No idea if it'll last forever or not but my sister has no interest in reconciliation and it's on her.

It used to be my mother I feared this with but she just rolls her eyes now, my dad is the one who I fear.

I feel like I need to do something drastic with my friend/partner whom I live with. Like just one day clear it all out, then force her to join a gym, and find a job.

I don't have feelings for him anymore but can't leave him because of kids and shame.  I'm scared of the world out there what I would do...  My soul is not rested at all I don't know what to do with my life  I'm thinking about suicide too...  He is abusive controlling I think all men is like this well it's hard for me to leave kuz he makes me feel like I depent on him  I'm totally fine but since I was small I was bullied in my school and my family just left me so I have no friends no one  I don't know whats good for me to do

My parents are incredibly strict Christians. I'm not. They're against all music that isn't gospel, but I recently got some band shirts for MCR and TØP. My question is where should I hide them? Please don't say I'm a brat or anything else. I genuinely just want to be myself, but they make it a little hard. Only real answers please! Lmao I don't have friends. My parents thought all of them were bad influences because we watched anime together so they made me stop talking to them. I'm almost 18 lmao not sure if thats relevant to this

You know those tubs with two seats. Would it be ok to be in one with ur mom and naked? I did it until I was 12 but after that she started wearing a bikini

My mom is 34 and I'm 13. We were going home on the subway today and someone called her a whore and kicked her feet so that she fell. I helped her up but the dude just ran away. She just acted normal but wyen we came home she cried to dad. I'm mixed so is that the reason why he called her a whore?

It's a possibility?

Like cat and mouse?

I'm not gonna go become friends with her or anything but I'm wondering would I get caught if I see her sometime and act nice? I never minded her and I think it was just a bad marriage but the family sees her as the enemy of civilization similar to Adolf Hitler or Satan.

This is a bit embarrassing so I wanted to make a throwaway for it. I have been thinking of this for long and have to get it out.  My mom was 21 when she had me with my 23 year old father. My mom was studying in uni and hadn't moved out when she was pregnant. She moved out after she had been pregnant for months. They weren't married and still aren't. 21 might not be that young to have a child in the US but here in Finland the average age for women to become mothers is 30 so it is really young. All of my classmate's moms are in their late 40's or early 50's while my mom is still only 37.

He was very neglectful and hurtful to his elders but as a 18 year old flunked out of UCLA. He brought much shame upon his family in both cases. Sparrow: In this aspect your right he does not have good character and he also lies frequently. 

She had one for a while, decided to quit out of the blue, and I constantly have to badger her to clean up her room, and try again to get a job. She's miserable and won't exercise either. Our light bill is due, we are out of pet food. She pretends to look at job apps and these bs sites. She gets mad and starts arguing when I say to go to the unemployment office. Her appearance is starting to gross me out also. She has a horrible attitude, mood swings, or is smothering the crap out of me. It's like a roller coaster. She has all this energy to vent at me, but wont be productive with it. She gave up on life, and got me to have no friends or social media anymore. She said to me this is t working out and it bothers me I'm constantly pulling her weight and trying to get her to shape up and quit being so negative. Shes very draining lately.  Has health problems and diesnt listen to me when I say she has got to lose weight, clean up her pig students of clutter, and get a job.  I know I'm criticizing a lot, it's just because I care.

I'm from Finland and I go to the sauna with my parents who are 37 and 38 pretty regularly. We all have towels wrapoed around us but my mom doesn't cover her **** which is kinda annoying. It makes me a bit horny.  I would just like to know how I could ask her without being creepy. We wear towels for modesty reasons. I would most likely get a ***** if my mom sat in there butt naked.

I feed my kids during night time and i do all the work during day time I get so exhausted that this morning I have to leave the cartoons for the kids because hubby went to work and I'm home alone they're in safe position I just need to get at least half hour sleep  Thank you guys and bouncing to nap I couldn't sleep so I'm up ill wait  til they nap

Okay, I'm thinking about taking a trip to Chicago to take my kids to see their grandparents this summer, seriously thinking about not letting they're dad know and his family is okay with that. I'm not trying to be nasty or mean but he could care less about our kids, it's been close to 10 years since he seen them and that was me taking them to him, after he never called, not even on holidays or birthdays so honestly in my mind he said screw them so that's how I feel about him, o yeah and our kids, ages 14 and 10. His bad 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

My sister is my enemy. 

My step daughter moved away to the United States and moved in with her mom and step father her biological mom married a black man she now lives with her mom and step dad she is really happy at her mom and step dads house  What is the best way I can track her down so that I can make her come and live with me and my husband aka her dad who is white She wants to cut ties with us so that she can live a happy life with them and says that I am racists but I am not I don't want my step daughter living with her mom because her mom married a black guy I do not want my step daughter to be with. Black guy my husband and in laws says I am a selfish and a racist baby but I am not  This is not a troll question  ANSWER MY QUESTION RUGHT NOW 

My friend has nude pictures of his girlfriend before she turned 18 where she was a child (shes 19 now), i told him it's a crime but he said it's not because she is of age now

My daughter died of suicide 2 months ago I hated her she was an unwanted pregnancy I abused her both emotional and physical I also neglected her in all of her childhood my ex husband also known as her dad told me that I should be ashamed of myself for doing this but I don't have any my ex husband loved our daughter my child was a mistake last week my husband called and ask why I did not go to her funeral I told her "I am glad she died" and closed the phone everyone thinks I a selfish baby but I am not I am so happy that she died she was a little ********** and I am glad that little ***** is dead now I can celebrate I also threw wine on her grave oh and by the way this is not a troll

It's an extremely awkward thing to bring up to her, obviously. She's 14 and lives with me after her mother and I divorced, so we're pretty close, but I don't see this being an easy thing to bring up to her, but it's gotten to the point where it really just needs to stop. I don't know if she knows how loud she is sometimes and she just doesn't care, or if she doesn't actually realize that I can hear her clearly. Or can she just not even help it? Everyone masturbates. I do, you do, she does, it's natural. But being a guy, I only have experienced a male orgasm and I have no idea what kind of differences there are between male and female orgasms. What I do know, is that there are always varying intensities. Sometimes it's a small orgasm, sometimes a big one, but no matter how intense mine have sometimes gotten, I've never even come close to being unable to control moans'breathing loudly/etc. Sometime's I have to focus on staying quiet but it's never that difficult. Is that just a guy thing? I don't hear her every day, mind you. It's usually like once every few days. I mean, can female orgasms really bring someone to the point of being loud and not being able to help it? If so, do you think that the times I hear her are just times she's cumming really hard? I feel like that would be even more of an awkward conversation than if she just didn't know she was being loud.  Any advice? Thanks!

Recently my aunt passed away and my cousins are all fighting over the house and none of them wanted to care for her in the last year. They wouldn't take her or pick her up from dyialisiys . They would charge her money to bring her food. Wtf??btw my cousins age range is 39-52 I think they can afford to buy mom a subway sandwich.

Hello, I am 19, almost 20 years old. Here are some details to my situation. First, my mother. My mother is bipolar, to say the least. She acts like my best friend and makes me feel guilty for her constantly, or she insults me subtly and belittles my decisions. She isn't evil, but i'm very much on the back burner. Kind of think she's only letting me be here to benefit her taxes. Ever since she got into her current relationship of 3 years, my life hasn't been great. He lives with us, and does not like me. In turn, my mom sides with him and thinks i'm this terrible person now. She barely knows me anymore because we never talk. But she thinks she does. It's a toxic and confusing situation. I have known my current boyfriend for the better part of 6 years and we have been dating for a little over one. Unfortunately, he had to move states away for work. We have been doing long distance for 5 months. No issues, but i'm tired of it. My mom has only met him twice, and i don't even know if she considers us a couple. She thinks i'm incapable of such a thing because to her, i am "cynical"- her words. Now, i'm currently enrolled at a 4 year university. Upon careful consideration, i'm dropping out and going to attend a community college for nursing- this she already knows. However, i'm planning on transferring to a college in my boyfriends state and living with him.  How should i go about telling my mother my plans? I'm honestly terrified and lost. More details are below, but thank you all. I know if we broke up, which i highly doubt, he wouldn't kick me out or anything. that's not how we work. I would be in a reliable living situation regardless of what my mother thinks. I would be happy, able to focus on my nursing career, and get a license to work in nursing in the state i want to eventually move to. Currently, I have a 40 hour a week job from 4pm to midnight. I have class from 8am to 3pm. My days are long and hard and give me little time for school focus, I get myself through college, my parents do not help me. But they use my full time status for their tax benefit. Once i move, i can get a part time job. It will make my chances of success much higher. I just don't know what to do. Any advice is welcomed. Thank you. As commented on a previous answer, I AM NOT RUNNING AWAY WITH MY BOYFRIEND. Even if my boyfriend was nonexistent, i have been planning on transferring colleges out of state. I can not handle my toxic living situation and need to just experience and live without them belittling and insulting me every chance they get. Thanks!

I'm a boy and when I was 14 I sat on my mom's lap a lot like in the car and on the bus she's was 50 and kind of thin.

Half or most of my family keeps to themselves they don't believe in each other anymore and I am trying to keep the peace in the family as well as try and diminish the negative environment, the only problem is one of my brothers is missing and he got fed up with trying to please his selfish mom having served her like a slave since he got separated from his girlfriend and son, the other two a woman and male moved out of the city far away each have one child and never talk to our family. I am now living with my father and older sister and I am hoping to keep us last three together somehow. I really dislike the idea of moving out even though they hardly keep up with the maintenance of the house, their hot water hardly works nor the kitchen's oven its very hard to get them to cooperate. How can I establish some common rules and keep the peace? Also I fear talking to my mother because she is verbally abusive. Its making me upset at times.

I am not into him. I've noticed that this guy I know acts odd. He keeps hitting my butt with his hand when I'm turned around. It's happened nine times now. Each time he says sorry like it's accidental. Most of those times he had plenty of space to get around me, other times I see how it could be accidental. He has also touched my knees a few times when we were talking alone. And recently he mentioned my butt twice in two days in context of what our group was talking about. Is he getting pleasure from touching my butt and assaulting me? Is this some sick thrill? 

I'm a boy and when I was 14 I sat on my mom's lap a lot like in the car and on the bus. she was and kind of thin. could she lift and carry me too?

The rest of my family I like. The sister is enemy number 1 and always will be. My father has some good qualities but also some hurtful ones and mistreated his elders.

Being a soon to be wife, and a mother have two completely different stances in a mans. We are in fact the most important women in his life but why does he respect his mother more than me? & no this is not cultural Incase you ask.  When my fiancé and I do argue I catch him saying things to me that he would never tell his mother. "Shut up, whatever, forget you, etc" my fiancé respects me but I watch his tone and the way he talks to his mom that I don't receive. I get that's his mother but I watch him give her more respect than me one day being his wife and the mother of his kids? I feel a certain type of way. 

What is it called when you don't really talk to anyone? 

So in September my mum's husband not my dad or my siblings dad our step dad was having an affair with my oldest sister (I know strange and confusing that's my life at the moment sadly) My poor mother is obviously heart broken she's been through counselling there not divorced or in the process of it yet and I havnt spoken to my sister since nor has my mother, my brother has though. I'm just finding it hard to get through this I'm angry and sad my whole family is split up I wouldn't dare talk to my sister ever again I don't think I will ever feel normal again thankfully Christmas is over because it was the worst I don't know how to cheer my mother up or myself I'm just constantly pissed off.

Should a mother allow her children to listen to SiriusXM Satellite Radio? There father has a grandfathered lifetime subscription that her children listen to on Amazon Alexa.

Aside from move out/biy you own things. What would you do or say to the co stsnt verbal abuse as well as phsical neglect