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Question: Back when i was young my grandma use to go literally everywhere all the time she use to get out the house & everything (Read More)?

Posted: 13 May 2017 01:34 PM PDT

All She does is clean, & watch tv all day everyday the only time she leaves is when she has a doctor's appointment its been like this for years now she use to go places back when i was like 7 or so but not so anymore, its starting to worry me cause the older i get the more i know its deeper then that she refuses to go to family event's ,No matter how important it is she doesn't feel like it..shes tired..shes hurting ..but i don't understand why doesn't she wanna be around anybody?

Question: Is my mum mad?

Posted: 13 May 2017 01:24 PM PDT

So, normal saturday dinner and we all are ready to eat. My mum asked if their was any mint sauce, 'No' was the reply - her own fault as we ran out last week and she forgot to get some when shopping. My mum threatened to throw her dinner up the wall (not the first time) and went to bed. Basically, its like living with a teenager, no manners, demanding, drinks a bottle of wine per night........ list goes on... Im 16 and have my GCSEs next week and am tightly shut away in the closet and don't feel like I cant come out.... Any advice would be great, thanks! ;) "feel like i can't come out" cant spell lol

Question: I have an alcoholic mother. How do I keep from being embarrassed when she is drunk in public or in front of the extended family?

Posted: 13 May 2017 01:06 PM PDT

I am 21

Question: I have a fear of my mother using me as a weapon against her enemies in her family. How do I prevent her abusing me like this?

Posted: 13 May 2017 01:05 PM PDT

Question: I just fought my mom. What do I do now?

Posted: 13 May 2017 01:03 PM PDT

I have to build a cardboard boat for physics class, and I got so frustrated that I tell my mom that I'm not doing the project anymore. She gets pissed and starts telling me that I'm giving up and that I'm weak, etc. She goes back to the room where my project is and asks me what it's supposed to be. She should already know what it is because she's been helping me with it. I tell her its a boat (keep in mind she was angry so she was being super rude) and she gets frustrated and, for some reason, asks me what it's supposed to be again. I pick it up and shove it in her face and tell her that it's a boat. At this point she starts hitting me, and I push her to get her off of me, and she hits me harder until I fall to the ground and she puts me in a headlock. At this point I'm begging her to stop because I could breathe but she wouldn't. Five minutes later, I get off of her and run to my room and lock the doors. She took the doorknob off so now I can't close the door to my room. Help

Question: My sister is an evil savage. How do I keep people safe from her annoying and bully-like behavior?

Posted: 13 May 2017 01:03 PM PDT

Question: 1950's vs now. Which era do you like better?

Posted: 13 May 2017 01:01 PM PDT

Between the 1950's and the 2010's which one do you like better? I think the 1950's are better because of these reasons: Nowadays world heroes are people like Danielle Bregoli, the girl who disrespects people, Nowadays kids aren't really kids anymore... all they do is sit around and use their phone, No one acts with class anymore, everyone tries to act ghetto, Cars are ugly nowadays, music sucks now, movies suck now, clothes are ugly nowadays, everyone is so ignorant nowadays... Modern technology is the worst one, everyone is antisocial and stares down at their phone, crime rates are way higher nowadays, more suicides from kids nowadays due to social media of course... most people hate the 1950's because they think it was racist... there is actually a lot of racism today still, nowadays it's blacks people being racist to white people... out of only those two decades (the 1950's and the 2010's) which one do you like better?

Question: What should I do?

Posted: 13 May 2017 01:00 PM PDT

Ok so my parents are separated (or divorced however u like)for 3 years. I live with my mom, and I traveled to go see my dad out of the USA bc of his work. I've seen hime six times since. This year my dad came here and him and my mom have decided that I'll be going to be with my dad for 8 months. They've asked me if I'm fine with it and I've said yes, but really I'm not. I DO NOT want to go. I just feel like it's going to be awkward, I don't want to leave my friends, and he wants me to learn a new language ughh. I just don't want to tell him that I don't want to go. Like I just don't want to say, "no I dont want to go I'd rather stay with mom". Please help me I don't what to do/say. Thank you for anyone that will help me!😊😊

Question: How do I get over the awkwardness of going to my sister's wedding in June but h alf the family not asked?

Posted: 13 May 2017 12:57 PM PDT

She hasn't asked our Dad or any of his family since our Dad divorced our mother and remarried. I worry the secret will be out that I am the only one who has a close relationship with our Dad. My two sisters don't and this sister is so sick in her bitterness she won't even ask him or his family to her wedding. I am the only son so am close to him and wish my sister wasn't so ugly in her soul.

Question: About to get in F in my college class.....is this a crazy reason why?

Posted: 13 May 2017 12:31 PM PDT

Ok so I've been going to my community college for 4 semesters now and wanted to graduate in a couple weeks with a 4.0 gpa. My GPA was a 4.0 which is perfect and all A's for 3 semesters until my stepdad came home from jail and now everything went downhill from there. He's 42 and LOVES to pick fights about everything. I am talking about fights over a couple water droplets on the counter after I wash my hands or not closing the cap to the dish soap after I use it. He even comes home from work everyday and the first thing he does is check the fridge and cupboards and garbage to see what I ate. I am extremely uncomfortable in my own house and I don't eat, shower or do laundry when he's home because all he does is stare me down the whole time I'm downstairs and then goes in whatver room I was in (kitchen, bathroom...) and picks at everything I did to create a fight between me him and my mom. So with all that stress from constant fighting and feeling uncomfortable and also the stress of losing my job...my grades have slipped. I'm about to get my first F in a class because it seemed like my stepdad would know I was trying to study or do homework and he would pick a fight which would overwhelm my emotions and stress response and I would go to sleep to make my anxiety go away because I have BAD problems with it and this constant pressure I feel doesn't help. Do I sound crazy for thinking my grades slipped because of this?

Question: Why won t my Mom and Dad let me go places but they let my sister?

Posted: 13 May 2017 12:06 PM PDT

I m 14 and she s 16

Question: Jealous mother...?

Posted: 13 May 2017 12:01 PM PDT

So me and my mom where walking and I stared to to jog way ahead of her....and she literally yelled to me "How long are you going to keep that up?!" Really? she knows I struggle with my weight and body image why would she say something SO mean - jealousy? And she's not ANY smaller. How can I handle what she said to me? :(

Question: Is he abusive?

Posted: 13 May 2017 11:47 AM PDT

My dad and I have always had a bad relationship. A lot of my friends often question if he is abusive, but I deny it. He makes me feel guilty, puts me down, manipulates me, and makes me fearful. I'll ask my friends if it's normal, but they don't think so. I remember one time when I was 10, I wasn't beating the eggs fast enough while making French toast... he grabbed me and threatened to "punch my lights out" with a firm grip choking my throat. Another time, a few months ago... I took him ice skating with me and I introduced him to one of my friends. She was scares of the way he treated me and the way we behaved around one another. He continued blaming me for things, and when I got home I cut myself. I'm sorry this is long, but I don't know what to do. I'm a minor (15 female), so I can't leave. Am I overreacting? I sometimes find it silly of me to remember the French toast incident so vividly. Another thing he has done for a long time though, he questions me on everything. He will ask my mom if I'm lying to him or something, even when I am telling the truth. I'm not trying to appear like the perfect person, and I have told lies in the past on occasion. But he holds on to them. And I will find myself submitting to his will, afraid of what he would do. But my mom and I have a fantastic relationship <3

Question: Did you prefer being spanked or grounded growing up?

Posted: 13 May 2017 11:37 AM PDT

Question: What does that mean ?

Posted: 13 May 2017 11:21 AM PDT

I was not having a bad day. my Bestfriend and I, sWe had talked and she had give me a bunch of advice. he said "as long as you live no one could handle as much as you have" what exactly did she mean by that?

Question: I stopped talking to him because I got bored. Should I feel bad. ?

Posted: 13 May 2017 11:11 AM PDT

Well I started chatting with a new person three days ago. The conversation wasn't really formal and was slow at first but soon picked up when he started being really random. I played along and we asked questions like "where are you from", he asked me my name but I wasn't comfortable telling him. Eventually I noticed he didn't understand any of the references that I made, I don't think we had We chatted a little for about three days and each time we chatted it was like a continuation of randomness. No asking "what's going o ?" Or "how was your day ?", idk. We also didn't seem to have much in common and he seemed a bit childish. I also think that he expected me to be funny all of the time and had once said "I expected a more humorous response from you." I lost interested because I became bored basically. Then I deleted some messages and he had inquired why I did, but I didn't see the point in telling him because they weren't important.

Question: Is my mom ok looking.she feels plain?

Posted: 13 May 2017 11:06 AM PDT

http://imgur.com/a/Kc9QP

Question: I feel like a financial burden?

Posted: 13 May 2017 10:37 AM PDT

my dad makes about 80k and my mom doesn't work. They have 3 kids. I'm the oldest and I just feel so guilty when they spend money on me? Recently we had to pay 300$ to repair my 800$ phone bc the first repair broke it. My mom is not mad and says it's not my fault me that she's more worried about the fact I recently had an anxiety attack over it. I get sick a lot and I have terrible teeth which results in a lot of med bills. I am very passionate about my future as a oncologist and take AP courses which cost 100$ each per exam. I took certified nurse assistant training which costs 400$. And basically a lot of other things that cost them so much money. We don't struggle financially and my mom tells me not to worry about money but lately after the phone thing costing over 1k I've had anxiety attacks and can't help but feel guilty about them spending on me. I don't ever ask for anything anymore and refuse when they wanna buy me something. My insomnia got worse because of this and all I ever do when I see them buying me something is cry. I love my parents to death and I know they care more about me than money, but how can I stop feeling so guilty? Especially after the phone thing

Question: Can you get in legal trouble for expressing your opinion?

Posted: 13 May 2017 10:14 AM PDT

My Mother Inlaw has done nothing except make my life a living hell for three years. So i sent her a long expressive email of my feelings. Of course she gets angry and tells her Son that she is going to the police. But i never threatend her. I just expressed my opinion. I did tell her she is a *****. She is also taking the email to child protective services. Although i never mentioned harming my kids in the message. So im very confused.. Can i actually get in legal trouble for the email?

Question: Can I ever forgive these Indian Parents?

Posted: 13 May 2017 10:06 AM PDT

My husband is Indian and I'm not. We dated for over a year and his parents didn't approve of us, and behind my back, they set him up and forced him down an arranged marriage path to prevent him from marrying me. He didn't tell me what was going on. He continued to date me while going on "arranged" dates with this other girl. Finally, he stood up to them and said he cannot go through a marriage with that girl and got married to me. He told me about his deceit afterwards and I forgave him given the circumstances. However, now, I'm having a tough time forgiving his parents. They are trying to be nice, but every time I see them, I can't help but think of what they did behind my back and how much hurt they caused me. For my own peace of mind, how do I forgive them? I feel like my disdain for them is coming between me and my husband which I don't want.

Question: What might I talk about when I am with my mean sister this afternoon?

Posted: 13 May 2017 09:49 AM PDT

I have a sister that is critical, demanding, self-absorbed (a narcissist), and always annoyed. I have to drive her to the airport at 5:00PM tonight. What do I discuss in the 30 minute drive so she is not as unpleasant as shew usually is?

Question: Concerns about my 12 year old cousin. Not really sure how to deal with this issue with him...?

Posted: 13 May 2017 09:22 AM PDT

I'm a little more than twice as old as he is. He often comes for sleepovers especially when his parents would go somewhere. I have a big bed in my place, and since we're cousins, both male, and since he's been over many times ever since I moved in my apartment, I didn't see anything wrong with sharing it to sleep. The last time he was with me was quite bothering, though. His parents were away for several days (such was the nature of their work) so he stayed with me for a week. For the first several nights I would notice him masturbate. I didn't mind since I know he's at that age and I did it too at that age. I just pretended to be asleep because I didn't want to embarrass him. If he left a mess, however, then I would have to tell him off. His last night with me really shocked me. It probably was 11 at night. It was summer so I typically go to be bed shirtless with loose boxers on. I was already half asleep lying on my side turned away from him when I felt my boxers being gently pulled down. Then after a few minutes I was already feeling him rubbing himself against my butt. I know he's 12 so he really can't do anything, but I simply froze while it was happening. Again I just continued on pretending to sleep because that would really mortify him if I suddenly turned around and saw him with his underwear off, and just waited til he was done. The next morning continued like nothing happened. But I really wanted to talk to him about it, I just don't know how. I didn't want to tell his parents because of the sensitivity of it. I'm not sure if it's him just being curious and exploratory in his age, but could it be possible too that he's gay (not that there's anything wrong with being gay), and sexually attracted to me?

Question: My parents are not normal!! What should i do?

Posted: 13 May 2017 08:32 AM PDT

My parents hate each other, they always fight and they don't work and we are in huge debts and they made us me and my sister very poor, my dad drinks every week and come home and acts totally crazy, he shouts and breaks everything in the house and threatens us etc and then my mom shouts too and says she will kill him and they also shouts at us and never care about us, i have to do so many works next to school to have a little money, so many times we can't even eat normal food and we're starving and we can't rest at home because one of them always does something...Its not life!! Its a freaking hell and i wanna escape as quickly as i can!! How can i do that? What should i do? Without any help and money? They destroyed my childhood and my future seems bad and hopeless

Question: Do I look like my mum at all?

Posted: 13 May 2017 08:20 AM PDT

Mum is on the left, I'm on the right.

Question: How to tell my parents we cannot have children?

Posted: 13 May 2017 08:17 AM PDT

My husband and I know since December that we can't have kids due to his permament genetical issue. So far i did not say anything to my parents and my mum is recently each time we speak on the phone drilling me into why we are not even trying, that i am too much about my career and have to consider starting family etc. I really want to tell them but: we live 1200 km away, in another European country. Telling over the phone? Next time i see it's on the occasion of my new nephew's son baptims (should i tell it to their face then? ruining potentially the celebration?) we see each other just 3-4 times a year due to distance/work. But i am stuck and upset each time i chat to them over the phone. I know this will come as a shock. My mother is very sensitive. I dont know what to do... It's killing me inside that they still dont know.. i told my closest friends but not my parents..

Question: Mum threatened to disown my if I move out (18 yrs old, bipolar relationship)?

Posted: 13 May 2017 07:59 AM PDT

Hi, I'm 18 years old and am still in high school (in France), just about to go into my last year this coming September. I want to move out and do my last year of High school and pass my A levels in London, England. I would rent a room with money I've saved up and find a job, and go to school. If I stay in the French system, I won't be able to prove to English universities my capacities Relationship with my mom is fragile. She has said many terrible things to me in the past: how she could disown me, her love is conditional and that at times she doesn't love me. And she has made it clear that home is her home, not ours. At other times, though, she is very loving; but it just doesn't make up for our sometimes toxic bipolar relationship, and it makes me feel very confused. I want to move out, but she threatened to disown me. Tbh, I was shocked and hurt by how strongly she opposed me doing this. She justified it by being worried about how I would cope, but still… disowning me? I believe her because she has disowned other family members quite easily. All in all, I need to move out because my home life isn't great, (even though Im only at home on the weekends) and school life constantly worrying me. There is no support system, no guidance counsellor. I want to hear people's opinion on the situation. Should I leave? Should I put up with it for another year even though I know I'm going to leave eventually? I'm an only child who is very independent and have no support system. me*

Question: What do I give my rotten and worthless mother for Mother's Day?

Posted: 13 May 2017 07:50 AM PDT

Question: My Dad is an ignorant person so does this mean it is genetic and will I be ignorant?

Posted: 13 May 2017 07:49 AM PDT

No one else in the family has ignorance except him. He is ignorant to people's disabilities and mental illness.

Question: How to handle this?

Posted: 13 May 2017 07:35 AM PDT

At least once a week I catch my step dad and my mom making out or having sex around the house. One time my mom was sucking his dick. Another, he was licking her ****. Yet, it almost goes unnoticed.

Question: I get treated with so much disrespect by my brother and dad and I just cant deal with it anymore. What do I do?

Posted: 13 May 2017 07:07 AM PDT

Question: My girlfriend fell asleep on her desk with her boobs exposed should I pull her bra up or leave her boobs out in the office?

Posted: 13 May 2017 06:53 AM PDT

Question: What should I do! Mother's Day and the flu?

Posted: 13 May 2017 05:55 AM PDT

Hi, everyone. So tomorrow is Mother's Day as we all know and of course my father and I want to take my mother out to a nice dinner tonight (instead of tomorrow to avoid more crowds) and then do a nice breakfast tomorrow morning at home with mimosas, flowers, etc. Low key but sweet. :) The only issue is, I've come down with what I think is the flu. It started a couple days ago with an awful headache (that still hasn't gone away), body aches, body chills, and hot flashes... and finally last night I broke a fever at 101, and woke up this morning with a sore throat (but no fever). My mom knows I'm sick because she's been calling to check in on me (I don't live at home, I'm 26 but live only 40 mins away). I had two older brothers who died 5 and 7 years ago so I'm the only child left and I feel bad not going out to dinner with her to celebrate mother's day but I don't want to get either of my parents sick, so I just don't know what to do. My mom told me she doesn't mind rescheduling because she goes out to dinner often but it's still mother's day so of all days, she should get to go out tonight. I can definitely suck it up and feel OK at dinner, but I don't know if that's the right thing to do, putting her and my father at risk for getting sick too. Any advice?

Question: Why don't many kidies and teens obey their moms?

Posted: 13 May 2017 05:15 AM PDT

Question: I'm tired of my mom and scared of her, what should I do?

Posted: 13 May 2017 04:44 AM PDT

I'm scared of my mom because she always yells at me for no reason and is constantly making me cry. When I was a kid she would beat me when I wouldn't listen to her and there was once where she pulled my hair and punched my head against our dinning table just because I asked her if I could go to my friend's birthday party. I'm now 14 and she doesn't beat me anymore but she still yells and says bad words to me. She has told me to go die various times and that her life is ruined because of me, she has also said that she regrets having a child like me. Every time she yells at me is either because she's taking her anger out at me. Like once she yelled at me and told me to go die when I simply left my scarf in my piano lesson. There was also a time where she threw water bottles at me because i forgot to call my dad to bring me to my piano lesson, ok she has the right to get mad but that problem could've been simply solved if she would just bring me there with her car instead since I was almost late. But no she made a huge drama about it and lied to my teacher that I was the one who didn't want to go to class and again told me to go die. I cried because I felt like I was nothing to her, that it would be just fine for her if I killed myself. I was so sad at that time that I almost cut myself, but luckely I didn't. Because who the hell thinks that's ok telling a TEENAGER to go kill themselves?? I mean at least my mom does. Can someone give me some advice about this problem?

Question: How do I ask mom I want to go to a college party?

Posted: 13 May 2017 04:40 AM PDT

So I'm 19 and moved back in yesterday in my parent's house after going away for college. I don't go out that much and my last "outing" was in November. I make good grades (4.0) and don't get involved with certain things. I pretty much just study. Now my boyfriend is a DJ and he's going to be DJing a party tomorrow night. The location is about fifteen minutes from my home, and it'll be from 10 PM to 2 AM. I was going to tell my mom that I want to go from 10 to 11. My boyfriend plans to pick me up at 9, but the only thing is, that's also when my dad will be home and they haven't met. I don't know what to do. My parents are foreign, plus they can be paranoid and overprotective at times. But I want to go to have a little fun as I will be taking classes all summer. Should I tell my mom today or tomorrow? Should I only tell my mom since my dad doesn't know about the guy Thanks.

Question: I m tired of my parents always fighting, what should I do?

Posted: 13 May 2017 03:39 AM PDT

My parents have been fighting ever since I was a kid, and I m pretty sure they did fight even before I was born. I m now 14 and the situation hasn t gotten better. I mean they used to fight a lot more when I was a kid but now they still fight very often. Usually they always start fighting because of money, we re not poor but it s just that my mom treats money like it s everything she needs in her life. For example she always demands money back from my dad when she pays something for me, and she gets mad when my dad refuses to pay something for her, when she herself doesn t buy almost anything for my dad. My dad is a calm person and he usually doesn t get mad unless something very unreasonable happens to him. My mom gets mad about little things very easily and when my parents start fighting it s usually because of her. When my parents fight, I don t say anything and just go into my room because I don t want to hear them shout anymore because it just hurts me cause all I want is for them to understand each other and I only want a normal loving family. Can someone give me some advice because I m really tired of this

Question: My brother keeps touching my cousin inmapropriately in the night . What should I do?

Posted: 13 May 2017 12:47 AM PDT

My brother is 14 and my cousin is a girl who lives with us. She's also 14. We all sleep in the same room with my younger brother. My cousin and my 2 brothers used to sleep on the same bed till my cousin told my mum about him touching her breasts in the early morning by like 2 am. That's when she started sleeping on the floor with me. Another time, she told me as she was on the floor he woke up in the night and touched her. I didn't tell my mum but I screamed at him and made him feel bad and I also talked to him so I thought he wasn't going to do it again . Now we have a bunk bed and this is like almost 1 and a half months since the last incident. I was sleeping just now and the time is 2am; my cousin woke me up and was crying that he came down from his up bunk to me and my cousin's bed and was touching her. He had already ran to his bed as she was telling me so I started screaming at him and I told him this time I was going to tell my mum because I warned him the last time. He has been crying for 30 mins and even if I was angry I'm starting to pity him. Should I tell my mum or should I give him this last chance? Because he was crying a lot and promising a lot of things. He even came by me to kneel down. Please tell me what to do I have to know before the whole house wakes up.

Question: Advice? My stubborn parents never listen to my feelings? HELP �� *i know its alot but please i need help*?

Posted: 12 May 2017 11:03 PM PDT

Im 17yrs old, and im a junior in Highschool...my carrer dream is to become a Veterinarian, ive always been crazy about animals!! And like any teen they "want" alot..ive mentioned to my parents that id like to Barrel Race in rodeos..but we didnt have a horse..couple yrs went by and we were blessed with a 16 hand red chestnut mare named Lucy...anyways we got a saddle and gear...and found some old barrels to practice with, anyways its been about 4 months, and im not enjoying any of it..every time I try to talk to my dad and hint around that this rodeo thing isnt for me after all, all he does is yell, cuss, call me lazy, and compares me to my troubling older brother, along with being called a quitter...its like i cant escape this, i thought it would be fun and easy!! No, I actually hate life, im depressed, stressed, and constantly anxious...i cry at night just thinking of having to work with this horse...im having to do something everyday with something ive grown to hate..idk what to do or escape I literally want to take any chance i can to get out of this situation, but i dont want to hurt anyone's feelings, i can already hear my mom "We spent all this money bc u said u wanted it! Ur a spoiled brat, uhh i cant believe you rn!! " 😔 I just want to disappear, i want to run away and never come back...all im asking is just for a little advice? Please im very depressed if u know what im feeling...please!! Im desperate

Question: Can someone know your information thru a phone call? (Real Creepy Story)?

Posted: 12 May 2017 10:38 PM PDT

I know it sounds creepy, but it's really scary that it freaks me out. So, my mom and dad decided to go to their work and they said they will not gonna go home until tomorrow, so, I invited my bestfriend to sleep at our house, he agreed. We play alot of xbox and watch YouTube, then he ask me if we can troll people and prank call random phone numbers, I agreed, so, everything turns out to be fine, then suddenly this guy, we trolled him and he's not like talking for about a minute and we still trolling him then he suddenly speak and his voice is really deep and scary, then he started to say my address and who is our mom and my dad, and what are our names, then he said be careful. We immediatley hang up the phone and it scared the freak out of us. So, it's been like 3 hours since that happened, we still can't sleep, and I called my parents about this, and they said they will call the police but the police still not arrive. It's really scary. If you think this is a troll, it's not. So, is it possible to know your information thru a phone call?

Question: How do I get my parents to love eachother?!?

Posted: 12 May 2017 09:35 PM PDT

I'm 13. My parents are hollering about getting a divorce. But I don't see why because they are both so kind and good and I feel like I'll die if they get a divorce. And what I'm wondering is if they're going to stay single forever and swear off men / women or whether they're going to try to get married again, but I dont see how because they're both good and smart and nice and so many other people aren't as nice. So how can they happily remarry? How do I make them stop? ;_;

Question: I want to punch my sister in the face because she won't listen?

Posted: 12 May 2017 09:27 PM PDT

I get super mad when my sister doesn't listen to my parents. Example is that My mom tells my sister to go take a shower but she says "5 more minutes" and that makes me made and I yell at her but she's just saying "You can't tell me what to do". That made me want to punch her the face but I can't or else i'll get in trouble and my parents said that they have been calling her for like 20 minutes to take a shower but she can't hear because she has loud headphones. I really want to punch her what should I do?

Question: Can I please get somebody s advixe?

Posted: 12 May 2017 09:18 PM PDT

Long story I used to live with my mom and now I live with my dad. My mom and I had some issues. Now my mom is trying to get me back while my dad is trying to get me. The thing is I tell them both I want to live with them, but I truely don t know who I want to live with.  I like living with them both. I visit my mom every other weekend. Every weekend she wants to look through my phone and ot just makes me even more depressed. She told me today that she is supposed to know every password for every website I m on. Anyways I ve thought of 2 ways to get out of this situation: run away or suicide. I don t want to end my life but I also don t want to keep living like this, constantly stressed and sad. I love my mom but every time I come over by her I always get really sad and start falling apart. I have nobody to talk to about this. I just don t know what to do anymore. My dad is super chill and lets me do whatever I feel like but when I'm with my mom I have to hang out with her. I can't sit in my room for 10 minutes without having to "talk to her" Every time I hear her walk by my room I freak out, thinking she's going to come in and yell at me for something or fpr some reason My mom is an alcoholic and that's why I don't live with her. But she was supposed to stop drinking but I know she does. She does it right in front of me!

Question: Have you ever seen your father cry?

Posted: 12 May 2017 08:48 PM PDT

Question: What i do because my child is 7 years old but he cannot write properly?

Posted: 12 May 2017 08:38 PM PDT

Question: Are you at all Jewish?

Posted: 12 May 2017 08:24 PM PDT

Question: What Should I Do about a mother whom only gets after me?

Posted: 12 May 2017 08:22 PM PDT

I am the youngest of five children including a twin. My mother calls me out for being rude to her, but she has always had an attitude with me, My twin has autism, and she treats him over the top, my middle sibling aspires to be a doctor and my mother approves of her and her work ethic, this sibling has also had two surgeries and my mother overly cares. My eldest brother used to be a marine and is pretty chill, and she likes him. Finally, my eldest sister whom is a teacher always comes over and tries to start a verbal fight with everyone because she assumes she is right because our father likes her the best and my mother has a love/stress relationship with her. I am the only hold she struggles with, even though I do the shopping, chores, take care of my twin, do yard work and other tasks around the household, but if I miss one tiny thing, she only freaks out at ME. I am only 18 and have been so irritated with this lately that I figured I needed some advice. What should I do about my mother and I's relationship???

Question: When my 14 year old acts up how long should I send her to her room for ?

Posted: 12 May 2017 08:22 PM PDT

Question: My step mom always takes my phone away because she says I don't "respect her". Does she have the right to do this when she's not my mom?

Posted: 12 May 2017 08:18 PM PDT

-please don't say "just respect her" because I literally do she just likes taking it away. - I think it gives her joy to take it away? - We are not related so why does she have any right to take it?

Question: Am I going the right thing by not helping put my family?

Posted: 12 May 2017 08:07 PM PDT

my family has helped me during financial hardships. They bought me a computer for school because mine broke. Also, I could not find a job and my brother gave me 1.5k to help pay my tuition. My brother is going through some legal **** for being stupid and needs to pay 15k+ and my Dad needs 20k to pay for a surgery he had and he refused to get insurance when I told him too. They want my help paying off, but I'm trying to pay off my own debts. Yes they helped me but not for being irresponsible.

Question: I hate being a muslim girl.?

Posted: 12 May 2017 08:04 PM PDT

my parents don't pray 5x a day. all we really do is fast during ramadan. i wasn't taught anything about the quran, however, when my grandma comes i am forced to read i. therefore, i am not muslim. i know more about christianity that i know about islam. i believe that christ is my savior. the problem is i'm 16 and i live with my parents. it's really hot here, and i am not allowed to wear shorts or very short half sleeves. it's not fair. it's not my fault muslim men can't keep their **** in their pants, it's not my fault they get horny if they see girls walking around in shorts. i hate how muslim girls are treated like crap. i should be able to make my own decisions. i've thought about killing myself because of the fact i have to wear pants in blazing hot weather. how pathetic is that? i don't know what to do. summer is coming up and it's just not fair i won't hang out with friends because i can't wear shorts. i hate going out in summer because it's so hot... i hate going on runs because i have to wear heavy pants. being raised in thai religion, has ruined my life. i hate being muslim. i don't know what to do, i just want to wear some ******* shorts.

Question: Am I being delusional?

Posted: 12 May 2017 07:54 PM PDT

Every summer my parents go on a plane trip to Florida. I have always been okay with it except this time. I graduate from highschool a few days after they come back, and I've been worrying so much. I've been worrying because I'm always thinking what would happen if they both die in a plane crash? They wouldn't show up to my graduation and I wouldn't go to the college I would want to go to since I would be taking care of my younger siblings. For this past week I've been crying so much and telling my parents I didn't want them to go. Am I being delusional thinking that they could die? Help!!!

Question: Grandparents, how do you correct your grandchildren? My grandson lives with me, he is ten and gets disrespectful at times.?

Posted: 12 May 2017 07:50 PM PDT

Question: A mother's plea?

Posted: 12 May 2017 07:50 PM PDT

My son is 19 years old and he spends 10 hours online. He claims he is doing homework but he is probably being a woman hating neo-Nazi asshole(he goes on those forums).. I can not stop him from using the computer forever, He is almost 20 yrs old. What do I do? -Barbie PS. He is unemployed and never had a girlfriend Well I figured he should focus on his Associates in Science degree at the community college(criminal justice)

Question: Why does my mom think I have a crush on this girl?

Posted: 12 May 2017 07:45 PM PDT

So, my family went out to eat yesterday, and one of the waitresses looked a lot like a girl from my school, Morgan, just like 5 years older. I commented on that, pointing out that the waitress has the same hair color, texture, style, skin tone, bone structure, and even the same freakin' expression. My mom asked how I knew Morgan's face well enough to know all that. Obviously, I can tell her expression, hair color, texture, and style just from seeing her in class. She also has a wide forehead and high, protruding cheekbones, just like the waitress did. They're all very noticable features, so obviously I noticed them. Still, my mom and dad didn't seem to believe me, and they were just both smirking the rest of the time. The next day, my mom randomly started asking about Morgan, and she's never asked about anyone from my school before. Obviously, she thinks that I like her, and it's getting really annoying since it isn't true. If you was in her position, would you think I liked her? If so, how can I get her to drop it?

Question: I saw my parents having sex?

Posted: 12 May 2017 07:44 PM PDT

Okay so I was using my dad's laptop for my project because I left mine at my friend's house and I didn't have time to get it. I was saving a photo to his computer so I could print it out and when I was about to hit the download button the photos that were already in his computer popped up and I saw multiple photos of them having sex and some really sexual pictures of my mom and now I'm super uncomfortable because he's my step dad and the photos were kind of disturbing. I wouldn't care if it was my real dad and my mom but it being my step dad just makes me feel weird. I don't know if I should tell them I saw it or not (I'm 11 years old, I know.. I shouldn't even know was sex is at my age) I already had the talk with my mom about sex but I don't want my parents to get mad at me, or be uncomfortable or cause problems.. The photos were really disturbing for me and I really think I need therapy or some kind of help because seeing my parents like that just make me feel weird. Should I tell them?

Question: Should I still say happy mother's day to my mother?

Posted: 12 May 2017 07:33 PM PDT

She has undeniably destroyed the mindset of all three of her daughters, including myself, and has robbed my father of 10 painful years of his life just dealing with her after their divorce. However, I'm the youngest child and still live with my father, thus my actions are blamed on him. I haven't had a conversation with my mother since December of 2015, where she destroyed me emotionally and guilt tripped me for hours. We wish each other happy birthdays and she makes sad attempts of communication through bitmoji and snapchat. Should I still say happy mother's day?

Question: My mom won't accept that I'm bisexual?

Posted: 12 May 2017 06:51 PM PDT

My mother is a hardcore Christian, and for the past years she has been pestering me on if I am interested in girls. I have been declining her assumptions until last month when I blurted out that I was indeed interested in both genders. She took it better than I expected, but the problem is that she loves me so she wants me to go to Heaven. I too believe in God but I am not as religious as her. It wasn't until recently that she started saying how she wishes I would just not date anyone because she doesn't want me to date females. She is now constantly saying how she wishes I'd only date men, but too bad for her I am interested more into females and would prefer to marry one. I just need to know if there is anything I could possibly do to help her understand that this this is who I am and I can't change, and that there still might be a way I could go to Heaven.

Question: Meeting birth family and having a bad experience?

Posted: 12 May 2017 06:39 PM PDT

Long story short I met my birth family 2 months ago after 29 years. My birth mother and I don t talk after I flew out there across the country after 3 days of finding them. I met my sister, mom, uncle, aunt, grand parents... and cousins... basically they don t try reaching out anymore and when they do it seems like they are competing w me... I feel like I have nobody to talk to about this and I don t know if I should disconnect myself from my birth family? since meeting it has made me more depressed but there is that feeling of not wanting to let them go since I have been searching my whole life... what do I do?