Our first date was back in early November....but guy said we have been dating for 2 months. Does this mean he was dating others in November, but didn't decide to go exclusive until later?

I'm always friendzoned or men that do date me "don't want to rush." The recent guy I'm dating has told his parents about me, but he also don't want to rush/scared of thinking about the future. How do I find a man that will love me? They think Im a nice girl.

We started dating in November and then in December, he asked if I would want to move in with him. I think I had a shocked expression since we aren't even BF/GF yet. A few days later, I asked him about it and he said the landlord isn't allowing it. Now in January, he wants us to date more. He said "I don't feel comfortable to move in together right now."

I must say i already know my actions were selfish. Im married to a kind man who is a good provider. Hes boring and hardly ever talks to me and addicted to porn. He was always emotionally unavailable. So yes i met someone else and am i think in love. Hes fun and has alot of friends but sells weed and lives with his mom a few days a week and then rents his sisters old house in the country where he wants me to move in. I said yes but havent in three years and things i noticed about the area i do not like. But since i had agreed to pay half the rent i have been paying it. If i divorce it would leave my husband broke. I already saw an attorney. I have a job i like and living alone would mean giving up the house i love. I regret cheating but my husband has always been distant and my marriage loveless. Do i choose my home that's near my job and a loveless marriage to a hard worker but a porn addict  or the other guy and live in a ghetto with an alcoholic weed dealer in his sisters house and pay rent and use up all my money and have nothing. Yes i know im stupid.

All this happened within the past 7 months. I went through my mans phone & seen some messages from about 4/5 females, I found empty condom wrappers in his room at his dads house, we had an std scare, ended up being BV, we unfortunately had an abortion, found out he cheated and gave me an std. I decided to stay and work things out. He was definitely apologetic and has been trying his best to work on our relationship- which I appreciate. However, I found another condom, unopened, in his dirty clothes- which he brought from his dads house, his dad does have different women so it could of been one of his lady friends and I know for a fact they're not his sisters. I did ask, he said he does not know who's they are or how they got in there. The condom, I'm just paranoid from what I've seen before, but I still don't know how to feel or how to approach this. I'm still in the process of healing from my own personal trauma, the abortion, infidelity/std, hormones from birth control and now this! Seems like there's always an explanation for something! Any advice, logical and positive, I would appreciate. The old me would cheat right back or leave, I'm trying to go about things differently than I have in the past. Thanks in advance! -A Former Cheater

So it goes like this. Me and my wife are married for 4 years and we have baby who is 3 years old now.  Since being pregnant my wife has never allowed me to have sex with her. Whenever I keep insisting to have sex, she turns it down, sometime even doesn't allow me to touch her.  It has become so torturous, that I feel like going out and having sex with some one else. But I am unable to do this because of being guilty of cheating!  Can some one tell what should I do?

Ok so My boyfriend usually stops by my job on my breaks and waits till i come out so we can eat and spend time together. Well this time some coworkers of mine told me that they saw him talking to "the biggest whor3 at the job" and that he went up to her car and started talking to her. I asked the woman about it and she said yes he came up to her car and started flirting and talking. Im so embarrassed. Its all over my job! What to do? I know i didnt see it with my own eyes because i came outside my job a little later than usual but as much as i dont want to believe them something inside me does. We've been together 5 years. 

He's giving me a promise ring? What kind of marriage is based on spiritual beliefs without the government and law?

26 and 27 year old. Dated for 6 years, proposed a few months ago and we got married last week(legally no wedding yet.) . We live in separate houses. She's always been quiet, shy and emotionless. I am a very attached person and emotional.  She shows love for her 1 year old puppy and always wants to be home to play with him, while I just stay at home hoping she'd show me that affection instead. We had many talks about this and nothing changes.  We had an argument last week about a decision I made would be best for us and our future together. She disagreed and there we said goodnight. (nothing to do with the dog. = We haven't talked in a week. I see her showing 0 emotions that she wants to talk or even hang out. When I'm over here wanting to message her and hang out etc. I just want to test how long she will keep her pride up. But she's the person that doesn't show emotions, and the sad part is that she doesn't event try, it's just part of her person to be cold.  What should I do. Did I marry the wrong person, I love this girl but she's not satisfying me in almost anyway. She rather be with her dog at home.

My husband kissed me on the cheek when I left work. Does a kiss on cheek differ from lips? Any idea what it could mean?

My mom is very much Christian, but like most humans, she nitpicks.  One of her strong beliefs is to allow the husband to be the leader of the household, and even more than that, the dictator.  Because of this, she has allowed my dad to run her whole life. She can't make many or any decisions without him. She actually makes more money than he does. In fact, she makes the bulk of it. She gets a hefty monthly bonus and for decades he's taken it from her and spent it on himself.  I just recently found out about that, and I was shocked.  I've been married to my husband for a year and 3 months, and some of the things I've learned from much older married couples is so surprising, I feel naive for being in such disbelief.  I mean, I expect this from couples that have been together for as long as my grandparents. But not people my parent's age.  My father has, in short, eaten up her life. And to a similar extent, mine.  I tell my own husband about these things and he is just as surprised as I am. I tell him what I'm about to do if I know it's going to affect him. He doesn't control me, he doesn't tell me what to do unless it's incredibly important and the same goes to him.   My mom has told me in the past that if she could go back in time she would marry better even if that meant never having me. And she loves me to the point of hovering, so, to say that she must feel a lot of emotional pain that's built up over time. And I feel so badly for her. 

I apologized to wife for not being mentally tough enough to remain monogamous until death.  Up till now, I've been the one doing all the mental gymnastics and avoiding getting into trouble with the ladies. Anyhow, she understands my situation now and agrees to open the marriage up to satisfy the urge. I asked in a previous question for advice from you highly experienced "ladies" on how I should build fond memories but of course I was disappointed: You can do better.  Don't let all that experience go to waste! So what should I do?  Go to a low end sleazy establishment or go for the high end couples vip treatment?

Does it mean she enjoyed everything with her exes and surrendered fully to them and trusted them more compared to her present husband with who she only settled for materialistic things or security after getting dumped by all her exes for her nature?

I was recently offered a new job in a different state. And the job agreed to take BOTH of us if they could have me work for them ( husband and I both have the same job and currently works for the same company.) Right now together we bring in only about 8k a month together and for the new company we'd bring in 11k together while being in a area where cost of living is even lower. While being able to have a great night life because Atlanta is less than a hour drive away (we are both 23 so that's pretty fun) After I brought it up to him he flat out said no because the company didn't want him, but agreed to take us both but I'd hold a higher position. This is a huge opportunity for me career wise and for us financially. But he's basically having a jealous moment. What to do?

My husband and I are getting separated and he has already moved into a different house, although he refused to sign the separation paperwork. I was wondering if I legally had to let him into my house. It was originally my house that I lived in for 12 years before we got married. I live in North Carolina. 

I ran into my ex wife Connie's brother at a party and he told me Connie was getting married. Since we are on friendly terms, I thought it appropriate, I sent her a nice wedding gift and a note wishing her a long, happy marriage. I got a thank you note from her telling me how much she liked the gift. The note also ask me not to contact her again as her new husband did not want her to have any contact with other men, especially me. I email her that I understood and I did not want to cause her any problems with her marriage. I had not heard from her for over a year when she called me. She ask if she could stay with me while she was getting a divorce. I told her I did not think that was a good idea. I would however help her find an apartment where she could live. I was thinking having a married woman live with me while she was still married might cause us both problems. Then she told me she was the victim of domestic violence and was afraid her husband might hurt her or something ever worse. I told her to come to my house to stay for a while and not tell ANYONE where she was. I hope I made the right decision. Do you think I did? What should I do now to help her live on her on?

Nobody judge me okay I know it's awful. Right now I'm not in a situation where I can leave or else I'll be homeless because my husband made sure to keep all of the emergency money locked up in a secret account. He's hit me more times than I can count. I figured it's better to be hit then homeless so I just obey to what he says and pray that the punches wear thin with him. Recently I got involved with a man that started off as just emotional affair then turned physical. He made me feel good about myself, he made me feel conffident, brought back my self esteem, made me feel beautiful, he made me laugh, he brought back life into my eyes. He brought life into my soul. And I never thought he just wanted sex because we always talked until the sun came up. I figured if a man only wanted sex I wouldn't text a woman all day and all night long. We only had sex once. I told him I want us to get to know each other more on an emotional standpoint and he was like " you promised me we would have sex when I got back home. I've been breaking my back at work. I've been turning down women for a married chick that's giving me the run around. And to think I actually thought this was gonna be something" and I said " it is going to be something, I'm divorcing him soon. He's toxic " and the guy was " your marriage isn't toxic, you are still having sex with your husband. That's why I can't get none" and I was like " no I'm not" and he was like " prove it then. If you're not having sex with him was having an affair and the man I was talking to was so amazing I fell in love with him. He was romantic, kind, charming, supportive, attentive. It was a breathe of fresh air because my husband was angry, cold, short tempered, abusive. My husband ruined my self esteem and it was so many days where I couldn't even get out of bed because I couldn't stop crying. He gave me wonderful advice about my husband and a lot of advice about my self. It was like he was a mentor to me he's all about sex  My side dude was like " if your vag isn't in the same condition I left it in and I feel like it's been tampered it's over with. I will not be played" and I was like " are you really being controlling right now" and he was like " I think ima fall back.. I'm just gonna move on". Then the guy was like " I was going to ask you if you wanted to go out to eat And then we could go bowling  with me but forget it. Enjoy your "toxic" relationship"

And also comments that she will always be superior to him in sex department and asks him to do what she says and become her student and henpacked in bed as he would never be able to reach to her level of experience?

I was having an affair and the man I was talking to was so amazing I fell in love with him. He was romantic, kind, charming, supportive, attentive. It was a breathe of fresh air because my husband was angry, cold, short tempered, abusive. My husband ruined my self esteem and it was so many days where I couldn't even get out of bed because I couldn't stop crying. He gave me wonderful advice about my husband and a lot of advice about my self. It was like he was aNow he's all about send

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If i have a professional career  I am from mexico She is dutch and She is single now  I am 25 years now and she is 19 years now  can I marry the daughter of a former Dutch soccer player? Firts she will to be my girlfriend and after my wife

Why did she have to exist why did my son have to get married I never wanted him to ever get married I wanted to be the only woman in his life do it he is a kind man why did my son have to marry her? I just want my son all for myself:( and I hate seeing her face her voice is soft and moist like her families I tell my son to leave her so I can keep my son all to myself but he won't what do I do if you think that this is a troll it is not I am being serious I want to make my daughter in laws life a living hell so that she can divorce my son and I can have my son all for myself

I watched this case on television called Murder-For-Hire. This couple at the time in 2012, had 4 daughters ages 16, 13, and twins 8. The couple was going through a rough divorce. The husband got remarried soon and was asking for full custody of the 4 girls. The ex-wife talked to her retired police officer father and they tried to hire a hit man to kill the ex-husband. The mother got 10 years in prison and her police officer dad got 9 years. 5 years later in 2017, the stepmother legally adopted 3 of the 4 girls. This angers me, you don't legally adopt another woman's kids, I don't care what she tried to do. I already tracked down their location and I will wait until the mother gets out of prison to give her their address. I am ENTITLED to other people's business. I am worried that the dad and stepmother brainwashed those girls into thinking that she is their biological mother. People's business is my business. What do I do about this?

I've been with my fiancé for 28 years now and we have 4 children together. He has commitment issues and despite our first child being born in 1992 he only moved in to the house permanently in 2017, before that he was coming and going as he pleased. My partner turned 51 today, he opened a card and it was from a woman called Karen. The only Karen I know is my close friend who I went to university with, and she is also close with my partner. The card said "happy birthday, have a great day and I'll see you soon lots of love from Karen xxx P.S I enjoyed coming up to see you the other night, can't wait for next time ;)" Our friend Karen lives down south so when it said "coming up to see you" I immediately thought of her. I interrogated my partner and he said he has no clue who it could be and I phoned Karen, Karen said that she has already sent a card and she wouldn't be stupid enough to write something along those lines nevermind stupid enough to have an affair with my partner... she said "I would never do that to you" Is that her alibi and she's covering up for herself or is it another Karen? Or is it a prank by someone? Should I call the police? What will the police do?

We have three kids and she never want to have sex anymore for the last couple months. I've had several talks with her and told her at our age we should be having sex but she has no libido. I try in the morning, at night, whenever she gives in it's like a chore to her. She tells me she just doesn't want too and she doesn't know what's going on. How do I make her want to have sex?

I'm 26 years old and I don't have a girlfriend and I need to get my needs taken care of. I'm thinking about getting an hooker but I'm afraid of getting caught in an prostitution sting. I'm thinking about getting the girl to come to my house. What are the chances of getting caught in an sting ?? Would it lower my chances of getting caught in a sting if I were to invite the girl to my house ?? Should I risk getting arrested just so that I can have some happiness ??

I have been seeing this guy for some time . Recently he revealed to me that he is legally married but him and his estranged wife have been separated for almost a year .That they are getting the divorce ready but due to some issues here and there .  He wanted to tell me because he didn't want me to hear it from someone else . He said that not many people know about his situation. I thought about it and gave him the benefit of the doubt . Last week, we went to a party and a woman came up to him as she was leaving and told him to tell his wife she said "hi". He gave her one of those laughs like "wtf" . He didn't know that I heard her , I felt like numb for a minute like people are going to think this about me . Honestly I don't know what to do ? Should I leave him or stay ?  I have been to his house , and there are no signs of his wife belongings . Also he said that the wife has moved out and they both felt like it wouldn't work out between the two 

Nobody judge me okay I know it's awful. Right now I'm not in a situation where I can leave or else I'll be homeless because my husband made sure to keep all of the emergency money locked up in a secret account. He's hit me more times than I can count. I figured it's better to be hit then homeless so I just obey to what he says and pray that the punches wear thin with him. Recently I got involved with a man that started off as just emotional affair then turned physical. He made me feel good about myself, he made me feel conffident, brought back my self esteem, made me feel beautiful, he made me laugh, he brought back life into my eyes. He brought life into my soul. And I never thought he just wanted sex because we always talked until the sun came up. I figured if a man only wanted sex I wouldn't text a woman all day and all night long. We only had sex once. I told him I want us to get to know each other more on an emotional standpoint and he was like " you promised me we would have sex when I got back home. I've been breaking my back at work. I've been turning down women for a married chick that's giving me the run around. And to think I actually thought this was gonna be something" and I said " it is going to be something, I'm divorcing him soon. He's toxic " and the guy was " your marriage isn't toxic, you are still having sex with your husband. That's why I can't get none" and I was like " no I'm not" and he was like " prove it then. If you're not having sex with him" I was like " you calling me a liar" and he's like " definitely. He wouldn't be married to you if he ain't getting none. I'm not stupid" My side dude was like " if your vag isn't in the same condition I left it in and I feel like it's been tampered it's over with. I will not be played" and I was like " are you really being controlling right now" and he was like " I think ima fall back.. I'm just gonna move on".. It's not about the sex with me though because I'm actually falling in love with my side dude and it hurts to see him act like this with me.