Husband tracks my car with a device that is supposed to be used if the car is stolen. It can see me in real time. Is this abuse? He writes down my locations.

of ending the engagement? They were both stick figures when they got engaged, but 6 to 12 months into the engagement; she started a body/booty building regimen and now looks like a fitness model, and believe me, attractive and succesful men are taking notice. A little bird told me that she's fed up with being thicker and more physically fit than her fiancé, and is flirting around with other potential suitors. I care about my friend and don't want him to get hurt. How do I convince him to get to the gym and get thicker_fitter_stronger before his bride to be breaks off the engagement? Marriage & Divorce Marriage & Divorce

The first couple of weeks we texted 24/7 now he takes hours to respond. But he said he still likes me all the same. He said his mom even wants to meet me but I don't like this taking hours to text back. I'm used to us texting all day. I understand he has a life but I have abandonment issues and I'm always afraid he will lose interest or find someone else

So this guy I know assaulted me on and I filed for a protection order. Police have been looking for him about 10 days now. They know he's evading because they called and spoke with him and the people he lives with lied and said "he doesn't live here anymore". He just moved there like a month ago and he does still live there. Anyways, his child's mother tried to reply to a message I sent her on the date of the incident "hey trying to reach you about a concern about him". She called at like 3 in the morning first which was weird the sent a few texts a few days ago like "hey girl just seeing your message get back".  Well yesterday I had a missed called (on my voicemail if they actually heard it, it's my voice -a woman). I get a "is this such and such number". I didn't reply of course especially given what's going on and I NEVER get texts like that. I did a little looking and turns out all names mentioned in that text are linked to his child's mother and a guy that works for the same company he does (same length of time too). Now most people probably don't think like me and would have said "no wrong #" but I don't. I believe that # is really his child's mothers real #.  Of course the guy that assaulted me hasn't called or texted from his personal #. I want to know what do you think he is using these people to accomplish by messaging me on multiple numbers I have? 

I'm getting a divorce, we are both in the military. Will I be liable for my spouse credit card debt? What about her car loan!? All the debt is under her name , as I always pay cash for my stuff

He's divorced do you think this sweet pair will marry

My wife is asexual and does not want sex. She was doing sex for me in the past. I did something once with another person. It was not sex and I have asked forgiveness from my wife. She states her heart is broken she does not love me any more and wants a divorce. She said the vows are broken and she doesnt love me anymore and doesnt want to be married to me. we have 2 young kids. She wants a divorce but still live together. I am the earning member she is a housewife. I am devastated, cried, she made us separate(same house) for four months and she does not want to reconcile. We have been married 10 years and I dont know what to do. I have asked her soo many times to wait. Please help!!

My fiance insists on hyphenating at most when we marry, as changing names for marriage isn't part of his culture. But I don't want to keep my father's name (even hyphenated) as we don't have a good relationship. Instead I'd like to combine my mother's name with my fiance's to make my new family name. Is this possible? Or would I have to go to court to get this change? I'm a New York resident if that changes anything. 

So first I want to start off by saying I love my husband very much and he is a kind man and the best father to our children that I could ask for.  However,  I am very frustrated over his income.  We have been together since high school and neither of us went to college.  However,  I make triple what he makes.  I am getting worn out being the one to carry our family and I cannot rely on him to really help with bills at all.  His income after we pay his car payment and car insurance, barely covers half the mortgage and our electric bill.  I think I'm more frustrated at his lack of drive to want to make more if that makes sense? I don't have a degree either but I know I am smart and have worked my behind off to get to where I am right now in work.  I constantly say well let's enroll you in school it has to be done by this date and that day will come and go and he never enrolls.  I am at my whits end and feeling really depressed.  What do I do? 

I had this dream about receiving wonderful sensations while being pleasured orally. I didn't know who it was. Then I looked down and saw it was a woman who is a good friend of my wife and I. Needless to say, I was surprised, and she continued pleasuring me. When we see her now, I can't help but think about that dream. What was wild, at a New Year's Even party, she said we "should all trade spouses at midnight". Now I'm really confused! New Year's Eve, not Even, LOL

I'm 26 and I have seen at work, friends wives, relatives cheat like is nothing. I'm not sure if I want to marry anymore, they make it look so easy and they don't even look like they would do that, I mean both men and women, but in the girl's case, they're better at hiding it. I started seeing a woman for a month, is not official yet, she says she wants something serious but I don't know anymore, I seen a lot and to top ot off I would be faithful I want to, I want a family with a wife and kids, but at the same time I'm worried I'll be seen as a sucker and get cheated on. People have always assume I'm dumb, I have aspergers and I supposed is for being a little odd. Do couples who stay a long time together, is it because they have both cheated so they are satisfied?

My mom passed away from dancer three months ago. Ever since my life has flipped upside down. My desires keep changing. I thought I wanted to get married and have kids... but now I honestly don't know. I still live at home and I don't ever want to move out. Not even after I get married (if I do.) I'm 24 years old if that's important. I've always been impatient with the dating process... but now it seems like it's at an extreme. I get frustrated with meeting new guys. I want to jump ship after only a few dates... even though I desire so badly for a deeper connection. I don't want my life to change anymore. I'm just not sure if I'm even right for marriage. Like what if it doesn't work out? Then I'm trapped. I don't believe in divorce for religious reasons. What if I marry the wrong person and I waste my life away and I'm miserable? I honestly feel like I might just be happier single. How do you know for sure you want marriage or are with the right person? I mean seriously... there's no way to tell what life will throw at you. So how can you know!? Should I call it quits with dating? I don't need grief counselling. I never needed counselling a day in my life and I'll never need it in the future.

On the weekends, I work all day until 5 and my husband is home with his 2 kids (my step). Sometimes, at night, he gives them both a bath and I clean the kitchen or whatever else needs to be done. Sometimes I do give one of them a bath, but here recently I haven't. Is it okay for him to give them both a bath and me not? One is 3 and the other is 6. I'm asking, as a wife, do I need to help give bath or do whatever else needs to be done?  

I tend to rush into relationships. I get frustrated when a guy wants to take things slow... almost anxious too. I can't stand waiting. Once I know I want something I go after it. There's no hesitation for me. So when someone shows hesitation I get bored with them quickly. My feelings for guys are passionate, but fade quickly. I don't sleep around, because I desire a deeper connection. However, I find that extremely hard to find because of my impatience. I've tried to improve but to no avail. It's just who I am. I follow my gut and I jump. I'm impulsive. I don't think I will ever change. Is it possible I can't marry because of this?

She has family there but she's mainly doing it to get me back out of jealousy the kids like me also. We've been divorced six years.

I've always liked his wife and while we won't be seeing her as often I am scared my grandmother and parents will insist I be cold as ice to her and shun her when we see her at weddings for her children. Am I wrong to stay neutral? I don't feel it's my place to be cold or judge when we've known her for 30 years. Husband and wife are both good people who were just stuck in a terrible marriage for all these years and had separated five times before.

Will she find trusting or loving the upcoming partners and her future husbands after getting dumped by many men or after being with many men freely and changing partners one after another? Will she be used to break ups n divorce and so the anyone who marries her hasto be under the fear of getting dumped or being divorced?

So my husband occasionally smokes weed. He did before we met, and a little when we dated when he went over to friend's houses. But when I got pregnant I asked him to stop. He did. Two years later we are married and he basically has a new set of work friends. For the most part I like these friends. Problem is one of them, S, came over for the first time and I smelled STRONG weed. I'm 5 months pregnant. When I went to living room I asked my husband about it and he said S had it in his pocket. When S left later that I night I got pretty mad bc I could still smell the smell which makes me nauseous. I said it was rude for his friend to just bring illegal drugs into someone's house especially not asked, and my husband said he knew and said it was ok. I got mad and said that wasn't cool. We have two toddlers and we live adjacent to the landlord and just no. He's saying I'm the dick and if I have a problem I would have to tell his friend no bc he wasn't going to be a dick.  The next Saturday, S comes over and there was no problem they had their game night and were smoking cigs before leaving. When my husband came back in after saying bye etc he was high as ****. So S didn't bring it in the house (I never spoke to him), but apparently had it in his car and then smoked in front of our house with a vape pen. I could still smell it on my husband so I got angry bc if the landlord would've walked outside we would lose everything.  So now it's Saturday again. They play every Saturday. I try and be supportive of my Husband and his friends and makes sure he games with them everyday after work. Like from when he gets home til sleep. And they come over every Saturday. Recently I've brought up us spending time and all he says is we live together so we don't need to.  Well he works with them all day (9 hours) and is home and awake only 7...so idk how his logic works. I feel unimportant. I feel he doesn't care about my concerns and only friends and doesn't wanna seem like a dick. And wants me to be the asshole. But it's illegal. And I don't wanna lose my kids or home. 

I was sick in bed one day so I overheard a conversation through the vents my mother was having with her friends downstairs. They were talking about their past adventures with other men.  When it got to my mothers turn, she was mentioning about all these people she's been with before my father. At the end she explained it away that it made her who she is today and she's a better person for it. Obviously, this didn't sit well with me.  Kind of made my stomach turn.  I see my dad's face and he just looks defeated by life.  All he does is work, and work, then work some more. And it makes me sick that she didn't give the best of herself to him meanwhile she's living it up. How do I wipe my memory of what I accidentally overheard? One more thing.  When they all said they were better people because of these past experiences, they laughed it off, almost sarcastically.

What is appropriate? Only contact for child support and visitation purposes?  Close friendship and left alone together?  Only communication is done with wife present/aware of all exchanges of words.  Keep extreme distance?  Spend time together with the offspring but without wife present? 

So I live with my parents and my mom has made it known that she does not like him and doesn't approve of our relationship she said something is off about him and she doesn't believe we will last at all.. I think she doesn't approve of it for the main reason that he has 3 kids by two different women.. he's 37 lives with his grandmother. Doesn't know how to cook but he does have a job inside the hospital. I think he's a PRN or something. I'm 27..anyways we we on the couch watching a movie on Netflix and my mom walked past the living room and didn't say anything and I whispered to my boyfriend " I'm sorry that was so rude of her" and my boyfriend was like " I didn't even notice she was walking by.. I don't care. I didn't say hey either " and I was like " I'm going to go tell her to speak" and my boyfriend got upset with me and said " don't say anything to her or I'm leaving."" I don't know why he was acting like that when the day before that he was very nice.. it's like he's nice one day and the flip switches with him the next day and he's cold.. idk what's up with that. We've been together for 4 years and my mom still hasn't warmed up to her. Now my 19 year old brother loves him though, they work out together constantly. Then another thing is that we argue constantly I guess because we have different viewpoints on everything. I don't know if he's just controlling or if we are incompatible but it doesn't matter if the issue is small or big we are arguing every single day. He seems to have an issue with women or whatever because I brought up a domestic issue relating to a friend of mines and he was like " the women in abusive relationships are at fault too because they probably provoked him." Wtf?? He was like women always wanna play victim The first time we broke up he had sex with the mother of his child in the same day .  The second time we broke up i had finally accepted we aren't meant to be. I was ready to move on but he called my phone bout 200 times crying about how he doesn't want to be without me. He said he's so ambitious because of me. He was so nice in that moment but I never know when the flip is going to switch and he's going to start being mad for no reason 

Ex wife want much money. I SAY NO. how do I legally not pay germs. She spend all money on my sons obese eating habit. He looks like McDonald ***** Boy cause he so fat. She makes 40,000 a year and has a 7 year old. It was a one night stand, she contacted me 4 months later, and on the same day handed me child support papers. I have talked to him twice and have no interest cause the mom is terrible.

I did not know this when they were married but just found it out. Sandy: I have only seen her once since they divorced 9 years ago. I was polite and brief. 

My daughter died of suicide 2 months ago I hated her she was an unwanted pregnancy I abused her both emotional and physical I also neglected her in all of her childhood my ex husband also known as her dad told me that I should be ashamed of myself for doing this but I don't have any my ex husband loved our daughter my child was a mistake last week my husband called and ask why I did not go to her funeral I told her "I am glad she died" and closed the phone everyone thinks I a selfish baby but I am not I am so happy that she died she was a little ********** and I am glad that little ***** is dead now I can celebrate oh and by the way this is not a troll ANSWER MY QUESTION NOW!!!!!1

Please don't judge me for anything I am about to say. Sometimes I want marriage, but other times I don't. I don't like wearing rings. I find them uncomfortable. I wouldn't want to wear a wedding ring because it would always be bothering me. I don't like the idea of moving out of my parents house. It's the only house I've ever lived in and all my memories are there. It's like a connection to my mom in heaven, you know? Not to mention my dad is getting older and is health isn't getting any better. I would like to be there for him like I was for mom and living at home makes sure of that. So if I do get married I would want my husband to move in with me, which I'm not sure if any guy in this generation would be ok with. I also don't sleep well when I'm sleeping with someone. I've shared a bed with boyfriends a few times, but I felt awful the next morning because I was always tossing and turning. I would prefer to have separate beds if I get married. I also am nontraditional in the way I think. I would want separate bank accounts and I refuse to change my last name. I would need to find a partner that could agree to all of this, which I have no doubt will be hard to do. I keep wavering on the idea of children as well. I'm afraid that will put tension in a relationship and might eventually cause a divorce. These are just a few reasons why I feel like I'm not right for marriage. Do you agree? I know I won't change. This is just who I am. It's my personality. So I guess being unmarried is my best option. Thank you!

Would you date someone or be in a committed relationship who believed in Polygamy, And or Hedonism? Why or why not ?

I have 2 little step kids and a lot of the times he gives them a bath while I clean kitchen after supper. Is it okay that I sometimes don't help give bath? I have given the oldest a shower before but recently he has given both a shower/bath. Is this okay on my part? 

My parents are together but they have never been married. I'm 16 now.

I have 2 little step kids and a lot of the times he gives them a bath while I clean kitchen after supper. Is it okay that I sometimes don't help give bath? I have given the oldest a shower before but recently he has given both a shower/bath. Is this okay on my part? 

My daughter died of suicide 2 months ago I hated her she was an unwanted pregnancy I abused her both emotional and physical I also neglected her in all of her childhood my ex husband also known as her dad told me that I should be ashamed of myself for doing this but I don't have any my ex husband loved our daughter my child was a mistake last week my husband called and ask why I did not go to her funeral I told her "I am glad she died" and closed the phone everyone thinks I a selfish baby but I am not I am so happy that she died oh and by the way this is not a troll Answers my question 

Me and my wife still married for along time abandon me and my 2 son's got a place together with another guy but tell me she still loves me and always love me but don't want to be with me right now and don't want to give me a chance right now what do i do ?

Iife is short and marriage have a lot of struggle. Having a boyfriend makes it even hard !

Guy tried sex on 2nd/3rd dates but I wasn't ready. Now into 3rd month, we've just been making out. I guess he wants me to initiate? He knows that I only had sex 4 times (within 3 months) with my previous ex. Am I being harsh/a prude? Would he think I'm not attracted?

I have four children, ages 6, 3 and 6 months (twins). My current job has a unique perk where I can take up to 3 years of childcare leave (unpaid of course). My current job also has a commute of 1.5 to 2.5 hours each way depending on traffic (don't move to the west coast!). We moved recently to be closer to my husband's family, so I haven't ever actually done the commute. My husband does it daily. I went back to work full time after each of my first two children and I hated using daycare for them. Never thought the workers gave a ****. I didn't have the opportunity to take a childcare leave then. No family is willing to help. I also enjoy being home with them. Unfortunately, taxes increased a lot in my area and I'm considering options. We went from being able to save $3k/month to saving just over $1k/month. Seems really low with four kids. What would you do? 1. Stay home with them until the youngest are 3 years old. Save $1k/month and go back to old job at that point. 2. Go back to old job now, save $6k/month after paying for childcare. 3. Take new, lower level job that is a one hour each way commute, save $4k/month.

A man has contacted me twice. Via email and text message , seeking sexual relations with me . I asked him to end all communication with me , yet he still contacts me. I have saved , all of the emails , texts and pictures that he has sent . Need I contact his wife and inform her of this ? In what way should I contact her without it seeming like I am stalking her or doing anything illegal?

We've been on 10 dates and he tried on 2nd/3rd dates but I wasn't ready then. I feel ready now but am afraid he will leave. Or is it better to do it now rather than later when I am more emotionally invested?