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- Question: Last night I spend with a mother and daughter -now the father is upset what do I do?
- Question: Can i name my daughter karelia?
- Question: My brother smokes weed! how can I stop him?
- Question: I caught my 15 year old daughter with her 16 year old boyfriend in bed. How do I handle this?
- Question: How can I get closer to my dad?
- Question: I'm 13 and my mom makes comments about what I wear and I'm sick of it. How can I get her to stop? -long and ranty-?
- Question: My parents won't let me have friends or date? What should I do?
- Question: Mom verbally abuses me?
- Question: Friends trying to throw my son a separate 1st birthday party? Am I overreacting?
- Question: Would it be a bad or good idea to move away from fanily?
- Question: Do kids have trouble playing make believe now for some reason?
- Question: My sister won't pay rent. My mom is kicking her out. Who is in the wrong?
- Question: Is it possible for a human to be born withour parents?
- Question: Is my mom's behavior fair?
- Question: Should I feel guilty for not giving mother financial aid refund?
- Question: I set my parents house on fire by accident and it burned down. They are on vacation. Do I call them?
- Question: What if on Christmas my mother makes us flee because of some natural disaster and I want to stay?
- Question: I want to get marry, I would like to have a baby. And make my own life :)?
- Question: My Dad feels he contributed to his father's suicide in 1975 since my Dad had been expelled from a school. Is this likely true?
- Question: Mom is moving an hour away and I live with her, but I want to move to my dads?
- Question: Father is an alcoholic and I can't get over the guilt that I made him this way cause I was such a difficult teen. How do I make up for this?
- Question: I have an uncle who talked to his wife like she was a dog when I was a kid. Was my mother neglectful in letting us see this uncle often?
- Question: I need help to figure out how to handle my family?
- Question: Women Porn star?
- Question: I have a sister my Mom expects me to be good to but my mother has a long hatred of her brother. Is it just our sisters we have to love?
- Question: My Dad has a dark soul. He is ignorant as dirt. How do I warm his heart and brighten his soul?
- Question: Why is my cousin doing this?
- Question: Could this mean my parents are racist?
- Question: Who should get the bigger bedroom?
- Question: I hate my mom?
- Question: Is what my mum thinks of my boyfriend more important than what I think?
- Question: Having sex with a crazy woman who injured my daughter in a car accident. Am I a monster?
- Question: Was it mean to reject a hug from my sister?
- Question: My Dad has no sympathy for me when I suffer. How can I get him to have some?
- Question: DO MY MOM DESERVE MORE MONEY?
- Question: Is my mom being fair?
- Question: DID THIS HAPPEN TO ANYONE ELSE?
- Question: What does it mean to have a toxic mother or a toxic sibling?
- Question: How do i secretly move out?
- Question: Teenage girls do you drive barefoot?
- Question: I'm saying a psychic told my dad there will be no more kids, I'm asking is does this mean my dream is true? I find my other dream to be true?
- Question: Dad came back from business trip just in time for holiday weekend?
- Question: What to about my moms boyfriend who keeps on coming into my room when I am at work?
- Question: I hate my parents?
- Question: My family don t show no hugs, or son to dad love. how can I change that? its in the back of my mind everyday.?
- Question: Big decisions help please?
- Question: This is me reach out to anyone for emotional help.?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: How to get family member to give back stuff?
- Question: Since my sister is a toxic person why do my parents expect me to see her but not my mother's sister who is also a toxic person?
- Question: Please read, does this dream mean that even though my parents don't want another kid it's going to happen? A psychic said my moms done?
- Question: My mother likes to trash talk family members to me. How do I stop feeling ashamed when she does this?
- Question: Was this racist?
- Question: What should I do? What should I tell to my Mom?
- Question: Creo que estoy embarazada, me voy a matar?
- Question: Should I ***** slap my mother? In public?
- Question: I drawed a picture for my mum and it took me all week. she threw it in the bin and it made me sad. I don't think I should do any more art?
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- Question: My sister in law brings her kids over to my house, but they don t follow my rules and she doesn t enforce them. What to do?
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Question: Last night I spend with a mother and daughter -now the father is upset what do I do? Posted: 27 May 2017 01:45 PM PDT |
Question: Can i name my daughter karelia? Posted: 27 May 2017 01:30 PM PDT My daughter has been born 2 weeks ago and me and my husband want to name her karelia like that finnish part of russia. We've been told that we cant by a friend but well ask a professional tomorrow. What can we expect do you know if it is legal or not? |
Question: My brother smokes weed! how can I stop him? Posted: 27 May 2017 01:16 PM PDT Hi my big brother who is 15 is smoking weed and I just found out when I went outside to tell my brother that he had to come home because it was past 11:00 at night and I saw him with his friends at the skatepark and there was a light like a lighter or a match and then there was a weird smell and I think I saw smoke so I came over and he was smoking because I flashed my light at him and his eyes were red I am so sad that he became so stupid like this because now I know he's doing drugs :( |
Posted: 27 May 2017 01:09 PM PDT I thought my daughter was the daughter I wanted. She gets good grades, stays out of trouble... but I went to her room to tell her and her boyfriend that dinner is ready, and there she was laid on top of him while he had his shirt off! I immediately told him to get out and I have banned him from seeing her. What can I do if she rebels and I catch them again? |
Question: How can I get closer to my dad? Posted: 27 May 2017 12:46 PM PDT My dad was deported eight years ago and I never really saw much of him growing up but I recently visited him and things got really really bad between us. I don't think he ever wants to see me again unless it's to repair the damage I've done. Any advice? |
Posted: 27 May 2017 12:31 PM PDT I know, I know, I'm gonna get people saying "ohh but she's your mom!! She knows better" and if you're gonna say that, I don't need it. So, I'm 13 and my mom makes comments about what I wear. I don't wear anything skimpy or inappropriate, I wear pretty normal clothes! Now, my mom has a totally different style than me. She has worn all black her whole life. Actually, so does the rest of my family, and they're not the problem. It's my mom. Anything I wear, she tells me stuff like "oh I don't like that" or "isn't it too cold for that?" It can be 90 degrees and she will still say that. It's honestly so annoying. I don't know why she makes comments!! So that's with clothes. Also she just makes comments about my style. My style is kinda girly kinda tomboy. she just makes comments about everything!! Now to my hair, she's not against hair dye and stuff, it's the colors I wanna do. I used to dye my hair pink (streaks) in second grade. She was fine with that and actually wanted me to do more. Now that I'm older, i want blonde streaks. When I told her that she said "why not blue or pink? Blonde?? I don't wanna do that" I just don't understand why I can't have my own style!! Anyone have any ideas how I can just get her to accept I'm different than her and wanna wear different things? It's just so annoying. |
Question: My parents won't let me have friends or date? What should I do? Posted: 27 May 2017 12:03 PM PDT I am currently 20 years old and my parents are Muslim and from Egypt. They will not let me go out and make friends. They say they are worried that people will hurt me, but I think they just want to keep me at home so I don't have sex, since it's bad to have pre-marital sex. I think it's abnormal for my age not to have any friends. I even talked about making friends at a university I am going to this fall, but they just said no and to focus on my studies because people are out there to hurt me. All the people I know are out having a good time. Going to parties, clubs, concerts, bars, or anything else! I just want to be normal and enjoy my time. I am usually home bound during the weekends and summer, and have been forever! Another issue is dating. My parents want an arranged marriage for me and have asked family members to find someone for me, or go back to Egypt and get married. I would rather date than have an arranged marriage. It's an outdated idea here in America to have an arranged marriage, and everyone is dating! I was also thinking when I start going to the university this fall to start dating. The reason they don't want this is because it's considered a bad relationship which may lead to sex. They just want to find a guy that fits their wants and needs. They also don't think I have the capability or wisdom to date. They also don't want me marrying a Jewish or Christian man, since it's considered bad. I just want to live a happy, normal life within my control! Also, I am not allowed to move out until I am married. Makes things more difficult because I would have more freedom and choices. |
Question: Mom verbally abuses me? Posted: 27 May 2017 11:58 AM PDT My mom tries to make my life a living h^ll. If I have a friend over my mom will cuss at both of us. Once she made my friend to scared to go downstairs from my room. I have to say sorry to them for my moms (and sister, wont even get to into that) behavior. She also tells me "looks matter", and that my hair always looks horrible. On mothers day my baby sister was acting up and she told me that I ruined mothers day. She also calls me a b^tch, bratt, ungrateful, and annoying. I always contact my dad asking him if I can live with him and he says yes and picks me up but the next day I'm here. My mom also snaps at me continuously and she tries to act nice if I cry to just call me a name a few minutes later. I'm on the verge of tears from writing this because of how much it hurts. Also if my little sister hurts me like kicking or scratching me and I shout at her to stop I get in trouble and my sister gets icecream while im bleeding or bruising up. I still love her and I don't think I have enough reasons to call CPS or something, and even if I did I love my mom to much. What should I do?? (P.S.: I'm eleven ._.) |
Question: Friends trying to throw my son a separate 1st birthday party? Am I overreacting? Posted: 27 May 2017 11:56 AM PDT My friends- Both girls- Try and act like my son's second parents. Not is a sweet way, in a "you have no right to try and make that decision for my son" way. No kids of their own. I like them, but when it comes to my son, I can't stand them. They live a few minutes away, and BARELY see him. They more 'talk' about how much he means to them, and how much they love him, but their actions say otherwise. They have known about his party since he was born, but hated our idea because it was outside during summer time. A few months ago they made plans during his birthday, and tried to get us to cancel our plans and "tag along with them so they could be with him on his birthday, and THEY would throw a party for him" Of course I said NO. Now that they missed his birthday last week and are back in town, they are acting like they are SO sad and depressed that they missed such a big milestone and how they cried because they 'couldn't make it' (Their plans were VERY changeable, and something they CHOSE to do. Not something understandable like visiting family). Now they are asking us if they can throw him their own party. (A party, not just their house for cake and gifts). Which would most likely involve THEIR family and friends (I have no family near by). And I feel like, what I did for his birthday, was his celebration. To me, they CHOSE not to be there. (I didn't throw him a party, just spent the day at an outdoor kid center and took him to an aquarium and a movie.) They didn't like my celebration idea, and told me how stupid it was for months. So it kind of feels like "You do your thing, and we will throw him a REAL party when we get back." I know I do not want them to throw him a party. What we did for him was our plan from the beginning and he had a BLAST! But I also don't know if this is a normal feeling for first time mommy's? I have been thinking about his first birthday since I found out I was pregnant. I just hate the fact that someone thinks they can just come in and try to take over and give him something 'better'. But am I overreacting? I would rather have some other opinions before I tell them yes or no =) The reason I stated they are both girls, is because when writing this it seems odd that someones husband would be this obsessed with someones child. Females are generally drawn towards children:) But with them, it feels like they are always trying to take over. Questioning my choices, trying to give me advice on things I don't need. They have no kids, so their advice comes from no where! Just babies from family they never see. |
Question: Would it be a bad or good idea to move away from fanily? Posted: 27 May 2017 11:47 AM PDT I'm 27 and feel my whole life I put others before me and taken care of everyone else. I finish college in 5 month's and was thinking of just packing and moving away from my family. I love them but feel I can't grow around them or be happy. My dad has done a lot for me He's single and I don't want to leave him alone but I would be happier else where. Getting married and starting my family. Financially I have helped my family out a lot and been through a lot of emotional abuse. Staying with my dad he still talks to me like a child. I really want to move but somehow feel guilty. Any advice? |
Question: Do kids have trouble playing make believe now for some reason? Posted: 27 May 2017 11:25 AM PDT Last summer I kept my three kid cousins, all girls, until the new school year. They could not create a game of pretend, or even copy a show and be their favourite characters. They asked me to make a game for them. So, I did and I wrote it down, created their characters, background characters, settings, backstories, and all of that. Everytime they met a point where they didn't know where the story should go, they would come to me to make it up for them. At the time, they were 8,8 and 10. I thought showing them that writing stories is just as good as playing make believe, it might make them want to write or draw out their stories. I'm an animator and I play around with stories and their devlopment on my own time. Creating characters and their lives is literally my life. I thought I was helping them, but they still can't think for themselves. Do you see this in other children? |
Question: My sister won't pay rent. My mom is kicking her out. Who is in the wrong? Posted: 27 May 2017 10:51 AM PDT My 19 year old sister is doing good. I'm proud of her. She pays for her stuff she goes to college. But my mom is single with two younger kids and she works 2 jobs struggling to pay for everything. She started asking my sister is she could give her 50$ a paycheck. My sister is out of school for the summer and is working. My sister fights with my mom and tells her she doesn't think she should have to pay any money. They got into a big fight and my sister pushed my mom out of her room and told her to get out of the room and my mom just kicked her out. They both hate each other now and I'm wondering who is in the wrong ?? BTW my sister won't be homeless she has people who will let her move in and finish school and be fine. |
Question: Is it possible for a human to be born withour parents? Posted: 27 May 2017 10:45 AM PDT Because I am starting to feel that in our world there are people who have no parents at all... |
Question: Is my mom's behavior fair? Posted: 27 May 2017 10:23 AM PDT I just spent 90% of my savings on my first car, & she expects me to hand over what I have left as rent. I babysit my brother most days of the week, sometimes cancelling plans/work. Her new boyfriend & just moved in, his 8 year old daughter included(who I'm forced to share a room.) Last night I locked my door to get dressed, & my mom knocked. I asked her to wait a minute, & she apparently did not hear me. She walked away, & within seconds came back and unlocked my door with the key she had made. She constantly says I contribute nothing to the household. I help as much as possible, and she acts like I don't also have a job and college to attend. I'd move out, but I don't have the money at the moment. I'm also 20 years old. |
Question: Should I feel guilty for not giving mother financial aid refund? Posted: 27 May 2017 10:21 AM PDT I canceled the loan because I decided not to take classes for the summer. I ve graduated already and don t need the classes. My mother is very upset, and says I owe her the money for medical school applications (I ve made some mistakes in the past and wasted a lot of my net on med school apps, pretty much sabotaged myself) Plus I got a good job at Pfizer, but she has been against it from the beginning. She has turned my family against me. Is it time to move on? I m 29 yo btw |
Posted: 27 May 2017 10:10 AM PDT The whole house is gutted as I was doing a joke with some friends after the last day of school Thursday while my sister was at work. We are at a neighbors now as nothing is left of the house. The two dogs died so I am thinking my Mom will be really upset and more so then my Dad since he didn't like dogs as much. None of the people died though. Katie--Does that mean I can be arrested if I don't call my parents? They are on a cruise in Panama or near Panama. It is not a troll question, this is real. |
Posted: 27 May 2017 09:51 AM PDT I am an adult but she and her parents might get mad at me and I can't take people being mad at me. |
Question: I want to get marry, I would like to have a baby. And make my own life :)? Posted: 27 May 2017 09:51 AM PDT |
Posted: 27 May 2017 09:32 AM PDT My Dad went to a military school his father took great pride in him attending (his father was a perfectionist). My Dad was expelled for stealing alcohol with some friends. That was November of 1974 and my father kept rebelling at home. On October 12 of 1975 his father committed suicide and had been depressed. So was my Dad a contributor in his father's suicide and if so should his sisters be able to file wrongful death suit against him? My Dad didn't actually shoot his father, his father did that himself, but my father was the force that pushed his father's depression far worse as my Dad was the only surviving son. Another son had drowned at age 3. My Dad's sisters, my step-mother says, have always blamed him and I recall my mother saying this also. They have virtually no relationship other then cordial exchanges at weddings and funerals. I did learn from my step-mother that my Dad was mentioned in his father's suicide note. |
Question: Mom is moving an hour away and I live with her, but I want to move to my dads? Posted: 27 May 2017 09:31 AM PDT I'm 15 years old, freshman in highschool. It's not my best interest to move schools during highschool but either way I have to. My dad only lives about 15 minutes away from where I am now so if I moved in there I could see my friends more often than if I moved in with my mom, and I already know some people where my dad lives. Another reason is I don't really like my mom. She comes home from work almost everyday in a horrible mood, I do my chores everyday because she texts me what to do but she'll always find one more thing when I get home even after do what she told me to do she'll yell at me, call me lazy, blame it on me. And one time I asked her if I can get a ride home from my friend from school and she said and I quote "No. If I find out that you did, I will beat the living **** out of you". In a threatening voice. I left the couch reclined today on accident and she called me in yelled at me called me lazy and said I'm not going to have a job. Also my brother moved out when he was 16 due to similar problems, but she also tried to blame it on me even though I was only 11 and she said he moved out because I never did chores. Even though they got in arguments all the time over things like I'm going through now. Anyways he moved in again last summer and my mom let him take over my room and my bed WITH his girlfriend every night. |
Posted: 27 May 2017 09:20 AM PDT I drove him to drink with my behavior and my Mom keeps saying the more I make up for it the more likely he will get help but all I do to make up isn't working. Now my Mom resents me. I am 31 and still being punished for sneaking out at night as a teen and raging at my parents and siblings after I was molested at 14 by an extended relatives husband (now ex). How do I make up to my Dad or get my Mom to see I have done my best? I hate myself and wish I could get cancer and die. |
Posted: 27 May 2017 09:07 AM PDT He is divorced now and not as abusive to his 2nd wife. As a kid he spooked me. |
Question: I need help to figure out how to handle my family? Posted: 27 May 2017 09:04 AM PDT Hi I'm a 15 year old who's in 9th grade, and I'm not sure how to handle my family. I get straight Bs with a couple of As on my report card, and my parents yell at me for that and take away all of my video games. They say that I can get them back when summer vacation starts. My older brother who came back from his first year of college about 2-3 weeks ago, he snitched on me for finding a cable to plug in to my ps4 and play it behind my parents back. (I only play for about an hour) I don't know what my punishment for that is going to be since it just happened and they just sent me to my room for now. My family keeps on saying that my grades are not up to their standards, my family keeps on using my brother as a reference because he got a 4.0 in his second term in college. whenever I yell at my brother, I call him stupid, then my brother just says, at least I got a 4.0 in college while you get Bs. I get furious when he says that, and my parents just think that I'm jealous. I'm not jealous, I just get mad that my parents and my brother keep on talking about that damn 4.0 and practically saying that I'm stupid. Also whenever my brother and I get in a fight, he hits me and everything and he can become very abusive. I just don't know what to do, I don't know how to handle my family any more and It is starting to frustrate me to the point where I just want to explode. |
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Posted: 27 May 2017 08:47 AM PDT My sister is 20 and I am 23 so we are not kids anymore. My mother expects us to be good to each other but my mother has a deep hatred of her brother and thus his family (wife and kids) though it is indirect with his family, direct with him. Yet, I am expected to love my sister. My sister is bossy, spoiled, bully-like, and selfish. I am nice to her face but generally avoid her like the plague. Plus I am a guy so we have no common interests. Yet my mother expects us to be pals. So why must I be good to my sister when my mother hates her brother with a burning passion? I like my two brothers, but not my sister. I feel like I am supposed to have a family member I turn on also as my mother hated her brother with such deep passion. She hated him to the point of wishing she could smash his face into the ground until it became pavement. And the sad part is while her brother is no saint his children were very nice the two times I met them but I'll never be able to know them do to the siblings hatred for each other. I have no kids and I would never use them as pawns against my sister if I did the way my mother did with us. My mother even took me out of a school because her brother's son was going to be in my class. |
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Question: Why is my cousin doing this? Posted: 27 May 2017 08:30 AM PDT So I have this cousin that constantly copies me I pierced my ear and he wants to do it I wanted to dye my hair he wants it to I bought this perfume and he bought the same I was singing in the car and someone said that they liked my voice so and then my cousin turned off the song |
Question: Could this mean my parents are racist? Posted: 27 May 2017 08:20 AM PDT Im 17. Ive been dating my current girlfriend for 2 years. She is black and my family is white. My parents have made the two years extremely difficult by preventing me from seeing her for reasons that are just petty and shouldn't matter. Even on her birthday they waited until I was going to go to her house and then gave me a bunch of work to do and threatened to cancel my phone so I couldn't talk to her and not let me see her anymore if I didnt stay home and do the work instead. I have dated other white girls before and they never had a problem and never stopped me from seeing one of them even though one of them was pretty disrespectful to my siblings amd family. My current girlfriend is so sweet tomy younger siblings and aactually plays with them too when shes at my house. Im starting to really wonder why my parents would get in the way and prevent me from hanging out with someone who is so kind and respectful when they never did that to the white girls I dated before who weren't very nice OR respectful. Side note: my four year old brother once said he didnt like someone because of their skin color but he was too young to think about that himself. I imagine he wouldve had to hear that somewhere and that was before he was in preschool or exposed to much other than family business. What do you think? Is this possibly a sign that my parents are racist? |
Question: Who should get the bigger bedroom? Posted: 27 May 2017 08:06 AM PDT The thirteen year old who will still be living in the bedroom until she graduates, (maybe even more) or the 18 year old who attends an university and won't be there most of the time? |
Posted: 27 May 2017 07:38 AM PDT I don't want to hate her. But I think I do. She says it a lazy pile of ****. I do most of the chores. My dad is nice but whenever she says bad things to me he says nothing. My mom calls me a video game addict (even though I haven't played in 3 weeks) she calls me a stupid boy. I don't know what to do. |
Question: Is what my mum thinks of my boyfriend more important than what I think? Posted: 27 May 2017 07:21 AM PDT My name is Daniel and I'm 19. My boyfriend is 34. My mum is so angry that I'm dating a guy who is 15 years older than me. She thinks he's too old for me and that I should settle for someone that's my own age. I said agendoesnt matter, but she thinks it matters big time. Should I care what my mum thinks of him? Is what she thinks more important than what I think? |
Question: Having sex with a crazy woman who injured my daughter in a car accident. Am I a monster? Posted: 27 May 2017 07:01 AM PDT Hi everyone, I'm a 57 year old Married white man and recently my daughter was in a car accident caused by a reckless 29 year old woman who was high on drugs while driving. My daughter (who is 27) suffered two broken legs but will recover. I discovered the other woman was not only a cocaine addict but also a convicted con woman who defrauded people in a real estate scam. She never responded to our calls to get her insurance details so I tracked her down to confront her. Once inside her house she was to my surprise extremely friendly and co-operative. We talked for quite a while and I fell for her charms and seduction and eventually we ended up having sex. But now she is threatening to tell my wife and daughter about our twisted sexual encounter if we try and sue her for compensation. I think it was her manipulative plan to blackmail me all along. Am I a monster for what I have done? |
Question: Was it mean to reject a hug from my sister? Posted: 27 May 2017 06:37 AM PDT My sis had an awful day at school yesterday so she was feeling down and a bit depressed. After she told me everything that happened she wanted to give me a hug but at that moment I was annoyed by something else. I was really not in the mood for a hug and just wanted to be alone so I said something like "No I don't want to hug you now". She looked so sad after I said that and just walked away... I feel bad now for rejecting her. Do you think it was mean? |
Question: My Dad has no sympathy for me when I suffer. How can I get him to have some? Posted: 27 May 2017 06:36 AM PDT |
Question: DO MY MOM DESERVE MORE MONEY? Posted: 27 May 2017 06:34 AM PDT Hi..so I'm 22 and my father has been paying child's support since I was younger and my mom never gave me any of it only 5 dollars when I was 12 years old and to me she always been money hungry everytime I get a job she's asking for every week just because I'm living with her. I'm fed up with her and her money hungry ways. And my dad still pays child's support and she still doesn't give me a dime.. |
Question: Is my mom being fair? Posted: 27 May 2017 06:32 AM PDT I just spent 90% of my savings on my first car, & she expects me to hand over what I have left as rent. I babysit my brother most days of the week, sometimes cancelling plans/work. Her new boyfriend & just moved in, his 8 year old daughter included(who I'm forced to share a room.) Last night I locked my door to get dressed, & my mom knocked. I asked her to wait a minute, & she apparently did not hear me. She walked away, & within seconds came back and unlocked my door with the key she had made. She constantly says I contribute nothing to the household. I help as much as possible, and she acts like I don't also have a job and college to attend. I'd move out, but I don't have the money at the moment. I'm also 20 years old. |
Question: DID THIS HAPPEN TO ANYONE ELSE? Posted: 27 May 2017 06:29 AM PDT When I was 14 im 22 now and I moved away from my home town and now live on tn so I've been living here for 8 years now and when I first moved here I was lonely depressed and I didn't really have friends at school and I got bullied by this not he would embarrass me when I walked in class calling me "the ugly *****" and i use to feel less pretty because of my dark skin. I would skip school sometime then I would go home and lay in my room all day i never really could talk to my mom about anything she always treated me different out of my 6 sibilings I'm the middle child it's like she always been jealous of me and she acts as if she hates my dad.my dad has 2 kids me and my younger sister i get along with ny dad well.me and my mom still don't have a good relationship.we don't get along half of the time. Sometimes I still feel insecure even tho people tell me how pretty I am now. Im still sad in the inside.any advice?..btw i ended up dropping out of high school. Just like my mom and dad. |
Question: What does it mean to have a toxic mother or a toxic sibling? Posted: 27 May 2017 05:32 AM PDT My mother abused me by alienating me from other family members as a kid because of her own bias'. Meanwhile my sister is toxic and hostile. So what exactly does it mean to be a toxic family member when no drugs or alcohol are involved? I hear the term and use it but don't know exactly what it means. |
Question: How do i secretly move out? Posted: 27 May 2017 04:56 AM PDT In a few years, i'll be legally old enough to move out. My parents make my life miserable. I can literally go nowhere other than school, and i know it'll be like this even when i'm 18. They emotionally abuse me. If i told them i was moving they wouldn't let me. They're really religious and im not. In their religion, a girl can't move out until she is married and they would use that an excuse to not allow me to leave--they put religion above the law. What do i need to take when i move? Can they legally do anything? I'm planning to move in with another friend, possibly into an apartment where we would split rent. How do i secretly pack? Any other important things i should do? ( please don't judge my decision and say that i should just tell them i'm moving. my family doesn't work like that. ) Help would be greatly appreciated. Thank you. If it helps, i live in Australia. |
Question: Teenage girls do you drive barefoot? Posted: 27 May 2017 04:50 AM PDT I always drive barefoot. I am 18 and my mom taught me how to drive. My mom always drives barefoot so I started driving barefoot. I love driving barefoot it is very comfortable. My mom and I are always barefoot unless we are someplace that requires us to wear shoes. I am going to leave in a few minutes to go to my boyfriends house for the day and I am going to drive barefoot and not bring any shoes with me. |
Posted: 27 May 2017 04:20 AM PDT I had a dream my mom went to the doctor for one thing only to find out she was pregnant, then after my sister and I were in my room with my mom and my mom kept asking them if they wanted a brother or sister, then my got a abortion and didn't want to baby because there was to much for her already The thing is in the dream it was like if she was trying to decide if she wanted to keep or get rid of the baby even after the abortion My mom is 42 and takes care of my two younger sisters, my very sick grandfather, and 3 dogs. She has a hernia and has bad cracking/popping with swollen knees and pain all over her bones. She feels like after breastfeeding my sisters she's paying the price with now having bone problems etc.When something happens I once in awhile say to her please no more kids and she says what are you crazy, if anything I think she can't wait for me to have a kid, like now that I'm graduating high school she think she's going to get a grand kid soon but then she'll end it off in like a joking matter and then she will be like I'm 10 years (when I'm around the age my mom dad me 25/26) then she says I'll be like my mother and won't be here when you call for help......she looks at ourneighbor and gets annoyed because she's only 39 and had all her kids at a young age all together that now their all teens, so it gives my neighbor time for herself to workout etc., where my mom will be close to in her 50s when my sisters are teens and it makes my mom like sad |
Question: Dad came back from business trip just in time for holiday weekend? Posted: 27 May 2017 03:32 AM PDT dad walked in house,sat us all down,told us he was divorcing mom- "oh Mike no " !! mom cried out- dad went to bedroom to pack some clothes to spend weekend with his young girlfriend, my little sister turned on tv to watch cartoons, I went upstairs and flushed my 2 goldfish down toilet. mom weeped. life |
Question: What to about my moms boyfriend who keeps on coming into my room when I am at work? Posted: 27 May 2017 02:52 AM PDT So the apartment where I live is in my name and my moms she doesn't support me I buy my own food clothing etc and pay the rent. And I have the internet and light in my name. So more of the bills are in my name. So I had put up a security camera while I'm at work and today I had finally caught my moms boyfriend coming into my room heading straight for my closet. I don't know why but I have been missing clothing from my closet. Should I beat his azz or have him pay more rent this is getting ridiculous already. I sent the image of him coming into my room and sent it to my mom she has yet to respond or speak to me? What should I do? Should I tell him I'll call the cops on him for theft? |
Posted: 27 May 2017 02:18 AM PDT This might sound like im trying to be edgy or whatever, but it's not the case. So, since i was a little kid (im 17 now) my parents have been making me anxious. They are both teachers. My mom is super strict about school. For example, when i was around 2 she used to sent me to english class for small children (idk why). One time i didn't want to go and she threw all my pacifiers away. Yup, the woman is crazy. She always yells at me and at everyone really, most times for no reason. I just cant stand her. One other time she threw a broom at me, just because i dropped a bottle on the floor. Just being with her causes me horrible anxiety, like just her presence ruins my mood. I dont know what to do about it..Please help! |
Posted: 27 May 2017 12:25 AM PDT My parents love me and I love them. it just feel so hard to show love |
Question: Big decisions help please? Posted: 26 May 2017 11:58 PM PDT I'm moving 25 miles away from current home to be closer to my job and to live with my bf...only my 9 yr old doesn't want to change schools and his visitation with his dad is horrible..cps is investigating his dad and his gf and her kids bully my son horribly. His visitation is whats causing problems...I have to live my life around his schedule as it changes week to week and I never know in advance when he's going to see his dad or what time or anything. It could be wed and thurs or fri and sat or wed and sun or a few hours here or there...some overnights... I'm getting a petition to modify the visitation..but what do I do in the meantime? I am literally sick over this... my son is going to need trauma counseling as a result of what is going on I just need some advice...I cant afford a lawyer. |
Question: This is me reach out to anyone for emotional help.? Posted: 26 May 2017 10:25 PM PDT I need help. I need to talk to someone. please. I feel incredibly sad. my grandpa or great grandpa (I'm not sure) died a few days ago and I have very little memories of him, I mean there are bits and pieces here and there but I barely because he wasn't there for me or my siblings. I feel angry, angry of why he was never there for me! Why did he out of no where pop up in my life and then leave with out saying I love you. I miss him so much and yet I'm hurt because he wasn't in my life, I mean did I not matter to him? I hope people who read this won't get the wrong idea of, that I hate my grandpa ( or great grandpa cuz I'm not sure) he didn't even leave me a letter! Not a ******* letter! Its weird because I just met him again and yet he spent very little time with me, yet I'm very sadden by his death. apparently I think my dad does have the letter but don't want to give it to me. How do I talk to him into giving me the letter with out him lying to me? |
Posted: 26 May 2017 09:53 PM PDT Me and my mom are always getting into arguments. I've tried shutting her out. I've tried killing myself. I've tried running away. I just don't know what the hell to do anymore. |
Question: How to get family member to give back stuff? Posted: 26 May 2017 09:32 PM PDT I relocated out of state and left a few of my things that I couldn't take with me right away at my moms house. She mentioned to me a few months ago about her using some of the stuff I left for example a limited edition perfume. I asked her then to please not use it because it's $150+ to buy another one off eBay. Since I came back to visit and get my things she's been using it around me everyday and when I mention please not to use it she says she'll buy me another one. But I don't want her to. I just want her to give me back the one I already bought. When I try to go over to her house to get my other things she makes up excuses and doesn't want me going inside the house. What can I do to get my stuff back? I wanted to get it before I leave again.. |
Posted: 26 May 2017 09:20 PM PDT My mother's sister is NOT toxic to me but my parents say she is to others. My sister IS toxic to me and my parents make me see her. |
Posted: 26 May 2017 09:18 PM PDT I had a dream my mom went to the doctor for one thing only to find out she was pregnant, then after my sister and I were in my room with my mom and my mom kept asking them if they wanted a brother or sister, then my got a abortion and didn't want to baby because there was to much for her already The thing is in the dream it was like if she was trying to decide if she wanted to keep or get rid of the baby even after the abortion My mom is 42 and takes care of my two younger sisters, my very sick grandfather, and 3 dogs. She has a hernia and has bad cracking/popping with swollen knees and pain all over her bones. She feels like after breastfeeding my sisters she's paying the price with now having bone problems etc.When something happens I once in awhile say to her please no more kids and she says what are you crazy, if anything I think she can't wait for me to have a kid, like now that I'm graduating high school she think she's going to get a grand kid soon but then she'll end it off in like a joking matter and then she will be like I'm 10 years (when I'm around the age my mom dad me 25/26) then she says I'll be like my mother and won't be here when you call for help......she looks at ourneighbor and gets annoyed because she's only 39 and had all her kids at a young age all together that now their all teens, so it gives my neighbor time for herself to workout etc., where my mom will be close to in her 50s when my sisters are teens and it makes my mom like sad |
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Posted: 26 May 2017 08:31 PM PDT So, I was out with my friend and her mom comes up to me and starts talking to me. I'm politely responding to her questions and tell her about my home life, how i have a sister etc. and it turns out that she works in the same school as my sister (Who looks white, I do not) so...the Mom gives me a disgusted face and says "Oh is she the same coloring as you?" It was very strange. |
Question: What should I do? What should I tell to my Mom? Posted: 26 May 2017 08:25 PM PDT I'm a 23 years old man in the final year of university and I'm also the youngest son in my family. I feel depressed right now, mainly because of my Mother's behaviour. My Mom is way to protective to me, even when I'm 23 years old. She doesn't let me do my own things. She doesn't even let me hang out with my friends when I don't have anything to do (say, I rarely hang out at Saturday night). The only chance I get to hang out with my friends are on university only. But, here's what I find weird. She doesn't take my bussiness seriously. She always want me to accompany her to her own bussiness yet she doesn't take my bussiness seriously. Let me give you an example, I injured my left foot in an accident and my Doctor wants me to meet up with him at 8 AM. I still can go out to the doctor all by myself, but she wants to accompany me. But, she didn't make herself ready at 8 AM. All she did was...sitting in the couch and cleaning her room (for the record, she rarely do it, we have a maid on our house) until we met the doctor at 11 AM. I feel so depressed right now, what should I do? I love my Mom but her "double personalities" really made me feel depressed. All I want is just a little space. Thank you in advance for all the advices. |
Question: Creo que estoy embarazada, me voy a matar? Posted: 26 May 2017 08:24 PM PDT Hola, tengo 16 años... resulta que tengo 4 días de retraso en mi menstruación (y eso no es normal en mi ). En mis días fértiles yo y mi novio tuvimos un "faje" el froto su miembro en mi vagina (no hubo penetración ni eyaculo ), el metió sus dedos en mi vagina pero anteriormente se había limpiado el líquido seminal con los dedos (creo que el líquido seminal también tiene espermas).¿ Puede que este embarazada? . He sentido dolor de cólicos y mis pechos sensibles sin embargo no me baja. Estoy muy asustada. |
Question: Should I ***** slap my mother? In public? Posted: 26 May 2017 07:46 PM PDT I want to be as dramatic with it as possible. My mother made me late for school during a test day. I overslept and ended up missing that test which ruined everything. |
Posted: 26 May 2017 07:45 PM PDT it is sad because I like to do art and it was a good drawing of a really nice moth eating a bowl of soup. I am 35 and haven't had a job so I just do art sometimes but now I don't have nothing |
Question: You are a blessing in my life, meaning ? Posted: 26 May 2017 07:10 PM PDT |
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Question: How do I convince my parents give up guardian ship while I am still living with them? Posted: 26 May 2017 05:34 PM PDT I'm 19 years old and have autism and I am moving 21 I should not have to listen to them anymore and do what I want while I'm still there |
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