Ok please don't judge me bc this was all not supposed to happen the way it did. He didn't tell me had a wife until too late.  Basically he's been cheating on his wife with me for 3months! We saw each other & talked ALL the time. I was very EXTREMELY inexperienced when I came to sex & he even mentioned that but he has been "teaching me". So my question is.    If you cheat on someone you love with someone who isn't even that good in bed & keep doing it consistently then do you really love your SOS? A lot of ppl say ppl cheat for SEX ONLY. But it doesn't seem to be the case here since I'm not even good at it & we don't do it EVERY time we see each other.  He wants to be with his wife & act so in love but it's really sickening.   How do you cheat on your wife every day then act like nothing happened.     When I found out he had a wife I was SHOOK . I added her on Snapchat with a fake account & he would be all over her the way he was with me .... etc etc.    I don't talk to him anymore but I just wanna know.

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Will he ever just be calm and rational 24/7. I feel like there's two sides to him and I never know which side I'm gonna get.. just the other day he was talking about how he's in love with me and how he can't imagine his life without me.. he said I motivate him.. then today I got a new phone and my boyfriend texts me and goes  " call me"" and I was like ok" and he's like " now." And so I was trying to figure out how to work my new phone because it was a different kind of phone than I was used to and my boyfriend seemed extremely impatient and frustrated with me. He ended up calling me before I had the chance to call him and he was like " what took so long to call.""  My mom and dad haven't really warmed up to him even though we've been together for 4 years. My mom constantly tells me I need to find someone else.. I remember when we were watching Netflix in the living room and my mom walked in and didn't say hello and I told my boyfriend I was sorry on her behalf for not speaking.. I was like " I'm gonna tell my mom to speak" and he was like " don't say a word or I'm leaving.. I honestly didn't even notice she was there. It's not bothering me because I didn't see her walk in."  I just don't understand because when he I nice he's the nicest most supportive person ever but seems like he'll randomnly get mad at me or get little attitudes and I don't understand why. I just hope I don't have to live with his black and white attitude forever.. I just want him to consistently be nice to me

Hi everyone so I am a father and I have an only child who is 21 years old. He lives with his mother out of state while he is in his second year of college and he has a job. We had gotten into a fight back in October when he was ignoring my wife's texts and mine. I was paying for his phone bill and he told me he didn't want to talk me so I called him a spoiled brat and told his mom that I will no longer be financially helping them. His mom lashed out on my and called me a jackass. I no longer pay for his phone. He pays for more things now and we had made up but it seems like he never calls me or my wife. The only time I will hear from him is if I initiate the contact. He used to be a happy kid that wanted to see me what happened?

Hi everyone so I work at an office doing janitorial services for my boss. I would like to become an administrative assistant but my boss turned me down a few times saying that I am too good at what I do even though I hate Janitorial. My wife has also been complaining that our marriage has been stale since we got together 5 years ago. I think that  the only other option is to give my boss what he wants as well as my wife in order to get what I want. I don't care who I hurt. I just want to have another position because I hate this job.

I have no children, and was married for under a year. I have no idea where he is or have contact to him or any of his family.  I can not afford a lawyer. I'm not sure how to proceed in this Also I bought my property in 2011 way before we met each or even married. Is my property at risk? He was never on the title and it was bought before marriage. I live in ILLINOIS  Any advice would be greatly appreciated 

If they are soooo unhappy why not just be in a relationship with the dude they cheated with? That makes the most sense to me. I've heard so many stories about women who are treated better by their side dude. They always talk about how he listens well he is kind compassionate etc so why on earth would you not get with him? I know divorce is expensive but I wouldn't wanna be unhappy for life either 

Ok, I am pretty messed up. I am interviewing for a role right now and I have a good feeling I will get it. It's out of state and I had 2 interviews over video and now they invited me down. It's a pretty good opportunity and could be very beneficial for me career wise. I have a family of 2 kids (3 and 7 years) and a husband. My husband won't go because he makes great money where we are. I'd have to go without him. I am not worried he'd cheat or anything like that but I do worry that I'd basically be a single parent with 2 kids. The job is a director level position of a private preschool, so my youngest will be set. However, I would have to pull my oldest out of her school and quickly find her a new one. She is pretty well settled here but she's gone to other schools and day cares, so she adjusts fast. Husband is pushing me to do it as it's one of those jobs that you don't get on your doorstep often. We're in a rural area here, so jobs are hard to come by and also don't pay that well. I've been essentially staying at home working part-time since the kids were born. What to do, I have no clue! We're not struggling. He makes great money here. I think it's more about me finding myself too. I don't want to be a homemaker and be a part-time worker for pennies. I want a career too. We are struggling as a couple some, but that's a different topic. He wants me to go and leave me oldest daughter here! No way I'll do that. Especially because he travels for work and can be gone for a few days to a week! great answers, thank you. He's supportive because it's a great opportunity. We've actually talked about some day starting our own school and this would be a great way to learn more and be prepared to do this next step. I am just trying to get back on my feet after raising my kids. Nobody here even wants to hire me despite work history and degrees, but that's whatever. So this job is on the line and it's a good investment for me. He says he wants to stay together in the end and make it work.

For the most part my boyfriend has treated me horribly the entire 6 years we've been together. He also cheated on me twice the first year we were together. I was constantly getting messages from other females about him. but since I started talking to this new man I noticed my boyfriend has been nicer.. it's almost like he can sense I'm about to leave him. Even though he doesn't know I'm talking to this man. He doesn't know anything because we don't live together and I delete all the text before I see my boyfriend.i also make sure to only have the guy come over late at night when I know my boyfriend is sleep. Don't judge me but I am currently in a relationship. Yes I know it's wrong to be cheating. It just happened honestly we were friends at first and then our connection started to get stronger and stronger because we were texting constantly and then the next thing you know we had sex but only once. He said he loved me and I said I loved him. Do you think a man would Talk to a woman who he just wanted sex with 24/7? And he seems genuinely interested in my life and my goals and said he's been rejecting women because he's so used to me. We've only been talking for like a month, I've seen him 3 times. I wanted to see him again and give him a small gift I bought for him but my period was on at the time and he was like "you probably shouldn't be seeing anyone while your period is on and while you're in a lot of pain.you should Probably rest  He was like " I like to show people my appreciation I don't wanna just take your gift and run off.  I just wanted to see him.. I didn't even care if he ran off after 5 minutes..  He's a truck driver so literally driving 90% of the time. Crazy how I be missing him more than my boyfriend. 

Why did she have to exist why did my son have to get married I never wanted him to ever get married I wanted to be together only woman in his life do it he is a kind man why did my son have to marry her? I just want my son all for myself:( and I hate seeing her face her voice is soft and moist like her families I tell my son to leave her so I can keep my son all to myself but he won't what do I do if you think that this is a troll it is not I am being serious

My husband and I have been married for 7 1/2 months. He has 2 kids that are 2 & 5. We keep the 2 year old during the daytime and don't see the 5 year old until the weekend. Anyway, a lot of times he and I, but mostly him, works until 11pm and when we or he gets home, he just wants to eat or watch tv and go to bed. We both watch tv a lot of times at night and then go to bed. Sometimes we don't even kiss each other for days. If we both go to bed @ same time, we won't kiss goodnight, but if I go to bed before him, we do. Is it okay that some days/ nights we don't even show affection or kiss? I don't want to nag on him about it because we are both worn out by the end of the day. Is this okay? Is this normal in couples who work and have children? We do have sex 1-2 times a week. 

I've been married for 9 years. We have been having issues for about 2 years. She has had health problems recently. She can't work so I've been the one working. We lost our house because she couldn't work and I don't make enough money so we now live in a small apartment. we both where chill and never fought before her health issues but now we both get angry over small stuff. We never have sex and if we do it's more for me then her. I want her to enjoy it. She has gained at least 100 pounds since we have been together. Never showers or brush her teeth. She would rather watch tv than visit with me or go do something other than stay inside. The apartment is very messy I've tried to to clean up but it gets messy again. Last week she said that I should have sex with someone else and she's okay with it. I was shocked and uncomfortable with that. She isn't the same person I married. I'm afraid the health stuff has made her depressed and she has given up on life. We talked about counseling but she never makes an appointment. I went for a couple months. I don't know what to do. 

I am thinking about letting this guy I am dating know that we need to slow things down until his divorce if finalized. He and his wife do not see each other getting back together ever, but His wife have been very slow with getting the divorce to proceed and I dont want to get to deep into the relationship and get stuck with a married man. I need to tell him but a little afraid..... I don't want to let him all go completley because he is a wonderful guy and the penis is soo good.

My bf is going through a divorce and told me today that his wife daughter( shes 10) was in the city and that they were spending some hours together. I told him that he should not be spending time with his use to be step daughter if he has moved on from his wife and her family. Am I overreacting? There is nothing wrong with a small chit chat and see ya later, but hanging out is playing the family man. He does not see a problem with it. He also calls the little girl his step daughter which I told him it is not. He needs to leave his wife side of the family alone for good.

He lives two hours away from me (it's a long story and I don't feel like elaborating on every detail) he's been abusive to me in every form even now during my pregnancy. He's never cared about my address and never bothered coming to visit me before. But the other day he called me and demanded for my address in a nasty way. I did give him the address because I didn't want to hear his abusive stuff and didn't think anything of it. But now as I reflect alone I realized that I made a mistake. 

My husband and I have been together for 7 1/2 months. He has 2 kids that are 2 & 5. We keep the 2 year old during the daytime and don't see the 5 year old until the weekend. Anyway, a lot of times he and I, but mostly him, works until 11pm and when we or he gets home, he just wants to eat or watch tv and go to bed. We both watch tv a lot of times at night and then go to bed. Sometimes we don't even kiss each other for days. If we both go to bed @ same time, we won't kiss goodnight, but if I go to bed before him, we do. Is it okay that some days/ nights we don't even show affection or kiss? I don't want to nag on him about it because we are both worn out by the end of the day. Is this okay? Is this normal in couples who work and have children? We do have sex 1-2 times a week. 

He's never complained about her before even though my mom is had spats with her. My dad expects us to hold the same grudge as he holds. I'm not mad at this woman as it's a marriage that was doomed from the start.  My dad wants me to be though it seems like.   They do have three kids

My husband and I have been together for 7 1/2 months. He has 2 kids that are 2 & 5. We keep the 2 year old during the daytime and don't see the 5 year old until the weekend. Anyway, a lot of times he and I, but mostly him, works until 11pm and when we or he gets home, he just wants to eat or watch tv and go to bed. We both watch tv a lot of times at night and then go to bed. Sometimes we don't even kiss each other for days. If we both go to bed @ same time, we won't kiss goodnight, but if I go to bed before him, we do. Is it okay that some days/ nights we don't even show affection or kiss? I don't want to nag on him about it because we are both worn out by the end of the day. Is this okay? Is this normal in couples who work and have children? We do have sex 1-2 times a week. 

Short version: I'm the only one working and making money but I consider the money ours. But I feel like I deserve to indulge myself once in awhile. Is it wrong for me to selfishly spend money on useless stuff when I don't let her spend it on useless stuff? Long version: So I told my wife I pre-ordered a $70 Final Fantasy VIII remake for my PS4. I've liked this game since I was 10 (18 years ago) and basically wishing for it my whole life. So it means a lot to me. She asked why I can spend that money but she can't. She wants to get a tattoo.  Our financial situation was better last month with less bills. But since 2020's mandatory health insurance, there's $400 off my paycheck. We're not broke but will barely have about $100/month to put in savings. So buying this game means $70 less savings for that month. We also have a 6 month old baby but he has his own checking account so baby stuff don't really affect our finances. I also have a tendency of playing a new game for a few days and losing interest. My PS4 has been collecting dust since last August 😬 But I feel like I'll like this game enough to not lose interest. I'm also the only one who's working and making money. I feel like I deserve to spend it on myself sometimes... Or am I being selfish? I'm new to this whole "we" "ours" mindset but is this situation really that bad. Anyway we had an argument and she's now in the bedroom while I'm in the living room thinking about whether I should apologize or she should. SOS!