My gitlfeiend is wearing a ring she got during her engagement with her ex. It's not the ring that was meant for the engagement itself but a ring that was an "extra." We've had some issues with the ex (Him constantly saying he loves her and trying to get back with her etc.) recently and it bothers/annoys me that she's wearing the ring. Am I being stupid or am I justified in it bothering me? She says its just an extra ring that meant nothing, it wasn't meant for anything. 

Istead of dancing  Bride to best man & Groom to maid of honor for one dance & then separate dances for mother/son, father/daughter dance after that ..what if we do one big wedding party dance? I'm the Bride & my dad has past away & I'm not expecting my mom. My brother will escort me so I was thinking I could dance with my brother/escort. I have 2 bridesmaids & then my maid of honor & so that everyone has a dancing partner I thought the maid of honor & best man dance together & the bridesmaid match up with the 2 Groosman and dance together, then the groom dances with his mom so they get their mother/son dance & bc I dont have a dad I get to dance with my brother/escort. So all of this will be in one big dance.. does this sound okay???