I am getting married in June but due to my bridesmaids having different preferred hairstyles and hair types and length, I was wondering if it would look ok for all bridesmaid to have different hair styles! They will all be in the same dress except for the MOH. My hair will be up! I just want to know if there's certain etiquette or protocol to follow as a bridal party!

I was born and raised in a western country but my family still retains some traditions from the old country. I met a wonderful man from Bosnia who is also like me. Raised in the west but still from another culture. We both kind of felt different from most westerners. We dated for 18 months before we got engaged, and then he met my parents. It all went well, they liked him, and it was no problem. The next big step was for our parents to meet and discuss the wedding and things like that. I never imagined it would be an issue. In our culture the man's family usually pays a dowry. They don't have those things in their culture anymore. They are far more progressive than we are. I talked to my dad about it beforehand and explained this to him and told him to go easy on some traditional things. We started talking about the dowry and it quickly took a downturn. His parents took great offense. His father said: "So let me see if I get this straight. You want us to pay for the wedding, give a traditional wedding gift in gold, pay a $15,000 dowry, then they need help with the down payment for an apartment. You are putting a lot of value on your daughter. He needs to bring all of these things to the marriage and your family brings what exactly?" Safe to say that things didn't go well. I was furious with my dad. We talked about them paying a symbolic sum of money, not $15,000. Now our families are arguing. I don't know what to do?

My dress is silver, it stops at my knees in the front and flows down to my feet in the back.... I love it, however my fiancees grandma says it needs to be white and long, his mom just does not like me or the dress so she says whatever her mother in law says. Anytime anything comes up she blesses me out. What do I do about the dress? The wedding is Sunday.