So i turned 16 a while ago and i have a older brother who's 18 an i wus sleeping over at his place and i keep dreaming dirty things about him and now i feel strange around him not sexually but it feels like im ashamed and i need to stop please help what can i do to stop dreaming of that

I met a guy in Aruba two months ago. I live in CT and he lives in Manhattan so we went out on a date when he got home. He yelled at me for not taking my shoes off when entering his apartment and for having them on his bed, although they were not on his bed they were hanging off his bed! Then he goes back to Aruba bc he works there some part of the year, and he pressured me into phone sex every night. I told him I didn't like it. His response was "wtf is the big deal." He would call me at 4 in the morning and wake me up, and keep me on the phone for hours, until 7 AM, yelling and forcing me into phone sex. Then another time he was worried about if we slept together his penis wouldn't be "big enough" for me. And to go find a guy with a large penis. This is not a joke. He said "I'm not into this, go get what I suggested." This is all before our first date. I told him I didn't feel like I deserve to be yelled at, and that I wasn't forcing him to talk to me every day. He's totally stopped this whacko behavior. We went out last week and it went very well..but could this just be an act? its hard for me to put this behind me when I clearly see a red flag.

So i am almost 15 years old and i am a really really really... shy girl...i've been friend with a teacher in my school,he was always so helpful,kind and he jokes with me..He was like a dad to me....but this year everything suddenly change....he became my teacher and now he treat me so badly.....he is so strict and harsh with me.....he talk to me like he is talking to a stranger.....he constantly humiliate me with sarcasm and yell at me...he is still helpful but he is strict and i feel bad.....i feel like i've lose the only person that always listen to me....i feel like he has changed a lot...... Yesterday i was in his class and i was thinking what to write.....he talk to me sarcastically and i've find it funny so i've laughed but then he said"I am not smiling"in a scary way..... And today....he explain to us how to do the classwork....i've done it wrong and he said"your doing the exact opposite of what you've told to do" And after class he told me that i'm not working as i was used to in the past and to not look at what my friends are doing....and to controlled myself....i like him but i've disappointed him,I feel so ashamed....and sad....does he still like me or not?

i have aspergers so I'm not sure about situations like these but im not sure

Does guilt ever die inside someone? I feel guilty for leaving someone who I was with for four years.