I'm a happily married 34 year old woman with 2 wonderful sons and I still can't get over my mom not liking me. What really makes it unbearable I think is the fact that she does like my younger sister and sometimes they talk about me. It's hurtful. I think the main issue comes from the fact that I have a good relationship with my dad. My parents are divorced and my mom hates my dad. I was always close to him when I was little and I still am. I swear she only hates me because I like him. It's not fair. I want a relationship with both of them. I make sure to never talk about him around her so she won't get jealous or think I love him more. But it's not fair for her to act like she can only like me if I agree to not like him. I can't really talk to her though. I've tried this before and she ends up being nice in the moment but then making fun of what I said later with my sister or friends. My sister enjoys this so I don't have a good relationship with her either. I know I can't make her like me, but I can't seem to get over it. Please someone give me some magic advice. 

shared by the the female.      She's 22 and her ex is 40 and they broke up in October for the 2nd or 3rd time since they started seeing each other in May of 2018 She posts "I'll see you when the road says it's time for us to cross paths again."       "until I'm ready let me be. I have to heal myself"   She also follows a couple of accounts about victims of narcissistic abuse. She has a private profile and only has about 30 followers and follows about the same amount of people but she actively posts on instagram daily. She unfollowed her ex (the 40 year old) but she still allows him to follow her, engage with her and like her posts etc. She's 22 and she knows how to use instagram, she knows how to remove someone from her followers list as she has done this to him in the past when they've broken up and she's aware that he's still following her because he likes her posts. So how can she claim she's in a no contact phase and say things like "I'll see you when the road says its time for us to cross paths again". He still has an open door into her life, engages with her online and she;s posting seductive photos of herself with her bra showing, red lipstick, heavy makeup all done up etc and he's liking them. Is she just someone who plays games?    They have no kids together, no shared living space, no shared financial obligations and no reason to be in contact. They live separately, she's nearly 20 years younger and she lives with her parents.      

Not only in a relationship but she's obsessd with him and wants to marry him    photo of them together      https://www.instagram.com/p/B7K5fmvjr8L/      photo album of her      https://www.instagram.com/starwarslover828/

I am in such a hole and I really need help to get out of it. I am 19 and I moved away from my abusive parents on a very short notice. I don't have my birth certificate, social security card, ID, or anything else to prove who I am. I can't figure out how to get my identifications back, and it has been 5 months of trying. I cant get an ID without my ssc/ssn, and I can't get my ssc without my birth certificate, which I can't seem to get either since I have to a ID to get it. My parents have my birth certificate (and possibly my ID) and won't give me it. I don't have a high school diploma, since I got a GED instead, which you can guess that I don't have. Even if I did have that, my first name was misspelled! (My parents never ordered a new one.) My parents lost my passport and ssc (they insisted on keeping them for years so they wouldn't get lost, but obviously that didnt work). I never got the chance to memorize the numbers for my ssc because of this. I had a bank card, but I quit my job back in Jan 2019, since I was told we were going to move the month after, and I had plenty saved up to keep my phone bill and rent paid. We didn't. We ended up moving late September, so my card can't be used for anything. No ID, ssc/ssn, birth certificate, diploma, passport, or bank card. My brother wants to help with the money, so at least that is covered. If someone could lead me in the right direction, please... I have never been so trapped in my life before, and I have no club what to do...