I attended a small church for many years.  I don't mind if all come but I know they probably won't be able to make it to the wedding because it's out of state.  On the chance that some of them can make it there will be a wedding website they can refer to for information on the events.

My son and his fiancé are getting married and I like the girl very much. However, my 18 year old daughter and her don't get along. My daughter has said some Excruciating things I'm not okay with at all. It's embarrassing because it's a reflection off my parenting and my sons fiancé has felt because of her behavior we all don't like her. My daughter has an attitude behavior problem.. and my daughter in law is gorgeous, has everything going for her and there relationship is exactly how a happy married couple should be.  Going into the wedding. My youngest son is a groomsman, and my DIL 3 sisters are all bridesmaids. I don't expect her to be a bridesmaid but she's not in the wedding at all and I'm hurt. Not sure what to do.. I understand where the bride is coming from I wish this could all surpass for this day. 

 I'm 25 My fiancé has a very small family to begin with. My family is HUGE on both sides. For him, it's his mother, younger brother, (21) and younger sister. (18) He has 2 other uncles who are married with kids I barely know.   I get along with his mom and brother great. The younger sister has made it clear she hates me, and wants nothing to do me. My fiancé, his mother, and I all have discussed about the sister; and my fiancé and his mother for years have told me to ignore her. She has said every horrible thing you can tell someone, will throw my jacket and purse on the floor during family events behind my back, cyber bully me, and all that. SHES 18! It goes on and on its been miserable. Her and my finance never had a strong relationship before I was involved to begin with.  Now comes the wedding planning. I have 3 biological sisters that are automatically apart of my bridal party and I know for sure my finance is asking his brother to be his groomsman. That leaves his 1 sister not being apart of the wedding.. She doesn't respect me or our marriage to begin with but I obviously cant NOT invite her.. I have to respect my fiancé's family (especially as small as they are!)  I don't know what to do! This is my day, but I want everyone to feel included and happy but that girls only brought hell.