Aren't they basically for the same purpose

I would feel like I am in orbit, because there is only 30 guests and it is being held at a golf club, not a church or chapel. I figured after she hands me her flowers I will just sit down as well as the best man. The pastor will be there and it will be a 45 minute standing period which would be hard on anyone's feet. What would you all do? Please, help.

And it will be easy and she will guide him easily?    If true, then should the virgin husband suddenly enter his tool on her without having to care or without having to worry about her pain as she has already done it and wilk have no pain like virgin anymore? Compared to a virgin wife where the husband would have to take care not to hurt her as being virgin and also go very slowly and steadily with caressing her and assuring her that he will take care of her pain.  Otherwise ,what benefit will the husband have by marrying a non virgin wife who slept with many men without caring about anything. So, she will have no pain having slept with many men with many sizes. So will it be really beneficial?

My best friend is Indian by heritage and is throwing an engagement party in a couple weeks and has invited me to be the honorary maid of honor. (They don't officially have a title in traditional Indian weddings). She gave me a sari for my birthday last year and I thought it would be great to wear it to her party but I don't want to offend anyone by wearing it since it isn't my culture. And I don't want to ask her because I want it to be a surprise if I do. Is it ok? Or should I just wear a traditional western dress?