My boyfriend follows cam girls on Instagram, and is even friends with a few of them. I know this might sound bad, but it makes me feel insecure and hurt. Am I being unreasonable?

I'm 22 and a kissless virgin. I dream about kissing my high school crush except he's not attractive anymore. And I get really sad because people a lot younger than me are dating at the mall.

This is me: 1. Age 54 2. Work as a museum security guard 3. Height 5 feet, 9 inches 4. Weight 240 pounds 5. Rent a furnished room in a private house (not my house) 6. Live check-to-check 7. Not very sociable 8. Seeking Asian woman What are my chances to find an Asian woman between 40 and 55? 

Everything is never said.

I'm an 18 yr old girl, almost 19 this month, and I have never been in a relationship. Not only that, I've never kissed a boy, held hands, or anything romantic at all. Im in college now and I've put myself out there at parties, but still nothing. I do want a relationship, and Im pretty sure i dont act desperate, so i guess ive just been upset recently because I see all my friends getting with people, and I still havent had my first anything. Am i doing something wrong, or is it the way i look maybe, im not sure. Anyone else have this problem? 

For reference:  I am a gay male. A couple months ago, I was walking towards my building and a really cute guy was right in front of me (saw him at the crosswalk, when we had glanced at each other), and happened to walk into my building.  He stopped to talk to the doorman, then I continued toward the elevators and he sped up to get into the same elevator.  As he was rushing to the elevator, I held the door and smiled and he had a large smile as well.  There was someone else in the elevator, so I didn't feel comfortable saying anything charming to him, but we had glanced at each other a couple times as we were ascending, then he smiled at me and told me to "have a good day" on the way off the elevator. Today, I was coming back from work and he was getting onto the elevator with his pug, but I was getting off a phone call when I was getting on, so I didn't really glance at the people I was getting on the elevator with, trying to get off the phone before I got in the elevator (didn't want to be rude).  But, as we got to his floor, I looked over and noticed it was him again and how he was just as cute as the time before.  But, since there were two people on the elevator with us, didn't feel like I could say anything.  We had caught eyes as he was turning to get off the elevator though and he smiled. The Dilemma: I only know he is on the 26th floor and is one of four apartments to the right.  Is it weird to send a letter to those apartments to give him my number?  What to say?  Also, should I include a picture of myself?  How would I make sure he knows who it is?

I like this girl that I go to school (college) with. The problem is that her family is kinda old fashioned and because of that she only has a flip phone and she doesn't have any social media. The problem is that I don't see her a lot so I don't know how I can contact her because I don't think she texts very much either since she only has a flip phone. I mean it's not the 1960s anymore so I'm not going to be calling her up whenever I want to talk to her. I like her but at the same time it just annoys me when people like her and her family don't keep up with modern technology. I could get past her not having social media but when I found out she only has a flipe phone it was a bit of a turn off because I like to text the girls I'm intersted it. I just don't know what to do because I like her but at the same time if I can't contact her very easily then that could be a problem. 

someone please explain. i cant do it anymore.

I'm very average a 6 at most, how do I be a ten

I'm just curious. I've been dating this guy for   a month and a half. We had sex a few different times, spaced about 3-8 days apart. I'll be seeing him again on Monday, and I know we'll be having sex again. If I'm being quite honest, sex still hurts. Not as bad as the first time, and it's not unbearable, but it's not pleasant. It's about a 6 or 7 out of 10. The third and fourth time we had sex (aka, the last 2 times) pleasure finally mixed in. Especially in doggy position and with me on top. But the pain is still VERY present.  When did the pain finally disappear for YOU? Yes, we do foreplay. Perhaps we could go a little bit longer. We usually do it for about 20-25 minutes

My ex was my first bf and broke up with me because our colleges are almost 2 hrs apart and driving to see me all the time was too much    After we broke up I told him I missed him and he told me too and found out I got a car and asked to hangout but then a week later told me he didn't really wanna go back to the relationship but wanted sex. Which he brought up a lot. Sometimes we'll still have deep conversations and talk like we never broke up and I feel so happy when we talk. We're not talking rn but mainly because I'm trying to get over him but it's SO hard. I want to be single for a while but I constantly feel lonely and m wondering what would've happen if we never broke up. I try not to think about it but sometimes I'll be somewhere and it just hits me and I get sad I already texted him a lot after we broke up. I was so good to him. I'm driven , encouraging and supportive and he even told me one of the reasons he liked me was because I was so ambitious. How could you not want that? I last texted him 5 days ago and he texted back but I ended the convo haven't heard anything from him. But I've posted some things on Snapchat a couple of days ago and he saw everything. It's been a while since the breakup but Do you think he'll start to miss me and come back? What if he thinks he has me wrapped around his finger. Either way I don't plan to text him. Do you think he'll realize what he lost eventually? For spring break we will both be in myrtle beach. Should I text him then?

Every time I go out with friends he accuses me of sleeping with other men . I've never cheated on him but he keeps accusing me . 

For example, the CEO of my company makes like $1,000,000/year and he kind of acts like a jerk. I always wonder "I wonder if women like that guy".

My ex and I are 21 and broke up 3 months ago while I was abroad. I left in August to study for 2 semesters in Europe and we broke up in October. I was planning to come back for Christmas (I'm home now) and he was going to visit me. But with 9 hours apart, it became stressful and added a lot of pressure. A concrete future was harder for him to commit to. He wanted to break up and be friends so that we could pick things back up. We spoke every 2 weeks after the break up, but now I'm back for the holidays and I feel weird. We made plans while I'm here and got coffee 2 days ago, but I can't read him on whether he's still interested in getting back together one day, or if he's just being nice and lost interest. Our coffee wasn't awkward, it was very normal but he seemed a little off. I'm leaving again in 2 weeks and will be gone until July. After that, we will both be living in the same place. We had a healthy relationship before I left and never had any issues. We were together 10 months. He said if I didn't go, or if I only went for 1 semester, we'd be together. He wanted it to be mutual to keep the door open. We talked about breaking up for 2 weeks because I said if we broke up, that would be it. I eventually agreed because I saw it was stressing him out. It's good for us to have time apart while I'm gone, but I can't stop holding on to hope. I love him but I don't know if I should let it go. I'll be gone this time for 5 months and I worry that he'll have lost interest. 

He has not responded to multiple text messages. I heard from him four days ago. What should I do? We have been dating a full month.

Everytime my boyfriend tries to eat me out his tongue and mouth get numb. 

My ex gf and i broke up Christmas Day, it was honestly the most heart breaking thing in my life, I miss her so much, I would do anything to call her mine again, but I don't know what to do, one part of me wants me to keep fighting for her, another wants me to move on, two days ago one of her friends showed me a screenshot of her saying that she needs to be done with me."but it kinda hurts seeing me tho", but then some of my friends are telling me that she is done, I texted her the other day asking her if she missed me she said "not at all, I miss what we had, but it's over", and she told me she ain't coming back, what do I do?

I broke up with my boyfriend, this new guy I recently met because I had feelings for another guy. The guy I dated became really attached to me and it was becoming really creepy. He would always tell me how he loved me right when we started dating. He would text me things like this: "😔😔❤️". He started getting really sad and I was getting tired of it and he started saying he was gonna kill himself because he missed me so much. And me being stupid, I took him back because I could never live with the guilt of knowing I was the reason he died. I'm only 14 and this is my first time in a relationship and I feel like a bad person and I've thought about cutting... What do I do?

In a flirting way 

I recently joined my boyfriend on the road for his job as a technician. We bought an RV and have been living in for the last two months. Thinking the RV life would be easy was so naive.. Trying to find decent RV parks with a vacancy every week (or less), not being in one place long enough to make friends, being alone all day with no car in a strange town while he works.. All of this is taking a toll on my mental health. I really do love him but I am miserable. Would it be selfish of me to say I didn't want to live on the road anymore and that I wanted a more permanent, stable living situation? Or is it selfish for him to insist that I continue putting my life (growing roots, making friends,  getting a job) on hold for him? I need some guidance, please..

I dont know why, but I feel regretful about leaving my girlfriends place. But I always been a non smoker and I dont like being around that. But even though she disrespected me and didn't want to smoke outside, I ended up moving out last november. But why do I miss all the times we lived together? Because I know I hate smoke. And I felt she was disrespectful of my wishes, so why do I feel bad? 

So my ex and I broke up a while ago like over two years and I never got closure and recently saw him. I think that's part of the reason. Anyway. I'm this dream one thing that happened was he wanted me back and i said no. And two I asked why we broke up and he told me I was clingy. He never told me I was clingy in our relationship ever.  No one ever has called me clingy and I don't know what that means.  I'm very confused 

My girlfriend, and I live together, and when any type of bug is going around I tend to get it now. She works at school, and she does complain she gets coughed on a lot, but she doesn't get sick like I do. She might get a touch of something, but not to the point where she feels like carp like I do. She just thinks since she is around it so much she's building up a resistance to it Help!!

I am a 19 year old girl exploring love. I am still a virgin, but I am very curious. Please do not troll.  I have not a boyfriend till now. I have watched porn and have seen that Black men have big dong. But I do not know if it is very realistic. My friends who have black boyfriends all parrot the same story. I do not know if it is true or not. This will determine who I will date.  Okay I will date a black guy. 

I accidentally sent a nude to one of my guy friends. I feel very embarrassed cause I once had a thing for him but he told me he didn't like me. What should I do? Do u think he's angry at me now?

I made him laugh and then he uttered "see, what's not to like?" I know he was referring to me I'm just confused what he's insinuating 

He never says or does anything to make me feel stupid- quite the opposite. He is usually saving my face when I say something dumb.  Yet it's so clear that he is way smarter than me.  He is a biochemist and I am a biologist.  We both have our bachelors and he has a good industry job. I work for the same company in a different lab.  I plan to go back to school for a research PhD.  I have had two Harvard interviews so far and I still feel stupid.  I feel the world has too high of expectations for me.  

Went on an online date. We had 2 rounds I bought the second. Then went and got food went back to my place. There was chemistry, eye contact, mutual interests, light touching n hugging. At my place I showed him a book he wanted to borrow, so I did. I figured I'd see him again, never mentioned a 2nd date or text n 2 days? What's up

So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 and a half years now. I love him to death and I know he loves me too. We're both in our 20's. I know with every long term relationship the newness wears off, it's inevitable. But at times, I feel as if I'm not heard enough or as if he's bored with me. We're both very comfortable around each other and can be our 100% full selves. And this isn't an all the time thing, we have plenty of great fun times and conversations full of laughter and what not. But lately in the last few months, casual and daily conversations seem to be lacking. It's not like conversations about important things, just casual talk about things that are happening, or expressing my opinions on situations, just day-to-day talk. When these talks are taking place I can't help but to feel like I'm talking to myself, because he doesn't engage and respond. I've tried to ask him about it and point out that he's ignoring me but he always just says stuff like "sorry I didn't know you wanted me to respond" or "I was listening I just was doing ____ *insert whatever he's doing here such as watching a video on his phone or playing a game etc.*" I know he's not INTENTIONALLY ignoring me to make me mad or anything but when this is something that's been happening more and more often, I can't help but feel as though I'm boring him and he doesn't care what I have to say. Like I said this isn't alll the time but it does happen often. What can I do to fix this?