I asked someone how she did in the 5k she was running and said really well and said that she placed 3rd and when I challenged her about did she place 3rd and this person got defensive and when I finally asked her again and she admitted that she lied about placing. What was she looking for? What might she gain from lying  to me? What might happen internally?

I have this friend that I asked how she did really well and says that she placed 3rd and when I challenged her about she really did place 3rd and she got defensive and when I finally asked her again and she admitted that she lied about placing. What was she looking for? What might she gain from lying  to me? What might happen internally? 

My boyfriend knows how I feel about him watching porn and I'm not okay with it. I told him he can watch it all he wants , he can just be with someone else who will except it ? He can do what he pleases with his body , I just won't be in the picture ! 

A long time ago my bf shared an account with me to show me something. It's an entertainment app with memes and funny videos. I redownloaded the app to try to get into it again out of boredom and was like hmm maybe he posted more? He didn't but all 1.5k subscriptions are all porn accounts. Which is cool, but his recent ones have things he verbally told me hes not into. It's loli porn and other things which is anime child porn. The images are far from softcore. It may very well be dealbreaker for me because it has always made me uncomfortable and knowing that hes into it kills me. And that hes been lying. Whole accounts are dedicated to it, its gross.  In short, my bf has told me one thing but his activty says another. I found out by curiosity to something I was given access to in the past. I just want to talk about it and let him know that I know he's lied about it. I just want him to be honest. How do I even confront something like this? 

When I want to drink beer and listen to music I dont want to discuss problems. Not that I ignore any mind you  Shes super high strung and argues a lot.