So we are both 16 and haven't had sex yet. My mom does manicures and pedicures and facials and stuff and has like a professional massage table and a bunch of oils and a smoke machine. I really want to give my boyfriend a sexy massage and a handjob and make him aroused. I was planning on being in my underwear and letting him touch me if he wants but not take anything off. How should I do this?

Im 15 and my gf is turning 16 on may 30th. I want to get her something but i guess im the stereotypical bf that has no idea what to get her. She isn't the usual girl who likes makeup, purses, jewelry, and stuff like that. She likes cute little things that will last her a long time. Any ideas on what i should get?

soo theres this boy that has been in my class and i never talked to him in class but i wanted to so bad but im awkward. so we recently did this project that lasted 3 weeks and it was just me and him so we obviously had to talk and it was so fun. i love talking to him hes so funny. We have a lot in common and we had the same humor so it was fun. but the project is over and so is school so im not gonna see him again but i really wanna message him but im really scared and i dont want him to think im like flirting or anything bc he has a gf and i dont know if i like him?? idk im confused with my feelings. But i just really wanna be friends with him but i dont know what to message him and what if he doesnt wanna talk to me? i wanted a reason to message him but idk what . my friends are just telling me to message him "hey" but i feel like thats weird idk help

I sat down next to a girl in class introduced my self shook her hand and made small talk. She then shared her book with me since i didn't have one. Then the whole time she seemed nervous and kept fixing her hair/dress & touching stuff like her bag etc.. Why was she doing that?

ok so, my boyfriend admitted one time that he had a thing for poop. I thought he was just being a gross boy; but today we were just having sex and we were really into it and he pulls out and goes "OH GOD CHELSEA I JUST WANT TO TAKE A DUMP ON YOU" and he starts trying to POOP ON MY BOOBS. Like he was squeezing really hard and really trying to **** on me. I was like "WHAT THE F*** JAKE" so i kicked him out of my dorm and threw his clothes outside. Now he is really upset, and I'm upset and i'm freaked out... and this is ruining my life :| what do i do

Idk where it is I can't find it. What should I do

And no, doing chores around your parents house does not count.

Over the past few months, I could tell that my crush likes me back, and she could tell i like her. We never actually said if we liked each other. Recently, my crush's friend asked my best friend if i liked my crush, and my best friend said no. What do i do so she continues to like me?

So I'm 15 and a guy and she is also 15. She has been a very close friend since forever and I've always had some feelings for her but I've been starting to notice her a lot more lately. I really want to ask her out because I just know I can make her really happy that she chose me but I don't want to ever lose her even if it means we just stay friends but I just know I'll never be able to shake me feelings for her. She's just sooooo cute and nice. I mean, I do think she likes me back. She's been wanting to hang out a lot and when we're watching a movie she lets me put my arm around her and we cuddle. Whenever I am feeling upset or pissed off she'll try and make me feel better by singing (her voice is so beautiful) or giving me a hug and she is just soooo cute and perfect and I don't know whether or not to ask her out. Hell I don't even know how to ask out a girl. I'll probably be awkward and mess everything up and make myself seem like a weirdo.

So, i'm in 8th grade, our school decided to do a formal on the 26th of May. Me and a lot of my friends decided that we were going. The only thing i'm really worrying about is if I should ask my crush to dance with me in the formal, the night of the dance, probably during the slow dance. Me and her haven't really talked since 6th grade. I like her very much. I doubt she has feelings for me, but should I ask her to slow dance with me out of no where?

I don't know what it is it's just she's really cute and I really want to masturbate to her face or have her give me a hj/bj and then blow my load all over her cute ******* face. It's not that I want to degrade her or anything it's just that her face is so ******* attractive and I want it soooo bad. So do I just ask her or what? And please serious answers only no trolls

On some days my crush seems to try his hardest to avoid me or just acts weird all together. But on other days he acts interested in me and jokes around with me or looks at me from time to time, making it seemingly obvious that he shows some type of interest in me. What is up with him? Does he like me or is he really not interested?

About a month ago, my boyfriend hit a car while he was backing up and left a dent in it. He did not tell them right away. A few days ago they asked him if he did it and he confessed. They said its fine and he doesnt have to contact his insurance, and he offered to pay for the damages. They said it would be $1,000. He wants me to put down 100-200 each paycheck to pay off his debt. I only get about 300 every two weeks and this would be 1-2/3 of my paycheck. And honestly I dont want to. I dont feel like its my responsibility, as its his car and in his name and I paid nothing for the car. I told him that I feel like its not my debt to pay and now hes mad at me saying that since we're together, I should help pay it. What do you guys think?

I've been seeing a boy I met at school for about a month and a half and things are getting serious pretty quickly. When we were at school we went out a lot and I met all of his friends there then after we got home I met his mom and best friend (but he introduced me to them as his friend). He talks about our future sometimes and accidentally called me his girlfriend while telling me a story in which his mom called me that. He's told me that he's never been the jealous type but seeing other guys approach me makes him jealous. We've talked about being sexually exclusive so I know he isn't sleeping with anyone else. Basically the big issue is I'm leaving on Wednesday to work in a different state for two months (until a week before move-in). He'll be back at school taking summer classes during that time and I know he'll have a lot of opportunities to hook up with/date more girls if he wants to. I'm going to see him one more time on Tuesday before I leave, and every time we've talked about me leaving he's gotten emotional and told me how much he'll miss me, etc. except one time (towards the beginning) that he mentioned how hard it would be to be apart for that long. I've never liked someone this much, even guys I've dated before, and I know he feels that chemistry too, but I'm really concerned about what this summer will bring since we won't see each other. Should I talk to him on Tuesday about it and make sure we're on the same page (and if yes how?) or go with the flow?

I'm 14, and he's 15. We've been together for 2 years, and I have been happy with him, until now. His best friend died, and ever since then he's been depressed, cutting himself, doing other bad things like smoking and drinking. I tell him to stop but he won't! I stopped hanging out with him for a few days, because most of the time I see him, he's either drunk or high. And when I saw him again, he threatened to kill himself if I left him. I'm afraid for him, and I do love him, but I think he needs to stop doing these things. How can I help him? Or should I just leave him?

I didn't know gardening is that weird of a hobby 😥 He laughs at me when I'm planting something or watering my plants 🌱 He callls me nature freak 😖 What should I do

My friend is one of those guys he is like the best looking guy in a room with almost anybody. He is tall , thin and athletic and he literaly has an extremely good looking face but never has any success with girls but everyone else in our group gets girls alot at parties but he never does which is weirs since he hosts most parties at his house

They love hurting guys they know nothing about in every conceivable way, and don't bother to get to know anything about us. This is why I don't want a girlfriend, because there's not even one nice young woman left on this world. -_- It makes me wonder why humanity isn't just all male, considering that we can't co-exist with the female population anymore. Then again we probably never successfully co-existed with them, history was probably written to deceive us into thinking otherwise. @Stewie Are you a troll? @Stewie Are you a liberal? @Stewie I'd prefer to be asexual, and I was going to entirely avoid romance altogether. @Stewie I am heterosexual, if that wasn't the case then my life would be a lot easier. @Stewie And are you a liberal? Don't be shy, you're not going to get flamed for being one. @Stewie How old are you? I haven't seen this kind of **** since I was in elementary school.

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I get upset everytime i show a picture of my girlfriend. I really hate it when people talk crap about others without even knowing the person.

were 16 and i was making out with this guy and he was fingering me and then after i went to go blow him and he was soft and then later that night when we were gonna **** but he was soft and then if we stopped for 1 minute to like switch or move he would get soft. why is this?

Recently, this guy and I have started talking for about two weeks. We both know we like each other, and I do know kind of a lot about him. We haven't hung out outside of school (but we were going to) so I was wondering (your guys' opinion) on how long we should be friends before we date or anything. ( we've both agreed to talk things slow since we're only sixteen and haven't ever been in love or anything.)

My bf and I dated for almost 6 years. We were engaged. We were arguing a lot then we broke up. He says he doesn t want to loose me and still has feelings for me, but that he needs to go have experiences. Another words, sleep with other people. I told him that I couldn t be his friend because I had a lot of feelings and that would break my heart. He says that I m his best friend, is in love with me and sees us being together in the possible future. That he wants to get his urges out of the way. I cut him out of my life. Why does he say that but want to sleep with other people? He called me crying that he was scared that he was going to regret it. Why?

We are the same age (23) and she's my uncles step kid, I'm very disappointed in myself already but I really can't help the thoughts in my head when I see her

This guy has a girlfriend, but he blatantly stares at me and checks me out for very long periods of time. He's even looked down my shirt right in front of my face. It's like he doesn't care that I notice. I didn't know he had a girlfriend at first so I was acting a little flirty and he reciprocated at first but then started to act weird around me. Whenever I try to even just be friendly toward him he freezes and won't talk to me...

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Is it common for women to falsely accuse guys of sexually assaulting or harassing them, or doing something else to get them in legal trouble? @Karen http://www.mlive.com/news/jackson/index.ssf/2016/08/woman_sentenced_to_100_days_in.html Want me to debunk your lies even further?

I'm a 16 year old guy and I just got a girlfriend who is also 16. We were friends for awhile and decided to go out recently. Anyway, my older sister (20) is always really standoffish and sometimes outright rude to my new gf. I don't understand why, my gf is very nice and tries not to offend anyone. My sister is usually pretty friendly and nice, too. I tried talking to her about it and she acted like she had no idea what I was talking about.

Hes 41& Im 26 -Imet him a few yrs ago &we're not quite friends but more than acquaintances. I had feelings for him for a while but then found out he has a live-in GF of 8 yrs! We have a couple mutual friends, who I feel like are hinting to me that he likes me -one always asks me "have u seen (guy)?" or says hey "(guy) was just talking about u -he says u got the fellowship!" &the other once said "(guy) REALLY likes you" Every time I see him, we hug each other, the convo flows really easily. Hes asked me if Im seeing anyone &what my approach to dating is, &also our mutual friends have told me he asked them about me. Idk I just get the vibe that he likes me too but then I doubt myself bc of the gf situation I moved across the country for grad school 2 years ago,& since then, every yr he fb messages me to say happy bday, asks me how Ive been, tells me something about himself, &then we have a convo for a few hrs, even tho he can clearly see that hundreds of other ppl wrote on my wall instead of PMing me. For everyone else (that I kno of) he writes on their walls for their bday -he only PMs me. Does it mean anything if a guy PMs u on fb for ur bday instead of writing on your wall like everyone else? I still have feelings for him, but I live across the country,& I also dont want to do anything while he has a gf - basically i dont want to break them up, but i would date him if he were single what do you think all this means? Does he like me, & if so, how come he hasnt made a move?

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I'm 22 he's 23 he works for NBA and I just get concerned at how tired he alaways is.I have a boyfriend that I've been with for almost 4 years that just recently got a job which requires a lot of traveling. I would say we are in a very serious relationship, however, on these trips he's constantly going out to bars and clubs with people I have no idea who they are. I do trust him, but I find myself not being able to sleep at night wondering where he is, or who he's with, or hoping he doesn't get completely smashed and cheat on me.

maybe a kiss on the cheek? lol. im a guy shes a girl

I mean , what is this all about ? Will someone explain?

Is it worth taking the risk of ******* up your life for good? @Dave I'm asking this because I am concerned about the risks, such as the girl trying to get you sent to prison.

I really need to move on from this guy. We work together, he lives states away so we barely see each other and when we do he doesn't open up to me, and.....he's taken. Before i found out he was taken I thought he was interested in me because he stares at me and checks me out a lot. I thought he was really attracted to me so I was really confused when I found out he's in a relationship. I'm having a hard time moving on. I'm really attracted to him and always catch him checking me out the few times we see each other

Is it because I get so drunk every day that I fall down the stairs?

So I have a 13 year old sister who has a 16 year old boyfriend on the internet. Now at 6am, she likes to get in calls with him. I have been woken up by these calls several times. The things I hear disgusts me. Well first of all, she and her boyfriend are masturbating together. I don t look, but I hear the sounds of her fingering herself and it disgusts me. She also talks about "getting so wet when she s fingering herself". She says things like "would daddy tie my hands up so I wouldn t touch myself?" I can usually hear her moaning too. She also plans to meet up with him in two years so she and him can have sex. The other things she does, I don t know of, nor do I want to. I have even told her that I heard all of this and she denies it, saying I m just tired. I don t want to tell our mother because it would feel too awkward. When I found out she was e-dating this guy, I was like "okay cool ig" but now it s too far. Could I get any advice?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for quite a long time now and it seems like every time he has a problem, I can t help him with it. I try to calm him down and tell him it s okay but he just cries and tells me that I don t understand. If I suggest something to solve it, he just gets more upset thinking about it. I don t know how to help him. So please someone help me!

So there is this girl im really liking, we've talked about college, movies, hobbies, music etc basically a lot of stuff, and now I dont even know what to tell her, sometimes we talk about our day and she takes times to reply and I get it sounds kinda boring, nothing new to the conversation. So how do I keep it running and not make it sound lame/boring? What other stuff should we talk about? If its of any interest we've talkes and met a few times already so we're not acquaintance

told my ex bf I still loved him I thought I would never hear from him and then a few weeks later he said he tried to stop talking to me but finds me irresistible what does this mean?

She lied to me, used me for money. She offered to do anal for taco bell. She was terrible but I still fell for her because I wanted to help her and she claimed to want that to. She didn't, she just used me and left me. She lied to me so many times but I always forgave her, she fed off making me angry and would try to do it all the time. She was crazy and made me into a monster, I became controlling because I didn't know what else to do. I feel empty but I can't take her back, how do I move on?

So this is what's been going on 1. 6 months ago my girlfriend broke up with me for an f-ed up reason. Like a week later a girl in one of my college classes came up to me and was like "we should study together." She's way smarter than me and didn't even need my help. So we studied together a few times and it seemed like she liked me. She would touch my arm all the time and she started dressing better than usual and looked super hot. I was still traumatized from my last relationship, so I didn't ask her out right away. 2. A couple weeks after we started hanging out, she randomly started talking about going on tinder dates all the time. She showed me some guy she went out with and said he was hot. then she told me that i should get on tinder so I thought I got friendzoned. 3. I saw her all the time at school and she would touch my shoulder and arm and whatnot and she was all like "you're so handsome." I went out with her and a couple of her friends a few times and she always talked about going on tinder dates. 4. a while later I asked her out for coffee. She was like "i can't do it today but save the date because my roommate is going on a tinder date and we have to go watch her and make sure she's ok. So I went to the restaurant and i didn't see her or her roommate. i texted her. she texted back 3 hours later and was like "sorry. change of plans." i never got an explanation about why she didn't show up 5. A month ago she said to me "we should go out sometime. Not this week because I'm busy, but sometime soon." A week later I asked her out to this new restaurant. I said "what day is good for you?" she was like "Probably Friday. I'll let you know." On Thursday I texted her "are we going there tomorrow?" she texted back "I'll let you know. I have to check my schedule." I didn't hear back from her and then I didn't see her for a week and she acted like nothing happened 6. We're from different states, so we're probably not going to see each other over the summer and a couple days ago she saw me in the library. She gave me a hug and almost started to cry and was like "I look forward to seeing you. I'm going to miss you." Then she invited me to go eat with her and her friend. I went and she started talking about a tinder date she was going to go on that night. i feel like she's f-ing with me. i probably won't see her this summer so should i GHOST her?

I did something to break trust with my greatest female friend. She says I have to rebuild it at her own pace. Last weekend, we hung out with some mutual friends and things went pretty good. But towards the end of the weekend, we got into another argument, but we talked it out...We've been kind of distant during the past week, but we had another talk and she said that all she needs is a little bit of time. So I didn't talk to her Thursday (except for seeing her in the break room at work), but Friday she messaged me saying "Hope you had a good day!" And she even proposed to hangout this weekend. I want to text her today and say something like "Hope you had a good weekend! If you need anything this week, don't hesitate to ask." (because she's working a different shift this week and I probably won't see her). Good idea or should I just let her reach out to me?

Hi, I'm a 14 y.o. boy and I have a crush on this girl. I don't have the confidence to ask her out because she is out of my league, and I can't stop thinking about her. What do I do?

Like do I just randomly say it or brig something up before telling them how and what should I come out and say it ??

Recently my ex and I reconnected. We just had an amazing weekend together. We spent lots of quality time together, had some great discussions, and intimacy. It was so refreshing and really new considering some of the hard times we had in the past. What is strange is that she kept saying how we should be friends but then would do and say things that she knows teases me. She even did a boudoir shoot the other day and came over right after and told me all about it. But then she would reiterate how we just need to be friends even though she spent the nights and we did have sex (even when she said she wouldn't, she initiated as I tried to be respectful). We told each other we loved each other and kissed many times. She also started planning events for us to go to, we talked about what i would have been like had she moved in, she even wants to plan my next birthday party. But yet she says it's best we are friends. She then sends me one of her boudoir photos and when I comment on how sexy she looks she tells me she was sorry for sending mixed messages and we should just be friends. I don't get it. Is she trying to get back together and make me work for it? Is she looking for a confidence boost. When we got back together in the past she was more of the initiator and that bothered her. Maybe she wants me to pursue her? Can you help me decode this? Does she want me back? I love her but am a bit confused? Is this a power play on her part and if so how do I handle it?

Ok so I'm 14 and I've been talking to this guy online for a long time but my parents don't know that I talk to people I've never met (we've facetimed and he's real and stuff so don't say I shouldn't be talking to strangers). Anyways, he wants to hang out this weekend and my friends are out of town so I don't have an excuse as to where I'm going when I hang out with him. He lives kind of far away and I don't have a debit card for uber and my parents won't drive me there and I don't have a valid excuse for where I'm going... especially if it's like 10 pm. Help! What should I do!! I need a good plan!