It is like they are killing a part of us, the part of us that is family. I feel like I would if one committed suicide in the family. I feel anger at the hurt they are causing and how selfish they are being even though the marriage was troubled so their minds are not in the right place. I am 29 and is this wrong of me to feel angry at them for killing a part of me, the part that is them? I am not going to be mean to them or refuse to speak to them or anything like that, I am just mad in private but don't show it when around them. I feel they have failed their 4 children. They even have two grandkids and who gets divorced when they have been together so long they have grandkids? I feel that is just wrong. I understand divorces after 5 years of marriage and stuff like that where it just doesn't work. By 34 years and two grandkids by their son? It is unreal to me.  So do I have the right to be mad? Divorce is final end of February. They split last June. 

I find myself in this position. She is not only accusing me of cheating, but she is also taunting me with the possibility she might be doing that to me. Whenever I confront her about it, her behavior and tell her exactly what I think of it and what it means, she accuses me more, changes the subject, particularly to something that highlights my faults as a man. I try to argue back, but she twists what I say to make it seem like something else, or launches into a tirade of what I have done wrong, or things of that nature, and then I get all confused and start trying to justify myself.

My wife has been spending alot of time with her friend paul from work. I from the get go wasn't in to it but since she told me he was gay I allowed it. As time went on I became less and less fine with her having a male friend even if he was gay and eventually told her she wasn't allowed to see him. When my wife was told she wasn't allowed to see him she acted like a little brat "what gives you the right to tell me who I can and can't hang out with!?" she squealed even though we agreed when she married me that wifes should obey their husband's, I reminded her of this and she told me she doesn't remember saying that meaning not only was she still going to see this guy even though she knows how it makes me feel but she's been lying and deceiving me for over a year now. Every time she was going to hang out with him I kept reinforcing how it made me feal but she didn't give two shits, it was like my love and how I felt meant nothing to her. I eventually told her that if she was going to show that she cared this little about me and our marriage that I was going to leave and have now been staying at my friend's house for 2 weeks. Yesterday she came over and put on this whole crying show about how sorry she was and even said she was willing to lose all her friends if it meant keeping me. I want to forgive my wife but am not sure if I can trust her after she lied for all that time and seemed to show that she cared very little about me. What should I do?

Husband and I just got married, I'm already bored. It started out great but now we fight all the time and honestly I'm just so bored out of my mind. Were sharing the car right now and his job takes priority. Hes gone usually 5-5 M-F and I havent been working very much, I know being in the house all day doesnt help me not be bored but he comes home from work and doesnt want to do anything. He'll come back and wants to nap on me and I just want some attention and love and he just naps. Sometimes we'll watch a movie but it's incredibly boring and then he'll just get up after its done and play video games for the remaining few hours before he goes to bed. I just feel like I'm trapped at the house all day and when he gets home he doesnt want to do anything. we dont have any money to do fun things, I've tried to get him to hike with me or do literally anything even walk around target or something but he refuses. What do I do, any Ideas? Help! I love him but holy jesus I'm bored.

My husband is 29 im 25 and he rejects me sexually. I initiate sex all the time he barely does it. Honestly this wasn't an issue before we married now I'm just annoyed and fustrated with him. The more he rejects me the less i want him. I don't know what to do anymore. I feel defeated. I never reject him and it hurts that he does. Honestly I've gotten to the point that I don't care about sex anymore and he is okay with it. Should we divorce?

My husband is diabetic and refuses to eat properly. He has horrific gas which when confronted about gets angry and says that it is a normal bodily function. He does not care when he passes gas or where. If we have company or not, he refuses to even step out of the room. Is this childish? Or am I being childish for having such a problem with it? I mean it is literally makes one want to vomit. I have asked him to take beano and he freaks out. I recently asked him if he thinks it is OK to stink out anyone and everyone around him? He replied with apparently we where raised in different types of households. Why would you open up that can of worms? What type of people raise someone who just rips *** everywhere?   

I was wondering why they were constantly going to nudist getaways as I was growing up.  Always taught that was kind of gross.  My parents aren't exactly spring chickens either. But this explains everything!

I have to hand it to wifey.  She wore me out so much last night that I almost missed the bus to work this morning!  I didn't even have tine to wash off the sex sweats! But ladies, this stiff like cologne or something?  Been gettin the googoo eyes all day!  Maybe I have a shimmering glow traits irresistible. What's your experience on the mater? Been so sore too.  Like a workout every night.  I'm not used to this much frequency if I'm honest. Before our negotiations, one a week. Now every night sometimes twice.  Don't know how much longer I can keep this up fellas! U can blame typos on Apple stupid auto correct.

My ex-wife opened an account with an unnamed company in my name during our marriage without my knowledge. After the divorce I found out about the unpaid debt as the collectors came after me as the account was in my name. I paid the debt off but can I write this debt off on my tax return? And if so what form would I use?

Hi I'm thinking of giving my hubby a surprise . For years hubby has had the fantasy of watching me with a much younger guy, it's his favorite fantasy. For years when we talk dirty that has been the subject lol. After 30 years of marriage I finally feel secure enough to make it a reality without worrying about it harming our relationship. But I'm uncertain on how much of the details that we talk about I should make a reality for example how young of a guy I should consider in reality. What we talk about in fantasy may be too taboo for reality lol . Have any other ladies done anything like this ? Was it a success or something you regretted ?

Will his approach be very impactfull on that night, therby causing him to be under great pressure and inside fear of being like fool in front of her that night?

I'm getting ready to go to war with my unit.  I need tips on how to shoot faster to take down the enemies multiple targets. I've never been a minute man but prolong my battle by choice.   Problem is, I've been doing it so long this way that I forgot how to do a quickie. Also, I've been told by the majority of ladies on this board that they don't like going too long and this an undesirable trait. Have any tips for my issue? BTW a very long battle last night.  She almost won. At least she didn't faint this time either

I'm 42 and have a little daughter age 5, my ex-wife told me no visitation rights nor lawyer are required because we divorced in good will, we don't hate each other, she said i could visit my girl and take her with me Fri-Sun, do you think I should formalize it by a lawyer or not?, thank you and sorry for any spelling mistake i'm not native and my native tongue Yahoo! Answers is barely active. 

Married guy here!  I'm open to these possibilities! But where are these broads hiding? Fellas, any tips?

Maybe I'm jealous of the amount of flings she had in her lifetime and how easily she gave it away. People on here are calling me crazy for thinking and asking how a mother could have ever behaved this way in the past. I guess my only solution is to become a nympho too.  If you can't beat them, join them! Does this mean I should see a shrink?

He took advantage of me by getting me drunk in his house. I knew my awareness. I might have been put in a vulnerable state but I had a choice to stop or not. I thought i was his friend as we work together and hang out a lot but obviously he had a plan all along. I feel guilty but I'm not sure if I'm guilty because I'm scared of what people would think of me if they knew. Or if i actually feel bad what i did. Help thanks.   

I have. I stupidly went into have a drink with a married neighbor and he ended up coming onto me and i didn't say no even though i wanted to run away. It acknowledge it was a one off, and accident. Have you ever slept with married people?  In the sense of other married people not ones that you're married too lol funny comments down below. 

Just like the past lovers before your husband, an extra notch isn't going to cause a catastrophe. Even now when we have an outbreak threatening humanity, are you going to tell me you still want half just because somebody made a fond memory? Am I right?

I had an old HS bf in 11th grade (Jeff my true love) but my parents opposed our relationship so much. They didn't like that he wasn't motivated in going to college and like going to clubs on the weekends. I know his family couldn't afford his college tuition. My parents successfully broke us up when I was a college freshman (but we remained as friends and still talk sometimes) and set me up with an engineer; Kevin. I do admit, he was/still is a decent man but I would still think about Jeff even when we were having sex. I would fake an orgasm. 2 years later, my parents and everyone else were excited about our wedding, everyone but me. I wanted to say no when he popped the question but couldn't. I figure that maybe in time I'll come to loving him and that I can't wait too long to have a child. I proceeded and went along with the religious ceremony, miserable within in, lying to the priest and everyone else; keeping the lie to myself. I'm still not in love with Kevin. I guess that's worse than cheating. I've already cheated him years of his life. I don't deserve him. He doesn't deserve me. He'll be devastated. Or should I continue my married life and give it more time. I still think and dream about Jeff when we're having sex. Jeff respects my marriage but if he were to knock on my door right now, I would think about escaping with him, agreed with shared custody with my child and leaving Kevin.

My step-son's oldest daughter is almost 4. My wife and I have been getting here roughly every other weekend since she was about a month old. Dad is, for lack of a better word, a deadbeat. He was in and out of jail a good portion of her first few months of life. He pays no child support and actually got another girl pregnant a few years ago so he has 2 kids he doesn't support. Like I say, my wife and I have been getting the oldest one since she was born. She's grown very attached to us and I think the world of her. She sleeps in the bed with me and my wife when she comes over. Well, step son has made a case with his mom that he wants her this weekend all to himself. My wife sent me a text to say, "Jr wants his baby this weekend and he has a right to have her." Whenever we get her we always make sure he sees her for a visit but we never let him keep her overnight for various reasons. He has no transportation and doesn't work enough to keep much money in his pocket. Plus, the fact that he suffers from seizures and we don't want to take the risk of him having a seizure alone while he's got her. Our nephew, my wife's sister, is having her son's b-day party tomorrow night at one of these trampoline places and she wants us to come. She sent out a group text. My step son replies, "Me and (insert name) will be there." Again, he's got no transportation and I am the one who picks her up after I get off work on those Fridays, so she'll be with us. My wife thinks that we should pay for her to get into the trampoline park then he'll take her for the weekend.  Am I wrong to think that if he wants her and he should be responsible for paying for her as well? Yes, I have a VERY special relationship with this little girl simply because we've had her so much and she sleeps in the bed with us ever since she was about a month old.  We've seen her grow and I love her to death.  Step-son did live with us for a while but when he left she continued to come to our place on the weekends.  I don't want anything to happen to her and I just don't trust my step-son's judgement here based on his past actions.  

How can i be sure my husband takes his medicine in the morning to prevent his seizures? He has to take one pill in the morning and one at night. He tells me recently hes been skipping taking the morning pill. A few days ago he was telling me he wants to get a stronger medicine because he still feels headaches but no seizures. Well really? Thats because he skips his morning medicine (i am still asleep when he wakes up we both have totally different work schedules him day shift me night shift.) What should i do to make sure he takes his medicine in the morning? Im sure skipping his morning medicine is causing the headache he complains about. He has trouble telling me things like this because he says the last thing he wants to do is get me to worry me (his words) but how can I help him as a wife if he doesnt tell me whats bothering him?? Should i wake up at 5am when he gets up to give it to him and go back to bed when he leaves for work?

I am a 27 year old man. 2 months ago, I married a woman in an arranged marriage. I never met her before the marriage. After 2 days of our marriage, she started showing weird behavior. When she got normal, I confirmed about it and she revealed that she was possessed by a demon before our marriage. However, she and her family never revealed this secret to us fearing that our family might reject her. When this proposal came to my family, we accepted her. Even I didn't deny, because I wanted an arranged marriage only. However, my entire family was unaware of her secret. We came to know about it only when she came here i.e after our marriage. We feel like that we are being cheated or something. Nothing's working neither doctors medicine nor priest prayers. Please advise me guys. My life is in a mess. I am staying with her with this fear daily. 

I am 22 years old and I was wondering if i could get married to a normal boy. I know how do to everything like a normal person I got my full driving licence and job and my own car . I can do all the house work and cooking  cleaning taking care of my personal hygiene.  But my parents are concerned  😐 when I get married in the future.   I also can speak normally  

My husband grew up with this girl and when we first met she went crazy and tried to break us up for 1.5 years before giving up and finding other things to do. She's known for being a home wrecker. She got run out of our area for cheating with multiple married people... 3 years ago.... she lies and says she got a "great job" in a new place... but really she was forced out.  She made my life hell - Eventually he had to cut her off as a friend. Which was a long depressing process for him. she would stalk us and call over and over. Play like her life was falling apart for attention. anything. Neighbors caught her driving by our house up to 7 times a day, parking in their driveways to watch us (not so stealthy...) My sister just had a baby and named it after this horrible person from my husband and i's past!!!! It bothers me so badly. I don't know how to get over it. 

If you yourself never did what was your reason? In our case it was financial. I'm a stay at home spouse and my partner decided he can't stop working or else money would be tight.

  When we making love I ask her if she wants to have a black man with her she didn't said anything but she's getting very hot very hot

We have sex. We were spooning yesterday and one thing lead to another and while having sex in that position he covered my mouth and stuck his fingers in. It made me feel kind of awkward shy.  Is that normal behavior or is that considered weird?