So my boys were with my ex for the holidays and they came back with my youngest acting weird. They are 7 and 5 years old and the step brother is 13 and two foster kids are 8 and 15 years old the parents were not present and my 8 year old is explaining me about sex and how these kids were getting my youngest son to take his clothes off and try to sit in their laps. I need advice. I'm sick to my stomach and disturb that the supervision is that poor while they are over there. Apparently the 8 year old has a tablet with a football player master bating and having sex I need help!!

They always make selfish excuses to prevent me from seeing her I was supposed to see her today but my mom made me do grocery shopping instead Can I make my parents let me see my therapist?

I'm 18 and my brother is 17, I will be 19 next month and he will be 18 next month as well. I've been working since last year January and my brother started working sometime around March or May. We both work at the same job and get payed every week, since we've been working my step dad makes up give him our checks and he says he put our money in our bank account. We don't have no access to our account whatsoever, and we have to ask him for our money for whenever we want to go somewhere. He asks what we need it for sometimes, which gets on my nerves, because its my money I worked for. My mom allows this to happen because she says he's the best at working with good credit and helping us stay with good credit and saving our money up. I think this is unfair because he don't take his actual sons check every week and control his money or bank account.( my step brother don't live with us, he live with his mom) How should me and my brother go about this?

My best friend was telling me about how her brother is really going through it at home. Her younger brother who is 18, full of life and smart as ever, found his first woman to take home. My best friend said she really liked the girl and she was as smart and nice as her brother where they seemed perfect together. The older sister In her family made a FUSS and later told my best friend she doesn't understand why he would bring a black woman home. Ever since their mother died the sister feels they need to keep their family and apparently blonde hair blue eyes genes going. She has no reason to treat the girl poorly she's just judging her skin tone and it's making my friends bother depressed. 

so i reached out because we haven't talked in years after a huge fight that caused even our parents to get involved and we talked a bit then she said she doesn't want to be friends because of what happened last time i can't stop crying

They drop me off at the movies or at a friend's house like almost every other week for a day. When I ask them why they do this and what they do, they just tell me that it's none of my business. I'm only 12 and dad is 35 and mom is 33.  I did ask them but they just told me that it's none of my business

First off, I'm 18 years old, graduated high school last year (will be 19 next month), have a job and in a skilled trade program, and does everything they tell me to do. I have a boyfriend and we both have cars but my parents don't let me go anywhere but to get gas for my car and to work. So, i don't get to see him like that or go out with him as normal couples will do so sometimes while he's out he would stop by and I would go outside and chill in the car with him. Just a couple days ago, he stopped by and i went outside, and came back into the house my mom told me i can't just leave out without asking them and she covered for me because my dad was calling for me and I was outside, so she told me I can't ask to go anywhere for awhile because of that. So, just today they both were gone, and he stopped by outside and I figured since they were gone, that I didn't have to ask to go outside... Well, I was WRONG!!!. my dad came home and i was outside still, so he called my phone and asked me where i was at and i told him outside in front of the house, and he was like didn't you get fussed at about doing that, so my mom ended up calling me yelling and fussing again about not asking but since they both were gone i didn't think i had to, so she took my phone, keys and apple watch. I feel like they are controlling me, and I feel like I'm being treated like a kid. I don't ask to take the dog outside for a walk, what am i asking to sit in the car and talk with my boyfriend for!!!???

I don't want my son to marry this girl she is just going to steal him away from me and I won't be in his life anymore and I won't have my son all to myself anymore I admit I am jealous of my future daughter in law I admit it I want my son all for my self:( I don't want my son to ever get married I just want him to be a mamas boy forever I hate having to share my son with another women I also want to stop my son from leaving me how do I ruin my sons wedding This is not a troll question

My wife and I were at her mother's (Linda) house. My wife was showing me the family photo album. In it was Linda's pictures as a swim suit model. Wow, was Linda great looking and had a figure to die for. I told my wife "I see where you get your good looks. Your mother is gorgeous ". Linda heard me and came over and hugged me and said "You made my day". My wife asked her mother if she could still get in the bathing suit she had on in the pictures. Linda said "Yes, they still fit". My wife ask her mother to put one on so she could get a picture of her now in the swim suit. Linda said she did not think she should do that as the swim suit was too revealing. Linda turned to me and said "You would not like to see me in a micro bikini would you"? Every guy reading this knows what the truthful answer is but I can not say that. Wives, I would like your opinion on how I should have answered without making my wife mad.

I often warn my father about potential dangers and concerns and his response to me is always "DON'T BE SILLY, THAT WILL NEVER HAPPEN!!!!!!" Recently I warned him about burglaries in his area and how his RV could be stolen unless he took extra measures and precautions. He angrily told me that will NEVER happen. Well his RV was just stolen off his property. But this isn't the first time I've warned him and he always says DON'T BE SILLY, THAT WILL NEVER HAPPEN! I've warned him dozens of times where I ended up being right yet he still refuses to listen to me. It's probably cost him over $100,000 by being pig headed.

I have a 3 year old daughter who I have in my primary care. I provide for all of her needs, insurance, clothing, and daycare. Her father and I have a verbal agreement that he will pay $100 a week but he always has an excuse as to why he can't pay the full amount. So far, he is behind nearly $500 and I'm footing the bill for everything. Her father visits her once a month, if that. He lived close to us but moved 3 hours away. He said it was to better his life because he got paid a few dollars more. The town he lived in had many, many good paying jobs and lots of people get along just fine. This job hasn't made him anymore money. He has no vehicle either. He's barely making it but will blow $40 on sushi at a nice restaurant but can't pay support on time. He  said he moved to live the life he wants to live and meanwhile I'm back here being a mother. Should I continue to let him visit once a month or call a few times a week? I'm more concerned about my daughter and her needs so I don't want to get in the way of their relationship but I think he is getting away with just having a relationship that's on the surface. Help?! 

I have stayed in her house, and with him, for 6 years. Long story short, i pay my share of rent and more. She had a stroke years ago and tried working again but started recieving welfare because she got too tired in the head as she called it. Physically she says shes always tired...shes not limited in any other way from the stroke yet shes well enough to function behind the wheel but not work. She expects me to keep paying her money if i come back home to the states (even if its temporary) for work or "she cant make it"  when her older son stayed here for a year we were treated like dirt and he didnt have to pay a cent. My bf got mad at me bulking at her request. Am i missing something here? Am i being taken advantage of or am i being harsh? Plz advise. No trolls I meant leaving her home where my bf also lives with her to go back to my home country (Usa) 

We live in a very big house and we are a family of 6. I'm the oldest (male 21) 1 girl Details to put things in perspective: mom and sister left out of town for 2 weeks. We have a cleaning lady that literally lives in with us and does all the cleaning, including laundry. For everyone.  Anyway, she quit a few days after mom left.  It's just me (m, 21) dad (m,43) Brother (m,17) Brother (m,15) Let me tell you, what's happening. Nobody was cleaning anything. Nobody did laundry. Nobody helped. Me, I'm not trying to make myself sound like I'm great, but I literally took all the responsibilities. I spent all my sundays and after work cleaning the house, doing everyone's, laundry, ironing (with no experience before). I made sure the garbage was taken out etc.  My siblings are not helping, and I feel like they are taking advantage of me. My brother (17) has been arguing and rebelling when I asked him for help around the house. Brother (15) is never home. Always with friends. I get home from work around 7pm Honestly, I'm so sick of doing their laundry and cleaning after them. What would you do in this case? 

She looks really young so around 15 years older than me. They tell me that she didn't regularly take her pill and that's why I was born. They also tell me that I probably have sex with her. I like having a young mom but I don't know why they think it's that weird. Their parents had them at arpund 35 tho.  We went to celebrate my mom's godmother's birthday and all of the guests thought that I was her husband. I'm 16 and mature for my age

Dear all, I (male, 16) have been living with my dad and his new wife and her kids for half a year. They didn't really want me to come live with them, but my mother moved abroad with her new bf so my dad and his wife didn't have much of a choice. I sleep on the couch in the study and I still live out of the suitcase. I'm very grateful they took me in because I can't afford to live on my own (I still go to school). But for a while now, I have been longing for a proper bed. My back hurts from sleeping on the couch and it's also not long enough for me fully stretch my legs. I would also love some sort of wardrobe for my clothes. The problem is, I don't really know how long I will be allowed to stay with them. It sounded like something temporary. The situation is driving me crazy. I don't know where to go if I can't stay with them any more. This is also a reason I often can't sleep at night.  Do you think I could ask my dad for a bed (a used one would be fine) and possibly, a wardrobe or should I be content with the couch and the suitcase situation? Or maybe should I save for a bed myself (I have a part time job)?  Thank you!

They drop me off to my uncle and tell me that they need some time for themselves if ask why they do this. I'm 13 and mom is 34 and dad is 36.

They pretend to like me. They really want to beat me up. I worry about my safety. They think I'm weak. I try to prove I'm not weak. It doesn't work.

I know someone who who likes his sister's butts he has 5 young sisters and he likes touches and patting their butts. is that okay?

and grandma was proud? And where would I be if my father was here? And mom was with him and their love was sincere? No fvcking divorce, no need for the courts. Together forever, they fought through the storms. They fought through it all. Yeah, through the trials of love, they ain't ever quit. But it's sad to say that's not the case, cause they broke apart, that sh!t makes me p1ssed. Do I give up or do I stand on my feet? Do I give in the the hardship of life?

One aunt turned on another cause she offered housing to the black sheep daughter of the aunt s. So in this both sister s went to war. 5 years ago one was the person with deep bitterness. Now it is the other sister who is bitter. The only thing she discusses is this feud. Meanwhile my grandmother has Alzheimers and my grandfather died 2 years ago. The only living son is an alcoholic so he is not stable and my mother complains all day about everyone but is the stable one. The other uncle died in 2004. So does this kind of dysfunction heal or is it usually permanent? They were not like this when I was a kid and both aunts were very nice. Uncle was always a little rough but close. The uncle who died was Down Syndrome but very sweet. It is sad to see her family destroyed mainly by these two aunts at war. The aunt who took in the niece I kind of backed but now the only thing she does is insult her sister and criticize generational bad habits. She even claims our grandmother committed covert incest. That term I find offensive and it obviously is not what it sounds like. She may be extra nice to one over the other but it is because that one is more needy.

Hi everyone so my son is 21 years old and he lives in another state with his mother. He is a full time college student and he has been getting good grades. He also works part time and pays for his phone, his car, and rent. I am remarried to another woman but it bothers me that my son did what he wanted and didn't tell me.

She complains about EVERYONE and so I am nervous as to what she must say about me when I am not around. She is very ugly in her words.

I suffer from EDS the Hyper-mobile kind and everyday it just gets worse my back constantly hurts due to an injury and I also have arthritis in my back, I constantly have headaches, and It's hard to even get out of bed. I had to quit Cheer-leading and other sports and I had to switch to homeschool and it wasn't my choice. I only have a few friends and a laptop to do things on to keep my mind occupied since it's still winter break. I don't get along with my mom and my older brother broke my computer awhile back so my laptop's jacked up and he won't replace it. I tried to speak to my mom about it but she just went off on me telling me how she doesn't have friends either and other things. I try to get along with her but it never really works and I feel like I'm a burden to her. I've tried to talk to her so many times about my relationship with her or problems I have and she just tells me what she did when she was my age but she doesn't exactly understand my pain that I try to explain. My father passed when I was younger and he was the only one who really understood me. I don't wanna live anymore but I'm too scared to die. I tried to talk to my mom about getting me in with a therapist but she says she'll do it but never does. I honestly just don't know what to do

i'm 15 and i have 3 other siblings who are 18, 16, and 5. I don't live with my parents but my other siblings do, there is only one picture of me in the house with the rest of my family and i look horrible but everyone looks good. they have a wall of pictures of their kids but i'm the only one not on it, they tell me i need to accomplish something ( my brother graduated, my sister was in the news paper for soccer, the youngest graduated pre-school ) but when i was in theatre AND got awards for orchestra they never showed up to anything but will show up to my sisters soccer games all the time. i feel emotionally shut out from my family and i can't tell them anything, i feel lonely all the time and they tell me it's because i live with my grandparents but it's because i don't feel welcome there. what do i do? i really want a therapist, i wanted to kill myself before but my mom did nothing but get me self help books and she wouldn't get me one, i feel trapped because i have no way to express my feelings to anybody.  

what do i do

Gf & I have been dating for ~3 years now. I am 25 & she is 2 years younger than me. She is a very impulsive person & has a short temper when she isn't getting her way. I am the exact opposite - extremely patient. I am a graduate student & have worked really hard for years to be in the position I am in now. About 6 months ago, during the summer, she called the police on me one night because I would not let her see my cell phone. She told me that I either let her go through my cell phone or I leave her apartment (at 12am). I did not want to show her my cellphone because she had been yelling at me the whole night for not immediately cleaning a bowl (I was working on my computer & told her I would clean it soon). I felt that she didn't appreciate me and was essentially bullying me from the moment I got home (6pm). I told her that I would have given her my cellphone if she hadn't been yelling at me all night. She said "ok, fine" with an attitude & left the room, calling the police in another room. The police arrived & asked what happened. I explained that she had been yelling at me all night & that I was trying to keep the peace. I forgot to mention that she called them because I wouldn't let her see my phone (this irks me). She told them there was no violence of any sort, but that I wouldn't leave the apartment. No arrest, no record, etc. She actually called me and asked me to come back that night. This still bothers me today. I have trouble trusting her now. Thoughts?

I'm so hurt and the lying coward keeps doing this stuff. Linda: it is him, he has a history of this as did my mom that she's  softened. No one else minds me, my parents are afraid because of my disability that I shouldn't be around people other than them.  He has a long history of lying

I'm dealing with an abusive father who mistreats me. He hurts me and brings me down, and there isn't anything anyone can do about it. I can give more details if you want. Also, he has a new job, so he will be leaving in a week and a half, and by them, my sisters will barely see him. He will be gone from travel a lot. He also has groped me from time to time. Mom cares but can't do anything about it. I have so much stress because I have six sisters, and I missed all my midterms so I have to re-make them. mY friends are going back at each other with petty drama and its making me go crazy. I would talk to my aunt, But the thing is, my dad took away my phone. I was in a rush this morning and I made bottles the wrong way, and i didn't even have my phone. He told me that if i was paying attention (I WAS) i would have made them the right way. He took my phone and completely erased it and got rid of the number by the time i got home from school.

If my mother had back to back pregnancies that cause her to have a belly button hernia, a few meltdowns from all the nursing & being deficient, also anxiety attacks that made her actually stop driving till this day. No help it was just be & her while my dad worked always & had very little patients even tho he's changed now he still has little patients, we couldn't go out we barely did just recently we started and it's still hard due to other problems. My sister goes in & out the hospital every few months due to cyclic vomiting it gets seriously bad & I'm the one that stays home & becomes the second mother to my other sister & make sure everything is clean, dogs are fed, & my sister fine... & I'm not in the greatest health. I mean it's a list I can go on and on and yet (I know it's none of my business) are my parents having unsafe sex? Condoms that are in the hallway closet haven't been touched in a year, during the summer my mom googled on the family computer if you can get pregnant from precum and changes of getting pregnant at 44 etc., I confronted her to pls just use protection but she said she doesn't really even do anything. I don't know what that means but after that research my dad started to make sexual jokes so I know they probably do it But nothing has changed. There's no signs of any form of birth control what so ever NOTHING! I know she's in peri menopause but she still has her period. My mom only really has me for help and I'm living day by day in big fear mode