My mother's boyfriend pushed me against a wall and choked me, and I am not sure what to do. My mother will not do anything because she says it's discipline. 

Ill get to the point. Im 31 and never had a date with any woman because of a deep fear of rejection along with lots of other self esteem and body image issues. Im a 3 on the looks scale (out of 10) but only want a woman who's a 7+, and I'm prepared to kill myself if i don't meet a woman that meets that criteria by the time I'm 35, after which point the women all turn into ugly prunes and the sex is bad, (i imagine)This is not a threat, i DO NOT  feel owed a hot woman, its just a line in the sand I've drawn for my self. If i cant find the woman i want who accepts me as who i am ( although i am trying to work out and eat better), then id rather kill myself than be alone for ever or lower my standards and settle. Settling is not fair to the woman and not fair to me, and its insulting. I DO NOT HATE HOT/SKINNY WOMEN for not wanting to date me- i understand that no one wants to be with fat and ugly people, not even OTHER fat and ugly people. Im a beggar who wants to be a chooser, but i do t hold it against anyone.That being said is it wrong that i feel this way? Is it wrong that im willing to kill myself as a fck you to the universe for making me unable to lower my standards? I have never been able to wrap my head around how "personality" can make up for obesity- any real relationship depends greatly on good sex, and you cant have good sex with some one who isn't attractive- i don't understand how personality makes up- i dont want to "date in my league" because my league is ugly

So my ex fiance told me he cheated, so I left him right away. Then about 3 months later I get a random voicemail from someone I don't recognize saying to call them back because they have to tell me something about my ex fiance. So unfortunately curiosity or something gets the best of me and I decide text my fiance and ask why his apparently new partner is calling me randomly. And guess who responds to my text... The girl. Apparently she's in charge of his phone? Wth? So then she calls me and says just a few words... That I should get tested for stds. And hangs up. Weird. After this I did talk to my ex fiance a bit. Will spare you the details. Just curious why would he let this woman call me to tell me that ridiculous message? I felt like I was beng attacked. P.S. if your answer is just 'why didn't you ask him?/why do you care now?' Just don't reply thanks.

First some history on my in-law's. They have for 3 decades tried causing problems. They are very pushy, entitled people. Coming over without calling, frequently  asking to borrow money... About 10 years ago my husband and I separated. Come to find out he'd been seeing someone in his church. I say his church because I no longer attend there. He still does when he goes and says that's the only true church. Anyways we eventually get back together. Come to find out he'd been taking this woman to Tennessee to see his family. They would stay with his mom. His family encouraged him to continue seeing her and was upset when he broke it off. They remained friends with her after we were back together. Anyways, he had pictures of his family sitting in our home. I hated seeing these people being displayed in my home after all that they have done. I had been gradually taking the pictures, throwing them away and replacing them with pics of our 5 grown children and grand children. Well, a couple of days ago, he tells me that someone from the business across the alley gathered the pictures up out of the trash and lay them aside and one day, this woman he had been seeing mother came into the business, noticed the pictures laying there and said, "hey I know those people". The business owner explains that they found them in the trash. The mother of my husband's ex mistress says, "I will take them and get a hold of the person whom these belong to". She did and now he's very upset with me.  This mother of my husband's ex mistress still sends him cards from time to time. Praying for you cards... things like that. I don't like it, but I feel there's nothing I can do. I don't know what to do. I feel guilty and betrayed all at the same time. My husband goes to see his family frequently, but I have cut all ties. What should I do?  This woman even sent us a happy anniversary card last year. I found it odd and inappropriate. What should I do??  We have been married for 33 years. We have 5 grown children and 6 grandchildren. I have asked him not to attend that church because the woman he had the affair with and her family still attend there, but he says that's the one true church and my church and ALL other churches false. I've dealt with that issue all these years as well. That's how he was raised.  I feel guilty because I threw away the pictures. 

So when I started 9th grade when semester 2 started, I met this teacher and she became my favorite teacher that we shared a special bond. She was someone who I could always talk to and whenever she sees that I'm feeling sad, she would always ask me what's wrong and I would tell her. It's like a wish I had came true and I had someone in my life that cared since 7th grade. When term 4 started at the end if April, were closer then ever! I would always go to her class and talk to her and it felt like 24/7 because I would go almost the whole day. In the month of May I was dealing with a lot from a tragedy, she was always always there for me, helping me cope through this loss and supported me. She let's me email her whenever I feel sad, and knows what I'm going through, that she cares deep within her heart. A few days before 10th grade started, she emailed me saying that she can't wait to see me and hear about my summer...she also said to visit her alot in her class, but it felt like I started going there less and less now. Now I'm in 11th and we only see each other very less now and I want to go back to old times and talk to her- have conversations and stuff, but don't know why I'm being so shy or nervous. Any suggestions on what I should do? I remember once I gave her something and she asked for hug in 9th grade, but I don't know why i would not want one. Now I wish I could go back to my 9th grade self and change that by giving her a hug. I gave quite a few gifts, but the next one I'll probably give in her class and wait. When she ask again, I hope...I'll do it this time for my 9th grade self to.

I am not into him. I am dating someone. Anyways over time I've noticed that my brother in law acts odd to me. He keeps hitting my butt with his hand when I'm turned around. It's happened nine times now. Each time he says sorry like it's accidental. Most of those times he had plenty of space to clear, other times I can see how he could accidentally hit me. He has also touched my knees a few times when we were talking alone. And he recently mentioned my butt twice in two days in context of what our group was talking about. Why is he touching me and is it on purpose?