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- Question: EVERYONE THINKS IM UNGRATEFUL!!!?
- Question: Am I being used by my friends? Is this normal?
- Question: My best friends has been ignoring me, what do i do?
- Question: 8th Grade. No friends:( I'm a girl?
- Question: Can I die? Please?
- Question: I miss my friend, what do I do?
- Question: Road trip with female friend. Taboo?
- Question: I know I probably won't be in the same class as my best friend this year. I'm nervous and if I'm not in the same class I'll have anxiety.?
- Question: 10 POINTS!!! comebacks?
- Question: What to say to someone whos retiring?
- Question: My mom is/was reading my Skype messages without telling me?
- Question: I have a close friend we usually talk a lot but lately she hasn't whats wrong?
- Question: How do I regain trust?
- Question: Why I not feel needed?
- Question: I feel weird in my dorm?
- Question: An autistic boy is stalking me and my friend. What do I do?
- Question: What do I do with ppl who don't do anything in group projects?
- Question: Do you guys think she did this because of me?
- Question: What is the best birthday present you've received from a friend?
- Question: I feel so lonely and need good friends :( HELP.?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: I need help with gym class?
- Question: Why do i try so hard for everyone to like me?
- Question: I like my brothers friend?
- Question: Im in love with my friend, please help?
- Question: My boyfriend doesn't use perfumes that i gave him, Why is that?
- Question: So I've just recently started college 3 days ago?
- Question: I feel bad about a classmate, help?
- Question: Ugly but not ugly ?
- Question: New young neighbors(3couples in one mobile home)makeit so I can't feel safe sitting on my porch or leaving my door open any more,What todo?
- Question: Is Isolation on purpose?
- Question: Why do I hurt myself by being so curious? Is this normal?
- Question: What happened with this guy?
- Question: Why did she...?
- Question: Im a girl,how can i tell this girl that i want to be with her?
- Question: Please help me !!!!?
- Question: Did you lose your old best friends when you grew up?
- Question: In my 20s and don’t have a single close friend. How do I get past this horrible point and try to make friends again after this?
- Question: How do I change my reputation and become cool?
- Question: I hate school?
- Question: My friend at work is sad?
- Question: Why do people get so upset when I tell them I'm gonna emigrate out of the US?
- Question: College problem?
- Question: How much to charge a friend for a sports team logo revision?
- Question: Was this homophobic of me?
- Question: What does it mean when someone sends you a rectangle with a x in it?
- Question: How to stop partying all the time?
- Question: Any excuses to move seats in class?
- Question: Are there any good looking Arabians is that like or not looking for a tiny grain of sand on the bottom of the ocean?
- Question: Why does this fat person mocks me?
- Question: Had a breakdown please help?
- Question: Just saying Hi, to friends... How are you all dear friends? Can anyone be my friend..?
- Question: Why would a male a-sk if a new day is a slow day?
- Question: Can you give me advice on this friendship?
- Question: What should I do in this situation?
- Question: My classmate is annoying and i always talk with him gently but he is getting annoying.He is actually shy and the weakest in my class help?
- Question: How are u my friend?
- Question: She likes me? She does not? She is hiding her feelings? She is closeted? She is heterosexual and in a monogamus relationship but really is?
- Question: Going to concert with someone you don't really know? Social anxiety?
- Question: My friend doesn't feel any emotions?
| Question: EVERYONE THINKS IM UNGRATEFUL!!!? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 05:34 PM PDT I have a really bad life im all alone i have not one single friend im all alonenat home my parents and family curse and slap me at school i habe a mean teacher who insults me of my handwriting and it makes me upset and someone in my class even asked me do you have any friends i dont tell anyone this because im not close to anyone and im even ugly as a donkeys butt!! I lie to my parents and say i have all these friends So then one day i told my parents im very stressed and tired of all the work i do and they said what work do you do they all have friends and are never alone so they dont feel my pain and then they called me ungrateful and by the way im 11 going 12 they always tease me and curse at me and please no mean comments im even crying right now |
| Question: Am I being used by my friends? Is this normal? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 05:25 PM PDT So the situation looks like this: I'm friends with these three people.We talk a lot,meet each other etc.Thing is,they-like most people our age-have a lot going on,lot's of relationship drama.I gladly help them out if I can to cheer them up and give them advice.As it comes out-I'm pretty good at it.They even started joking that I'm like their counsellor. Now,the thing is,we talk a lot about what's new with them and their issues,but not really about me.I feel like I know them but they don't really know me.I'm sure they'd listen if I started talking but they never ask.And even if I did,I'm not sure what they would say because really we are so different. Friends should both give and receive,right? Well,they do compliment me and thank me for what I do,but is this enough for giving them such emotional support? It feels nice to be complimented but when I have any problem of my own,I couldn't feel more lonely. |
| Question: My best friends has been ignoring me, what do i do? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 04:41 PM PDT me and my bestie have been friends for over 2 years now. We always talk together and we are in the same class, we love laughing with eachother and we don t really care what other people think of us and our wierdness. Recently someone called me un-popular and thats why she was un-popular also, because she hanged out with me. It s not like i don t have any friends exept for her, im basically friends with everyone, in my school, i have no enemies or anything. we got into an arguement before and she said she wouldnt text me again. But after five mins of that arguement we started talking and laughing again. But now she is completaly ignoring me suddenly, she left me by myself in lunch, said ew to my face, started hanging out with a girl she told me she hates, and will not aknkowlege my presence. I feel lonley and i know this is not like her, i don t know why she is doing this all of the sudden, was i clingy? |
| Question: 8th Grade. No friends:( I'm a girl? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 04:12 PM PDT This will be long, sorry:( I started Grade 8 3 days ago, and I have absolutely NO FRIENDS! I'm shy and I admit I'm not the best at making friends but other people have friends! I'm sort of desperate for a friend. I have a class where there are more boys than girls and the boys talk about...Boy stuff? A majority of girls in my class are brats -Not to be mean or anything-. Last year I had a good friend but she moved away. :( I feel like I have depression because of this issue. I try my best to start conversations and become a more interesting person but my shyness is really hard to overcome. All girls in my class talk about make up, instagram, twitter and media stuff. In class, whenever my teacher yells "Choose a partner!" I am so embarrassed and left out! I have NO friends! What's wrong with me?! |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2016 04:05 PM PDT listen. I like food, everyone says that but I'm one of those girls that's known for my favorite food ramen noodles.i have a friend who cant eat lactose or gluten, and I was grateful I could at least eat most foods. then I come home and mymom says I cant have nuts, dairy, wheat, soy, and pretty much all food catergories. food and music is only things that make me happy. my family is rude and I have a couple of good friends. I sound so bratty and picky but ive been going through a lot and considering suicide. help?! |
| Question: I miss my friend, what do I do? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 03:48 PM PDT So my friend and I had a fall out, she changed, and I didn't like it, but I miss her, not the new her, the old her. She's just a person I don't like very much anymore, her personality just doesn't work with mine like it used to. We kind of clash I guess, but I miss her. I miss hugging her, and talking to her, but things are just so awkward between us now, and she's so different, and just not a person I can get along with. I just cut her off kind of because of this, I figured if I didn't like her for who she was, then I shouldn't pretend to like her, or be her friend, and we should just stop talking. |
| Question: Road trip with female friend. Taboo? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 03:47 PM PDT Is a road trip with your female best friend strange? My best friend Lori and I felt a similar yearning to escape our routine lives. We wanted to get away, so over the Summer we took a motorcycle road trip together back east. Our families and friends found it odd that a guy and girl who are platonic would take a road trip alone. They treated it like some romantic get away, even our folks thought were hooking up in private. We understood how they felt, but it just made things extremely awkward. But Lori and me are just very good friends. I trust her on a long road trip more than anyone else. I mean we rode our own motorcycles and slept in separate motel rooms. Well, we did need to share one room and cuddle up in a single bed at this one motel because they were super booked. Nothing sexual though. Still had an awesome trip, but people think it's weird we didn't hook up and my male friends call me gay for not taking advantage of Lori out there. WTF are they talking about? Why would I do that? Did we violate some sort of friendship taboo? |
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| Question: 10 POINTS!!! comebacks? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 03:25 PM PDT I have this friend who always asks me if I've done this or that. When I say no, she steps backwards and raises her eyebrows as if to say, "Are you serious? Have you been living under a rock?" I annoys me to pieces, and it also makes me feel bad. But I can't "not" be friends with her, because her mom is my piano teacher. What should I do next time she says that? :( |
| Question: What to say to someone whos retiring? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 03:19 PM PDT |
| Question: My mom is/was reading my Skype messages without telling me? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 03:12 PM PDT So, I found out today that my mom "checks over my Skype messages periodically". I mentioned something I was talking about with one of my friends, and she said "I know. I check your messages." I'm super creeped out. I haven't done anything that merits her checking my messages. I don't have anything to hide, but that's so annoying. I just want my privacy. I'm pretty sure the only way she can see my messages is because I signed onto Skype on her mobile device once, and never signed out. I feel like she's abusing my trust. Should I sign out of Skype on her device (although I feel that would make her suspicious)? Should I tell my friend? https://paulbernal.wordpress.com/2013/01/21/children-have-a-right-to-privacy/ good link As a sidenote, she already knows and talks to the only 2 people that I have on my Skype that aren't family, I have no idea why she'd feel the need to check my conversations lmao I'm 13 @marco |
| Question: I have a close friend we usually talk a lot but lately she hasn't whats wrong? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 02:59 PM PDT |
| Question: How do I regain trust? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 02:50 PM PDT I dated my best friend for a couple months and we decided it was best to be friends. We broke up a month ago. I got drunk on Monday and ended up contacting his best friend asking if he wanted to hook up. I wanted to tell my friend when I saw him in person about 4-5 days later but his other best friend ended up beating me to it. We talked about it over the phone and I ended up telling him literally anything that came to mind about the situation, our friendship, how much he means to me ect. But he said I doesnt believe me on anything I said about the situation becasuse he can't trust me now. After that conv, now he doesn't want to talk to me, see me for an indefinite amount of time. How do I regain trust and build our friendship again? Will I ever become his best friend again? |
| Question: Why I not feel needed? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 02:41 PM PDT whenever I am somewhere I will just like join a group of friends and it just feels like I'm just tagging along and it would be the same if I wasn't there. Like I'm just there but not present in the moment. kinda like it's just like I'll be talking with anyone and then if someone would come up to that person I was talking to they would just leave me there. The thing is I know I have friends but all my friends have better friends than me and when I'm talking with a friend I feel like I'm wasting there time. If I was just standing by myself no one would be like "oh hey let's all go stand by abby she looks lonely". I feel the world would go on and if I wasn't at an event no one would notice. |
| Question: I feel weird in my dorm? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 02:36 PM PDT I moved into my dorm just yesterday when classes started. I'm a sophomore and I did not dorm last year. I'm only a train ride away from home but it feels super weird and lonely being here. My roommate is extremely friendly but she's way more outgoing than me and I'm really introverted at first but when time goes by I'll open and crack a lot of jokes. I don't really have other friends in my school since I commuted last semester so it's really hard.. I don't know what to do after my classes end at 12 (everyday), I might get a job but I'll have no one to hang out with except my roommate (if she doesn't get sick of me). Any advie for me? |
| Question: An autistic boy is stalking me and my friend. What do I do? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 02:33 PM PDT So there is this guy in school who won't leave me and my friend alone. He always comes up to me and checks me out, then says something about my clothes, body, etc. I try to ignore him but he would say,"Hey! I'm talking to you," or something around those lines. He also would stand behind me or near me during lunch/after school and just stare at me. Apparently, he is also doing this to my friend and even said "Nice ****" to her. I am almost positive that he has a form of autism, as he would sometimes talk to himself and have no filter to what he is saying to me or my friend. Even if I was surrounded by my friends, he would interrupt our conversation just to say and do those things. I feel really scared but I have no idea what to do. I don't know how to deal with this type of situation, with anybody in general, and having an autistic guy who's doing this makes it much more difficult. I really don't want to deal with this incorrectly that would hurt his feelings or would anger him, and the administers of the school are probably going to do nothing about it since it isn't technically considered "an issue". |
| Question: What do I do with ppl who don't do anything in group projects? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 02:29 PM PDT I have a group project to do with other people and they really don't care too much about it. I mean one kinda does and is doing her work but the other does not give one ****. I asked her to do something really easy and she just does the crappiest job and says that's all she can do when it isn't, it's becaus she's lazy. I'm really frustrated because it's a big project and it's due next Wednesday..I don't want to end up doing everything by myself, I'm not having her get a good grade because of me. What do I do? :/ |
| Question: Do you guys think she did this because of me? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 02:27 PM PDT But I don't know today when I walking to class & I saw the girl I like there & I was looking her but then I just looked away. But then later we pass by again at the hallway & i turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend. Then later when she came to class I was looking at her & she caught me looking so I just looked away. Then when she went over to talk to her teacher & I was looking at her but she was looking straight ahead & then I stopped looking. Then later when i turn around I saw her at the back of the class & she was looking at me but then later she left class early? So I don't know |
| Question: What is the best birthday present you've received from a friend? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 02:25 PM PDT |
| Question: I feel so lonely and need good friends :( HELP.? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 02:23 PM PDT I had so many fake friends this year and im hurt and sick of it. no one is like me. im depressed, grunge, and like good music. everyone at my school likes Trap music, gangs, and weed. I smoke weed too but a know what i mean. but my point is... how do i find people like me? im so shy. how do i make good friends i cant last all high school with? please help if you can, thanks. |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2016 02:05 PM PDT My life is so boring, all I do is play on my phone look at social media, go to school. I have no friends at school because no one likes me. Well people do like me but I'm like no ones proper friend I'm just a 'tag along' I just follow people and they don't really care. I don't have like a proper friend to talk to. I have a fanpage with 200K followers, I don't want anymore because I've wasted so much time on it, I was 11 when I started it so I didn't waste too much time bc my childhood was still going on at 11 years old :)) now I'm 13 and I don't really use it I just talk to my online friends. Not like 24/7 you know just like sometimes maybe once a day for 10 minutes per 3 hours or something like that. And I'm so bored I have nothing to do the only thing I have is my phone, my parents say I should rest on my phone and study but I've already done all my homework, so what else is there fun to do in my house? I've thought about joining clubs but I don't know which club. Can anyone please suggest tips for me on what I should do? I'm not on my phone 24/7. I'm usually also busy cleaning the house. But can anyone suggest anything fun I could do or should do? Cause I literally have no friends and it's sad. My bro says I have no social life and other people say I have no life and no friends so pls give me tips. I'm 13 and I want to not be on my phone too much I want something to distract me. Anyone know?? Please thanks |
| Question: I need help with gym class? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 02:02 PM PDT Okay so I have no friends in gym class I'm socially awkward just to put it out there I have friends in other classes but not that one. I'm scared because every Friday is free time. You have a choice of basketball or tennis I was playing tennis with these girls for a while but they're good at it and I suck and I can tell they were getting annoyed. You can just shoot hoops but for 45 minutes? Ugh I dread this class so I need your advice |
| Question: Why do i try so hard for everyone to like me? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 02:00 PM PDT i just can't stand that gut wretching feeling in me when someone i like or i even dont like makes it obvious that they don't like me, then i end up asking if theyre mad at me or i just annoyed them and i eventually apologize. for example, theres this girl that ive known for a year and we've talked a lot before but today there was a little contest going on in class and i didnt know the answer so she said the wrong answer. i said "emily! youre gonna make us lose." and she got annoyed ig and said, "well you couldnt even answer the question and i tried to help blah blah" and i was like, "i cant do this anyway" and she mumbled something enough for me and her friends to hear. and class went on and i just said, "why is there a chair right there" and she goes and "im not putting that up and i aint even sit on it" she said that sentence in a raising tone as if she had an attitude with me. help pls? |
| Question: I like my brothers friend? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 01:54 PM PDT I'm a freshman. My brothers friend is a juinor. And my brother is out of high school. My brothers friend is supposed to "watch" me in highschool. I also have lunch with him- and he sits at the table across from mine. Everytime I looked at him,he was already looking at me. He came over to throw some stuff in the trash(but there was literally a trash can at his table) and said "stay out of trouble- or I'm telling your brother" then I said "mind your business"(not rude but jokingly),and then he started laughing like his cute laugh. When something isn't funny but he wants the person to feel good..then when he sat down he did the "I'm watching you" thing (like getting tqo fingers putting them to your eyes then at the person). What are your thoughts?? I really want to get close to him. |
| Question: Im in love with my friend, please help? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 01:53 PM PDT Age is not important to me..hes 46 and im 21 but i really love him and im scared to tell him incase he doesnt feel the same and it pushes him away...so what hints can i give to see if he feels the same? Ive been sending him i love you stickers on facebook but he just likes them he doesnt get the hint.. |
| Question: My boyfriend doesn't use perfumes that i gave him, Why is that? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 01:48 PM PDT Ok, maybe i go little crazy here but i have some strange gut feeling that my boyfriend is cheating on me. 6 months ago i bought him Hugo Boss perfumes for birthday because i asked him what he wants and he said he wants that fragrance. So i get it for him but since then he didn't use it even once. I even asked him not so long ago why he doesn't use it and he said "oh yeah i will use it" and he didn't. He spends a lot of time with his best friend and his girlfriend like almost every or second day. I have this suspicion that he cheats on me with this girl and doesn't want to leave smell of perfumes on her. Also he take their dog for walk and do shopping for her. What's your opinion? Also once i said jokingly that he never do shopping for me but for her always (i even laughed) but he gave me serious face and said "i only know you 1 year and her a lot more" and didn't want to talk to me all way back to home (we were walking at the park) |
| Question: So I've just recently started college 3 days ago? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 01:38 PM PDT My new best friend always ignores me when we are with other people but when it's just us she talks to me? What should I do!!!!!!! |
| Question: I feel bad about a classmate, help? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 01:25 PM PDT I was in class today and the teacher made a joke about a student but then asked if his mum loved him in a jokey way. There was a bit of giggling at the thing that was said before this but then it kinda went silent and people were shocked. I was still kinda giggling not understanding why, just thinking that they though he was getting made a fool of by a teacher. But then he finally answered the teacher and said "nah, sadly she's dead". I felt so bad after this because I hope he didn't think I was laughing at him mum's death, I don't talk to the guy so had no idea, he's not the type of person I speak to, kinda the class clown but you know.. I have no idea what to do, I'm scared something may happen? OCD/Anxiety is going crazy with me right now :/ |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2016 01:13 PM PDT Ugly but not ugly ?? Ok so I was on the bus and someone said to the girl that I like that Me and Her would be a Great Couple. She said that I'm Ugly but not Ugly |
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| Question: Is Isolation on purpose? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 12:47 PM PDT Is it normal to stay isolated for 11 years (from friends not family) im not a stubborn, serious nor grumpy person but im one of those unlucky people that just doesn't have no friendly companions in other words friends it feels like my fault but at the same time its the people that push me away. Why? i dont fit in any stereotypical place im just well balanced i talk when needed. im friendly enough to speak with, eager to join any activity but why still isolated for so long? i missed all my school filed trips, clubs, sporting events, prom etc. (because of lack of transportation) but now that i have it all (transportation to go anywhere) why stuck like the old days do i need to change? am i a problem? What did i do to have this? Years pass im still a great student yet friendly to but my self esteem droped so low that i forgot were i left it... or were it landed college isnt going well either i tried but it still the same thing as before PS.I cant move either because i have everything here like family, belongings and other small things. |
| Question: Why do I hurt myself by being so curious? Is this normal? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 12:44 PM PDT I recently was outcast by a group of friends that betrayed me and back stabbed me. I tried to keep in touch with some neutral parties from that group, but eventually I broke away from them too, because I felt like more of a burden than a friend.... Now some time has passed and I have met new friends, that I mesh with better, but unfortunately I still find myself curious about the old group. I still peek at their profiles on the games and social sites we used to use together, and I only find myself hurting myself and missing the old times. I need to move on. I really do. Is it normal to be so curious, and does this curiosity eventually fade with time? |
| Question: What happened with this guy? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 12:41 PM PDT So this guy was my roommate a little over two years ago in university and we didn't have any major issues during the whole year. I got his phone number (I asked for it) at the end of the year but never really called him after that year and we went our separate ways. The only thing that I could have done wrong is that I sent a Facebook request and possibly a quick message to his girlfriend once the year was over. His girlfriend was our RA by the way. In the message I just greeted her and didn't come on to her or anything along with the friend request. I have been out of college for eight and a half months unemployed and I saw him yesterday at a career fair at our university. He was representing a company who he works for and I waited for another person who was talking to him for about five minutes until he was ready to talk to me. He looked a bit resentful or sad when he talked to me. He wasn't glad to see me at all and when I told him if I could have his number again since I had lost it (I actually found it hours later) he refused. He seemed very aloof and I regretted even talking to him again. After I found his number, I sent him a text message (probably a stupid idea) and he never replied. I felt like I got along with him that year so I didn't understand his reaction. Actually looking at his Facebook, they actually just got married. It's not like I have been talking to her because she refused to accept my friend request. Other than that, I never had any problems with him. |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2016 12:39 PM PDT My ex friend was staring at me in class today. She kept looking at me when I was talking to my classmate. She started at me for 5 minutes until she got up and went to speak to her friend but she nearly got in trouble for doing that because the teacher returned shortly. Why did she stare at me? Btw, this same girl once had a crush on me but I rejected her because I'm straight. |
| Question: Im a girl,how can i tell this girl that i want to be with her? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 12:15 PM PDT I'm 23years old.I've been straight all my life untill i meet this girl she is so nice and a wonderfull person.i had a crush on her when i endup telling her i found out she also like me too.we became really close friend's.i experience my first lesbian sex with her.but i was always afraid to be in a relationship with her.i didn't know how to really open up my feelings to her.she always ask me to be with her but i always tell her i dont know yet..im afriad of what my family would think,my family doesn't like gay people.i use to think maybe its the sex that keep me close to her i use to think. Maybe i don't like her.untill a couple of days ago she endup telling she's talking to someone else shes actually dating another girl while she was talking to me.i was so hurt.i cried a little.maybe i actually like her.i wanna keep her around.should i tell her to get rid of the girl to be with me or should i stay away from her and move on |
| Question: Please help me !!!!? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 12:12 PM PDT Im 17 years old guy and my teachers and family says im dumb. On internship my boss wants to fire me (this is my second week on internship) and my colleague (an another intern like me says I 'm stupid. I have bad grades on school. My drive instructor is holding my down: he says you have 15 lessons and cant drive correctly but other only have 4 and already can drive. My friends never contact me, only if they need me, if they are with girls they dont know me anymore. My family (uncle etc) NEVER send me a message, i didnt saw my dad 6 years and he doesnt ask how are you doing or how is your life. I Play soccer to and my teammates says that im really bad and dont need to come back. I worked on a a supermated and they say to me we dont need slow workers like you. i want to sucide.. |
| Question: Did you lose your old best friends when you grew up? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 11:58 AM PDT Im terrifyed of this. I have huge group of close friends and im so scared we wont stay in touch when we are like in our 40s 50s... |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2016 11:50 AM PDT At the end of my college years, I was diagnosed with depression and developed irrational behaviors that kind of pushed my close friends away. Eventually one day I experienced bad side effects for my new antidepressant medication and said some things I shouldn't have said to people I considered my best friends. That seemed to the extent of the patience my friends had for me, and since then, they've cut all ties. I've spent two years, since that day, overcoming my depression and now that I feel whole again I started reevaluating other aspects of my life only to realize how lonely I've been for the past two year. I haven't had a genuine/deep conversation with anyone in that time period and I can count the number of acquaintances I have on one hand. Today, from boredom, I decided to browse my old friend's social media, lo and behold, the first post I see is one of their inside jokes referencing my mental break down from back then. One of the worse experiences of my life had turned into a hilarious joke plastered on social media. Every single relationship I've ever created with people from high school until college was destroyed because my "best friends" told everyone that I was "mentally ill and should be avoided". I thought those rumors were just an exaggeration until now. People aren't kidding when they say that ignorance is bliss. I don't know how I can ever trust again after seeing that 20 years of friendship doesn't mean a single thing when **** hits the wall. |
| Question: How do I change my reputation and become cool? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 11:49 AM PDT I've gone to my school for a very long time and everyone still remembers what I was like in 2nd grade. I'm in 7th grade now but everyone is super clingy. How can I make new friends. |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2016 11:45 AM PDT I hate all the children there. I cannot believe that I have to be surrounded by teenagers that behave like utter imbeciles, cursing as if it is 'cool' or interesting to hear them do so. I am 14, living in the UK, so I have my really important exams in a years time and I know fairly surely that I will let myself down. I am more or less invisible at my school, I feel unwanted and my teachers certainly don't care about my well-being. My psychologist (that I no longer need to go to) thought that I have autism but I didn't want to wait for an official diagnosis as I am extremely short tempered and impatient. Ultimately, I do not get any help at school because they do not know about my issues and I find it difficult to personally express what I am thinking and feeling. I hate life. What should I do about my situation? |
| Question: My friend at work is sad? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 11:42 AM PDT My friend at work posted a rant about how depressed she is and I just feel awful because I can relate to how she's feeling. I'm 15 and she's 27 but we're still friends. I want to bring her something small to cheer her up, any ideas? |
| Question: Why do people get so upset when I tell them I'm gonna emigrate out of the US? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 11:42 AM PDT I was asked what my future plans are and I said I was gonna emigrate out of the US and I was told BS stories by my friends and people I met online about how other countries hate americans and how I'll never find a job there. I was gonna ignore them and go anyway but my question is why do people get so upset. I just told them the truth and answered their question. They also were telling me america is better then any other country which I don't think it is nowadays. Should I get new friends? My family seems to be the only one who is ok with it. Everyone else I know seems to get upset when I tell them about this. Never said I was going to north korea. And the people who been upset with me and saying how great america is keeps bringing up north korea. I know which countries are good and bad. If you read my question sandy I was asked about my future plans. And I told people and I told my friends I wasn't telling them just to tell them. I know that Been There and already been filing paperwork for that stuff. But I do agree with everything what you said been there. I got no hate for america but they think their country is better then any other country in the world. I'm probably gonna end up abandoning all my friends and try to get new friends. But yeah I'm filling out the paperwork for the countries I like. And like I said above I know which countries are safe and not safe to goto. Sorry I ment I'm filling out the paperwork for the country I like first. Then if I can't get in for what ever reason I'm going down the list till I get in. Sad but I'm gonna have to agree with you. My friends are jerks for trying to destroy and bash my dreams. I'll just find new friends in the country I emigrate to when the time comes. |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2016 11:34 AM PDT This is my first year away for college. I'm a little homesick (well okay, a LOT homesick) but that isn't my main issue. The last few years, I've been babysitting my best guy friend's little sister (she's 5 now). The fact that I went away for school is something that really isn't sitting well with her, and she's doing her best to make me feel bad about it. It's working. Anyway, my best friend, his girlfriend, and my boyfriend are all coming down this weekend to visit me, and we have all been trying to convince his sister to come too, so she can see that I'm really not that far away. I'm only 3 hours away. She won't do it. I know she's upset with me for leaving, but it's really not helping the fact that I'm not really enjoying being away as much as I thought I would. She's making me feel really bad and I don't know what to do to fix it :( Any advice? |
| Question: How much to charge a friend for a sports team logo revision? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 11:25 AM PDT A friend of mine asked me to tweak his hockey teams logo. I don t know how much to charge for this kind of work. I don t want to ask for to much but also don t want to just give it away. |
| Question: Was this homophobic of me? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 10:54 AM PDT I'm 24, straight, and have several gay friends. I've never found myself to be homophobic at all. I'm a former college swimmer and still swim in the mornings before work. Today, after swimming, in the shower, I ran into an aquaintance I know is a lesbian. The gym has wide open showers (around poles) and it really freaked me out to run into her there. I said high briefly, awkwardly (and I'm worried obviously) crossing my arms over my breasts as we talked.....and then I hightailed it to the locker room to get dressed without having really taken my shower. Intelectually I'm not bothered that she's allowed to use the locker room, and I know she kept good eye contact the entire time we chatted, but somehow KNOWING she was a lesbian and I was butt naked.....it made me uncomfortable. When I called my sister on my way to work she chastised me for being homophobic. And a colleague just agreed with her. Am I horribly insensitive and don't even know it? Am I crazy? To be clear, I've used open showers in college (I was a swimmer) and since, and I'm not massively modest. And it doesnt even bother me (in the least) that I'm sure MANY lesbians have seen me. This isn't me thinking they all are really checking me out, I don't think that. It's just that today, standing there buck naked and nowhere to hide, surprised to be face to face with someone I KNOW likes girls, I panicked and freaked out. And also to be clear, I didn't make a beeline past her to the door. I crossed my arms across my breasts (but I was still otherwise nude) and talked to her for a few seconds (hello, how are you doing, etc), then I left acting like I was finished with my shower (even though I wasn't) |
| Question: What does it mean when someone sends you a rectangle with a x in it? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 10:37 AM PDT |
| Question: How to stop partying all the time? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 10:29 AM PDT I'm aware this is a silly question but how can i stop partying, drinking and doing drugs etc. I am an 18 y/o girl and I live in the UK, ever since I was like 15 I've loved partying, I've been going to clubs at least a few times a week since I was 16 (fake ID's), I drink almost every day, I like to do drugs (no addictions) and I like to smoke weed everyday. I feel bad because I always drag my friends into these situations, I have many friends some whom I've met through partying, some who I've gotten into partying, I do have some friends who aren't very into partying but even when I hang out with them I party, so it's definitely not a 'who I hang out with' kind of issue. My parents have never really been there for me, I've grown up with nannies etc. My parents throw money at me constantly and that's about all they ever do for me, I know lol 'poor little rich girl' very stupid. I almost feel bad complaining about this problem as I feel like I'm throwing my life away. Sorry this question was so long but can anybody give me any sort of advice or guidance? |
| Question: Any excuses to move seats in class? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 10:26 AM PDT So, I m in maths class, and I got a seat at the front of the class. My friend is away the back of the class, next to her there s an empty space. My teacher said if anyone has a problem with the people around them, they can move. The problem is that the people around me are quiet, and since I m at the front of the class there s no I can t see the board . Any exuses for me to go and sit with my friend? Thanks! |
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| Question: Why does this fat person mocks me? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 09:58 AM PDT Im normal sized, not skinny, not fat. I think i live healthy. Anyway, this fat classmate of mine is keep on mocking me. I dont want to be mean but its true. She is very fat actually and then she told me that i will be a donut for halloween. I was quiet while she was laughing at my face, i could've said something mean back but im not a mean person so.. she also has problems with our chubby teacher and she is keep on mocking her too while she her self is way fatter. I dont get it. Then she tells me she doesnt has money for food and makes sad faces and expects me to buy her food. She thinks im a bank or smth. I already gave her some books for school because i had to many of them and now she thinks she can get everything from me. What to do? |
| Question: Had a breakdown please help? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 09:35 AM PDT I was walking home which takes a long time, it was sunny outside today. I started getting intense pains between my thighs and later that pain was all over my body. My legs my feet my head my shoulders it all hurt. I couldn't handle this pain and started weeping but not crying. I don't know why but I had thoughts about how ugly i am and how no one actually likes me. I have a large friend group but I feel like I only have 2 real friends and how the rest are fake and only friends with me because they feel they need to be. I find it difficult to talk to all my friends because there's 2 girls in my group that make me very uncomfortable and are always changing topics when I talk. I haven't told anyone I feel this way about those girls because they are my two best friends close friends and I don't want to confront them. My friends tell me about how pretty I am and happy but I disagree, when I look in the mirror I see an ugly acne-filled girl whos always angry at someon. I haven't felt like this before about myself but all my flaws came to mind and I felt like crying but held it in. When I got home I started full on crying for 1 hour I couldnt stop. I havent told anyone about this because I feel like I'll stress them out. Im crying as writing this. doesnt help that i cant move off my bed because it hurts . I am grateful because some people break down regularly. No i cannot tell my parents theyre both at work and I love them and dont want to stress them |
| Question: Just saying Hi, to friends... How are you all dear friends? Can anyone be my friend..? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 09:35 AM PDT Just saying Hi to all.... Hope all is doing good here... I truly hope from my heart... Male here, just being alone & lonely since years, just wondering how is everyone doing? Anyone wants to be my friend? |
| Question: Why would a male a-sk if a new day is a slow day? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 09:29 AM PDT |
| Question: Can you give me advice on this friendship? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 09:23 AM PDT There are three people involved. Person a, b, and c. Person a and person b used to be insanely close. Although person a used to get irritated a lot by person b they were close enough that person a looked past it. Person a met person c through person b and they became really good friends. Person a got very irritated with person b and started spending more time with person c. Person b became very jealous. Is it wrong for person a to hang out with person c and not hang out with person b even though person a and person b's friendship is not healthy? |
| Question: What should I do in this situation? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 09:21 AM PDT My dad's friend isn't a really good person. He's been in and out of jail and he packages gift cards but the thing is...he steals the gift card numbers. My dad doesn't use them. He believes that you should buy things with your own hard earned money (I don't know how he's still friends with that guy). His girlfriend on the other hand...She uses the stolen gift card numbers to buy stuff. She's tried to have me get stuff and use the card numbers but I don't because I'm terrified I'll get into trouble. What should I do? Her own daughter told her that that's not good but she doesn't care. She's not even a citizen and I know that if she gets in trouble and she has to do an interview with immigration she'll have to tell them she stole. I don't like her but I don't want her getting deported mostly because of her daughter. |
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| Question: How are u my friend? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 08:30 AM PDT |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2016 08:25 AM PDT Not being honest? Loves me? Loves me not? Why not just tell me how you feel?she says she is not into other females. Ok i get it neither am i. She gets angry when i call our friendship a relationship.why? Is it that serious when you are offended by a mix up in my use of words? Does she want to be in a relationship? Has she been very open with me about what she likes and doesnt like? Absolutely.,is she just making herself feel good by falsely saying all these things?why is she no longer making eye contact with me like we use to?why canf we get along so she says?...my real question is is this woman afraid to come out and tell me she has feelinhgs for me? She will send me get well wishes or sentimental wishes..:but she is very closeted and stoned about exposing anything. |
| Question: Going to concert with someone you don't really know? Social anxiety? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 08:19 AM PDT I'm a VERY AWAKWARD NERVOUS person if I don't know you. I have bad anxiety when it comes to new people or friends and I usually won't talk to anyone. I have no friends ebcUse how I just rather sit in the house than go out with people I don't really know. So I posted on social media that I was going to a concert with my boyfriend and this girl I use to be cordial with in high school asked to come along I said yes ( I've been wanting friends for awhile but dread the thought of friends???) and now she's texting me non stop telling me concerts she wants to go to ( I love concerts and don't have a problem) but if I don't really know a person it's really hard for me to have a convo without not talking or just sitting there. So she's coming with me and my boyfriend to the concert next week and I'll feel ill be awkward. She invited me to other places and I'm happy. I haven't had a friend since about a year since all my old friends turned against me ( which made me very antisocial about having friends even more and scares me to make them) but idk I feel like it might be awkward since we don't really know each other and I don't really talk much unless I know u. HELP! I know how to fake being outgoing but that is short lived after a couple of minutes lmfaoo |
| Question: My friend doesn't feel any emotions? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 07:55 AM PDT |
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