I'm Latino but look like a white guy im whiter than most Caucasians. I know most women wouldn't

My fiance has recently picked up flying fpv quadcopters, let me say I don t mind someone having a hobby, I recently have one myself that actually started out as something that he told me would be something we would do together that now has fallen on me to do by myself. If he s not flying this copter after work then coming home late, eating dinner and then going to bed, he s either watching videos on YouTube which we even go to bed watching too, or he s watching videos through Facebook about them. I know I could probably pick up something to do for myself, but it wouldn t be something that I did just here and there, it would literally be something to do because I have nothing else to do since I get virtually no quality time anymore. I m not looking for dinner Dates movie dates or anything like that simply quality time. For example, last week he got off at 6 and went out the fly this quad every day but one, so when he s not doing the above-mentioned things outside of flying he s either building them, which he is now on his third build, or is tinkering with what he already has. I know it could be worse, it could be another woman, LOL... So again how much time is too much time spent on a hobby?

I had an abusive boyfriend and people saw him push me and anytime one person would defend me there would be one or two other people saying don't get involved. I went to my friends house and I was crying and his mom said she has to leave don't get involved. I also went to my other friends house and the same thing happened. People who I thought cared about me said they were not getting involved and they wouldn't help. how can people be so cruel?

Two and a half months ago my boyfriend took on a project for his brother that involved selling a car for $1000 He hasn't found a buyer yet. I'm upset because he never offered to let me borrow it (insured of course) during this moment in time when I don't have a car. I walk 3 miles in a bad neighborhood everyday to work. It makes me feel like im not valued. Is this selfish?

I feel like my life is going round and round and I can't get off. There are so many things that misplaced in my life, my kids life. I feel like I want to consult a life coach just to help me get going in the right direction. I do talk to my husband but he says the same thing each time. I think he's battling his own personal lack of wholeness and just can't seem to be all the way there with me. He's a truck driver so he's not home very often. I don't want to upset him about wanting a life coach because he may think I can't confide in him or don't need him and that's not the case. I just need some professional pushing (sounds weird) but you get the idea. Thanks! I meant to say he does help me the best he can while still battling his own issues but it's not enough. He's a great husband.

He makes the time to msg me all the time. He's super shy so I'm so confused as to why he wants to go drinking. What makes me disappointed is that many guys fall for Kim k body so now I'm worried he just wants to bang. Could this be it?

When me and my cousin were changing for bed i looked over and saw him naked and my penis started to get really hard and then i saw him look at my penis and hos started to get hard. why does this happen? we are both 14 and boys

When ever I go to sleep at night, just before I'm about to fall asleep, I hear a viole saying "I'm backkkk". It usually makes me wake up and on my computer monitor a video of a obese man eating a burger king bacon chicken sandwich plays and the camera is about 1inch away from his face and he makes so many moaning sounds that it wakes up my whole family. One night, I was sleeping and I hear some very heavy breathing. I wake up and the man on the computer is on top of me. He is very fat and greasy. He force feeds me Taco Bell naked chicken chalupas. If I try to leave, he grabs me with his elephant arm and drags me back in bed, HELP ME

We've been talking for roughly 3 months and it wasn't until now that she has decided to blackmail me.. I never sent her any naked pictures but we did flirt alot in the text messages and she has sent me nudes (volunteerly) i am 23 years old and i initially met her at a bar so i assumed she was older then 21 because she defiently looks it but iguess that was a fake I.D because she is apparently 17 (i found this out 2 weeks ago) and wants to tell the cops i raped her unless i give her money .. She has this miss conception in her head that i am rich based off of a rental car i was driving because she has asked me for 20,000 dollars which i don't have.. Ive even went as far as not replying and blocking her number but she texts from other phones demanding money or she'll kill herself. And now she also has her friends involved as well as her older brother who is 26 i am suppose to be meeting them with the money tonight at 6 and if i don't meet them all tonight at 6 with the money i will get murdered lol so i am thinking about going to the cops myself i do have all the text messages from 3 months ago when i met her up until now also i have pulled phone records to show that i did not delete anything i am wondering will this prove my innocence what do you think?

So i am 23 and my boyfriend is 24. We have been together 5 years and we have a decent relationship with my parents. Last night at their home i was chatting with my mom about the birthday gifts my boyfriend had bought me. My dad chimes in with "what the hell did he win the damn lottery?" "Doesnt he have bills to pay? How much do those cost?" I simply told him we are adults and its not his business and that i dont ask him about his finances. He got in my face and told me to go **** myself. How would you handle this?

We broke up around 3 years ago after being together for 3 years. A year after we broke up I found out that she had moved on, it broke my heart but I accepted it and I was happy for her. 3 years later, we finally spoke on Valentine's Day this year and in that message she sent me a pic of a valentines present I gave her many years ago and she said that she never knew how weird it could be to stop talking and seeing someone who you used to be close to, she said she wondered how things would be if things didn't go the way they did. She asked if I had met anyone I said no then After that she said that she hoped I can find someone that makes me happy because I deserve it.I was shocked but I just said the same back. It felt as tho we were close again, befote ending the conversation she told me to 'stay in touch'.After a few days I sent her a pic of a place where I used to take her and asked if she remembers she jokingly said'more importantly,who are you with?lol'.She remembers everything including my birthday in a few weeks and jokingly said that I should start thinking about 'settling down' bcos I'm getting old. We've only talked on and off since Valentine's Day, however 2 days ago I put a quote on social media saying 'I always thought I had my life planned out, but sometimes things aren't meant to go your way but that's life' she seen it and commented'👌🏽'. What does this all mean

My niece is 14 and I haven't seen her in a while. I'm visiting her in a few days and I want to bring her something nice. She's a huge tomboy, and rejects any aspect of femininity, so that's out of question. I've been gifting her dresses in the past two years and she tried to act happy, but her mother told me how disappointed she really was. She's really into sports, she loves football, basketball, tennis and practices more than 3 martial arts. I was thinking of getting her a new skateboard; I remember she mentioned something happening to the old one. She's also into video games, but I can't afford one right now. I don't know about getting her clothes, she mostly wears hand-me-downs from her father and isn't interested in getting new ones (and even if she was, she'd want boy clothing only). What would you get for a 14 year old with this personality?

I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and he hasnt said " I LOVE YOU YET" he calls me "Love" and says he has "love for me " but never says "i love you" just wondering is this too long to wait for those 3 special words? he says he gets in moods where he feels like he could be in love with me but then snaps out of those "moods" and thinks he just really likes me its painful because i know i love him and i feel like he's barely there emotionally and last time i brought it up he said "why is saying the L word such a big deal to you how would that make our relationship any different" thats what almost makes me lose my patience with him i dont know what to do i want marriage not to be a GF FOREVER

Hace como un mes mi ex y yo terminamos pero hace 2 dias me hablo y me propuso que seamos amigos con derechos, la verdad si me gustaria pero tengo miedo a que me vea bien puta y asi y despues que ningun chico me quiera encerio, ustedes que opinan rechazo o acepto su propuesta??

And that things are complicated

Wife's ex refuses to pay our child support and we need that money for my wife to get her breasts enhanced. What can be done legally?

The first guy David i've known him off & on for two years. He is 33 and I am 24. He has a daughter from a previous relationship. Him and the mom used to do drugs together and he recently got a job a few months ago but he seems to always be on the verge of losing his apartment. I like him and i told him that BUT he sent me this long meaningful text saying He loves me or at least he wants to be and how he always thinks of me whenever it comes to big decisions. He wants to be with me. He has a habit of disappearing for a week then popping back up. I got the vibe he is using again and lying to me. The other guy Ricky is 28 working with a good job only thing is he lives an hour away and wants to be exclusive with me. Im not shy and he is shy he hardly speaks whenever we hang out. I am stuck in a bind. What should I do? I am not a terrible person...

So it all started when I met someone who I really liked at high school. I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 17, and we have an age gap over two years. We started dating and I got distracted from school and my AP class. My worst subjects (Algebra 2 and AP Human Geography) grades dropped down to Fs. (I'm retaking algebra over the summer so my worries are centered around AP HUG). We sort of escalated our relationship to the point where we were sending nudes to each other, sexting, and I gave him a ********. When my mother found out about my grades and what I did with my boyfriend, she totally went ballistic on me, and which I understand. I did something wrong and I need to be punished for that, it's understandable. But it's been two months since then, my grades haven't really changed even though I'm trying my hardest (I'm really going to KhanAcademy and other older students for help. I did my missing homework from my AP HUG class, but my teacher won't update my grades even though she promised quite a long time ago.). And my mother keeps talking badly about my boyfriend (she doesn't know I see him everyday, if I were to let go of him, it's going to be bad on me emotionally.). Is there a way I can help her and myself? I understand what I did was wrong but I need a way to fix my problems and make my mother happy. My boyfriend and I are good kids, we now what we did. And to clarify, both my boyfriend and I are AP/ Honors students. This is a big change for us. We don't what to do.

My girlfriend has 3 kids. Her ex husband pays $937 a month in child support. He'said trying to get out of laying it this month though, and paying us back next month. He's all whining about how his Mom died in a car accident and he doesn't haveone to go home for the funeral. Not our problem dude. Take care of your child support, then deal with your personal expenses. It's my birthday in 2 weeks, and she was going to buy me a Nintendo switch, and I'm not waiting another month. Mario Kart 8, Zelda, it looks awesome. How is it our fault you can't manage your money effectively, the dude works 2 jobs, he can pull it off. Can I call the cops on him if he doesn't pay on time? What can we do to make him do the right thing?????

Ok it's a long story but I'll cut it down to the main parts. My boyfriend and I are on a break. I'm currently pregnant with our second child. Reasons why we're on break is because of me. Not going into details my boyfriend told me he started talking to some other girl and she's fine with him having a baby and one on the way. And that after I have the baby they'll be together...or so she says. Now what I'm asking is would you see a guy if he has a baby and has a baby on the way while his partner is trying to work things out with him?