Family: Question: My sister is 22 and I'm 14. My parents go on vacation a lot and they put her in charge. She takes my phone away all the time for no reason?

Question: My sister is 22 and I'm 14. My parents go on vacation a lot and they put her in charge. She takes my phone away all the time for no reason?

Posted: 28 May 2017 01:41 PM PDT

- If I ask her why she took it away all she does is keep my phone for another day. - When I talk to my parents all they say is she's in charge and they don't want to hear it. - She takes it away for no reason. - She sometimes takes it away infront of my friends which is really embarrassing. - WHAT SHOULD I DO???

Question: My sister is sad all the time but doesn't want to say why?

Posted: 28 May 2017 01:32 PM PDT

Hey... lately my 17 year old sister seems to be depressed all the time and we don't know the reason for that. She always looks sad, rarely ever leaves her room and has no motivation for anything. It definitely hasn't been like that until like 6 weeks ago. She also has become really quiet... I mean she always has been a rather quiet girl but now she's just too quiet. A few times she even started crying after she came home from school. Well and for some reason she doesn't want to talk about it with me or our parents... She keeps saying that everything is okay but obviously there has to be a reason for her behavior and I'm afraid that it's something really bad and she's just too ashamed to talk about it. She knows that she can always talk with us about everything and we would never laugh at her or judge her negatively... we have asked her about many things that maybe could be the reason for her sadness but she denied all of them. Any ideas what we could do now? I really love my sis and it makes me feel bad to see her like this... I would like to help her so much. Oh and English is not my native language so I apologize for any mistakes...

Question: Is it weird that my dad never talks to his parents?

Posted: 28 May 2017 01:30 PM PDT

My dad just turned 51. His parents are still alive and he hasn't talked to them in over ten years. He has brothers and he doesn't talk to them either.....

Question: Being called a mistake... help?

Posted: 28 May 2017 01:18 PM PDT

I had a big fight with my dad all week.... to the point we didn't speak to each other, I had my brother(17) drop me off everywhere.... witch he got pissed off at me for... So he told me that I have to talk to our dad... When I talked to him we started talking again about why the fight started.... we got angry at each other and then he said something that I'll never forget "you're just a military mistake I made when I was 20" My heart just shattered.... the only thing I could think about was how could he say that? being called a mistake and knowing you weren't supposed to be born is the worst feeling in the world... thinking my dad could be happier if I weren't born... I'm 15

Question: My mom keeps barging into my room without even knocking?

Posted: 28 May 2017 01:15 PM PDT

Omg it's so annoying!!!!! Because of her I've now resorted to changing and doing basically everything in the bathroom so at least she doesn't walk in on me at an awkward time. Like last night I was doing homework and she just barged in so fast that it literally made me jump. This certainly isn't the first time she's done this. I'm 14. Don't you think I need just a teeny tiny bit of privacy now?

Question: I'm 15 and want to leave my family. What should I do?

Posted: 28 May 2017 01:06 PM PDT

Basically, I have multiple mental illnesses and I have a family (as in immediate family, I'll get to that later on) of neurotypicals who refuse to even try to understand that I don't think the same way they do and have to deal with issues that they could never fully understand. What makes matters worse is that I have a little sister that is 12 years younger than me that is all they care about anymore. She came about just as I had attempted suicide for the 3rd time and finally convinced my parents to get me some help. Because of my sister, they'll only pay for cheap medications that don't do nearly enough. No therapy (which my psychiatrist has told them I needed several times), and as I touched on before, very little support from any of them. I only have four options if I want to get out of here before I crack: first is to use my usual summer trip out to see my grandparents (since they live about 300 miles away from where I do), which only I end up going on, as a way to get away from them, second is to find some way to pressure them into getting me some therapy so I could actually put up with them, third is to run away from home and try to find an employer that's willing to deal with the hour restrictions that I would have due to my age, and fourth, with this being the last resort, I could use a threat of suicide to negotiate for a plane ticket to where a lot of my relatives are. Problem is, I don't know what to start with, other than that the fourth one isn't it.

Question: My fiancé's little sister confessed to me she is planning to get a tattoo. Should I tell him?

Posted: 28 May 2017 12:56 PM PDT

Him and his family are more traditional and would no doubt hate it. I have no opinion on the matter. If she goes through with it and he finds outs that I knew before and didn't tell him he would no doubt be livid (so would his family) but if I do tell him- his sister will be mad at me. What should I do?

Question: Am I a supportive brother?

Posted: 28 May 2017 12:42 PM PDT

I have 2 step sisters, my step mother's teenage daughters. They love to tease me. One of them told me she wanted something long, hard, big and round. I said no problem so I got her a cucumber. Another time her sister told me she did not want to sleep alone so I got her a teddy bear. One time they ask me if I wanted to make them happy? I said sure, what would make you happy. They told me 12 inches so I got them a ruler. I am sure a supportive brother aren't I?

Question: Is this considered child abuse?

Posted: 28 May 2017 12:12 PM PDT

I am 16 years old living with my parents and an older btother. For a long time now, my parents have called me fat, worthless, they told me that I'm not going to have a future and I'm gonna be living under a bridge, my dad calls me a *****, a whore, and has even bought me a pregnancy test for no reason, I don't even have a bofriend. I used to fight back but now I don't have anymore energy, a lot of the time I start having a breakdown/having a tantrum, screaming and crying and my dad records me on his phone. I even lived with my grandma got a while. Now, my brother is also on their side. He calls me fat, he calls me a slut, he yells at me and roughly shakes me, he hit me in the head with my pencil case, and my mom hit me on my hsad with her school bag as hard as she could and I got really dizzy, all because I got a bad grade in PE. Could my family get in trouble for this?

Question: Which parent should i pick?

Posted: 28 May 2017 11:52 AM PDT

i switch between my moms and my dad's house every friday. im 16 now and they both said i can pick one house to stay at permanently. pros to my mom: she cares for me more. she always has something to eat, she and i have a bigger bond cons to my mom: she's invasive and gives me no privacy, nothing to do, gets very boring there. pros to my dad: wifi, games, always something to do, cons to my dad: my mom will be very sad and hurt, me and my dad aren't​ close i really dont know who to pick plz help i don't want to hurt eithers feelings but i cant live like this anymore

Question: Can my sister bath my son.?

Posted: 28 May 2017 11:48 AM PDT

My son is 6 year old my sister his aunt is babysitting him when i and his father is away. Is it good if she helps showering him?

Question: Ladies would you have done this?

Posted: 28 May 2017 11:39 AM PDT

I just got to my parents house for a 1 week vacation. I had a 7 hour drive so I drove in my bare feet and kept my shoes behind my seat out of the way. It was very comfortable being in my bare feet on my 7 hour drive.

Question: How should I deal with my sister?

Posted: 28 May 2017 11:15 AM PDT

So, me and my sister has never been close due to her being physically abusive towards me as a child and never making an effort to get close to me. However, we seemed to get closer during my mom's last few months of her life dealing with an illness that she recently passed from. Now, as of yesterday she resorted to bringing up my past actions (though I'm doing very well now) and even blamed my mom's passing and illness on me to my shock. I've now blocked her and feel there is likely no gong back from this. Any readying why she is treating me this way? I can't think of anything other than cutting her from my life.

Question: How old were you when you lost a parent?

Posted: 28 May 2017 11:07 AM PDT

I was only 3.5 months old when my dad died, he was only 23 (he died in a car accident caused by a drunk driver hitting him head on) My mom is still alive (she is 57) and I am 37.

Question: A slight problem.?

Posted: 28 May 2017 10:58 AM PDT

So I occasionally make shitty YouTube videos, and I recently made a new account that my family doesn't know about so I have the freedom to swear and talk about topics that they don't agree with. I would make videos while my mom isn't home like usual, but The issue is: my mom recently adopted a foster kid. And she leaves him with me when she leaves. He's like 11 so he understands (somewhat) the stuff I'm talking about, but I'd still rather not swear and whatnot around him. Another option is: my mom and dad are divorced, and I go to my dads every weekend, and I would make videos there, but it would have to be while he's asleep and I'd have to be super quiet.

Question: Is nudity in the family a strange thing?

Posted: 28 May 2017 10:46 AM PDT

Question: My mum love/hates my ex?

Posted: 28 May 2017 10:13 AM PDT

I dated a boy from school last year for 18 months and my mum made it so difficult for me to see him all the time. She used to complain that I was too young to love him and that she didn't want me getting too attached to him. Once we both left school and went to seperate colleges she would only let me see him for a few hours once a week on a Saturday and the rest of the week she wouldn't let me go out after I had done my studying to see him and said really mean things like he wasn't very good looking and he's the reason I didn't do well at school. This isn't the truth at all and I'm just average in the classroom and tried my best. What more could I do? My boyfriend said to me once "you're mum doesn't like me does she? She never wants me to see you..." I just lied saying no she does like you! But he knew I was lying and shortly split up with me after this. My mum is now saying months later what a lovely boy he was and how much she loved him!!!! I am fed up with hearing about him and how she suddenly loves him! Why is she doing this? She used to moan about him all the time to me. He also had the loveliest mum in the world who was so kind to me and when she met my mum once when I was in the car with my sister going home my sister said how lovely she was and my mum seemed madly jealous and that she was too over the top and no one is that nice. My mum even asked me if I liked her more than her! I of course said no. What's the matter with my mum?

Question: This seems kinky to me. Is it?

Posted: 28 May 2017 10:03 AM PDT

I am a 19 year old guy with a 15 year old female cousin. She is a very nice person but is very shy. Her parents will not let her date until she is 16 which is a few months from now. She is very much looking forward to that time. She told me she has never kissed a boy and she wants to do it right. She wants me to give her kissing lessons. I told her there ABSOLUTELY CAN NOT BE ANY ROMANTIC RELATIONS BETWEEN US. She said she understands that and is cool with it. She said she just wants to learn how to be a great kisser. Should I do what she wants? It seems kind of kinky to me.

Question: HELP! I DON'T WANT TO LEAVE THE HOUSE?! SCARED OF SEEING INTO PEOPLE I KNOW?

Posted: 28 May 2017 09:44 AM PDT

I'm currently on summer break, which means, just like for any typical teen, I indulge in video games, snacks, and cartoon shows all day long, seldom leaving my room except for occasional visits to the restroom. I consider it an ideal life, but my parents want to spend "quality family time" with me. While I'm mostly apathetic to that idea, the thought of possibly encountering my school peers continues to hinder me from exploring new restaurants or visiting nearby parks with my family. I've no idea where this frivolous fear derived from, but I'm still unable to leave the house. My parents work at different times, and when my mom is on her way home, I'll ask her to buy some snacks for me even though she encourages us to go together. Although I'm well aware that even in a medium-sized city, like mine, the chances of running into someone you know is slim, I still don't want it to ever transpire. I've come across my close peers in Walmart about twice in my entire life and an unfamiliar one about once in a restaurant.

Question: How can I make my life better?

Posted: 28 May 2017 09:42 AM PDT

My life is too boring that I'm becoming depressed.All i ever do is go to school,come home and do work then sit there on the internet which isn't what I want.My parents work me to death for no reason so all I do at home is clean .I love going places but I can't I'm 14 so it isn't my choice and whenever I ask he answer is no.The only places we go to is to stored or another house ,Why go to a damn house and do the same **** I do at home!?! What's the point? I tried so hard.I played sports to make it more fun but my soccer season is over so now I'm stuck with nothing.Its making me too sad.I don't have anything to live for .

Question: My stepdaughter is a lush?

Posted: 28 May 2017 09:42 AM PDT

She no longer comes to the house and she drank three bottles of wine in 8 days, because I went through her trash and told people.They were the cheap ones, but still!Everyone in town is on my side.I guess people in town are harassing her and she blames me for it. I follow her every where and get her in her face to get her reaction.Well she got in my face and told me to leave the **** alone and I decked her, but told everyone she decked me and being a little old man they felt bad for me. I think she stole fifty cents off me at the gas station so I made a big stink about it in front of half the town and told everyone at the bowling alley the diner and the grocery store.I think she has anxiety problems but she thinks she has a me problem.These feminist types aren't as strong as they think they are .Somehow the fifty cents ended up in my snotty handkerchiefs. I also called her a man hater because she voted for Hillary and not Donald trump, even though she is engaged.

Question: My boyfriend's mom is driving me insane?

Posted: 28 May 2017 09:02 AM PDT

I am 17, he is 18, and just a few days ago he graduated from high school. His mom has always been this controlling, but even after he graduated his mom still needs to approve when he can come over even though he shouldn't have to. It is just the two of them, and his mom seems to treat him like the husband in the way she makes him go to her office parties or do things such as clean out the garage. I understand that its normal for kids to do chores at home, but the things she has him do are more than just, say, cleaning the dishes, and again, even though he is 18 and doesnt need her approval to come over she freaks out if he comes over without asking her and she lets him come over maybe 2 times a week and only for a few hours. If we want to do something during the day for more than just a few hours she needs two weeks' notice so she can see if he "deserves to go out". I have talked to him about it many times, and I have expressed how because of it Im not happy, but he refuses to do anything about it and instead says its fair because he still lives in her house (even though her control is completely inappropriate). I dont know what to do, his mom is driving me crazy. I am going through hard times as it is, and because of his mom not letting him have any freedom he can't be there for me like i need him to (or even understand that its his mom causing some of my stress). Im at a complete loss. Please help Ive given him an ultimatum before (which I know is a terrible thing to do) to decide between his mom and staying together but all he did was get furious with me for suggesting that he talk to his mom about it and he gets nasty when he's mad... he doesn't have any other family, especially any that is close/he actually likes, so I can understand him not wanting to leave his mom's side but like I said, Im not as happy as I once was because of it and he knows this but he wont do anything to change

Question: I keep finding "stuff " in my parents room?

Posted: 28 May 2017 08:57 AM PDT

Ok so I've found well saw many things in my parents room as I'm very close with them I'm always in there talking or they always leave their door open and I have to wal past to get to my room but last year before my mum had a baby I saw a box of condoms like at the edge under the bed I could see it from the hallway. Then I saw lube in the junk drawer that we kept all our junk so it wasn't like I was snooping, then my dogs ball went under their bed and I went get it and found a sex kit with dildos in it somewhere missing and I've seen lube down the side of their bed many time when I'm sitting on it. Then today I saw another lube down the side of my bed but my mum just had a baby so the previous lube obviously wasn't used for sex so I'm guessing it was for my dad. I just feel like they should hide their stuff a bit bette

Question: Why am i alone in this world?

Posted: 28 May 2017 08:51 AM PDT

Ive always felt alone since i was a kid i didnt meet my father until i was 14. My mother loved my sister more then me. Ive never had alot of friends. Im kinda shy. I dont trust people and it seems like no one listens to me like im achild or something people dont respect me. Im not a bad person I have a good heart but i still come in last place. Any advice

Question: My relatioship with my dad?

Posted: 28 May 2017 08:37 AM PDT

My parents divorced when i was very young and my mom took me and my brother in to live with. One day in school, i was sick and my dad took me and never brought me back to my mother's. He would takr my brother later as well. Growing up, hes alwayd worked 6-7 days a week for 10-12 hours, so we never really interacted a lot. Hes telled at me for not doing well in school and hit me every now and then like some asian dads would. And it really hasnt changed all that much. He always yells at me for forgetting stuff and being lazy, but i feel like those are normal human actions. Recently, he yelled at me for not interacting or talking with him, but hes always at work and recently got himself a girlfriend twice because he felt "lonely" because we seem to not mean much i guess. Hes not really abusive or violent, just pretty strict and i really hate it. To the point that i want to hit him back or not care if hes gone in my life. Am i in the wrong? Is he? Am i just in denial?

Question: My sister is a toxic and poisonous person. How do I avoid seeing her when she lives with my parents?

Posted: 28 May 2017 08:22 AM PDT

My parents give her all she demands and she is 23. She is toxic and poison. Yet if I see my parents I am stuck seeing her and I see my parents once or twice a week.

Question: Dad is an alcoholic and was thrown out of church today. What should I do? Do I apologize to the rabbi?

Posted: 28 May 2017 08:21 AM PDT

Question: How can I help my boyfriend?

Posted: 28 May 2017 07:41 AM PDT

My boyfriends father has a very serious liver condition. He only has 50 percent of surviving. He also has two brothers who is 9 and the other 21. And his 24. What can I do to help him?? If his father passes away. He has to fight custody for his brothers. Please I want honest answers. Thank you I appreciate it.

Question: Girls would you have done this?

Posted: 28 May 2017 07:40 AM PDT

About a hour ago I rode with my dad to go pick up donuts. He drove and went in and I just sat in the car. Since I did not go in anyplace I went for the ride in my bare feet and left my shoes at home.

Question: A mother with three kids just lost her husband in a car accident. Mother was severely injured. What to do?

Posted: 28 May 2017 06:51 AM PDT

Mother can't take care of children. No family to help.

Question: My mum is never happy?

Posted: 28 May 2017 06:05 AM PDT

She never ever lets me do anything or go out anywhere. Every time I asked to go out she ALWAYS just said no. There was no negotiation just an aggressive NO! I always did as I was told and did all my homework then had to go to bed very early. People stopped wanting to be my friend and made fun of me saying I was a prisoner in my own home. They said try a different tactic and just say "I'm going out" then walk out of the house which I have now been doing and works. My mum can't keep me in or do anything. I wish I had done this sooner! Now my mum keeps making bitchy remarks to me saying I do whatever I want. I've spoken to her about how when I was good and did everything I was told to do she was still never happy and complained about EVERYTHING. What's the matter with her? She never wants me to do anything or have any friends. I'm not ever allowed friends over and she never spends time with me when I am there.

Question: Moms would you have done this?

Posted: 28 May 2017 05:43 AM PDT

I just got home from taking my daughter to her friends house. Since it was warm out and I did not go in anyplace and came right back home I drove barefoot and did not bring my shoes.

Question: I've had a hard life. What about you?

Posted: 28 May 2017 04:52 AM PDT

1. Three of my grandparents died before I was born. 2. My only living grandparent - my dad's mum - never visited me growing up and died when I was 19, so I have no living grandparents and I haven't even reached 30 yet 3. When I was born, no one bothered to become my godparents. My older sister had to step in and be my godmother, and a neighbour became my god father - we soon moved away from them and I grew up never knowing my godfather. My parents don't even know where he is. 4. Age 10, had a car crash. My mum had broken ribs and nearly died. 5. A few months later, at school, I was sexually harassed and indecently assaulted by a classmate who was bullying me as well 6. Entered high school with no friends, was on my own at recess and lunch, was bullied and made fun of and had stuff thrown at me (insects, sticks and unwanted food). Was told by the students that no one liked me and I should move school, or to "go away" 7. Both my mum's extended family and my dad's extended family never visited and I grew up never playing with cousins or aunts/uncles or in-laws 8. Didn't date in high school and people would make up rumours that I was frigid or lesbian (actually, I'm bisexual but I kept that secret till my 20s) 9. Was called "ugly" a lot, mostly at school but also in public by random strangers that I never see again. Still feel self-conscious about my looks.

Question: My aunt insults my loved ones from other parts of the family. How do I not let this hurt me?

Posted: 28 May 2017 03:52 AM PDT

She doesn't insult her family to me but the other parts of my family not related to her.

Question: My brother is in love with this woman but he is married so he won't sleep with her but he loves her. Is this adultery?

Posted: 28 May 2017 03:52 AM PDT

Question: My Dad is an alcoholic so should I let him go to his grandson's game today or will the 7 year old grandson be embarrassed if Pa is drunk?

Posted: 28 May 2017 03:50 AM PDT

Can a 7 year old detect this? It is my sister's kid but my father wants to go and I am with him to drive (he has no license due to DUI)

Question: HELP! MY BEST FRIEND IS MAD @ ME!!?

Posted: 28 May 2017 02:53 AM PDT

So yesterday and today my family was out. And I lost my flipphone (yeah I know). She messaged me and called me 4 times. My dad let me use his phone to go on pinterest and stuff and she messaged me on there all mad that I can go on pinterest but not answer her. I didn't have my phone so i didn't know!! Is she right to be mad at me? This happens sometimes but only because of my slide phone. It's always dead because the battery is old and it doesn't work a lot of the time. What should I do?

Question: My stepmother makes me fat. Do I sound insane?

Posted: 28 May 2017 02:48 AM PDT

I have a French stepmother since I was five. Now I'm 14, and my stepsister (her daughter from previous relationship) is 13. My stepmom has always treated us differently, but I didn't care until now. Nowadays it seems that she wants to ruin my life instead of merely being indifferent (which I largely prefer). For example, now she hits upon the idea of making me fat. My breakfast is always boiled milk with a thick skin on top and a jam sandwich with butter as thick as cheese. My stepsister has a normal breakfast because she is allergic to lactose. We eat lunch at home, and mine is always a giant portion of pasta with thick butter on top and big cubes of pork fat. My stepsister has chicken in a normal portion because, as my stepmom said, she does not like pork. If I don't finish my plate or ask for a normal menu (just like my stepsister's), my stepmom would report to my father that I was being ungrateful or demanding despite her 'tasty' meals, and my dad sides with her every time. I'm not allowed to prepare my own meal and only eat normally at dinner. I don't know what I have to do. If I say something to my teachers it would just sound crazy (I can't imagine saying "I have to eat fat everyday"). And what can they do? It's not like I were a victim of domestic abuse. I do a lot of jogging but I don't want to end up obese. Help, what solutions do I have? She said I need those calories for my "growth spurt". I call BS.

Question: How to move out from home secretly (female,18 years old)?

Posted: 28 May 2017 02:26 AM PDT

My mom abuses me daily she would abuse me physically&emotionally...she would keep on telling me to kill myself and that i am not worth it ... She would beat me up and this left alot of bruises on all of my body and all i can do is cry i feel like im so fuc king weak and i have nobody to talk to..i have forgot the feeling of being safe and that feeling of going to home as i dont feel that is my home anymore as i said i am 18 and female i just graduated from school so what should i do ? Please help me?

Question: I feel as though my family is breaking up?

Posted: 28 May 2017 02:18 AM PDT

Im 16 years old, and i have 2 younger siblings. My parents have been fighting on and off for a year now. Every 1-2 months, a huge fight breaks out between them with verbal and physical abuse (primarily from my dad). I usually step in to calm them both down, because i get scared of what could happen... And the day right after the fight, my dad acts like nothing has happened. There was a huge fight yesterday where very hurtful things were said, like i wouldve left if not for the kids etc.. i love my parents, but after what happened yesterday i don't think things will be the same again, and another family member even had to intervene to stop them. I don't know if my dad is going through a midlife crisis, or has depression or a bipolar disorder, because he really went off the rails yesterday and did things i never expected him to do. Ive always felt that my parents were there to help us against the world, but they're the source of our problems now. I'm scared to think of what might happen in the future.

Question: How to deal with your siblings who don't help out?

Posted: 28 May 2017 01:59 AM PDT

I am 19 and a girl, I have two brothers who are younger than me. One is 16 and a half and the other is 8 years old. They recently finished school for summer break and I graduated high school last year, I didn't apply for college so I don't go to school at all and I don't have a job cause I don't have a drivers license or car so I'm basically home most of the time doing chores or whatever. My mom she doesn't have a job cause she decided to be a stay at home mom for my younger brother. Plus my stepdad told her to take care of the house and he would step in with the money . So yeah . I'm a person who likes to keep things organized and clean. So I usually step in cleaning everything I can but my brothers they touch 1 thing and make a mess and they leave it like it's nothing and leave the mess. I'm usually the one who puts the dishes in the dishwasher, cleans the kitchen, the bathrooms, puts the dishes away. Everyone else just leaves where they feel like it. I get that I have to help out but nobody else does things. My mom cooks but she leaves the mess around as well and my stepdad acts like he has servants all over the place. He doesn't know how to things on his own. I'm stuck I have nothing or no where to go. So I'm basically a failure at life.

Question: Was my guy cousin was flirting with me?

Posted: 28 May 2017 01:51 AM PDT

Well, yesterday I went to one of my cuz cookout and not and all my cousins that haven't seen in years. So one of my cousin he is guy and when he came in and gave me a side hug Everyone is doin there own thing and we was talking about stuff me and my guy cousin. Later me and my other cousin we was taking a shots and the guy cuz pick up my phone and did it again . Secretly ask me for let me give you my phone number and the one thing he never ask for my phone . I dont he wants to talk about stuff. So, me and my cousin and my uncle. we got to the house. And we saw my guy cousin again. But that will be his dad house and sister house makes​ to be my cousin and uncle... So he sitting on the couch and I sat down it was be and him talking I had some cleavage showing​ all day. We started talking about movies and etc etc... Was make so wired that he kept on looking at me and I'm like he never did that. He came and sat my me and showed me some pictures on his phone he moved the pillow and got closer to me and did that. And another thing we was watching TV I was like what are you watching he said that I can change it and he put the remote on my thigh I had on shorts on and he was looking down on my shirt. So he was like about to leave I said I oh okay... He was give me a hug I said okay so, I gave him hug sitting down I was like I don't want to be rude this is my cousin and whatever so he was like no stand up and I gave me a better hug he was hugging me tight like we are bf and gf and he was like text me your number and I did... and I think this so wired he said he was not drunk he was good. Idk

Question: How do I say it?

Posted: 28 May 2017 01:30 AM PDT

My mother is going through a lot and shes.in the hospital because of her liver. She has a 50 percent chance. I need to tell my 9 year old sister but how can I tell her and be collective about the situation. What can I say??

Question: What should I do?

Posted: 28 May 2017 12:29 AM PDT

My mother has her liver bad that she's at the hospital. She's in a tough situation. And has a 50 percent chance of living. I am 25 and I have a 9 year old sister I am afraid they will take her away to foster if my mother does pass away. How can i prevent that from happening. How can I take custody of my her. What do I need to do?? Please your help is truly appreciated. How can I be supportive??

Question: Why is my cousin becoming wild and a bad influence?

Posted: 28 May 2017 12:00 AM PDT

my cuz was never wild. didn't do drugs, drank, have sex. we are pretty close and talk about personal stuff a lot. she is 20 and very immature. recently she's been trying to drink and lies to others in our family about doing drugs. the funny thing is she was never like that. is this because of her low self esteem? is she trying to look cool? like i'm 17 almost 18 and I drive and everything. She doesn't drive, but she graduated and isn't working or going to college. she also dresses boyish, binds her chest, and tries to act like a boy. But that ain't new she was always boy like and wanting to hang out with boys more than girls. I know that she's atleast a lesbian though. at family gatherings, she tries to spend more time with the guys to look cooler or more like a dude, by mimicking them. when the other cousins are around she acts boyish too. They're 11 and 13. She talks about sex, drugs, and alcohol with these little kids! Even cusses with them! She's a bad influence. but i don't think she means it you know. Is she lonely? doesn't fit in with adults? does she have a gender identity crisis problem? should i try to talk to her and help? it's none of my business really but i still want to help out. i talked to her about being a transgender and she pushes the topic away trying to ignore me. i asked if she wanted to take hormones and said i'd support her to become a boy. she gets all weird though like she doesn't know what she wants out of life or who to be. how should i help?

Question: Sister-in-law too comfortable around me?

Posted: 27 May 2017 11:36 PM PDT

My wife and I currently live with her parents, my sister-in-law, and my brother-in-law (the housing market is horrible where I live). It isn't a crazy big deal, but a few days ago, my SIL walks out of the bathroom right in front of me with nothing but a towel on. Knowing beforehand that I was there and could see. I know that she s basically my sister now, but I've only been married to my wife a little over a year. It felt weird and inappropriate. Am I the only one who thinks this? I know my own family members wouldn't act that way. But maybe that's just my upbringing? I just don't know if I should bring it up to her, since maybe it's normal and I'm the weird one. Any thoughts?

Question: My dad only tells me I'm pretty. He never says I'm smart or nice. I love him but I feel like he only sees me for what I look like. Help!?

Posted: 27 May 2017 11:09 PM PDT

Question: Is it normal for a step parent to take a doorknob?

Posted: 27 May 2017 10:46 PM PDT

I m 16 and my mom s boyfriend just took my door knob off because I always lock it, but the only reason I do that is because my little brother and sister come into my room while I m asleep and take things and break them. They just keep telling them stop coming in, but that has yet to stop. As a matter of fact they broke a 60 dollar controller this morning. So, what should I do?

Question: Should I give my baby up?

Posted: 27 May 2017 10:33 PM PDT

I am 16 years old and pregnant. My dad was supportive at first. until i said my step mom was selfish.My dad beat me, he dragged me across the floor, punched me in the face, left bruises, and busted a blood vessel in my eye. My grandma wants to get over what he done and say sorry to him but I didn t do anything to him. They both wanted me to abortion and I was about to because they wouldn t stop putting me down if I didn t do it. Then my aunt and uncle went to my dad and said they want to adopt the baby. My grandma told me about it, and I said yes because I thought the father would say yes. But I talked to him about it and he doesn t want to do it. He wants to take care of our child together. And have the baby live with him. His parents are Christian and won t let me live with them because we aren t married. Now my family is pissed and is putting me down and calling me names. My aunt and uncle were looking forward to it because the have been together for years and my aunt can t have baby s anymore because she got her tubes tide. She already has 2 kids but from another man. I don t want to hurt there feelings. And my grandma and dad said that if I keep it they will kick me out of the house and I have no where to go.

Question: How Do I Have More Confidence In Being Barefoot Around The Family?

Posted: 27 May 2017 10:15 PM PDT

Weird question I know, but I really feel embarrassed about showing my bare feet around my family. I wish I could as I love being barefoot, but I kinda think my family would judge me because I usually wear socks around them all the time and I don't want them commenting on my feet, and as a 15 year old male. And it's weird because I'm not embarrassed to show my bare feet around my friends. When my family is gone I walk my dog barefoot around the neighborhood, and I even walk/drive to my friends house barefoot without bringing shoes. But when my family is around I just feel so embarrassed to do it. I hope someone can give me a serious solution to this problem because I don't want to feel as if I'll be judged by my own family

Question: Should i worry about my brother?

Posted: 27 May 2017 10:09 PM PDT

He is almost 12 and i am 15. We do not really get along and today he almost took my eye out. He kept dangling his fishing rod with his fishing lure on in my face and luckily it got caught in my ear (not somewhere worse). Everytime we go fishing he always gets behind me and dangles the lure near my face or he casts it in front of me (i assume trying to get it caught onto my face). He lacks empathy and as my sisters dog was dying he would kick the dog and he didnt even care when he died. This is not the first time he has tried taking my eyes out, he has put sharp things in my face before and laughed. My sister said that he made an eye poker and she ripped it apart. He put needles in nerf darts and pointed it at me ready to shoot. I am really scared i am crying because he keeps getting worse and i can not even sleep. Should I be worried and what can I do to prevent getting hurt?

Question: My father had bought a car with his name and nominee as his fathers name. After my father, Will I it be distributed among grandfathers sons?

Posted: 27 May 2017 10:00 PM PDT

Question: Is it okay for my cousin to slap my butt?

Posted: 27 May 2017 09:53 PM PDT

I was taking a nap on the couch and I felt a slap on my butt and I turned around and it was my cousin (he's a guy and I'm a female). He has done this twice btw.

Question: Why do I like my parents whenever they buy me food or something, but kinda hate them rest of the time?

Posted: 27 May 2017 09:25 PM PDT

This actually makes me feel really guilty. Whenever my parents cook or buy me my favourite food, I don't look at they're flaws like I usually do. I hate my dad for being ugly as he has passed on his looks to me. I also dislike my mom for being strict with me. However, these things don't come to mind when they buy something for me and I greedily consume it. I've heard that teens should talk to their parents but whenever I come home, I usually just eat and then go to my room for typically the rest of the day. Why does this happen and how do I change this? I want to love my parents no matter what :(

Question: My mom abuses me! Please help! she hates me for no reason,should i stay or runaway?

Posted: 27 May 2017 08:40 PM PDT

My mom abuses me. She hits me with her bare hand, other times she will grab something near to her and whack me with it. I wish i had a family member to move in with...but my dad died 5 years ago and i have nobody to go to i dont know what to do anymore please help me ..btw i'm 18 years old ..i am thinking of running away from home and traveling to any different city but i dont where to go so please suggest for me cities or countries to travel to and help mee to choose either to stay or runaway I dont know what to do anymore , i have noone to go to as i am not that openly person ive never told my friends or anyone about this ...additionally my mom blames me for my father's death ...she ****** blames me for everything

Question: Why does my mom punish me for no reason?

Posted: 27 May 2017 08:29 PM PDT

My mom swears, spanks, hits etc you name it. She does it out of nowhere. She says that I'm her daughter so she can do whatever she wants. I get good grades at school, I have tons of friends, and my teachers like me. She's the only one who doesn't seem to like me and aren't parents supposed to love their children? Even if they don't, they wouldn't say it right in front of the kid's face. Once she told me that I remind her of my no good father, who impregnated her and just left. I never met him and I'd get hit if I ever ask. I was around 6 years old when I asked where my dad was. She screamed at me and told me that I should be glad I don't know him. We live in Canada and I heard he moved to the USA before I was born. I'm 15 years old now. My mom thinks I tell lies when I don't. She doesn't ground me or take my cell phone away like most parents do. She'll criticize you in every way and I'm the one who gets hit at the end. She makes me wear winter clothes when it's summer (I know how weird it is) and it's gotten to the point where I got so exhausted from heat that my teacher spoke to me about it. Also my mom thinks my dad is the reason why I have Asperger's as if she thinks it's a bad thing? I mean nobody really notices it anymore and I have tons of friends. It doesn't effect me much except for fidgeting. I try my best not to anger her but she still does! Something like just walking by her can result in a beating. I don't recall ever trying to "ruin her life" like she says. She got very aggressive when she found out that I bought a few summer clothes with my own money. I told her that the teacher was concerned about me covering all parts of my body up and i felt dehydrated and dizzy every day especially in PE class. She still wants me covered up no matter what, no matter how hot it is.

Question: Am I being bullied by my little sister?

Posted: 27 May 2017 08:02 PM PDT

17, my younger sister is ten. One day she was in the bathroom throwing away something. She tried to close the door on me and I walked in. She sat on the toilet with her pants still on. I really, really had to pee. I had to pee really bad so I went into the shower and by the time I jumped in, I was already peeing and I couldn't stop. She opened the shower and watched. This was very embarrassing for me. She also calls me stupid, annoying, dumb and also says she can't wait until I move out. A year before this, it was morning time and once again I really had to pee. She punched me in my stomach and I peed a little. Am I being bullied?

Question: How do I get over the agony of Father's Day with no father?

Posted: 27 May 2017 07:38 PM PDT

It is just another reminder that I have no father since he left Mom when I was 6. I am 14 now and it is a day of hell.

Question: Me, my Dad, and my Mom struggle with reaction time?

Posted: 27 May 2017 07:30 PM PDT

My Mom said the other day that her co-worker made fun of her (very immature I might add) because she knows that my Mom s reaction time is poor. When someone surprises us we sort of have a mental shut-down. What is wrong with us?

Question: Mother found my diary entry?

Posted: 27 May 2017 07:29 PM PDT

So I wrote this diary entry when I was 15. In the entry I wrote about my mother's parenting skills and how I thought she was evil. I wrote about how she liked to sabotage her children's future. I even wrote about how I was ashamed to say she was my mother. This was because my mother is really abusive. She hits me, calls me terrible names, etc. She got really upset reading this and said she was going to cut me off as a daughter. What should I do?