Friends: Question: Are they real friends? |
- Question: Are they real friends?
- Question: Does it sound like my 2 ex guy bestfriends are obsessed with me?
- Question: What's it like having cousins ?
- Question: Friend help?
- Question: My new cat is aggressive?
- Question: I feel like I have many friends, but none that I could ever actually talk to about serious stuff.?
- Question: I am a pulsating weirdo?
- Question: Why am I being stalked?
- Question: What are my parents' friends gonna say to me if I storm out? Easy 10 points?
- Question: Should I end it all?
- Question: My neighbour won't leave me alone ?
- Question: Would wearing a stretched out shirt make me look fat?
- Question: So my coworker invited me to her party a month ago READ DETAILS?
- Question: Would you take this person back?
- Question: Is my friend depressed ?
- Question: How can I stop my son's consular from punishing him so harshly on his first offense?
- Question: I tell my school counselor that my friend ( doesn t go to the same school) committed suicide and I have been up does she have to call my mom?
- Question: My mum always thinks I'm talking to boys and thinking about them? -_-?
- Question: I feel like my friend hates me, help?
- Question: Girl sent me a sexual picture and then said it was an accident ? (she's 14)?
- Question: I really enjoy having sex with this guy but I don't know what to do.?
- Question: My friend s GF is reaching down another friend s Sister s pants, is she gay?
- Question: It's killing me inside? Please help?
- Question: I want to have sex with a guy ? And I'm 15?
- Question: What is it like to be cool?
- Question: I have no friends. How do I stop wanting them?
- Question: Why is my "friend" so insecure and fake ?
- Question: Is it rude for friends to snapchat you when they're hanging out without you, or is it immature to get offended?
- Question: I feel scared and unsafe?
- Question: Hey gals do you prefer to marry gay like me?
- Question: Am I too grumpy for my age?
- Question: Hello my troll friends lets join the troll group...!!!!?
- Question: Why do we need a teachers?
- Question: What does this text mean from the girl?
- Question: Last day of school in two weeks... and I m sad?
- Question: Is it wrong to ignore my friend?
- Question: Is my friendship falling apart?
- Question: I have no social life?
- Question: Going out with friends before gcses?
- Question: What to Say to 'Friends' You Cannot Relate to b/c of . . . .?
- Question: I don't like who I am?
- Question: HOW DO YOU MAKE FRIENDS IN COLLEGE?
- Question: Why is it hard to allow myself to be vulnerable?
- Question: How to find a friend on yahoo?
- Question: My friend is treating me badly?
- Question: Always second choice?
- Question: My questionis that my cat sTarted saying strange things to me last night such as, "can I itch you right big tOE?" help! how can I stop this?
- Question: My friend keeps hanging out with somebody that s using her?
- Question: How can I end a friendship without having to argue about it?
- Question: Am i a bad friend or person or what?
- Question: Stop pissing people off OK?
- Question: Is it weird for a freshman in high school to only hang out with sophomores?
- Question: Whats the reason for my friend to act like this dors he have anxiety or anything or he is just hiding something big and how to help him?
- Question: Someone wants to fight me and I don t want to?
- Question: This weekend I am graduating and my friend is really getting on my nerves...?
- Question: I'm so shy and quiet it has a negative effect on me?
- Question: Most people I grew up with are still friends with there childhood friends in there 20's?
- Question: Am I small minded?
- Question: Can I send mail (money in this case) without a return address?
- Question: I really need help with this please?
| Question: Are they real friends? Posted: 11 May 2017 05:48 PM PDT All my friends always say "Stuff" or "nothing" when I ask like what is wrong or what did they say, etc, but I tell them many things and they know a lot about me, but won't ever tell me much about them. They just always say "Stuff" or "Nothing" are they real friends? |
| Question: Does it sound like my 2 ex guy bestfriends are obsessed with me? Posted: 11 May 2017 05:46 PM PDT So I was bestfriends with 2 guys all last year and we were very close, basically hanging out everyday. I decided to cut them off right before the start of this year because they were always throwing shade toward me and always would knock me which obviously means they were jealous. I m a girl so it s kinda weird. Anyway, it s been about 5-6 months since I ve SEEN or TALKED to them, and just recently about 2 weeks ago one of them started to follow my ex ( to be petty? Idk) and that same guy also drove past my house looking at it and he doesn t live anywhere near here and trust me has no reason to drive here. The other guy added me on Facebook 3 days ago and I deleted it obviously. And NOW!!! They both ordered a pizza on my name as a prank and I could of gotten in trouble cause the pizza place could of pressed charges for not answering the door since I wasn t home ( they did this to get me in trouble). I called and they confirmed the numbers of them that called. I m kinda getting creeped out cause if someone cut me off 5-6 months ago I wouldn t of even been thinking of them at this point. What does this sound like??? |
| Question: What's it like having cousins ? Posted: 11 May 2017 05:37 PM PDT All my friends grew up with cousins, playing out with their cousins and stuff. I never had anyone to play with because of this. I don't have siblings either. I'm 17 now and still wish I had cousins because I don't get on with my parents, does anyone else wish they had cousins? Also what's it like having cousins? Do you ever argue wit them?? |
| Posted: 11 May 2017 05:34 PM PDT To make it short, my best friend doesn't like my boyfriend. Instead of talking to me about it, she decides to ignore me, and the only way she will talk to me is if I "break up" with my boyfriend. Well my stupid *** went a did it, which I obviously regretted and apologized for. My mom told me that she was being manipulative by saying that she'd only talk to me if I left him (is that manipulative?). I told my other friend (I'll call her G) what happened, who just so happens to be friends with my friend (I'll call her T). I tell G and I don't even say anything bad about T. I just told her what my mom had told me, to which she says "oh well speaking of the fact that you and your mom are manipulative blah blah". Which isn't even true. The only time I was ever manipulative was in middle school and that's been so long ago and it furiates me that'd she'd bring up something that happened so long ago. Is this wrong of them to do? Do I need new friends maybe? Idk I'm just confused |
| Question: My new cat is aggressive? Posted: 11 May 2017 05:28 PM PDT Sorry I know I already asked this but I forgot to add some information. I rescued a abandoned cat from the neighbour who used to lock it up in a shed and not feed it, I've had it for 3 days and when I stroke it she attacks me and growls at my other cat when it goes near her, why is this and what do I do? This cat used to live with a dog and got on with the dog well so why does she hiss at my other cat |
| Posted: 11 May 2017 05:26 PM PDT I also only talk to people in school never on weekends or over summer vacation. I'm 9th grade girl. Help! |
| Question: I am a pulsating weirdo? Posted: 11 May 2017 05:25 PM PDT I hate everything. And I really ******* meant it. |
| Question: Why am I being stalked? Posted: 11 May 2017 05:01 PM PDT Ok so there's this kid in my gym class who is stalking me. I'll just refer to him as "Ryan" because I'm not going to mention his real name here. So I was friends with him a few years ago, but his other friend got jealous or something, and told Ryan not to talk to me. Instead of confronting me about it Ryan just ditched me. I am generally quiet, easy going, and don't really care about stuff like this at all, so I just moved on. This year is different though. Ryan watches me in gym class every day and whenever I talk to someone he always comes over and jumps in to the conversation. He isn't usually rude to me but subtlety tries to block me out. This year a new kid came and we quickly became friends. Ryan has been trying to pull him away from me and to some extent, has succeeded. He also tries to indirectly criticize me, and when he does this usually gravitates toward me and talks really loudly. For example, he knows I like basketball and he likes baseball. He talked to the new kid about how basketball is stupid and requires to talent, and said baseball is the "hardest sport". I don't normally care about any of this stuff at all, but it has been going on for months and he has become increasingly obnoxious. What gets to me the most isn't what he actually says, but how hard he is trying. He was nothing like this when I was friends with him, and when we were I was really nice to him, so I have no idea where this is coming from. Any thoughts or advice will be much appreciated :) |
| Question: What are my parents' friends gonna say to me if I storm out? Easy 10 points? Posted: 11 May 2017 04:59 PM PDT I play violin an I'm in an orchestra. I'm quitting violin at the end of this year because I want to be a singer. My parents' friends always want to to hear me play violin and it's really annoying and frustrating. If my parents' friends ask me to play violin for them, what are they going to say to me if I storm out and say "That's it, I'm outta here, I don't wanna come to your parties any more and I don't want to see you ever again". Best answer gets 10 points |
| Question: Should I end it all? Posted: 11 May 2017 04:39 PM PDT I'm getting made fun of and pushed around by my family alot and my mom pushed me agents the wall and my mouth was bleeding and there is a huge gash on my lip... I have no friends to talk to, nobody to hug, use nobody and I just want to end it all for myself... |
| Question: My neighbour won't leave me alone ? Posted: 11 May 2017 04:11 PM PDT My neighbour lives opposite me, I met her because she had s parcel of mine which was delivered. The day I went round she told me she didn't want her to cat so gave it to me, she never fed it and wouldn't let it in the house. She's really Chavy, she drinks all day morning and night. She keeps messaging me for stuff like ''Can you go shop for me need some beers'' And she sent me this today ''have u got a frying pan?'' and said she had some wkd for me and chocolate and wanted me to go over and meet her friend. It's 11:30 pm and she just been knocking on my door about 3 times shouting my name and saying ''hurry up open the door it's freezing'' and said ''i wanna see how my cat is'' when she never gave a sh!t about it before. Then she got annoyed because I didn't answer the door and when ''oh fineness be like that I'm going to bed'' I'm sorry but it's 11:30pm I was just about to go bed and she's knocking on my door I'm not ansering at this time! The only thing is I'm scared of her because she went at some guy with a hammer and threatened to smash his apartment up, am worried she'll do the same to me? What should I do? If I ignore her will she eventually leave me alone?? |
| Question: Would wearing a stretched out shirt make me look fat? Posted: 11 May 2017 03:34 PM PDT My shirt lost its elasticity but I really don't want to throw it away. can I still wear it without worrying about looking fat? |
| Question: So my coworker invited me to her party a month ago READ DETAILS? Posted: 11 May 2017 03:22 PM PDT |
| Question: Would you take this person back? Posted: 11 May 2017 03:18 PM PDT So, a friend of mine blocked us all and stated it was because we didn t go to the club with her. That s why she s no longer our friend and because she has new friends. Now all of a sudden she told one of our friends that it was because I gave her attitude but she told me it was because we were horrible. Did I mention she only wanted to be friends with me and not with anyone else? Now she is saying something else and I have receipts but, would you take someone back and be goodie good friends again? |
| Question: Is my friend depressed ? Posted: 11 May 2017 03:17 PM PDT My friend hasn't been acting like himself lately. He's 27 years old he's got two little kids. Yet he still acts like a kid himself. Me and him have a band yesterday we were trying to write or record a song our lead singer said something to us my friend who plays the drums he got mad and threw his drum sticks then he walked out of the room he came back into his room and slammed the door. He's never done this before I'm worried about him. He's more emotional than the rest of us he's never acted this way. I tried talking to him he locked the door on me so I kept banging on it he wouldn't let me in I finally gave up on it. I'm really worried for him. I hear of famous people getting depression a lot for no reason at all he probably has one or maybe he doesn't. Like I said he's 27 but acts like a teen or a kid. What's wrong with him ? Is he depressed ? |
| Question: How can I stop my son's consular from punishing him so harshly on his first offense? Posted: 11 May 2017 03:03 PM PDT Hello everyone. I'm currently having trouble with my sons consular and will be having a meeting with her on Tuesday. He has had his dress-down/dress up privelages taken away because he wore his sweater in class. To remind you, this happened in March and It was still chilly out. Anyhow, this was his first offense, however the counsuler insisted that he have his dress down taken away for good. He is about to graduate from middle school, why take away his only ability to express himself? What can I do to convince her to stop such a harsh punishment? He received no warnings from his teacher and yet, students in her class now are wearing sweatpants and sweatshirts to class and aren't being punished. Any advice would be good right now, he's really upset. Thank you. |
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| Question: My mum always thinks I'm talking to boys and thinking about them? -_-? Posted: 11 May 2017 02:24 PM PDT My mum once found a note that my friend wrote as a joke amd it was rather innappropriate ("be a syripper" jus stupid jks) and my aunt told her that me and my cousin were staring at boys and getting hyper all the time when we went out but it's not true. I have a friend who is a boy and me, him and the friend who wrote the note always talk on the phone and she doesn't approve ofc... what do i do? :( |
| Question: I feel like my friend hates me, help? Posted: 11 May 2017 02:06 PM PDT Me and my friend are very close, but I feel like I've done a couple of things to offend her somehow. (I'll refer to her as Anna since otherwise it'll be confusing.) Firstly, her birthday is today, and her party is tomorrow. Anna sent me and invitation via email, but I didn't see it, because I don't really check my email too often. I texted her this and she didn't really bring it up again in the conversation. Second, I can't come to her party, due to complications in my schedule, and also since I heard about it only yesterday, I wasn't prepared for it. This I think made her kind of mad. Lastly, she has a new friend she's been bringing over the past couple of weeks. I haven't talked to her much, but she seems really nice and since Anna and another friend of mine are the only people she knows, I kind of stuck with her once when Anna wasn't there. But I feel like Anna feels like I'm jealous of her new friend, because we haven't been hanging out as much since she's came. I've seen her in person since all of that happened, and when we did see each other in person, we didn't really talk that much. I tried when I saw her to apologize for not being able to come to her party, but she was talking to someone else and I didn't want to interrupt, also I got extremely anxious and chickened out. Do you think she's mad at me, or I'm just overthinking this? I tend to overthink things a lot, (literally had a breakdown once because I forgot to say sorry to someone) so I really don't know. I'm sorry if this is really confusing, I tried to explain it as best as I could, but I'm not that great when it comes to explaining things, so. Also, I forgot to mention this, I texted her Happy Birthday this morning, and she still hasn't responded. She normally responds really quickly, or at least within the hour. I don't know if she's just busy celebrating, ignoring me, or I'm just really overthinking this. |
| Question: Girl sent me a sexual picture and then said it was an accident ? (she's 14)? Posted: 11 May 2017 01:56 PM PDT She's 14. She sent me a picture of her posing in skimpy clothes. She almost had her boobs out and butt, too... She then said it was an accident and didn't want to send me it, but I opened it 30 minutes after she sent it to me and she could have deleted that picture. This isn't the 1st time something like this happened. She sent me a picture of her being half naked. She said it was an accident, aswell... She sometimes flirts with me, hugs me and wraps her legs around my legs. She once asked me to carry her on my back and always smiles at me. Does she like me ? (I like her. She's good looking and smart) If she does, why is she sending me pictures of her being half naked(long shirt and underwear...) ? And is it normal that I sometimes masturbate to those pictures ? It's just a huge turn on... i'm 14, but i'm older than her by 6 months. I'm nearly 15. |
| Question: I really enjoy having sex with this guy but I don't know what to do.? Posted: 11 May 2017 01:49 PM PDT But he and I live in different states and we are not in a long distance relationship. I met him online and I went to see him for the first time in June of 2015. I saw him again last year in June and I'm going to see him again next month. The thing is I really want to go see him more often. I asked him if I could and he said sure I just enjoy going to see him. |
| Question: My friend s GF is reaching down another friend s Sister s pants, is she gay? Posted: 11 May 2017 01:33 PM PDT |
| Question: It's killing me inside? Please help? Posted: 11 May 2017 01:31 PM PDT I'm stuck missing someone so much, and it's killing me inside everyday. I was friends with a girl who changed my life, I had so much baggage but she still wanted to be my friend. She was the only person who would be proud of me when something good happened. I've been filled with disappointments, my mom was an alcoholic, my dad never spoke to me. My other friends walked away because " I don't have a normal life.". I live alone and trying to better myself but my friend walked away 1 months ago, I made her mad and let my insecurities let the best of me. She has me blocked, I don't know how to go on with my life......what should I doo?!?!?!?! I need advice I met her in 2012 |
| Question: I want to have sex with a guy ? And I'm 15? Posted: 11 May 2017 01:17 PM PDT I'm 15 and a girl. I really like a guy. He's hot, has a great body, smart. I kind of want to have sex with him... We have made out a couple of times, but that was it... He always stares at my boobs, flirts with me and is touchy. How do I signal him that I want to have sex without telling directly ? I sometimes masturbate to his pictures... Yes. You're right. I'm almost 15. Next month is my 15th birthday, lol. |
| Question: What is it like to be cool? Posted: 11 May 2017 01:16 PM PDT |
| Question: I have no friends. How do I stop wanting them? Posted: 11 May 2017 01:00 PM PDT |
| Question: Why is my "friend" so insecure and fake ? Posted: 11 May 2017 12:59 PM PDT So I met this one "friend" in college in my microbiology class last year and as our friendship gotten closer, I began to notice that she would constantly copy me such as the clothes I wear, my vocabulary, the things I would do etc. I began to sense that she was either insecure or jealous of me early on but I just ignored it. Then she began to show signs of her insecurity by trying to correct me and make me look bad in front of others (even when she was wrong). Maybe that made her feel better about herself. However, She did this ONLY TO ME and not my other friends. This quarter we took a science class together and I ended up taking more units that I could handle, so I ended up withdrawing from the course even though I didn't actually fail the class. So she ended up gossiping about me to my guy friend about how I didn't last in the class and who knows what else she said but he eventually told me. I kept my distance from her ever since then and she's been texting me and just acting so fake. She also deleted a pic of us together on her social media. Yet she texts me she misses me and wants to hang out. IS THIS SOMEONE I SHOULD AVOID? WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK ? |
| Posted: 11 May 2017 12:31 PM PDT here's the thing- i'm 18 and i obviously don't get offended every time my friends hang out without me. i understand no one gets invited to everything and sometimes two people from a friend group pair off and do stuff together, that's how people become closer friends. but i was just raised to think it was rude to make a big deal or let someone know on purpose that you were hanging out without them like for instance, i have two friends that always send me pictures of them hanging out together. this wouldn't be a big deal if they ever invited me to do anything. but they always hang out without me, never invite me to do anything because i "live too far away" (i live thirty minutes away from my high school but i drive to that town all the time to hang out with other friends). if i invite them it's usually no sorry, can't, and they say it so bluntly it makes me not want to try i wouldn't be offended if it were friends that i hang out with regularly doing this... cause it's just like oh, so and so are hanging out, that's cute, i'll probably see them both next week but i just get offended when it's these two particular friends of mine. if they aren't interested in hanging out with me, why snapchat me pics anyway? anyway, my friends think it's immature i get offended. they're like, we're 18 deal with it, it's a junior high ish thing to get offended when your friends hang out without you. but i think it's juvenile to make a big deal of hanging out without someone? anyway, thoughts? |
| Question: I feel scared and unsafe? Posted: 11 May 2017 12:29 PM PDT i live in a small town.i get straight a's and i come from a upper middle class family so a lot of poeple know my dad.i have this girls in my class who's dangerous,she is fake as hell and a heo (u know what).she's jealous of me ,we've had a couple of fights before,she's a drama queen while im calm.the teachers are obviously on my side since im "the good kid" .anyway now everythings good between us.a couple of months ago me and my bffs found out that the hot guy that caught my eye around the town is her brother who's arund 25 y/o. (im 17 btw) he sent a request to me on instagram.which i find distrurbing since hes not following anyone from school and his sister doesnt have an account.how did he find me and why? im scared (i declined it btw) |
| Question: Hey gals do you prefer to marry gay like me? Posted: 11 May 2017 12:29 PM PDT |
| Question: Am I too grumpy for my age? Posted: 11 May 2017 12:06 PM PDT I'm 20, second year of college going towards my third year next semester. I like to hang with my friends, work part time. Help my family with the bills, go to church, read books, play sports. But I can't help but to hear stupid things from my coworkers or friends. They'll send something stupid like... how to make your coworkers confused. Bleach your hair and bleach it again. Spam laughing emojis... to me this is stupid and a waste of time. Am I wrong for thinking like this? Sometimes I feel to old for my age. |
| Question: Hello my troll friends lets join the troll group...!!!!? Posted: 11 May 2017 11:37 AM PDT |
| Question: Why do we need a teachers? Posted: 11 May 2017 11:36 AM PDT School is dum and i learn all without and school is not worth? i cunfuzed cuz my friends say i am a dummy but i smarter than a them i have iq of 120 i am next einstine? |
| Question: What does this text mean from the girl? Posted: 11 May 2017 11:35 AM PDT I text this girl from work whom we have discussed going out together as a joke but just to test her response 'i love the way you flick your hair when you laugh' she replied 'i don't think i do that', any meaning from her response? |
| Question: Last day of school in two weeks... and I m sad? Posted: 11 May 2017 11:24 AM PDT Okay so I am in eigth grade and have been going to a very small private school since the very beginning of seventh grade. I ve made my best friends here and carpool with them every day. I love my school and friends! I ve had the best time here these past two years. A few months ago a boy in my school asked me out and we have been dating ever since. I am not going back to that school next year because my mom and I both agree my public highschool will work for me. I m really excited to go to my public highschool, but I m kind of sad to be leaving... All my best friends are going to new schools so none of us will be together. My boyfriend is staying at my current school. I m gonna break up with him but it s just gonna be hard for me because well he was my first kiss and it s just been a good year with all my friends and stuff. I want to stay friends but we will never have time to see eachother with all of our extra curricular activities. I thought by this point I d be excited to leave and ready for a fresh start but honestly I m just confused. I am happy to start a clean slate and make new friends, but I m also really heartbroken to have to say goodbye to my school/friends/boyfriend. It s just so weird to me that it s all over in two weeks. So idk sorry if this is a lot of information but what can I do to make saying goodbye easier?? Or is it weird to be sad about something so dumb at my age..? Thanks for any help u can give!! |
| Question: Is it wrong to ignore my friend? Posted: 11 May 2017 11:23 AM PDT My friend has been mean to me ever since I met her, and she keeps insulting me, calling me a bad friend. Everytime I am with her, she gets yells at me (for instance: one time she sent a goodmorning snap and snapped when I did not sent one back). She tries to get me into drinking and smoking, even though I am only 15 (is that really normal??). In addition, she talks a lot about me behind my back, so I made a decision after outr ast fight to not being friends anymore. I have been avoiding her, but she sent me over 40 texts saying how important friendship is, and it really freaks me out. She now told my teacher i was bullying her, and it serioustly do not know what to do! Is there a good way to move on from a friend you really do not like? |
| Question: Is my friendship falling apart? Posted: 11 May 2017 10:37 AM PDT I've been best friends with her for over 4 years, and we've always been inseperable. But I've found that recently I've been more irritated by the way she acts. Normally if she talked about a guy everyday, I didn't care. But now she talks about him in EVERY conversation. She's gotten a job and we don't hang out as much, but I find that when she CAN hang out, I'm just avoiding seeing her. She's not a bad person st all, but I find her more annoying than I have ever. I don't know what do to. |
| Question: I have no social life? Posted: 11 May 2017 10:35 AM PDT I'm sixteen years old, and I don't have that many friends. The friends I do have are great, we talk about our interests, play video games, and talk about current events (Politics, ect). I get along with people in my family really well. As a matter of fact, I've had people in my family that have said I'm a very outgoing person and an extrovert. It's just that I find it very hard to meet new people. Whenever I meet someone, I go in complete shy mode. I start shaking and constantly thinking "What do I do, what do I say? Will I offend him/her?". You see, I'm not good at things that other people like. I've never been a fan of sports, and I've never been good at Math, or Science. I really like History, but I like really random and obscure History that no one wants to talk about, such as the Korean War, or early Chinese History. I'm also a very weird person. I let my imagination get carried away a lot. I like to think about what it would be like to live in Ancient China, or fighting in the horrors of War, and see all of your fellow men die, only to return home to find that everything you loved is gone. (I know that sounds messed up, but I really like dramatic, emotional stories). Yeah, I'm really weird and I live in my head a bit too much. I also trust very little people, and I've never fully trusted a person. Of course then again, I doubt anyone on here gives a crap. |
| Question: Going out with friends before gcses? Posted: 11 May 2017 10:21 AM PDT My gcses begin next Monday and my friends want to meet up next Saturday afternoon because one of them is coming over from Spain (I rarely see her). My question is should I go? I really want to as I haven't seen her in ages, but I'll feel guilty about not revising in that time. I also won't be revising in the morning on that day either as my parents are making me go to a drama class. So should I go out with my friends just gift the afternoon or not? |
| Question: What to Say to 'Friends' You Cannot Relate to b/c of . . . .? Posted: 11 May 2017 09:53 AM PDT their own lack of motivation to change the misery they're in? I have had--and still have one--friends that complain complain complain about their status in life but do nothing to change it. One is a FB friend who makes excuses for not doing what she can to improve her financial, emotional, & physical issues. But she COMPLAINS about health issues and yesterday was going off about her financial issues (blaming her S/O even though she doesn't seem to do anything except update her FB posts). She might be limited--though I'm doubting she's as bad off physically as she insists she is--but there's always online sales she can engage in. I have tried repeatedly to give her advice on how to sell online and she always comes up with excuses NOT to follow through. I simply cannot empathize. I don't even want to try. Not only finances: Her mental/physical status. Most of her ailments I think is drama on her part. She seems to have a bit of Munchhausen going on. I feel jerky not giving her support.She doesn't do anything to prevent these issues from arising in the first place & does not step up to action even when it gets to the point when she needs to. What do I say when this woman contacts me again with her ailments? or her complaints about not being able to pay the cable bill? [yeah, bad money-management is part of her financial issues] She contacts me on FB Messenger a few times every week with another ailment or money complaint. What should my response be? |
| Question: I don't like who I am? Posted: 11 May 2017 09:53 AM PDT I'm 28 and feeling really down about myself. I feel since leaving school I've not achieved anything and have just gone from job to job which has been entry level and not achieved any qualifications. I didn't go to university. I didn't do great in school and am just average. I feel I've been left behind and all my friends have moved away and done great things and I've stayed the same. I'm really quiet and struggle to make friends and find myself staying in all the time when I'm not at work. All my colleagues are so much older than me so there's no common ground and interests. I work with so many people but feel alone. I tried the normal things, gym, college course, dance class etc and didn't meet anyone. I honestly feel if I died tomorrow no one would notice or even care. I think about 4 people would go to my funeral. 2 of them being my parents. I don't know how but I want to change who I am and be popular and have fun but no one seems to like me. How can I change? |
| Question: HOW DO YOU MAKE FRIENDS IN COLLEGE? Posted: 11 May 2017 08:49 AM PDT ok so lets say theres a group of people chilling and u dont really know any of them but they seem cool and u wanna hang...do u just go and sit with them? Or be like "hey! Can i sit here?" Like i literallt dont know how to make friends im freaking out. I know one girl going, would it be weird if she made friends and then i tried to hang with them?? AHHHH |
| Question: Why is it hard to allow myself to be vulnerable? Posted: 11 May 2017 08:45 AM PDT I have this natural sarcasm defense system thing lol and dodging personal questions that make me uncomfortable is second nature. I blame it on all the bullying I experienced in all my schooling years. Anyway. Feeling awkward opening up to people caused me to not have any "real" friends, and even my own family doesn't really know me personally... and because of this I don't have anyone I really trust to tell my "problems" and its so depressing |
| Question: How to find a friend on yahoo? Posted: 11 May 2017 08:42 AM PDT |
| Question: My friend is treating me badly? Posted: 11 May 2017 08:29 AM PDT I have this friend and we'll call her Mary. Mary and I used to be super close, but she's started to become close with someone else in our friendship and now I just kind of feel like a side dish and an unimportant member of the friendship group. I feel like I could leave and they wouldn't even notice. Anyway, Mary always blows hot and cold and I never know what kind of mood she'll be in. Some days she'll be in a good mood but other days she will hardly Talk to me because apparently I'm annoying most of the time and she just treats me like shite. Today as a joke I knocked back her drink while she was drinking it and she made a massive deal out of it and told me to get away from her and leave her alone. And because we get the same bus and live close to each other, we normally walk home together, but she was asking our other friend who also gets the bus if she can walk with her and didn't ask me. But I didn't want to be alone so I was going to walk, but then Mary rudely said why are you here and then I said do u not want me to walk with you and she replied saying that I should leave her alone and she doesn't want to talk to me so I just left and decided to walk another way. |
| Question: Always second choice? Posted: 11 May 2017 07:44 AM PDT I m so tired of always being the second choice and/or the one who loves and cares more. Always! Right now I m in a situation where I m kind of in love with a pretty close friend, and I m so happy to just be close with them, but it s so clear that they don t really feel the same. And now I m not talking about they liking me back, I m talking about them not admiring me as much as I admire them... I don t know where I want to come with this, I just thought that maYbe someone has some advice how I can stop always caring or make people care more. |
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| Question: My friend keeps hanging out with somebody that s using her? Posted: 11 May 2017 07:39 AM PDT I ve told my friend that this girl who acts like her "friend" actually talks behind her back constantly. She s just using her and I ve given her lots of solid evidence. I ve told her that I m always free and we can hang out at any time but she just keeps hanging out with this girl. We even had a huge argument about it and she keeps saying she d choose me over her but she always hangs out with her rather than me. What do I do? |
| Question: How can I end a friendship without having to argue about it? Posted: 11 May 2017 06:46 AM PDT I have this friend who I really no longer want to deal with I've known her 3 months or so and the thing is we work together. She calls me constantly as if I don't have a child to tend to, and doesn't understand that people actually sleep and since I'm currently pregnant there are way more things I have to worry about rather than just sitting on the phone all day talking about nothing. That's not even the biggest issue, let's say I tell her my husband is being annoying ( you know normal stuff that eventually will pass) she'll say divorce him tell him you're done if you don't I will I'm whoa wtf you're going way to far and I've really had enough of bs like this I honestly feel like she is obsessed with my life and please understand I'm easy going I get goofy free and crazy and not alot bothers me so me saying this means there is really a problem |
| Question: Am i a bad friend or person or what? Posted: 11 May 2017 04:58 AM PDT Long story short, i have friends (not many) but i never ask them how they are doing or how their day was. They never call me to tell me their problems or confide in me, vice versa. We rarely talk on the phone, its all via text. I have a facebook but i never post on it and i pretty much stay secluded from family as well. I saw my grandmother once our twice the year she passed, not purposely i just dont like talking to people. I have nieces and nephews that i hardly see and we live in close cities. Whats wrong with me? |
| Question: Stop pissing people off OK? Posted: 11 May 2017 04:58 AM PDT |
| Question: Is it weird for a freshman in high school to only hang out with sophomores? Posted: 11 May 2017 04:45 AM PDT I'm just wondering if it's weird for a person in high school to mostly only hang out with people in the grade above them. (freshman w sophomores, sophomore w juniors) |
| Posted: 11 May 2017 04:22 AM PDT What could be the reason for someone who: 1- dont want to chat with his friends on social media 2-gets angry fast 3-thinks he is lonely ( when he is kinda) 4- refuses to have out when he wants to deep inside 5-hides some secrets 6-doesn t like so much people 7-always wants to stay at home 8-looks sad or sick 9-awkward with people |
| Question: Someone wants to fight me and I don t want to? Posted: 11 May 2017 03:28 AM PDT Some kid stole my vape at school and he refuses he did even though I physically saw him. I was talking to his friend on PS4 and I said if it happens again I might have to get him jumped(as a joke) but he called up his friend that stole it and told him everything(because he was butthurt) now they said they gone beat my *** btw I m in 9th and they are both in 11th. What do I do? |
| Question: This weekend I am graduating and my friend is really getting on my nerves...? Posted: 11 May 2017 01:27 AM PDT This weekend I am graduating and I have family and friends coming into town. My family and boyfriend will be here friday (the day before) and I was going to spend time with them and hang with my friends saturday night to party. So basically I'm sharing my time with everyone. Well... one of my friends is coming into town and i paid for her hotel for saturday through sunday. She keeps begging to come friday because she wants to help out with things I already have done and I've tried to nicely explain to her nicely that i'm sharing a apartment with room mates and my boyfriend is sharing the bed with me... i don't feel comfortable with putting her on the couch and I don't want it to be awkward for her ... and to be honest... i get off work friday morning and she's trying to hang all day and i'll be tired... like she is being a little selfish wanting me to hang with her all saturday when i'm hanging with everyone. She changed her mind about coming and I just got irritated and told her if she wants to come friday then so be it... like i haven't seen her in years and I've tried to hang with her but she's always up her boyfriends *** and now all of a sudden he's going out of town and she thinks that I'm spending a whole weekend with her and it's not right but I'm going to let her come friday so she can see what I mean when I tell her i'm busy with my family and boyfriend for our 1 year anniversary... like I have my whole saturday planned for my friends only.. she's just being extra |
| Question: I'm so shy and quiet it has a negative effect on me? Posted: 11 May 2017 12:04 AM PDT I'm a High school senior and I'm so shy and quiet it really has become a serious problem. Even at work I can't say hi to most of my co workers because I am super terrified and even if I say hi I can't really strike up normal conversations because I am so fcking shy and just antisocial I have no idea what to say. They all probably think I'm cocky as **** because I am not saying hi but that's not it.. Even at school I just feel my entire heart crashing down when I am the only one who can't strike up light conversations with people who sit next to me or even ask small questions. Even if it's the smallest things like exchanging our homework with the person next to us for grading or critiquing, normal people would have light conversations even if they are not friends and just talk lightly but I can't do that.. I just sit there like a hard rock and say nothing and even if that person talks to me I only answer the question and can't strike a light conversation or just be normal.. I'm genuinely terrified and scared because I know this problem will not stop even when I go to college and it's just going to impact me for the rest of my life. I've tried getting help but none of that stuff works and I don't know what to do anymore. Because I'm like this I only have 3-4 friends at school so it's so hard for me when I'm placed in a class where those 3-4 friends aren't there. I'm always alone while my classmates are all talking to each other and conversing, despite them not being friends. I get so hurt when I see everyone look at me with such a cold face but I know I've brought this upon myself and I hate myself for not being able to change.. What can I do..? |
| Question: Most people I grew up with are still friends with there childhood friends in there 20's? Posted: 10 May 2017 11:58 PM PDT Like I'm still friends with a couple but some are still hanging close with there kindergarten pals? Is that just a small town thing or what? |
| Posted: 10 May 2017 11:01 PM PDT Someone told me I fall short of tolerance and my flaw is intolerance. The reason being is because a "friend" is starting fake rumors about me and some other friends, and causing fake drama, acting like a little girl because he got dumped in a 4 day long relationship and won't stop being a baby about it, and is hardcore begging for attention and wants everyone to feel sorry for him. I said that I don't want to be anywhere near him because if he's going to start drama and act like this then I don't want it to affect me, and I don't want anymore pointless high school drama. So the friend I was telling this too said my flaw is intolerance and small mindedness. I don't understand this because I see nothing wrong with separating myself from drama because drama is just plain aggravating. Does this make me small minded? |
| Question: Can I send mail (money in this case) without a return address? Posted: 10 May 2017 10:39 PM PDT So long story but this girl I knew for 4 years from school was my best friend. I lived with her and her family for a year or so when my family finally moved south. I stayed because I thought we d end up together. We were really close friends. Anyway again LONG story, but as time passed (we both had already finished school) she changed a LOT. Drugs, attitude became terrible, had sex with all these guys on her FB because drugs and sex was always apparently her "ONLY" way to handle stress and ****. At times I was treated like **** by her and her family. I was doing all this **** for her because she didn t want to, they sucked almost all my paychecks from me because they didn t really have money. So when I decided to move down with my family I somehow stupidly left my $80 tablet, $400 laptop, $400 ps4 and some clothes. She said she d help get it back if I paid her $200 I owed her for something. She is COMPLETELY psycho. She had a huge fit when I tried leaving. Pulled a knife on me, called the cops. The past year and a half or so was a huge mess up in my life. So I m wondering if I can send the money to her without a return address. I m afraid if she knows my address she ll try to track me down or some ****. I don t have my own checks, I don t wanna use a check and my parents think I shouldn t even pay her, but it s worth it if I can get my stuff back. I don t really have any other way to send it, like transfer it through banks online or anything without my parents knowing. |
| Question: I really need help with this please? Posted: 10 May 2017 10:37 PM PDT Okay so I'm a 25 year old female and I have this friend that's 57 and she texted me last night but I didn't answer because I started to not feel good so I just went to sleep and so tonight when I got back in I saw I had 3 texts from her and she said hey you ok? And can I call you? And then she called me and left me a voicemail. Usually I would answer her back after she would text me so then when I didn't last night I think she got really worried and then she said she was about to come over to my house I guess because I didn't respond. This is just kinda freaking me out. Is she obsessed with me? She is married to a guy by the way but she says she still gets lonely and she says that I help her when she's feeling lonely but I just don't know what to think of all this please help |
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