Hi! I had an argument with my husband and I told him that I didn t want anymore kids from him so that I m going to kill my baby because I don t want it anymore. I know it was wrong for me to do but I was just so angry with him. I obviously only said it to scare him not because I actually want to kill my baby. But I m worried if this could actually affect my baby! I didn t do anything to my baby though. I was just yelling at my husband saying that I was going to do it. Please no judging. Thank you.

there is no physical abuse involved just verbal and it is from my step father. It's bad enough i pondered a terriable thought but that was also when i took trazadone 50 miligrams for sleep and that was a sideeffect but it wasnt till he showed up iget bullied enough in school. am i able to go and change my legal guardian i dont know is thats the right set of words i live in missouri

Just makes me wonder how people enjoy saying nasty comments and bring others down. I guess rudeness is how weak people imitate strengh. I mean I understand this is the internet, but damn people.

My husband and I are going through a rough patch. We have only been married a few years. I had two small children from a previous marriage and then got pregnant very early. My husband was brought up much different than myself. A strict, but very affectionate christian household. I had a wonderful childhood, and see my parents almost daily. But there were never "I love you's" or hugs. This being said, I am not open/comfortable with alot of people. My husband and my children are the exception. I can't help but feel competition with my husbands mother and sister which has led to alot of conflict between him and I. They are wonderful people, but much different from me. My husband is very affectionate and protective of his mom and sister and for some reason that bothers me. I suppose I see that I really only open up to him, so I feel it should be the same. Otherwise I don't feel as special. He also has made comments to non-intentionally make me feel he wishes I was more like his mom and sister personality/faith wise. I believe this has also put this "threat" in my head. Us fighting over going to family things of his is ruining our marriage. I know it is wrong of me, I just don't know how to get past it. I've always has insecurities about "not being good enough" due to high standards and previous relationships. I guess I just want to feel like #1 to someone, but no matter how hard I try to be pleasing I just can never feel that way

I got a new job in a new city. I've been living with my friends sister & I pay her $500 per month. That was the agreement. She has asked me to watch her children on multiple occasions so her & her husband can go out. It's now becoming 3-4 times a week that as soon as I walk in the door from work she's leaving & tells me to watch the kids. She doesn't work & the kids are in school all day. I know she's letting me stay with her & I am paying her but should it be my responsibility to constantly watch her kids for FREE sometimes it's her kids AND her younger sisters kids!!! So sometimes it's 4 kids at once. What should I do? Thoughts???

Would you get annoyed if your girlfriend always had sympathy for bad people? For example she always takes up for and feels sorry for her ex husband because he was abused as as kid. She remains on very friendly terms with him even though he's been investigated for illegals activities involving children on more than one occasion. She also always takes up for people she knows who have done horrible things like a woman she used to work with who involved her daughter in a child prostitution ring, she felt bad for the woman because she was abused as kid and was sad that she didnt turn her life around even when she was offered help she went back to doing it and lost custody and her daughter. Would it annoy you if your girlfriend had sympathy for these types of people? Im a very empathic person but not in these cases and to be honest I get tired of hearing about it.

A guy (terrorist) broke your new LED TV (bombing, ect..) because he does not follow the manual (Islam). Do you blame the guy or the manual?

This more of a vent more then anything. I'm starting to really like this woman who is beautiful, great personality and outgoing. The problem is I have a girlfriend already who I just found out is pregnant. I'm neutral when it comes to this pregnancy. But now I'm wishing she wasn't, I need some advice or something

I'm 31 year old man with autism who lives with his disabled grandmother (I should be probably move out, but I know she will be sent to a home if I do), and still never had a long term relationship. I did live on my own for awhile, but I had a lot of trouble with the loneliness, might be different if I can find a roommate. I've tried online dating sites for about 6 years, and I'm just burned out and don't have the patience for it. It's too hard to get women to respond back with the volume of men, and I'm done waiting 3-5 months to wait for them to finally. I also noticed that most them tend to be single moms, and I'm a little hesitant about dating single moms since they often are hard to meet because of their schedule, and I also wouldn't want to deal with ex drama like in Daddy's Home or Stepmom. I also hope to have kids someday, and I've noticed most of the single moms I've talked to don't seem to want to, so it would be a tough match. I was wonder if anyone had any other strategies. Oh, and please don't say find a woman with autism, because very few women have autism. Also, just because two people have autism, doesn't mean there are compatible since they often have different personalities. I'm not saying wouldn't date another person with autism, buts its unrealistic due to the smaller numbers. Anybody got any ideas? No, I actually am pretty introverted, but I try to be extroverted so I can have more friends. The problem is trying not to say the wrong thing or overdue, which is what often happens. Princess Vespa-Well if they don't want anymore kids or they are still heavily involved with ex, it's just not going to work out. Wasn't sure if you were talking about dating single moms like that, because it's not happening anytime soon, because we just wouldn't be wanting the same thing. Sometimes. It hard to find someone else with my traits and interests, so I have to adapt at times. If you talking about younger people online, those that are the hardest to get through to. Since they get a lot more messages and more options it's tough to meet one. I just don't have the patience to wait 6 months anymore, had too many bad experiences waiting that long. I understand you did, but I got tired of talking to ones who just wanted to be online friends. I live a small area, so the closest comic con is in Tulsa which is about two hours away. Why did it take you 6 months to meet? It's just would to constantly try to stay in touch all that time if you see them or hear them. I tried it a few times, and never again. Staying in touch that long I mean. There are times when I need breaks from going online, or remembering to keep in touch. Because if they want that long, it often they aren't interested or they found someone else. I just don't that's something I couldn't constantly remember to do for 6 months. Oh I have been to Comic Con before, just hard to stay in touch with people that far away. And I was talking from experience. Got tired of sending 20 messages just so one will respond, even after changing it a few times. Thanks, but still not that interested in 6 month routine, I just wouldn't be consistent about talk or text for that long. But to each is there own. Oh try to not assume something about somebody before you type, because you may send the wrong advice, like when you assumed I didn't try to talk to younger people but just going on statistics. Not complaining, just saying it's good idea to refrain from doing that for better answers.

How do i inforn child support about this

my mother passed away, my father and brother completely hate me and mentally tortured me.my wife highly simple n most of time keep quite.she dosent take part in enjoy etc our age difference is 8 yr. how can i run away from home and setup my new life with a good wife.plz guide me

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My mom died when I was 3 and she and my dad got married when I was 6. From the beginning, she wanted to pass me off as her daughter. The first time I was ever in trouble with her was when I asked my dad if I could stand beside him during the wedding instead of being a flower girl/bridesmaid, since I always hated wearing dressed and I didn't really want to be in her part of the wedding. I ended up without a role, which worked better for me. She and my dad attempted to cut my maternal family from my life, but then when my grandparents stopped sending money, they allowed them back in. But my stepmother would always gloat about how she was raising me and not my real mom. All this happened in front of me and it would make me sick. I've been punished on numerous occasions in the last 9 years for not calling her mom or getting her a stepmother birthday card instead of a mom one. When I told my friends she was my stepmother, not my mom, it would make her and my dad so angry. He would sit me down at least 3 times a year and tell me my mom was gone and I should cherish my stepmother more and open my heart to her as my mom, because she was doing everything a mom would do. And when I pointed out how she didn't have my best interests at heart and hated me mentioning my mom, he would tell me it was hard for her and I needed to be more understanding. Even now, but they even have their kids (my half siblings) trying to break me and get me to call her mom. Help! I don't think I would have such an issue if things had happened naturally. But the way they tried to force me when I was younger and the way she rubs it into my family's face, without thinking of how it makes me feel, has made my feelings toward her very hard. I think she's a mean person and I don't think she deserves the title of mom from me with the way she acts. It's stopped me from loving her.

HELP ME IM FALLING INTO A RIVER AND NOW IM IN DISNEYLAND AND NOW IM IN LONDON PLEASE HELP ME

Like couples under 30 years of age...

I married my husband last month. He took his best friend (very hot guy ) with us by telling me he knows the place better because he had been there. I was fine with it. After 2 days my husband asked me if i could sleep with his best friend sometimes during our honeymoon. I was shocked but he said it would increase our bonding. I was reluctant to it but didnt want to upset my husband. So i slept with him one night in his room. He was very romantic and gave me so many intense moments. We had sex 3 more times during our stay. Now we are back and I cant stop thinking about his friend. He is better than my husband and i think i love him. what should i do ? please suggest

I'm 26 and I am coming up on my 1 year anniversary with my wife who I love very much which is about the only thing in my life that's going right. I have a dead end job that I've worked at since I was 16 and no college education. Depression has kicked in to say the least. I avoid many people I knew from my past out of embarrassment from the fact that I haven't changed at all since high school. No one in my family is my age and I don't communicate with them anymore partly because I'm embarrassed and I don't relate to them since they are much older. I'm lost. I love my wife and am thankful we found each other but I need more. I'm not proud of myself. Put yourself in my shoes and tell me at this point in your life dealing with these problems what would you do?

Background, I am taking chemotherapy treatment and all this stress is too much for me. My children and I left my husband 3 months ago and was staying with my mother. He had been trying to find women on various dating websites and I do believe he met up with some of them. During this time at my moms he would say things like, "so when are you going to die from the chemo" or "I hope you die really soon" or "bye bye blackbird, I hope you die soon" this was really upsetting my mother. However we got into counciling and I really thought things were getting better. So I move back home with him for 2 weeks and lo and behold he was back on the dating websites again. So I left and came back to my mothers.

I am recently divorced after a 23 years of marriage. Not sure if I should move to help my daughter with her 3 kids or stay where I am at. I have someone that I am seeing and it is pretty serious, but my kids come first. Most people in my life think I should stay, but my heart tells me to move, but I am scared to start over only knowing my daughter and her 3 young kids.

So I was in the bathroom at school and this little girl s friend told me that she needed help with her pants. She was wearing shorts under her pants. I thought she meant she needed help pulling down both her shorts and pants. It turns out she only wanted her pants pulled down. She covered herself and said "Why d you do that?!" This is so humiliating. I go to a strict school and it just sounds a lot worse than it was. I was only trying to help, I did it without thinking because I babysit and it was a sort of second nature. I ve emailed her teacher, who hasn t responded. I ve been flipping out for the past two days: always looking over my shoulder, anxiety, etc. any advice would be wonderful, I m losing it here

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Okay, so tonight me and my coworker were working closing together. We were both walking at the same time (me being in front and him behind me.) well he physically put his hands on me and moved me aside and was like "move." I then was like "that was really rude. Could you not grab me and shove me aside?" And he s like "I didn t shove you aside. I moved you so I wouldn t fall on you." And I m like "you still could have asked me to please move instead of physically moving me. It was really disrespectful." And he s like "I was respecting you by moving you." And then we kept going back and forth about it and then I m like "we re at work. We should keep it professional." And he s like, "yeah professional. Get over yourself." I was dismayed by the way he treated me and he made me feel really uncomfortable. And the thing is, he wasn t tripping or falling, he wasn t even that close to me. I don t even get why he did it. It was so weird. I m thinking I should either tell my manager what happened or just leave it be. I feel like things might get resolved by telling my boss, but my boyfriend says i shouldn t be a snitch. I hate drama and I don t know what to do. Help??

And assuming you ladies somehow manage to get children (other women).... So? would you live in a no-man world?

Llevabamos un año cinco meses juntos hasta hoy que terminamos porque le dije que un amigo me vicito el se puso como loco al leer la conversacion que tenía con el (no tenía nada malo) y me empujó en la cama y rompió cosas y no me dejaba pasar al quererme ir e incluso revisó todas mis conversaciones de fb, cuando me traía a casa venía demasiado recio en el coche y cuando me bajé devolada le dio al carro y se fue...en la pelea q tuvimos el me dijo casi put* que si una vez pasó que porque no dos veces que una vez lo engañe porque no sería la exepcion ahora ,en vdd puse todo de mi parte no se que hacer ayudenmen.. favor de aguardarse comentarios ofensivos.l.

There s this guy who I see sitting alone in the school library (I m a high school student) who I find pretty attractive. I would like to talk to them but I don t want to come off as creepy. I have no classes with them and he was a new student this year. I have no problem walking and talking with him, I just don t know what to even say without coming off creepy. Any ideas? I have no problem going up and talking to him, I'm someone who is fine talking with people. I just don't know how to start a conversation, or what to say exactly without being creepy. Since it would be weird if i just went up to him and said something like "hi, what's your name, i've been staring at you for a while now"

So I'm 22, married for 10 months to an amazing man and we have a great relationship. My only fear is that since we have gotten married my family history of alcoholism has been passed to me. I drink often lately just because after I get home from a stressful day of being around only children (nannying while in nursing school) I feel like I want to unwind and have a drink yet most nights I don't stop there. Once I have that first drink I feel like it's almost a goal to get at least a little tipsy...which this happens pretty often. I'm trying to minimize my drinking to two days a week (which I can do but it is kind of hard- I always think "I want a drink when I get home" ) but I definitely have to tell myself not to drink multiple times throughout the evening. Should I stop drinking entirely?

college until the end of this year I can't see my friends from high school no more and it's hard for me to find a job. I have had bad anxiety to talk to people all my life but now I'm not as nervous anymore. Now I am able to talk to people more but the only problem now is I have no where to meet people and no money. It would b nice to have a bf too and there's this guy I like at a warehouse n he funny n I really want to b his friend but it's going to be a while since I will b able to work there again or maybe not at all. I never have felt so lonely in my life. I want friends and a bf. I'm tired of hanging out with my mom or dad 24/7. I feel very Lonley and I have no one to talk to or laugh with. I'm very sad in my life rn. I don't understand why it's so hard to make friends. Im a nice n fun person. I have only gone out with friends once in my damn life.i will do anything to make friends by February I will not take another month depressed. Don't please tell me that crap of u don't need friends u have ur family etc

What if he gets sick of seeing the same face/body everyday, having sex with the same person, find someone better than me, finds other women more attrctive?

I m doing a school project that in completely lost on, I m absolutely stuck on it and my mom knows that but she said she would take both my laptop and my phone if I don t finish my project tonight. I was out sick for most of the days when we were working on the project in class, so I m not sure what to do for the project and I have looked everywhere I can for help but I can t find anything on it. She won t tell me how long she s going to keep me devices and I want to find a way to convince her to atleast let me keep my phone.

I have a girlfriend.

around them. i cant hide it, but i want to stop caring if they can see it. its pointless to care. wish i didnt. what do u do?

My boyfriend is having a surgery in some months and he really would love that...

Las year I found out my husband was unfaithful. Long story short we decided to try and work it out. After a lot of hard work we are now doing great. I am now pregnant. It wasn't planned and I wish it would have happened a little later just to be sure but we're very happy about this little boy. However, the other woman has been pure hell since he told her he didn't want to be with her anymore. She's sent me texts, messages, etc. she hacked his Facebook and is posting pictures and saying he's divorced after she found out I'm expecting. She's posting on her page that she's going to keep trying to be with him and how they're meant to be. I just know I need to stop looking at all that and I know it's not healthy but I just can't. I need to but I keep going back. I made a resolution for this year to be better than the hell of last year. My husband was very upset over the whole Facebook thing but hasn't done anything at all. He said he was going to call her father since she's 21 and living with her parents who already told her to stay away but he never called. I don't want to nag or bring her into our life by talking about her but what would you do?

A my husband's ex-girlfriend's husband made her call me to let me know she had sex with my husband a few years ago while he and I were married, and we still are. My husband and she dated around 1999, He and I have been together since around 2001. He had kept in contact with her as friends and they worked together for about 6 years during our marriage. I am a very trusting person and had no questions about any of his doings except one time and he said if I don't trust him our relationship wouldn't work. So.. I trusted him. Upon the phone call the other day, his immediate response after the call was to say, I'm going to whoop her husbands a** and then he said she will kill herself over this, she is unstable. He went on for a few minutes and then I said, "Um, if you seem more concerned for her safety and anger towards him then It makes me think you care more about her. My son witnessed this phone call and then my husband told me and my son, "I promise I have not cheated on your mom/you". He never said are you okay to me, or seemed concerned about my feelings.. only her's and his.. Last night I told him how this made me feel and how over the last few days that is eating at me, it makes him seem guilty just because of the way he responded to this woman's confession to me. Who would you believe? Him or her?