I have two best friends. It is very difficult to be around both of them at the same time, because they always end up arguing, and then the person who's side I didn't take thinks I liker the other person better (even for super small things). They are both easily offended by very light teasing. One of them is hardly ever happy. I try to help her, but she refuses and I'm out of ideas. She is also not trustworthy, and can be mean sometimes. She is also not good at understanding how other people's lives are different than her's. However, she will occasionally do fun, crazy things, and isn't convinced that she is above everyone else. My other friend is normally really honest, which is a good thing, except that sometimes it can be mean. Recently, we weren't in an argument or even mildly irritated at each other, she just said, "Yeah, you're kind of an asshole." Maybe that's true, but it seems like she could have put it differently. I'm trying to be less of an asshole now, which is stressful and probably making me more mean. She's not just confident, she's sure that she's better than everyone else. It would be especially difficult if I just stopped being friends with one of them. If I did it would be the first one. Or, since she is moving for away for high school next year, I could just deal with her for about seven months. Help!!!

There is this girl I know and she used to be so sweet. We met through friends that went to my church, and she used to come. Recently, she was talking to this guy and apparently he took things a little far. Joy(not her real name) was making out with him in front of her grandparents house and he made her touch him. She says she kept throwing up because she was so disgusted but then she recently told me more. One day in history, Joy told me that our friend had found out that she sent a picture to the guy and told her mother, who wanted to talk to Joy's mother. And she was mad. Well I found out it was a boob pic. She kept saying how he's showing everyone and people are calling her a slut. I didn't acknowledge it because she should've known what was going to happen but she's mad at everyone. Then I found out she was talking to my best friend's ex-boyfriend (who also goes to my church) and he asked for nudes so instead of sending them, they asked for videos and pictures. She also always asks for the homework, which I never give her, when she had nothing to do the night before and I had dance all night. I am so confused on what to do, should I talk to her about the photos and talk to my mom about it? (not to be a tattle-tale but so her mom can maybe talk some sense into her) or leave it? Also should I remain friends with her? If not how should I break it off because she always talks to me? I know it's long and I'm sorry but it's really hard to ask friends around me.

My friend invited me to go clubbing with her and her friends (personally I don't know her friends only her), I said yes but I have no idea what to do?I just turned 18 so this would be my first time clubbing. I don't even know what to wear and I searched on the internet for clubbing outfits and it's just a whole bunch of slutty outfits. Do I have to look like a slut to go clubbing? (I don't mean to offend anyone). I'm not the "sexy" type so I feel awkward and uncomfortable using those types of clothes. Either way I would have to lie to my parents about going since they are super strict so I definitely won't be drinking. What should I expect if I go? Should I not go? Thank you in advance.

I am going to start off by saying that I regret everything we have done and wish it could never have happened this way. My group of friends and I targeted a guy in our class a couple of years ago. He was quiet, and kind of unsure of himself so we felt he was an easy target (to be fair he said and did a lot of things that set him up for criticism, for example he always wanted to work on his own and never really involved himself in the group and became unreasonably stubborn when faced with this inevitability, this was combined with the face that he was very unpopular because many thought the way he behaved was unintentionally funny). At first it was just regular teasing but then it evolved pranking him and assaulting him, although I never took part in physically hurting him, I may have encouraged it inadvertently. All this culminated in a prank we pulled on him last semester that went too far. Someone else not in our group pretended to be his friend for a while and got him to trust him and secretly recorded what he was saying (just things about how he felt no one at school liked him, how he wanted have lots of friends, get good grades and make his dad proud, things like that) and he later posted this to Facebook. After everyone made fun of him he wasn't around any more for a while. We later found out that he had harmed himself so badly that he needed to be rushed to hospital (thankfully he was/is ok). I sent him a lot of messages telling him how sorry i was and how i hoped that things would get better. He has transferred school now, and is doing great according to people, but he is still reluctant to talk to me. The main issue of conflict is between my dad and his dad now. My dad blames me mainly for what happened because according to him his dad was very rude to him. This happened just after he left hospital, my dad visited his dad and tried to apologise to him for my behavior, but apparrently his dad was very aggressive to my dad, glared at him alot acted very intimidating and at one point even appearred to physically restrain himself from punching my dad, but controlled himself. Even when he goes out now, apparently his dad would either glare at my dad or avoid him altogether (my dad turned 46 just before Christmas and his dad is 48 and I feel that they could be handling things a little better then they are now). But everyone seems to be upset with me and each other and I was wondering how to fix this.

Don't have frineds money good family or good close friend to talk to

So my friend (let's call him Bob) got told that some kid (let's call him John) got beat up in gym and was crying on the floor. Bob told his friend (let's call him Tom) about John's Incident in gym, and then Tom told John and got mad at Bob for "talkin s***", when he was just speaking the truth. I've been telling Bob to rat out the guy who told him but he forgot. So what should Bob do to win/avoid the fight tomorrow? Tomorrow's Friday so he has a good 2 days to think about Monday. Addinitional Info: if we sound obnoxious and annoying, we're middle schoolers. also, me and Bob's group of friends are pretty careless so being late and stuff like that it isn't a problem. Thanks

I'm 27 and still in college. I'm considerably older than other students, but I look normal. One thing I hate about university is that I can't manage to make any friends in my classes. I try to look good and talk to people, but it's always the same. I come in, I sit alone, people are talking around me, I may have a conversation with someone but it trails off, class is over and we all leave. I got rid of my FB because although I had lots of classmates from uni on it, I was pretty much being ignored there too. I feel very isolated. I go to uni just to attend class, basically and the rest of my time I spend in my room. What can I do? I've been going to this school for three years.

I've got a friend, not exactly a best friend but below one level, so a close friend. Her BF we'll call him "Charles" and her "Lacey". Well, Charles likes to be an a hole to me, call me names like a ugly pig and a piglet from an ugly pig farm, he tells Lacey he's joking then kisses up and down her neck (gross) I tell her it bugs me, and she says I can't take a joke, finally I told her I'm done being her friend and she's trying to apologize. I want to accept it but I've told her since her and Charles got together (which is about 7 months) that he's been rude and she hasn't confronted him because he gives her a look and she forgets he's a jerk to me.

I'll be starting school on February 1st but I have a job I want to train for. Should I do the training before or after I start college. The training is only two days on January 30 and January 31st. Should I do the training then or wait until after I start school? I could also do the training on February 6th and 7th.

Okay so my best friend for like the past 7 years is getting herself into dangerous situations. We're both sophomores in high school and she has always had some self image issues. In freshman year she got suspended 10 days for possession of alcohol at school and now this year she was in the hospital because of mixing alcohol. I think that the root of her problem is she is unhappy with herself, wants attention and home problems. Her parents can be mean to her and they overreact to everything and treat her very poorly sometimes. Also her sister has changed a lot and starts to treat her worse and our whole group has kinda just ignored her since the whole thing. I'm making her sound like a much worse person than she is but she is getting into bad situations. She's always been a little rebellious but it's way worse than it ever was and even though we're still great friends I feel like she's so far lost and our other friends tried to talk to her about it but they did it in a bad way and made her feel worse about herself and now she doesn't talk to them much. Her new friends are scary people and are juniors so they get into worse stuff and her bestfriend actually went to jail and was kicked out by her parents. I love my friend more than anything in the world but I need to get her to straighten her life out and get it together because not a day goes by where I don't worry about her.

Hey everyone im 19 years old college student. So there is a little problem that started bothering me recently, the problem is that some people who i get to meet and be in touch, become my close friends very fast. I know that this is not something good and i should be happy about is but the problem is that amomg those people are ones that i dont have anything common with and i find myself pretending being ther friend. Because of this my social circle became so larg that i can t get in touch with everyone and it also causes my relationship between my true friends, who were with me for long time, suffer. I don t like jut cutting the touch with people without a reason. What can i do about this. Thanks.

I'm 15 years old, who feels very lonely and spends most of his day alone. No I don't feel sad or depressed, I've gone through that thing.. I just.. Don't have friends even though I do, we never hang out. I suffered depression which made me isolated and stay home all day, which lead to lose some friends I had, I also stopped going to basketball, but I went back, still don't really have any friends there, my school friends, eh, we rarely hang out. In order to make new friends I think I need to have at least one more dude with me. I have made some friends (both sexes) throughout my country, but we don't live in the same city so, that's a no as well. I do go out daily, sometimes cycling, sometimes play basketball, and I do calisthenics to keep up, because I got fat during the depression time in 2014. I kinda want to get back times in 2013, best time of my life, but I guess it can get better. Maybe if you feel alone we can become friends..

Do you get depressed by not having friends at all.

im almost 18, im a guy, and i try so hard to be nice and really put thought into my relationships with friends but everyone just ends up confused and angry with me. im just never enough for anyone. is there anybody out there i could talk to, text, etc... a real friend to talk about things going on in our lives, about life, etc...

I have my own group of friends. 4 including me. The only boy.. let's call him Babby. So the rest of us, which are girls, kinda got tired of him. He is rude, bossy, and just kinda narcissistic..teachers don't know that side of babby. (etc) So we've decided on kicking him out without him knowing. About 2-3 weeks ago, we finally kicked him out. Honestly, I don't really feel bad about it, but I think he's slowly trying to get back in and he's just being nicer to us... We're still friends, but just not in our group.. you know? Him TRYING to get back in makes the three of us angry. He tries to take out one person and replace them with himself..I don't know what I should do about this. The three of us really hate him and is angry at him. Should we/I do anything? He doesn't care about anything. :T Everytime we offend him in ANY way, just lightly even, he's like: I don't care.

I moved to a new school this year and made a bunch of friends. But some of them stopped talking to me. They act really strange around me and start treating me meanly, which leads me to assume that a bad rumor spread. But aside from that, I'm still horrible at talking to people. How do you talk to people at school? Do you just walk up to them and start talking or would they think its weird? Another question: What does it mean to have a "good" personality? Is that person nice and fun? Talkative? Dramatic? PLEASE HELP

My best friend hurt his knee really bad. He had to wear a brace and limped the entire day at school. He complained when ever he had to move his leg or walk. Then came lunch time. We were all sitting around the table. 6 of were gathered around the table. I gave him my pizza, chips, water, and ice cream cone. My friend Ty gave my best friend a fruit cup. There I was looking at my best friend in pain. I got up and got him a fork and spoon when I got back I said choose and he took both. My best friend asked every body but me so finally I got up and him a spoon and fork. Then it happened every body starting laughing. "You shouldn't of got up, You wasted you lunch on him, Why you give him your lunch." I didn't know what to say. There is my best friend who I saw get kicked by a horse, Got a concussion, fail off a horse, and plenty of fights that ended badly. But in the entire time I have known him he has never been in that much pain. Did I do the right thing by helping my best friend or should I of just let him do it his self and it only cause more pain. (The entire day his knee was swollen and you could visibly tell that even with the knee brace covering his knee. ) Please help me...

I m in high school and I m basically friends with everybody (not popular, I m just everybody s friend. No clique for me). I was asked by one of my friends (on the lower end of the popularity spectrum) if I could hang out at his house. It sounded awesome so I said yes. But I ve heard from my friends (on the higher end) That he s annoying, smelly, and will only waste my time. He really is a good kid, but I don t want to have a bad time. What should I do?

The only thing I can come up with is going for a walk but I live in Canada and it's cold. I offered Tims but we go there almost everyday at lunch

Me and my friend haven t talked in awhile which sucks, but the thing is I have no clue why we stopped. We used to be so close and told each other everything. She knew all of my worse secrets basically kept me alive. Should I ask her what happened??

me and my best friend are in 7th and 8th Grade both grades are conbined in my school. we were basically like soulmates. the beginning of this year went really well accept a new girl came in our class and she's sweet but my best friend seems to get along with her more than she does with me. I haven't sat with my best friend at all this year in class even if I ask if I can sit by her she said that this new girl has already sat by her. me and my best friend Each bought other nice Christmas gifts and we text each other but not as much as we used to we don't talk as much as we used to and we don't hang out near as much as we used to. My best friend and all of my other friends are going going into 9th grade next year and I'm staying at 8. next year my best friend is moving to Africa after this summer she's going to stay there until she graduates in then shes going to leave and move back home. our friendship is just not as strong as it used to be. I'm a very loyal person but my best friend isn't quite as loyal as I am whenever I am alone with her she pays attention to me and acts like she likes me but when we're with other people that are more popular than me or her eyes better than me she acts like I'm not there and completely ignors me... I just need some advice on how to handle this on what to do. Thanks in advance

So I'm a freshman in high school, and my best friend for about 3 years now ditched me and the other friends we hang out with, to hang out with these other group of people. Now the people she ditched us for are pretty rude to us behind our backs. Me and my friends tried to sit with them at lunch and everything to try and become friends with them, but they started ditching us too. And then the main girl who is now my best friends new best friend (her name is Chelsea), created an Instagram group and started talking about me and my friends on it. Another girl in the group said that we should "f**k off" when my best friend said that we wanted to sit with them. We were never rude to them, but they were rude to us. My best friend said that she knew that she would have to choose between the groups, and she told me that she chose them over us. When I asked why she said "I'm sorry." Now she isn't responding to any of my texts and she's been ignoring me. I've been crying about it and I have absolutely no idea what to do. What do I do?

There are 3 of us who are really close friends my two friends both had babies recently one is now 5 months old and the other 3months, I think it's great that they have both had children at similar times and that they have each other to share the experience with, however i feel totally left out, I may not have a child of my own but that doesn't mean I don't want to share their experiences too they often organise to go out for a catch up eg lunch or sometimes just a coffee somewhere but I never get invited along anymore I have always been totally understanding of them not being able to the things we used to do before they became mummy's and I have always been there when they needed anything took them shopping when their partners had gone back to work, watched the babies whilst they got some rest etc. I have managed for the last 5 months to just push my feelings to one side thinking it was just me being silly but last night I was really worried about one friend who had been suffering with postnatal depression as she hadn't replied to any msgs I had left for her over the last couple of days that I asked my other friend had she heard from her only for her to text back saying yeh I was with her last night for a catch up and we are meeting up for a catch up next week she is fine! So no invite to either event for me it has left me feeling totally pushed out of the group and it hurts soo much am I right to feel like this or am I just over reacting?

I know people are using me for many different things and often my friends tell me that i should stop talking to someone because they just keep doing things to me and even if i know that someone is hurting me i just can't cut them off or stay angry... I really wish i could because i keep getting hurt and i keep letting myself get hurt.. Why do i do this? People have done awful things to me and its not that i dont care.. I just feel like i dont deserve anything better... What do i do?

I told this guy I wanted to go with him to this event when I come to visit him. I saw a few days ago he shared a the event on his timeline for the date I'll be there to see him. Do you think he shared it so I could see it?

Me and my best friend have been best friends for 3 years. When we started secondary school, I didn t spend as much tine with her she seemed really jealous, then after that we started being really good best friends again, now its our third year of friendship and she has a friend called ...lets say bob. Her and bob are in alot of the same classes, they always joke and whenever bob makes a joke my best friend always laughs properly. So far from coming back from the Christmas holidays she s spent all her lunch times at school with her doing something and I feel left out. I don t understand what s happening. She said she wasn t replacing me when I told her but that was a while back. She then showed me a quote she found that she said she really liked and it said "you love the ones that hate you but you hate the ones that love you." I don t know if I m just being overdramatic and jealous or if I m being replaced and its making me really upset now. I tried leaving her alone to give her space so after a while we are close again but it doesn t work. She sits next to bob in a lesson and whenever I look over they re always laughing. She doesn t really text me as much but she s always reading before bob even came into the picture so not alot changed. they both have a lot in common and so do me and mu best friend but I cant help it. Please someone say honestly their opinion, don t sugar coat it. And if you can please suggest ways I can stop this from happening

Ok im in year 7 (6th grade) and i have really bad problems sitting near and speaking to people. When they start a conversation with me i cant look them in the eye and feel like i cant even breathe around then. I just feel so nervous. People think im really shy, i dont want to be known as a shy person. I want to be out going. I want to act like i do with my best friends. But im just to scared. Why do i get so nervous? I want to tell my mum and dad but they won't believe me because im really loud at home... Please, can you help me

I had a best friend for five years. We got in two big fights because she turned on me twice, and I didn't speak to her for three months each. End of grade nine we got into a worse fight but we both have different stories and once I think about it, I think it may have been a misunderstanding... the first two times weren't but I think this time was. I didn't speak to her for eight months until the last two weeks- not 24/7 talking but only in the classes we're in we sometimes do. we speak as if nothing ever happened- it's crazy. How is that possible? Hate each other so much and we speak with the same love we once had? I HATED her at a point. Everyone will judge me too if I become friends again but I would too if I were them- I did gossip like **** because I was so ******* angry but I think it was a mistake... all of it. What do I do?:( I don't know how to put her in the past. I tried hating her forever but I find myself wanting to just get over this little fight or whatever it was. Btw do you know any songs like 'we belong' or 'if I could turn back time.' Songs about loosing someone? :/

A couple years ago I lost contact with an old friend. I had known him for 15 years. He had moved away and we stayed in touch. But all of a sudden he just left. He had blocked me from Social Media and other sites. Why would this be and how can I get back in contact with him?

I have a friend named Nevaeh we used to be best best friends but she found another person named cadence so ever since we went in middle school me and Nevaeh seemed to stop talking and so we had a friend Kali that Nevaeh was friends that's how Nevaeh met cadence and ever since that she seems to be more into cadence instead of me and I'm horrible at making friends and my school is like mean girls the movie except in not the girl that gets bullied that person changes every week anyway we are still friends but she isn't so interested in me and I don't like cadence she is annoying at times other wise she is ok but how do I keep Nevaeh as my friend and cadence doesn't like me either and Nevaeh always seems sad:/

I can't joke or laugh. At class I am the quietiest person ever,I dont talk with anybody unless I have to. Everybody got their groups but I none,I did have friends but I couldnt become a normal friend. suppose someone jokingly insulted me I have no words to say to that person and I end up looking like an idiot. I dont know how to start a conversation and what should I talk about. all these things are getting worse as I grow up,I am actually going insane if I cant become a normal person.

my 7th grade friend called me ugly because I had crooked teeth, short hair, average figure, and I had insecurities. It built up more and she pointed out my flaws, even bedroom being smaller than her bedroom. I have never called her ugly and I know she is ignorant and cocky or hurting me for her benefit. I tell just accept it and be hurt. I told her to stop and she didnt want want to be friends anymore. She post this on account "if you call me ugly in 7th grade, then now you in my message sleep emojis", I shouldn't care, but I ask her about it.... her response "yea its you, so f- off my life and I move on ... I dont care you're hurt... you're jealous". I defriend her and I am hurt. Now, I am insecure, not beautiful, worthless, and stupid. What do I do now and am I ugly?

I have a few of my work colleagues on Facebook from my new job. Unfortunately I've become the subject of gossip at my office, I think due to the fact that I'm relatively introverted an quiet, hence not mixing much with others. I'd overheard some of the women in my office calling me arrogant and "bougie" because I went on vacation to Dubai with my brother and my parents, and naturally shared some of my vacation pics on FB. I don t know, it kind of wound me up. These women know nothing about me and I feel like they were just nit-picking, trying to look for stuff to talk about through my facebook to compensate for the fact that I haven't ACTUALLY done anything to them, and I genuinely did not even discuss my holiday with anyone... I unfriended them because I didn't want them to have anymore access to my personal life like that. They all seem to have not noticed/cared at this point, except for one who gave the dirtiest look when I saw her. Which I m not really bothered by... But was I justified here? One of my friends feels it may have been a little too offensive??

I'd been spending a lot of time with a dear friend during this recent Christmas/New Year period... and a few things came-up that got me curious... We've known each other for a couple of years or so and we're in constant touch with text messages and such flipping between us at least every day or two. We confide in each other about various things and I'd say we're pretty close (although she doesn't really use those words). I've recently taken her out for dinner, given her some presents (small, fun ones as well as some expensive flowers) and we try and organize to have some sort of little outing as much as we can (movies, beach visits, etc)... but understand that we're friends - she has no interest in anything more than that... and that's Ok with me, too. ...but she never says "Thank You" for anything I do... nor does she ever consider the constraints under which I live (taking care of an elderly father who lives with me).. but expects that I can just *do* something within a few hours of her deciding that she wants to do something. Am I expecting too much for her to have the manners/courtesy about "thank you"s... or giving me some notice about things she wants us to do, when I have to arrange for Dad's meals, etc... !? ...or is there something with our individual egos getting in the way here? Would appreciate any thoughts...

I told this guy I wanted to go with him to this event when I come to visit him. I saw a few days ago he shared a the event on his timeline for the date I'll be there to see him. Do you think he shared it so I could see it?

Everyone hates rapists but they love to bully. And they wonder why children get raped and killed. They call me names like "rapist" and "pedophile" because I write dirty songs that involve young children. A loser found out that I wrote the songs and now everyone hates me because I think rape is acceptable in many situations. I also write songs about murdering infants and using their dead bodies as sex objects. Sorry but it's all for personal pleasure. This question is meant to be humorous so please answer it from a humorous angle.

So I started nursing school in September at a small school with about 60 in a class. I had to live in the dorms because I live so far and classes start at 6 am, but I ve been here about 6 months and everyone in the dorm seems to hate me . When I started I tried really hard to become friends with the girls ( there are 7 from my class ) but they all came together as friends and did not seem to want to include me . I befriended one girl , but she has ditched me to hang out with the other ones . They stop talking when I come in the room , make plans without me right in front of me , and talk about me behind my back. It has gotten to the point that I don t want to go to school anymore and I dread every day . I m miserable every day and hang out in my room alone . I don t have anyone to study with though I ve tried to get into their study group and they told me there was too many people already . I don t know what to do because I still have two more years here and I feel like I can t do it anymore if these girls are this way . Please help

I helped a close friend with some money giving her sixty bucks my grandparents gave me. She said she was gonna pay me back when she could. I asked her a couple months later (recently) if she had the money to pay me back. She got upset and told me she has it but doesn t have control over her own money. She has to ask for her money because her dad holds onto it for her. She DOES have the money to pay back. What should I do? She I just stop trusting her and being friends with her? She was known to steal a lot back in high school but now she s changed. I thought I could trust her now. Will I never see my money again?

I have a friend Kris. So she basically will do some kind of damaging to my clothes when she wants to talk to me like pull my sleeves really hard and her fingernails are very long so they will always go into my skin and hurt me. I asked her to stop and she said then she could slap me if she wants to tell me something next time and I got really annoyed so I did not answer her. And also today in SS my friend Belinda was working on an important projects and did not want to chat but my and my best friend Jocelyn had nothing to do and the teacher said we can chat so we opened up a google doc and chatted there. Belinda immediately got hurt and started mocking us about why we did not invite her. Also, in lunch Belinda tried to steal my fruits and I did not want her to because I wanted to have them. Last time Belinda got 3 and I only grabbed a small clementine she did not want and she said I have to give her my fruits because of that. Then Kris said to never believe me and also a lot of mean words. I kind of shrugged it off and then I said something about gym and Kris was like see I told you she does not like you last time. I was dumbfounded because that means kris and belinda were discussing me behind my back. They would also ignore me and jocelyn and leave us behind. WHAT SHOULD WE DO?

I mean, I'm not sour, I'm not the humour loving person. Actually I laugh really easily but can't make jokes that would make others laugh. And I don't want to be funny in the same way as others. All they do is talk bad about others and make fun of them. I find that stupid and not amusing at all and since I don't do that, they consider me boring. Really, how can I be humorous without talking dirty about others?

I'm 18 years old and I don't have any friends and I struggle to make them since I have social anxiety. But today I finally found the courage to ask a girl in my class who seems really nice if I could hang out with her tomorrow at lunchtime and she said I could. I know I should feel happy and excited about it but I'm actually really nervous instead. I'm just scared that I might do/say something embarrassing or that she might be with her other friends as well or that she might not have even wanted me there in the first place, and she just said I could to be nice. I guess I'm just not used to hanging out with people. Help? Thanks

I have many problems which make it impossible for me to make friends and have a social life. I am cold, boring, shh, awkward, too serious, and did I mention boring as heck? I have an emotionless face and never smile at school. All I do is homework and keep completely to myself while everyone is talking and enjoying themselves. I've been this way since elementary school. Today, my two so called friends told me I'm "dry". I have tried many times to get rid of the shyness and be outgoing and optimistic but it never works for me. Shyness is my biggest problem out of all of these though. I want to be more confident and talkative, I want to know how to have fun and get my nose out of my books even when my classmates are having a good time- it's only because I have no one to talk to. Can anyone please give me some helpful advice?

My friend has always been a really rude person. She always has to get her way and she is bossy and talks bad about EVERYONE. We only ever became friends because our parents have always been really good friends but lately it has been really hard to deal with all of her rudeness. Idk if i should just dump the toxic relationship or if i should talk to her about her rudeness for like the millionth time.

I just found out from a mutual friend that my friend has been talking crap about me behind my back... and apparently she seems to think I act like a know-it-all, and I won't say I never do but still. I'm wondering if this is why she is mean to me every chance she gets. I posted a question ages ago about this same person: https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20151201193911AAVwDUE (please check it out before answering if you can)

The day after I had a conversation with him we were crossing paths in an empty hall and I glanced over at him two times and he gave smaller smile and said hey. Was this only because I glanced over. I was talking to this guy today and we were both near the entrance of the doorway waiting to leave class and i said hi and then he smiled big and said hey how are you? He was smiling the entire conversation and it wasn't fake either it sounded like he genuinely cared. After I said I didn't get a chance to go to the game and he said aww that's ok and I said I will defintely go to other ones though and he said you defintely should or that's great! then I said that I would of been on varsity but they didn't have a spot for me and how I'm cheering for jv and he said that's still good at least you get to cheer while smiling. He was smiling the entire conversation. Last month I was walking down an empty staircase and he was walking up and we made eye contact then both looked away and while walking by me he said what's up? He doesn't do this to everyone except his friends. He says how are you to a lot of people but only people he knows. This was our first conversation ever and he said it. I just want to be friends and maybe he can come over sometimes and hang out. I want to stay in touch with him after high school which is this summer. My friend said hi to him and he just said what's up. When I said hi he smiled big and said hey how are you?

Im 12 and in grade 7 so im kinda new to middle school. Im a really awkward person and kinda like a type a person. i was at the school camp and i sprained my ankle. I felt like i exaggerated alotand everyone knew that. At the end, my seniors and friends were punished for not looking out for me and i was sent to the hospital(Cos everyone thought that i was gonna die on sth). When i came back, nobody looked at me the same again. My seniors aren t talking to me and my friends aren t kinda like my friends anymore. My bestie dumped me and said that i was childish. My teacher all gave me the " i disgust u" glare. Now i feel so worthless.

Today after school, i got into an argument with a guy, he started the argument by saying wtf are you looking at, so we began arguing. He's well known and has many friends, so a group of people joined in. I couldn't hear myself speak as I had a group of guys and SOME girls yelling and swearing at me so i was raising my voice. Now I do not want to go back tomorrow because usually, I'm very quiet and i'm pretty sure people are going to start on me again tomorrow as the majority of the people who joined in are in my classes. I do have a very bad temper. I only have a few months left of school so I want these guys to leave me alone and stop causing me hassle.

Me and this girl have been friends for years. Recently she moved across the country and our conversation has started running dry. We used to call/text/video chat each other multiple times a day at first but now she hardly responds to my calls or texts so I've stopped contacting her as much. Occasionally she'll send me a text so I'm not sure if that means she still wants to be friends or not. But our conversations aren't as interesting as they used to be, I'm not sure who changed me or her. Does this friendship sound over?

Hey, there's a girl in my class which sits alone in many breaks at school, and i feel sorry for her. I always sit alone, so there's thaat. i am a messianic Jew (Judaism and Christianity) and one of Yeshua's (jesus) commands was to spread love. And she is pretty much alone in breaks. I fear i might have a crush on her, she's really nice so i wanna get to know her. problem is that i have social anxiety, and i am scared whenever i even talk to "strangers". please help me? :)

Im 22 and Female and I had social anxiety as a child until I was about 18 since then I have become better through forcing myself to do things I hate doing. However one thing I feel would really help me a lot is if i knew how people connect with others to make friends. As when I talk to people even though its a nice conversation it ends there and we stay acquaintances. I have been watching my boyfriend and his friends and they seem to make jokes with each other so easily, they are always laughing and just talk non-stop. What can I do? I really appreciate the help thanks

so i just joined high school. I'm kind of a social person. but I'm not in school/class. i don't know why. i always get that feeling that nobody want to talk to me and many kind of negativity thoughts. i even have the problem of making friends. when i don't have friends i feel that I'm not wanted. and when i get one or two friends i still feel empty inside. its like i got something but of no use. i want to have atlas a good friend in my class until i finish my high school. i don't like being alone! and i swear i was not like this in my previous school. please help? thank you.

First she was always complaining about her husband. I told her she should be thankful she married her high school sweetheart. Then she was always complaining about not having kids. I again told her to be thankful for her husband. Then she had 3 of them through IVF. I recently married, and I really don't have complaints about him. I went to have IVF and everything turned into a disaster. I found out that I can't have kids and am pretty sad about that. I got together with her recently and all she did was complain about how her sister is pregnant again and it's sooooo easy for her and she had to struggle and pay a high price for those 3 IVF kids because of her husband's low sperm count. And she complained again about her husband's bad habits. And then she complained about how I would always tell her that she ought to be grateful. And then I told her, I guess I'm sitting here again telling you to be grateful for what you have because you could have gone through all of that and not have any kids. Quite frankly, I'm sick of her complaining and am ready to end the friendship because I really can't take it anymore. Oh, and when I got engaged, instead of being happy for me, she told me that I shouldn't marry him because we were different religions.