Is it ok for me to be civil to my friends but that's it? I just have trouble with having friends. I always have 

Could she be attracted to him? she says you're so sweet and she likes him. She's said this to him and to one of her female friends she said he's so sweet. He didn't do anything special or particularly noble the times she complimented him.  Onetime he said "it was nice to see you" while briefly passing by in the hall. 

My mom signed me up to have a pen pal, and I don't know how to write the first letter. The organization she did this through is notorious for preppy, snobby, homeschoolers (not saying they all are, but even my homeschool friends admit these people are snobby). I've been  tasked with writing the first letter and I don't know what to do! I'm a long winded, kind of odd, person and I don't want them to be freaked out or already hate me. All I  know is their name and where they're from. I also don't want them to send a picture,because I want to imagine them. I heard of a cool thing where you leave an interesting scrap of paper in the letter, and I figured a piece poem with my name in it would be cool. Any tips?

Does this facebook status sound like this girl's ex is trying to get back with her?   "Until Im ready let me be. I have to heal myself"      Does that imply that her ex is attempting to contact her and get back with her?

Sometimes I think he's not interested but he always reply to my texts even if something silly. Also, just few minutes ago, I was looking at our chat and my finger accidentally pressed the video button lol. I then texted him sorry for pressing the wrong button and his reply was "ok". He probably now thinks Im obsessed with him lol.....but is everything cool? Can a guy be too polite to reject?

found my friend's mom on Instagram because it recommended me cause of mutual friends with her son,and started chatting with her shes pretty cool. And my friend moved to new York for his job. She seems interested in me and i think shes nice and pretty. But i felt guilty cause thats his mom, so I stopped talking to her and she deleted me on ig a few days later. This was in 2016. Now she messaged me few days ago and said hi. Im casually talking to her again but i don't know her intentions in chatting with me again. Should I ask her to hang out or what do I do?. Btw she doesn't know im friends with her son. Were not close friends or anything just regular high school friends. Shes also divorced  Im 25 and I think his mom is 51 or something

I'm not trying to offend anyone. I am a black guy myself. I was in school and one of the mentors who comes from the college to help us with homework was teaching us that black people are genetically worse than white people. He said that's why every black country in the world is a shitty 3rd world country, black people have the Lowest IQs, black people make up the majority of crimes but not the majority of the population, and black people are the least educated. He said it has nothing to do with racism because if you look at black countries like Africa and hati black people are still violent and dumb. I was always told that blacks people are the same as white people other than their skin but I'm pretty sure everything he said was true. It is possible that black people are just genetically inferior. I don't really have the knowledge to ague with him because I'm in middle school and he's in college. I just want to know the truth so please don't try and spare my feelings. 

I'm in my second year of college now and I'm about to go back to my university after having a winter break. My high school friends and I hung out a few times but I feel like they've never actually cared about me. They never contact me first and ask how I'm doing and they don't bother to come visit me. I don't think they even know what my college major is. The only reason why we hangout is because I initiate it because I genuinely care about their lives and I want to know what's up. If they're ever down I always try to help, but I never get the same when I'm feeling upset. They seem like enjoy each other more than they enjoy me, I always feel so left out. I just don't feel like enough anymore. What do your friends do that make them stand out of just being an acquaintance? Are my friends actually friends? I feel lost.

I'm planning to move to another State. So I found a group of this State (PA) in facebook and made a post talking" can I have friends here?" One guy wrote me and said that he can chill out with me. He thought I'm already living in PA. So I answered him that I'm not there, I only wanna move to. He replied that I can let him know when I'll be here and we can chill out... He repeated it many times. Then I let him know that it won't be in a month, it will be not so soon, I just wanted to talk to people in that State to make new friends so he can write me in messenger when he'll have to see a drying wall... And then he just blocked me! Why?! I really can't understand and a little upset of that. I thought people block only bad users, who annoying, who did something awful. But what did I do to him? I mean he blocked me from his facebook page so I can't see his profile anymore and messenger is on facebook... He didn't block me from that group but behaving like he's afraid of me, like I did something bad...

There's this kid at my school that is always talking to me really close and he's so short that he'll leave spit on my shirt from talking so much. One day my friend hit him so hard he started crying and then my friend got in trouble. I want to hit him so hard he starts bleeding through his butthole. Is it bad to plan an attack on him? (his names Walter)

I have been looking and looking since the day I got my first computer when I was 16 years old...but I have been unable to find my best friend from elementary school. It is more than just a long shot at this point, but I am begging for someone to help me! I have very minimal information, but maybe someone out there will be able to so what I have not been able to do myself. so....here goes nothing.... Her name was Rebecca Waida ( for all i know I am spelling that wrong...) She hated the name Rebecca so to me it was always Becky. No one ever liked me much in school, but her and I were inseparable. We went to Andrew Maier Elementary School in Blandon, PA (Berks). The years we attended were somewhere like 1990? I think...*sighs* My family moved away and I never really got to say goodbye....I thought we would meet up again in Highschool, but I found out then from another old classmate that she had moved away somewhere but they did not know where. If it helps we also had another friend whos name was Charlie Kuhns (we called him char char even though he hated it...)

found my friend's mom on Instagram because it recommended me cause of mutual friends with her son,and started chatting with her shes pretty cool. And my friend moved to new York for his job. She seems interested in me and i think shes nice and pretty. But i felt guilty cause thats his mom, so I stopped talking to her and she deleted me on ig a few days later. This was in 2016. Now she messaged me few days ago and said hi. Im casually talking to her again but i don't know her intentions in chatting with me again. Should I ask her to hang out or what do I do?. Btw she doesn't know im friends with her son. Were not close friends or anything just regular high school friends. Shes also divorced  Im 25 and I think his mom is 51 or something

My heart hurts my stomach hurts. I feel so angry Other People are just gonna add more & more offensive words to make a man feel furious. People are just gonna keep adding more & more offensive statements. Pissing me off, making my heart catch on fire no way around it. No one or nothing can help me i know no one will

I'm in my mid 20s, but I seem to get along better with younger people. Other people my age level are just lame. They either working too much, already raising a family, or they are too serious with life. I'm just looking for people who I can joke around with and go hang out at fun places. Where do teenage guys usually hang out at? 

What is it about nigs and waves? They are obsessed with them. What is the big deal?

My friend whose in med school always seems tired and busy with med school. In October I asked him for relationship advice because I valued his opinion (he's not into me.) But, as far as hanging out, I've asked him a few times, but he said he was busy, which I didn't take personally since he's a med student. Over Christmas break I asked him to hang, twice. First time he said "maybe" and didn't get back so thought he'd gotten distracted. Second time, I texted him and he didn't reply. My friend is in the same social group as I am and he'll eventually show up briefly to see his brother. I'm terrible at hiding emotions and even if I could, I don't want to make conversation with my friend as if I'm not offended by him, as that'd be dishonest. If my friend asks what's wrong and I tell him, he might "not get it". If I explain that he doesn't seem to want to see me, even over his break he might say "I'm busy with XYZ hobbies". I'm both offended that he won't subtract a few hours from his hobbies to hang over break and that he doesn't even respond to my request. He might say "why didn't you say so?" but what am I gonna do, tell someone who purposely ignores me that I feel ignored? I can only surmise that he sees me as a friend from back in the day, even though it wasn't long ago. I don't want this to cause a rift in the group, though and don't want others to feel uncomfortable with the drama. How should I go about this?

I'm not wealthy by any means, but would be willing to help a friend out if he needs help. I would like to know what the money is for though before lending it. I'm just confused why he can't say explain himself? At first it was 'just' $200, then I became about $600. Said he'd pay me back as soon as possible. I just want to know what it's for, so I can help him. He gets p!ssed off at me when I ask normal questions. I don't understand. Wouldn't anyone want to know WHY a friend suddenly demands large amounts of money, won't explain why, and didn't previously have a financial issue? Am I in the wrong for not giving him the money?

So it's my boyfriend's best friend's birthday today. He tried to force me to go because he wanted me to be there as well but my thing is, I'm super introverted and he wanted me to spend well over 12 hours with these people I don't really know. After a few minutes of me crying he finally told me I didn't have to go and that he wouldn't drink (he has drug abuse behavior) and that he'd be back by 10:30. Well it's 10:30, he won't answer me and my friend told me he's drinking. I'm starting to get really upset but I don't know if should be, like is this a normal thing to get upset about or am I overthinking?

My friend has a truth telling issue...She now says she is in rehab in California for pain killers. Whats the average length of time someone spends in rehab and what are the rules while jn rehab? Sorry, she just tells fibs about everything(literally) for no logical reason that I dont know, however, she's got a heart of gold.

Just recently, my best friend of 6 years has been acting different. For context, we are both in the same grade at the same high school. She does not talk to our group of friends like she normally would (instead she stays on her phone and when I try to get her involved she just brushes me aside), she has recently lost interest in things she enjoyed doing (i.e. after school activites), she constantly states she would rather be alone than hanging with me or with anyone else (understandable but after a while it makes me feel like trash), and more recently has posted on social media about how she "does not like any of her friends" and "it is too late to make new friends now but after high school she is blocking everyone". Again, this is all very sudden and I feel like I did something wrong. She could be dealing with something at home or may be deprssed, but also I worry it is not those and she just hates me and everyone else. I really need to know how to handle this situation.

I was harassing my online friend cindy who lives in north carolina and i live in maryland and i was harassing her on instagram textnow and textfree and on snapchat and i'm worried because she said she's going to the cops about it and writing down every fake number and account i've used to bother her i can't stop crying what do i do, plus i live in a different state then her

A quiet & close-minded child, Jessica, goes to a certain school. She had a close friend but he moves. Jessica has a cousin, Bruce. Bruce has a cousin, Danielle, from his other parent's side who's in same grade as Jessica. Danielle happens to be someone who's outgoing & possibly overzealous. One day during recess, Jessica gets behind a group of a few kids to see what's going on or to wait her turn. One of those kids suddenly turns around; it happens to be Danielle. It startles Jessica. Danielle asks Jessica to play with her but Jessica refuses. So, Danielle's feelings are hurt and then complains to her mom. Then, Danielle's mom spreads it to Bruce's mom. And then, Bruce's mom spreads it to Jessica's mom. Jessica's mom is embarrassed. Years later, Jessica's mom suddenly brings up to her how she wouldn't play with Danielle. Jessica's mom admits that Danielle *may have been a bit outgoing* but then asserts, "If only you'd play with her, you guys would've been best of friends!" Older Jessica feels guilty. Is Jessica's mom justified in coming down on her daughter for not playing with Danielle when they were little? And I forgot to mention that Danielle was new to the school & didn't have friends at first.

Hey everyone thanks for the help in advance! Basically I like one girl for a very long time, a couple of years. We were never able to date because of her busy schedule so I said to myself I will wait for her. 2 years later and sometimes I think she likes me, sometimes not. We hang out often and she is a very good friend. I was starting to think things maybe are a bit different now, so I'll tell her I like her. But two weeks ago I went to a bar, and had the urge to kiss some other girl (I didn't do that, I don't know if I would have actually done it or I'm just overthinking things and making them really bad. People tell me I overthink a lot). I had this urge because I figured the girl I really liked will just tell me "I just want to be friends" or something, so I figured whatever, nothing is gonna happen anyway. But after that I felt really bad, like I have to tell the girl I like how I feel, and I don't want to be hooking up with some random. And to make matters worse, my friend texted me saying "hey I got news for you...that girl you liked for so long....she's into you". I'm just so worried she's gonna be mad at me for wanting to kiss some random girls at a bar. I'm sorry if this is long and my English isn't too good hahaha. Is there a name for this grievance I did? What's my next move?? Thanks!