that had different sub categories and such?

So I've had my best friend since my freshman year of college is been like 4 years. We've had some issues here and there but we have great communication and can always make each other aware when something is wrong. I am getting married and she told me she didn't wanna be part of the wedding party because she didn't have the best relationship with my fiance. We still talk every here and there when we need each other but she is open that she doesn't like my man. She has expressed to me so many times that she doesn't know him and has had "issues" with him (it's another story but he defended me one time and she said he was "aggresive") but I didn't think he's ever been aggressive. I love her but idk how close I should stay to her. I've had so many friends turn their back on me and my walls are high. What should I do ??

As the new manager left the office tonight she said bye to me as she was on the phone. So I said "ok." "Have a good night."'I said it low so I wouldn't interrupt her conversation but I had to repeat myself because she couldn't hear me. I was just trying to be nice.But as she said thank you, her nostrils were flared and her teeth look like they were ground together. Was she mad at me?I consider myself helpful and a nice person. She's told people in the building how helpful  I am too and that I'm great. I find her physically attractive but I haven't shown any signs of interest. I haven't asked her out or anything

At work we were talking about this idiot murdered and raped his neighbor when he was 13 and he was high My co worker says the guy illegedly didn t remember doing these things because he was was high but he doesn t know how you would forget something like that.I My coworker felt yelled at by me.I feel he is mansplaining and is victim blaming. He felt attacked and asked to be moved.

i have an email its williamjoseph@yahoo, no one want to write me

I'm a 21 year old man and in the fall I became friends with a 48 year old woman. She's a customer of mine at my store I work at. Anyhow, basically we are on social media together and she's always asking me to hang out with her. And give her rides in my sports car places. I do like her, and we communicate, mostly by text, everyday. We've had coffee a few times. But she really likes me and thinks I'm awesome. And she wants me to be more of a real friend to her. I have friends my age I hang out with, girls I'm dating, etc. I don't really have time for this lady but I do like and care about her. What should I do?? Side note: she lives with an abusive boyfriend. Physically and verbally. So I steer clear of visiting her apartment, etc. so that's why I don't want to pick her up or whatever. Funny thing is, she does have a crush on me. A major one. Just to throw it out there. Might be important. She kinda forced her way into my life. It was more like a "kidnapping" than the beginning of a friendship. But I do like her as a person. And I want to make her a part of my life.

Hello, I'm an adult who was once a runaway teen and I'm having a really hard time right now trying to finish my undergrad. I want to start a support group. Is anyone else out there? Did you runaway from a bad situation, from your parents, and did you choose not to return. Please message me. I'm sure I'm not the only one and I want to know how everyone else is doing. Side note: regarding the question I'm asking, I don't wanna start it on Facebook because no all of my friends know this about me. Maybe I can start a new account for it? Like have 2 Facebooks, is that a thing I can do.

The two are practically married, thats how close they are so I really can't be friends with one of them. In fact, I really only became friends by association. Best way to explain it to him? That's where most of the friction became was that if I told something to one of them, the other would ***** me out or comment on it

First of all, before i start, I will be a bit humble and admit I understand your job is stressful and so many kids and its difficult. This is not an attack on you, but a few teachers I had I really think were evil. So if I can admit that, can you hear me out. I have autism and adhd so I have caused trouble non intentoinally and did my best all my life. I hated my self kind of for awhile. Like I would irritate people without realizing it. ANd wonder why they hated me. But the more i got older the more i realized how to be better, and to not play the victim. So basically I got bullied alot for just being myself and teachers were kinda hypocrtical and also treating me unfairly. and kids would bully me silently and i woul tell them to stop and they assumed it was me causing trouble. kids would bully me and get at me but it seemed they always assumed it was me. So now, enough about me, lets talk about what some of you do to other kids. When a kid is weird you will ignore him being bulied or take the side of the bullies? Why is this? Why do some treat them unfairly? How doesthatHelp them grow socially,it only makes them feel unworthyU criticize Emo and Punk kids and scene as troublemakers.and when a girl is bipolar crying bcuz ppl bully her and u teachers arent helping and she has abreakdown, alotofyou assumeShes faking forAttention when a black girl gets in a fight to defend herself or someone else, many times you assume shes being a ghetto bad ***** tryna start fights.

- I am always the one reaching out to see if people want to hang out - I am the only one keeping up friendships, no one checks in with me - People say "stay in touch" but it's MY responsibility, they never message me first Why does it seem like everyone has a seamless social life and is always talking to someone on the phone, when no one out of like 200 people I know won't text me first?

I'm supposed to go on a trip to El Salvador with my roommates after graduating. Not sure I wanna go tho, background: Originally my best friend (a roommate) and I were talking of going on a road trip to Grand Canyon, but then one of our roommates invited us to Salvador because he has family there and it would be cheaper. I only said yes because my best friend was excited to. Now some family stuff has come up around that time for my best friend and he can't go. He let me know first and said he didn't want to just abandon me or anything but that he couldn't go.  No matter what I say knowing him he will tell me still go and enjoy myself. Thing is, I don't really want to go if he's not going and will feel bad going without him. And I can't afford/have enough leave at work to do both trips. If I talk to him about it (should I?), What should I say? Thanks and sorry it was long 

We've been hooking up for the last 6 months and lately he's been playing mind games that I feel is unnecessary. The last time we were together was New Years Eve. Since it's just a hook up, we don't have regular or consistent communication. I'm fine with that. Yesterday, he text me and stated that we were 'overdue' for our next hookup. I was at the spa so it took me an hour to respond and when I did respond he hesitated to reply but I could see he was on FB. So I called. When I called he was very vague but he let me know that he'd read message by asking me about the spa. I didn't ask why he didn't respond. Then he said he'd ask me to come over but that he had to go pick up his son. Then he said if I decide to play hookie from work this week to let him know. I was a little irritated because he'd done this before. Hit me up last minute about hooking up and then not really want to hook up. I told him that I didn't like him playing games with. Why text me that we're overdue and then he doesn't have time for the hook up. I don't mind the hook up but it's starting to seem more like he barely makes time for it. Was I wrong to tell him that he should at least have a few hours clear in his schedule if he wants to see me? When initiate and then not follow through?

Hi guys! Thank y'all for taking time to speak on my current situation. So a guy I used to be insanely close with. Is no longer speaking to me. Not sure why. It started off as after lunch. Usually he's with me and a small group of friends, we were all laughing and cracking jokes. Even if they were kinda cheesy, we were having fun. Well, he wasn't laughing. He told us he "couldn't stand us", and completely walked off. I didn't pay much mind to it, because that's how he usually plays. It turns out, he wasn't talking to us for a remainder of the day. So I approach him and ask what we did. And he said "Nothing." And refused to keep the conversation going, and walked off. That was last week, on Tuesday. He still isn't talking to us, and I felt bad at first, but now I want my belongings back. He has a $10 candle I bought him for Christmas and a ring I bought myself about a year ago. He didn't completely cut me off because by experience, he cut one of his old friends off, and completely blocked her off of all social media. I deleted his phone number, and pictures of him. He's still following me and I'm debating if I should unfollow him on my own. He wasn't exactly a good friend to me. He would constantly bring up my past regrets, relationships, pretty much everything I told him that I haven't told anyone else. The only thing I want out of this is an explanation on why he's so disrespectful and why he suddenly to decided to not talk to me. Any advice? I don't know if I'm overreacting about the presents but I don't want him to use my stuff given to him and constantly ignore me and act like I'm the problem. I think it's disrespectful He's done this before. He ignored me because he felt like he needed a "break" from me. I'm not pointing a gun to his head, forcing him to be his friend. He can make friends with people similar to his own personality. He shouldn't trash mine, and talk about how nice it was without my presence.  *to be my friend. 

I get on with my flatmates perfectly well as friends until they start making mess. It's to an extent that I just can't comprehend. They'll spill pasta and leave it on the table. Spill milk over the hob and leave it. Chop food on the surfaces and leave the leftovers. Spill bear over the table (as well as people things) and ofc leave it. There's full pieces of food, teabags and all sort of gunk in the sink so it's always clogged and unclogging it is disgusting. I never want to clean it up but it gets to a point where I can't use the sink, there's no where to put my stuff down because all the surfaces have food and there's bacteria and fungi on the food. I've deep cleaned it at least 4 times since October, the last being three days ago, and it's already gone back to a tip. I always put a polite message in the group chat saying I've cleaned the kitchen and could ppl please try to wipe up spilt food or drink (I bought plenty of kitchen towel so it's easy). I feel so naggy but it's actually embarrassing, unusable and also unhealthy. Whenever my friends come over they can always spell the kitchen as soon as the enter the flat even when the door is shut. All the other flats around us refuse to come to ours (I try to cook in their flats bc ours is that dirty) and it's become a joke how bad it is. They're adults, I can't comprehend spilling and entire bowl of pasta and just leaving it there to dry up and go mouldy. What can I do? Please help I'm going insane.

ok I REALLY like my best friend. He has this girl hes kind of talking to right now but its not serious and he has never met her. It is too hard pretending i feel nothing when i talk to him and his brother (hes 14 and hes my other best friend; he reminds me so much of my best friend hah).  How do I make a move on him or tell him?! Thank you:) Bonus Question: What did you do last weekend?

Say you have a best friend they don't want to go months without talking to you and they also want you to tell them things that happen in your life and also when you get a haircut and they say and you didn't tell me. Do you think they're being clingy? 

I've been struggling with the following for a while, but recently it's getting worse. I always have such negative thoughts and feelings about myself. I think I'm way too weird, and it honestly shocks me that there are people who are interested in being my friend. I feel like I'm constantly comparing myself to others. While physical appearance is part of it, I think most of the insecurity comes from my personality and the way I act. I feel like I'm way too stupid and I say dumb things all of the time, and I just think that other people, including my friends, are just much better/fun people to be around. The friends that are very important to me, I always worry and think that I'm not important to them at all and I worry that they judge me. I just have so many doubts and negative thoughts about myself. I'm not sure why I feel like that but I feel that it's getting worse and I'm honestly not sure what to do. I've been considering talking to my older brother about the whole situation. We're really close and honestly he's one of my best friends. I'm just not sure if I should tell him but all of it is just bottling up which I feel makes it worse. Seriously not sure what to do.

If a guy got in touch with a woman and asked her what shes looking for and she said shes not looking for anything, that she was taken by surprise when he contacted her. What would that imply

 want to tell my best friend i like him tonight. he doesnt like me back. He talks to this girl hes never met and he says he likes her (they arent dating). I know he will reject me but it is too hard talking to him and pretending I dont have feelings. What do I say? Thanks :) were both 16

I'm a 21 year old man and in the fall I became friends with a 48 year old woman. She's a customer of mine at my store I work at. Anyhow, basically we are on social media together and she's always asking me to hang out with her. And give her rides in my sports car places. I do like her, and we communicate, mostly by text, everyday. We've had coffee a few times. But she really likes me and thinks I'm awesome. And she wants me to be more of a real friend to her. I have friends my age I hang out with, girls I'm dating, etc. I don't really have time for this lady but I do like and care about her. What should I do?? Side note: she lives with an abusive boyfriend. Physically and verbally. So I steer clear of visiting her apartment, etc. so that's why I don't want to pick her up or whatever. Funny thing is, she does have a crush on me. A major one. Just to throw it out there. Might be important.

Ok, so I have 3 people in my main friend circle (not including me) and then there's this other guy who my 3 friends hang out with, which means I have to be around him when I'm with them. I hate him because he always acts like he's superior to me, he always makes fun of me, and my best friend and him ALWAYS gang up against me when it's just us. It's so annoying and I hate being around him. I live in my friend's house right now and he always comes over here and every single time he has to start sh*t. How do I get him to quit f*cking with me?

I'm not retarded, I'm not severely overweight, I am not ugly, and I don't have any diseases. Also, I don't have a bad scent either. I have never been able to make friends in middle school, high school, church, college, work or community clubs. I am now a single white lady in my 40s, and life gets so lonely at times. I wish I had someone to talk to, but seems like people just brush me off when I try to befriend them. It has always been this way since I have been in middle school. Maybe it just wasn't meant for me to have friends. All throughout my life I have seen others make friends and they stay friends for a long time. I wish I had the ability to make friends.

i moved over a year ago away from my friends. in the beginning they responded right away and seemed to care about what i said. now they haven't said anything to me in a month. when they did respond they responded with one word answers and when i asked them if they wanted to call they always make excuses as to why they an't call me. i don't know what i did wrong. do they hate me now? why don't they care or respond anymore?

I want to tell my best friend i like him tonight. he doesnt like me back. He talks to this girl hes never met and he says he likes her (they arent dating). I know he will reject me but it is too hard talking to him and pretending I dont have feelings. What do I say? Thanks :)

The scenario is that I went outside and asked my father if he had seen a girl (Well woman) I usually talk to. Some guy was around as well and he began asking me over and over in this annoying way questions like, "Is she your girlfriend?" and other stuff like, "Do you want to have sex with her?", I was like dude just stop with the stupid questions I just asked for someone and all this unnecessary nonsense. Why can't I just ask someone for a girl without being questioned about said girl being my girlfriend or whatever? No I am not her boyfriend... In case you had to ask.

So I'm a senior in college; at the beginning of the year, my best friend and I mentioned going on a road trip to the Grand canyon after graduating. Then one of our roommates (close friends) invited all 4 of us to go to El Salvador after graduating since he has family there (a lot cheaper). Didn't really want to, but my best friend was excited so I said yes too. Now after saying yes my best friend has had a lot going on and will have some family stuff going on at that time across the country, so now he can't go. He felt bad about it and told me first saying he didn't want to abandon me or anything I will feel bad going without him. Knowing him no matter what he'll tell me I should go and have a good time, but I still won't feel right about it. I haven't talked to him about it, what do you think? Should I ask him?  Btw I can't do both trips because I only have a week of leave at work. Thanks!

A friend of mine, named John was living with a friend of his named David for $150.00 a month for a small section in the corner of the kitchen floor to sleep and to go to the bathroom or shower he needed to climb down a ladder that s in the middle of the kitchen floor going down to the basement were the other bathroom to the house i located, nobody besides David is to use the bathroom off from the kitchen. While John was downstairs in the bathroom, he started to feel different so he climbed up the ladder with his pants around his ankles struggling to climb up since the motion to move his left side of his body was losing the ability to function correctly, when he finally did get upstairs he managed to get himself to his friend David and told him he wasn t feeling right and needed to get to the hospital asap , so instead of doing the right thing by calling 911 he decided to park my friend John in a chair and left him to go clean out his van on the passenger s side so he could get John in the van and take him to the hospital and not the EMT s, when he was finished cleaning out the seat he went back into the house and found John had fallen out of the chair & was now laying on the floor, waving his hands back & forth & foaming white stuff out of his mouth and nose, so instead of calling 911 then David then decided to leave John again and go next door to the neighbor s house and get him to help him get John into the van, when the neighbor and David got to John he was no longer moving or breathing and still on the floor, David didn t bother putting John on his side left him on his back, when the neighbor seen that John was in bad shape it was then he told David to call 911 now, and when he got off the phone, the neighbor told him, he should of called 911 when John 1st came to him and told him he did not feel well and he needed help, but choose to wait 20/30 minutes maybe more before he called, David tells him he didn t call cause he was trying to save John a ride to the hospital for free. John had a stroke he can t move the whole left side of his body. David s house inside and out is a hoarder house.

I am a college senior about to graduate that volunteered to tutor freshmen in math. I got assigned to a sorority which had lots of beautiful girls. I became good friends with many of them and thought I might date them until one of them told me most everyone in that sorority was gay. I was VERY disappointed but we became good friends. One problem they told me they had was they could not go to some school activities they really wanted to go to without a male date. I said problem solved. I will take you. One of the sorority girls must have told her father about our "dates". I got a call from the father one day asking me to join him for lunch at his country club. At the lunch he thanked me for changing his daughter to straight. He introduced me to several company presidents and told them I was an outstanding young man and he would consider it a personal favor if they had any job opening to give me a chance at the jobs. I got 3 job offers at that luncheon and I am going to take one of them. I thought changing someone from gay to straight was not possible. If she changed it is news to me. The dad was very nice to me and I wonder if I deserve his gracious help finding a job. Should I just take the job I was offered with his help and hope for the best for him and his daughter? I don't want to take credit for something I did not do but it is a really great job offer.