Family: Question: My girlfriend sometimes acts like my mom and sometimes I like it...Is that bad?

Question: My girlfriend sometimes acts like my mom and sometimes I like it...Is that bad?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 02:34 PM PST

So long story short when I was 12 (I'm 24) my mom left my family. Because of that I sort of missed the relationship that most of my friends developed with their moms. Now the thing is: I have a girlfriend that I love but sometimes I realize that she acts like my mom. She makes me hot choccolate milk and takes it to me while I'm under the blanket,she fork feeds me sometimes,always joking. There are times when I don't like these things but sometimes I do. Is this a bad thing?

Question: Getting threatened?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 01:57 PM PST

My mother will raise her fist at me occasionally and she said that she will smash my face in. She also will accuse me of doing things that I do not do and she spreads lies about me, and I do not know what to do.

Question: Has your family ever done anything so unbelievably stupid?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 01:38 PM PST

So my sister decided to go back to her abusive ex... She bought him to the house and reintroduced us like it was nothing. Even my little nephew was rolling his eyes the whole time because this man used to scare him sh-tless with how he would yell at my sister! So when my old dog died because he was staying over our house during a hurricane and he bought his huge pitbull which killed our family dog. When he came over the first thing he asks us is "Where's your dog" He forgot that our dog died because of him! I'm sorry i'm just so angry right now I thought my sister learned her lesson now we have to go deal with this jailbird again.

Question: Can I have my adult daughter commited?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 01:34 PM PST

I don't want to call the cops because she might mention that I have been running into her accidentally and kicking her chair so she leaves.She is way too sensitive and definitely crazy She is crying all the time and needs to be super doped on pills so we can handle her diffivult personality.I barely touched her it shouldn't hurt she is fat.She also said my bf threatened to crash the car and kept slamming on the brakes really hard when he was driving her yesterday because she was being a *****

Question: Who Was Wrong?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 01:19 PM PST

This is a petty sibling fight, and we're trying to figure out who was in the wrong. We had to take a 2hr car ride in the morning. Sister 1 normally drives because Sister 2 hates driving. Sis 1 was in the shower when Sis 2 woke up ready to leave, (it was 8 AM when they were supposed to walk out the door). Sis 1 said that Sis2 needed to drive because Sis1 was out till 4 AM helping their mom. Sis2 agreed and asked if she could drive her car because she hates driving Sis1's car (it makes her uncomfortable because she doesn't know it as well as her car and she got a ticket in it once on this exact trip). Sis1 said no because she was driving home and she hates driving Sis2's car (she feels it wobbles too much and claims the headlights are too weak). (Sis2 cant drive at night because of her vision.) Sis2 gets mad and pitches a fit because it's raining and she didn't feel safe driving Sis1's car let alone in the rain.  (The fight went on for ages and ended with the dad coming and driving both the sisters.) Who was in the wrong and who was in the right? I said its petty sibling drama at the beginning as a warning. If you're gonna be a ***** in the answers, ESPECIALLY an anonymous one then don't answer 🤗 The reason we're asking who is wrong is because our family keeps bringing it up even though we are both over it. They want one of us to admit we're wrong, but even though we aren't mad at each-other we both believe we're right so the fam told us to make people vote. 

Question: My girlfriend kicked my dog?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 01:10 PM PST

We've been together for a few years and she was over while we were watching tv and i have a black labrador puppy and a car drove by and my puppy started barking and my girlfriend screamed shut up at him and kicked him and he actually fell down and then she hit his head and i told her to stop it's just a puppy and she just said whatever and i'm thinking about this, what to do now?

Question: How can I get over my mother always calling me insecure when I'm not?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 12:29 PM PST

My mom knocks down myself esteem because she is in disagreement with most of my outfits or makeup. It's gotten to the point where I don't ask for her opinions and avoid her before she can make some comment. I never wear anything really inappropriate. But she doesn't like the fact that I wear shorts or an off the shoulder shirt. Shes not a girly girl either so she dislikes makeup and says I dont like myself when that's not the truth. She doesn't listen to anything I say, and says that I just don't want to hear the truth that I'm insecure when I'm not. My mom is is two generations older than me so we don't connect on much at all, what should I do?

Question: Mother in law doesnt have my daughters picture out ? ?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 11:40 AM PST

I got my mil a professional photo of my daughter bc she asked for one bc she didnt have just a photo of her . I gave it to her for christmas . She has all my husbands sister's children out in her off set room on big shrines . My daughters is no where to be found after Christmas except for a tiny one on her fridge . Should i bring it up or let it go ? Here is the photo pro didnt like it bc she has a tiny scratch on her forehead . 

Question: Are cops allowed to do this?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 11:37 AM PST

Last week I was arrested for unpaid tickets which i couldn't afford and the cops arrested me at my house and put handcuffs on me and i was completely cooperative but the cop holding me hit me with his hand multiple times in my head whenever i walked to slow or didn't answer his questions and even kicked my leg hard where it hurt to even walk and bled a little, i still have the bruises and i'm wondering if that was even legal cooperative meaning i listened to him and did as he said respectfully  If you call my question a troll when it's not that's trolling itself and is reportable  i live in the us 

Question: Does this make me a very bad son?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 11:33 AM PST

I am a high school guy with a step mom who is just 6 years older than I am. Dad married a much younger woman. I really like my step mom. I think she is the greatest. To say she is beautiful is an understatement. She is gorgeous. I guess dad likes young beautiful women. When my buddies come to hang out with me they always tell me how beautiful, hot, and sexy my mom is. I tell them I know she is beautiful but she is NOT hot and sexy. Off hand one day I told her with her great looks, she could be model. She told me she was a model before she married my dad. She asked if I wanted to see her pictures when she was a model? Of course I said yes. She showed me her photo album and it turns out she was a lingerie model. In some of the pictures she had very little clothes on. It took ALL of my will power NOT to get a b0ner looking at these pictures. I can only guess how mad my dad would be if I got a b0ner for his wife. Lucky for me I didn't. Does this make me a VERY SICK son?

Question: Why did my co workers get the wrong idea?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 11:29 AM PST

There is only one way to describe my mother in law (Pam). She is beautiful. From looking at her, you would never know she could have a daughter my age. She is also one of the nicest persons you ever will meet. Pam and I work in the same large office building. Occasionally we have lunch at a local restaurant. Sometimes when my wife can get off work, she joins us for lunch. At the last lunch, it was just Pam and me. Some of my female co workers who know my wife saw us and when I got back from lunch, they got on my case about me being a married man and having lunch with a beautiful blonde. I told them my wife was OK with me having lunch with this blonde. They said "Typical man". "No wife would approve of her husband having lunch alone with such a beautiful woman". I thought I would explain she was my mother in law but I decided they would probably not believe me anyway. Gals, am I right about this? I knew these women would probably call my wife and tell her what I did. That should be a fun conversation to listen to. I think they are going to be embarrassed when they find out that blonde was my mother in law. Should I have told them I was having lunch with my mother in law?

Question: Do I have to write to him (my brother) and explain why I did what I did?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 11:27 AM PST

My older brother has been mean to me since we were children. He would beat me up, once stabbed me with a fork, sexually molested me and could go on. We are adults now and he has been a bully during my adult years too. He lives in FL, I live about 1000 miles away. I visited him and his girlfriend for Christmas this past year and the year before and both times he never spent any time with me. NONE. He has a house in the state in which I live which is an hour and a half from mine. For the past 10 years he comes up to his house 2x per year and if I want to see him, I have to drive there. He has never come to my house. I asked him this last time if he would mind coming to my house and we could switch it up. I will drive to his house and him to mine. We will share. HE did not want to do that and never came over. So I did not go to his house for Christmas this year and do not plan on texting him anymore. I can't take the hurt and rejection. Do I have to explain why I am disappearing? His girlfriend did ask me what was wrong and I told her that he ignores me when I visit and won't drive to see me when he is near me. So I am giving him what he wants. He doesn't have to spend time with me. So probably he may have a vague idea. But do I have to make it formal, like a letter or something? I feel sad inside. Our parents are deceased and he is some of the only family I have. Just can't take his painful indifference. Thanks.

Question: Family issues?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 11:20 AM PST

I'm going to try to make this short as I can. Basically, I live in a household where I get picked at the most. My younger siblings do things that they know will cause me to yell at them (For example: Not listening to me when I tell them to stop doing things they aren't suppose to). I tried not to before but they'll tell me I'm not their mom or talk back. I know I'm not their mom but I have to watch them.. My mom even agrees with them but will complain about me not getting them in order which confuses me... she's not any better either. She talks about me like a dog. She always starts problems with me.. like if I wanna get my hair done, she'll start finding something to complain about that which turns into an argument. I try to avoid it by ignoring her and listening to music but that'll only end up to her hitting me. Also, she'll tell the kids not to be like me because I'm a devil or make it seem like I'm picking at the kids. THESE KIDS ARE BAD. They curse and everything... I don't pick at them. How is telling them what they need to stop doing is picking? I've been helping her raise these kids since I was 12 .. she doesn't listen to me when I try to explain myself and I'm just over it. I'm 18 and I'm planning on moving out soon.... is there any advice you can give me? No negative replies please...  Also, I'm going to start ignoring my siblings when they beg me for stuff.. my mom is going to say I'm trying to be funny but it's the only way for me. It's obvious that I know that I'm not their mother, she tells me to discipline them so therefore it makes it MY RESPONSIBILITY do what she says as the oldest. The thing is that after I do what she says, she starts yelling at me. 

Question: I don't want to be with the mother of my children but I don't want to see her with someone else?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 10:43 AM PST

This wasn't one sided. Petty arguing and fighting, yelling was a daily thing for us. We both love each other still very much but we know the bad isn't good for the children. They are just toddler (twins). I don't like the idea of moving on and I can't even fathom thoughts of her doing it. Has anyone been in a similar situation or could I be offered any advice how to get past this?

Question: I’m dreading school tomorrow, is there anyway to skip?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 10:15 AM PST

I have english tomorrow with mrs kang and she's mean and hits me and slaps me and i can't take it anymore

Question: My iMacs are having issues, what do I do?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 10:14 AM PST

I have 4 iMacs, a 2019 27 inch iMac, a Late 2009 27 inch iMac, and two 2008 20 inch iMacs, The 2009 iMac screen won't turn on, the 2008 iMacs freeze a few minutes after login and i have to turn them off, and the 2019 iMac has several vertical lines on the screen

Question: When you get you life all together like you got a good job and you have a car and a home what is something you should know before having kid?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 10:00 AM PST

Question: Why is my sisters taller than me??

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 09:25 AM PST

I am 5'3 male and i am 17, my twin sister is 6', my 15 years old sister is 6'3 and my 11 years old sister is 5'5. I get a lot of **** because of it, they're stronger then me and each one of them beats me up from time to time. Theyre always making fun of me (like every day) and my parents are cool with that. It sucks, does someone can relate?

Question: My dad saw me naked in the hallway, what should I do?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 08:13 AM PST

I'm a grown woman, and I'm visiting my parents right now. I didn't think there was anyone in the hallway, and I needed to use the bathroom. I wanted to go back to bed, so I just thought it's too much trouble to put my clothes on and just decided to go naked because there was no one out there anyway. But it turned out my dad was in his room and he saw me. He closed the door so when I was done, I just ran back to my room and he didn't see me again. I'm mortified now. I mean yeah I know he saw me naked all the time when I was a little kid, but it's completely different as a grown woman it seems. Should I apologize, or should I just pretend it never happened? What should I do?

Question: My mother has an uncle who insults my beloved grandfather on occasion. How do I respond if he ever does to me?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 07:55 AM PST

This uncle of my mother's is not well liked. He is narcissistic and has a personality like Donald Trump. He is the brother of my grandfather so jealous of my grandfather's wealth and my grandfather getting a car dealership in his father's estate that the uncle did not get. Seems odd the great-grandparents didn't give it to all the kids but I have no idea the details and they had 7 kids. So how do I respond if this great-uncle does this? Do I pretend I did not hear him? I only see him at reunions and funerals so don't want to make an argument or anything as most the people there are very nice including this man's children and grandchildren.

Question: My Mom taught me as a child that when I am at odds with someone I am to make them ALL BAD. How do I break this trait?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 07:50 AM PST

My mother still does it and she has rubbed it off onto my Dad.

Question: Since my sister abuses me and blows up at our parents does this make us have a dysfunctional family?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 07:43 AM PST

My sister is a toxic adult to be around.

Question: Should I ask my sister and her fiance to turn off the camera in the house?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 07:33 AM PST

My brother used to live with us and my sister had trust issue with him because he was just dirty and brought people over, so she decided to install a motion sensor camera. Now that he moved out, it is just me. To me, it bothers me at time because when I'm home, they still have it on in the living room, meaning they can see and know where/what I'm doing. My sister's fiance joked with me saying, there's no point of being afraid of the camera. We hardly check the camera. That's isn't true because my sister will always check it. My girlfriend comes over sometime and gets really uncomfortable because it felt like we were being watched, meaning we just stay in the room, locked in. I wanted to ask my sister if we can have it turned off whenever we have someone home because it is unnecessary to have it on. Whenever my sister and him are home, they turn it off, but when I'm home, it stays on. I'm kinda afraid to ask because my sister pays half of my rent, meaning I only pay a little which she might use that against me. 

Question: I got my son arrested, and he doesn't forgive me. Is he right to not forgive me?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 07:17 AM PST

A few days ago, I found out my 20-year-old son stole between £150 and £200. After discovering his, I called the police - who eventually turned up and arrested him. They kept him in custody for 24 hours and he was eventually charged with theft. Since his arrest, he has been furious with me. I told him that I love him - but having him arrested was the right thing to do as stealing is against the law. However, he says he doesn't forgive me and that it is all my fault that he was arrested. He refuses to speak to me now - and his dad/my husband says that he doesn't blame him for not forgiving me and refusing to speak to me. Do you think he is right to not forgive me?

Question: Psychologically,  why does my Mom disrespect my boundaries? I'm 26.?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 06:07 AM PST

My Mom will wake me up, on a weekend, in this order: cell phone call, house phone call, try to open my 'locked from the inside' door. She knows I desperately need my sleep, she knows these are my only chances to sleep in, she knows it wakes up my baby. Why does she know? I've told her. Many times. I've asked her to let me sleep. She....I don't know.........forgets? She does it over and over. She did not do this when I had my own place, it started when I moved into her in-law suite. She does this always early in the morning, and then it's silent for the rest of the day. It makes me feel like crying. I have told her this. What is wrong with her? Anything I can do?

Question: Is this bad?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 03:59 AM PST

Is it bad to put on a front around people? 

Question: Why did someone shame my mom for not being able to keep her baby quiet throughout the flight?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 02:48 AM PST

We just came home from a 3 hour flight with my mom and my little sister and well she started crying on the plane and mom couldn't do anything. After had landed some weirdo told my mom how much of a whore she is and asked where our dad was. My mom is 35 and my sister is 1 and I'm 14.

Question: Why is my dad so disrespectful towards mom?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 01:39 AM PST

I overheard their discussion yesterday because I had lifet my door opened and heard dad begging for sex but mom told him that she was too tired after a long day of work. My sister is 1 and she is very demanding for mom. My sister was sleeping next to them and he wanted sex so bad? 

Question: Why does my sister do this?

Posted: 12 Jan 2020 12:55 AM PST

Hi my name is Lexi and I'm 14 and my older sister Kylie who's 16 is constantly giving me wedgies. She gives me then all the time, like at least once a day and they're really embarrassing especially when she does it with my or her friends over. She says it's because "it's her job" but what's the actual reason she gives them. Btw I only live with my sister and my mom and my mom thinks my sisters wedgie giving is hilarious especially if it's an atomic and she even helps out my sister sometimes 

Question: My mom was a young wasn’t she?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 11:44 PM PST

She had me at the age of 21 and my dad was 23. This was in 2003 so average was 28 or 29 then.

Question: My house is all but decaying and my mother refuses to fix it so she can afford to go to Disney world. Am I wrong to think this is stupid?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 11:44 PM PST

Here's the deal: for most of my life I have been a quasi-single child (parents are divorced & my father had kids with another woman). I have grown up with my mother who has been a single parent for most of my life - at least as much of it as I can remember. From about the time I was in middle school to roughly a year after high school my mother has had this OBSESSION with going to Disney world every - curse word - year.  I know I sound VERY ungrateful for that kind of opportunity to have growing up, nonetheless it's frankly disturbing to me at the extent to how crucial going to this hollow, substance-less, over priced carnival is to her. As it says in the subject title - my childhood home, the same one I have to live in while not at school because of my budget options, is ROTTING or breaking as time goes on. Virtually the whole roof needs to be redone, window sills & frames are rotting, cracking & leaking water. The AC doesn't work for the spring & summer & there's this ever expanding ominous (what I can only describe by comparing it to the black spot dreaded by 18th century pirates) water damage RIGHT OVER my bed in my room. What gets priority over all that? "Hmmm, ooh I can afford these crappy accommodations in these cheap, half hearted themed economy rooms where we have a 70/30 shot of the 20 or so odd people, usually foreigners (cause hey it's apparently where they ALL GO from what I can tell) being right next door and being loud until 2AM." More detail if requested. I know she works hard & I want her to be happy. But it's a genuine emotional trauma for her when something interferes with her going to this overpacked park. It doesn't help that I'm usually stuck being the only one going with her except for the ONE occasion where I finally managed to bring a girlfriend with me, but otherwise we're mistaken for a couple every time we go - even when I go out of my way to make it obvious I'm younger than her as well as her son.

Question: How is my mom stronger than me?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 10:29 PM PST

I'm 29 and a boy and my mom has always been able to move and carry me my whole life and she carried me when I was 14 she's kind of thin and looks like Brady Reiter and I'm thin and a boy.

Question: Are my parents going to get divorced?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 10:10 PM PST

In the summer my mom started feeling distant from my dad, according to him. I didn't feel it, at least not then. Then about a month later, mom started telling me that she was feeling more uncomfortable around dad, that he was controlling her all the time and making her scared. Fast Forward to September 2019. My mom still thinks my dad is always controlling her and making her uncomfortable, so she decided to get another house for 3 months to see if he changed. He did change and mom agrees he did. (Also, during this 3 month period my dad was very very sad.) But while she was gone she felt like she liked it better than being home with the family. So now she's been back for a month (came back Dec. 16) and everything seemed normal again for the first 2 weeks, but then the past 2 weeks they (mom and dad) have been fighting every night, (not physical, just talking/yelling). Mom is going back and forth each night with sleeping in her room (with dad) and sleeping in the guest bedroom. The whole thing is making me and my little sister very stressed. It seems like one minute everything is fine and normal and the next they're fighting. I can't tell whether or not they are going to get a divorce. Please help.

Question: Are parents still in total control over their 18 years old children?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 09:03 PM PST

So I became 18 last year and is graduating high school this May. I want to go to a college out of state, but my parents (especially my mother) is disagreeing until the point they don't want to hear anything about me going out of state. I've been trying to convince them, but now they don't even want me going to college if I keep talking about going away. Do they still have control over my actions and force me not to go out of state when I'm already 18 and soon going to be graduating high school? Am I allowed to just get out of their house and be on my own by my decisions and ignore them? Searching up this question online didn't help me as much. I hope I'll be able to receive some decent answer with clear evidence...

Question: How do I tell my 6 year old son that me and his dad are leaving him for 10 years to work overseas? My sister will get custody of him.?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 08:52 PM PST

Me and my husband were offered a job that'll make us more financially stable. The school system is not as well developed in Spain (the country we're going to) and it'll be hard for him to integrate into a new culture. That's why we're leaving him behind. Our son will visit us at least once a year as a one week vacation. 

Question: How do I get over Being Betrayed?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 08:44 PM PST

The father of my child and I got into a domestic dispute when we were living together 6 months ago. He's 18 yrs older than me & I'm 24. He was arrested after putting his hands on me & I filed a protection order. He lied and charged me for assault right after. After getting child support, he sued me for joint custody and attorney fees. He turned his family and my so called "family friends" against me. His parents are wealthy and they've manipulated my family friends & now they're disclosing personal information about me. My mom is even sneaking and telling our "family friends" information that she promised me she wouldn't do and their going back telling his family. My real family are all in another state and I'm scared because I feel alone and betrayed by everyone and I don't feel like I can trust anybody

Question: How much should I charge my sister-in-law to watch her 2 girls?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 08:30 PM PST

I don't want to charge her a lot because she only makes $13/hour and she's family. Her girls are 5 and 7, and it would be for 4 days a week, 6 to 8 hours a day. I just want to see what others have charged for family. 

Question: My siblings seeing their abusive father?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 08:27 PM PST

My mom wants my siblings to see their father. She wants to give him visitation to see them. They are 1 and 3. The father is heavily emotionally abusive and has been to all of us for 5 years off and on. He's finally gone and has been for around a month but she wants them to see him. He's been physically abusive to us children before and I'm worried that he'll hit them when he's alone with them. She believes he's grown up and won't do it again but I know he isn't. He's narcissistic, abusive, and an impulsive liar. He's lied about multiple things, such as his childhood, being in the army, having other children and much more. When he gets angry, he goes into a rage. That being said, he bragged about having choked his ex-girlfriend against a wall until she had to stab him to make him let go. My mom contacted her and it was true. I fear for my siblings but there's not much I can do. She's going to court to get a restraining order but claims that when she goes to close the case, she's going to drop it to just covering me and my other 3 siblings, leaving her and the two siblings unprotected. I can only try to talk to her to not do it, but I don't know what to say. I'm asking, begging, for advice. Someone help me.

Question: How do I move out without my parents approval?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 08:03 PM PST

I know the obvious answer is to just do it, but things are more complicated than that. I recently dropped out of college and returned home a few months ago to help my family. My parents encouraged me to stay with them and now don't want me to leave. My friend and I have found an apartment out of state though and want to move there. But now, my parents expect me to stay here and go back to community college in the fall. So, how do I break the news to them or just leave? 

Question: What could be the reason for my mom taking one of the pills my father takes? Pls read what does this seem to be? Not more kids right?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 08:00 PM PST

My father takes Edge Advanced Formula, DHEA, maca root, and Masculine.. this stuff was listen as the sexual program pack in some all natural health store. Now I think my mother is taking the stuff. Both of my parents are 45 I read it's fertility then others say energy. I don't think my mother wants more kids as when she heard Cameron Diaz having a baby at 47 thought it was scary and crazy and sad because when the kid is 10 Cameron could be a grandmother already. my mom said she has no patients already. But then one morning I heard my dad was leaving for work at 5am and my mom went in the kitchen to talk to him, I couldn't really understand my mom because she has the flu but then I hear my dad say in more of a serious tune "do you want more" or "do you want anymore" now I thought maybe he gave her more Advil for her fever before he left for work but no when I ask her she said we have a whole bottle now home. I can't possibly think why he would say that. He wasn't cooking wasn't giving her anything. I never hear him say that. So now I'm worry it has to do with wanting more kids? And now tonight I heard my mom say "she knows now". Not sure if it's for me. I had 3 bad anxiety attacks one melt down now I came down with the flu as well I'm stressed. My sister goes in and out the hospital I have the care for my other sister there's a lot on me to handle with no help and my mom only has me. 

Question: My younger cousin is going to Europe before me?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 07:29 PM PST

Question: How can I get my Mom's sister not to bully me at the party if I am off on a conversation and she targets me like before?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 07:27 PM PST

I am scared of her. Really scared.

Question: Was I Wrong?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 07:15 PM PST

After working all day and getting up at 5:30a.m...i met my boyfriend by his house. He lives with his mother. He sells weed. I was tired and complaining. He was a ball of energy. It was making me angry that he has so much energy from not really working. After visiting with him and his opinionated mother, i was tired and ready to go. Then all of a sudden his brother and sister in law stop by with their screaming kids. The sister in law is filled with energy because she doesnt work. I say i want to go home. My boyfriend then jumps up, starts his car by remote and tells me ill take you home abruptly. I just sat there embarrassed. Was i wrong?

Question: Members and voting..?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 06:44 PM PST

Hi, I'm 16 years old and within my neighborhood we have members that are like the President, Vice, Treasurer and so on.. it's been like that for over three years now to talk about our neighborhood what we should/shouldn't do and to keep it in good condition and what not, something that we can agree/disagree on. Well there was a meeting on Friday and my parents couldn't make it so they asked me to go and to tell them about it on Monday. They're out of town due to a family emergency with one of my uncles, and my grandpa is watching over my siblings and I until my parents return.  And since I'm the oldest my dad asked me to attend it, so I was there on behalf of my parents.  Well during the meeting it felt uneasy.. there was a few topics they were talking about that we have to vote on.. and it sounded absolutely ridiculous, I know for a fact my parents will disagree. There was this other couple that didn't like it either but the officers acted like they didn't care.. I felt like it wasn't an actual meeting of members to vote on. The meeting was for the officers to TELL us what they were gonna do regardless if we disagreed.  No one spoke up, they stayed quiet and listened.. I talked and the other couple did too and I was very respectful but the VP said "sweety you should let the adults sort this out, this doesn't concern you"  If two people said no and the rest of them didn't say anything (they literally didn't raise their hand for yes either) but the officers want to do it, can they still do it???  I remember reading something that 50% of the votes can be amended by any changes or suggestions

Question: How to deal with a pretentious and insecure person.?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 06:27 PM PST

I need help with how to handle my step mother while staying with family. She drags me down, talks down to me, makes rude comments etc.. she's verry confrontational and constantly talks about how much better and more attractive she is then everyone else. What's the proper way to deal with someone like this.

Question: If an attractive white woman prefers to date black men, does it mean that her father probably wasn't involved in her life?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 05:58 PM PST

And I'm not talking about the fat ugly white women either. They couldn't get an attractive white man if they wanted, so they settle for black men. I'm talking about attractive in-shape white women who would otherwise have lots of dating options.

Question: How can I get my father to stop verbally abusing my mother/me?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 05:11 PM PST

I live at home with parents, moving out in 5 months. Still I need help. My father doesn't think my mother deserves her birthday present from her friends (when she does everything for me and my father) and is throwing a whole anger fit. This is a reoccurring theme for him. He will slip into delusion and then go further and call her names like "st*pid b**ch" and "cow" and so on. He doesn't really like when his family is happy with out him. Anyway what can happen to help this. It's basically us 3 adults living under the roof. 

Question: Recently my mom made me sit in a corner room away from everyone because my sister was present. How do I get her to stop doing this?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 05:10 PM PST

I just left when my mom did this and she apologized but then she started to do it again at Christmas. when she did it the first time I describe was Thanksgiving. my sister is a 26-year-old narcissist. She dislikes me because I called her out on it last August when she was being obnoxious and blocking the bathroom door. I grabbed her by the shoulder. I probably should not have grabbed her but I finally lost it with her bullying. So how do I get my mother to stop doing this without stooping down to my sisters level of maturity? we're both adults so I've been trying to act like I don't care because if I get upset I feel I'll be childish like I was when I grabbed my sister's shoulder. My sister is a sad case of a youngest child in a family with lots of kids who got her way because my mother was tired of parenting by the time my sister came along. Any ideas

Question: The ex-wife of my uncle is the enemy of the family, how do I respond when family insists I give her a cold shoulder at the wedding in April?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 05:03 PM PST

My cousin is getting married who is her daughter. I never minded uncle Ex-wife as they had a horrible marriage. However she is an enemy of my mom's family and us I am instructed to give her the cold shoulder. I don't wanna make my grandmother mad and I get kind of tense when my mom is mad at me and they live together so they're united in daily insults towards this woman. My uncle who was married to her also hates her that I think a part of him still loves her. So when we see her at this wedding how do I respond in a way that will keep my anxiety down when the family pressures me to give this woman a cold shoulder for her ways that they see as evil? My aunt has an ex-husband and no one pressures me to hate him. In fact my mom recently went to the funeral for his mother. He was so much worse to my aunt then this woman wants to my uncle. Sorry for Any grammar errors on here as I'm talking into my iPhone.

Question: Is it child abuse to cuss at minors?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 04:25 PM PST

Question: Is this chat abuse?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 04:19 PM PST

Okay lets just say that I was about to ride my bike and when I did. My grandma gets upset with me and says Im not going to let you lay on the ******* bed all day. Well this was all because I didnt ride a uncomfortable bike and Im 14

Question: Why is sister and friends so sensitive to my comments she takes everything I say and makes it negative?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 04:06 PM PST

The ketchup was not in the right space in fridge She doesn't like being run into I can't help it I was in a car accident can't help it She got mad I said her dog only likes her because she feeds it She wants to know why I am making a big deal about stuff like the car not being parked right.I am right she ishould take my criticism and move on not let it bother her.I should have to explain it to her. It really pisses me off she asks if it is not a big deal why I am bringing it up. I would rather not say She hates getting yelled at but she is there and I need to someone to yell at. I got kicked out of bookclub because I kept insinuating my friend was lying about her husband being sick and he died.

Question: My niece(8) is acting strange. Could it be abuse, just a child acting out or an eating disorder ?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 03:19 PM PST

I haven't seen my niece for 3 months and have been watching her since the 5th of January. She had just come back from vacation with her dad (he isn't a very involved parent, she sees him 3 times a year)(he's also a scammer involved in corruption cases in 2 countries)(he's had 5 kids all by different mothers in 9 years and is currently engaged to a woman that is on trial for fraud and bribery) and she is behaving in a way I've only seen her when she's been with her father. She is very nervous, she refuses to listen and hides food. I never raise my voice to her, I make sure to be patience and understanding with her, I don't understand why she would act out this way.  I tried to give her a Danish pastry and she tried to hide it but my sister caught her and I assumed it was just because she didn't like it later my brother gave her a donut she was very excited to receive and tonight I found it hidden on my bookshelf (2 days later).Last time she came over having not seen her dad for 2 months she was bubbly, and well behaved and she didn't hide her food she would just say if she didn't want something.

Question: My family thinks I'm crazy.... am I?

Posted: 11 Jan 2020 02:51 PM PST

My family thinks I'm crazy cause I want to move out and live in my car.