I found out this has been going on for months with at least 4 videos a day exchanged between them and they even met on a fetish page on Instagram. I want a divorce, will the courts see this as adultery like I do?

I've been talking to my ex boyfriend's friend and seriously bonding with him. And don't anybody come for me for talking to my ex boyfriend's friend. You can't help who you fall her. He has a much better personality then my ex who cheated on me left and right. Then when I was with my ex boyfriend he barely wanted to even come see me. Plus we broke up 10 years ago and the ex has a new girlfriend. We aren't in high school anymore. We are in our 30's. For the past two months me and his friend have been seriously vibing we had been talking 24/7 and he seemed extremely genuine. He was texting me long paragraphs just being positive encouraging and uplifting and it's something about a funny guy that makes a woman fall hard. He has an amazing sense of humor. He has an amazing style. He's super handsome. He's very close with his family and he's always with them which I love because it shows he's family oriented. But here is where it gets weird.. My period was on but I still wanted to see him so I asked him was he gonna come over and he was like " might not be a good idea with your period.. I know you're in a lot of pain.. you probably shouldn't be seeing anybody..and I was like " I just want to see your face for 5 minutes I'll be ok".. reason I wanted to see him on that particular day is because he's always traveling with his job and I didn't know when he would be back in the city again. But he insisted it would be a bad time and that I should relax... now things get even weirder Now things get even weirder... i don't hear from Him the entire day and when I finally do hear back from him he goes" phone was off"... very weird considering I saw him online multiple times on Facebook 

Fellas, how long were you married before your lady allowed you a break from the marriage rules? I waited an eternity for this and won't let this opportunity go to waste! What would be the best way to make fond memories? A.  I asked her to come along with me to get some well deserved enjoyable punishment involving leather, whips, n chains!  Some kind of couples retreat were they have good looking gals abuse you.  She hesitated to give me an answer and needs to think about it. B.  She first mentioned I should go to a brothel....but this option seems unappealing and more likely to catch some funk, but I won't rule it out. C. I'm open to some suggestions .  Don't let me down you bunch of trollops!  I need you to dig deep into your past lives and teach me some trick or two.

And by that definition, marrying a former call girl or a "lady of the night" means top quality am I right fellas?

Me and my wife were watching a documentary about Caylee Anthony I was tired of hearing that story I don't get why it was such a big deal children get abducted and murdered all the time I don't understand why this was such a huge thing. I was 19 when this story started I couldn't stand it it went on for almost a year it nearly give me a headache when I was a teenager this made me never want to have kids. I'm 30 now my wife is having our first baby in April I always get scared whenever I hear this story. It's creepy that she's from Ohio where we live now is in Florida we were in Florida a couple years ago the 10 year anniversary of the murder it was kind of scary for me. We also went to universal where she said she worked at that was even more terrifying. In a way I'm kind of nervous of going to Florida but we got family there I'm especially nervous of bringing my kids there. I hated hearing about this every time the news came on this would be the only thing they talk about even 10 years later it still drives me insane thinking about it. Is it ok to cry in front of her ? 

If you're in a marriage that is abusive and leaves you feeling unhappy, is it alright to spend some time meeting new people and getting a new perspective? I'm not talking about dating women. But is it ok to make more female friends and just observe to see the differences in personality styles? I'd like to think there are nicer people out there that would be interested in me and would never dream of swearing at me, calling me stupid, saying the relationship/marriage is s**** etc.... I've never been in any other relationship so I have no reference point to rely on. I've only ever known my wife as she was my first girlfriend.

I met this guy who's divorced. He's 32 with 4 kids. 2 of his kids live in Texas and the other 2 kids live with his parents where he lives in North Carolina. He said the kids loved his parents and wanted to stay with them. He seems to have a lot of free time for someone with a few kids. He sees the other 2 kids in December and all summer. To me, something isn't exactly adding up. I can't see a court splitting up a family like this. I'm also curious as to why he's not raising any of his kids. Thoughts?

Her parents gave her up when she was a baby and she bounced from foster home to foster home..the first month we got together she was already telling me she was in love with me. We have had problems our entire marriage with her clingy nature. She keeps saying that she's afraid I'm going to leave her she find someone better if I'm not in constant communication with her. She also has problems with over eating and over spending.. while I was on a work trip I had to be away from home I had 300 missed calls and 100 voice mails from her crying for her to call her. She's fine whenever I'm giving her attention but when i don't talk to her for a few hours she turns into a completely different person. And it's scary. I got back home to find her screaming and crying and breaking glass in our home because she said she thought I was about to leave her..I had my mom stay with my wife so she wouldn't feel so alone while I was away. I know she doesn't really have anyone but me.. she has one brother but he's a drug addict.. my mother told me she was crying the entire time I was gone. Do abandonment issues lead to mental health issues as well? Because I'm really worried about her...

What is wrong with her? I've never seen this side of her before. I didn't think it would be a big deal having lunch with a female friend. It's not like we going to be having sex. Just two friends catching up. Plus the woman I like has a boyfriend. Me and the woman that I like did have sex and we talked about having a future together when she's done with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend neglects her a lot and she would spend hours on the phone crying her heart out. I was there for her in every way. I gave her a lot of comfort. I was talking to her more then my own family. I knew I was talking to her a lot when my cousins kept asking me why I was on FaceTime while we were at a baseball b game. I truly felt like there was something special between us. I wanted us to have a future. The first time she flipped out on me wss when I lost my phone and took 2 days to respond and she was like "you're just like my F***** boyfriend. F**** men. I hate all of you.. I didn't hear from you in 2 days do you know what can happen in two days. All of you selfish egotistical bastards can't believe I had sex with somebody like you..""" and the the second time she went off on me because I went out with my female friend to lunch a platonic lunch.. She started crying and was like "'if you weren't interested in me anymore. You should have just said it." And I was like " I am interested in you. My friend just said she wanted to have lunch because I haven't seen her in years." And she was like " She was like " she's probably gonna fall in love with you because you're perfect. You're good looking and charming and funny.. I hate you"  She was like " I don't have time for games. I had enough of the games with my boyfriend. Lose my number and rot in hell"

I've been crying all day thinking he probbsly ghosted me. The last time I heard from him was last night around 10 pm. I texted him and he never responded. We used to talk 24/7 now it's like we only talk a few times throughout the day.. it's like he's talking to me less and less as the days go by even though he said he likes me and wants us to be in a relationship soon. Right now we just in the phrase of getting to know each other. What would explain why I go would go from texting you 24/7 to only texting you a few times? I don't want to jump to conclusions but I also don't wanna waste my time if he's not interested anymore. He says he's interested but why is the communication being shortened as the days go on. He used to text me as soon as he woke up at around 6 am now I don't hear from until 1 pm... I know he has a stressful job as a truck driver but he's been a truck driver since day one. I really liked him. I felt alive again. He brought back the sparkle in my eye because I felt so dead in my marriage and I never thought the sun would come back out again. I told him once my divorce was finalized we would be together and he said he was willing to wait on me. 

Should you kiss/ show affection in front of your step kids? If so, where should you kiss your spouse? (Cheek, lips, forehead) , what kind of affection should you show? 

I used to be the good guy but the challenge of marriage is wearing on me like you wouldn't believe. It like holding up a one pound weight in the air.  After a while, it starts to burn and becomes impossible to hold up. I'm at my limit fellas and ready to see it all burn to the ground. There is a whole world of easy Vijay.  Why should I continue dragging this heavy burden until I die?

I live in US and my husband lives in Pakistan, It's been two months since we got married. We talk on the phone every day my evening time and his morning time. And his behavior has recently started changing. He has this habit of pushing me to do things and when I say no he still pushes me. One example he always pressures me to call his family members even though they don't like me. I believe if they want to talk to me they can call me themselves. His sister had a baby and he wanted me to congratulate her, I didn't want to because she did not congratulate me on the wedding and he still pushed me to Call her. He even complained to my mom that I don't call his family. And then One day he wanted to talk me, my morning time and I told him I am busy but then he got all upset and started saying that he has to take permission from his wife to talk to her. Overall, him and family have started becoming very pushy and he is starting to act very clingy and like he owns me. We have not consummated the marriage and I feel like this will only get worse once we start living together. I am thinking of calling it off with him, should I or is it too hasty? Please advise.

Should I kiss my husband on the lips in front of my step kids (3&6) or should I continue to kiss my husband on the cheek or head if I'm saying goodbye or leaving? Sometimes when I tell my husband by he will put his head slightly down for me to kiss his forehead. 

My wife was watching 16 And Pregnant I don't get why they keep making shows like this to me I think it's a very bad example for young girls. I guess these teenage girls like drama my wife knows better than that she didn't want to get caught in that drama so she waited till she was married to have kids unlike her friends who pretty much all had kids when they were in school. There was a girl at her school who was 13 when she got pregnant had her baby at 14. She's 23 now has 2 young kids like on the show in real life anymore it seems like kids don't know who they're dads are because they're moms keep having more kids with 3 or 4 different guys she didn't want to go through that. She waited till she was in her late 20's to get married and have kids she's 27 now we're having our first baby in  April. In a way she feels kind of bad because her friends or the tv thinks that now you're suppose to start your family at 16 or 17. It's also happened to some of her cousins one of them had a baby at 16 apparently she's been sleeping around with guys since she was 13 at least that's what I heard. She's got 3 kids by 3 different guys I don't see how girls can keep up with that. In a way this show kind of scares her because some of the kids loose their dads before they're a year old like it's happened to her friends she's worried it'll happen to us but I'm not like most guys I'm not gonna run off because we have kids I'm not that stupid. Why do so many teenagers have babies ? 

He needs to be more successful do the laundry right park the car at a certain angle everytime. clean everything and line everything in the fridge and cupboard the right way. Follow all the rules in my rulebook make the kids take meds and follow a strict diet and stop listening to his loser brother who thinks I am very jealous

I want to become a more complete and better person despite being married.  What is the magic number to make me better?  That way I can use all that experience to please my wife. See, there are positives to having many lovers!

At what point do you draw the line?   And did you regret spreading yourself across so many people?   How does your husband feel about it, or did you have to keep it a secret? Finally, since you're a better person for having been around, how do you become even better by being married?

The only time we are apart is when we both work!

My husband isn't comfortable with kissing on lips in front my his kids (my step kids), but doesn't mind me kissing his cheek or forehead. Is this okay? 

My stepson is 3 years old and when I leave to go to work, I will kiss my husband on forehead or cheek, but don't know if I need to kiss him on lips. I don't know how it will affect my stepson because I'm not his biological mother. Should I just continue to kiss my husband on cheek and forehead? 

I'm 25 and single so I shouldn't even be worrying about this, but I am. I wanted to get married, but I think my idea of marriage is vastly different than the way reality is. I romanticized and idealized marriage. When I take my mind back to reality... it almost makes me wonder if I don't want marriage after all. I like the idea of living alone (or with my family to help out as my father ages.) I like the idea of staying independent with no one to hold me back. I like the idea of coming home to a dog instead of a human. I fear that if I ever do marry it will be out of emotions and for the wrong reasons. I fear that I will just get a divorce anyways and ruin my life. I don't want to waste my life away like that. I would rather casually date around for fun. That's it. The thought of marriage honestly makes me anxious. It's done that my entire life. I don't know why... other than maybe it's my gut saying I'm not right for marriage. Does anyone else experience this?

Why does my ex-husband still want to put me down

I started out as a nanny taking care of this cute little boy and I had a lot of fun doing this job. His single dad ended up liking me a lot and I had a good time with him. We would go out as a group with him and his kid and I and he started to fall in love with me because I was a good mom to his son and I had a good personality. We eventually got together unexpectedly because it started to feel like we were a family. As we got deeper in our relationship I was having fun being a mom figure and then things got kind out of hand constantly listening about how awful his ex wife was and she was awful. She was an awful mom and a horrible wife. He had to get restraining orders on her and everything and got full custody of his son. His family would talk crap about her and stuff and I personally didn't want to hear about her. He told me lots of information, lots more than I would have liked to know, and I appreciate how open he is with me but now that's stuck in my head. He says he was trying to make me feel better by saying how awful she was. Also his ex would blow up his moms phone when his son didn't call him exactly when she wanted him to because my husband has her blocked. It really bothered me that she still had open communication with MY soon to be mother in law. My step son has said wish mom and dad didn't get a divorce and brings up the past and we have a baby on the way and I feel trapped :( I really regret taking on this role as a step parent and second wife. Help??  On top of that I have to be the one to take his son to and from school everyday she's he's not even my kid and he lives with us 24/7 so I never get a break ughh 

So my husband already had a kid with someone and I understand I knew he had a kid before me but my jealousy started getting worse when we were in the process of trying to conceive our own because he kept on bringing up stuff that yes was helpful but it made me upset because I know he learned that from his ex wife's experience of having his first child. This will be my first baby and I've been constantly reminded of the past and even though he's with me now it still hurts me. I'm jealous I wasn't his first and I know that I'm lucky in a way because he can be more helpful but I hate that he experienced this special intimate time before me. I know our birth and baby will be different but it's still a challenge for me and I would love other step moms that are in similar situations help me feel better to overcome this? His ex wife is crazy and is out of the picture and she was awful but it still doesn't make me feel better  On top of that I get constant reminders of it with his son asking what things were like when he was a baby... it's probably normal but so irritating