Family: Question: My father does not work?

Question: My father does not work?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 02:04 PM PST

I am 17 years old and I have to work because my father does not like to work. He also can be sort of a burden on me for example, when I figure out ways to earn money he forces me to teach him when I barley figured it out for myself. How is this fair? He demands mentor ship from me. What do I do?

Question: Can I married with dutch former player football daughter?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 02:00 PM PST

If i have a professional career  I am from mexico She is dutch and She is single now  I am 25 years now and she is 19 years now can I marry the daughter of a former Dutch soccer player? Firts she will to be my girlfriend and after my wife hope to travel soon to europe  I would like me so much to live in Netherlands  In Noordwji

Question: My mom kicked me out and now I have nowhere to go?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 01:53 PM PST

She kicked me out for no reason. Now I have nowhere to go. I don't know what to do. I feel abandoned. She would never kick my siblings out and they treat her like trash. She doesn't like me. I can't talk her out of it. She never had any respect for me.

Question: How many of you women let your husband or boyfriend check the oil and water in your car for you and why? ?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 01:38 PM PST

Question: My mom doesn't like me?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 01:23 PM PST

My mom never liked me. Growing up she always bullied me and neglected me. Now she's abandoning me. I'll have nowhere to go. She would never do that to my siblings and they treat her like trash. 

Question: Should I be worried about my aunt drunk driving?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 01:01 PM PST

Shes older now, and doesnt drink as much, but when she drinks, she drinks a lot.  She was always plastered when I was a kid, but I didnt pay attention to weather she was driving or not. I'm not super close to her, but I go to her house sometimes to do yard work, and we are on good terms. A while back me, my mom, sister, and aunt when to a restuarant. I think my aunt was drinking beer. When we were about to leave, I noticed her voice sounded slightly slurry, but shes an x tweakers, and shes always kind of mumbling, so it's hard to tell what's normal for her. I let her drive home, and I feel bad. Just in case she was drunk. I really have no proof if shes drinking, and driving I dont spend enough time around her to know. If I was around her, and she was obviously drunk, and wanted to drive, then I would stop her, but since i dont know if shes driving drunk, then should i leave it alone? Sould I go out of my way to talk to her about it? Have no idea how she will react.

Question: Where is my mom trying to come from that she keeps saying she’s said about turning 45?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 12:41 PM PST

Why is my mom keep saying she can't believe she's going to be 45 and so many things bother her she scared she hasn't been to the doctors had any exams since she had my last sister. Besides me (20) I have two other sisters 10 and 8 now I don't know if she's also sad about not having more kids? I don't think my mother wants more kids as when she heard Cameron Diaz having a baby at 47 thought it was scary and crazy and sad because when the kid is 10 Cameron could be a grandmother already. my mom said she has no patience already.. it went from Cameron having a baby to then my mom herself saying she has no patience for a baby. But now when I talk to her about my friend wanting a baby soon because she's gonna be 30 and I said she should just wait because my friend loves to go out and stuff and once you have a baby you're stuck! My mom kinda stays silent so I don't know what's going on in her head. She said last summer she's done having kids she needs to live her life 

Question: How do I avoid answering the call of a toxic parent?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 12:40 PM PST

My dad was a wonderful parent, until I was 14 years old. He married a woman who changed him completely. He went from being able to apologize and being me for who I am, to constantly shaming me for my personality and always putting me down even after my honorable achievements in life. Its been so mentally horrible, I ended up in the mental hospital when I was 22 years old; only to get a call from him saying he was ashamed of me and I was messing with his sheriff election. I have attempted to mend things with him multiple times, but it always ends in a huge wave of drama and anxiety for me. For example, this Christmas he called me on Christmas Eve causing drama because I offered to meet him at a restaurant. Now, he's trying to call again, but I know he never changes. What should I do? How do I handle not answering the call? He is my biggest weakness and my biggest source of pain in life. I just need some guidance please. Thanks

Question: When my grandfather dies what do I do with all the family dysfunction that we expect to come out?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 12:37 PM PST

The whole family will dissolve into infighting and I will be told to hate who my Mom hates.

Question: Does what I plan to do seem reasonable to you?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 12:34 PM PST

Some years ago I was in a serious car accident. After a stay in the hospital they sent me home but they told me I would have to have someone with me round the clock for a week as I could not take care of myself. My husband Joe priced private nurses and they were way more than we could afford. Lucky for me Joe's grand mother Alice was a retired nurse and she volunteered to stay with me the week. I made a complete recovery thanks in large part to Alice's great care she gave me. Alice would not take any money for helping me. We became good friends and remained good friends ever after Joe and I had a friendly divorce. I have since remarried. I am scheduled for surgery next week and the doctors told me I needed to have a care giver with me for 3 days after I get home from the surgery. I immediately thought of Alice. I called her and she readily agreed to stay the 3 days with me. It gave me great peace of mind that even after the divorce from her grandson she was still a friend that cared for me. However my present husband Jason does not want me to have anything to do with my ex husband or his family. I told Jason this is my body we are talking about I want the great care Alice will give me. This has nothing to do with my ex husband Joe. This is one time Jason is going to have to accept my decision on this matter. Does this seem reasonable to you?

Question: My parents tell me I can’t see certain family they dislike but their friends do horrible things. So how do I get them to see the hypocrisy?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 12:34 PM PST

One friend had an affair with a married man. Another couple strongly supports immoral behavior. Lastly two you ladies they know are guilty of very malicious gossip. All these people they are fine with but I'm instructed to be enemies with my uncle's ex-wife, my mother's aunt and all her family, and my Mom's sister most of all. Yet I'm supposed to love my siblings one of whom is hard to like. How can I get them to see the hypocrisy? Respectfully.

Question: My mother is moody ?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 12:06 PM PST

In January my mother was extremely moody and I snapped and ended up in jail. How do I deal with a moody mother she's always been like this but I'm 26 and I'm tired of living like this I'm tired of dealing with her ****. I came here to get my life together and it's completely been the opposite. 

Question: Is this controlling and overbearing behavior?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 11:55 AM PST

My Mother seems to believe She has every right to my privacy. Mind you I'm a 35 year old woman! In so far as physically taking my cell phone and reading my messages, and even confiscating  my computer at one point. She still acts suspicious of me and accuses me of doing "bad things," again. Mind you this was all done "for my safety," because I had been talking to  strangers(ie adult men) online. She has also been dragging me(and my Dad) to church for the last 3 years. When previously to me having a stroke(at age 28) and living with Her, I did not go to church. Typically She uses guilt, manipulation, and Her invisible power over me(and my Dad) to get us to do what She wants. It certainly doesn't help me like Her more when She also happens to be very fat, lazy, and a religious person. AND Her IQ is definitely below average. After living with Her for some time  this has become painfully evident.

Question: Is it wrong to not help a family member out finically?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 10:52 AM PST

My sister who is 22 years old is mad at me. Her car got repossessed last night. She has always been such an ugly human being and she doesn't care about anyone but herself. She came to me asking for this big loan and I told her I can not do the favor (but I help her by watching her kids at time). She said that I don't understand what it's like to be a single mother with two kids (two different dads). I told her No that I didn't know what that was like but she needs to learn how to manage her money. I told her to ask her guy "friend" that she does all these favors for. She said she did but he can only help a bit. Then stated how our family can't help her. I told her bad things happen to her because she is a bad person. Then she got mad and said she isn't taking me to church anymore and that she is going to tell the pastor that her own sister can't help her out finically. Honestly it's not problem she got a brand new 2017 car, got pregnant twice and she treats her kids like the worst humans ever. I'm 23, and I don't know what I can do. Am I wrong for not wanting to help her out finically? She has a job but she doesn't manage too well and she said she doesn't want to take out anymore loans because she wouldn't pay them on time.

Question: Am I wrong for not talking to my dad?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 10:51 AM PST

I'm currently 19 years old (female) and I'm in college, living at home with my parents. Because my college is very close to my house and I am not taking very many time consuming classes in my first year, I am home a lot of the time. Because of this, I feel like I have been exposed to a side of my father that I have not seen before. Don't get me wrong, he isn't abusive towards my siblings and I and he pays for my college and our basic necessities. He's emotionally distant and not really involved in our lives but that's way better than a lot of people have it. However, what really bothers me is the way he can sometimes treat my mom. She stays at home and has essentially dedicated her life to the best interests of my siblings and I. When she previously tried to get out of the house and find a job, my dad put the money in a joint account and would scold my mom for using the money that she earned. At one point, she wanted to send some of her money overseas to support her mom and my dad shouted at her for "wasting his money". But beyond that, he criticizes everything she does and makes her feel guilty whenever she's not cooking or doing housework. In so many ways, he makes her feel like she's not welcome in her own home and that she's "less than". Last week, I overheard him say "this is no life I want to live. The house is disgusting and your food is inedible.  How do you expect me to live like this". I have not talked to him since then. Am I in the wrong for taking it personally?

Question: My dad can bully with his ignorance, is there a such thing as bullying by ignorance?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 10:25 AM PST

I feel he bullies.

Question: What should I do?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 10:18 AM PST

So I speaked my mind to my cousin. For a little a bit we got in to each other's faces. Eventually he tackled me down. I tried getting up but he held me down he's twice my size. One of my other cousins tried to help trying to punch him but it got blocked & instead got punched by his older brother. He also used me a weapon by grabbing bottom of my right leg swing me around to hit his younger brother also my other cousin. I feel weak. I have multiple bruises. Couldn't get any hits on him

Question: Do you have to learn to drive in life (in the US)?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 10:12 AM PST

i'm 17 and my name is colly and i live in virginia and driving is so hard (i'm in lessons), do i have to learn to live life successfully?

Question: Why does my mother do this ?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 09:43 AM PST

I want to do a 4 day juice cleanse. But my mother says I cannot starve myself and she won't let me. I tell her it's just 4 days, but she doesn't care. I want to run away and go somewhere else and do it, so she won't tell me anything. 

Question: Is it realistic for me to move to Los Angeles? ?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 08:46 AM PST

Hi everyone, I'm a 17 year old from Northern New Hampshire and when I'm older, I want to move LA. I want help from someone who's moved to LA or just moved really far away to another city.  Next year I'm going off to college to study Health Sciences with a focus in occupational therapy. Occupational therapist make an average of $89,000 in California. I've done a couple "rent calculators" and they've said my rent should be about $2,200. Also I definitely want to live alone. I've done some research and I think the perfect neighborhood for me would be something like Los Feliz or Echo Park.  I've loved the city of LA for a couple of years ever since my brother played a game set in LA. after looking into it I started considering moving out there. In August I'm lucky enough that we're going on a family trip to LA. I'm really going to use that trip to test the waters and see if I really like the city.  Say I get back from the trip and I still love it, with everything I've told u, how realistic is it to move there. I've mentioned my family, they live in New England, Kentucky and England so I wouldn't have family out there. However, I'm unfortunately not that close with my family and would love to get away from my dad who is a dick and I don't love him. I would miss my brother and my older cousin but I'm not that close with them.  Thanks for reading this! Please be honest and go crazy with ur answers! Anything can help. Thanks again :)

Question: Identical Twin got grounded, since our parents can't tell us apart I'm grounded as well.  Is it unfair to punish me for my twins actions?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 08:27 AM PST

Question: Why are people so disgusted and reacting so negatively to me pulling a knife out on my brother?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 07:46 AM PST

Question: My uncle broke a bunkbed in a fight with his wife, do I have the right to be scared of him or am I being silly?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 07:28 AM PST

I don't live with him or anything of course as it's just an uncle that I see a couple times a year but we had to see him last weekend for a late Christmas and I was scared of him. Luckily he was out of town with his wife's family during Christmas. I like his kids but I'm scared of him. I broke a bunkbed last November to fight with his wife. His wife's really nice so I'm not sure why he fights with her. My mom says she's picky though. FN-2187——wow, I didn't think of that. The fight might be a tale to cover up.  Wow, so it's a happy ending. Thank You

Question: Is a step parent considered a parent if both biological parents are involved with their kid? Does the step parent make decisions too?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 05:30 AM PST

Question: I think my Mom is having an affair, what do I do?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 04:46 AM PST

She and my sister are in Oakland and they had dinner with an old boyfriend of my Mom's that lives out there. She had seen him on Facebook and added him as a friend. He is divorced. Meanwhile I am afraid my Dad might be having one also. His ex-girlfriend's brother was in town and came into my Dad's restaurant to say hi. I am scared he might be trying to set them up again. What if my Dad says he is divorced when he is not? He lies a lot and it makes my Mom mad, what if this is another lie? What if my Mom is going back to her boyfriend because he is not one to lie the way my Dad does? Are both my parents having affairs? How do I get to the bottom of this? What if my Dad had a child with this old girlfriend and the brother was coming by on behalf of the nephew? I looked the woman up on Facebook and she has a son older then me. My Dad said she got pregnant shortly after they broke up. My Mom supported her sister adopting, what if my Mom had a child with this old boyfriend and I don't know? I am scared my life is about to change in the worst ways? What will step-parents be like?

Question: My sister is awful to me. Would I be wrong to be glad if she was in an accident and badly hurt or even killed?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 04:39 AM PST

I believe in Karma though I think we make it here on earth. I don't think of Karma as some divine force, I think of it as what we do day to day. My sister does damage and hurt day to day. 

Question: Any parenting tips?

Posted: 20 Jan 2020 02:16 AM PST

I have a younger sister around 10 yrs old, i was do furious today because i just cleaned the house and my sister washed her hand and I told her wipe her hands to avoid droplets in the floor, she said ok but when i checked the floor there are lot of water droplets ,i was so mad because its not easy to sweep/wash the floor. I asked my mom to let her washed the dishes so that she can learn the importance of cleanliness. Am i right doing this? They are very lenient towards her maybe because they have me cleaning the house.  p.s im the one doing the dishes everyday and it angers me that no matter how many times i told her not to do these etc etc etc

Question: How can I handle family issues as a teen?? ?

Posted: 19 Jan 2020 11:49 PM PST

I'm 14 years old I live with my mom and my dad. My mom and my dad have always had problems even since before I was born. When I was 5 me, my mom, and my brother and sister moved out of my dads house. When I was 7 my dad convinced my mom to move back in with him so we did. It was fine for a while but as soon as I turned 11, my dad completely changed. He started treating me like trash and telling me he hated me and that he regretted ever meeting my mom and having me. He would get so mad over something so stupid and he would take out all his anger on me. It was miserable. I hated my life. I started hitting myself and scratching myself and I started telling myself I hated myself. I blamed everything he said to me on myself. Now I'm 14 and my parents for the past couple years have been in a bad place lately. My mom for the past couple months has been telling me that we'll move out, which I hate my dad so I've been so excited to move out. Then my dad will convince her to stay. 2 weeks ago my mom found out something and told me that we would be moving and that she was serious this time. We bought moving boxes and I started packing all my stuff. Then that night my dad came home and convinced her to stay yet again.So my mom told me that she would think about it. These past 2 weeks I've been so depressed. I cry myself to sleep and I sleep all day and I barely eat some days. I can't even begin to explain how much I want to leave my dad. I can't take this anymore. 

Question: Why is my one family member acting quiet around me?

Posted: 19 Jan 2020 08:51 PM PST

Ever since I got my first career out of college my aunt has been isolating herself from me...idk it's not the same. She'll kind of ignore and I didn't do anything to her. At first I thought maybe something was bothering her but then she kept acting quiet around me but talks to anything else and this all started once I got a career. She has a career also and she does really well...I don't understand. Any thoughts?  Anyone*

Question: Need some encouraging words recently found out my mom was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer ?

Posted: 19 Jan 2020 08:33 PM PST

I'm 20 years old. I live with my mom and dad. Well I'm in college and work but I sleep at there house. Recently we noticed my mom has been very ill throwing up and just been ill. We took her to the doctor and she was diagnosed with stage 3 pancreatic cancer. They said she doesn't have much time left. I feel so broken because my mom and I were always close. She always loved me and had my back her and I were always so close she always took up for me. I know this sounds dumb but I keep thinking back to when I was little and my dad would be traveling for work and her and I would watch Freddy Kruger movies and make brownies.. when I was little I lost my sister to Leukemia. My dad and I aren't particularly the closest. We don't have a problem we just have an awkward relationship and my other sister (27) is a homeless drug addict. Also to make things worse even though it's completely unrelated my girlfriend told me a few days ago she doesn't find me as she used to. Which hurts a lot. I don't know I know I sound desperate but I'm hurting I have just always been a mamas boy and I'm drunk and sad I can't imagine live without her. Can anyone help. 

Question: My sisters judgements towards my boyfriend help! ?

Posted: 19 Jan 2020 08:17 PM PST

Since my sister moved, because she had no other place to stay, my safe haven has felt threatened. I love my sister to death she is my rock, but most of my life she's made most of my decisions and has never trusted my opinions or choice making. She's screwed up plenty of times in her life but passes judgment and disappointment on me if I don't make the right decisions in anything. My sister passes judgment for everything my boyfriend says that's political. If he's not saying anything she can agree with then she either hates him, and asks why I'm still with him. I understand that opinions will differ in relationships but, I feel like I have to make sure my boyfriend doesn't say anything too politically charged or too sensitive because she can't have a logical conversation most of the time. Before she moved in my boyfriend and I use to talk about anything and everything now I kinda have to play mediator. The whole house just seems like everyone is walking on eggshells. I wish I knew what to do, kicking my sister out is not an option. Alternative advice is greatly helpful. 

Question: My sister is a bully, what do I do when she hurts my feelings?

Posted: 19 Jan 2020 07:04 PM PST

She is a bully despite not being a little kid. She is a narcissist with no moral compass. She is all around bad. How do I react when she hurts my feelings? I am fourteen and she is 23. Nobody I know likes her, not even our parents. They love her but don't like her. 

Question: My sister screams on her 3 & 5 y/o toddlers every day & constantly threatens to beat them or throw all their toys when they do not comply. ?

Posted: 19 Jan 2020 06:55 PM PST

She gets so upset when they sometimes come to her crying and starts screaming on them hysterically. She is extremely demanding and veryyyyy nervous. She says that hitting children is perfectly OK anf thinking otherwise is so absurd. What should I do?

Question: I feel useless, can I have some advice ?

Posted: 19 Jan 2020 06:55 PM PST

I started working at a grocery store back in August. I only lasted three months. Everyday I was just so anxious and it was affecting my schoolwork and my overall happiness. I eventually broke down and quit. Everyone was disappointed in me. My mother called me a coward and asked me how I expect to work anywhere with that attitude.  Now the money that I have left is being eaten up by my bills and I need to find a job by may or I will be completely broke.  I'm just so afraid of everything. I can't even go outside or make eye contact with people. I apply to jobs like crazy but of course I always get rejected. Even when I do find a job what will be the point, I'll probably just break down and cry on the floor again.  What do you suggest I do? Should I just give up?

Question: Was I wrong to be offended?

Posted: 19 Jan 2020 06:16 PM PST

I was helping my sister move out her stuff from her friend's house so she can come to stay and live with me and my mom. Her friend ran out and said "You can stay here! Well, if not, that's good that you can bond now with your mom and sister". My sister made a disgusted face and said: "ugh probably not". I'm standing right there when she said it and it's like I'm invisible or something and it doesn't matter at all that I'm helping her move her stinky crap in my nice new car. She still said "ugh" about me and my mom- right in front of me. This pissed me off extremely but she thinks I'm just overly offended...She later admitted okay I can see how it was rude but then she backtracked into saying I'm the rude one? All I have done is help her and she doesn't care and she doesn't even like me but apparently I'm supposed to be cool with this? Am I wrong for being offended? I was the one who had to stand there and hear that about myself WHILE I'm doing her a favor, though I know it sounds like just a passing thought. She says Im basically a snowflake but I think shes basically rude af.

Question: Single fathers I need some advice?

Posted: 19 Jan 2020 05:13 PM PST

Im not going to go into full detail about everything that happened but long story short me and my son's mother split up before he was born, both me and her are to blame and I take responsibility on my end, now this is where I need advice. My son gets to come over every weekend which is great and we don't really argue about that, the problem is I feel guilty and my anxiety shoots though the roof when I have to take him back home for the week, it really gets to me every time. Honestly I know to some degree it should because I'm partly to blame for it being like this, but am I over thinking or taking it too hard on myself? I have tried many times to work stuff out with her but she doesn't want to and now I'm stuck feeling like I let my son down every weekend when he has to leave. This is probably a bad idea even asking but I really want to know what other dads think and if y'all have any advice thanks

Question: Do fat to obese men have more difficulty impregnating women? Or is just nonsense?

Posted: 19 Jan 2020 05:04 PM PST

😡 My SOB brother in law's fatass is blaming my sister why they haven't conceived yet. She's petite and has a normal weight for her height. She had a miscarriage years before being with him so she's not infertile 😡

Question: Help: My sister acts more reserved and distant towards me when her husband is around?

Posted: 19 Jan 2020 04:09 PM PST

So I'm her 30 year old brother, she's 32. I notice when her and I text, she seems really happy and enthused to talk to me. She sends a lot of emojis and we talk about our favorite movies, tv shows and etc. When we hug, she hugs me closely and we make body contact. But when her husband is around, she hugs me from a distance and avoids making body contact with me. She gives me "*** out" hugs aka London bridge hugs.  Her husband seems like an easy going guy so I don't think he's abusive towards her. I'm an affectionate person so I like it when her and I hug closely.  

Question: Is it OK what my dad did to my daughter?

Posted: 19 Jan 2020 04:00 PM PST

My daughter is in college. The college is 100 miles away. She is sharing an apartment with 3 other girls. She ask me how I thought she should get around and go the grocery store and other places as there is no public transportation where she is staying. I ask her if any of the other girls at the apartment had a car and she checked and none did. They told her they will use a bike to get around. She wanted me to buy her a bike. I told her with the high cost of tuition, books, and her apartment, it might be a used bike. She visited my dad and mom last weekend and she talked to them about the problem she would have getting around at college and that I planned to buy her a bike. My dad told her that he used to be an ambulance driver and he had picked up MANY people that had be hit on their bike by a car. He said the bike driver was usually DEAD or severely injured in a car bike accident. He was going to get her something safer than a bike to use at college. He then took her to a car dealer and bought her a new Kia Soul so she would be safe. She thinks she has the greatest grandpa in the world now. I am not sure how I feel about this. Dad did not buy me a new car when I went to college. Is dad trying to make me look bad to my daughter because I could not afford to buy her any car let alone a new one or is he concerned about her safety on a bike. How should I feel about what my dad did?

Question: Give me reasons why I should let my parents and child's father be in my baby's life and there for her birth?

Posted: 19 Jan 2020 03:58 PM PST

I live in a rooming house and now have to go to a shelter with my baby to get help hopefully with transitional housing or to get on my feet. It's messed up because my parents won't take me in and my child's father still lives with his mom and didn't get the apartment for us like he promised when I first found out I was pregnant. They all claim to love me and my child yet I'm going to a shelter, what type of love is that? Meanwhile they're comfortable in their living situations while I'm in a freaking shelter feeling like I have nobody and feeling low and bad. So why should I let them be there when she's born or in her life? They don't care where I go with the baby so why do they want to be in her life? It's foul and I'm hurt and angry. 

Question: My Fiance of a year is "trying to find a job" but puts in 1-2 applications a week. ?

Posted: 19 Jan 2020 03:50 PM PST

I have been dating him two years now and he PROMISES he will get a job. He proposed to me Valentines day with a ring his mother bought for him to give to me. A little back ground, he has seizures but he has been seizure free for two years now. I can personally witness to atleast the last year because we shared... a twin bunk bed. We both slept on the bottom. It was miserable but I loved him.  I am a college student who goes to college Full time, Volunteers on Crisis line, and is very active in the church community. I had a job but I got really sick last year (104-105 degree temps for nearly 6 months and I lost all mobility for that duration) and he never once came over just to help me get better. I always had to cook for him because he didn't know how. He only visited me once at the hospital (we live 15 minutes away). His excuse is always his mother won't do this or won't do that. but what is more recently disturbing is his UNDERAGED brother touched me inappropriately and rather than saying anything to him he got mad at me. His brother has a history of touching, and molesting people and I just need to honestly find validation for dumping him and how to's are greatly appreciated. I love him it's just... it's too much.

Question: How do I tell my stepson that his mother abandoned him and is never coming back?

Posted: 19 Jan 2020 02:30 PM PST

Hi everyone so my stepson is 9 years old and his mom went into a coma from an overdose. I told my stepson that his mom never really loved him and that she was an evil lady. I am now this child's mother and if it comes to it I will rebirth him and share my blood to alter his mind to think like me and love me while he kicks the other woman to the curb.

Question: I need answers, should I live with him and his mother or go to a women's shelter with my baby?

Posted: 19 Jan 2020 02:22 PM PST

So February I'm giving birth and can't live in a rooming house with my baby. My options are living with my child's father temporarily at his mother's house with him while we work on getting an apartment together OR going to a women's shelter where they have pregnant women and women with kids. He's been abusive to me in different forms and neglecting me during this pregnancy. The shelter provides counseling, education etc but they said I must get counseling and have a plan. My first child was taken from me years ago, I was a teen mom and didn't leave the abusive dad so they considered me unfit and took my son years ago. I fear that if I go to the shelter they'll want to take my daughter away. I'm so hurt right now and confused. Please give me uplifting advice.

Question: I smashed my computer?

Posted: 19 Jan 2020 09:34 AM PST

I have a Late 2009 27 inch iMac and it was being slow so I got so bad I grabbed it and ripped the glass panel off with my bare hands then i used a crowbar and pried off the screen which completely cracked and destroyed it, then i grabbed the power supply and pried it off and threw it across the room and then i pried off the motherboard which cracked and fell apart and then i pried the two speakers out and then i pried the hard drive out and beat it with a baseball bat and then i beat the casing of the computer hard and smashed it to bits