What a Lucky and Deserving catch they are.. YEAH RIGHT!! Stop lying.

I'm obese, I have acne, my face is hairy, my face shape is huge, I am very unattractive. I look like a monster. So everyone is disgusted by me and wants nothing to do with me. But the reason is me not them. I'm too nasty to be a friend to anyone. 

I find this to be true most of the time unfortunately... Especially when they bully us and call us retarded and stuff like that...

Maybe I grew up differently, but I always thought it was normal for your partner to have their friends, and you to have your friends. Sure you will spend time with them WITH your partner there for get togethers, etc. But as far as going over to their house on your own or talking to them on the phone yourself I just never bothered or had the desire.  Well, my husband is acting as if it's a problem. He made a comment that one of his friend's plans to honeymoon in Japan but I wouldn't know about that because I never talk to his friends. I DO talk to them during get togethers, just not outside of that.  He acts as if it's strange that I show no interest in what his friends do. I mean, to be honest though, I don't expect him to get excited about anything my friends are doing. I don't expect him to call up and discuss ANYTHING with my friends over the phone.  Is that odd? He's acting like this is a huge deal. Are you close friends with your partners friend's? Do you call them up as if they were like any other friend? Or do you mainly talk to them during get togethers only?

Could she be attracted to him?

I have a best friend of 10 years who has sorta lost touch for a few months. It s normal right. life happens and you lose touch for a while but friends will always be friends at the end of the day. Some of the reasons: she has two very young children, a job on the weekends and has been taking intense college courses. I have a very demanding job, that I have to travel for on a lot of my days off and got caught in the middle of moving and other life situations. Anyways. my point is that life ******* happens and I get it. I started planning my birthday party last week (yay almost 30) and went to send out invitations. I couldn t find her text conversation on my phone because I just got a new phone and didn t feel like merging any of that stuff over so instead I turned to social media to message her only to find that she had deleted me from everywhere. (only me... none of our mutual friends). I was pretty shocked. This girl was like a sister to me. So I went back into my phone and found her number and texted her wondering what the deal was. I told her that I couldn t think of anything I ve done wrong and that it broke my heart to know that she just didn t want to be friends anymore. I basically raised her two sons so yeah it was pretty heartbreaking. her excuse for this was that she felt like I had "replaced her" and that I was "flaky". Her explanation to flaky was that she hasn t heard from me in a while. I told her that she should have shared her feelings with me instead of all of this and also that I was giving her some space while she was taking classes because every time I asked her to hang out she couldn t. I also mentioned that through this whole time she also never picked up the phone and texted or called me or checked in on me either. She replied, "it s not easy to talk to someone about how I feel" (but it s easy to just cut off her best friend of 10 years... ok) I suggested that we should meet up and talk in person when I get back from traveling for work. she said "sure let me know when" so now I m back in town but I m just thinking this through. She never apologized or even really put an effort into the text conversation we had. I love her but if it was so easy for her to decide that she didn t want me in her life without an explanation then why shouldn t I just leave her be? If I do then I m sure I won t hear from her anymore because of course, I have to be the one to reach out even though she s really wrong for this. I can t stop thinking about it.... I guess I just need some outside opinions.

I told her "yeah I think it's normal but lots of people don't I've been attrached to butts even if it's not sexual. I asking you have a big butt and you said yeah. I think it's great." and she said "Thanks haha my butt isn't like REALLY big, I just have an extreme diet, and my butt is just something I can't seem to lose. I think it's because I walk on my toes and also belly dance, your butt never leaves when you do those things haha"

I have to pay my friend back. Keep in mind I am a teenager without a driver s licence and a busy schedule. I owe her $30. We went shopping and I didn t have cash. She insisted we went. There was a buy one get one free sale. She payed for her stuff and mine was free. I owe her half of the total. Anyway, I told her I had no cash and that I couldn t pay her back until after Christmas, maybe mid January. She said okay. I had like $15 dollars cash and she wanted it all together. So, I waited. Then, a few days after Christmas I got checks from my relatives. I went to Canada so I couldn t cash them. Then when I got back from Canada it was time to go back to school and I am really busy. So are my parents. So, I told her I didn t cash the check, but I would have them in a week. She previously said I have as long until the end of January. After I told her I hadn t cashed the checks, she blew up at me and called me sleezy and a liar. I then told her that I would have her money by this Saturday ( January 11th) But now she's giving me the cold shoulder and being rude towards me. I know this is partially my fault, but she said I have until the end of January to pay her back. I think I'm going to lose my friend. What do I do?

I have a friend who is at Korea all paid for by his mother. I asked him if he could get me an item and I will pay for it and if he doesn't its alright. So he got me an item from the franchise that I didn't want and says there is a "traveling fee". The item is $6 but he wants to make it $8. I feel bad that he got it but I also don't since there are hidden fees. I think this is B.S. but what should I do? I am planning on paying him only the $6 and not the "traveling fee" since I never knew about that. I also think this maybe the start of a dying friendship.

she say 'nobody says first and third world anymore it's outdated' but i hear people use it all the time why she lie.... also i saw her twitter its full of BULLSHlT!!! she's obsessed with helping poor african kids but she's not really nice to the struggling kids to her class ;/ everything she says is garbage

Are you able to make and keep friends easily or do you struggle with it? 

i just realise... i never got a black friend in my life before... i got brown friend but not black ;(((

i eat kfc, cow and turkey all the time so why cant we eat like dog and cat? i asked my friends they said um its weird and cat and dog are friend you don't eat your friend.... but i see some people have chicken friend but we still eat chicken???

how can I find a lost friend that move to orizava veracruz

My friend is huge in band and we are both in 12th grade both already got accepted into multiple colleges. So my friend told me about how she was nervous about a district competition. I told her she would do great and she went on about how I was making it worse saying that as I'm already expecting her to do well. She said to say things like it is not a big deat etc. Today she came to me about it. I told her that it dosen't matter about how she does because it is insignificant to her future (ie already accepted to many colleges). She got mad and went on saying how I was demeaning her and how Im just making it worse etc. I told her I was doing what she asked me to do the other day. I turned around and she was gone. I'm honestly really annoyed but was I wrong for saying this? What should I do? 

I work in an office with 9 other women ages 20 through 50. We have the greatest boss ever. He is a 31 year old GREAT looking guy. We enjoy coming to work mainly because of our boss. He sees that we are well paid and never gets mad at us when we screw up. We love to joke around with him and he loves for us to do it. For example, one of us ask him if he hired us for our boob size of or IQs. He said "You have IQs"? We all had a good laugh at that. Employees from other departments that know about our actions with our boss tell us he is sexually harassing us. Is he?

He knows how much this meant to me

It's been a year in my sorority and first semester in my srat was amazing. Like I felt like I made so many friends and I was so happy and I just loved every second of it and everyone in it. This semester I moved in the house and I don't feel the same love. I don't feel like I have any friends and I feel like no one likes me. Before socials, no one ever invites me to pregames and no one ever invites me to go tailgate with them or anything. It's always me being by myself or maybe inviting myself into the event. I am trying so hard to find a roommate for next year and no one wants to room with me. Also for recruitment my sorority wouldn't let me recruit because I guess they think I am weird. They also never post pictures on me on the social media because I guess they think I am ugly. I am more involved than most people, yet no one ever includes me in things.

I have two jobs and now I have a plan to have a 3rd. I just don't know why I want to work anymore. I have been so lonely and sad lately. I don't have any friends and I don't want to have friends anymore. I don't fit well with people. I don't see myself doing anything significant after this point in my life anymore. I don't even know if I have significance at this point in my life.. I'll be working 3 jobs, probably and most likely 7 days a week. If this other (4th) job comes through, I'll be working only two jobs. One will be mon-fri FULL TIME. the second job will be weekends 8hrs/day. I'll have to work 8hrs everyday every week.. I know I could Ask for a day off or quit my weekend job for some time to myself, but the problem is I have nothing significant going on in my life anymore. I don't even go out to the movies. I have hobbies. I quit em. Talk to people? I dont have friends. People consider me as a friend, but I'm scared of telling people how I feel. Feeling hopeless. Sad..

My 12 year old was invited out for the weekend with her bestfriend. Her friend was over a couple days ago and said she was really upset because her dad told her her mother dealt drugs and that was one of the reasons they divorced. The friend told me she remembers seeing a scale and little brown bags and a lot of people in and  the house, but it was years ago. The mother has a good job, the house is immaculate, she has seemed very sweet and fun, no red flags, other then this.   Unfortunately they rented a hotel and I think have made plans for my child. I was honest with my daughter and told her to let her friend know. Am I obligated to speak to the mother? How and what should I say? To her daughter? I know people can change I am not a judgemental person. I am just not feeling comfy with taking a risk with my kid. Should I let my kid hangout at their home now? (They live in the next cal-di-sac). Should I just get to know the mother more?

This is not an easy topic.  Whenever I travel down south to go on a hunting trip with my friend. I stay a night in his place before we leave for the adventure next morning.  I get a separate room to sleep in. My friend is an early sleeper so he is out by 8:30 PM while I don't go to bed until like 10 PM but I get in my room and read news on internet.  His wife who also doesn't go to bed early always knocks on my door to ask to share her snacks with me and sits down with me in the room. And we converse for good two hours.  I usually travel 5 times a year to do the hunting and pretty much all those times this happens.  The discussion topics are mostly general but it gets personal too such as likes, dislikes, when I do my laundry and what is her or my future plans. One of the times discussion was about the clothes she was wearing at that time.  I feel some connection there so discussion flows naturally but I am always scared for the time when my friend wakes up and walks into the room and findS us having chit chat. What will he think? On a couple of occasions she sat too close to me and our voices became weird while talking. I felt so scared that I was just looking at the door for the barrel of my friends hunting rifle pointing at me.   Is this sexual tension? Or she is just needing someone to talk and I am overthinking it?

Right now I work in a nice environment and I like what I do and love my co-workers and the work schedules. The only problem is the office I work in is on a 45 story building, in the 35th floor, and the elevators there usually are prone to be out of service so I have to go down the stairs to the 29th floor if I want to use a the elevators that do work well. I've had some health issues a few months ago and had to undergo a surgery, so it's been difficult for me using the stairs.  Last week I felt really pissed off because I hurt my knee. So when suddenly an old friend called me that day with a job offer in his 3 stories building I immediately told him I was interested. The downside is their work schedule is horrible and he needs someone available in no more than 15 days to fill that position, asap. Anyways, I told him 'Yes, I want that job'. Now, I'm thinking of it more calmly. I love my actual job. And finding someone to replace me would require like 2 months since it's something not a lot of people know. I really appreciate my boss and I don't want to leave my position like I don't care. Should I wait for any other job offer or should I accept the position my friend is giving to me.  (Sorry for my bad English)

I've been talking to this guy since 2014 we met online. And we've been meeting up since 2015 he lives in another state we are not in a relationship at all we are only friends. But I help him financially and he gives me things and helps me with my academics. I recently started talking to another guy who I met online he lives in another state but he's only 5 hours away. We've been talking for a year but we haven't met in person yet. I think he really likes me he lives in a townhouse but he wants to buy a house. I told him to buy one in my state he said he would. I really don't know what to do. The first guy is 13 years older than me and I've been helping him with money and we hookup. This other guy is 3 years older than me he has his own business and he seems financially stable.

i met my friend in school. we were talking and we clicked. so we exchanged numbers and started texting and i even went over her house to study with 2 more of our classmates. she only invites people she likes. im noticing a pattern. she would always make plans with me but fall through on it. like we were suppose to study then she canceled at the last minute saying she was busy. then she made plans with me again then she canceled. the third time she made plans but she said we would study by the river or mc donalds. its cold in new york to study outside and i dont eat mc donalds. she keeps making plans with me but keep giving excuses. why make them for to begin with..then she called me a few days later and made plans again saying she will invite her son from college to come and study with us to teach us a few things. then at the last minute when i was walking to her house (she lives 25 minutes away) im walking like a idiot in the cold when she called me and cancelled and told me someone invited her to a party. i didnt say anything. i just said okay. then a few days later i text her and told her how i felt. i was basically being honest. and i was okay with what happened and i rather not be in a friendship like that because i felt like she was giving excuses. its totally disrespectful to cancel at the last minute. espeacially when im walking to her house in the freezing cold. it takes 25 minutes or more to get there by foot. what you think?

she said "I'm not sure being friends is the best idea considering what happened last time"

My friend recently changed his username to "feeling super super suicidal" and his profile picture says " I just wanna kms". As his friend me and his friends always tell him to stop saying that he's ok. He told me personally, that he doesn't want me to worry about him simply because "there is nothing to worry about" and I told him I couldn't stop worrying constantly asking if he's ok and he says "yes" he told me "do we need to have that lecture again? I'm fine" he constantly helps everyone he can and he is such a sweet and caring guy and when I vent to him he always helps me but I'm scared to ask him. He told me "I'm a piece of ****. I'm not diagnosed with depression and you probably get mad when I say I'm depressed and sad all the time". He's very insecure and always talks trash about himself. I'm really worried about his health and I'm not sure what to do.

Is that code for something?  Let's say you (as a man) know her as a friend and you text her sometimes. 

He thinks he is god (literally) and that none of us are real. Just a figment of his imagination. He thinks he is all of us.  He has been going through a hard time after some things happened and he was seeing a therapist, but I think he definitely stopped.  It was like he did a complete 180 with the person he became. None of us know what to think, and you can't have a normal conversation with him anymore.  Some more background. When he started smoking pot is when he changed a little, but it wasn't a big deal. Everything was still good. And I've never known ANYONE to act like this from marijuana. That just doesn't happen. And no, I can promise you he doesn't do any drugs.  He recently showed some actions that scared me and his other friends. Aggressive behavior which is something we've never seen.  He keeps talking about wanting to end this reality and move on to the next, and it's just got me so worried.  There's nothing I can do to help him. I've tried talking to him and it's just not possible. I don't know his family, so I can't talk to them to get him help either.  He doesn't even think I'm real.. Is there anything I can do?