Guy that I'm dating was so generous in first few dates, and then he is slowly revealing that he has expenses, cannot save much money. etc.

How does one cope w/ that? What am i supposed to do during lunch? I didnt know i was being annoying in the first place so i cant be not annoying because idk what im doing thats annoying

So I knew of this online friend for a very long time (about 10 years). She was coming to town for work and we had been talking pretty consistently for the last year so I said we should meet up. I am married but my wife knew about our friendship and came along when we met up. Everything felt fine, normal, and we continued talking how we always did for months after we met in person. However the past month something changed. I post on social media quite often. Typically Facebook stories of just what's going on in my life. She watches them, but doesn't say anything to me..and if I message her about a new band or movie that I think she'd like (typical conversation for us), she's just very short and it ends there. I don't want to ask her about it and give the wrong impression (I'm married, and there's is no romantic interest with my friend at all - just to be clear). But I can't help that I did something wrong.. though I have no idea what that could be. 🤷‍♀️ Any thoughts?

I've known my friend for about 5 years now and he's liked me more then a friend on and off. My friends have said it and plus he admitted that he liked me. I told him I only see him as a friend, so we both agreed to stay as friends. However, he's always making sexual remarks at me. For example, I could be choking on a piece of ice and he'll say something sexual. He also has done the same thing to one of our other close friend but not as much. He's done this multiple times and he even sometimes grabs my head and pretends like I'm sucking you know what. I don't know if this is a guy thing or what not lol. We're both 19 as well. 

One year she decided on Dave and Busters following Cheesecake Factory. That year I was living alone for the first time in my life and I was on a very tight budget. She accused me of just not wanting to go. I couldn't afford it. The next year I actually hosted a small party for her. Bought her a cake with her favorite colors. But she later complained because we "didn't go out to eat where she wanted." Last year my fiancé and I actually agreed to join. But we were teased relentlessly because we shared a meal and dessert to save money. She made comments  like "ugh, no thank you. I would not share with my significant other. Get your own dinner bud." Her friends snickered in agreeance. I proudly stated I enjoyed sharing and gave him a peck on the cheek. (It irked me she acted like that.) This year she picked an extremely expensive restaurant. The first ten dinners on the menu are $50-$75. I could maybe get a salad or an appetizer for my dinner but even those are no less than $15-$25. If I wanted to actually eat and have a drink, I wouldn't leave there without spending less than $50. Plus she wants to go bar hopping after. Obviously I very politely declined. And made sure to sincerely thank her for the invite. But I cannot afford it. And we're trying to save for a wedding. Well she completely ignored me. Am I wrong to think you cannot get upset if you choose really expensive places for your birthday but people have to decline because they cannot afford you?  Okay, Mandy. *Agreement*.

I had send some friend requests to several people like old friend I haven't met more than 20 years ago. Some of them are happy accepting me. Some just blocked me. So if I just happened found old classmate of mine from 30 years ago. How would I know by sending them friend request won't make it worse? I hate it when people blocked me and now I cannot see how they are doing nowday. If I just not send friend request then they won't know that I been checking and visiting their page see how they are doing. So what your advise?

No social media sites.

This is my second semester at college. Last semester I had two friends that I almost exclusively hung out with. They both transferred to different colleges at the end of the prior semester, leaving me without any good friends. I also got a new roommate at the beginning of the semester. I really like my roommate, and we workout and hangout a lot and get along really well. However, he is making a lot of friends and I still have not made any new friends and am feeling really lonely and do not know what to do.

*friendliness, not friendless 

Ok so, my ex boyfriend (18) moved away in October. I (16) saw him for the first time new years day. Im friends with his sisters and reunited with them last night, however i didnt see my ex boyfriend. Today, they came to church, and their 11 year old brother, who i dearly love and am close with, was there as a surprise. I literally started to cry when I saw him and he cried when he saw me. Was this ok?

my friend is moving to barcelona permanently because her mom married a spanish man now i want to do something for her but im poor and i dont have money im gonna miss her a lot so it has to be very meaningful for both of us

Billie Eilish is trying to get people to commit suicide or for people to ALMOST kill themselves so she doesn't feel as bad about herself.

3 weeks ago, I met a new friend at the bar. We hang out only at the bar usually. The other night, we were out drinking. My friend told me that he has been wanting to tell me, that he does not like and is bothered by the fact that I dress inadequately for the weather. We live in a warm U .S climate. I wear tank tops and shorts always. Even now in January.  My friend told me that he is bothered by this. And he said that if we are going to continue to hang out together, that I will need to start wearing pants and long-sleeved shirts from now on. I found this to be upsetting. Because I feel like he is trying to change who I am. What gives him the right to think he can tell an adult what to wear and how to dress themselves? Little does he know that I am bothered by the fact that he crossdresses. I wish not to be seen or hangout with him when he wears makeup , high heels , wigs etc. But I did not tell him this . But do you see how it works both ways? Does he have some issues with feeling inferior , the reason he must dictate to others how they must dress in order to be his friend? He also doesn't understand that I can do without his friendship. I don't need him . Often I wish to be in solitude and usually do not enjoy other's company. I never asked to be his friend . He was the one who saw me sitting alone at the bar and came up to me to initiate friendship . Do I need to stop being friends with him if he continues to maintain that attitude?

Long story short: I'm 29, he's 31. We used to work together and we're friends, but not close. About a month or so ago, he commented on one of my posts a photo of him shirtless and in grey sweatpants showing off his d*ck imprint. He has sent me a few kissy face emojis in messages before. He said he felt like some of my posts are directed towards him (i.e. One about people being sexually frustrated) and I told him "if the shoe fits" and he replied with "😜" recently, he tried to kill himself, but his roommate got him help and he thankfully survived. I told him how worried I was about him and that, more or less, I care about him and I'm here for him. He said "thank you for that 😘" The other day, I had commented on a mutual FB friends' post and my crush commented after me (he liked the post hours before I commented, but didn't comment until after I did). He is attracted to this girl, but she's talked crap about him and she doesn't see him that way. He also told me he's gotten some "explicit" messages on that anonymous messaging app Profoundly and that he wishes they wouldn't be anon. I think he was trying to make me jealous.  Why does he play games with me? Pretty sure he knows how I feel, but I'm too shy to make a move and I'm 99% sure he's not even interested. He has called a mutual friend "drop dead gorgeous" before, but has never shown any attraction to me and he's definitely not shy whatsoever. 

I dated a guy for six years before I found out he was sleeping with a close friend of nine years . My friend has slept with all his friends and I just couldn't believe it . It's been eight months I don't love him anymore but I still cry and feel pain for the betrayal and don't know how to cope with it or if I'm just exaggerating. Is it normal to still be hurt 

*I'm 21 by the way.  I met this girl in one of my classes last semester and we've decided to be roommates for the following year. Anyway, I'm starting to see red flags in her, but I don't know how to tell her that I don't want to be her roommate. For example, she's very ditzy (she once asked me how to turn on her car, even though she drives it everyday, and how to boil pasta), and she's kind of crazy. So she's 23 and her boyfriend is 19, and she's pressuring him to marry her and to settle down and have kids. One day, her boyfriend was supposed to call her at a specific time, and he didn't, so she cut off her entire toenail with a knife... I think she's crazy, and I really don't want to be her roommate next year, but I also don't want to get stuck with a random person who might turn out worse than she is. (This is referring to on campus housing). What do you suggest I do? *I have a lot more examples of her ditziness, but it'll make this question too long.

The morbidly obese women will post a picture on social media and all of the women posting will say how beautiful and pretty she is when it's a complete lie and the fat person knows it. Why lie to ugly people telling them they are attractive. It doesn't do anything. It's better to say nothing than to give a fake compliment, but women do it so much and I don't get it. They all are like "wow i love your dress" even when in reality they hate it. Or "wow i love your hair" when in reality she'd never do her hair like that in her life

My girl friend is out of town, but milk and cookies (is that code for something else) ?I'm not a baby. Things could go really wrong, really fast, I've got hormones..

I'm chatting with a girl I like but it's not been a long time ever since I met her. She commented with a compliment on one of my photos on Instagram so I wanted to know if in your opinion I can reply to her "thanks boo! Much love", by saying that would I show her enough affection but without scaring her away or is it too much? What do you think? Also is it Much love a proper way to show affection between close friends?