If someone asked u to list 10 things u regret the most and wish you could go back in time and change them. What would these things be? It helps of you're old.

So I've got in contact with my dad after like nearly 10 years & I haven't told my mum, how do I do this?

my bf leaves to the city on the weekends where he has another apartmen,,which i have already been to,,and from monday to friday he is in the same town as i live,, since we both go to the same university in the town,but then on friday he leaves again to the city to his other apartment and so we dont see eachother on weekends,does he have another life?

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I have a brother he is perfect he is doctor and he is 23. I am 16 its not like im jealous but my family hurt me they always support him they are always like you are nothing he is the best. So i started thinking i dont deserve anything i want to go to an other city for University so i can get real friends like a family and be away from my real family. I turned 16 and got myself chips for my bday cause nobody remembered i didnt tell them that it is my bday so they wouldnt spend money. Whenever we go to the mall i dont buy anything because they are expensive and i dont want to push my family but my brother gets hundreds of things every month for himself well i think he deserves it (it is because he is doctor my family says). I am gonna be an engineer but they only have fun with it. I feel like moving to an other city will save me and make me feel better and help me to find my real family who always supports me and loves me because of real me. Do you think i am depressed? Sorry guys but i really feel alone i just want to know how to deal with it? (Thanks)

Ok I admit I'm abnormally small "down there" (below the belt). Like 2 inches (at full mast). And every single girl I've been with has laughed at it. Even the nicest girls. ALL of them have laughed. I don't say this for sympathy though, cause I just wanna know truly why. So please answer these questions, and don't sugar coat anything: Why do girls laugh at my size? What's so funny to girls, if its really small? Why all does it matter, honestly? What's so great about bigger ones anyway? ? (please, be honest)

Mi novia no me quiere? Ella dice que me ama pero cuando la quiero besar ella voltea la cara, y me pone el cachete. le pregunto por que no me quiere besar pero ella me dice que no tiene ganas ya van varios Días así con lo mismo pero ella si sabe besar incluso me enseño a mi pero ahora dice que no tiene ganas !!por favor diganme que hago 5estrellas para el mejor comentario!!!

I live with my boyfriend for a year and supposedly he loves me. Recently he was upset that I had a picture of me and my friend who is girl kissing but as friends at a party. Me and her don't hang out anymore and he told me to delete anything from my exes old messages all that. I didn't have any except that and I told him ok but you have to do it too and he lied and said I have nothing to delete. Months go by from this argument and today I hear his phone go off from some girl saying I miss you ******* my pussy. Of course I went thru his phone and the last time they talked was a week before we started dating but nothing after except that message which was weird and when I looked at their convo she tells him to **** me from behind and everything . I found old **** buddies messages his ex everything after I told him to delete that . I was pist off seeing this message and hurt that he kept her in his phone so when I woke him up and asked what that was he lied to me saying idk who she is blah blah and I did hit I slapped him multiple time all over . He told me that they used to have sex and hook up and he forgot to delete all the messages and he doesn't know why she did all that . Then he gets mad at me and is like **** you stupid ***** gets on top of me and suffocates me broke up with me kicks me out I have no where to go . Am I in the wrong ? I know I shouldn't have hit him and should've calmed down but it just hurt to see that asb how he lied to my face. What should I do ?

My mom died when I was 3 and she and my dad got married when I was 6. From the beginning, she wanted to pass me off as her daughter. The first time I was ever in trouble with her was when I asked my dad if I could stand beside him during the wedding instead of being a flower girl/bridesmaid, since I always hated wearing dressed and I didn't really want to be in her part of the wedding. I ended up without a role, which worked better for me. She and my dad attempted to cut my maternal family from my life, but then when my grandparents stopped sending money, they allowed them back in. But my stepmother would always gloat about how she was raising me and not my real mom. All this happened in front of me and it would make me sick. I've been punished on numerous occasions in the last 9 years for not calling her mom or getting her a stepmother birthday card instead of a mom one. When I told my friends she was my stepmother, not my mom, it would make her and my dad so angry. He would sit me down at least 3 times a year and tell me my mom was gone and I should cherish my stepmother more and open my heart to her as my mom, because she was doing everything a mom would do. And when I pointed out how she didn't have my best interests at heart and hated me mentioning my mom, he would tell me it was hard for her and I needed to be more understanding. Even now, but they even have their kids (my half siblings) trying to break me and get me to call her mom. Help! I don't think I would have such an issue if things had happened naturally. But the way they tried to force me when I was younger and the way she rubs it into my family's face, without thinking of how it makes me feel, has made my feelings toward her very hard. I think she's a mean person and I don't think she deserves the title of mom from me with the way she acts. It's stopped me from loving her.

whenever i get angry i completely explode and break things and everything that ive been holding in suddenly comes out and my hands begin to shake and i cant really control it

Imagine talking to a person. You're in the middle of a conversation with him. And he suddenly makes a rude statement! No reason at all, he's just trying to piss me off. Always trying to piss me off. What is his motive? How do I respond to this guy?

Truth is he hasn t asked to visit him since March of last year. I asked him at first if he wanted to visit but he was "working" so I stopped asking and kept living my life raising my son and then suddenly in January he asked to see him so I set it up and he came and picked him up at a meeting spot 1/2 way. Now my sister send me screen shots he posted to the world to see that "I kept him for a year" and I am a horrible mother etc. Should I say something?!!?! I am so mad.

Hi, so i'm going on a date with a guy i really like so i could really use some advice. -What should I wear? An elegant dress and a statement necklace; or sth more casual like a leather or parka jacket, low/mid heel booties and pay more attention to my makeup? -How should I act? Should I try to be cool and make hilarious jokes? I'm more of a quiet/nerdy kind of girl but this guy doesn't know it. Actually this is a very confident/extrovert guy so i don't wanna appear nerdy. -What subjects should i discuss? -Should I offer to pay the bill? -Is a handshake appropriate to greet/say goodbye?

I've recently discovered I have a sexual fetish when it comes to helmets, or full face masks, pretty much anything that completely obscures the face. In particular, I like helmets that are rounded and shiny and have no discernible features, similar to the one dude in Daft Punk or the character Zero from Borderlands 2. (These are the best examples I can come up with.) A helmet in conjunction with a form-fitting outfit is a bonus. I'm not sure why I like it so much, but I'm turned on by the idea of a guy wearing an outfit like this ****ing my brains out. Am I completely insane? I tried explaining this to my husband and...he didn't react well. Which is a shame. Because I would totally buy him an outfit like this and let him be my sex robot. (I am female in case that wasn't clear.)

So recently, in the past month or two, my 14 year old brother has been touching my butt. He tries to do so secretly, but I can feel his hand and when I look at him, he quickly pulls it away. I don't think he knows that I'm aware of it and it makes me really uncomfortable. It started off like it was probably just an accident because he was standing too close or something. Then as time went by, I realized it's been happening a lot more. For instance, this morning, I was making coffee and just talking to him and he got close (I assumed he was just watching me make coffee) and then I felt his hand. Then later, when I was brushing my teeth, my ride for school arrived and he came into the bathroom to tell me as he leaned forward and I felt his hand again. I swiftly looked at him and he pulled away.. which I saw him do. Someone please tell me what to do because it makes me unfomfortable! How do I tell my mom?!

Do you think your face determines your whole life? My friend often mourns about his face, but I don t really think that s a big matter. So, tell me your view on this.

I know i like women. Personality and parts all. I consider myself a lesbian, but i like some guys... but when i start dating a guy, very soon i start to feel grossed out by them, disgusted. When they leave, i want them again... penises aren t the best things in the world...i very often find them gross and unappealing even if sometimes i fantasize about a male. I dont feel anything when kissing guys, and i havent had enough experience with women to feel a spark in a kiss. I sometimes feel very strongly about a guy and want to date them, lust after them sometimes. I want to date women and marry a woman in the future, but why do i have such strong feelings for some guys? Sometimes i feel bi but sometimes i feel lesbian. Does anyone else feel this way? What does this make me ?

I'm already very depressed, my dad wants us to move away from were I actually have friends and close friends here. I am suicidal and I told him that it's going to make it worse but he still is saying he's going to find a house there. I'm going to kill myself !!

There's this creepy person who comes to my work and tries to talk to me and I really just don't want to talk him. I have my reasons. If he isn't asking me something specifically related to the job - I ignore him. This worked initially but now when I ignore him, he tries to start an argument to get me in trouble. How do I tell him to stop talking to me in a polite enough way that won't make him complain about my attitude/service level? Help from management is no option. He's very sneaky.

Her and my brother recently got their divorce finalized and i haven't talked to her in over a year now. It's not because anything bad happened between us or that i'm mad at her or anything it just felt too awkward talking to her after they separated, we were pretty close too, since she was pretty much my big sister for almost 8 years. She added me on snapchat the other day so I know things are chill i'm just too skeptical to talk to her. Advice?

I went out on 2 dates with this guy I met online. We were both comfortable during the dates and I got the vibe that he might like me. We texted for a couple of days but the texts got sparse. One day I texted him and he didn't respond and I didn't send him any follow-up texts because I didn't want to be clingy and figured he wasn't interested. We haven't spoken in 5 months but he added me on snapchat and won't send me snaps but views all of my stories. Whats the deal? I don't feel confident enough to send him a snap first or text him because don't know if I could handle being rejected twice by the same guy.

I'm 20 and my boyfriend and baby's father is 47 years old. I brought up a conversation about sex positions and brought up to him that I believed he didn't like me being on top and being control. Then I listened to him very carefully and he said he had some homosexual tendencies. "Then out of nowhere he asked me if I ever ate the a** like groceries." Then he asked me if I was gay because of this girl that we ran into that I knew in high school I never hang out with her or talk to her that much like I use to because she's gay. When me and my boyfriend were together she asked if I wanted to hang out and I said no. But all of this at the bus stop occurred 7 months ago and now I'm 8 months pregnant what would make him want to question my sexual orientation after knowing each other this long??? Do I have a right to be upset?

Today we had a test and I sit in the second char in the row in the front so I'm basically in the front. But I was taking my test and I felt like I could feel and see out of the corner of my eye my teacher looking at me and then he would start like shaking/bouncing his leg like that nervous habit. And whenever I'd feel him looking at me he'd start doing that, why?

Since last month december or november i told my ex i do not wanna talk to her anymore because everytime i try to text me she ignores my message or just read it and she has the guts to say "you never message me i'm the only one who tries to talk to you" when i'm the one who's trying to make a conversation. So i told her i want more then being friends but i understand she has a new boyfriend that she got with right away after our break up, but after i told to her i don't wanna speak to her or be friends with her she deletes me saying (okay i guess) but after a month passed by she re adds me on facebook and message me "can i ask you something that's been bothering me for a while?' that's what she told me but i didn't respond basically i ignored her message cause i don't understand why will she add me to ask me something that's bothering her? when she has a boyfriend to go to, why me? all the time she ignores my message now she wants to message me just that ? i feel like she just wants to boost up her ego and try to eat her cake too and make her feel better she has her own boyfriend to talk to and she comes to me, i do love her and i would take her back in a heartbeat but same time she has a boyfriend i don't understand why come to me?. I need advice what do i do? thank you.

my mom just forced me to walk out of school every day with at least four people. she was very angry that i walked out with "just one" (her own words are in quotes) "just that one indian kid." she then demanded that i list all of my friends, and basically forced me to hang out with certain people, what she basically calls the 'cool kids' she denies this, but she insulted me and called me a loner, all because once she called me to leave from church, and i was reading a book in a room with a few other kids, but, according to her, "they were all smaller than you" "you were by yourself" (notice how contradictory that is?!) and she asked angrily why i was "never in any of the youth performances" actually, i wasn't in just one, and they only had 7 youth in it. she says i am never involved, but she also forces me to be the first to leave every time. also, she says that i must hang out with the "core group" and says that everyone my age is involved in leadership but me. that is a lie! NO ONE IS IN LEADERSHIP! my pastor SPECIFICALLY told me i was too young to join, but i could in a few more years. i told thing to her, but someone wasn't listening. so i asked her, "so basically you're forcing me to walk out with 4-5 people every day no matter what?" and she said "YEAH!" like it was obvious and common sense and that i was the weird one. also, she says grades aren't important, i asked her "so you don't care about grades?" and she said yeah, but SHE GETS MAD IF I GET EVEN AN A-!!! she denied it but last time she told me "a minuses are not okay! you know it!" and she demanded to see my test when i got an 84, even when i told her that the teacher didn't let us take it home, because some people haven't taken the test yet. she is FORCING me to walk out with certain 'cool, popular kids', at least 4-5 of them, because apparently she is worried that i am "a loner" and "always an outlier" and that "i never get involved" she is forcing me to walk out of school with at least 4-5 kids every day, no matter what. FORCING ME, as in she will yell and throw tantrums if i walk out with only 1 friend, or anything less than four separate people. this is too much, it is insane. i'm committing suicide tonight

I broke up with him in 2014 been together for 5 years and i split with him due to his constant verbal abuse towards me and racism as well and he threatened to kill me once and i tried calling the police but that didn't work so now he is trying to communicate with me urging me to take me back i told him several times no he wont listen he threatened to destroy entire my phone with spyware on it even detonate my cellphone battery he hates certain types of music that i like and he will threaten to destroy any music projects i saved on my computer i am a huge electronic music Fan and he thinks my music is boring,. and i dont like his music he's hispanic he likes reggaeton music (I can't stand it its ignorant ) and he gets mad when i hate on his music he's called me a dumb girl fat, ugly, N-Word Even R-Word he's ruining my life i don't know what to do i cant escape from him and his sexism towards me he likes other men all the hate he brought on to me caused me to hate all men what should and can i do to stop his sexist hate towards me i am a very nice person i dont deserve anything like this never i am afraid of men and boys its a really bad fear keyboard is messed up i meant he is urging me to take me back all he wants to do is make love to me and i told him several times no and he just doesn't understand when no means no

As a teen thought it would go away when I got older.but I am like 4 times as bad now. I learned a lot since then so now I deal with all that data running in my dirty little head.wish I had a counter to see how many times it poped up.would probably say so many cant count or never left.out of all the guys I know none of them are like me.most laugh an say what's wrong with you.feel like a horny outta control teen. With twice the amount of unwanted hardons that I had back then.I see any female. An the data starts to run. If one passes me in the mall smelling good one eye Jimmy out looking threw his periscope .it so bag I can even have a glass of water with ice with out thinking hard nipp wet t-shirt contest. it rains out side an there's mud nude mud wrestling. my girlfriend cant even keep up dude your to much. do you ever stop I'm like no there's no off button. love that vajay so much I just wanna eat it be in on it kiss it lick hug it.im telling you .all them female fun zones are like nice little naughty devel terrorists to me screaming look at me look at me lately my girl is like you better go Jack it I'm like I did twice an still on my mind my props to God for making women

We hide nothing since the beginning this bugin me I have heard all about her past sex life and how they were all hung only been with 3 small guys me at 6inchs another guy that was was 4or5 an skiny a guy with a mico 1"1/2 micro who she let finsh to not hurt feelings we use to have sex all the time some times 2 aday now maybe 2 a month tells me its cause she has had to much sex before I know she told me aleast 40 guys ten years13 till23 when we met my mind says she bored an wants the ones so big an good she would feel help less 1 year into us she did go buy a big 9 in vibeator been3years since then an she has 5 get more bigger every time then 6months ago says they dont feel like the real thing dontgive it to me has been lose 3 times didn't say nothing to not fight all she gotta say was toy but if she don't like why use is this some thing girls that really happens or you think she messing around an I dont no why she still with me got to be love or is it hasn't got caught lost mind please help keep on loving or let go