She's also my female best friend I've known for 6 years. I went to the bar with a couple of my female friends ans male friends too and she was acting so irriationally jealous. She was acting so weird saying why was I out so long and saying I took too long to text her. She was like " oh I guess you had sex with one of your hoes"" I was like " no but I'm single anyways. ". We talked about getting together when she divorces him because we both have strong feelings for each other but she's taking her time with the divorce. I don't want to wait 5 years.. every time me and her talk on the phone she's complaining and crying about him so why is she waiting for. I said I don't want to put my life on hold for 5 years so leave soon please. I'm 36 years old. I'm not 20 anymore. I don't have all the time in the world. 

She's also my female best friend I've known for 6 years. I went to the bar with a couple of my female friends ans male friends too and she was acting so irriationally jealous. She was acting so weird saying why was I out so long and saying I took too long to text her. She was like " oh I guess you had sex with one of your hoes"" I was like " no but I'm single anyways. ". We talked about getting together when she divorces him because we both have strong feelings for each other but she's taking her time with the divorce. I don't want to wait 5 years.. every time me and her talk on the phone she's complaining and crying about him so why is she waiting for. I said I don't want to put my life on hold for 5 years so leave soon please

My husband and I have been together for 10 years and share two children. I love him dearly and can't see myself with anyone else as I see myself with him.   With that being said, my husband and I had a brief  separation early in that lasted for just over a year and we each respectively entertained other people at the time.       I met a man at the time and we both grew extremely close and experienced an almost surreal connection. It was as if we had crossed paths before.   As amazing as this connection was, I ultimately reconnected with my husband ( he wasn't at the time) , because I simply loved him more and a future with the other man just wasn't a possibility or interest for me.    Years down the road, this man and I are still very close and to this day, there's a connection with him that we simply cannot shake. I feel it deeply and it pains me to say that while I love my husband, the connection I have with this man, I've yet to find in my husband.   I want to terminate this friendship, but I don't know how. I feel physically sick just thinking about it, but I feel it's important that I do. Can someone please explain what these feelings are and how I can scrape them from my life?

I have abandonment issues from my father who left me when I was only 3 years old and never came back... ever.. I noticed that I fall in love with every man I meet. I've been dating this one man for only a couple of weeks and I already have intense feelings and feel like I'm falling in love with him. I tried to be let men go cold turkey with no dating or dating nothing at all and I felt myself being in and out of depression. I don't even have to be in a relationship just getting consistent from a man makes me feel complete. I fall in love with men so fast though.. every job I've ever had I ended up falling for my manager or male coworker, I fall in love with my classmates, men on social media, the menin the library... I feel so depressed when I'm not talking to anyone at all and end up crying dsy in and day out. Advice?? I've been talking to this guy I really like and today he took like 5 hours to respond when he normally text me 24/7 and I swear it drove me to tears.. I kept checking my phone to see if he texted me..

So a guy's place I was temporarily staying over at told me to get out of his place. I asked him about him giving me his apartment keys in a plate that had i love you written on it and he told me he never liked me and kept on asking me to leave in every way possible. Now I would really like to know how to deal with this all especially after he told me to go to a shelter. He literally gave me food, an air mattress and his company and what.... what now.

We recently moved to Fort Hood TX and shortly after we got here my husband was deployed. I don't know anyone here and all my friends and family are back in Hawaii.    I don't want to be a cry baby and complain to my husband because I know being deployed is hard on him and I don't want him to worry about me. But I'm having a hard time dealing with the isolation.    I have a job and there are a lot of nice people there but no one I can really confide in. And I don't know what to do I tried really hard to find a community here so I'm not so alone. I don't Know what to do 

However, I'm even more confident that she wouldn't cheat on me with anyone BUT the sexiest man alive. I'm convinced that her commitment to me is strong enough to endure most extramarital persuasions, though certainly not all. She's only human, after all. My question is, do you think it's healthy to accept reality in a marriage, to accept the fact that, realistically speaking, there's an ever so slight chance she might yield to nature's call and cheat on you? Is it healthy to forgive her in advance for something she hasn't even done, and probably never will? Marriage & Divorce

Husband does not or will not see his sisters true colors. She's been manipulating him for years to the point that I've lost a lot of respect for him. We have been having arguments about her for years and I'm tired of it. He's never going to change his opinion of his sister and  she will always be a manipulating  b$. So.... I love my husband the only problem we have in our marriage is her. I feel like she is basically playing tug of war with him. Honestly I think she does everything on purpose to cause problems. If kids have game  at school, she'll have some sort of emergency that needs his immediate help, so he misses game. Family vacation, she calls excessively. Dinner time, calling or texting etc etc etc. he's cut his phone off , she literally shows up at our house to see if he's ok. It's crazy! She seriously acts like the other woman. (That's actually how I refer to her) I'm having a hard time accepting the fact that he caters to her.  How can I cope without losing my mind? Should I just shut my mouth and play dumb like nothing she doesn't  bother me? 

My sister and my brother in law are parents to a 6 month old baby. Just recently my sister caught her husband DM a girl (who was wearing a bikini) "Damn Jenni" but thats all he told her and it was the first time he did it. My sister told me that she decided to pull the plug on their marriage the second she found out. She said that he kept apologizing to her and that he wont do it again but she still doesn't know what to do because they have a baby. I told her to at least have a break with him first before making a decision that will be a long-term affect in her and her son's life. I need more advice to tell her. What should she do???

My highschool reunion is next month and it is causing me a problem. I really want to go but my husband does not want me to go because he knows my ex husband might be there. We were in the same class. He does not want me to have anything to do with my ex husband Bill. I told my husband to come with me and be with me all the time. That way he would see that I didn't do anything with Bill. He said he does not want to go with me as he knows people will compare him to Bill and he will come out the looser. I had almost decided not to go to my reunion and I sent an email to Bill telling him I would not be there and why. Bill sent me an email back that blew me away. He said "I know how much you want to go and I don't want to cause you any problems with your marriage so I will not go". "Enjoy the reunion". Wow. My ex is being a nice guy and my husband is being a jerk. Should I just tell my husband I am going to the reunion and my ex will not be there and my current husband can come with me or stay home, what ever he wants to do? Please give me some advice on what I should do.

My wife and I are about to go bowling. How can I win?

My sister, 32, married, doesn't have her license. When doesn't want to "ask her husband for rides" she asks me since I live 5 minutes away. Normally I say "yes," but I'm starting to hate doing so. First she never offers for gas, she's made me late to places I have to go, she got makeup all over my seats. I've gotten angry at her and her response was that her husband thinks I'm wrong for yelling at her. Oh, and she's upset I didn't get her anything for Christmas this year!

 Therby reminding him how they also got to bang his wife many times for many years for free without investing much or any commitment, and they might hsve got to explore everything with her for the first time together, which he wont get to explore with her together as she already explored with many others, so they will always be her first choice forever. Then, how hard will be for him to get over such thought specially when he was a virgin till marriage and did'nt had such complicated things in his life till now but now he has to face such situations unwantedly for his wife's actions?

My husband is constantly allowing people to use him. I've told him over and over that being nice to people does not entitle them to take advantage of him. It falls on deaf ears. Current situation: Husbands friend started working out at a gym close by our house. He dropped his son(13) off at our house  to visit my son(13) (boys go to school together) first day at he went to gym. husband said it was ok. First it was for an hour,  then 2, then 3 it's ridiculous .  now it's an everyday thing. Told husband he's being used. Then my Husband informs me that his friend needs me to pick up his  son up at school and bring him to our house EVERYDAY and his friend can pick him up after the gym. I am furious! I told him no thank you. his friend can pick up his own child and leave him at home when he goes to gym. I am not a babysitter.  We are now fighting . Husband thinks I'm being selfish for not doing it and I think he's stupid for being used Yes I agree. My husband is very selfish.  He wants to be the person that other people can rely on, he loves  getting a pat on the back. But I too have notice that most of the time it's at my expense. Expecting me to do things I don't agree with (like this friend expecting me to pick up his child from school) my husband gets to keep his hands clean it's a win win for him.  He says yes I say no. It's not his fault  other people don't get what they want. I'm the bad guy when I say no. What do I do?

Woman has been married about 8 years, husband disappeared to another country (possibly deported), name he used in the US for marriage isn't real name, has multiple children and after the fathers disappeared had no help for daycare or babysitting or anything soo couldn't go back to work. She is in need of child support, gov. assistance(tanf), or something that can atleast provide child care while they work or something.     However, being married makes them ineligible for any of the programs they could find. Plus they have no money to pay for a divorce and since they have no idea where the guy they married is or his actual name there or how to even get in contact with him, having him sign any of the paperwork the state says is needed is out of the question.    What other options do they have? What else can be done? This is not just lazy person person trying to live off the government, but at the same time actually needs the help to get on their feet and back to work (had to quit after the first child but when she went back the father didn't agree with her working for her own stuff and just left. The other guy/s were like one night stands). The fathers of the kids, are foreign and she doesn't know their real names but may be able to find them(slim chances but possible), the last is also foreign but is easily located but more than likely at risk of being deported soo he works "under the table". This is Texas by the way.

My husband myself and 4 year old live in a two bedroom apartment. My in-laws in their early sixties are divorced and had both remarried. Father in law (FIL )divorces his wife three years ago and moved in with us two years ago. Mother in law   (MIL) )husband passed away one year ago, and is now in talks of moving in with us and trying to convince my husband to rent a larger home 4-5 bedroom costing about 4K! Both in laws did not plan for their retirement, but FIL is in the process of buying a home and should be in his new home within 6 months six more long months. My MIL stayed with us for two weeks after her husband passed and it was a nightmare for me. I'm on the verge of losing it, my FIL is pleasant as can be but even after two years the best house guest become like nails in a chalkboard. There is no way I can move in MIL next. Virtually no privacy and freedom. I need to convince my husband it be either me or her. 

How long after the divorce it took you to be able to date again?

Can a non-muslim marry a Muslim without converting? I am a Vietnamese lady with a teenage son. I am in love with a black Muslim but I do not want to change my religion. 

As she might have got dumped before or got cheated by her exes, so she may not trust or love the husband completely due to fear of repeatation....or she may try to take revenge from her husband (man)for the actions of her exes who were also men?Again on the other hand if it was she who dumped many of her exes before asshe was able to attract many men one after another and its easy thing for her, then will she ever care or respect the husband as she knows she can get many men again after divorce? So she may not tolerate anything compared to the inexperoenced wife who would treasure a partner whom she got after waiting for long time.  So is it a risk to marry such women who had many partners easily before marriage and has lots of option to get in future too? Will the poor straight husband have to go through lots of risk and complexities for marrying an experienced wife?

Or do they secretly keep recalling them behind their husbands back? And if they can easily forget the exes whom they claimed to love very much once a time, then will she also forget her exes if again someone better looking and better partner tries to approach them? Compared to the inexperienced ones who would not have anyone to compare and would not like to spoil their image that they have been keeping till marriage of not engaging in sexial stuff with multiple men and also did'nt get naked in front of tons of men for sex?. 

NEED ADVICE ON FRIEND'S WIFE? My friend's wife weirdly touches me, checking out my lower back and forearms, and just being extra touchy. But not in front of other people. What am I supposed to do? I respond with nothing, just as if I didn't notice. 

I don't have my license so my boyfriend drives me around. I don't know how to drive. I'm 28. I have intense anxiety I've just always been afraid. He's the only man that's really accepted me not driving.. and I guess he's a good man for that. Any other man would think I'm crazy probably. Anyways. My friend wanted to meet up with me at the mall so my boyfriend dropped me off to meet her. After she left my boyfriend texted me and said he's picking me up.. I was like " I'm not done shopping.." and he was like " no. I'm picking you up. You've been shopping long enough.. it's dangerous... and you don't need to be by yourself.." and I was well ok.. and then when we get in the car he yells at me to stop being stupid minded and be aware of sex trafficking happening when I'm alone in the mall by myself and I'm an easy target.." there's been shootings in that mall and shootings in our city we just live in a dangerous city but everywhere is dangerous really.

I live with my bf & our roommate. The roommate has been making our lives hell. He charges us $1,000 a month to rent a room in his house (we live in Montana, not NYC) and demands that we chip in for the propane tank which is $500 on top of plowing the snow etc.- I try to tell my BF that he is being unfair but he is a pushover. The roommate's dog has been sick lately and so he has demanded that we give it medication three times a day, send him pictures of his gums, and monitor his breathing throughout the day while he is at work. I work three jobs and feel too stressed out to take on this major responsibility without being asked and he doesn't pay us. I don't mean to sound heartless about the dog, it is the ROOMMATE'S actions that are infuriating me. He even had the nerve to ask my bf to leave his family plans on xmas day to come home and care for the dog. The roommate has not spoken to me in a month and yelled at my bf that I am selfish for not wanting to help. I said that I did not want to for a few days because I had just had major surgery and could barley walk. He yelled at my bf that it's not his job to do our dishes but then he demands that we rearrange our life schedules to help him. My bf has been losing his temper due to stress. He kicked the dog, hit it, and threatened to kill it. he also started smashing things in the house.There are no domestic violence resources where I live, I do not have family that can help, and I do not have friends/coworkers who can help.

About 3 months ago, I sent him my Amazon wish list, hoping he would order from it. A month prior to Christmas, I had already bought him 3 things he asked for. Ordered him more things he said he wanted from Amazon.  Christmas morning comes and the only things I have to open are the bras and panties I picked out for myself at Victoria's Secret. He said the amazon link I sent was bad, and nothing I wanted was available in stores.  He said I should "be over it", but every single holiday this happens. I'm getting sick of it. I always go above and beyond on holidays, and birthdays. I bought him a switch for his birthday, and I got NOTHING until two weeks after my birthday.  It's been ten years of marriage. It seems like he cares less. The point is, should I still be upset? I am still upset.