Family & Relationships: Question: 28 currently in Rochester MN (moved in at 26) Is it "normal" to have lived in 5 States/6 Cities by 26 years old? |
- Question: 28 currently in Rochester MN (moved in at 26) Is it "normal" to have lived in 5 States/6 Cities by 26 years old?
- Question: What are love chants?
- Question: At what age should kids not ask parents for money anymore?
- Question: Why does my sister always bring up my past?
- Question: I fell in love with my fwb and broke my own heart.?
- Question: Can we send this woman our prayers? Taking her country back 1 head at a time...?
- Question: How do you hide your dating life from your family?
- Question: Are women around here 'normal' ?
- Question: How to tell a very toxic mother you're moving out?
- Question: Interpret this poem?
- Question: Which of these grant requests are more likely to receive Government funding?
- Question: 14 and 21 year old together?
- Question: Having sex with a crazy woman who injured my daughter in a car accident. Am I a monster?
- Question: My mom is having sex on my bed?
- Question: What should I say?
- Question: Am I the second choice?
- Question: What should I do.. Should I end this relationship?
- Question: Should I apologize for leading him on?
- Question: Help! My new place sucks. What should I do. Can I get my security back? I feel trapped. Any advice?
- Question: I feel so insecure about my body?
- Question: How come dreams never come true in America, anymore?
- Question: Problems cutting someone out of my life please help?
- Question: Since you all established that I'm a douche bag. Should I apologize?
- Question: BEST FRIEND LIAR HELP?
- Question: AM I WRONG?
- Question: Want to go shirtless around the house but scared?
- Question: Little bit of an awkward situation?
- Question: Why does my wife love this ?
Posted: 27 May 2017 02:59 PM PDT 28 years old, minor symptoms of ADD, ADHD & Mood Disorder (+few other things folks think I have, though some doctors have said otherwise) also diagnosed as high functioning. I have lived in 5 States & 6 Cities at my age (Moved to Rochester at 26), longest time spent in one city is 9 years (Home State of Iowa) & shortest time is 1 year & 2 months (Arizona). The moving is largely due to my Father's career as an Airport Manager (approx. 30 year career) (5 States & 5 Cities during HIS career). My father repeatedly kept saying as an excuse to the moving once it became 3-4 States & Cities that "Military Families Move More Than We Do"... I had friends in the military who only served one to two terms of duty who had boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife & I never knew any of them to move with their partner... so that alone I'm wondering if accurate for someone who's served many terms of duty. My family goes off on things being my fault (school, work, friends, relationships & ETC) acting like I don't try hard enough, or don't want friends & ETC. I try to make do with the places I live in & the resources (schools, employers & ETC) & yet I don't want to live in those places, but forced to by them (Guardianship). Rochester itself apartments are $700-$1200 for studio/1 bedroom (Mayo Clinic's Influence). I'd rather move back down to my hometown (85 miles away) where they go for $275-$600... I'm only receiving little over $700 from SSI. living in cheapest SEC8 ($170), but not working out. |
Question: What are love chants? Posted: 27 May 2017 01:39 PM PDT |
Question: At what age should kids not ask parents for money anymore? Posted: 27 May 2017 01:18 PM PDT |
Question: Why does my sister always bring up my past? Posted: 27 May 2017 12:52 PM PDT |
Question: I fell in love with my fwb and broke my own heart.? Posted: 27 May 2017 12:26 PM PDT My fwb and I have been seeing each other for 4 months consistently. He has introduced me to his friends and family. He has met my family. He calls me several times a day but recently a little less because he has some things going on personally which i understand. but he still calls me daily (never about sex, always wants to see how I'm doing and tell me what's going on with him). It feels like a relationship. We spend time together during the day a lot go out for dinner, breakfast etc. At the beginning he said he didn't want a relationship and so did I. Now I do. So I sent him a text message explaining that, although he told me he didn't want a woman and needed to do some personal things, that I now wanted a relationship and I was going to back off because I knew he didn't. I explained that I needed to keep things in perspective and keep them from getting complicated. I want him. But I don't want to force him. My logic is if he changes his mind he will let me know and if he doesn't want me he'll left me go. .. was I right? My heart is broken. But I don't want to make him miserable because I want more, I would rather leave. But I did explain why. Am I right? My heart is breaking. |
Question: Can we send this woman our prayers? Taking her country back 1 head at a time...? Posted: 27 May 2017 11:59 AM PDT http://hingebulletin.com/iraqi-grandmother-decapitated-isis-fighters-and-cooked-their-heads-to-avenge-her-familys-death/?utm_source=hingebulletin.com&utm_medium=s1&utm_campaign=6134&atm=6134&sp=2&h=FWRFEI&mod=slog |
Question: How do you hide your dating life from your family? Posted: 27 May 2017 10:46 AM PDT TBH I'm a moma's boy I'm 17 lighthtskinned so I get super emotional. I'd rather keep that stuff private but it's hard when you're a nerd without a social life having to come up with an excuse of why you're going out |
Question: Are women around here 'normal' ? Posted: 27 May 2017 10:29 AM PDT Where I live all of the women tends to get into physical fights every now and then and tends to proclaim to people that they come from a family that takes nothing off of anybody! My sister got into a little squabble with one and she wanted her out in the parking lot to fight her. My mom started seeing a new guy and her divorced husband sought a new woman from this area and she started to leave death notes on my moms car. My grandparents bickered at one for something who lived next to us, she flipped out on them and someone in our neighborhood called the police. Causally I see these women fighting someone out in the streets (physically), I see them drag someone out in the streets and beat up them. While these women are white, they tend to listen to rap music or hip hop only. They tend to dress causal and a whole lot of them are sported with tattoos. The ones that I meet everywhere around this area remotely carries themselves the same way. This area that I am is the only area around here that isn't a 'snob town' and that is the only reason we live here. Any suggestions? |
Question: How to tell a very toxic mother you're moving out? Posted: 27 May 2017 10:16 AM PDT I'm super nervous I'll say the wrong thing and make matters worse. Does anybody have any tips? |
Question: Interpret this poem? Posted: 27 May 2017 09:29 AM PDT The wild flower. Jealous of the rose. Grows where beauty is scarce. Against the odds, blooms defiantly. The rose is pruned for excellence. Tortured into elegance. Bought and sold. Yet the wildflower hides, waiting to kiss the eyes. Of some lost passerby. What a joy it must be. To line empty meadows with jewels. The suns searchlight. Directs the jewels to twinkle. A thin, brown green stem. Without support. Lifts its head for none. Eyeing its sour home. Shards of brown green glass and bits of industrys trash. deSaturated with shame. Jealous of the rose. Can not see. The wild flower must wish, "Wont a wild flower bloom for me?" |
Question: Which of these grant requests are more likely to receive Government funding? Posted: 27 May 2017 08:56 AM PDT Study the differences in semen count of men under 30 years of age in First and Third world nations and the potential causes of these differences. Or Study the effects of Climate Change on semen count of men under 30 years of age in First and Third world nations |
Question: 14 and 21 year old together? Posted: 27 May 2017 08:35 AM PDT My brother is with a 21 year old that he's only known for a couple weeks. He thinks it's okay and our parents feel helpless about changing his mind; We know that this 21 year old is a bad person. What should I do? |
Question: Having sex with a crazy woman who injured my daughter in a car accident. Am I a monster? Posted: 27 May 2017 07:01 AM PDT Hi everyone, I'm a 57 year old Married white man and recently my daughter was in a car accident caused by a reckless 29 year old woman who was high on drugs while driving. My daughter (who is 27) suffered two broken legs but will recover. I discovered the other woman was not only a cocaine addict but also a convicted con woman who defrauded people in a real estate scam. She never responded to our calls to get her insurance details so I tracked her down to confront her. Once inside her house she was to my surprise extremely friendly and co-operative. We talked for quite a while and I fell for her charms and seduction and eventually we ended up having sex. But now she is threatening to tell my wife and daughter about our twisted sexual encounter if we try and sue her for compensation. I think it was her manipulative plan to blackmail me all along. Am I a monster for what I have done? |
Question: My mom is having sex on my bed? Posted: 27 May 2017 06:43 AM PDT So me and my mother have to share a room now because she made me move out with her. And yesterday she said I would have to sleep in the living room because she was bringing some guy back. I walked by the bedroom door and I heard them banging. Note that this guy has his own place. What do I do about this? How can I stop this? |
Posted: 27 May 2017 05:44 AM PDT I have a very odd situation. My husband walked out on my son and I nearly two years ago. I never knew why other than the fact that he was having relations with another woman. Thanks to a mutual friend the woman s husband and I came into contact with each other where I found out MY husband had gotten HIS wife pregnant. Needless to say both myself and this woman s husband were DONE. We became friends.... even more than friends and he somehow ended up moving in.... he has gone back and forth telling me he does and doesn t have feelings for me, while I myself am in love with him for who he is.... all of this being said....I am a week late on my period.... and afraid I may be pregnant... every test I have seen Has said to wait TWO weeks... if I am pregnant.... I have absolutely NO idea how to break it to him.... and if I do.... I don t know if he will stay or if I will be stuck a single mom of TWO kiddos now. Any tips or helpful hints? Or maybe any pregnancy tests that test sooner than two weeek, the waiting is eating me alive! |
Question: Am I the second choice? Posted: 27 May 2017 05:39 AM PDT Her and I have been friends for forever, as adults chemistry flared up. I was married to a man and we lived far apart from eachother although we spoke everyday. She had a potential GF and I told her to go for it despite of my feeling and because I knew her and I would never happen. They dated, engaged, married a few yrs later. I was married, kids, divorced a few yrs later. Then I get a phone call almost a decade later her telling me she wants to see about US. She said she always wondered about the what if. She says she always kept tabs on me though friends and social media even though we never spoke. She wants to give US a chance. Now we are both single. I have kids and we have been dating things are great. Im scared that I was just her option? I know technically yes she had a choice to make but she wouldn't have choose me then I was married. Can this be happening? Do I really get my happily ever after? To good to be true? I'm scared... |
Question: What should I do.. Should I end this relationship? Posted: 27 May 2017 03:09 AM PDT I met this guy a year ago and we started to like each other 10 months ago but he's married and in a long distance relay with her wife..they are in diff countries..We work together at the same workplace..Now we've completely love each other and he already left his wife for me..At first I felt so guilty but later I found out that his wife is also a woman that loves to entertain men and got busted several times when he checked her facebook..But now, the guilty feelings have come back haunting me..It is wrong what we're doing rn? Should I let him to go back to his wife? Because I just found out he liked his ex wife's pic using a HEART shaped button, which for me is seems like he still loves her..I just dk what to do now |
Question: Should I apologize for leading him on? Posted: 27 May 2017 12:02 AM PDT I rejected my crush many times...I feel like I lead him on though. Then he got irritated and stopped talking to me but I miss his friendship :/ should I let him go or talk to him.. |
Posted: 26 May 2017 11:55 PM PDT I feel so uncomfortable in my new place. I was told that there would be wifi & cable. Once I moved in, I was told since the wifi comes free with the cable they didn t know how to split it. Wtf? Also it s 3 of us but they insist I pay half of the utilities. I also pay half the rent. They constantly lie about walking their dog, I wake up to poop & pee daily. They just put down a wewe pad & leave, knowing I work from home & would have to smell crap all day. It s got to the point that I walk their dog in the am with mine. Also I left my dog for a few hours one night to hang with my guy & when I came back they had entered my room & closed all my windows on a 90 degree night with my dog inside the room. They had nerve to call a meeting to address the "window issue" saying I can t leave them open & that I can no longer leave my dog in the evening because he "barks" of course he barked that night, he was hot. I feel feed up & up till now I just played nice not to offend anyone but I m feeling bullied & taken advantage of. Also they waited 2 weeks to givs me the lease after moving in, but you can t park on the street in that town overnight unless you take your lease to city hall. Now I have a bunch of tickets on my car & they could care less. Any advice how to get my security back & move? |
Question: I feel so insecure about my body? Posted: 26 May 2017 11:47 PM PDT I'm not trolling. I literally wanted to come home and cry today. I have a great body! Curves and I'm 5'9..yet, I feel so insecure, not about my body, but how men view my body. I know It sounds stupid but it's getting to the point where I can't find a guy that's not after you know what. My crush has been super shy to talk to me, so I made a move, only then I felt suspicious to why his plans were always last minute..and I was busy anyways so I didn't get to hang. This one day he woke up and asked me to go out drinking with him that night. I wanted a proper date.. not a last minute plan to go drinking. The moment I texted him to tell him I couldn't make it and that I didn't drink..he never msged me again. Maybe it was because I had rejected him twice because of his inconsiderate planning... Or maybe because I don't drink & what if he wanted more...what if I was just a booty call...? I asked him out once and he didn't reply to it..so again it seemed his plans were more important...anyways I'm 23 and I'm keeping my virginity, I'm not going to drink or party but I still feel crappy.. |
Question: How come dreams never come true in America, anymore? Posted: 26 May 2017 10:45 PM PDT My dream was to work online. I talked to my parents about it. I even talked to my neighbors and a career-counselor about it. These were my ideas: - Math-tutoring online (up to calculus): Average Low Pay - Teaching ESL to foreign kids: Extremely Low Pay - Web-development: Field is saturated with unemployed workers. - Tax Prepare-er online: Average Low Pay - Bookkeeping online: Field is saturated with too many people. Whatever, I give up. There's just no winning anymore. Your thoughts? |
Question: Problems cutting someone out of my life please help? Posted: 26 May 2017 09:55 PM PDT So I will make this as short as possible because it's a long and emotionally draining story. But basically one of my (soonto be)husbands friends who never particularly liked me has wronged me a few times and made it clear he doenst like me. Especially now coming up on our wedding ceremony. A big event that occurred during the election season was that his wife didnt agree with something I had posted on facebook about the election. He was then told to text my husband and tell him to tell me to "Shut the F*** up because I was R*****ed and shouldn't talk about things I know nothing about (Despite me knowing quite a lot about that particular topic, but I digress) Then he started excluding me from group friend events by suddenly and strickly making them "guys night" (and this is not planned guys night which I never had any issues with but events that were like normal get togethers (going out for wings or to the bar for dinner) which he would text everyone and say "Lets make this a guys night". To make this even more insulting, I am the only wife/girlfriend/girl who was ever going to be going. Meaning this would be my husband, three guys, and me. So it was obviously to exclude me. When my husband would bring me anyway (because I should have been able to based on the situation, like we planned it to be on my only day off.) this "friend" would not speak to me directly at all. The whole night. to be cont. Continued No hello. No goodbye. No smalltalk. And I had never been anything but nice despite this. Then after this, he went on a rampage on my facebook. posting the "crazy girlfriend meme" on a photo of us (myhusband and I) eating out which said on it "guys night? Can I come?" I told my husband that was all I could take and I asked my husband (not forced) to stop talking to this person at least on a close basis ie he could like talk to him at a party or something but I was really beyond hurt. My husband agreeded and we also decided not to invite him to our wedding ceremony. He has continued to try and amend things but im not interested in mending fences with someone so toxic. He continues to message me on fceboktelling me how horrible of a person I am and sending my husband massages telling him to tell me to move on. Then he tried to act like nothing happened with me. My husband typically ignores him but I told him he had to make it clear that things were over . Recently I needed my video game back which we had lent him (those things are mad expensive you know!) Anyway he sent it over with a mutual friend with a letter inside telling me that im childish and a bad controling person while my husband has been making his own decisions. I may have told him that I felt very strongly but his decisions were his own. I am really emotionally broken over all of this and I'm having trouble trying to find the right words to combat this toxic situation. Thoughts? This man is 30 years old and basically picking on a 22 year old. He calls me childish then ends his letter with "P.S nobody likes you", so how mature is that |
Question: Since you all established that I'm a douche bag. Should I apologize? Posted: 26 May 2017 07:52 PM PDT So you know the guy that likes me has been talking to me. I like him too! However, I made the first move by msging him. Anyways he keeps asking me out and I keep rejecting. Although I've suggest many available days, he still continues to ask me out that day of. Which is why I thought he was inconsiderate. After telling him I was busy and didn't drink, he never wrote me. Now I'm thinking maybe he didn't write me because I kept rejecting and not because I don't drink? However, I'm confused because I've asked him out too and he continues to be inconsiderate and plans on his free time. Should I be apologizing to him? And explain to him that his planning was just terrible... |
Question: BEST FRIEND LIAR HELP? Posted: 26 May 2017 07:43 PM PDT One of my best friends told me that she lost her virginity to the love of her life (my friend Tiernan). So then apparently they "broke up" and she was actually crying and depressed for like a month. She didn't want to go to prom since they "broke up". Then one day I met up with Tiernan and I asked him how the breakup was and he was like "What breakup?" And then it dawned on me. She is a ******* Liar. So we chatted and I asked him if they had sex and he said they didn't even talk. She made a fake Instagram account pretending to be his ex and fight her. Now she's saying she's mad at me because I'm a shitty person and I told the guy she likes that she did this. She's coming up with like random reasons as to why she's mad. Idk what to do plz help!! ll |
Posted: 26 May 2017 06:35 PM PDT Hi..so me and my boyfriend been dating for 7 months now and I've been spending the night over his apartment alot and he'll leave me there sometimes when he goes to work. And lately I've jus been kinda poppin up over there and today he told me "babe you can't be poppin up over my house like that..I just be needing alone time sometimes"..and I'm highly upset. The day before i went through his phone while he was sleep his ex texted him and we had a argument he said she only been texting him because she trying to get some cable boxes back..they use to live together he swears he's not cheating. Do anyone think it's a problem just popping up over your mate house? |
Question: Want to go shirtless around the house but scared? Posted: 26 May 2017 06:21 PM PDT Hi I m 13 and I m a male and would like to go shirtless around the house but I do not know if my parents would approve. How should I go about this? By the way, I m American, not European (I heard that could differentiate?) |
Question: Little bit of an awkward situation? Posted: 26 May 2017 04:53 PM PDT So basically this teacher and I were discussing weekend plans before I left to go home. She said she's going to see the movie "everything everything". I've been thinking about seeing that movie for awhile, so I decided to make plans with my friend today, but we're going tomorrow which is when this teacher is supposed to be going. No, I couldn't wait until next week because I have a swim meet and I'll be busy once June starts up. I don't know the time she'll be going, I'm just hoping it's not the same time as me. So if I happen to run into her, I'm thinking she might feel a bit strange because I didn't tell her I was planning to go to this movie and I only decided after she told me she was going. What do I say to her if I see her there? And no, I'm not just going because this teacher is going. I just didn't have any other options. |
Question: Why does my wife love this ? Posted: 26 May 2017 02:16 PM PDT My wife loves to lay in bed all day and cuddle. Why ? |
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