A relative of mine just came out of the blue saying she was having a wedding. There was no dating history with this guy whatsoever and after meeting him she's already married him in court. She now wants to have a wedding where all her relatives can attend and has a long list of things that need to be paid for. I think it's selfish and rude to expect others to pay for your wedding. If you're already married in court, why the pressure to have this wedding that costs a lot of money? When I got married this relative NEVER even sent me a congratulatory message yet my pictures were all over her social media. I didn't ask for a penny and had my wedding. She's constantly on vacation showing off how perfect her life is, yet expects money from us to pay for her wedding? She's constantly reminding me of her wedding and has held a fundraising for it. I don't want to attend her fundraising because I think she's beyond rude. Am I overreacting? Her wedding is at the end of February and she wants it in Hawaii