that I only see it like that because I take situations out of context. She's said at least once that my feelings aren't valid. I feel stressed and scared right now. My mom, especially, has belittled my accomplishments and claims I exaggerate my anxiety attacks to make me seem like the victim AND that my autism is "convenient." My dad keeps teasing me, even though he knows I don't like it and I've told him to stop doing it, but he claims it's his way of showing love to others and that I should be worried if he stops. He's also guilt-tripped me several times before. I dunno if I can fit everything they've done on here. But I'm not sure if I'm just taking things out of context/my autism makes my claim invalid because I'm so hypersensitive. But my family, especially my mom, makes me feel scared and stressed. Help?

Question: Girls: What would you do if your girlfriend pulled your bra up while you talk to your boyfriend?

Posted: 30 May 2017 10:25 AM PDT

Question: Is this abuse?

Posted: 30 May 2017 10:20 AM PDT

My dad calls me names like asshole, brat, loser, idiot, ****** etc. This has been going on since I was 10, I'm 16 now. It started with false accusations, like him accusing me of lying to him. Then he went a little of the deep end and thought I was spying on him. He gets upset over the littlest things, like if I forget to call him he blows up at me. Or if I make a joke he doesn't like he'll start screaming at me. So is this just him being mean or is it abuse thanks

Question: I m 18 years old a sophomore in college, I want to go natural with my hair. But my mother refuses to let me do so. What do I do?

Posted: 30 May 2017 10:10 AM PDT

My mother refuses to let me go natural with my hair, because she doesn t trust me to do anything on my own. For most of my life she s always undermined my decisions or in some way forced her opinions on me. I really need help what do i do?

Question: Macron, Trudeau, and Merkel are my presidents you can keep your disgusting Russian puppet and his caitlyn jenner-wannabe wife?

Posted: 30 May 2017 09:55 AM PDT

Question: Should I say something to my half sister who spends only half the amount on gifts that she spend on her full sisters?

Posted: 30 May 2017 09:36 AM PDT

I have three older half sisters and we have a good relationship. The eldest always seems to buy better gifts for birthdays and Christmas for the other two sisters. IT Seems that she spends twice as much. Does she spend half the amount on me because I'm only a half sister it has bothered me for some time but I think it's time I say something

Question: Recently, I have been a dick to my mom and just a few hours ago, I had a really bad argument with her.?

Posted: 30 May 2017 07:55 AM PDT

She said I wasnt myself and that I had changed. (Recently I had been having trouble with bullying) I said im fine and she asked if this was the truth. I dont know what caused it but I shouted at her real bad. A few minutes later, having ran to my room, I could hear her crying to herself. I dont know what to do ;(

Question: I want to get a phone! Do you think my parents will give me one?

Posted: 30 May 2017 07:52 AM PDT

Ok so I was on a walk with my family and my brother and my dad were getting me really mad. I decided to walk home and my mom called at me and said, "Don't let them ruin your night come walk with me". I then told her that I wasn't going to walk with those two losers, talking about my brother and my dad. (I wish I could go back and not say it UGH!!!) Anyways, my dad yells at me and says you were going to get an iPhone on the day of the national junior honor society ceremony(because I got excepted). I went home and started crying because all my friends have phones and I really wanted one. My mom then said when she got home stop crying don't you think if we thought about we are gonna think about it again. UGH!! Some of my friends think that they will just give it to me anyways, but I really wanna know. I wanna get an iPhone! Someone help me!

Question: Pearl Ledermen pls unblock me I'm crying irl really bad :"( 1 more chance?

Posted: 30 May 2017 07:49 AM PDT

I miss you so much!! Please!!! I promise I won't insult you again!!!!!

Question: I love my mom But She Has cancer Soon It will be her Birthday. So i Wonder what Should i give my mom for her birthday?

Posted: 30 May 2017 07:41 AM PDT

Question: Would YOU hate your Mother if She treated you this way!?

Posted: 30 May 2017 06:06 AM PDT

I am an intelligent, strong, and accomplished 33 year old woman and at 28 I suffered a massive stroke. I ve traveled the country on my own, graduated college and thrived with a well paid career in New York City. Except now, my Mom threatens me with some sort of punishment and a count of two if we get into an argument. Because, after this horrible incident happened to me I had to move in with Her. The downside is She pushes Her beliefs and how She thinks I should live on me. Oh, and She s always "right." I have pretty much grown to hate Her and fantasize about Her death, so I can finally be free!

Question: I just broke my phone screen !?

Posted: 30 May 2017 05:30 AM PDT

Should i tell my parents the truth..M very afraid as my dad bought me this phone just a week ago..M extremely scared 😢

Question: Should I give my overbearing Mother in law a second chance or shoud I confront her?

Posted: 30 May 2017 05:12 AM PDT

I have been married for 14 months and have known my mother in law for two years. My mil has always been overbearing with me and she witholds affection from me when angry with my husband. This past weekend was pretty much the last straw for me after our nephew's graduation. She called me the next day and complained about my husband saying he had rude behavior because he was aloof and anti-social toward her and his sister's family at the graduation. She went further to say he was unfriendly to my SIL's best friend by not greeting her as they don't like each other. My MIL went further to imply that he was rude to her when she asked if we were going to dinner with them after the graduation and he told her, "No, we are busy" , which was true. I saw my mil at church the following Sunday and she didn't say a word to me or hug me. Then we went over to her house for Memorial day as she had invited all the family for a barbecue. Again, no hug or hello and she was a royal ***** to me. She literally pushed me out of her way 3 times when she could have walked around me. She wouldn't include me in conversation and she critically asked me why I wasn't eating any meat at dinner. We stayed for another 30 minutes after dinner and when my SIL's family were leaving, we took that as our opportunity to go as well. MIL emphatically asked, "I thought you were going to swim in the pool!" I answered no, we changed our mind. We walked out and again, no hug or goodbye from her.

Question: My dad asks how much money I'm making?

Posted: 30 May 2017 04:53 AM PDT

I work a part-time job at a bar and get paid every fortnight and any time I get paid my dad always asks stuff like "How many hours did you do?" "How much you getting?" "Is it a big wage or a small one?" I'm nineteen and know that my money is none of his business, so what would be a polite way of saying that, because he's a nosy person I also live at home, it's not like I've moved out or anything

Question: I have question for smart people of both gender?

Posted: 30 May 2017 04:43 AM PDT

My Mom and Dad fight a lot. My Dad showed me nude photos of his Gf,Mom found out and now mad at me and dad. Mom then showed me nude photos of herself. I told dad that I like Mom photos better. Dad took my allowance away. what is my dad called in todays terms / and lets not leave mom out..what is she called. I think dad a misandrist. mom is just lonely. what about your answers?

Question: My niece copies everything I do, from childhood to now.?

Posted: 30 May 2017 04:13 AM PDT

Since we were younger my niece always gets the same things as me and more. We are close to the same age, but I'm a bit older. My sister has this some sort of competitiveness towards me. Just recently this triggered me. I shared what my dream job is and I didn't get "that's great, you'll be good at it". I got "oh Britney is great at that", and then shows the whole family her talent. It seems I can't even have goals in life without my sister wanting my niece to do the same or my niece herself always wanting to do the same. Why is that? I can't even say anything about myself without being compared to Britney.

Question: How should I deal with my dad?

Posted: 30 May 2017 03:21 AM PDT

My dad constantly yells at me and tells my mom and I that we're disappointments and that I'm not worth anything and all that crap and that I suck at school even though I've had all As and Bs except for one year. He used to be a heavy drinker when I was a kid and stuff but he hasn't been for a couple years and I just don't know how to deal with him. I try to be nice and love him but I don't feel any love towards him. All he is, is mean to my mom and me and I'm sick of it. What is am easier way to deal with this. Also, he keeps telling me that my boyfriend and I won't last and it's making me really depressed. Please help. Should I start taking depression medicine to cope or should I just avoid him

Question: Mother steals tax return then bites me for defending myself ? Help please I really would appreciate some advice any thought or comments?

Posted: 29 May 2017 11:11 PM PDT

.Im 20 still living at home for the moment .My mother recently stole my tax return from the mail cashed it and put it in her bank account .I found out about this and I was very very upset, she didn't tell me until I called the IRS .Shes saying oh I'm saving it and I said it's not your money you had no right to do that .then the following day she has the nerve to come ask me for my car insurance and phone money and I said I'm not giving you anything until you give me my money you stole .she then started to get physical . I got beat on a lot when I was a kid and I never fought back my family has witnessed first hand the beatings I use to get but this time I know I did nothing wrong I defended myself and I honestly lost it she bite me 3 times on the same arm it's all swollen and red and now she's telling me I have till my birthday to move out which is on June 14 . I'm really not a bad person I help her take care of my sisters clean the house and run what ever errands she needs but at the end of the day I'm always the bad person she makes everything sound like my fault .The day of that fight we had she said I hit her in breast and port .shes running around telling everyone that I hurt her and she was basically the victim and she's the one who started the whole thing ? I just don't know what to do anymore . I would never hit my mother the only thing I can only do is restrain her she's always playing the victim and I'm just so lost and feeling very defeated

Question: Why is my mom so overprotective?

Posted: 29 May 2017 10:22 PM PDT

When I was a toddler/grade schooler, my mom didn't let me have Barbie dolls or any other dolls that have an impossible body image. She said that it encouraged little 4 year old girls to think they need to look that way to be pretty. I'm a 15 year old from western Canada and my mom still won't allow Instagram or anything because there are teen girls who make provocative music videos and she doesn't like social media models either. She restricts me from attending lots of parties, but my 13 year old brother is allowed. Because my mom says he's a boy.

Question: I'm fed up with my sister.?

Posted: 29 May 2017 10:02 PM PDT

I try and try to love and support my sister as much as I can, but what she's doing is down right inexcusable and, in my eyes, morally wrong. She treats me and our mother like **** and spends most of her days talking to her friends and girlfriend than she does outside her room. She acts like a dick to almost everyone except those friends, and is spoiled as ****, to the point where she whines, begs, and brings up past events where she helped you when she can't have her way and even shuns you for not helping her. But what I just heard today was the absolute worst news I heard. She framed our former stepfather of touching her, and I know I don't like him enough to consider him a perfect match for my mother because of his views on women and his scitzofran tickets behavior (that's why she divorced him), but I KNOW for a fact that he would NEVER do anything like that to her or even me. She filed a report to the police, who said they will be going by his house tomorrow morning (at this time it is almost midnight). Now she is putting his and his six year old son's life at risk because of her stupid *** behavior. I can't even consider her a sister anymore, and if you knew me and how I acted, that is saying a LOT.

Question: My parents won't respect my privacy.?

Posted: 29 May 2017 09:59 PM PDT

They think I'm becoming social media famous as they won't stop checking my follower count and I feel like I have no privacy at all in my family. They read my messages yet I haven't done anything for them to not trust me. How do I get them to stop? Update: My parents don't have social media, they go into my phone without my permission and check all of my social media.

Question: Can a father keep the mother from taking her child with her if she leaves the father?

Posted: 29 May 2017 08:49 PM PDT

My son's father told me if I leave him our son stays with him he swears up and down that I can't take him with me our son is 2 months old.We live in cleveland Tennessee last time I checked the father can't stop the mother from taking the child with her.Does anyone know anything about this?

Question: A needy uncle wants me to give a certificate of employment to his son who has been unemployed for over one year. And that is not all.?

Posted: 29 May 2017 08:41 PM PDT

An uncle of mine has two college grad kids. Both without a job. I had offered the older kid a job, but informed that he picked a job closer home, just before the time that he was supposed to come on board in my company. The second time, about a year later, when I found that his daughter was doing nothing, as they could not afford further studies, I offered her to come an work for my small set up. History repeated, I was quite upset when I was told that they went with a bigger branded organization that offered many perks. I swore to myself, never to go down that road. Now a year later, after they ignored me and put me down, my uncle calls up to request for a certificate of employment as the his boy never had a job in the first place. While I am torn by the need to 'help' them out. I know it is ethically wrong and also they were pretty callous in their response to my offers. What do I tell this uncle o mine ?

Question: How to deal w/ toxic parents at 17?

Posted: 29 May 2017 08:37 PM PDT

They show a different personality to other people. To other people, they're the normal, outgoing type- always making them laugh; at home, however, they always somehow make me feel bad and like I'm not important. Maybe it's my emotional self that deeply analyzes what they say, but it's no doubt that they don't love me as they did before. They treat my little brother differently than how they treat me. If my brother asks a question, they respond to the point of a full conversation. If i were to ask a question, they'd reply a small answer and somehow tie it to a flaw I have. I cry in the bathroom almost every time they make me feel bad. One day it might go great, but sure enough the next isn't. I also hate it when my parents talk with their disappointed tone as though I'm some outcast.. It doesn't help that I already see myself as fat and have them bring me down. Recently they called me "special" just because I proposed an idea to meal prep my week in an effort to lose weight-- an idea I was excited to share. All it ended up with is a talk of how I always have crazy ideas. Lastly, any achievement I get they just ask why I wasn't the top one in a disappointing way. Sorry for the rant, what can I do if I can't leave? Idk about talking about this with them as they'd see it as an offense towards them. Breaking off ties may also not be an option as I'd probably need them if I'm going to college. Any coping tips? Or is this a "my parent's don't get me" cliche teen thing?

Question: I feel weird saying/ mom/dad and calling my parents that?

Posted: 29 May 2017 08:36 PM PDT

This started around 10 years ago when I was 7/8 years old. I stopped calling my parents mom and dad then. They sometimes ask why I don't call them anything. I feel bad that I don't. How would I start calling them that again if its been 10 years since I last did? Is anyone else like this?

Question: Parents don't act like parents?

Posted: 29 May 2017 08:25 PM PDT

I'm 15 and a female. My parents are late 50s-60 years old and they basically ignore me. They don't let me out, hang out with friends and my siblings are over 27 so they do their own things and live their lives. I'm alone all the time and whenever I try to talk to my parents they either ignore me or get mad at me. I feel like I'm wasting my life since I'm stuck at home all the time doing absolutely nothing. I tried watching Netflix or distract myself, but I'm tired of being alone in my room. I can't really hang out with anyone since I moved recently and not very close to anyone. My old friends life 2 hours away so I can't walk and my parents won't take me. I don't know what to do, I feel so alone. I don't feel like life is with living if I spend my time at home doing nothing. Any ideas of what I should do? I feel like a prisoner in my own home. My parents also since they're so old, don't understand my generation. They think if I go out with friends I would get kidnapped or killed. I have no nearby cousins or family members so I'm by my self. My parents don't want to take me to the movies or anywhere I want, just where they want. How can I fix this?

Question: How do I get my parents to let me do what I want as I am 35 and living on my own and they still direct me and become furious when I say no?

Posted: 29 May 2017 08:13 PM PDT

I know I can do as I want but my parents become furious when I don't do as they say. I am close to family members they resent and so I am in serious trouble with them if I see those relatives. I try to keep it a secret but my parents usually sense when I arrive late at a holiday or something why I am and they get mad (even times it is not because of the other relatives). Recently they contacted an aunt and told her all of my immediate family would be out of town on the date of a wedding of a cousin of mine. Well I was not away or going but I missed the wedding because my parents did this to keep me away as it was my Mom's "enemy brother's" daughter getting married. How do I get my folks to understand I am 35 and can do as I wish? They still give orders like I am 12. I live on my own and only see them once or twice a month but they direct me when it involves relationships and travel. My parents also flip out if I don't travel with them to Long Island for two weeks in the summer instead of other trips I would like to take. They are otherwise good and supportive parents but they have this control obsession. My sister has disabilities and so does not mind and my younger two siblings are early twenties and go along for the checks. I never ask for money, just want independence.

Question: I don't want a quinceañera what do I tell my parents?

Posted: 29 May 2017 07:56 PM PDT

Ok my birthday isn't till november but my parents (especially my mom) insist on me having one. I'm kind of a tomboy and never really liked the idea of me having one. I like parties and all but all the girls who've had one, all had one thing in common. "They all wanted one"..I've always wanted a dog and prefer that than a quince, but my parents say they don't have the money. How do they "not have money" for a dog, but have money for a quince that costs way more?..I've already said no at the way beginning but they keep saying that I'm going to have one and ignore me. What else can I try?

Question: How do I deal with a narcissistic sister?

Posted: 29 May 2017 07:45 PM PDT

Question: What's the best way to get over something sad and scary?

Posted: 29 May 2017 07:44 PM PDT

My dad is sick ( surffers from depreshon really bad) and last year it got bad! He went to jail bad! He has some tablets but hasn't taken them and now he has gotten sick again and punched 4 holes in my step mums house! Now I am scared and sad and worried and need some advice!

Question: Can you make a request when you call social services?

Posted: 29 May 2017 07:06 PM PDT

My cousin s son is being mistreated by him and his girlfriend. My mother and my aunt (cousin s mom, kid s grandma) were screaming at him about the way they treat him and the kid is only 9 months old so naturally he was terrified by all the screaming going on. I ll spare the details because it gets lengthy and quite extreme. Basically, my entire family is toxic. This isn t even close to the only fight that s gotten extreme, with several even getting physical. I hated my family growing up and only returned to the fold because this cousin and I were very close as children and I heard he was having a kid. But I adore this kid, and would do anything for him. Even if it means I ll never get to see him again. So I want to know, if I call social services on my cousin and his girlfriend can I request that he be removed from both families and go to someone else entirely? I ve met his girlfriend s family too and they re just as bad as mine. I would take the kid myself but I m single and currently in college barely making ends meet. If I take him he ll be leaving one toxic environment for one where he can t be taken care of properly. Is there anyway I can try to make sure he s given to somebody who deserves him and can provide for him? I know this is lengthy but I wanna make sure you understand why I feel it s necessary. Please spare no details or any information you may have.

Question: My mom hates my boyfriend now over one thing his father did ?

Posted: 29 May 2017 06:49 PM PDT

Im 20 and one night my mom was mad that my boyfriend took me back home so late. My boyfriend s dad had only met my mom once before and started yelling at my mom. However, it was night time and he didn t recognize my mother. So now my mom wants me to break up with my boyfriend over something he didn t even do. I don t see what the big deal is and she s super pissed off, and has told me to go off and live with him. I don t know what to do because i dont want to lose either of them.

Question: Feeling Depressed...?

Posted: 29 May 2017 06:37 PM PDT

So..I just graduated highschool. My grandparents came down for my graduation, spent 2 weeks here, and they leave tomorrow. Im feeling a bit upset, about them leaving. I also start my summer job tomorrow, I hate this job, im unhappy their, but dont have a choice since i work for my father. I also am sad about leaving for college. It s scary to think my days at home are numbered. Im going to be on my own, no family to support me...Im sad.