So I live with my parents and my mom has made it known that she does not like him and doesn't approve of our relationship she said something is off about him and she doesn't believe we will last at all.. I think she doesn't approve of it for the main reason that he has 3 kids by two different women.. he's 37 lives with his grandmother. Doesn't know how to cook but he does have a job inside the hospital. I think he's a PRN or something. I'm 27..anyways we we on the couch watching a movie on Netflix and my mom walked past the living room and didn't say anything and I whispered to my boyfriend " I'm sorry that was so rude of her" and my boyfriend was like " I didn't even notice she was walking by.. I don't care. I didn't say hey either " and I was like " I'm going to go tell her to speak" and my boyfriend got upset with me and said " don't say anything to her or I'm leaving."" I don't know why he was acting like that when the day before that he was very nice.. it's like he's nice one day and the flip switches with him the next day and he's cold.. idk what's up with that. We've been together for 4 years and my mom still hasn't warmed up to her. Now my 19 year old brother loves him though, they work out together constantly. Then another thing is that we argue constantly I guess because we have different viewpoints on everything. I don't know if he's just controlling or if we are incompatible but it doesn't matter if the issue is small or big we are arguing every single day. 

Or shouldhe let her initiate as otherwise she may not be much interested or excited for it as its casual thing for her.

I believe in fate and destiny. Latley I've been struggling to find mine. I'm at a fork in life where I have to decide which way to go. I think the universe is telling me I'm not right for marriage. My reasons? Well first off I can't get myself to wear any rings. They are uncomfortable to me. I've been that way my entire life. Might seem trivial but that was the first sign. The second is that I am super untraditional. I don't want to change my last name, join bank accounts, or do anything normal that married couples do. I would actually prefer that if I do get married he comes live with my parents and I under the same roof. The third sign I noticed is that I get super anxious when it comes to life changing decisions. I have to find my inner chi every time I decide a new job, going back to college, and so forth. The fourth sign is I question everything by nature. How am I supposed to just trust a changing variable (a husband) to commit to me no matter what? The fifth and final sign I noticed is that I tend to control things that are out of control in my life. For example, if someone I care about dies I take the bull by the horns else where in my life such as my physical activity or even a new hobby. I always have to control something. I fear I would feel the need to control my future husband if I ever felt out of control. So is the universe right? Am I just not right for marriage? For clarification I would prefer to live under the same roof with my parents because they are both sick. My mom has cancer and my dad has dementia. I need to be there for them. I don't know how much longer they will be here and I want to make the most of the time I have left with them. I should also mention that the fork in life I've come to is a proposal. My boyfriend of two years caught me off guard and asked me to marry him. We haven't really talked about marriage much other than lightheartedy fantasising about it. I asked him to give me 48 hours to consider. I'm really freaking out right now. My inner chi can't be found.

My husband and I have been together for 10 years and share two children. I love him dearly and can't see myself with anyone else as I see myself with him. With that being said, my husband and I had a brief separation early in that lasted for just over a year and we each respectively entertained other people at the time. I met a man at the time and we both grew extremely close and experienced an almost surreal connection. It was as if we had crossed paths before. As amazing as this connection was, I ultimately reconnected with my husband ( he wasn't at the time) , because I simply loved him more and a future with the other man just wasn't a possibility or interest for me. Years down the road, this man and I are still very close and to this day, there's a connection with him that we simply cannot shake. I feel it deeply and it pains me to say that while I love my husband, the connection I have with this man, I've yet to find in my husband. I want to terminate this friendship, but I don't know how. I feel physically sick just thinking about it, but I feel it's important that I do. Can someone please explain what these feelings are and how I can scrape them from my life?

We had a bit of argument but he says we are still dating and not split up. I then asked him if he is also still ok with meeting parents in a few months. His reply was, "If you will let it to reach to that time." I then asked him "Do you mean see how everything goes?" and he said "Yes it depends on you." I was unsure about this and so I asked "Do you mean if I don't rush?" and he said yes. Does he want us to take time?

Guy was saying how everything is good before marriage or during dating. I asked "why before marriage?" He said just joking. I then said "it can be good after marriage too" and then he asked "how much money do you have in your account? are you very rich?"

I'm asking because I really want to understand the pain. Why do children think it's their fault? It's never made sense to me but I know it's something common they say. Thank you in advance

Me and my husband met when he was in the military he got out and I moved my whole life and left my family so we could live where all of his family does.My husband works 40 hours a week but so do I when he gets home he mostly plays video games or watches tv then goes to bed. My day I wake up take both of our dogs out feed them then take them out again then I go to work and come home I do all the laundry and dishes all of the cooking and all of the dog walks by myself I'm just tired and would like a little help but anytime I say something he says he will do it and then I just get tired of waiting and do it myself 

My wife recently told me that she doesn't think it's fair that she gives money towards the bills and do housework. I'm away at work for long hours (12+) and she's always at home. She's a university professor and she doesn't have to be at work daily. I have a great wife, but I just feel like she's putting a lot of her salary towards the household. It's not that she necessarily wants to, but it's not a choice. I always tell me to see me as the man and she doesn't have to work. I can provide for her, but I see that I come up short for rent, other bills and etc. will she leave me for another man? I feel like she wants more from me, but I can't give it to her because I'm always working. 

I am not sure but I think he might live in Dearborn, Mi. But that is a far fetch guess.He was from Milan, Illinois when I dated him in 1967. I am not sure if he is married or not. I was married for 50 years but my husband passed away almost 3 years ago now.

When we eat out a chair is always open by me . Idk i talk , im not shy . My husband always wants to sit by his dad then that leaves a spot by me and they seem to avoid it and a chair is open by me or infront of me and i get really embarrassed. I do not eat out with them often bc of this . What can i do to make them not so uncomfortable? Its so weird and they do it at their house for dinner no one wants to sit by me . 

At christmas , my bil never gets me or my daughter a gift . He and she only thank my husband while i am in the room and bought the gift . Why don't they thank me ? I let it go bc i know they want it to bother me but it takes a lot for me to not say something. 

Is it normal for married couples to only kiss once a day? Sometimes we both work until night and go to bed at same time, so there are days when we don't even kiss. 

I've been throwing around the idea of proposing to my girlfriend because I feel like I'm ready. I've known her since we were 12 and we've been together for 4 years, since we were 15. I've been thinking a lot about what I want my future to be like and the only thing I know with absolute certainty is I want her to be there with me. In the time we've been together we've never broken up and she's been by my side through my grandfather passing and my parents divorcing. Words can't describe how I feel and I think I should propose now since I don't see a point in waiting. We've talked about marriage and kids in the broader sense and I'm pretty sure she'll say yes, but is it still too soon?

Her brother is getting divorced and She thinks his soon to be ex-wife is tape recording our conversations and trying to catch her brother doing something wrong and get him. In reality they're almost divorced and should be by the end of the month and it's a divorce that we could see coming from 100 miles away the day they got married 30 years ago. So while it's sad nobody is at fault for being bad. I suspect his wife is probably on the vindictive side because of menopause and the uncle has a short fuse and vet the years escalated with drinking (so he's trying to improve that). So my question is how do I get her to stop being so paranoid? I know she's gonna be furious if I ever am pleasant to the ex-wife but I'm sure since they have three kids I'll see her at sometimes plus I have her on Facebook.

Meanwhile he's fit as a fiddle, considering what he does for a living.  Shouldn't it be her responsibility to maintain her figure, not just to her husband but to her country?

I met him 9 months ago and we fell in love. I moved in with him 4 months ago. At the beginning of first moving in with him, he was very sweet to me and I was sweet with him. After 2 months went by, he started acting different. There's days where he gets up and feels like torturing me by calling me names and making jokes about my weight and looks. I make fun of him back because he's fatter than I am and he gets really angry and starts acting out by jumping on top of me. He's heavy and it hurts. The next day he starts acting sweet and calling me sweet words. I tried to be patient with him but it's constantly happening and I'm not falling for his sweetness anymore because I know the next day he will start torturing me. I don't know what is causing him to do that. He wasn't like that when we met or when I moved in with him for the first 2 months. 

What papers must you bring for divorce or anulment of mariage . Or do you find to fill in ?

All of my life, I've been living clean, doing the right thing, avoiding sloppy women, etc.  Living this way, I've achieved moderate success in my personal life and career despite my shortcomings. Meanwhile, all you lowlifes that have been jumping from lover to lover may be having success in this category but failing everywhere else.  I've seen it first hand these "Alphas" end up broke and homeless because they have no impulse control.However, recently I've discovered smoking tobacco is not so bad, neither is drinking whiskey despite everyone and their momma  fear mongering.  In fact, it's quite enjoyable.Maybe the sloppy women deserve a second look so long as they know they will never be number 1.  This spot belongs to my wife forever.  She's earned it without a doubt. Anyhow, moderation.  On second thought, just say no to slobs.

I come from a middle class family. All my cousins were middle class, and now they are rich. All my cousins are blonde, and all of them married some rich guy. I have a cousin who married a rich guy from Iraqi descent. Another cousin married a rich guy from Japanese descent. Another cousin married a rich guy from Indian descent. Three of my blonde cousins married rich Mexican guys. I'm a blonde guy. Why can't us men have same chance of marrying up as women do. Dating is hard for any guy who is not rich, women expect you to be rich and pay for everything. Why can't men have the same advantages as women?

Would you rather have sex with one woman in unlimited amounts. Or sex with 10 different women but only one time each. Why would you prefer one over the other?

For the past month we had been talking 24/7 texting until like 5 am.. he sent me tons of pictures of his friends and family and sent me paragraphs. He told me clear as day that he likes me and that we have a strong bond. What I loved the most about him was his strong loyalty towards his family.. he's always going above and beyond for his nephews. He treats his nephews like his own and he's teaching them at a young age the value of hard work. He's funny, ambitious, smart, and attractive. He said he's never vibes with anyone like he does with me. And I feel the same. Our connection is insane. Me and the dude did have sex.. it wasn't planned the connection was just so strong that we couldn't control ourselves. I don't lose sleep for anyone.so for me to stay up all night talking to him means a lot. But for the past like 3 days he's been distant.. I mean talking like 12 hours to respond. I don't have time for games so I just blocked him. I'm not going to go off on him or get out of character. I just blocked him. I wonder if I did the right thing though because he has been there for me a lot, giving me tons of comfort while I was hurting. The first time that dude took 12 hours to text back I woke up to a text from him saying that he was sorry and he didn't have service. He's a truck driver. I'm in the middle of divorcing my husband because we fight all the time and we're not incompatible, he's also abusive. I told the dude once our divorce is finalized we can get together.

They are friends but they are going alone on a road trip to a party out of state (he doesn't know anyone at the party). She is nice but had no interest in being friends with me, but when my husband showed up she got very close to him, chatting him multiple times a week if not daily. I also am uncomfortable because before we started dating I told him that he needed to meet her- because literally every other guy I liked would see her once and develop a huge crush on her. Moreover, she is his type- they are both Vietnamese (I am white), and she is small and petite. On top of all of this we have been going through a lot of life and marital stress recently- we have not been very intimate and right now we sleep in different rooms because one of our dogs can't go upstairs. They go out to dinner about once a month together without me as well. My husband says so long as he tells me what he is doing it's fine, but I don't agree. He has a history of not knowing when to draw the line- allowing other women to sit on his lap on the bus, spending the night at female friends houses or letting them stay with him and both staying in the same bed. I don't necessarily think he is deliberately cheating but it feels like emotional cheating or just blatant disregard for my feelings and what is appropriate. What do I do? 

I was with my husband at a family dinner with in laws. We were talking about how he loves to use short bristle hair brushes for his short hair. I said jokingly that this brush is used actually for dogs. There was a silence and I guess they thought of this joke as insult to my husband even though  it was obvious I was joking. Was it an awkward joke? 

My wife has done just that and now I found a new GF. Everyone blames me for ruining the marriage but I tried for years. I finally broke down out of loneliness. I feel it's unfair that people blame me when it wasn't my fault. A mutual friend asked me how I could be so cruel!!! She would never even kiss me, hug me or love on me. I also did all of the house and yard work as she mostly stayed on her phone. Why do people view me as the Devil and not her. She refused to communicate about it.

Considering that the rape is real . Is any specification regarding the origin of the country ?i mean if for some contries becoming juridized later in law or not christened entirely yet ? There are over 500 000 gipsy here and i heard this from the policeman and it was a covered president of country after revolution with origin covered gipsy and inntotal 5 . There are also 2 million hungarian and german -austrish ..alike .inntotal we are around 22 milion .3 left to work because of the evil president ..who didn t print money and let the country in decay stealing the property of state and putting it on private names gipsy stealing .

'I know that its a bit hard for u to resist the tempetion to have a look at other female,but u CAN NOT！coz u r married.What u should do is to assume the resposibilities as a husband for the family，not to admire the beauty of other female，anybody else can do that ，but u cant cuz u r married' 。 pls amend it if there are some weird places(ingnore the abbr)

The stress of having to work a job to afford the kids and afford the cars and the house and so on. I am in my late 30s no children never married I am currently laying on my bed in pure silence listen to music drinking wine naked and wondering why everyone else in the world has it figured out this amazing Secret The secret to life isn't happiness the secret to life is not being like everyone else. It pay off to be selfish to be an introvert and now I can enjoy my life and do whatever the hell I want when I want where I want how I want and I don't even have to work that much because it's just me :-) I watch my friends fighting with their partner's getting kicked out of their home, cops being called, cheated on and lied to. I see my other friends working their *** off to afford there 8 children that their wife and them decided to have. And I'm grateful I know how to say no to men that don't get me and want to waste my time I'm starting my podcast soon. I'm ready to cause a revival  Wake up people

I've been divorced for awhile now and I think I'm ready to date. Im 25 and I have no kids. I need your opinion, is being divorce something I should disclose when I talk to someone I'm interested in?