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- Question: How to deal with having no friends?
- Question: If there is sum1 u associate w/ daily that u have as a friend on social media but they stopped liking ur posts, are yall really friends?
- Question: My bi*chy friends keep ditching me what should I do??? Should I get them back??? Or just deal with it??
- Question: Can social media really determine a level of friendships?
- Question: I made friends with my verbally abusive ex?
- Question: Friendships gone bad?
- Question: Why do I only have one friend?
- Question: How to stop thinking about someone?
- Question: Venting-feelings?
- Question: HE SAID YOU CARE ABOUT YOURSELF NOT ME AND I TOLD HIM I NOT THAT KIND OF PERSON?
- Question: Is it completely embarrassing to text "hey" twice in a row?
- Question: Is my pen pal fake?
- Question: How do you think I can get out of this?
- Question: I have friends but no one wants to hang out with me. What should i do?
- Question: I have these 2 best friends and next year there are these two new girls coming that are doing cheer with them. how can I not be left out?
- Question: I have 2 friends who, when they get mad, don't show it, but if you throw them over edge, they freak out.?
- Question: How do I deal with feeling guilty when someone gives me money?
- Question: Do I need to treat people better in the future or don't listen to my ex-friend that is jealous?
- Question: My friend does porn to make money how should I look at him?
- Question: How do you get over a fear of posting to social media?
- Question: My cousin acts weird ? Does she like me ?
- Question: Need help with best friend drama!?
- Question: Why aren't we friends?
- Question: Is it completely embarrassing to text "hey" twice in a row?
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- Question: Is it weird to DM your Ex friend ??
- Question: How do I handle this problem with an ex classmate?
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- Question: If your best friend told you they liked you but you didn t like them back, do you think you could still have a normal friendship?
- Question: I want more friends but my success turns them off. How can I get a better match as a friend? I am shy and backstabbed in the past.?
- Question: Please help me, i'm scared 'n suicidal...?
- Question: We often don't choose our friends?
- Question: I kissed a female friend?
- Question: How to make fun of someone who is weird and has no friends?
- Question: PLEAS HELP ME, I HAVE NOONE TO TALK TO?
- Question: I need help with my relationship PLEASE IM GOING CRAZY. I HAVE NOONE TO TALK TO?
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| Question: How to deal with having no friends? Posted: 28 May 2017 05:47 PM PDT I live in a small town with a very small school. There are 30 kids in my class. My only friends live 10 hours away (they moved last year) and the good kids at my school don't like me, while the ones that want me to hang out are the party crowd. I'm against drinking in excess, smoking weed, ect. Because of this I've had to stop hanging out with everyone pretty much and the good kids at my school are all rich and that's what they have in common with the exclusion of me. Then, on top of that, all of the girls at my school are fake as **** and pieces of ****. I also tend to get picked on quite a bit which will hopefully change this year, being my senior year. Literally the only people that like me and i like them are the people in my church youth group and there's like 5 of us. I don't even get along with my family that well. I've got one more year of high school and I'm out this ***** but I just feel really down. I really just need some advice and/or encouragement. Any help? I'm just not happy at all. |
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| Posted: 28 May 2017 04:45 PM PDT Ive had depression for almost a year now (my parents don't let me get help because they think its a waste of money) and staying at home makes me sadder. I feel like my house triggers me and the second i step in my house i feel sad. I think it might be because I'm lonely all the time. So i have pretty sh*tty friends and they always hang out together and don't tell me, and half of them drink/smoke/do drugs and i don't want to be like them. But i have main two best friends Mary and Allison. Mary is really nice and we hang out outside school (she ditches me sometimes or goes places with our friends without telling me) For example, last week i was hanging out w her and one of our friends Laura comes next to us and she leaves with laura to go to the mall and doesnt even invite me. I feel like allison is worse tho. we've never hung out outside school and she ditches me ALL THE TIME and doesnt even give me a reason. Last week we were gonna go 2 the mall and I'm ready so i snap her. on her story i see she's at her friends house. I'm not mad i didnt come with them (idk her other friend) but she was so rude about it and didn't even try to give me an explanation. She was just like "Oh I didn't wanna hang out with you." I stopped hanging out with her cause she's such a bi*ch. But now I don't really have any good friends i can hang out with and i feel so sad looking at my friend having a good time on social media. what can i do to feel better? |
| Question: Can social media really determine a level of friendships? Posted: 28 May 2017 04:40 PM PDT |
| Question: I made friends with my verbally abusive ex? Posted: 28 May 2017 04:34 PM PDT I hate conflict & having bad blood with people, so I talked to my verbally abusive ex and made friends with him. All my friends are mad at me for talking to him again, but I just don't want to have problems with anyone. Is that so bad? Should I have just left it alone? |
| Question: Friendships gone bad? Posted: 28 May 2017 04:20 PM PDT please share for inspiration stories of friendships gone bad. |
| Question: Why do I only have one friend? Posted: 28 May 2017 04:09 PM PDT I moved classes because I was being bullied and I made a friend in my new class. I am very dependent on that friend and although I do have other friends and everyone is nice to me I just feel useless when my friend is off school. She is moving soon and I don't know what t do. I just find myself eating by myself and just walking around school by myself at lunch when she is not in. |
| Question: How to stop thinking about someone? Posted: 28 May 2017 04:06 PM PDT I used to like this guy 2 years ago but after he started ignoring me and I met someone else I stopped. Me and him used to be close to the point we'd say goodmorning and even text a lot but when he suddenly started ignoring me, even after we made up (he did it for a stupid reason) it never went back to how it was. He started texting every few days or weeks meaning I wasn't one of his priority friends anymore. This year however I told him we weren't friends anymore since he never treated me like one, so as of now we don't talk. I went 5 months without talking to him before telling him to stop greeting me and now it's been 2 months since then. But I always find myself looking at his instagram even when I wasn't talking to him or even finding his figure in school. I'm thinking it's probably because I miss talking to him since he was my first friend in that school and I have no idea why he stopped talking to me often. If anything I just want to not think about him at all since he never cared about me after the whole ordeal. I've already told him my feelings and cut contact, i'm also a year above so I don't know how else to stop especially since this is not a romantic love so I can't just go and get myself ''rejected''. |
| Posted: 28 May 2017 03:49 PM PDT I used to be the glue of all my friends and I held everyone together, I had parties and sleepovers. But I guess eventually glue decays and things get pealed off, and then those things find new places for themselves, new, fresh glue. And then the old glue is all alone, and it no longer has a job or a purpose |
| Question: HE SAID YOU CARE ABOUT YOURSELF NOT ME AND I TOLD HIM I NOT THAT KIND OF PERSON? Posted: 28 May 2017 03:48 PM PDT |
| Question: Is it completely embarrassing to text "hey" twice in a row? Posted: 28 May 2017 03:36 PM PDT there's a guy that i've liked for a long time that i finally started texting a few weeks ago. I don't really get "crushes" or like guys without them showing interest first, so this is rare for me it's a long story but basically he can't text all the time- he has a phone that sometimes doesn't get messages until days later. anyway, he was going to sleep the other night and i asked if i could text him later. (which i guess might be an embarrassing question but I just wanted a straight up answer. he's a pretty straightforward guy also, he's kind of awkward, so that's why I didn't feel weird about asking this). He said that I could text him later. So I texted him hey what's up a couple of days later and he never responded. I figure he could've been busy (he works a lot), forgot about it, didn't get the message, etc. or maybe he just told me I could text him later to avoid being rude (although ghosting after saying that is more rude IMO) anyway, I was just gonna try one last time. say something like hey haven't heard from you in a while lol how's you're summer going? Or something to that effect. I realize that I would be the one doing the chasing, but he's not the type of guy that would ever make the first move anyway and I'm willing to go out on a limb for this. should I try again? Or would that remove all of my remaining dignity? I don't have a whole lot to lose, but I don't want to come off as obsessive or stalkerish. thoughts? |
| Posted: 28 May 2017 03:34 PM PDT I really hope he isn't fake, I enjoy corresponding with him too much. We've been talking for about a month, now, and we get along really, really well. It was bi-weekly emails at first, but now we're texting over message app and often spam each other with memes or talk late into the night. He lives in Europe (verified), but we've managed to figure out a chatting schedule that works well for both of us despite the time zone differences. I really, really want him to be real, but a little piece of me is worried that he isn't. His life is suspiciously exciting. He tells me all sorts of stories about his daily life and relationships that are incredibly profound, exciting, and would make for a good movie plot. He's always doing something, going somewhere, and there always seems to be some drama going on in his life. This worries me, he just seems too interesting. He's also too perfect. He's the perfect friend. We don't really share the same interests or experiences, but we share similar opinions, levels of intellect, and can have some really productive conversations. He seems to totally understand me, and that's scary. I've heard too many horror stories about teen girls like me being groomed into going to Europe to visit a "friend" and getting kidnapped. The one luring all these girls away always appears to be exciting and perfect at first, right? What if my pen pal isn't real, and he's just manipulating me? I hope he isn't. |
| Question: How do you think I can get out of this? Posted: 28 May 2017 03:15 PM PDT So I'm in 8th grade and its the end of the year, so my friend group has all been pulling pranks on each other but last week on Monday I pants my friend and then on Friday I did it again but I failed. Anyway, as a joke he goes and snitches on me (trust me it was a joke he does this kind of thing a lot). Well, I got in a lot of trouble before so the principle takes it very seriously and suspends me for the rest of the day and takes away my end of the year field trip. So I have to meet him again on Tuesday (because Mondays a holiday) and I was wondering if there is anything I can do or say to get my field trip back. Also, my friend who I pants and my other friends will probably do stuff for me to help me get how this ****. So what can I do? |
| Question: I have friends but no one wants to hang out with me. What should i do? Posted: 28 May 2017 03:13 PM PDT Ive had depression for almost a year now (my parents don't let me get help because they think its a waste of money) and staying at home makes me sadder. I feel like my house triggers me and the second i step in my house i feel sad. I think it might be because I'm lonely all the time. So i have pretty sh*tty friends and they always hang out together and don't tell me, and half of them drink/smoke/do drugs and i don't want to be like them. But i have main two best friends Mary and Allison. Mary is really nice and we hang out outside school (she ditches me sometimes or goes places with our friends without telling me) For example, last week i was hanging out w her and one of our friends Laura comes next to us and she leaves with laura to go to the mall and doesnt even invite me. I feel like allison is worse tho. we've never hung out outside school and she ditches me ALL THE TIME and doesnt even give me a reason. Last week we were gonna go 2 the mall and I'm ready so i snap her. on her story i see she's at her friends house. I'm not mad i didnt come with them (idk her other friend) but she was so rude about it and didn't even try to give me an explanation. She was just like "Oh I didn't wanna hang out with you." I stopped hanging out with her cause she's such a bi*ch. But now I don't really have any good friends i can hang out with and i feel so sad looking at my friend having a good time on social media. what can i do to feel better? |
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| Posted: 28 May 2017 03:04 PM PDT Is this bad? Should I be concerned? |
| Question: How do I deal with feeling guilty when someone gives me money? Posted: 28 May 2017 02:55 PM PDT I'm poor - I'm long-term unemployed due to disability - I've been struggling lately and two friends have given me a little money, one gave me $30 and the other gave me two $10 in the space of about two weeks. It's not much but it is to me, it can buy food, but it's also unlikely I could pay it back any time soon...if at all. It's worse again because I'm not a great friend, it's not like I'm a horrible person but I'm autistic and suffering depression so can barely even talk to other people right now let alone maintain a friendship or be there for someone. So I can't pay them back with money, one lives in another country so it's not like I can do any favors for them, I've nothing of worth to give them, and I can't really pay them back through friendship. It's not in my culture to accept from others without paying it back as soon as possible, I don't know how I'm supposed to react, and I feel like such a drain on others having to rely on them for help to get by like this. I worry when they hear me talking about money worries they think I might be fishing (I'm not!!), if they see me with something nice I worry they'll think I'm not as bad off as I say I am, or you know what social media is like where a photo on Instagram can make it look like you're living the high life even if you're not. |
| Posted: 28 May 2017 02:50 PM PDT My ex-friend is bossing me around that she's so prefect and saying that I need to treat people better which I always but she's the one who have hurt me and took my power away and plus, don't understand that I've been doing everything in the house babysitting my nephew,cleaning up the house,looking for a job,taking of my grandmother that has demenita but she decides to cut ties with me because she doesn't understand that she hurt me so much and won't admit is it because of my attitude or that am I hateful person or just in stress I don't like her and her attitude issues towards me I think that some of her friends doesn't like her either. |
| Question: My friend does porn to make money how should I look at him? Posted: 28 May 2017 02:41 PM PDT I seen my friend doing a porno, I seen his penis and balls and *** . When I have him in class next year I don't know how I'm going to be able to look at him. Should I tell him about it that I seen him on chaturbate or should I mind my own business? |
| Question: How do you get over a fear of posting to social media? Posted: 28 May 2017 02:11 PM PDT I am shy and usually shun the spotlight, so broadcasting a post to a large group of people all at once intimidates me. Part of me thinks, though, that if someone dislikes my post enough to unfriend me, or the like, they weren't someone worth keeping around on my friend list anyway. How do I get over this fear? |
| Question: My cousin acts weird ? Does she like me ? Posted: 28 May 2017 01:50 PM PDT She's my 4th cousin. I see her only once a year. Today, she was very flirty and touched my leg with her leg, hugged me 7 times for no reason. She also kissed me on the cheek twice and always teases me(jokingly) I was lying on the couch 2 hours earlier. She lied ontop of me and hugged me...She's going to be here for a week and she never acted like this before. Does she actually like me ? I only consider her very pretty... I' m not trolling... We're 14, but I'm a little older than her(7 months) |
| Question: Need help with best friend drama!? Posted: 28 May 2017 01:48 PM PDT So my best friend and I recently had a falling out. She got upset at me because I told her that she looked a little too eager to be in a relationship. She was going on dates practically every week with different guys, which I didn't care about, but she would always think that each guy is "the one" and when it turned out they weren't she would be heartbroken. I simply told her maybe she should take a break from dating because she looks a little too eager. We stopped talking for a couple of months because she didn't like what I had to say to her. Fast forward to now, she sent me a text not too long ago apologizing for getting mad and it seemed super genuine. But I recently had lunch with a couple of mutual friends that told me they are no longer friends with my best friend because she slept with one of their boyfriends. They apparently had a huge falling out and they claim that this is the only reason why she reached out to me (because she has no other friends). I feel pretty hurt and confused by this. This isn't the first time she has gotten mad, not talked to me, and then randomly come back. I'm not sure how to handle this. |
| Question: Why aren't we friends? Posted: 28 May 2017 01:47 PM PDT |
| Question: Is it completely embarrassing to text "hey" twice in a row? Posted: 28 May 2017 01:15 PM PDT there's a guy that i've liked for a long time that i finally started texting a few weeks ago. I don't really get "crushes" or like guys without them showing interest first, so this is rare for me it's a long story but basically he can't text all the time- he has a phone that sometimes doesn't get messages until days later. anyway, he was going to sleep the other night and i asked if i could text him later. (which i guess might be an embarrassing question but I just wanted a straight up answer. he's a pretty straightforward guy also, he's kind of awkward, so that's why I didn't feel weird about asking this). He said that I could text him later. So I texted him hey what's up a couple of days later and he never responded. I figure he could've been busy (he works a lot), forgot about it, didn't get the message, etc. or maybe he just told me I could text him later to avoid being rude (although ghosting after saying that is more rude IMO) anyway, I was just gonna try one last time. say something like hey haven't heard from you in a while lol how's you're summer going? Or something to that effect. I realize that I would be the one doing the chasing, but he's not the type of guy that would ever make the first move anyway and I'm willing to go out on a limb for this. should I try again? Or would that remove all of my remaining dignity? I don't have a whole lot to lose, but I don't want to come off as obsessive or stalkerish. thoughts? |
| Posted: 28 May 2017 01:08 PM PDT I asked this guy if he wanted to hang out when he gets back from a trip and he said "we'll have to see" to which I responded "What do you mean we'll have to see"? And he said "I'd like to, but I don't want to make promises I might not be able to keep". So then I asked "so I won't get to see you until school starts in August"? To which he responded "no promises". What does this mean? |
| Question: Can you charge someone for sending Nude photos without evidence? Posted: 28 May 2017 01:02 PM PDT My old friend sent nudes to people at our school, and this is why we are not friends with her we do not associate with people who participate in these acts. she would always tell us about these things she has done and showed me multiple of the nude pictures she has received. She has provoked me and my friends multiple times and asked why we are mad at her and we have given her the same answer. She has now said that everything we have said about her is a lie and has gone as far as saying we are bullying her with these "lies" she tells this to everyone at our school and we have decided it is best to go to our school admin for help, our only problem is we have no physical proof however we have multiple witnesses, anything would help just need some advice on the situation. |
| Question: Is it weird to DM your Ex friend ?? Posted: 28 May 2017 12:53 PM PDT so there's a girl and we used to be bestfriends for a couple of months. I'm a pretty shy person so i don't have many friends but most of them are fake. She's the only friend i've had that was freaking amazing but there was a girl who was jealous, she spreaded rumors, drama happened and we ended up not being friends anymore. My ex friend hated me for a couple months but she got over it i think. In october i went out with some friends and she was there and we said things to each other here and there. Recently she followed me on instagram. I really wanna message her and have a friendship again but it's risky. I don't wanna seem like a creep. Should i just do it ? Also i'm an anxious overthinker so that's why i'm asking this question. |
| Question: How do I handle this problem with an ex classmate? Posted: 28 May 2017 12:44 PM PDT I went to my class reunion and a classmate Judy was there. Judy was the person that tutored me in high school. Without her help I would have NEVER passed math and if I didn't pass math, I didn't graduate. I went on to a successful career after college. I told Judy I was VERY grateful for her tutoring help in high school and I wanted to show her how much I appreciated it. I invited her and her husband to join me for dinner at Ruth Chris. She told me her husband would not let her go on a date with a guy. I though how could it be a date if he was with her. I thought her husband must be a nut job so I forgot about it. A few months later Judy called and asked it the dinner invitation was still good? I said sure. She told me she had divorced her control freak jerk of a husband and wanted to do something that was fun for her for a change. After dinner she told me that was the most fun she had had in years and asked if we could do it again. I am sorry she has been treated so badly by her ex husband but I am not interested in a serious relation with her. Should I tell her up front that I am not interested in a serious relationship but I would be happy to take her on a FEW just for fun dates? Gals, please give me your advice. I don't want to hurt her or make her feel bad in any way. She has had enough problems in her past life and I don't want to add to her problems. |
| Question: Did they take it too far? Or did I take it too seriously? Posted: 28 May 2017 12:18 PM PDT So yesterday was the first day our community pool opened. Me and my friend went and we meet some of our guy friends there. Well first they were all making fun of me for everything. It hurts a little since they are all sporty and I suck at sports, but I let it go. Then, this guy took my hat. That was funny! I chased him for it, we laughed, he did this a few times. That was fine with me. Well then he took my phone. He said he cracked it (he didn t) and he got his friends on it. I told him that s not funny and I ignored him. Then he took my hat again, this time passing to his friends, and I was already pissed off at this point. So he and his friends took my hat to the guys bathroom, and they said the dropped it in the toilet. They brought it out and it was wet with a paper towel on it. They said they didn t and they put water on it, but I still don t want the hat. Anyway, I was PISSED and I left. I m avoiding three pool now, and idk what to do. So who Was on the wrong? Please be honest. I m embarrassed and I need to know. |
| Posted: 28 May 2017 12:08 PM PDT let s say your best friend confessed that they liked you, but you didn t feel the same way (assuming that your best friend is the gender that you are attracted to cos i dont assume sexuality) 1. Would you still try to be best friends with them? 2. Do you think your friendship could be the same as it was before 3. Would you just flat out tell them you don t like them back? or would you try to not hurt them since they are your besst friend |
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| Question: Please help me, i'm scared 'n suicidal...? Posted: 28 May 2017 11:33 AM PDT i'm 15years old, I don't have friends, i don't talk with my family, i don't like the country i live in, its less developed, i quit school, bcz they teach us franch and arabic, and some useless stuff... i want to study English.. i'm jailed in my room, waiting for something happen for months, please what should i do? i want to suicide, but i'm scared of hell, do u realise how lonely i'm(((( tell me please what should i do... |
| Question: We often don't choose our friends? Posted: 28 May 2017 11:30 AM PDT When we enter into a new profession, we meet all the ladies and gentlemen who we will be sharing a working environment with. We never met these people before and hope that there will be peace between us. On the other hand, we do choose our friends, we can choose to break with them anytime. But what I noticed upon further contemplation is that, in reality, we often don't choose our friends. They enter our lives rather sporadically and without announcement and after a few casual encounters, establish themselves as a companion of ours. In other words, we choose to continue to be friends with them but the moment we met them was completely by chance, the moment we were first introduced to them was something we had not anticipated. We often become friends with our friends' friends, with our relatives' friends or even our coworkers. But upon all of this speculation, I noticed how perplexing it is, the fact that we are really only limited to certain people in this world, and how much more there is that we haven't familiarized ourselves with. Likewise, we often don't choose our lovers, they enter the home of our lives without knocking. In the case of friends it is something very interesting, unlike lovers, they are those people who provide for us a conciliation of our true selves with the surrounding world. |
| Question: I kissed a female friend? Posted: 28 May 2017 11:27 AM PDT It was a stupid impulse. I wasn't thinking clearly. That kiss meant nothing. Did I ruin our friendship? |
| Question: How to make fun of someone who is weird and has no friends? Posted: 28 May 2017 11:17 AM PDT |
| Question: PLEAS HELP ME, I HAVE NOONE TO TALK TO? Posted: 28 May 2017 11:03 AM PDT I did somehthing wrong and lied to my boyfriend about how I speak to my male bestie. But there was never anything going on between my male bestie and me, it was always platonic. my boyfriend found out i would talk to my friend about our relationship problems and our sexual life, and now hes furious. my bf is saying i lied to him and he doesnt trust me. hes telling me to stop my friendship with my best friend but i dont know how to just stop meeeting or talking to him. my best friend and i would talk everyday and met so often. my boyfriend told me not to tell any of this to my best friend but how can i just stop my friendship. my best friend is gonna wonder what is wrong with me especially after being super close for 5 years. |
| Question: I need help with my relationship PLEASE IM GOING CRAZY. I HAVE NOONE TO TALK TO? Posted: 28 May 2017 10:46 AM PDT Ive been with a guy since 10 months. I have a male bestie since 5 years too and my boyfriend had been fine with me having this friendship. But then people started to tease my boyfriend about mine and my male bestie's fridnship and my boyfriend started getting really insecure but i kept reassuring him that there was nothing going on. My male bestie and me have always been super close and would meet and talk often. One day my boyfriend read mine and my besties conversation and found me talking about our relationship problems, sexual life to him. i had even told my bestie i miss and love him in a completely platonic way. But since then my boyfriend was furious saying i lied to him that i would never do this and that he doesnt trsut me anymore. he said to stop my friendship with my bestie. I don tknow what to do or how to make him understand that there was never anuthing between me and my best friend and those things that i said would just come out in the moment.. i feel horrbule to end my friendship with someone who i was super close to and had never connected with any of my friends likt that with. i would always feel alone and knowing that i had him as a true friend made me feel fine since years. and now i feel so alone because my boyfriend isnt fine with me and i dont know how to just stop my friendhsip. my boyfriend doesnt want me telling my friend this but i don tknow how my friend is gonna feel that i just stop talking or meeting after so many yrs of close friendship. |
| Question: Why is it that it feels as if I m loosing friendships? Posted: 28 May 2017 10:13 AM PDT I m a mother to a 5 year old son I m also in a relationship with my sons father.. But, I feel like once I started going back to school to get my PHD & continue working full time .. my friends started disappearing... I m going to graduate soon with my bachelors & the closer I get to the degree I want, it feels as if I have less friends I feel that most feel like If the reason I don t hang out is because of my boyfriend but that s not it, it s very difficult to be a full time mom, student & employee and the days that I have off I either want to sleep or spend with family Idk if this is normal to loose friendships as you keep progressing in life but I don t feel supported and I wanted an honest opinion |
| Question: Should I feel guilty for this breakup? Posted: 28 May 2017 10:12 AM PDT Im 23, this is my first girlfriend, actually first time i was ever really "emotionally close" to a girl. Shes 5 years older, way more experienced. We've been dating for 6 months. The first 5 months were amazing. The last month shes changed, everything i say or do annoys her. We've argued over nothing! Shes been texting/calling me less & less. I ask her if shes talking to another guy and she gets all defensive. Shes has more of an attitude with me overall. Its pretty sad to see. Now that i think of it.... I paid for every single lunch/dinner/bar we've been to together and i only got thanked 2 or 3 times. I feel bad i make her sound so evil because the first 5 months shes been a total sweetheart with me. Is it time to break up? Im afraid. It took me 23 years to find a girlfriend. I may never get a girlfriend again after her |
| Posted: 28 May 2017 10:01 AM PDT I am really embarrassed by my name. I always have been. My surname is really unusual and rhymes with something funny and is often taken the mick out of and what's worse is my first name is also very old fashioned and unique and people are constantly asking me how is that spelt and "that's a mouthful can't I call you something shorter?!" People say it's posher than I am and I sound like a rich b*tch. My parents purposely chose a name that can't be shortened and so there's literally nothing else I can be called. People seem to make my name into a much bigger deal than it needs to be and I'm just fed up with it. I hate when I am out somewhere and I'm asked for my name. I want to change my name but I know it will never work as I'm already known by this name to so many and people will think I'm running away from my problems etc. It's just really annoying me all the time everyone has to comment on my name and making me feel really insecure and I'm so fed up with it. What can I do to get over this? |
| Question: Do you have anything nice to say about my miserable life that can shed some light? Posted: 28 May 2017 09:45 AM PDT I feel so left out seeing all my old friends and cousins get ahead and enjoy life while I'm here on Yahoo everyday being useless to the world. I don't have any friends and am not good at making any. I want to be that guy who goes to a club, drink and party all night! I really want that lifestyle but it seems impossible now. I enjoy travelling and seeing new places but money is a barrier. I'm not working and I live with my parents. I'm just looking for something that can give me hope that my life can get better. |
| Question: Please tell me what the right thing to do in this situation is.? Posted: 28 May 2017 09:40 AM PDT I am a 26 year old single guy that works in an office. A coworker Ann is a 36 year old single mom. She was having a hard time with a project she was working on so I volunteered to help her. It often involved working late in the evening. We would work until about six and then go to someplace nearby to eat. Often her 15 year old daughter Amy would join us for the meal. I became good friends of both Ann and Amy. One day out of the blue I got an email from Amy that said "Please date my mom. I would love to have you as a father". "Mom is cute, smart, sexy, has a good figure and a good job"(all true). "Mom thinks you are wonderful for helping her save her job". "I would be the happiest girl in the world to be able to call you dad". (Should 15 year old girls be saying someone is sexy especially their mom?) I don't know what to do about this. Should I just ignore the email? Should I tell Ann about it? Should I ask Ann for a date? She is a beautiful women but would she want to date someone 9 years younger than she is. Please help me out here. Gals, if this was your daughter what would you want me to do? Please help me do the right thing for everyone concerned here. I don't want to embarrass Ann or Amy or cause Amy to get in trouble. THANKS |
| Question: Will I lose touch with my new best friend over summer vacation? Posted: 28 May 2017 08:30 AM PDT A few years ago, my best friend moved away and I've been sort of a lone wolf ever since. I have this problem where i hold a friend for a while, but then they move on and I just kind of give up and let them leave me alone. I finally found someone like 3 months ago who is in all my classes and she has become my best friend. I've never had someone like her before. We both struggle with eating problems and depression. We've shared really deep secrets and have so many inside jokes. She just has the power to make me happy by seeing her walk into the room. Even teachers have told me that I've been a lot more smiley lately. The thing is, we've never hung out outside of school. We only live a few minutes away, but we are both really busy on the weekends and have just never hung out. I'm a competitive twirler and she does dog shows, so we are both relatively busy. Competition season is over, and we have a week left of school. I'm scared that once school is out we will lose contact. We spend all day every school day together, but I just don't know what will happen when we aren't forced to be in the same building everyday. She has told me multiple times that I'm her best friend, but I'm so scared of losing her. I don't know what to do anymore. Please help. |
| Question: My best friend won't stop crying. Advice on how to stop her? Posted: 28 May 2017 08:26 AM PDT My best friend, let's just call her A, is going to a different high school than me, we're both going to be freshman. There are about 20 of us who all hang out together and everyone is going to the same school except for four of them. They're devastated. A has been my very best friend for three years and we have to go to different high schools, and she's only going to have three friends going with her, and I'm getting everyone else. She cries every single day for the past three months and school just let out three days ago and she hasn't stopped crying. I reassure her we're all going to be there for her even if we're not physically there but she won't believe me. Her parents have called the school I'm going to and asked if there are any transfer spots left open but they never responded. She's moving soon but they don't know where, they just know it's in town and it'll either be the neighborhood of my school or her school. Her twin sister wants to go to the other school, and her brothers already go there but she wants desperately to go to my school. I don't know what to say when ever I try to convince her we will never leave her she doesn't believe me. What do I say to help her? |
| Question: How can I change my whole personality to make friends? Posted: 28 May 2017 07:58 AM PDT I'm a 24 year old female and it is very hard for me to make female friends. Only strange men want to be friends with me. I ignore the men because I feel they want more than a friendship with me & I have little to nothing in common with them. I try to act nice to females my age, but a lot of them act hateful to me and/or ignore me instead. It makes me feel like I'm the problem because other women who are much prettier & more successful than me don't have this issue. I'm only asking this because I'm tired of getting rejected for friendships & spending years being alone. This has been going on since I was 22. I even dread turning 25 next year because it will be yet another birthday spent without friends and I'm just getting older. People just say "be yourself," but nobody likes my personality. I've been attempting to get along with some girls in my dance class. They are only polite, but aren't interested in a friendship. I also tried not trying so hard to impress people and yet other women still aren't interested in friendships with me. The female instructors are willing to make conversation with the other dancers, but they ignore me or are only interested in teaching me, despite the fact that I've been coming to the studio for 8 months. I want to either change my personality or just give up on friendships because people don't like me. |
| Question: Teenage girls who can drive would you have done this? Posted: 28 May 2017 07:42 AM PDT I just got home from taking my friend home. Since I did not go in anyplace I just drove barefoot and did not bring my shoes. |
| Question: Why should you put people on? Posted: 28 May 2017 07:27 AM PDT You know, that person who makes it out? Why should they put people on? I've noticed that so often, when a person who has made it put's someone who is still down on, that person that they helped always gives them their *** to kiss. That is why I am at the point where I tell people "just get it the best way that you can". I am no longer going out of my way to put someone on, or to help someone who needs assistance. Truth be told, no one helped me. I had to pull up my boot straps and go get it on my own. I just didn't want people to have to struggle and hurt as much as I did, so I would give them a lift on the way. Well, not anymore. If you don't have it now, you're not getting in my circle. |
| Question: Would you attempt to connect with someone you hadn't talked to in SEVERAL years? Posted: 28 May 2017 07:00 AM PDT My family and I recently talked about a family we lived across the street from many years ago. I was good friends with the youngest child because we were the same age, both played soccer, etc. The main thing we remember about this family is a tragedy that happened to them during that time. A drunk driver hit their car, injuring my friend and killing her older sister. She was definitely impacted by this, but we remained friends until my family moved about a year later. After discussing this family, I got curious and was able to find her on Facebook. It is so tempting to contact her, but I'd say the odds of her remembering me are slim to none. She's one of the only friends I remember from back then, but that might be in part because of what happened to her family. Give it a shot? Let it go? |
| Question: I enjoy being a recluse, living in my own world but I'm forced to be social..help? Posted: 28 May 2017 06:41 AM PDT I like being alone. Im shy, I don't talk much and I don't like socializing that much. Many people have been persistent in getting me to come hang with them and be around them as much as possible. I'm not a people person but I'm a people magnet. I'm always being matched up with girls and society has tried to make me social and talk more when I'm more comfortable being alone. Should I go along to get along or just live my life being myself? |
| Question: Ok but this what she looks like? Posted: 28 May 2017 06:33 AM PDT |
| Question: Is my mom ok looking.she feels plain? Posted: 28 May 2017 06:00 AM PDT http://imgur.com/a/Kc9QP |
| Question: Is my friend being mean or just joking? Posted: 28 May 2017 03:07 AM PDT In high school, I made friends with a foreign exchange student from Hong Kong. Most of the time, he was a gentleman to me and always invited me out with his friends, although we never dated. However, sometimes he would make comments on other people's appearance, particularly if they were overweight. Once he gave me a Christmas card where he wrote: "I think you are nice girl, but you have little fat! Must keep fit. Don't angry, be happy" A few years later, I lost the weight and became quite thin. He was surprised by the weight loss but said to me: "Your face looks like a banana" Another time, I asked him what was his view of my attractiveness (I was 16 at the time). And he said: "You are not attractive, but you have an ordinary girl-next-door look so you look OK" Once I went out with him and it was winter. I commented that even though it was cold, I didn't actually feel that cold. He said: "That's because you have a lot of fat" Now I know Asians have an obsession with weight - I read stories that Asian mums shame their daughters into losing weight so they can catch a husband. But I can't keep but feel hurt by this? |
| Question: How to breakup with this friend? Posted: 28 May 2017 02:41 AM PDT This friend is dating my best friend, and I've only really known him throughout their relationship but we were good friends. He has wronged my friend a couple of times, which really upset my best friend and obviously I supported her through this. The most recent was November where my best friend catfishes him on a dating site we was active on. They've been fine since then. I just feel like I can't be friends with him like I was before because of this, and I haven't spoke to him properly in quite some time. I saw him yesterday at an event we were both attending and were fine together. Any advice would be great, I'm a little stressed haha |
| Question: Is that bad I prefer white girls instead of any other reace ? Posted: 28 May 2017 02:31 AM PDT I find white girls more attractive/hot.. It's like a preference for me( the same way I like girls with big boobs, long hair) I am in no way a white surpremacist and probably the least racist person in my class... Again.. It's like a preference. I don't like girls with short hair, but like girls with long hair. The same logic for me applies to skin color. Is that bad ? I'm 14. |
| Question: I kissed/made out with my distant cousin from another country ? Posted: 28 May 2017 01:29 AM PDT This is the first time I've seen her, actually. We live in different countries in Europe(but they border each other) I visit my grandparents once a year there. When we are there, other (distant) family members visit us, too. We don't have the same last name, but we are somehow related(NOT ADOPTED). There was a good looking girl with them(my 5th-9th cousin. I'm not sure. I just know that we are very distant and I never met or knew about her. Our family is big). We got along very well and ended up kissing/making out when playing truth or dare... We did that 3 times afterwards until they went home. Is that normal that I enjoyed it and don't regret it in any way ? (we are 14) Please no "disgusting incest" answers... I don't want to "date" her or anything... It's just that. Again.. I don't regret anything and would do that again, if could ? |
| Posted: 28 May 2017 12:44 AM PDT We have been friends almost a year, I have a lot going on in my life but some of the situations she has questioned me about involve my feelings towards her. We have a great time hanging out and sleeping in the same bed friends thing going. However, we work together and I do value our friendship. Like it s so awesome and free. But idk what happened along the way. Multiple times with me. People and friends continually ask if we are official yet but again ******. I don t want to ruin this friendship. This is crazy. |
| Question: Should I allow my child to be friends with someone like this? Posted: 28 May 2017 12:42 AM PDT My 8 year old has a slightly older "best friend" next door who basically uses her and treats her very badly (always makes her cry and feel bad). I have wanted to put an end to the friendship for awhile but my daughter has no other friends due to her slight autism and when I've encouraged other friendships it never works out for one reason or another, so I feel stuck. Do I break my daughters heart and hope she makes other friends or do I allow this "friendship" and try to teach my daughter to be a better person than this horrible girl? She is already picking up bad behaviors from her and treating other kids badly because her friend lies about them or says they aren't wealthy enough to play with. Despite how I try to correct her behavior she keeps bowing to this girl and it makes me sick. I feel like this should be a simple decision but I want to get other opinions before I cause my daughter to hurt. I would like to say before someone complains about it... I'm not picking on the neighbor kid, and I do not think my daughter is a perfect angel who does nothing wrong. In fact she is always up to something and I do my best to correct the behavior by consequences and or explanation depending on the situation. However this girl is making life much harder than it should be. |
| Question: Help with friendship? Posted: 27 May 2017 09:59 PM PDT i've been friends with this person and for the last three months they just seemed bored of me and talks to me less and less each day. i'm tired of it and i'm very told them before that it feels like they're bored of me. but they're still doing it. i hate it and i honestly don't want to continue the friendship. should i just block them without saying a word and just go on with my life? |
| Question: Do you not trust compliments? Posted: 27 May 2017 09:58 PM PDT I feel like there's something wrong with me. I'm beyond the point where compliments are uncomfortable to hear. I truly distrust people who compliment me. It makes me feel like they're either just trying to butter me with hollow lies, or worse (and pretty common in my experience), trying to use me or make fun of me. Is this normal? |
| Question: Father HATES my black "friend". How do I keep our relationship a secret? Posted: 27 May 2017 09:52 PM PDT "You're screwed! If you ever try to leave him, his family will put a sock in your mouth and beat you to death! That's how black people are. We're gonna have the whole n----r hood up at our front door now!" Words from my father, glorious. So, now that you know that he's a HUGE racist, how do I keep our relationship a secret? I mean, he has no social media other than Facebook, he doesn't talk to any other girls, he's extremely respectful, hasn't tried to make any pushy moves on me, and he calls me at night just to hear my tone of voice to make sure I'm doing alright. Hell, my dad hasn't even met the kid and he's already down his throat about his skin color. To make things worse, his sister is a transgender and my father was saying "I'm not letting you near that fa---t!" Things are TERRIBLE right now. I don't have many friends in school, and the friends I do have, they barely even talk to me at all. So the first two people that I ACTUALLY enjoy being around, my father hates em! And I can't move out yet since I'm not legally of age for another two years, I have to keep us a secret. How do I do this? Has anybody else been in the same situation? I'm not giving up on us. I don't want these weeks worth of butterflies to be for nothing. |
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