So the father of my child and I broke up over a year ago due to him cheating on me and physically abusing me. My ex hates me but is cordial with my boyfriend. I've now been in a committed relationship for 6 months and we're very serious with each other. My 3 year old and him have a great relationship and really care about each other. My son is getting baptized this Saturday and it will be the first time I've seen my ex in about 7 months as the only way I communicate with my ex is through his mother. How do I word to her that my boyfriend will be here for the baptism so they can have a heads up. My boyfriend has only met her and my ex once. But he's talked to my ex a few times on the phone but by no means are they friends, just cordial. 

I took it up the *** for the first time last night....  Anyways wasn't a horrible experience, and I wouldn't mind trying it again...  My thing is I don't want my *** hole to stretch..  If I have another kid, I don't want my mother in the room seeing my oversized *** hole. Lbvs.  If I don't do it too often, I should be fine..  right?