Hi All, happy new year 2020. I have a question and hope you can provide some input which will allow me to make my decision. Went I was 26 years and when we both worked in the same place I loved a women and same he loved me. Our relation lasted 7 years after which her parents forced her to marry someone from her relative.  I left to UK as I was not able to take it. Flash forward 10 years in 2011, when i went to Malaysia to work for two years. I met her and she wanted me in her life again and wanted to leave everything for me. she has two children 14 and 12 years old and still with her husband. I left Malaysia in 2013 and since then she been coming every year to send 4 months , 5 months with me in the UK but so far has not made any move to leave her family to come stay with me. Last year 2019, I made it clear this is not working and she said she will come in February for good but now she said she will come after March as her mother need to go for an operation and promised me she is coming before September. So far its been January and she keeps on texting me she loves me and miss me. What shall I do please - any ideas? am I wasting my time? I am 47 years old now still single unmarried Thanks and look forward to some of you comments

He was dating his gf in 2015. One day, they got ambushed by 3 thugs. They beat him up and dragged his gf away from him, take her somewhere else and raped her. The girl never once blamed him and has moved on with her life. However, he still has trouble. Sometimes he still blames himself for not doing enough. He feels terrible. I would feel terrible if I couldn't protect someone I love/care for. But seems that this is a very hard blow to the male. He can't get over it. Why?

If he's lusting over other women? I'd rather him be single then disrespectful  me. Yeah he loves me but obviously not enough . I don't list over other men they are around , yes but I pay no mind to them because they don't catch my attention the way my man does. I feel like if guys are going to do disrespectful **** and they can't commit there's no point in being with them . I feel like telling him if he wonders what if , he should find out and forget about me .

I'm going on a date soon with someone to meet for the first time at first I thought maybe his phone changed Collin to collie but apparently that's his actual name if anyone else has this name how do you pronounce it it's not a common name where I live do you pronounce it like the dog breed I don't want to seem like an idiot if I am by asking him but I also  don't want to show up can call him a dog breed if it's pronounced differently any and all who can help it will be highly appreciated 

Hi there. I'm in a tricky situation. A family friend, who I love very much, is in a bad place. Currently, department of social services is involved. There is a possibility he will be put into the foster care system. He is 14. My question is this.  I am in no way related to him by blood, so I hold no value. However, this kid is like a brother to me, and it absolutely terrifies me not knowing where he's going, what's going to happen, and that he's going through this alone. I desperately want to take him in, I just really don't know how, legally. I am only 19, I don't even know if I'm old enough to be able to do this. If anyone has any advice on things I can do or ways to go about filing for guardianship I'd really appreciate it. Also any information on the court process such as financial costs and other processes would be nice to know. Thank you. 

Due date is May 19th~21st.  I slept with Guy A only on August 19th, no condom and he didnt come in me.  I slept with Guy B between the times of August 22nd to September 1st, unprotected and he did come in me at least once, maybe twice.  (Not using the first day of my last period due to my period being irregular.) Conception calculators say most probable conception dates are August 26-30th, the possible days that I had sex on that lead to conception are (very earliest) Aug 20, 2019 - (very latest) Sept 4, 2019.  I know it's not 100% because theres no DNA testing, but would this pretty much confirm Guy B is the father. What do you think?  Any advice would be appreciated. 

A guy at work that keeps hitting my butt with his hand when I'm turned around. He always says sorry each time but this has happened 5x already and that's a lot of times to be a coincidence, right? 2 out of the 5 times he has had plenty of room to go past me without hitting me. I can't outright accuse him of doing it on purpose because he has plausible deniability. Is he doing this on purpose?

I have a guy in my class that I love him so much like a best friend bc thats what we are ...I never really put makeup on my face bc my face is really clean and smoth and I only put makeup on special occasion..so we were on this trip with school and I did some makeup on me ..you know eyeliner mascara and lipstick and he thought I was someone else and wanted to flirt with me ... I laughed very hard and took it as a joke and made fun of him... when we got back he said "YOU LOOK BETTER WIHOUT MAKEUP" tou dont need it ... I m getting really confused does he like me or not ? I really want him just as my friend but he s acting really weird lately.