Family: Question: What would you do? Ex and kids bullying?

Question: What would you do? Ex and kids bullying?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 12:40 PM PST

I'm an Aunt to a 6 year old nephew and 3 year old niece. I'm close to both since I've watched them since they've been born. Their parents moved into the same house before they split. Over the last year, the kids have come back from their Father's place and have said called me negative things, and towards my sisteroo. I seem to get the brunt of it because I'm always with them, and it's mostly coming from the 3 year old, who used to be the sweetest angel on earth. Now she calls me names like, "(Hauntie, Mantie, Carpet Monster, Ugly Duckling, Uncle Antie, Andrew, etc.) I brought it up to my sister who said I was being gross and that her ex wouldn't say those things. My nephew says he doesn't recall him ever saying it, but he can't remember what he did the day before. I also found out that he's been stalking my Twitter because my niece asked me what I wanted to do, "tweet?" I've never discussed Twitter with her ever. My sister said that her ex had been stalking her and he's pissed she's found a new guy. I've done everything for the two of them. I changed my whole life to help them and never asked for a penny in return. I know in my heart that negative things are being said around around them. My niece is like a parrot and repeats anything someone says. She'd never be able to come up with these names on her own. I am not gay, but I have dated women before. My nephew brought up that one day during the midst of this breakup (he said, Auntie you kissed a girl?) What should I do?

Question: Should I not the thingsy dad says bother me and they bother you.?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 12:13 PM PST

Like one day after he got home from work he was telling me about his day. he works with this college guy that goes to the same school as me and he said the guy wasn't doing his job good enough and he told the guy you can't even do this but you think you going to do so much after school and the guy told him well I guess your daughter is not going to do anything either and he said he told the guy no she's not. Or like another time when he got mad at me he told me I spent 23 years dealing with this ( talking about me dead mother and the "problems" she caused him ) now you. Recently I was having eye troubles I went to one doctor on my own and bought glasses and paid for it myself. But I was still having a lot of trouble so I asked my dad to pay for me to have a second opion he did the doctor told me I has dry eye and clogged ducts she wanted me to come back the following week. I told my dad maybe I won't go back since know what the problem is maybe now I can research it and try some stuff that the doctor recommended first he tells me why did you have me spend that money if your not going to follow up then I ask him if he would pay for the follow up and he tells me have I not thrown enough money at this. ( I ended up rescheduling until after I got paid so I would have the money to pay the doctor myself)

Question: My mom is always yelling and threatening to hit me, my brother, and my sister. What should i do i do?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 12:08 PM PST

My mom is always yelling at me and my younger siblings. But mostly me for some reason every time i do something she yells at me threatens to hit me if i leave one thing on the floor even if i did not do it she never lets me explain my part of the story if something goes down she just jumps to a conclusion. I don't know what to do anymore! I feel like im not wanted here no more if my mom yells at my younger sister she gets off easy by being quite. If anybody does ANYTHING to annoy my mother and i mean anything she starts yelling like the world is going to end. I also, learned over the years that when my mom starts cussing it does not always mean harm she could be happy and angry. I feel like she could be more nicer to me, my brother, and my sister.

Question: Should i tell my mom i own a hookah?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 12:06 PM PST

Im 14, my mom found my stash once and she found out i smoke. There was my vape along with e-juice, zippo lighter (Which she let me keep) and rolling papers in there. She was pissed when she found cigarettes in my pocket and i told her i wouldn't smoke anymore because i was worried about telling her im addicted to nicotine. That was about two months ago. After that i bought a hookah with everything else needed to smoke a hookah (hookah tobacco, coals). Should i tell her i have it? And how? Please dont hate me for being 14 and smoking i just want to know if i should tell her about the hookah. Thanks

Question: Cousin makes me feel unwelcome - how to deal with this?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 12:06 PM PST

After Christmas my relatives went back to work, they wanted someone to visit and keep their son (my cousin) company, since I was off work I volunteered. I tried my best to bond with my cousin but was told to f off and go away, later on I overheard him on the phone tell his parents that I am annoying and he didn't ask me to come down, when his mother told him that I am family he responded with "that means nothing to me" What should I do about this?

Question: Idk what to do about my grandma?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 12:05 PM PST

I don't know what to do about this my grandma is pissing me off. She came here to visit and tbh I want her to leave. She can't do anything by her self someone has to wipe her butt and everything. She is perfectly capable of doing it her self. When she eat she chews with her mouth open and food falls out and I tell her to stop and my mom yells at me. I almost got fired because she came to the place I work and took her shoes off and put it on the table of the restaurant and a customer was very angry. I have 3 dog and I do not like feeding them human food and she feed them chicken bones which your not suppose to do and I've told her 1000000 times not to feed them. She is very dirty she takes showers 1 time every 2 week and she screams in the middle of the night and she's really rude. And my dad hates her but my mom won't listen. Idk what to do I suffer from depression and I stopped taking my medicine and this is making me go crazy please help idk what to do

Question: Co worker sent me his nudes?!?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 11:47 AM PST

We've worked together for 3 years and we have been great friends. About last year his personality completely changed and he became involved in partying in pubs and things like that. Recently after a drink get together with everyone he has been acting strange towards him and my husband does not like it. He keeps sending me his nudes and flirty messages, I just keep deleting them, my husband said he will beat him up if he dares lay a hand on me, I don't want him to be beaten up and to face consequences how can I get him to realize what he is doing is wrong and that he's just clearly not himself. Thank you for reading this xo.

Question: Is running away such a bad thing?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 11:35 AM PST

I'm 18 so it wouldn't be illegal. Currently I wish I hadn't been born and wish to die, however I am too afraid to end it. Running away would allow me to forget about who I am. My family has little interest in helping me so there is that as well.

Question: My mom is pregnant from another guy? <<<< PLEASE REAAD..?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 11:33 AM PST

So i found out that my mom is carrying another man's baby.. I've no idea what to do.. I haven't talked to anyone about this... Should i tell my dad? But like my dad has been waiting for this baby for very long time.. Cuz my mom had several miscarriages.. And this will ruin their marriage.. ( they have been married for 16 years..) im scared to talk to my mom.. Cuz i found out about this after i read her messages... And im sure she'll be angry... ( btw im 14 and im only child for now).. PLEASE help,.

Question: Mom told my brother that my boyfriend is special and a moron?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 11:30 AM PST

i let my mom use my tablet but she forgot to sign out of facebook. when i went to use my tablet i didn't notice that she was still logged in. i seen there was a message from my brother (i thought it was my account) so i opened it and that's when i realized mom didn't log out and her and my brother were bashing my boyfriend. my brother never met my boyfriend and was judging him already because he thought he was some sort of sex addicted metal head. and then mom wrote it him. "its ok. he is special. its cool to observe a moron up close". there is no reason for her to say that. well, he does have a speech impediment, maybe she is mistaking that for being slow. if that's the case. **** her. .i don't even know what my question is...please just give me kind words and support and tell me how to handle this without ww3 . because with my luck, ppl will take her side because i "invaded her privacy" .

Question: Was my friend's dad hitting on me?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 11:30 AM PST

I've hung out at my freind's house since we were in middle school. He doesn't have a mother but I knew his father pretty well. I've stayed the night at his house and nothing has ever happened so i don't know if I'm just making something outta nothing. I am visiting from my university out of town for the winter break. I went to visit my friend but he wasn't home so his dad let me wait for him there. We were talking about school and it was normal. But then his dad just brought up that he had a dream that he had sex with me the other night. I didn't respond and he just laughed it off. I don't know was he bringing it up just as conversation or was he trying to flirt?

Question: Why am i scared of dogs? :(?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 11:25 AM PST

Question: Do you think I miss placed my money or it was stolen?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 11:24 AM PST

On New Years eve im sitting in my room waiting on the Michigan St Alabama game to come on, before I go downstairs to watch it with my Dad I put my money under my matress yes I know stupidest thing I could have done. i had 1,400 in a rubber band with a blue hundred on top and a regular 100 underneath. So I walk downstairs and start watching the football game my mom sister and nephew come home then leave for church. I go back upstairs with the light off yes I know stupid of me, pull out the money so I could order a pizza I noticed the blue hundred dollar bill on top was gone

Question: How to get my parents to let me have a gaming tv in my room?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 11:23 AM PST

I have always wanted a tv so I can hook up an xbox and playstation and wii to it. I don't think at all that that uses cable. I'm more than willing to pay for all of it, because I'm saving up for a macbook and I'm halfway there so I already know I can make the money by mowing lawns and everything. My parents think I'll be on it all night even though I've already told them that I would simply unplug the gaming consoles at night and they could take them because I'm pretty fast at unplugging and reconnecting them? I just don't get why even through all of this they won't let me. Im a responsible kid and I make all a's in school and I'm pretty hardworking, I'm also 15, so this could help with making money in the future. Can anyone help with ways to convince them?

Question: Any one deal with this before?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 10:59 AM PST

So my fiance's mom's cat is 13 years old. She weighed 10 pounds in Oct 2015, she now weighs 7 pounds Jan 2016. She does not eat very much at all. A couple bites once a day. I work for a Vet and am currently in school to become a vet tech. Misty, the cat, was in the clinic in April 2015 for senior lab work and nothing was found. I do know cats (animals) age faster than humans. She is going in for more lab work and radio graphs in two days. Basically, my question is, how can i entice her to eat? I ran out of room before lol. We have tried senior cat food, tuna, basically everything offered at the pet store and more. She will not eat hardly anything. She use to love pizza cheese with sauce. Now she wont touch it. The vet i work for said that her losing that much weight so fast is definitely not good. Now please don't say, why didn't you take her in before when she quit eating. Because i know that. It took me awhile to talk my fiance's mom into it. Any ideas on what we can feed her?

Question: How To STOP people from telling you their secrets?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 10:53 AM PST

People open up to me SO MUCH. Literally I cant go a day without somebody (strangers, friends, family) sharing their deepest darkest secrets. My co worker even shared with me that she contracted a STI the other day. Just like that. Anyway I want to find ways to get people to STOP sharing their emotional and private information because it typically results in one of two things 1. The person feeling like they overshared and acting strange with me after the fact and slowly cutting ties. (This typically happens when people say info that involves family) or 2. (This when I actually attempt to give advice) The said advice is twisted or used against me at a later date. (This typically happens in relationship issues) e.g. someone sharing something about their partner, I express concern and empathy then the same person accuses me of trying to split up their relationship. I have had enough. I guess I am friendly and open but this has got to stop. I don't want the issues and responsibility that come along with it. What can I do.

Question: Mom in law wants to baby sit in her mold ridden home?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 10:51 AM PST

My mother in law wants to babysit our son in her home which has had a lot of repair issues. Right now part of their floor is partially removed (showing concrete) and I was told there is a lot of mold in the walls. She constantly stays sick herself and allows her nieces and other relatives to come over/spend the night when they re sick. I m not okay with this and I don t know how to tell her I don t want my son visiting her. My husband has said something to her but she still says she ll babysit our son...I don t think she gets it. We live about 35 miles away and she doesn t want to babysit at our home.

Question: Want to move to the Northeast, need advice?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 10:46 AM PST

I was born in the Northeast, but moved down south when I was young. However my happiest moments in life seem to be when we are visiting family in New Jersey. I have no friends down here and can't identify with the southern lifestyle. I don't dislike the south, but it's just not my thing. When I mentioned this to my parents they strongly, and I mean STRONGLY encouraged me not to go. They listed a whole bunch of cons like the weather and stuff like that, but I think I can hack it. What are some pros to moving above the Mason line, and how do you deal with the cons?

Question: Girls mature question?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 10:33 AM PST

I was 23 and she was 18. She claimed she was a virgin & said she wanted to wait till she's just ready. I being a gentlemen highly respected her. Only this one night during our 6th month i tried sexing her for a 1st time ever and she stopped me other then that we'd touch, make out, send sexy pics but that was it. She now broke up with me and we lasted 1 year. She actually said we'd be better off as "FRIENDS" after one year!. Can a girl loose interest in a guy because he didn't try to sleeping with her earlier in the first dates? (i pulled the trigger 6 months later which maybe she had lost interest by then). My friends told me girls won't look at a men manly/men enough if he doesn't try sleeping with her early in the dates?. My guys are telling me this could be the case as in she must of liked aggressive men/who take charge and i wasn't it.

Question: When should a mom and daughter not be nude around each other?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 10:18 AM PST

Question: Im 26 and pregnant. My Mom is forcing me to have an abortion?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 10:12 AM PST

I live under my Moms roof. So what she says go. If I want to stay, I need to abort it, if not I have to go live with my boyfriend who's family is real supportive except its uncomfortable living there in small space. What do I do? I have no education. Signed up for school starting Feb but now with the baby how do I finish? Im not financially ready nor is my boyfriend despite his family willing to help. We will live in boyfriends tight space how would i fit my stuff plus new babys stuff. Theyll be no privacy since well live with his parents, its awckaward going to the kitchen alone to get stuff for the baby while his family there. Were not married and only been dating for 7months. Hes not finanically ready. We both work minimum wage jobs and who would take care of the baby while I work my minimum wage job which doesnt even pay enough a week for a baby and stuff for me. My parents dont want to help me because they think im ruining my future despite im 26. What a coincedence I was going to start school now for 9 months to start a career but low and behold im pregnant. Whos going to take care of it while im going to school / working?? His parents are supportive but its awakcwarsd I barely know them and Im going to be living in theyre house? The only option is abortion but i dont know if ill regret this decision forever??!! help My stupid BF is addicted to playing video games and drnking beers so me, him, and baby, stuck in a crammed up space ill freaking die !!!! Im thinknig of aborting it, finishing school, THEN if I see my BF has matured, get pregnant again. Or should I just keep it regardless and deal with these unfortunate circumstances?!

Question: My mom yells at me for no reason I ll say like " no I didn t do that I did this" she ll blow up if she can t find her remote she blames me?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 10:11 AM PST

See I have social anxiety and she says I fake it but I ve had it since I was little and her yelling and judging me all the time doesn t help ...can you guys help me find a way to get her to not yell..?

Question: Please help?? How am I going to eat when my parents arnt there for me anymore and when I finish school and move out?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 10:04 AM PST

I'm a 15 year old girl and I never really payed attention or helped my parents cook. And now I don't know how to make ANYTHING.

Question: Not inspired but not uninspired?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 08:48 AM PST

I have been reading up on things lately and I have decided I want to start giving money. Well the consensus is that I should give to what inspires me. Then I got to thinking..... nothing inspires me.... I just do what I do because I should, I have very few passions and those I spend money on. My passions are my son Video gaming My job My relationship And while my son is what keeps me going I cant freely give him money since I spend alot on him and have a college fund getting fatter every paycheck. I looked this question up and it seems that since im not inspired that means im uninspired.... My question is how do I find the inspiration that I can give to freely.

Question: Can I convince my sister otherwise?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 08:46 AM PST

Is there anyway to convince she's wrong? I'm the single dad to my 5 year old daughter. She's a bubbly blue eyed blonde like her mom was. Anyway, my sister lives nearby, we hang out a lot. My daughter likes going to the park, so we all go. On 2 occasions, women have come up to me in this park and told me she's cute and then we exchange numbers. Now my sister is convinced I only go to this park so I can " use my daughter to pick up women".

Question: Why is my mom like this?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 08:45 AM PST

Ok I'm so sad this is a long story my family are very ignorant people especially my mom since I was little my mom use to send me to live with others because my sisters didn't like the way I dressed and by this I mean all my sisters are obese 300 plus pounds and I was 125 lbs I know it was jealousy now that I'm an adult. My teacher wanted to adopt me at 14 my mom said yes but I didn't want that I wanted my mom. Now tgat im 26 I had my first chikd with a man I've been with for 9 years our first my mom was not there for me during my pregnancy my sisters are better towards me now except for the youngest whom my mom admitted to loving the most. All my sisters date bjmanysive mrn and it's like I don't got in. I brought my mom gifts and she's never thankful but when my sister gets her something she's so e cited. What is wrong with me? Why don't they like me? My mom is so ignorant making comments saying she's 61 and look younger than other women she always compared herself to other women. Recently j introduced her to my husbands famiky and she was quiet and distant as if she wanted everyone to cater to her she didn't want to talk to them. But my little suster who is 24 had s her bf living in my moms house for two years he doesn't pay rent but has keys and cooks and sleeps there

Question: Need advice right away frightened and don t know what to do any help is appreciated?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 08:39 AM PST

I have been mentally and verbally abused my whole life by my adoptive family a few months ago I left their house at 17 went to the police station where an officer let me walk free even though my parents still have custody. I went to live with my bf my family hates him because he cares about me. And I moved back in with my family that was a huge mistake now my parents won t let me leave and threaten me by saying they ll call dhs on his family and bring he ll down on them I m extremely scared to reach out for help. I don t know what to do to get my stuff and leave safely :(

Question: How can I get my parents to understand how I feel about my messed up family?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 08:39 AM PST

I m 25. I feel like a family outcast. I was a "mistake." My parents had me at 22. They never loved each other. Mom said they were friends who let things go a little too far one night. I don t remember them together. Then my Dad had my brother with another woman when I was 6. He was a "mistake" too. I didn t know I was going to be a big brother. I think Dad was as surprised as I was. I didn t see him much. Then Dad got married to my stepmom (another different lady) when I was 8 and had two kids together. My stepmom is nice, so that was cool. My Mom got married when I was 10. She had a quickie Vegas wedding to someone she met on a trip there. So I met my stepdad after they got married. He s a jerk. They had two kids together. So, in my family, 3 Moms and 2 Dads have created my 5 half siblings, who are ages 9-19 now. Both Mom & Dad said I wanted to be left alone in my preteen and teen years. I remember this differently. I felt it made it easier for all of us for me to retreat. At Mom s, I was avoiding stepdad. At Dad s, I felt I had to fend for myself bc Dad was working & stepmom was busy w/ babies. I just saw everyone for the holidays & felt so upset. For years, I ve tried talking to my parents, but they dismiss my feelings. They both see it as they provided good homes for me the majority of my childhood (stayed married, owned own house, never fought) & only left me alone bc they thought that s what I wanted. How can I get them to understand how messed up it was?

Question: I'm scared she will tell my parents?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 08:26 AM PST

I went into my friends moms room and poked her boob while she was sleeping and she woke up while my finger was on her boob sand she yelled at me.

Question: When did Ruth Unger of the na'l mah jongg league die?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 08:11 AM PST

Question: Advice needed like fast in bad situation need to know best course of action to take?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 08:10 AM PST

I left my parents house in early October because of abuse and I was only 17 but the officer that did my case let me love elsewhere. A few weeks ago I moved back home which was huge mistake because I thought the home situation would improve but it s only gotten worse. I was living with my bf when I was away from home and now that I m trying to leave my house again my mother is threatening to call dhs and police on his family she wants to bring hell down on his family all because of them helping me and I have tried t o leave twice and she s stopped me is there anything I can do since I m now 18?

Question: Child custody?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 08:10 AM PST

I am in the middle of a child custody battle with my ex Are daughter is 5, I am worried about living arrangements. My x left and moved in with another woman where my child has her own room. I had to move back in with my parents due to the fact that my house had no heat and the floors were falling in. And I could not afford it because he refused to pay child support even though I had are daughter 5 days out of the week. The problem is with staying with my parents is me and my daughter share a room and a bed. Which since she was 1 she has slept with me. Her guardian of litam is doing a home visit next week. I have a place to rent but I am saving up for the deposit. Which will hopefully be in a few weeks. Any suggestions on what to do.

Question: I found condom packages on my mothers room please help!?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 08:05 AM PST

I heard my mother woke up just a few minutes ago and i saw a condom packages next to her bed i said hi and i looked at the condom package for like 1 minute and asked what that is and she said i dont know! (Im 14) but i am in shock i hate my step dad and im so mad at my mum (i act like i didnt understand) they can have sex i dont really care but i must not know it!!! Thank you for your time i try forgetting it but i canr pls pls pls comment and help :(

Question: READ PLEASE!!!!?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 07:58 AM PST

I had a hotel party and i wasn't supposed to so my dad is really mad at me and he really doesn't care what i do anymore. he just yells and insults me and doesn't care what I amount to anymore and idk if i can deal anymore. idk whether to die or run away... HELP PLEASE he keeps saying he will sell my posessions because of how i am and i just dont know. I love life and im determined to show him ima be something but its oretty hard when you gotta grind alone now

Question: How to hide my clothes?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 07:38 AM PST

Gosh, my little sister is so freaking annoying, she always takes my stuff, she even takes my underwear and it's pissing me off. Its not like she doesn't have her kwn, she got a new paxx when I did a few months ago, but I know right now she's wearing mine. Gosh it pisses me off to the highest extent. If i bring my clothes to my room my parents make me put them back in the basement because I have too many, but that's literally the only way I can keep my stuff from her. This isn't the first time either its been happening for months and then she doesn't even hide it or anything, whenever she bends over or whatever they're showing and it's so freaking frustrating, she needs to keep her hands off my stuff. I'm 16 and she's 14, so I'll be graduating next year and hopefully move out, but dang, it's really annoying right now. Yall would have a better argument if she wasn't able to buy clothes. She has the same argument of clothes arguments me, she gets the same opportunities to buy clothing arguments I do, we just have different styles, if she had the same style as me she has the same chance to get clothes as I do, "being like me" Is just bull crap

Question: So my dad is a mean person anger issues but he hits me and calls me names he broke his nukle hitting me think I can get took from him?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 07:27 AM PST

It took a little longer for me to wake up and he got mad shoved me against my bed and started hitting me in my head.. We live in an old camper and I sleep on a gym mat our roof leaks something crazy I'm ready to go some wear else

Question: No presents for the only sibling without kids?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 07:15 AM PST

I'm one three girls, I just found out that our Uncle bought both my sisters gifts for Christmas but I received nothing. Now I know no one is required to give me anything, honestly I'm ok not getting presents from anyone but this has upset me a little. I didn't buy my uncle a gift and neither than my sisters, I bought each of my nieces and nephew gifts. I usually put these things down to me being the only one without children. I know it's not the point of the holiday but I think I would have appreciated a cheap pity gift at least if my sisters were going to get brand new shoes. Does anybody else family do this? Am I right to feel a little slighted? I mean believe me I'm trying not too.

Question: I apologize if I am bothering you w/ such questions especially if there silly but the thing is that I have this person who I love dearly?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 07:07 AM PST

Well the thing is that he has an 8 year old lil sis, shes attached to him as well as me me and the lil sis get along well but its like whenever all of us three are together me & her are fighting for his attention...I feel like I am the third wheel...I know there brother and sister but I just feel left out....like he pays more attention to her than me...not only that but he shows her more affection to her than me I just dont know what to do??

Question: How do I deal with my project members?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 06:52 AM PST

Ok so for a college project (let's just call it that) me and my fellow project members need to sell a product of our own choosing like a real company but we also have to take classes together till april. My problem is simple: I hate (yes I used that word) my fellow project members first off pretty much all of them (except for one) are cocky bastards who always choose the most 'fun' way. In other words the laziest so the work either doesn't get done at all or at the last minute (which I hate). Before you ask I've tried a lot of things but nothing worked. Now I pretty much have two options left: 1. I stick it out with these annoying bastards (remember I have to stick it out till april so we're talking long term) 2. I request to change groups (which will not be easy). If you have any ideas on what I shoud/could do please let me know and thanks for taking the time to read my ranting. I hope you have a pleasant day. I should add that even though I wrote that point 2 on that list would not be easy it doesn't mean it's impossible it would just take a little work.

Question: How do I tell my mom I want to move to dads.?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 06:43 AM PST

Since I am a sophmore in highschool my mom is making me thibk about college. She has said that if I want to go to college in the state my dad lives in, I would move their for junior and senior year to establish residency and get used to it. I have decided to do this not because I love one parent over another, but because I eant to be an ER nurse and in my dads state they have a great school for that, right near my dads place. The only problem is I dont know how to tell my mom I want to do this. Any help at all would be apreciated, thankyou.

Question: What's wrong with my younger sibling?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 06:41 AM PST

She's about 14 now and she's crazy as hell. It's scary how she changed. She doesnt talk to us. She uses phone all the time and face the screen away when someone gets close. She is upset all the time. She is lazy doesnt do house chores. Gets really angry when parents ask to do their dishes. She doesn't let anyone come to her room. Says she don't like someone come in her room but doesn't say the reason. I ask her to go shop with me but she dont. Just yesterday mom wanted to talk to her. Mom went to her room but sister tried to get mom out of room. Mom asked why she's always upset and don't want anyone in her room. Sister kept saying I DON'T KNOW! angrily. Also she shouts a lot. But mom wanted reason but she just keep saying same thing. Dad came angrily and said don't shout to your mom. When she shouted again dad slapped her. Sister started to cry. Mom stopped dad. But sister still don't want to say reason. Mom got enough and left her. Sister closed door and go to bed crying. Im 19 and for first time in my life, I saw mom cry. Very very sad. Her voice started to stutter and said, "why did she become like this? What did I do wrong? Did I grow my children to be like this?" When I heard her stutter it was the most saddest ever. I went to hug her and little gave massage and said dont worry too much and go to sleep. My dad ask me go to bed and he calm mom. I think hearing mom cry is saddest in world for me. How to deal with this sister? Even she don't tell me. Please help thanks

Question: My grandmother controls everything I do, what should i do?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 06:20 AM PST

Whatever I do, whatever I wear, anything! My grandmother controls what I wear, and if I dont wear matching clothes, she says, "You are an embarrassment.". When we argue, and I called her "clueless and can't fight her own battles." she calls to her husband. 2 times I have been called on by the police for no reason what so ever. She doesn't like it when I tell the truth about her, so she walks away even when she says, "lets talk.". I have a theripist that notices she does this too, he talked to her one day, and she was nice the whole entire day! (she believes anything she hears from men, thats her go to gender) I lost my doornob when she took it off in 2nd grade, because I got my diary that year. And ever since than, it has NOT been replaced. She can just go through my stuff, and when I ask her she says, "Really? Fool." and walks away. Than when I ask her a simple question like, "I know you took my iPod." She says "I never lie." and walks away. I cannot live with her anymore! When I visit my mom, she gets jealous and over reacts saying "we're not picking you up sunday, get a ride yourself." and she scoffs whenever my mom talks to her. Im staying home from school today because I dont wanna go back to her house, (im staying and writing this at my moms) my mom called in and said im not coming (my school allows it). My dad is in prison, until im 21, and my mom is in a bad position and cannot take care of me, nor bring me to school everyday. And I DONT wanna transfer. ???? help???

Question: Why does my family treat my older cousin better?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 06:19 AM PST

She is literally a couple months older than me. Which makes her like 7 months apart. She is always going clubbing getting drunk and always ending up in jail. And everyday my family feels bad for her. My brother is the same. Always going to jail. Yet I work and GO TO college.. And my family is always like, "their going through stuff, you're not old enough to understand." But I'm just wondering how much older is 7 months???? Like for example my cousin and the entire family didn't show up for a lunch date because she got into some trouble. She's really rude, she be sleeping with random guys, and I told her to stop being a hoe and she was tryna fight me, so my mom brok it up. But she kicked me, but everyone held me down. And my mom is like, "you need to be respectful to your older cousin." I'm lik wtf???? And my mom said she's going through more than me and has a lot to do. But she doesn't work, she doesn't go to school and she be talking bad about all of us. And my mom always tells me to shut up. But last night she came Over and threw a metal fork at me, and I'm so heated right now because ain't none stop her, and I'm about to go wild . Please someone help.

Question: Heavy Breathing and Blank Mind?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 05:46 AM PST

I don't really know what happened. My dad is always complaining and brings all his anger from my brothers to me just because I'm the only one that is under 18. My brothers can literally do anything they want, legal or not. I can't leave the house half the time and when I can I can be out for 2 hours. Earlier he got pissed because I asked if when I am done cleaning my room if I can leave the house and go hang out with my cousin. He got mad and said I'm basically worthless and selfish because I only clean my room when I want to hang out with friends, he said I'm selfish and don't give a **** about anyone but myself. At least I'm cleaning my ******* room, right? My brothers can literally smoke pot in the garage even though they don't do **** for him but I do all this ******* work and I can't hang out with my friend? Anyways I got off topic, I had to rant, but after we fought I got angry and started breathing really fast and heavily and I stopped, sitting in my chair, and I lost all feeling in my body, and then I fell and everything went dark and blank. I don't know what the **** is going on but there is no way I can keep doing this. It's scary. Can anyone explain what's going on?

Question: How do I approach my mom about my boyfriend moving in?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 05:13 AM PST

I've been with my boyfriend since I was 16 (was best friends before that--- I'm now 19 and hes 20). Hes very involved with my family and comes to all holidays and parties. Theres been alot going in at his house over the course of the last year or so and we've been discussing him moving into my house if its that bad as long as he works full time and can help pay bills. My mom doesn't mind me sleeping at his house, or him sleeping over mine. However, my stepfather is a completely different story. Although I'm 19 with 2 jobs and enrolled in college full time, I'm "still a child" and shouldn't be able to have sleepovers with him (I mean that literally - no sex, I respect my mom and her home). That alone confirms he will DEFINITELY flip out if he was to move in. He makes comments when I'm just laying on the couch with him with my head on his chest (doesnt matter whos home, what time, lights on or off). At one point he tried to tell me he wasn't allowed in the house if my parents weren't home at all?? I find it ridiculous because he's not even my father (and a poor representation of one; "part time dad") and I don't see why at 19 I shouldn't be allowed to sleep with a person I've been with for years and intend on marrying after college. This shouldn't be a factor but since telling him to F off isnt helping me out I need to weigh this all out. Have no idea how to approach this at all. My moms pretty easygoing and liberal. Stepdads a huge jackass with a curtain rod up his ****. Left a pretty big part out: this is only temporary. Like I said he's having trouble with his family. He would live with us TEMPORARILY until schools over and we can take time to find a place. Keep leaving things out -- theres a basement apartment in my house that has a side door. Completely sectioned off from my house. He'd be moving down there (we own both my level and the lower level)

Question: I'm meeting my real dad for the first time this evening.?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 05:08 AM PST

I'm 28 and found out about my dad when I was 15. I had a step dad who I thought was my real dad until then. It took me 13 years to find my real dad, I wrote him a letter and he called me last night in tears - he was so happy I had found him. It was the best response I could have imagined. I'm excited but nervous about meeting him. My mum doesn't know, she would be so upset and I feel guilty for hiding it, but I've always wanted to meet my dad. There was a big fight between my parents when I was born, he never knew my name or where I lived so he couldn't contact me. Any advice for this evening?

Question: Dad doesn t call or show any interest anymore?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 05:06 AM PST

Dad slowly but surely shifted his way out of our lives in the past 5 years. Last year he ended it with my mum for good. Mum fell apart and has needed me (19) and my brother (16) to take care of her and her ridiculous decisions ever since. I feel shattered because my dad isn t better off without us. I worry about him a lot because he has a rare condition that is causing him to go blind (already pretty bad). He s completely changed personalities into an antisocial psychiatrist showing no interests in our lives. He is extremely depressed and has to see a psychiatrist himself. He seems to push away us when we offer help and support which cuts me the most because all I want to see is him happy. What hurts the most is that he USE to show a huge interest in my life and be like any good father is, protective. Now he never calls, I have to initiate everything and I just feel sick. I can t look after both my parents any longer. I ve struggled with OCD Since I was a kid and it has worsened now to bulimia (I ve had eating disorders before). If anyone out there has any similar stories that theyd like to share id really appreciate just so I know I m not the only one. Even stories that have a different twist I d appreciate. Thanks for listening to my rant: I know I should get therapy btw (both my parents are psychologists/ex psychologists- how ironic haha)

Question: My mom doesn't listen when something bad happens, she thinks I try to make excuses about things she spanks me, how can I get her to listen?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 04:52 AM PST

Question: My sister was home for 3 days, now she has to go back to college?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 03:55 AM PST

Alright, my sister came on Friday, January 1st 2016. She stayed until January 4th 2016, she is leaving today when I leave for school. I cried so much last night, because I love her so much. We had so much fun, without her I feel like an only child I have 3 sisters. 2 are in college, but one of them graduated college. None of them live at my house anymore, and this is her last year of college, graduates in May 2016. Help, I feel so alone. Today, I have to go back to school. I am going to miss her all day, help. I might see her next month I just said bye to her before I left for school. I feel better now.

Question: Where should I go for high school/ where should I live during that time?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 03:54 AM PST

Mom divorced with my Dad (when I was 1) but I see him every weekend and during summer. we live 30 min away.I stay with my mom for school right now, but considering living with my dad and going to high school near him.Here are the pros and cons. Pros of living with dad for school 1.biking community/ can bike wherever you want to go 2.WAY more diverse in culture. Right now there are mainly Caucasian people, and not a lot of Asians (I am asian) Where my dad lives there is a university (UC Davis) so there are a lot of incoming people with different cultures (chinese, japanese, korean, european etc).We are a host family for foreign exchange students so I learn a lot during the weekends so I would learn soo much more if I was there on weekdays too. 3. There is a lot more food options because of the diversity (I am a big foodie you could say) 4. I can learn more languages in school. If I go to high school with my mom, there are only a few languages, but with my dad there are more languages including the one's I am actually interested in 5. I usually have more fun at my dads house because my mom and I argue a lot. 6. I love martial arts and where my dad lives there is more martial arts schools. 7. There is a university there CONS 1. I leave my dog , mom-I will have a reverse schedule so I will still see them, just less (weekends, summer) 2. My mom might get depressed (loves me a lot) 3. Fresh start (good and bad) please give me some advice, THANKS!! c:

Question: What are some reasons for cps to take a baby away?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 03:22 AM PST

my baby has a roof iver her she has clothes toys food etc. but my mother lives with me who has been smoking for 30+yrs can cps take her from me due to my mothers smoke even when we have an air purifier & she smokes in her own room? Reason is because I can no longer live with her father all we do is fight & argue & his parents want to take her from me cause I'm not ready according to them & their always wanting to keep her that she don't even know who my side of the family are. She cries when she's around my family & when I tell baby daddy's rents about things they don't care their going to do what they want to do I can't take being around him or his parents anymore they make me do stuff i dont want to but i listen cause i dont want my baby taken away

Question: I don't know what to do !?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 03:09 AM PST

I took custudy of my niece and nephew which are now 15 and 17 when they were Little because of there parents my brother and his wife got them tooken away for drug use and they would always fight which was child indangerment so I took them so they wouldn't go to foster homes and they went back forth a little bit living with there parents and with me out the years they would just leave me to live with them because living with there parents are no rules and with me there is but I just feel like they don't love me because they just leave my home when I'm not there and just never come back and miss school which leads to having to go to court and they say that they are ganna start going to school but they always lie to me and skip school anyway and they only come to me when they need something

Question: Say if an advance species came to earth would humans default attack or would they be fine with my father's fleet. So... what?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 02:46 AM PST

I left earth 3 weeks ago my fathers fine with my wife and I have returned and thinking about introducing humans to him. Is it a good idea or no. We are much like humans except for we don't have any privates. We have hair and all that we look the same but still, should I introduce my father or no. I'm still not use to English grammar either so don't judge me on this stuff. I've gotten pretty use to it though. an entire fleet of more than a thousand ship and about... 86 miles long on most of them. My fathers is about 200 miles long at near estimates. Are humans sure about meeting scary overwhelming force? Or should stay out of bound and use Cryptic fighter to land somewhere on earth. But then again wants to meet this planets leader. But the is thousands of leaders on this planet. ugh how going to do this..

Question: Should i tell my daughter what rape means?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 02:43 AM PST

My daughter is 12 years old and has just asked me what rape means. Do i tell her or not? Does she need to know?

Question: Why do you think my mom is ok with this?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 02:33 AM PST

As strange as this sounds, this is true. Turned 18 just recently. All my life I've been kept from girls as I have very controlling mother and get bullied in school. Very shy all the time. Unlike people my age, I can't have posters of girls on my walls because mom doesn't like stuff on the walls. My life with the opposite gender has been bland. Even back when I was 17, I was afraid to look at a Victoria's Secret magazine out of shame that I shouldn't or at least I felt that way. Then one day, I just caved in and began lookin through the magazines and drawing portraits of the girls in lingerie. Then I began putting lingerie pics of the girls on the computer screen. The only thing is, it's my moms computer but I use it a lot and am not allowed to make other accounts. Never did I get yelled at for having them up. Often I get a rush knowing the pics are up at all times. Then I moved to playboy girls and found that I'm allowed to have these pics too. I like this girl. She is very cute. How old do you think she is btw? http://redblow.com/stuff/molly-shaw-cowboy-boots/molly-shaw-cowboy-boots-redhead-playboy-01.jpg http://redblow.com/stuff/molly-shaw-cowboy-boots/molly-shaw-cowboy-boots-redhead-playboy-02.jpg http://redblow.com/stuff/molly-shaw-cowboy-boots/molly-shaw-cowboy-boots-redhead-playboy-03.jpg These pics if her are really hot http://redblow.com/stuff/molly-shaw-cowboy-boots/molly-shaw-cowboy-boots-redhead-playboy-13.jpg http://redblow.com/stuff/molly-shaw-cowboy-boots/molly-shaw-cowboy-boots-redhead-playboy-14.jpg I wonder what is making her laugh here? She has cute facial expressions. http://redblow.com/stuff/molly-shaw-cowboy-boots/molly-shaw-cowboy-boots-redhead-playboy-17.jpg

Question: This girl thinks I'm her cousin but I'm not?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 02:24 AM PST

Okay, so yesterday I went to my cousin Amanda's 18th birthday party and since Amanda's mom (my aunt) got married to some man named Emiliano who has a daughter they live together now and this mans daughter named Shayley went up to me and said "So I guess we're cousins now" it got very awkward I looked at her in horror and said "um... I guess so?" I think she got offended and just left. Why does she think I'm her cousin?

Question: I'm really depressed and sick of life?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 02:24 AM PST

I don't know what happened. My life was perfect, I had the best childhood and was such a good kid in a middle class loving family and a good head on my shoulders. Then in high school I started changing. I stopped really socializing, I quit sports, my grades went from honor student to barley passing. My life was just sitting in my room all day listing to music and playing the drums. I went to community college for a year and failed out. I started drinking heavy and At the age of 22 I joined the army reserves and went to basic training. Came back, went back to school and ended up dropping out . I'm 24 now My life just sucks now. I live in a 1 room apartment, work minimum wage, suffer from depression, never had a girlfriend and still a virgin. Plus on top of that my parents got divorced. My dad wants nothing to do with us, plus my mom is in jail for a DUI. So my brother and sister live with my grandparents. My life is just a mess. I never thought at the age of 24 I'd be such a loser. Today I was going through some of my old stuff at my grandparents they had in the attic from my old house and I almost started to cry. All my old Disney movies, Nintendo games, and photos. What happened to me? I'm in a really rough place.

Question: Can you please answer this for me..thanks?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 02:16 AM PST

can you please rate these women from 1-10 (starting with the curly blonde, then the dark haired and ending with the blonde with the necklace). Thanks so much in advance and I will choose a best answer to thankyou. http://s1082.photobucket.com/user/kfccruelty/library/chumly

Question: What's wrong with being gay?

Posted: 04 Jan 2016 02:13 AM PST