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- Question: How do I tell my friend I don't want to take her to school?
- Question: Why am I finding it so hard to socialise and how can I go back to being social again?
- Question: I don't want to drive my friend to school?
- Question: What do you think I should do?
- Question: I have 1 best friend i know 4 10 years. We're totally crazy and every1 says were weird. How can i get more friends if every1 thinks im weird?
- Question: Ihave 1 best friend &I know her 4 10 years , we are totally crazy so people say were weird how can i get more friends every1 thinks im weird?
- Question: Met this guy in the Bahamas and I can't stop thinking about him?
- Question: I'm really nervous for P.E. this year?
- Question: My best friend only talks about herself?
- Question: I need new friends to ffa with..... My current friends makes trash plays and it pisses me the **** off PLZ send help?
- Question: I really need to use the bathroom but I can't hold it on my own anymore my bladder is going to give in I'm in a car?
- Question: WHAT BUILD A FRIENDSHIP?
- Question: So weird thoughts on this?!?
- Question: Going to overnight camp alone?
- Question: How to uninvite someone to a party that only wants to come to cause trouble?
- Question: Would you be creeped out if I did this? Please hurry!?
- Question: I dont know how I feel anymore?
- Question: I don't know what to do and I need some opinions?
- Question: All these feelings in my head? Please help?
- Question: Is it normal that I get tired of my friends?
- Question: Do you believe West Coast people, especially South West are more fake than East Coast?
- Question: Nervous to go back to school?
- Question: At what age should I start to sleepover?
- Question: Why does my mother enjoy making me miserable?
- Question: How many years living alone?
- Question: How can a redeem myself and start a clean slate this year when I go back to school?
- Question: How do you know if your friend is a "true" friend? How do you separate true from fake friends?
- Question: I'm in love with my best friends little sister what do I do?
- Question: Am I acting too mature ?
- Question: Designer is interested in hiring me as a model for a competition?
- Question: Weirded out bad, worse outcome seems inevitable.?
- Question: I'm so sad right now...?
- Question: Be elegant and Feminine?
- Question: Help?; I don't want to be friends with my social circle anymore?
- Question: Boy problems?
- Question: Why do I feel so alone & like everyone is against me ?
- Question: What does it mean when your friend responds with "just am lmao" after you made the speechless?
- Question: Am I hanging around the wrong crowd?
- Question: Why do I feel uncomfortable with physical contact.?
- Question: How to convince my parents to not let my brother come along when I am hanging out with my friends?
- Question: Why do I feel awful after hanging out with friends?
- Question: Should I stop being friends with them?
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| Question: How do I tell my friend I don't want to take her to school? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 05:04 PM PDT I dont want to take my friend to school this year. She has a car but she doesn't want to drive it because it's kind of a piece of crap. She lives 15 minutes out of the way. She's also always late. I really don't want to take her but she's expecting me to. What do I tell her? |
| Question: Why am I finding it so hard to socialise and how can I go back to being social again? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 04:55 PM PDT Back when I was in the last years of high school, I was one of the most social and popular people in the school. I could make conversation with anyone easily; boy or girl, no matter who they were, I could talk to anyone just fine and I always seemed to make people laugh. Not to be big headed, but I helped introduce people from different friend circles to each over. But I've since then left high school and almost a year later...I don't know what's wrong with me! I seem to have lost all the social skills I once had. I struggle to make conversation with anyone now, even friends I'm really close with. My mind just blanks and I feel like I'm just being awkared or that I'm not actually being funny but rather annoying. I don't understand: I want to talk to people and I really try to make the effort, but I my mind just blanks and I fear that I'm just not that interesting anymore. Please; I don't want to lose any of my close friends and I want to have a girlfriend someday; I can't get a girlfriend if my social skills are nout! Please somebody help me! What's wrong with me? What do I need to do to be social again?!? |
| Question: I don't want to drive my friend to school? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 04:54 PM PDT I already agreed to take her to class which was a huge mistake. We have class at the same time every day because we scheduled classes together (her idea) she's very clingy and so dependent on me. She lives 15 minutes away and it's out of the way when I'm on my way to school. So instead of taking 30 minutes to get to school, it will take 45. I can't use gas money as an excuse because she will pay me, and that's not even the issue. she even has her own car! She's one of my best friends and I don't want to be mean. But she really needs to be independent. We are 20 years old. Also I have taken her before and she made me late, which I absolutely hate being late. How do I tell her I can't take her? Any excuses?? Thanks! |
| Question: What do you think I should do? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 04:47 PM PDT Last year around this time I was diagnosed with anxiety & depression. I found out my biological mother had it. So anyway lately for some reason I have been having very severe attacks & paranoia out the wazoo. I keep thinking the worst when it probably is nothing. I am trying so hard to get over it by taking my meds, less sugar & caffeine and more veggies things like that. My biggest thing is I feel people are thinking the worst about me but im sure its just in my head. I keep telling myself just be yourself and the right people will love you etc. How do I shake this? I also feel that everyone is getting more ahead than me and I keep telling myself to just keep doing what your doing work wise & don't worry. I feel like I do give a lot of myself but no matter what my whole life Ive never been "popular" and I have struggled with anger issues and a few other addiction (not drugs). I just cant seem to let this go. What is the best thing? thanks in advance :) I have met people to who really have an ego and seem to be very popular but if I show even the slightest bit of one people back away. What should I do? I feel like just giving up no one seems to think I even care when I do |
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| Question: Met this guy in the Bahamas and I can't stop thinking about him? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 04:32 PM PDT We're both 16 and we met in the Bahamas. We only spent a few hours together, but he was nice and we text and snapchat everyday. I live in Massachusetts and he lives in Florida. I go to Florida quite a bit, but my house there is like an hour and a half away from his. I feel like if we started dating it would suck because I wouldn't see him super often, but he like each other a lot. He's all I think about. I know we could possibly end up at the same college or something, but it kills me how he's so far away. What do I do?? My step dad actually wants to move to Florida, but it's kinda unlikely and it wouldn't be near him anyways. |
| Question: I'm really nervous for P.E. this year? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 04:31 PM PDT Okay so I'm 13 and I'm in 8th grade and I have P.E. with some really sporty girls and cheerleaders and some of my friends which makes me uncomfortable because I feel like my friends are going to judge me and tease me because I'm really really bad at sports. Yes, I do put in effort and try, but it's just something I struggle in. My teacher always says that I don't try hard but I really do. I am depressed and have anxiety so that doesn't help. In the other years that I've had P.E., I didn't have it with friends but I was still nervous about it. And it gets me worked up whenever the whole team depends on you to do good and sometimes if we lose the teacher makes us do laps and the team blames you for making them lose. It just really sucks. I would much rather just have to run laps the whole time or something but the teacher makes us play sports like volleyball and kickball. And if I sit out then I get detention and my parents would kill me. I know you guys would probably just tell me to suck it up but I'm just not one of those people who are all that into sports and its something I worry and stress over all the time. What do I do in this situation? |
| Question: My best friend only talks about herself? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 04:26 PM PDT She talks about herself for hours, and I don't mind it, but sometimes I have things to tell her too. She only says things like "oh that's too bad, or that's great!", and finds a way to talk about herself again. She tells me about everything! I know her friends (that I've never met)' families, their favorite colors, EVERYTHING! She barely knows my boyfriend, she doesn't even know (or remember) that he has a daughter! When I told her that I think he's cheating, she replied ":(". That's it!! I don't know what to do anymore. We've been friends since we were kids, and I really love her. But most of the times I feel like I'm her therapist not her friend. What should I do? Thank you! |
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| Question: WHAT BUILD A FRIENDSHIP? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 04:07 PM PDT |
| Question: So weird thoughts on this?!? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 03:49 PM PDT Every time I'm at work or at a family function, or with friends my one friend will text me throughout the day/entire time I'm out saying she's bored, she wishes she had something to do etc. etc. However, every time I'm free she's always is too busy to hang out with me. if I make plans it is always "I can't guarantee I'll be available that day." It drives me nuts!! Thoughts?? |
| Question: Going to overnight camp alone? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 03:41 PM PDT Im going to overnight camp alone this summer, its not my first time there but I've always gone with friends. Im scared people in my cabin won't like me (i have a resting b***h face) and that they'll think I'm a snob. How can i make them like me and wanna hang out with me, especially if they come with their friend groups thx |
| Question: How to uninvite someone to a party that only wants to come to cause trouble? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 03:38 PM PDT My brothers and I are giving a surprise 50th anniversary party for our parents. We invited a cousin who did not RSVP by the deadline to me directly. Apparently I was not aware there are going to be people there that my cousin has "issues" with. So she decided to call her sister (instead of me) to inform her she will be bringing 7 people to the party so she can tell these people what she thinks of them. Now that I know she is only coming to cause a scene on a very special occasion I don t know how to uninvite her. We are going to have about 70 people and my parents have heart problems and I can't risk a scene that will hurt my parents emotionally and physically. Any suggestions on how to handle this will be appreciated. |
| Question: Would you be creeped out if I did this? Please hurry!? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 03:13 PM PDT I'm acquaintances with my friend's sister. I have a pretty good relationship with my friend, but for her sister, we usually just say hi at school, at her house, etc. She's a gamer, like I am, in the same game. She also has a twitter account, so I was really hoping I'd let her know that it'd be great if we could meet up on a server. But since we're acquaintances in real life, wouldn't she be a little confused as to how I found her? She has 1,000 subscribers and my friend let me know her youtube name, with her sister not being aware. |
| Question: I dont know how I feel anymore? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 03:09 PM PDT Ever since 5th grade things just started to go down hill like I dont know how I feel any more just things kinda got bad and like I had a very hard time in school and I didn't have any friends are really fit in anywhere but then in seventh grade I started to like it then we moved and now it's happening to me again School is better here then I started making friends and I dated the guy liked for four months then School ended and he moved and now I'm moving to Texas or Florida also I'm not. Able to see my brother for three years And I just want to be alone when I'm around family and everyone my stomach has been off I feel more tired I just don't know please help |
| Question: I don't know what to do and I need some opinions? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 03:07 PM PDT So my former friend (I guess) and I had a bit of a misunderstanding and overall some friendship problems. I won't go into detail about what happened because it's a really long story. So anyway, I was the one who bothered to text her and talk to her about it (which bothers me because it's like she doesn't care) and she offered to hang out. I couldn't. So during the next few weekends, I've been asking her if she wants to. She's always busy, which I understand. But what I don't like is that I'm the only one asking to hang out and she never bothers to text and ask. And she hung out with another friend (which is completely fine) but if she has the time to ask another person to hang out, why isn't she asking me too? So I texted her and honestly asked her in a nice way if she wants to hang out because I'll be busy for a long time after that and in a kind way, if she really wants to hang out with me because I feel like I'm the only one asking, which is making me feel awkward and stupid. I did all of that in a kind and honest way. That was late June and she never replied. I texted her again and asked if she got the message and she never replied. That was early July. Still nothing. I was going to invite her to my going away party, but now I don't know what to do? |
| Question: All these feelings in my head? Please help? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 03:06 PM PDT I'm an almost 17 year old, I'm a guy, and I honestly don't know what to do. Daily I think about most things in life, I worry, I get angry, I become happy and sad.. I really don't know how to put this into text, what I'm feeling. I have a circle of friends. Good friends. But recently, one of them wants to leave the others because he doesn't like one of the others.. So he starts bringing his friends and splits up from the rest. I am torn between my friend, and the rest. I go with both sides, I switch it around.. That's one thing. Next! I'm still a virgin, and haven't even kissed a girl. I know I know, grow a pair. But I'd like to do it with a girl I like. And now I feel like I should know how to and just feel stupid. Next! I don't know what to do with my life in the future. I wanted to be an architect as I love to draw. But that job idea is now gone. I think of where I should live. Here where I'm now. Or the other country where most of my family is. Its tough.. I know the other language but not like, I always make a few mistakes here and there. Next! I hate school honestly. Its terrible, the teachers ruined so many good opportunities for us, but I've gotten over all of that now.. I miss the past.. I know my circle of friends that I have now will split up in 2 years, due to us moving in different directions. Next. I can't stand being alone. I need to meet friends, or else I feel sad. So I meet them whenever I can. I also ALWAYS listen to music. So tell me.. What's wrong with me? |
| Question: Is it normal that I get tired of my friends? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 03:03 PM PDT Ok so basically I'll have a best friend for about a year, I'll do everything with her, shopping, cooking, work, anything and then I get bored. And once that happens I just stop talking to them and they think I hate them. I'm 20 years old and I feel like this has been going on since I was 15. I really don't do it on purpose. First there was this girl lets call her Jane we would visit each other after school everyday, date in the same group of guys etc... And i got bored I stopped texting her everyday and going to her house. She took it the wrong way and started a fight with me. We no longer speak not even a friendly hello. I know its my fault so I don't get mad. This happened with "Sara" "Maya" and "Lacy. They all hate me and the truth is I don't care, in a way I'm happy when they finally stop calling. Most recently I became best friends with a girl "Beth" she started dating my husbands brother, she would come to my house everyday we would text non stop, we'd go shopping etc.. How ever with her it got to the point where I felt like I was hanging out with myself, she even started to look like me and the truth is I got bored in 3 days once I realized it. I felt like I couldn't get rid of her fast enough so I basically tricked her into starting a fight with me to rid myself of guilt. Is this normal? I cant be the only one right? |
| Question: Do you believe West Coast people, especially South West are more fake than East Coast? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 03:02 PM PDT |
| Question: Nervous to go back to school? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 02:59 PM PDT Okay so I lost my best friend at the beginning of summer and I already don't have that many friends. I'm also more nervous because there are two boys I really like and I don't have my ride or die girl anymore...and I'm having the worst anxiety. Help? |
| Question: At what age should I start to sleepover? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 02:49 PM PDT |
| Question: Why does my mother enjoy making me miserable? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 02:46 PM PDT Ok so im 16 and I just started dating this boy. he's the closest thing I've ever had to a boyfriend. We've gone on two dates. Since I've started dating him, my moms been a *****. She used to let me do anything anytime, I was basically free. But for example today I asked her if I could shopping with my best friend for SCHOOL CLOTHES. She said "I don't think you need to have a boyfriend". When I told her I was going with my best friend, she wouldn't listen. So I started to get upset because she was being unreasonable and I had been looking forward to this. "I think this has more to it than clothes." It DOESNT. I wanted to go shopping with my best friend! We had been planning this! "Mom please, there's like two days left of summer and all I've been doing this summer is working at Wendy's, where everyday I'm there I want to kill myself! Please let me go" and she said to me, "awwwwww boohoo!" I told her I wanted to end my life and she said "boohoo". I'm not even being dramatic. I have suicide thoughts. And I know suicide isn't the answer and I'd never actually go through with it, but saying things like that makes you wonder. So anyway, I couldn't get new school clothes with my best friend this year because of a boy I'm dating. The boy wasn't coming with us. Makes sense. |
| Question: How many years living alone? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 02:32 PM PDT Since what age? Have you had relationships in between these years? Have you gotten used to it? Do you have friends and family around? I am an adult going to live by myself for the first time. I don't have family and friends in this state. Wondering how long I can go like this . |
| Question: How can a redeem myself and start a clean slate this year when I go back to school? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 02:16 PM PDT So i offended some people and I want to apologise but it was like a year ago how do I apologise and start over with them? |
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| Question: I'm in love with my best friends little sister what do I do? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 01:47 PM PDT So I've liked her for 3 years and haven't told anyone about it but me and my friend have been friends for 10 years as I just can stop thinking about his sister she's amazing and when I'm with her I love it but when I go home and away from her it's so hard. I just want to know if she likes me or not and I want to date her badly any advice |
| Question: Am I acting too mature ? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 01:37 PM PDT Im 16 and all my friends have (i dont have many friends because im a nerd) very different joys. all of them play computer games; but its not just that, we sometimes meet outside of school in some picnics (our families are friends too) and when they are with other friends they simply enjoy playing child games like hide and seek. i dont remember what they all do but they can have fun like a child . are they acting too immature or am i acting too mature ? |
| Question: Designer is interested in hiring me as a model for a competition? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 01:34 PM PDT I was walking on the street about a week ago, and a man approached me with a card and wanted to say something, I just walked faster and lost him. An acquaintance that is staying at the same house I am was walking behind me (out of pure luck) and the man gave her the card and asked her to give it to me. She lost the card and its been a week, I called this man and he apologized for scaring me, I explained that I don't speak to anyone on the street (this city is dangerous) and it was alright. I asked what it is that he wanted to talk about and he asked if I would be interested in joining a competition, since he was interested in my looks, blonde hair and white skin, said I could have a good chance as a model, he's a designer, the card had his store's address on it and he asked if I could come over to talk about this sometime in the week, drink some tea, said I could bring a friend or my mom, since I'm 17. I said I could go Tuesday after 4... thing is, I might be pretty but I'm awfully awkward..plus I would have to go alone because my mom is in Ukraine at the moment.. maybe not that awkward but I'm an introvert and sort of.. Odd ,you might say. Should I go? I don't know what to do in front of cameras but this seems interesting and I've had many people ask me if I was interested in modeling before I don't know which category this belongs to.. There should be a "suspicious stranger" category |
| Question: Weirded out bad, worse outcome seems inevitable.? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 01:24 PM PDT I've once had this friend that seemed to be cool. He ran into some crap and ended up getting a DWI. I offered him rides to work till he got his things in gear in which he did. He got his case closed and got a car so I no longer had to help him. We were good friends but just recently he was acting odd. He would ask me to go to parties with him but I declined because I don't go out and drink, not my style. He would ask me personal info and I would tell him a few since we were friends but then he started to get or seems to be...possessive. I told him I have a lot of other things to do, after all i'm very busy father myself. He told me that I had to at least tell him what I was doing before I can do anything. Of course now I'm staying away from him and put an restraining order on him. I just got word that he was having suicidal thoughts and he and his family was taking me to court for emotional distress. Apparently some of the people he knows told me that he "wanted me" in which I'm not too sure if I can trust what they say but it's seem to be possible because how he has acted. WTH can I do, it wasn't like I did something wrong right? |
| Question: I'm so sad right now...? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 01:11 PM PDT Ok here's the thing: In high school there was this girlfriend of mine I was in love with,we were inseparable,had sleep overs,vacations together. I helped her with homeworks every chance I had.We spent tons of time together. Then graduation happened.I joined the marines,she went to college. However I noticed that everytime I got home on leave everyone in our town greeted me,even threw parties for me (we live in a 900 people town of Indiana) yet she didn't care I got home,she didn't want to see me,didn't want to hear my stories. Last year I spent 6 months in Afghanistan and when I came back home she simply said she was too busy for me.It hurt so much,not as a Marine,but as a man.I've grown up with that girl and she treated me like garbage. I guess we can never really know others |
| Question: Be elegant and Feminine? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 01:09 PM PDT I'd love to be more Feminine. I am naturally stronger then most boys my age(though I don't look like I am) ..Apparently I put off a sense of strength and people naturally avoid me. If some friends are rough housing I am unintentionally excluded when I ask why I've been told because I'm tough and they don't want to get hurt. They say that whether I act tough or not. I've competed in boxing and wrestling in the past as well as some shooting sports but I don't tell anyone that or go around trying to act like a tough, scary person..People just sense it. I'm not sure if that would make me a 'alpha female' or what but I really don't want to be a alpha female that's just who I am..How do I change that and be more Feminine? |
| Question: Help?; I don't want to be friends with my social circle anymore? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 12:50 PM PDT I'm a 16 year old girl and I only have two friends and I've recently realised they aren't good friends and they aren't very nice people. I don't want to be friends with them anymore (I don't really want to get into why, there's too many reasons) but they're my only friends so I can't really break friends and I'm really bad in social situations so it's not as easy just to make new friends. Help? What would you do in my situation? |
| Posted: 09 Aug 2015 12:26 PM PDT so I'm a teenager girl (not yet old enough to do whatever I want) and Its summer vaca and I was supposed to go to this kid Collins (just a friend) house and his dad was gonna come pick me up and give me a ride both ways and yesterday my mom agreed to it, but now last minute she won't let me go bc she doesn't know them? it's so annoying bc now he's mad and thinks I'm ditching him ): what do I do? |
| Question: Why do I feel so alone & like everyone is against me ? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 12:22 PM PDT I've had a problem with "haters" for the longestttt. it seems like everytime I try to make a friend or be nice the person isn't being nice back , & eventually just starts not liking me . drama always start , rumors spread , & I start feeling like everyone just stares and me and talks bad about me . I barley have friends , I feel alone a lot & it sucks . sometimes I don't care but some times it actually gets to me . I hate this feeling. like no matter how hard I try , I just can't get along with people |
| Posted: 09 Aug 2015 12:06 PM PDT We had an argument. Im Spoke my mind and made that person speechless. I asked why is he speechless and he said " just am lmao" |
| Question: Am I hanging around the wrong crowd? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 12:06 PM PDT I have three very close, great friends. We have all had very negative past experiences that have affected us. We get along and are learning from each other. Friend 1 is 24 year old but his Dad is a real jerk. He was never there for his son. He never taught his son anything and his son doesn't know how to drive still. Friend 1 is close friends with friend 2. Now we're a trio. He is 25 and fears going to college. He smokes a lot and barely earns enough to get by. He actually came up with the idea that I could sell pot. This is when I said no and started to wonder why I'm hanging around them. He use to live on the streets, but he finally got a car which is good. I know we're all trying to survive in this world. I'm just overthinking. Should I even hang around this crowd? they are immature for a fact and just talk about banging women all the time. What should I do? They Really are good friends but you cannot rely on them and their decisions are not very smart ones. It makes me feel like I'm not going to be successful when I'm around them. |
| Question: Why do I feel uncomfortable with physical contact.? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 11:51 AM PDT I don't feel comfortable touching other people or with people touching me. The only people I feel ok with touching are the girls I like and my close friends I have known for years. I don't even feel comfortable touching my family members. Is that bad? |
| Posted: 09 Aug 2015 11:43 AM PDT Okay every time I go out with my friends my parents want my brother to come with me. I don't want that. I understand that they want me and my brother wants to hang out more often. I want to just be with my friends and talk about what best friends will tell each other. Me and my brother are not like that. |
| Question: Why do I feel awful after hanging out with friends? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 11:32 AM PDT I am starting college in a few days. I ve known my friends for a long time but for as long as I have known them, every time we hang out, I feel awful when I return home. I don t think it s because I wish I was still with them. I actually feel like this every time I socialize outside of school and it s been like this for as long as I can remember. Just these feelings of inadequacy and loneliness among others that make me feel like I should just stop hanging out all together. Your takes? |
| Question: Should I stop being friends with them? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 11:27 AM PDT Edit trying to fit in with this group of 7 girls for the last 2 years. At first they all liked me but now 4 are mean to me behind the 3 nice ones back. The 4 never invite me to do anything, don't reply to my texts, don't like my posts on FB. Ive always been nice to them. It really hurts. Yesterday the 4 were online & didn't wish me a happy birthday, despite 30 people saying it to me on FB & SC. I can't hang out with the 3 nice ones as the 4 are always with them & so nice to them. My mum thinks it's cos Im "too shy/quiet" or whatever which is bull, I mean it's been 2 years!! My mum is a teacher in my school. I have one good friend outside the group in my grade who is losing her mean popular friends. I also have a few guy friends whomI get along great with. |
| Question: All the boys in my class unfollowed me on Instagram? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 11:19 AM PDT With the exception of two guys, it happened in the span of a week. I'm pretty sure I didn't do anything since I don't really talk to them, but they're also following girls who don't talk at all. |
| Question: The Boy Next Door (AKA My neighbor)? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 11:18 AM PDT So like two years ago, I had a crush on a guy. I BIG CRUSH! We didn't talk or hang out much but we gave each other glances. He would stare at me, watch me as I walked, talked about me to his friends and so on. I was mad at him one day for something and I cussed him out. He told his football team! So I know he was staring at me. Well, the next year, my parents decided to move next to his parents. They became close friends. Some times I would walk by the bathroom and he would be looking in from his bathroom window, into mine. Yesterday, we were swimming and this boy made me fall instead of my neighbor who was supposed to, Well he got really defensive and yelled at him. Then after I tried climbing onto the launching thing again, I fell and the two were fighting. I had to go up there and break t up but they fell in the water. Then he followed me up the ladder. He kept making me try until he got to launch with me. He was smiling and happy that we got to. But whats also weird is that he treats me different from other girls. He's compfortable around me. He trys to show off in front of me and he's trying to get buddy buddy with my parents. He's hit his gf before but he doesn't hit me. He's nice to me and always smirks at me. And stares. And watches. Does this mean anything? |
| Question: HELP. She's using me? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 11:15 AM PDT My Bestfriend Chloe and I took a trip flying to Arizona (my family paid for everything). We returned about a week ago and one of her ex friends told me Chloe was using me and was complaining about how I was getting on her nerves the whole trip and that Chloe didn't even like me at all. I thought she was lying because she was jealous. She then went on and brought up things about me and things we did on the trip that she would only know if Chloe had told her. Said girl answered and said even if she hates me she would look out for me because Chloe had used her before. HELP how do I talk to Chloe about this? |
| Question: What do I get my dear friend for her birthday!? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 11:15 AM PDT I have no clue what to get her, but I also only have a range of $50. I don't wanna get her makeup or a gift card, anything like that. I thought of a canvas print of us two but do yall have anything else?! Thank you!! |
| Question: I am in a really tight place with my best friend and sister. Can someone PLZ HELP? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 11:14 AM PDT So here's the situation: I am fourteen (male), my friend is fourteen (male), and my sister is thirteen (female). My sister told me she was "in love" with my best friend. I know she was saying that trusting that I wouldn't tell anyone, but I can't just lie (in essence) to my bruh. WHAT SHOULD I DO????? |
| Question: Girls what do you think of a girl who wants to go to the underwear shop with you? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 11:00 AM PDT And I mean serious answers. Is that not weird. Especially after she told you how much your clothes suck and that everything you like is crap? I am a girl too btw! And I am talking of someone 5 years younger and from work! Unhealthy boundaries? Even after you suggested you don't want to go with them. Thanks, Idc about your boyfriend dramas. She accused me of strange things before that. Nevermind. It's over and I am happy now. Thanks, I don't go to underwear shops etc. Idk why she wants to know all the details of my life, either, it's like she doesn't respect my boundaries, it's ok, it's under control. I don't think wants to be my friend, she seems very demanding. I mean, I had no control over the situation, but it was stressful, because yes, too critical, and it's really awkward, especially because I am older than her, I started feeling really uncomfortable about who I was, it was not good for me. It felt like I was horrible. I remember when I stopped talking to her it felt so much better afterwards, felt more confident. She would make me feel very unconfident. Anyway, she likes this guy in my office so I prefer not to meddle in their romantic past time. I don't want to get involved in any of that stuff. I mind my business if they leave me alone. I just hope I don't get bullied because of it. Actually I just mind my business all the time, full stop; Idc about their personal lives, think it's best to keep my distance; The guy in my office I gotta get along with him, because he is in my office, and it's awkward if we don't, so I have to get along with him, it doesn't mean I am interested, but that's the other thing, I am just there to work. Thanks,. Plus the guy in the office sometimes acts weird too, like I feel sometimes he would ignore her and talk to me to make her feel jealous, I thought that was kind of mean, it was really weird that. Wasn't it? Now they get along, but like the last time they came to my office they both tried to bully me, I didn't like that. But like the week after the guy was being so nice, it was almost as if he had completely changed. I was really surprised. But yes, I know so much gossip at work :/ |
| Question: Why doesn't my best friend want to talk to me? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 10:58 AM PDT Nothing has changed except I met this new person (not my friend I hate her but I have to go to her house ALL THE TIME for 12 hours) has changed. We use to FaceTime almost everyday, or at least text. Now she never texts or face times me. She hasn't talked to me for almost 2 months and she always declines my FaceTime calls. She also never texts me back but I can see the "read" receipt. We also haven't had any fights. It just really bums me out that she doesn't want to talk to me. Thanks for the answers. We are both girls totol but your answer helped anyway |
| Question: Is it wrong to have standards? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 10:57 AM PDT Is it wrong to not want to associate with people who are constantly partying, drinking, or getting high so much that they start ignoring their responsibilities? Now I'm not saying I'd cut off anyone who drinks or parties once in a while, I do those things too, but people who live it as a lifestyle I feel are unhealthy to be around. But that's also a really subjective statement. In my life I'd rather be around people with the same values and lifestyles I have but is that close minded? I mean people who party too much and the like don't really hurt anyone aside from themselves, unless they also have a family. It's just rough for me because at my age (I'm in college) it seems like almost everyone I know is obsessed with that lifestyle and honestly, that lifestyle doesn't seem right to me. |
| Question: My friends don't want to do anything? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 10:57 AM PDT So I got these "friends" and lately they don't want to go outside at all. They always complain about not doing anything but whenever I bring up the topic of all of us hanging out with each other they turn it down and play video games and watch TV instead. I've noticed that whenever we do hang out and we run into new people they are really awkward and I have to keep the conversation going between the groups. Really pisses me off that they don't want to do anything. Sometimes I wanna just sock them right in the face when they say "nah" to hanging out. Any ideas how to change this? |
| Question: My friend is speechless in a bad way? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 10:55 AM PDT we argued with each other becuase she was trying to help me and i never asked for her help and i said " i dont need any help, i never asked for help" and she replied with " alright you will learn"and i basically spoke my mind about it and said " i dont need anybody's help. I can do it all on my own". And after i went off on her i said sorry. And she said " i am speechless" i asked why and she said " lmao i just am" |
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| Question: A kid thinks I m bullying him, what to do? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 10:51 AM PDT So im in middle school and there is this kid who is in the nerdy/pokemon(at this age, I mean really) clique. I never really talk to him much but one time he was talking with me and my group of friends and he was wearing socks with crocs( jesus christ) so i said," Socks on fleek." So he walked away like he was about to cry. I didn t expect him to be sensitive about it because people say things like that in our group and no one cares. I go to a small school and they have a bullying policy where you get detention if a kid even mentions the word. What should i do? |
| Question: My mom won't let me invite my BESTFRIEND to my sweet 16.... please help? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 10:46 AM PDT So I've known my bestfriend for about 6 years, and my mom never really liked her to begin with, i dont know why, but recently my mom has been talking REALLY bad about her... My mom told me that she can't come to my sweet 16, or I'm not having one at all. I told my mom over and over that she was being ridiculous! I said how can I not invite my bestfriend to one of the most memorable days of my life? And my mom just kept saying how she's not my bestfriend and blah blah. Please, I just need some advice on what to do, how to convince my mom, etc. I love my bestfriend and I love my mom too and I really want to have a sweet 16. |
| Question: Does he have feelings for me or is he just being hateful? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 10:42 AM PDT Last night my guy friend came over and was very flirty with me. He was kissing my neck, rubbing my back, stroking my hair and just doing really odd things that a guy friend would do if he wanted to be more than friends. He took his shirt off and pushed me up against the wall, kissing my neck numerous of times, held my hands down to my side. When I told him to stop, he just kept doing it. I pulled away and then he came in again and did the same thing over to me again. We made out, then he picked me up and slammed me against the wall. We got to my bed and I scooted back towards the headboard, then I grabbed where his belt was at and had it half way off, then he grabbed my hand and said that he wasn't wanting to. I just told him that I wasn't looking for sex, but to just enjoy him without his pants on and just his underwear. We kissed again, then he took his jeans off and we just made out. This morning we were laying next to one another and I felt him kiss the top of my nose and whisper I love you. He was still shirtless covered up, I leaned over and kissed him really lightly. He's tall, tan and handsome. He's basically what every girl would want in a man. He's smart, humble, down to earth, laid back, caring, loving and kind. |
| Question: Highschool Freshman Boy Tips? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 10:24 AM PDT I'm five foot two, have a mousey voice, and have barely started puberty. I'm not ready to enter high school. I'm terrified. I have lots of friends to help me but I always hear that your friends from middle school kind of fade away. I will be devastated if that happens. Also, high school drama is so different from middle school drama. I'm not ready for this dramatic shift. Also I'm extremely insecure about myself. I'm not overweight, but I'm also not thin I have lots of meat on my bones giving me the appearance of being fat. I'm really short, I don't find myself attractive, and I feel so ugly in comparison to my popular friends. I'm not ready to be surrounded by these fresh out of puberty, fully developed high school guys. Also one last thing is there was this kid I was friends with but he turned out to be a total creep begging my best friend to date him. I was his best friend and I just don't know how to set it straight that he needs to back off and I don't want him to be around me. There's just so much I don't even know what to do please help! |
| Question: High school Freshman.? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 10:16 AM PDT So I get into high school in about 3 weeks and I just had a state of crisis. I'm not ready for high school at all. I'm really short I'm only five foot two, I've barely scratched the edge off of puberty so my voice is mousey, I don't consider myself attractive, I'm not overweight but I do have a bit of belly, and I lost touch with a bunch of friends this summer. Also this kid who turned out to be a creeper who thinks he's my best friend is going to try to associate himself with me and I frankly don't known how to tell him to back off. I'm kind of a medium popular I'm well known and have lots of friends in different groups but I don't really care about that the problem is I feel so ugly in comparison to all my friends - girls included. I'm just a little ball of insecurity right now and everybody says it's gonna be fun but let's be honest, I'm gonna be a freshman I'm gonna be the fresh meat to pick on. I have no idea what to do please help. |
| Question: Should I bother with my "friends"? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 10:11 AM PDT trying to fit in with this group of 7 girls for the last 2 years. At first they all liked me but now 4 are mean to me behind the 3 nice ones back. The 4 never invite me to do anything, don't reply to my texts, don't like my posts on FB. Ive always been nice to them. It really hurts. Yesterday the 4 were online & didn't wish me a happy birthday, despite 30 people saying it to me on FB & SC. I can't hang out with the 3 nice ones as the 4 are always with them & so nice to them. |
| Question: Being bullied online, what to do? Posted: 09 Aug 2015 10:07 AM PDT Long story short, I posted a picture of myself to my profile on a website where you can comment on videos. And no one had said any mean comments to my picture. Until someone photoshopped my picture and drew a joint in my mouth, and they made a new account using my picture and would say really nasty things and ra*cist things too. Anyways I decided to change my profile picture again to a different one and that person again made a new pforile picture and photoshopped like gonzo from the muppets because people online kept saying I have a big nose, and a big chin. So she/he decided to photoshopped it like that. And now I'm just hurt, and mad. I'm a girl who's 19, and it pisser me off the fact that Someone would have so much time in their hands to do that. I don't know what to do anymore?! Am I being bullied? |
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