I had an affair with a married man a few yrs ago, I left him but he was verbally abusive and belittled me because I left him, he would talk behind my bak, and I found out and blocked him. Now that his wife found out and saw the msg, she knew that I left him and he was the one pursuing me and other women. She texted me, asked me to talk to her she said that she is divorcing him, she just need proof of cheating for her divorce lawyer. Now that I feel ashamed and guilty, I talked to her, but I feel so bad. Please no judgement, I moved on and I'm trying to be a better person.

It's the winter time I don't like taking off my warm clothes just for a picture. He said I need to be more kinky. I've never been into taking nude pictures or being kinky. We aren't in High school anymore. He should be satisfied with regular sex.

Well I'm 23 I'm very kind heart I clean I cook I'm not lazy I do laundry shopping workout like I have no friends at all just two kids and man who's like so strict I cannot even do anything I have to ask him for his permission  to do everything now I'm even scare to leave him because he makes me feel like I cannot survive 

So my family has finally set me up with someone and I am excited to see her. I'm going to be traveling to vietnam next year, 2021 to go meet her and her parents. I'm very excited as this could mean that I can finally get married after years of suffering through loneliness. How should I dress when I go meet her ? What kind of stuff do you recommend ?

Why watch porn when they can have the real thing with their wives?

I met this girl a couple of weeks ago and neither of us expected to fall for the other.. I was going into this thinking she just would be a great friend but we started our vibe is so amazing that it's actually turning into something so much more.i bumped into her inside a bookstore and we instantly clicked, we both can talk hours on end the conversations are effortlessly amazing and we have so much in common. She's also extremely beautiful captivating and has this special aura about herself that I cannot get enough of. She told me that she has a boyfriend but it was a bad relationship and she was getting out soon. She said once they break up we would be able to committ to each other fully. So basically she's wanting me to put my life on hold until she breaks up with him. She doesn't want me having sex with anyone else, kissing anyone else, flirting with females or nothing. She told me " don't break my heart. What we have is special. And unique" I was like " I'm willing to wait on you to break up with him but the least you can do is send me som kinky pictures to hold me over.."" I mean that's probably gonna be a long time I have to abstain from sex. Me and her already had sex twice but she said she doesn't want to have sex anymore until she breaks up with him. I feel like she's already breaking my heart because I still have to see her with another man and she talks about him all the time but I'm willing to wait.. I just hope it's worth the wait..

My husband and I are high school sweethearts. We've been with each other since we were 16. Now, just turning 30 in less than a month has me really looking hard at my life. My marriage is good. I can't complain. He is safe, he's caring, he's attentive, he makes me laugh, he's a good dad to our 10 & 6 year old, a good provider...but there's no spark. There's no chemistry. It's more of a best friend vibe than a lover vibe. I can't help but wonder if there is anyone out there better that could suit me, and same for my husband. He says he doesn't ever care to see what else is out there but unfortunately I kind of wonder what I missed out, if maybe there is someone else out there that I could be happier with? Someone I perhaps share more interest with? My husband and I differ a lot. We are like night and day. He is a serious Christian, I'm not Christian. He is a home body, I like to go out. I like to travel, that isn't big on his priority list. And because we differ in just about every area...sometimes it's hard to come up with things to talk about. I think my husband is attractive, but there is also no sexual chemistry. Physically he isn't my type even though he is attractive. To sum it up, my husband is a good husband. He's great! I'm not sure if he's right for me? Is this just a phase couples go through after being together for so long? Did we just grow apart because we were high school sweetheart? Do I just need to be more intentional with my marriage?  Any advice?  I just wanted to add, I've felt like this for a few years now but just keep thinking things may get better and maybe if we work hard enough the spark will come back. But I haven't been too successful, clearly. 

I am 30 years old. I have 2 kids (aged 3 and 5). I have a lot of school loans 326k and make 162k yearly gross. My wife takes care of my son. I am still renting. My wife says I should get 30 years but according to Dave Ramsey talk host view based on my children ages I should be getting 29 years enough for them to graduate college? But what if pursue grad school or still stay at my house still by then?

If are penal causes implied how do you handle since penal it means the devil who denies ? What can i do also it s a separation of 10 years since  the rapist husband left for his mistress giving birth to a child soon. I had amnesies actually as the relationshiip meant taking me as prisoner after a genocid here into a comunist countey by masons and there is no special section and no special section for divorce not for penal causes also and nor for political causes implied nor for the threatened  I heard it s a special Court in usa for divorce.are there also for penal cause at divorce ?do you have to attend a teial in penal cause which would mean being threatened if also the exhusband is called to come ? The rapust husband also tried to kill me several times and also by terorizing me as also i discovered after 20 years he was a mason he brought a mason for e.g.to reject the divorce and give Apeal 15 years ago before he left with a mistress after my retirnal after Apeal i becaming ill from winter and job at counteysife he has hidden that he own a fortune after i was raped i having an uncle at comunism in parlamentary position and i disn t know that was called Great National Assembly    That uncle was mainly an actor of movie and theater and i had no idea about masons or about laws being made by an assembly.i didn t know Parliaments exists today .that was in 1700 as i knew . 5 years ago the rapust stole the child of 17,5 after i subscribed at a party i thought is an organisation for peace it was no firm  Now i teied to take an amulment actually according to bible i discovered we owerself give the divorce ..ww are actually imprisoned by peasants who continuu to form the parliament instead of democratic assembly where joins all anytime acvording to Solon  Before Christmas i teied to obtain a protevtion order although this should have been invluded for female inncase of divorce and tgis was anulated because it expired to days before the term of the papers requested beibg New year Eve although i aleeady pesented the cause and i suspect the Court beibg bribed it s been since year since i sued for rape first time and they closed the file because the conplaint must be done within 3 months and it was after 20 years instead of doing the  Instead of doing the criminalist procedure .it s like the rapist raped a hen and tried to kill a hen  Actually i couldn t make the conplaint because was also how do you say..-a violation of residence and i had a shock of amnesy this one being also an impostor he was intrifuces at universitary campus as being the son of a minister of hidroconstruction while the goverment was ocupied by gennetical forwigners who speak our lamguahe and are masons and people didn t know as it was comunism although a huge number of function of state  Introduced to an universitary campus and made violation of my room where in was 4 girls one valled the gipsy kings niece.-for the rest of the year and a friend of his became the boyfriend of a room colegue at informatics .the president i founf out after over 20 years had 5 etnivities and also gipsy and the country didn t know ..is smth on the internet not declared by police  The colehue who wellcomed the 4 rapists ..two and two brothers two being gemins the other..the rapist s brother left soon  The colegue who welcomed them while i had to defend as after at a party in one room this tried to rape me or made sexcual.assault avtually i was escaped by a graduate from highschhol seminar of theologie who was still there i think i remember all left it was a room where i didn t go before ..i was goven perhaps alcohol i remeber being kissed it was first time and i think drawn toward a bed and introduced the tongue into my month and he opened at his jeens..but i didn t open my jeens . I remeber the boy from.seminar of theology there only ..i think it was him.i don t remember very well..he was the lover of a girl into my room i thinnk i had an amnesy from highschool as i had a step father ..and aldo from.learning in comunism ..i was also i thonk very depressed because mom didn t let me stay with 2 other collegies frommuniversity at a 2 room flat..while here 2 room had 8 evil girls even  So after this ..i had to defen of hell here the church unofficial was prohobited i came from.a family with a sister at monastery and still didn t hear such a stupid thing until after long time after revolution some data...that some church have been desteyed althought mamy have been built . And after this i started to defend nobody talked about rape ever since the books  This was saod to be son of the minister of hidroconstruction thing that i never heard..but one uncle of mine was and inspector engineer at ..hidrostation.i discovered 5 years ago or so he had decorations i saw one i thought it was a suvenir...being a treat betwen our coubtey and Yugoslavia .i realised late when i saw at tv..i think starting  Now i do not own the adress of the girls from.universitarian campus ..i know some names i was required to gove myself the adresses of witnesses for divorce as if the thieves and rapers send their visit catds .what can i do i was let without money after i wad raped and after i gave birth the rapist was bribed with shares as a hotel. By masons ..i heard from one of his drivers that his peevious lawyer at the first divorce was a mason they rejected the divorce amd required Apeal i thought i did wrond the Apeal being admited althougj we have a president of usa type ..and a colegue teacher here from service of Information secret agebt said the presidebts are masons . I thought i did wrong as i became ill from winter the rapist husband hidden at divorce trial his welth that he was an owner a shareholder he said he has asalary is the 4 th time asking after divorce..now an anulmebt of the maroage again anulated because i don t know procedure ..for protection order they said i was late 2 days this is a criminal ofence is not being late for school we are rejected asking for defeance  Then i never succed to tell to parents about this boy .and actually about none of the boys introduced by the spy girl..acvording to my suspicions today actually many were spies - who pretended to be virgin from spanish language who rnteted our room to talk to gispsy's  king niece who shouldn t have the rigjt to stay with us..-i just told family about a boy from.outside .this boy was introduced by his own father .i had to 5 exams unpasssed ..and it wad forbiden only 3 could have passed in autumn Now you can go to next year with 6 There it was a stident at medicine sleeping but not having sex with a stident from.same faculty as mine of language and literature as i wasn t let to go to Law .i prayed to this to help ..this saod smb coming it was an arab i think ..tgey were going to universitary hospital .municipal hospital here for practice..the arab was at spcializing .and i took a colegue and went . After the arab harrasding me.the arab garrased her also ..she perhaps being a gipsy part or mainly ..or some ..i didn t know that time she was also at spaniish .. The atab asked to come at hour x..i could no longer took colegues eith me i had to wait the doctor after opetation..it was becoming difficult . ..there i had an uncle i think today it was one of the cause of rape as tgis was the uncle actor in previously The Great National Assembly about whoch i had no idea that makes rules and that there are patliaments nowadays  But i assume that as i had a depression i avoided to go to uncle as it was genocide..i was upset . Actualy i was at that campus ....as his daighetr and wife he being not at home sent me my mom and my aunt at league of students. .to receive a place at campus ..and i was upset i wadn t let to stay with my 2 colegues at a flat .it was perhapst high floor 7or 10 but anyway the capital was big it was the only flat visited  And i waited the surgeon .i could do this that time..my mother was a teacher of biology.i was admited at highest greatest high school a royal building but at a profile i don t know how of biology chemistry .and there at faculty it was language and literature i wished to go to Law .i think that i wasn t let by bad intention  My grandmother saying is not for girls nor juournallism..while my cousin daughetr of uncle in great natiinal assembly when i got there was given exam fir second faculty of journalism. And i also had a boy cousin at Medicine e.g.now is a chief at cardiology at hospital  And well i waited for the surgeon to come out from.operation....tgey came it was 3 i think ..and the arab among them.this seeing me said he would introduce me to his son. And saod to come the other day to give the medical certificate  Now i have the feeling that it was dark outside somehow and lights inside and it was summer already should have been light . I mean in June is ligt until 21 or so  And what to do i had to come again...i didn t tell i think to family and they were guilty they didn t let me to go to Law i don t have what to eat now they died and the rapist became rich by rapung their child.i also had step father with a grandfather imprisoned politically or so  And i went the other day i received the medical certificate and could pass that year although it was almost impossible being hatassed at universitary campus by the next rapist husband ..actually ..less by other boys because they didn t say they were son of ministers  And ..i can t remember because the amnesy how it happened .but the doctor asked i remebered about family what are my parebrs..they were teachers . Then coming for certificate next day..he maibtained to meet his child. I think i thought first i was blackmailed to met them again for giving the certificate to me..is there such things ? Well during this year at caputal yniversity i sawa lot of troubles i think saw..i was became more counscious i was beauty in my family is not such a thing said .. And the surgeon told his son was a graduate of that year so smaller than me with one year he just graduated hoghschool ..i had some bad experience with the boys but i were virgin i didn t know what we talked about ..it remained to met however the son and take him to the campus.i thought it was kind of society regarded ....i have no idea how the hell the son got there . Actualy of a room with girl students spies and whore . The son i think being also virgin ..i see today wonders as i first wanted to go to monastery at the begining of third year when for one exam i repted all.i had an aubt sister at monastery  And actually i don t know how the hell as innshort time appeared anyway after rape a lot if demons..at 26 year..that time i was 19 towatd 20  And i just remember that the father came at campus in short trousers ..to bring me 2 pavkrts of cigarets it looked the surgeon was payed with a pacjet of cogatets i am embarressed nowadays i made projects for countey myself after discovering abuses over population of kind of naxism not being printed money but required to work hard at 8 hours schedule whatever they do and only the goverment is uncobtrolled and the flying isle  And i know just ..very well that the son didn enter Medicine .and actually ..he then went to economics.that time he wajted to go to medicine. I think he wasn t very well and i didn t sustain him.in that direction  So part of it is dark side..i can remever cronologically ..and i suupose it s benn a trauma .only about this boy i told as i remember or so almost to my fily and grandmother . Never about the son of minister although resulting the chief of my uncle inspector engineer . When i got home at holyday..actually ..i saod about this i didn t say probably because i needed the medical certificate. ..and at teachers module ..an universoty teacher told the psihic developmebt can go on even after 18....this was when i completed it at after 30 years . I mean the fact that i didn t tell parebts about campus. .my grandmother and aunt came my aunt cane at third floor  saw boys in other bed ..and resulting they make sex by talking to her. My account from my money from real father a legal ammoubt ..was totalizing 5 flat of one room of secind confort or less of first comfort..and they dissapeated as value after genocide..i wasn t told about this value....and i could by just spirt shoes and a pairt of jeans strech like of the colegues ..and a litgle golden criss and thin bracelet and for neck a set of silver after revolutiin ..my grabdmother made a lot os scandal..after i din t know what years one could buy 2 or 3breads only . Previously i had now a vision a women into a golden shoe ...like sport shoe . Well i wasn t told about this value of my money ..i realised very hard after talking with the administrator woman in bucharest ..when my daighetr was kudnappef ..5 years ago. So..when i got home i told family only about this boy actually. My motjer started to say that we have a relative in past an university proffesor at medicine .. I have a feeling that i was embarassed..also saying about other teacher at university....two at that time ..anyway ..i discovered sion after 27 years that they had a relative in a closed city with at faculty as mine ..and i went far  where i was raped ..and they didn t say before  ..i was embarassed i suppose so that it was a different idea ..i talked with the surgeon ..that it s a problem i am not of his son age.but he told to take him.to campus. I think i have the impression that i was obsessed that i am haressed  So ..the boy came in autumn again we went out he took me with his car as he took driving licence ..to faculty of medivibe i think he wanted to be a doctor enourmously ..then the hell he took me to show where he stays ..and i didn t realised i went he..wad in two room flat it looks ..and i didn t sit down we left . ..then the secind colegue of room moving to other room pretendeding she saves me .she vame from gymnastics in childhood to Law....pretending before she was a virgin and i didn t realised what is with this sex but her boyfriend revealed comung that he is a bf ..this girl invited the doctor s son to take place and it us again a trauma i hardly remembered..she started a conversation that lasted i thing hours after midnight finished ..and then he started to propose to go to discotec . And the son dodn t appear ..he appear when i was taken as prisoner but not raped yet..and i don t know how we went all to discoteque...i mean me the rapist impostor son of minister ..the colegue prwtending first she was a virgin her bf and another girl looking in their custody really virgin i think at Sports also olimpic gimnastics having medals  But the son came after he was in a car crash exactely after he was invited by the colegue with the boyfriend to sit down.a year has passed he was better he had problem with his neck after car-crash ...i was suprised his father let him come after sich a thing.although it s a trauma i think involved in amnesy i have the impression that when i had to meet again the surgeon..e.g i had an abortion first with the rapist ....i have the impression that we talked about that evening when his son came  And he was invited by the girl at Law to take place and started a concersation ..i don t know how..but i didn t imply to much i think. I have the impression the doctor said from which faculty was the girl.and this time was day light  Possible that was before abortion..i had smth took from.toilet i went then to studebts hospital i think i was definitelly with an amnesy i remembered being examined by the doctor ..the father before i was raped because i should have been treated . His wife was a ginecologist . Then i went to hom for abortion also it was daylight in his beaureau..and sent me to the chief ginecologiest. I had a big amnesy.once i was on the stret.although the rapist took me to the edge of the town into a flat of misery with a waitress and a driver lover..i kept goind to the campus to see the colegues from.there .although i think i was kidnaped through an organised crime ..i was took outside of campus at two steps into a small room of 2 metrs or so..itwas rented ..as if a gift from.a colegue of the colegue who introduced the rapustm After i was raped the rapist said he slept with other women  And that girl also . The orher girl who pretended to be virgin first and who wasn t unjudged by now..was calling me unfucked ....she slept with her boyfriend under my bed and obviously ..the room of 2 metters or so ling and less width..was becoming a good idea  As i was on the street toward campus going..as i said..suddenly appeared the son of the surgeon ..he took me in a speed of car to the boggest park with a lake took me by force by hand and sit and holdervme suddenly by surprise as i was nt aware where he drives i thought smth happened i stand up ..saying just to go back immediatelly..i was shocked ..very much ..and it isn t at the Law  While the rapist cpuld do whatever he wanted as it wad comunism.here and fascist dictatorship ... I didn t dare to shout at the impostor i didn t know it was an impostor..the son of the minister..then i discovered his friends it was also a son of genetal who was with him.at theseaside and believed it was a son of minister too. Before i moved to the other room looking being saved by the ""responsible girl at Law" the rapist brought a girl and slept with her into my bed and in the other bed a friend if the two gemini was sleeping with the other girl but for sure i foubd thos after i was raped The girl sleeping with one of the two gemins friends of the rapist...was raped after they broke ..by three men in the old centre of the city..she was poored smth into the drink ..she acvepted an invitation coming from the street..she was from a litle town the studebts javen t been guarded after the henovide and after the Securitu being disolved thong that i didn t know until recently 4 years ago  So after i was kidnapped and let in the little room like of a servant an old building from king s time i think at a flat ..on a balcony wehere they have a place for garbage ...it was again a violation of home by the two colegies with the rapiat becoming friends in the meantime but i didn t talk when i was at campus..and a year in the new room i was safe until her bf said had scandal and the rapist appeated inside .amd ..i think they were all spy when smb has a fight don t become friends  . So they came woth the rapist amd. ..i realised i am actually about to be raped or jailed the dictator being shot without interview  Now i realise i was 17 at revolution i didn t have a job why bother npbody was judged only the dictator and his wife have been shot  Then the papers became of prostitution..no linger you could by a one flat room of second confort with the salary of two months just to pay the rent with thos ammount of money  And also chained by devil because of shock...and there is no doctor at Court at trials...they just pretend to be the kinfs and do only things that harass people...this colegue who hataassed me became a lawyer . She received from the rapist that .my husband..a job from the rapist who..after i was raped started to work for  a previously general of security i think ..who became owner of the highest comunist .hotel in capital city  And i never discovered although from 26 i went to church sayan coming all the ways .. Then thinking first it was s beaureau for UNICEF like smth for manifest of peace ..i subscribed to a small party as i had a phobia i could n go to far m.i was full of phobies. And i was virhin when i got home said smth of what happened anyway they knew i was kidnapped and evacuated by the owner of the flat a student returned from germamy his mother being a doctor webt there to operate him as child becoming rich..they had a photo with her and some people and  the new presidebt after genocide  Before rapist husband left for his mistress who was pregnant and i discoveted on the phone he said he shaked hands with this presidebt  And i dodn t know what told at home ..but they knew ..i was out..of my campus on street with the son of minister ..he was also evacuated by the lawyer where he had practoce he was at a provate faculty of Law. Was staying actually in one room at undetground at lawere s house..after years i found out it was a notorious area where was staying that president after revolution and who was in paper inculpatef of revolution 4 years ago ..but not judged  And i don t remember what happened ..it is logically that as my family was poor..i saying i was let innthe street with the son of minoster of course..my grandmother checjed if i was still virgin..so i was . And my aunt with the umcle inspector and engineer considered by me in underconsciounss ..guilty i think..didn t show up..coming here although she wanted previosly to adopt me as ihad a step father ...i mean mother s sister..we didn t have at list a car..but of one flat room..i suppose my aunt also ciuld buy an entire block. Well this was goven rationally not anyway. After a while the father of the boy ..asked me to introdiced his son a colegue .i introdiced being mad i thibk...and she slept with him than jumped over the window previously she was mistress of an egiptean although i thought she was virgin . The son took her to his grandmother house which was a vilas with staiirs she told about it ..i didn t know ..i was took only to the flat of two rooms ...i realised she could have slept for this .but she was  The girl introdiced by me at doctor s request was 3-4 years bigger ..and i didn t realise she will slerp with him.i suppose. After the Apeal i went to hospital of mad as i said i returning while i wasn t goveb a mefical certificate as i was ill from.winter ..i thoufht actually i ll will die..now i was told ..e.g..called soet of medical vacation..and id not goven more then 1-2 weeks or so..anyway not a month and i was along 2 months ill and ..with big problems .and actually by demons also . The Apeal.admited was to a lawyer which was a mason and so i heard before evacuation about primminister at that time and bow i don t have any money and i don t have what to eat and the musyard is turning into a boot ...as i see miracles..and also with gold .. And all kind of princesses and little amgels and english soldier ..or pope even *** tall as a ttee but it jusut ..immediatelly dissapear tthose frogjtening e.g and i think that ..i was emprisoned by Pope who actually i discovered does n t have divorce ..and i heard at a monastery here it is An anticrist..after i was at hospital of mad doscovering i had some priests in family . Now i don t have a bath  I don t have a showe i mean i can t bath  At the old house of my grandmother eich has three succesiobs and also the son of the uncle eho is a policeman my uncle died i discovered they had in family diring the getmain king a Prefect of countey..and his son of first eife became a policeman also studied Law and didn help to dovorce also my step brother  And i think they qre spies who do jot help  I have a problem.with my knees i told about it when i was kudnappef everything that moment i didn t talked before and the rapist husband took all two american cars for him.i was let to go by foot....i do not have where from.to know the adress of the fellows of the rapodt and friends who were also then of the raposts..slthough i being stiil virhin as it was goven a term.of two months i went to inquire at campus..the bf of the girl saying they didn t know why this keeps to go after them ..actual I thought actially she wanted to marry eith the rapost and i felt somehow safe ..regarding my position although after that i encountered a problem being a sort of couple eith the brither of his bf wchich was 2 years smaller but tall and as a door reseambling my uncle mon s brother ...and i thougjt she for her invited him...previous year she picjed up tei studebts having car and brought thdm to the hotel where we stufevts were staying..iit looks my family didn t know i think it was a trauma.. They knew only about this son of the surgeon bot of the minister .. I also was sexually abused by step father at 5 years i think he was a gipsy part of i..impossible to see ..as better red skin ..t and covered possible a spy .. And i never heard about such a thing spies here and i thought could exist perhaps only in usa  And ..that is the proof i have no easdy to find proof that the girl at Law had as teacher the proffesor who is a prime minister after coup d etait . And recently i discovered that the judges and prosecutors amd magostrated are named by presidebt as if it absolute king of devine right while actially we are a Republic amd acvording to internet date these judges prosecution and magistrate should have bern voted republicanly  And the things being so this explain while the girl was behaving as s a servant ....vut for example at market it appeared Blessed virgins at the stick..for cleanning the floor  ..here is on Episvopy blessed virgin which was national banck of the town now i discovered there is mo banck of nwtion after the photos with the girls implied innrape dissapeated and the other before raoe .. Without saying ..taken to a rebted  flat avtually and not acvomodation for tourists ...and now i have to sue the govermebt for rebting such things to rapists ..without official papers and cheched group..as i know before it was a security of 500 000..on the internet with families ..and it was killed a female singer by somebody having higher relationships ..apearring visions about it. And i suposse now that we are prisoners of spies who raped women in my family . And how do i get rod of this please ? And my family almost all died here and i suspect all have bern killed and from.the mer at house remained only i steo brother and cousin policeman who rarely appeared and ..the two rebted their part .i can t leave as after Apeal i didn t receive money only tge rapist husband lept money and went abroad and the driver and the colegue which is a real nepshew of minister didn t wantvto ..go to court  At firat tral for divorce i payed lawyer i also payed after i received Decision..for what was needed and insread rejecting the Apeal as it was paid thiis stole the money . And i discovered that the primeminister from.than also being a lawyer was a mason on the internet everything whoch is bad is onninternet a huge socialist syate still workimg cover their crime calling themselves oficcers ..of informatioon and general of romaniam service of informtion..while they never say at civil state for marriage whi is or if nobody is a spy or an agebt and i am going to sue all the goverment for rape . The hisband actially didn t pass his diploma i discovered last summer he is part greek ..in the birth certificate is not eriten the religion and the nation either and ouw countey looks occupied somce the second eorld war by masons . And they are using mariage to rape and spy and ocupy the power to print miney only for them.and take all others as slaves and let me die of hunger ...and are beasts . I mean ..coming a teacher an agebt actually of this romanian service of infornation who actially helped the rapist madons to rape me. ...this coming at school at countryside ..as i wasn t goven in my town was saying ..the dictayprship was a mason also and founders of america and the contemporary presidents  And i wasn t help ..i am tereified by any kind of function of the state even the clergy who disn t say it s did by state a laicist mariage plagiated bt them without searching if os acvording to cannons and scientofical mefical information.. And the lawa sice Kimgs are not acomplished the whole gpverment and phantomatocal parlialebt avtially raping us by not having to deal with Laws at civil state for mariage although is a place of Law as if we are at indians.  And i think that actually the goverment is of rapist masons anyway the teavher agent covered than he recognised. ..said about this  And this started with comunism..actualy..the laicist marriage . And here it wasn t seen depicting puctures i think ..of usa it was fred astaier and gonger rogere ..and we all fell ..into a hell of rape. Actually to my best knowledge between fred astair and superman it elvis presley just ..as seen from.here  And Court is something of a king..and doesn t have the right to judge without king....and is no longer justofied except some political roghts and i ve been raped by Court by Apeal admited ...and giving me " sanction " for being 2 days later or so..or not paying the 23 dolars for divorce . I saw at firat divorce the hisbabd whose fault acvording to law pays ..and actually he told lies tp Court ..was hidden the fortune an Estate hotel i suposed given to him for rapung me by masons . The Vourt is a band of a sect who checked nothing and i need to sue the govermentbit looks all services for them some umknown people who takes votes like in Usa . These masons broje the laws of God and are not asjamed to come at the saintly daylight with troals that terrify the ean.like in Usa..for Custody. An analphabetic term aplied to dovorce with children  And i saw visions my daighetr dissapeating during the trial ..who.almist killed me ....this being a Blasphemy to discuss over the life of a baby and a pedophily..a colegue from.univetsity real virgin i think ..mafe an abortion being threatened by the husband 5 years smaller that will do all possible to take the child ..and the child was no longer born  And the Cooyrt doesn t judge the crimes and is nevesarry tp come kings government  I haven t seen such a crime..i didn t know there is rape nowadays anf nor by a studebt at Law. There is no report of the State ..never.... I didn t know that my uncle had a parlamentary position ..actualy by chance i found out at hoghschiol or less from.mymgranfmother he being and actor ..small rolles genetrlly during comunism......appeated on tv not frequently. But appeared ....i met him.twice in my life since i grow ..since secondary school..and i do not feel guilty for this. I talked to the priests said about sins to be a problem.only on direct line  But atcthe capital a proest near the royal palace said something gebetocally probably only.. As i remember ..god in the bible..since i started to read since devil came at 26.. As i remember ..God once being upset ..said that ...everybody will pay only for his sins. Bit i dod projects amyway before thinking of such things before doscovering the rape As i said actially..this uncle in Great national assembly..i didn t know that was a parliebt and didn t imagine there is sich a stupid thing nowadays perhaps. While the rapist knew who i was wwhile i had no idea ...then after rape ..and after i gave birth about to die told me i am.idiot and cow  Now people are tortured they dinnt have money for dentists even i took off teeth abd anyway since Campus and should nt be perniitted to boys to talk to me exvept i exvept.. ..and ..actually the people instead of paying a one glat room with two salararies..are paying a rent and are raped .i see miracles garbage pice of papers or bill becoming money..and the payment of aday is 10£ Some sadoc madons ocupued the power and i saw visions of guns even in my bed and as a toy  Regarding tge dictatorship of a parliamebt this is also today....actually beeing taken off the teeth the countey being made by their hands .. While UE doesn t care of the crimes and doesn t print the money necessary to cover its crimes along history untill to day and two wars ..and actually to pay for the land in usa with pribted money ..i made the project to eact citizen with difference ..e.g.1 miluin dolars for 1 ha. So each having 1 milion for the land ..and having protected their land and juridized on their name .isn t this ok? And 20 milion abortions being made during this ocupation after the genocid ..people being asked by criminal judges actually police and military forcecat ellection here is 200$ salary actualy or 250$ after 10 years ..ruled by onrvof the stupid madons presidents  So actually ruled by historian deficitary parties.  Without knowing ..what is a democracy 10 milion of people living  at countriside still .. While their roghts swallowed they didn t have democratic public halls frommthe begining being declared although therr is in a kind of poetry fot kids frommcomunism ..but not a hall actually with talks or votes ....only this parluebt makes rules and ..exterminared the people in hospitals but asking them to work like cars and machines for capitalism. While judges or clergy doesnnt judge them and the Court became Snticrist asking people to swear on bible in Courts while apliying them the laws of parliamebt not of God 

Is it okay or bad to only kiss your spouse once a day? We have his 3 year old son in the mornings (7am-3) and afterwards when he gets picked up we usually work until night and then kiss before bed. Thoughts? We still hug throughout the day and are playful.  

Married couples: how many times a day do you kiss your spouse? Is it a peck, French, full on make out? My husband and I only do it once a day. Not sure if that's good or bad 

Is it normal for married couples to only kiss once or twice a day? Sometimes we both work until night and go to bed at same time, so there are days when we don't even kiss. We usually just kiss before work or bed. We don't kiss in the morning unless I am going to work, then I will kiss him. Is this okay? I kiss his head and cheek a lot before I go to work. I read somewhere that couples should kiss 5 times a day, but I think that's a bit much. Thoughts?

I am ready to file for divorce from my husband. too much abuse. At some points I even got threats to my life. The issue is I got my green card through him. At the moment I am waiting for the renewal of my card, and I am also pregnant. I quit my job last year because I could no longer afford childcare on my own.my whole paycheck was going towards it. So I decided to leave and wait until I find something better.He is an unstable person. When I found out about the pregnancy I talked to him about adoption and abortion. he refused both. He threatened to file for divorce if I did. my legal status could be jeopardized. it's not that we were reckless and got pregnant. But we were fine with having kids until he stopped pitching in on some bills last year, started putting money towards futile things. I'm not going to kill myself to help with finances and also childcare for 2 kids and one on the way, when you took a car note for your mother, knowing we are paying on your car note. he now tells me the norm is two income households and he makes over 70000$ a year and I am not bringing in anything. I'm not working but I'm using my trust fund to pitch in on all expenses, even the mortgage. These last few days he saw me naked in the shower and is now reminding me that I'm his wife still, despite the fact that he clearly was pushing me to divorce.I told him last year it was over let's focus on the kids until then. how do I politely refuse anything sexual without him threatening me? 

Is it normal for married couples to only kiss once a day? Sometimes we both work until night and go to bed at same time, so there are days when we don't even kiss. We usually just kiss before work or bed. We don't kiss in the morning unless I am going to work, then I will kiss him. Is this okay? I kiss his head and cheek a lot before I go to work 

Is it okay for my husband and I to kiss once a day? We hug a lot more than kissing. We've been married for 7 months 

I mean what does ot mean -file for divorce do you make a file ?what do you have to write how many pages and what must you tell ?

I had been friends with her for 10 years so I never really expected this behavior from her. We started off with a strong emotional connection that later led to us having sex a couple of times. She complained about her husband so many times that I lost count. She was constantly calling me crying and hysterical. She said her husband was controlling and emotionally abusive. She also said they argued every single day. She kept telling me that she was falling in love with me but she was waiting until she could afford to live on her own and then she would divorce him. She kept telling me I was her soulmate. She even was buying me gifts. I feel so stupid for believing all her crap and actually putting my life on hold for 6 months. I was turning down women left and right for her. I'm not being cocky but I am a handsome guy and there were a lot of women interested in me but I turned them down because she told me to wait on her.. and I did. I was even blocking women on Facebook and stuff that tried to come at me because me and her had this intense bond and I thought we had something special. She told me I was special and this was gonna be worth the wait. I mean she would send me like essay long texts about how she feels about me. We were talking on the phone literally from 5 am till 5 am no lie.. I would be late for work and everything because we just got lost in conversation.. we had these amazing conversations and this amazing bond and we made each other laugh all the time. She told me " thank you for making me laugh and smile so much. I haven't smiled or laughed my entire marriage.. you've brought back the light in my life." What's even more crazy is that she was buying my family gifts too like she bought my mom this really nice pair of high heels and my mom was like " omg are you serious I wanna meet her.." getting my family all excited about her. 

When I met my wife some 16 years ago she weighed about 105 lbs. Very slim and petite and that's what I liked about her. She probably was wearing a size 4 in clothes. Since then she's gotten up to about 160 lbs and is now wearing a 10,12 or ever 14 in clothes. I still love her but do not find her sexually attractive anymore. She complains that we don't have sex anymore. Int he past 5 months we've probably only been physical once. Her closet if full of clothes she can't get into anymore and she's always complaining about not having anything to wear. Watching her put on a pair of jeans is a chore. She'll say "Women's clothes are suppose to be form fitting. Her idea of weight loss is to pay companies these high prices to monitor her eating but every night after dinner she'll eat a bowl of cereal right before bed. Anytime I bring up her weight we usually get into an argument and she'll end up crying. How do I approach this with her and convince her to lose weight without it hurting her feelings?

Why did she have to exist? Why do I have to share my son with her? I never wanted my son to ever get married. I wanted to be the only women in his life. Why did my son have to get married ? I just want my son all for myself :( and I hate seeing my daughter in law's face her voice is soft and mousy like her stupid families I told my son to leave her so I can have him all for myself but he won't what do I do?

I fall in love with a woman that was married.  I know it isn't good but we falled deeply in love.. she say that she cannot imagine life without me...how much she miss me and many good stuff even she wanted to meet my kids and i met her mother etc..she was very happy until 2 days ago she became sad because she doesnt know if she has courage to tell her husband to start legal action about house etc.. her husband suspected something and he left home about 3 months ago.. she truly is in love but she is afraid of this situation.. she tells me " better if my husband gight with me like that i can tell him" she likes to go abroad and before we met they booked a flight.. but because we were tohether she didnt went and she really loves to go abroad.. now she is saying that she want a bit of time alone to feel how she feels but she says she wont leave at the end..  Thanks alot

I live in the United States, but I have an nontraditional and slightly controversial view on marriage. I believe in nuclear families. I would prefer my husband to move in with my parents and I and raise our children in the same home. I don't wish to share the same bed as my husband, as I already have trouble sleeping at night. I find jewelry to be uncomfortable so I would never wear a wedding ring. I would keep my last name because I find that it's sexist to change only the female name. I disagree with the hyphen idea as well, because that implies you changed who you are after marriage. I would prefer to have independent bank accounts. Really, I would idealistically like my marriage to be more like a roommate type of relationship, where neither is obligated to the other and keep their own identities. The only way it would differ is we would still be exclusive and we could only make love with each other. Yes I know I am a bit extreme compared to the rest of my society. Do you think someone like me is right for marriage? This is the first time I've asked this question. So there are others like me!? That's great! I'm glad I'm not alone.

And never married in the past. We are assuming  These guys are attractive with good jobs too

I had been friends with her for 10 years so I never really expected this behavior from her. We started off with a strong emotional connection that later led to us having sex a couple of times. She complained about her husband so many times that I lost count. She was constantly calling me crying and hysterical. She said her husband was controlling and emotionally abusive. She also said they argued every single day. She kept telling me that she was falling in love with me but she was waiting until she could afford to live on her own and then she would divorce him. She kept telling me I was her soulmate. She even was buying me gifts. I feel so stupid for believing all her crap and actually putting my life on hold for 6 months. I was turning down women left and right for her. I'm not being cocky but I am a handsome guy and there were a lot of women interested in me but I turned them down because she told me to wait on her.. and I did. I was even blocking women on Facebook and stuff that tried to come at me because me and her had this intense bond and I thought we had something special. She told me I was special and this was gonna be worth the wait. I mean she would send me like essay long texts about how she feels about me. We were talking on the phone literally from 5 am till 5 am no lie.. I would be late for work and everything because we just got lost in conversation.. we had these amazing conversations and this amazing bond and we made each other laugh all the time. She told me " thank you for making me laugh and smile so much. I haven't smiled or laughed my entire marriage.. you've brought back the light in my life." What's even more crazy is that she was buying my family gifts too like she bought my mom this really nice pair of high heels and my mom was like " omg are you serious I wanna meet her.." getting my family all excited about her.  I don't believe she was lying about her relationship being toxic. In fact, I'm sure she wasn't because she constantly recorded their conversations and she talked to her horrible most of the time. She said they went to counseling but I don't think she was wise to let me go for him when I would've never treated her that horribly.  It was so out of the blue too.. she just randomnly told me she regrets cheating with me and she wanted to work things out with her husband. 

She knows about the other 12 but i might do it again i just hope shes understanding about it.