feel like he only wants sex. Also we used to talk all the time now he barely calls or texts me. Marriage with my husband was dying and becoming dull.. then we were arguing so much. I wrote it off as us being incompatible so I divorced and started talking to this new guy and we seemed to hit it off great we were on the phone laughing and joking for hours. My husband doesn't have a sense of humor. My husband is more serious minded and he's more of a protector kind of person who likes to look out for people's safety. I love to laugh and make others laugh. I think I mostly fell for him because he made me laugh all the time all day. We went on a couple dates in person and had sex and the sex was kind of weird because I'm used to passionate sex when the man kisses me and makes me feel so loved. He immediately went into penetration with no foreplay no kissing and he came in like 10 seconds. Then I asked him if he was gonna kiss me and he acted like he didn't even want to foreal he gave me a peck. No deep passionate kissing. I was like is this dude serious. He act like he was afraid to kiss me but wasn't afraid to have sex. I don't get it.he said he's taking me to out to dinner and to bowling next weekend for a date so he is interested in me but why the lack of passion and romance? He seemed like the type to be extremely passionate and romantic especially with our long phone calls I'm telling y'all that this new guy was sooooooo into me he was sending me paragraph texts everyday and he even missed sleep staying up late talking to me. I don't know why he's acting weird now 2 days ago he said he wanted to go to dinner and bowling this upcoming weekend but I haven't heard from him.  He never responded to my text. I know he's alive because he's been active in Facebook posting statuses and everything  I was telling the new guy " honestly I'm starting to fall for you. I really like you. I love our vibes. The energy is amazing. Please don't break my heart." And a couple of weeks ago he was telling me that we have an amazing vibe and we have an amazing conversation and everything 

My name is Carlos but everyone calls me Rundi. I have spent the past week in Iowa for training with the army.  I really hate it here because it is very cold and I am working too much.  To stay warm at night I cuddled with my buddies Shawn and Cameron. One thing led to another and I had both of them inside of me.  I really liked it but I also love my wife back home. I don't know how this will affect our relationship. Should I tell her? If so how? Thanks

I am separated from over 10 years since the ex husband left and i was about to kill myself ..as i had an amnesy and i didn t know ..he left with the mistrress i mean he moved out the mistrese ..was folloeing to give birth..i thought it was the end of the world as i never imagined such an atrocity i was from.a family woth 10 teachers i received previously divorce and the husband was admited Apeal i became ill 8 doctors checked and ..i was in a fight with demons i didn t know i was raped  As i was virgin..i just can t remember exavtely but a lot of demons came after Apeal and actially were sent by Court i didn t know the mariage was laicist..the Court used the bible although the people don t know that the state is laicist  So when i discovered the husband and the mistress were havung a baby.- now at 47 discovered is a spy -i was about to kill myself because the devil caused me an amnesy i thought it was my husband..... As a matter of favt that was a spy sent by masons..i had an umcle who were an actor and used to be a member in Great national assembly which was comunist ...i didn t know that this..parliaments..have a monopoly in making rules and the masons actually are richer then emperors and enslaved the world  I read in the law that the divorce is to be caused if the separation lasts..since two years ahead and it 10 years i also had a file for divorce which was prescribed without being given money for the crime i was let without food by judges ..and also it was bred only by me the child the husband spebt the time in bars and abroad and no witnesses wanted to come i also requested a protectiin order..i told it s a rape they should have been considered frommthe begining because i was kidnaped Because of the laicist law that alliws men to rape women and kidnappe..in an unknown way.i my case it was an impostor ..my uncle here was an inspector engineer and the impostor came at universitary campus and pretended to be son of a minister exactely the specialty of my uncle of hydro statiin ..title that doesn t existe nor has a ministery .

My husbands aunt is staying with us for 2 months, me and my husband both work and I go to nursing school. She cleans and does everything when we are away at work. I always ask her if she needs help but she says no you worked all day you need to rest. She doesn't let me do anything. For the past week I overheard her SAYING TO MY HUSBAND THAT SHE cleaned this and that and the floor in our bedroom was dirty she sweeped it I was studying in my room I got up to help her she said no!  is she trying to make me look bad i feel like she is  is it necessary to whisper to my husband that you cleaned ???  She's been with us for 3 weeks so far 

My husband rarely kisses me, except when we leave for work or go to bed. He does show me intimacy, just not kissing on lips a lot. He does kiss my forehead sometimes. Been married for 7 1/2 months. He does say he loves me and shows he cares for me. He said he loves taking care of me. So, should I ask him about the kissing or just let it be? I really don't have a problem with it, just want to know if I should ask him about it? I know he loves me and I don't want to seem pushy by asking  

I'm 34 years old my husband is away on business for an entire month. I ended up injuring my foot on the ice and having to have emergency surgery. Ive now got pins and a plate in my heel, my ligaments cut and reattached and needed a bone graft from my hip stapled to the top bones of my feet. I cannot put ANY weight on my foot for the next 6 weeks I'm basically bed ridden.  I am in excruciating pain. I called my  husband and he told me there's nothing he could do and he could not come home from his trip and will be gone for another 3 weeks. When at the hospital my best friend had to watch my 2 kids for 2 nights until my  mother who is 69 was able to get a flight out here. Not only has she been doing ALL the cooking, cleaning, she's been taking care of my 2 children getting them ready for school everything. My husbands family who only live 20 min away have done NOTHING to assist us. We asked them to watch the kids Saturday so my mom could get a break and my husbands mother said she had to look at blinds that day. I  can't help but feel extreme guilt that my mom has to do EVERYTHING. Even help me get up to use the restroom. I can tell it's a lot on her she looks exhausted. I don't know what to do? My mother says I should demand my husband come home or that he talk to his family about helping a little bit. What do you think? 

If they say that they already had numerous sex with you  in numerous positions for numerous times, so its nothing new or they may say you have nothing to feel shy in front of them now asthey already knows everything about your body, then what would be your reply? Would you go and have sex with them and enjoy and later give the same excuse n justification to your husband, that its nothing new for you to have sex with them...n if he can get past the fact that they had sex with you before he should not find difficult to get past it after as well because they are the same people who slept with you. Is ot modernism?

Should I ask him about this? My husband rarely kisses me, except when we leave for work or go to bed. He does how me intimacy, just not kissing on lips a lot. He's does kiss my forehead sometimes. Been married for 7 1/2 months.He does say he loves me. 

But by that time already the damage had been done badly and its visible in his expressions...even though he stayed quite and did'nt react badly. But from that time onwards he never initiates sex now, may be due to hurt or insecurity. What can be done to repair  this damage?

K so I've been w my husband for 10+ years (3 years married). I understand he has eyes and sees woman and sure some are attractive. We're still in college & he recently told me their was a girl in one of his courses that had beautiful curly hair & he was always staring at her (hair). Obviously the insecure voice in me was like WTF you mean, you staring at her or her hair bc that's two different things (Scorpio killer instinct btw). Like are you attracted to her, do you want to pursue things with her or your just like "cool she has bomb hair". I appreciate him even telling me how he's feeling or thinking but the little insecure B in me is shaking. Any advice? 

This is separate from the paperwork setup where you check whether you're single, married, or divorced. I'm talking about the very unlikely scenario where you haven't even answered that question, or if you're unmarried but you may be seeing someone. And over time develop feelings for your doctor. Obviously, if the feeling is reciprocated it is professionally unethical for the doctor to vocalize it. The question is, if the doctor is fishing for details, would they ask about your "status" or would that be crossing the line professionally?  I have an acquaintance who seems to think this is totally normal and would not be considered out of line. In my opinion, I would think the doctor would be worried about misconduct complaints after a question like that. If the doctor were fishing, what alternative method would he use? What do you think?

I feel like he only wants sex. Also we used to talk all the time now he barely calls or texts me. Marriage with my husband was dying and becoming dull.. then we were arguing so much. I wrote it off as us being incompatible so I divorced and started talking to this new guy and we seemed to hit it off great we were on the phone laughing and joking for hours. My husband doesn't have a sense of humor. My husband is more serious minded and he's more of a protector kind of person who likes to look out for people's safety. I love to laugh and make others laugh. I think I mostly fell for him because he made me laugh all the time all day. We went on a couple dates in person and had sex and the sex was kind of weird because I'm used to passionate sex when the man kisses me and makes me feel so loved. He immediately went into penetration with no foreplay no kissing and he came in like 10 seconds. Then I asked him if he was gonna kiss me and he acted like he didn't even want to foreal he gave me a peck. No deep passionate kissing. I was like is this dude serious. He act like he was afraid to kiss me but wasn't afraid to have sex. I don't get it.he said he's taking me to out to dinner and to bowling next weekend for a date so he is interested in me but why the lack of passion and romance? He seemed like the type to be extremely passionate and romantic especially with our long phone calls

I have solid concrete evidence that a 25 year old man with a wife and kids is cheating on his wife with a 19 year old girl. now I don't care about how this is going to sound.... I plan on anonymously demanding a ransom of $500-$700 to the 25 year old that if he does not pay me through zelle or cash app. I will email his wife and kids of him cheating in the act.

Marriage with my husband was dying and becoming dull.. then we were arguing so much. I wrote it off as us being incompatible so I divorced and started talking to this new guy and we seemed to hit it off great we were on the phone laughing and joking for hours. My husband doesn't have a sense of humor. My husband is more serious minded and he's more of a protector kind of person who likes to look out for people's safety. I love to laugh and make others laugh. I think I mostly fell for him because he made me laugh all the time all day. We went on a couple dates in person and had sex and the sex was kind of weird because I'm used to passionate sex when the man kisses me and makes me feel so loved. He immediately went into penetration with no foreplay no kissing and he came in like 10 seconds. Then I asked him if he was gonna kiss me and he acted like he didn't even want to foreal he gave me a peck. No deep passionate kissing. I was like is this dude serious. He act like he was afraid to kiss me but wasn't afraid to have sex. I don't get it.he said he's taking me to out to dinner and to bowling next weekend for a date so he is interested in me but why the lack of passion and romance? He seemed like the type to be extremely passionate and romantic especially with our long phone calls

My husbands younger sister has never showed any type of respect or want for a relationship with me. I have been with my husband for 5 years and since she was 18 her behavior hasn't changed. She claims: I'm the reason her brother and her don't have a relationship, I want her brother all to myself, she knows i'm going to hurt him, she'll accuse me of everything she can, even pick arguments with my husband about me where they get into it. I have done NOTHING to this girl but be nice, give, offer my help and home to her. Just a straight headache. I turn to my husband to help the situation, he tries to talk to his sister and mother.. yet nothing changes.  Come to now, I just had a baby (first grandchild on husbands side) and it's really exciting. All the family support is wonderful. WHY is my husbands sister acting all supportive and happy for me? She's constantly talking about how she can't wait to spoil and spend all this time with her niece. She's been buying tons of stuff and wanting to be around my husband and I a lot. KNOWING how she's treated me. I know I married into this family, and I want my baby to be around their aunts/uncles but the sister's acting oblivious to how shes treated me all these years? Now she wants to use our baby to sweep all she's said and done under the rug? I'm not having it at all.. She's done too much damage. It's all fake. Am I wrong for feeling this way? All happy and love with my seed, but has never given me an ounce of respect.

I know when he was married to my mom he lied about finances for nine years and they divorced because my mom could not trust him. Thank you all, that's beautiful to have confirmation!

I lived in NYC and NJ and rarely ever got sick. I then moved to South Carolina and I was sick more times then I can count. I lived in 2 different cities in South Carolina and both cities I was sick ALL the time! Even got tested for allergies I had none.  Now, I've moved to Minneapolis and I have been sick once with a small cold since moving here.  Is the medical worse in some states?  Is that why? Even with flu season I noticed South Carolina (and basically a majority of the south) often had higher flu outbreaks then other areas of the country. 

So I'm her 30 year old brother, she's 32. I notice when her and I text, she seems really happy and enthused to talk to me. She sends a lot of emojis and we talk about our favorite movies, tv shows and etc. When we hug, she hugs me closely and we make body contact. But when her husband is around, she hugs me from a distance and avoids making body contact with me.  She gives me "butt out" hugs aka London bridge hugs.   Her husband seems like an easy going guy so I don't think he's abusive towards her. I'm an affectionate person so I like it when her and I hug closely.   Some people may say she's afraid of making her husband jealous. But what would he be jealous of? We're just siblings.

I have a 4 yr old and 1 yr old and recently got divorced and moved out of my home. I currently am living wherever friends let me crash. But i am currently watching my sons at my ex husbands home while he works. We have joint custody, so the week I'm supposed to watch my kids I am watching them in his home. Till I can find a place of my own. He has two roommates who have moved in since I moved out. They both smoke weed and are known to do other harder drugs. I'm not a fan of the weed smell and don't like it around my kids. I'm in a hard place and don't know what to do. Do I call dcfs or the cops and try to get the roommates out of the home? What is the best solution? I also live in Illinois and they just legalized marijuana so they believe that it is ok to do this inside the home. I have told my ex husband many times I don't agree with this and don't like the drug use being around my kids. Please any advice would be helpful! 

I am newly married at 26 and have been in the picture with my husband for 4 years now. I met his younger, and only sister when she was 17 and it did NOT go well. She would always glare me down when I came over, she would make it obvious she didn't want me there. There were times I would find my coat and purse on the ground when leaving, she would constantly text me horrible things yet ignore me in person. She even had her time to scream her head off at me when she was angry for whatever reason. My husband and I both know from the jump I have been nothing but nice to the girl, even after all the headache. So we know it's her problem.  Now, even married if we're all around each other and family she'll only include my husband. We'll bring a gift together and she'll only say thank you "josh" she'll only ask how my husband is doing.. if I'm sitting next to something she needs she'll ask josh to get it. I could give her something in hand and she'll still look over to my husband and thank him on my behalf. She has her own boyfriend too always around!! It's rude, and very uncomfortable to me. Especially now being married.. behavior hasn't ended? I love his family but his sister is making it obvious she's trying to make me feel this way. I could care less about the girl, I want a relationship but I'm not gonna beg, especially to someone as rude as herself. My husband is aware, but says to ignore. I don't want to be around her at all. Is this a bad way to go about it?