he says he misses talking to me and wishes he had more time for me, but he doesn't appear to try to make time. of course i know he is busy and i understand that, but does he truly not have the time to text or call me at least a bit? sometimes it will be two weeks where i don't hear from him. i love him and want the best for him but i don't want him to think i don't trust him. is there something else going on? i feel embarrassed to start a conversation since i'm always the one initiating them, and then they end quickly.

they think its their appearance that causes dating discrimination against them, but maybe its their mental attitude that is the problem?

My ex and I dated for 5 years before he decided to end our relationship a year ago. He dumped me out of nowhere one day over a text. Below was the text: "I know I have been different lately, but I don't love you anymore and I have developed feelings for someone else. I regret dating you and breaking up will be the best for the both of us. I wish you the best in life." No warning, no hints and then BOOM! He ended it just like that. He didn't even think it was important to reply after I texted him back all confused. I was left just like that after 5 years. No closure, no nothing. I don't even know if I got cheated on or not or for how long? To this day, I still don't know what did I do to deserve that. I'm ashamed to admit this cuz it makes me seem weak but I was beyond heartbroken. Just last night, all these memories came rushing to me and I couldn't sleep. We were doing great as usual or so I thought. He always made me feel so loved. Even 2 weeks prior to this, he took me on a surprise date and that was the last time were intimate.

im horny 24/7 every woman makes me horny even women from my family by juust looking at them sometimes i cant go to sleep because im so horny every single days for the past 5 years ive been very horny its ruining my life because thats all i can think of

when i say hobbies, i don't mean drinking in bars or just going out to eat, or smoking weed @anon looks aren't everything.

I met this guy and started making out wotj him and everything seemed fine but afterwards he said "you didnt tell me you were bad; im kinda suprised" i was confused so i said sorry and he said why would you apologize. Then a few hours later after we got out the shower he said "your bad" like in a normal tone. Idk how to interpret this like am i bad in bed cuz literally the whole night and next morning he was all up on me.

I recently just started high school as a freshman. I decided to take strength class, since I love to workout. But while in this class I met a girl and some of her friends. I get to chat with this girl every class, and I kinda have a thing for her. I can't tell if she likes me. Every class she approaches me and says hello and stuff with a smile. Last class I was listening to music and she came out of her way to strike up a chat. She constantly laughs at things I say and treats me differently. Where the confusion comes in is after class. Once we are out of the gym it is zero talk to me, in and out of school. She is a junior and I am a freshman. Although, I don't look like a freshman at all, I am usually confused with seniors for reasons listed already. So I have kinda ruled that out. I want to ask her out but we have a good friendship, and I don't want it ruined by that. Any ideas?

i'm a teenage ginger girl, i never had a problem with my hair until someone told me a boy wasn't interested because i was ginger. of course i was like what does tgat mean and he said "guys don't like gingers, gingers are ugly" since then every single boy who i talk to even as friends doesn't want to talk to me because i'm "ginger and gingers are hideous" what is so unattractive about us?

I know there's always exceptions, but generally speaking, is age 18 different than age 20?

We've been speaking for 2 years, met online, and will meet in 2 months, but now is asking for me to send a selfie everyday. Is this a red flag or early signs of obsessive behavior?

So this shy girl likes me so I gave her my number on paper and she said thank you but never told me she had a boyfriend I found out through a mutual friend and he said she still put my number in her phone so I'm kinda confused lol

We haven't spoken a word in 11 months, wrote me out of the blue and called, said he really wants to be friends and would go crazy if he didn't get to speak to again. What's up with this?

this girl i know from work is very cute. we haven't had many deep talks but we have small talk here and there. whenever we talk we always make eye contact and we both smile every time. whenever something funny happens at work, or we hear someone say something weird, our eyes always end up locking right after. as soon as that happens we both always smile right away. i don't know i just feel like my heart is happy around her but i don't know if it is mutual.

Should I tell my ex bf aka my best friend who I've known for almost 7 years thru FaceTime or in person the next time I see him that I still have romantic feelings still for? I just seen him Thursday morning. I want to know how he feels. So do I tell him thru FaceTime or in person better?

I knew this girl and I thought we were just friends, we used to laugh, share stories, talk about school, and just be ourselves. But I always felt that we were just friends. Then, I graduated from college and she texted me a very long text about all the things she liked about me and wished me success ahead and thought I was the most important person she knew and the most real and honest with her and she really appreciate it. I liked her message and called but she didn't call back. One month later, she said she had to say something important. I was out of town but I tried to accommodate some time to hear her out and she didn't end up calling by sending another very long text about how she felt that I had neglected her and she thought I had not introduced her to my other friends and apparently didn't spend too much time with her or check on her. Keep in mind, I was out of state and busy with family matters. I explained but she insisted on her point and tried to guilt me into feeling that I was going to discard her and never remember her again. I tried calling back when I was in town and she never responded to my texts or calls. Was she having mixed emotions? I don't understand and didn't get a clear answer from her.

So I have an issue or not clearing out of my web browsers or clearing my history and it has gotten me into Trouble. I don't text any girls or anything I'm very loyal but sometimes the stuff I google gets me I. Trouble. I have had the same phone since my senior year of high school which was nearly 2 years ago now! So I have so many tabs open on my incognito mode of my safari from so long ago and my girlfriend knows this. Well long story short she found old porn tabs and one of those spam sites they take you to after watching porn like " old men looking for young women" kind of thing.. but yesterday after my 3 hour class I came home and took a nap and I wake up to my girlfriend pissed calling me a cheater and I showed her that those " dating sites" are from porn then she got mad about the porn.... when she literally watches porn too. Like I open her google and it's always like some freaky *** porn like **** that's more extreme then what I like. She says " well that's okay because I just picture it's you doing it to me" I just feel like this is very unfair she told her friend I was cheating and I literally had porn up from I don't even know when.. I mean do I watch porn? On occasion but so does she!!!

He took a pic of a car that looked like mine and said i thought this was you. We're not really friends or anything and last time after Xmas I texted him I hope it's clear why i broke up with you. (he hadn't said merry xmas) and he asked why etc and i said if you were genuine you would've asked then. So following he sent Happy New Years I said same back. and month passed and he randomly sent that. Why

I've had a crush on someone for an entire year now (i talked to him once but embarrassed myself and weirded him out) but ever since I talked to him last year (literally February 2018) i see him at random times for instance, whenever I go in the hallway or outside or anywhere else at a random time during class, I always see him and it's just me and him and I'm always exiting from somewhere at the same time that he's entering and it's always just me and him alone and it's quiet. It always happens all the time and it's not planned, I never know where he's coming from and he never knows where I'm coming from. This happens so much that I'm starting to feel like it might mean something

Guy on tinder asked me if we could have a "casual intimate relationship" I agreed as I was looking for the same thing .. I also told him that it would be best if we didn't know much about each other since it was just casual. He agreed. a week later he texts me asks to hang out I had plans but told him I'm off the following week. He hit me up... I replied thinking he was gonna ask to hang but he never responded. ( obviously I never responded) 5 days later I got in the mood for sex .. so I hit him up askin what he was doing. He replied and said that he was "moving".... smh I said "omfg... I was just hitting u up cuz I was trying to get it in" lol he said ohh okay and I didn't reply back left him on read At this point should I even continue trying to even talk to this guy cuz now he doesn't seem interested of doing anything casual ? He basically turned me down Also we haven't met in person just yet FYI Also do u guys have any advice for future hookups.. lol how can I ask a guy to hookup without seeming slutty or someone that sleeps around a lot.

Where does she look like she's from?

Most girls are butt ugly even if they are skinny. I had one girl who omg she was asian and she was gorgeous! She also didn't mind that I called her gorgeous because she knew she was. She had over 2000 guys on her phone which surprised me to know like why the **** she was going out with me if she had better choices. But I noticed only ugly females tend to care about male looks. You know the fat lesbians and male hating feminists that no guy wants. Anyway how do I find another girl like that? Girls like that seem to be extremely extremely rare. I wished more of those girls would breed so I wouldn't be stuck with these ugly fat females 😩 When a fat girl calls me names I tend to not care. And girls who think they are cute are omg ugly asf lmao! The ones offended are the ugly ones I've noticed. And they know they are ugly. Please you gorgeous girls can you breed more to give the rest of us guys gorgeous girls?

I don't know why this is so common but every time I see someone relying heavily on their parents financially I find out the parents are abusive manipulative and controlling. why is that though?? why do the two go hand in hand

my daughter's phone goes off a ton throughout the day. She is 26 and living with us so I hear her phone whenever she's around. I have mentioned to her a couple of times about her phone going off a lot and it must be her boyfriend texting her and she looked at me strange and just said " why do you keep worrying about my phone going off.

So my much younger than me boyfriend uses strange sayings all the time but recently he said to me " Hey babe, I'm going to make your beef quake later " it sounds sexual but it almost sounds offensive also. I am much older than him, so when he says these types of things, sometimes I just don't understand.

My boyfriend and I saw each other Wednesday night, we saw each other last night and we're spending the whole day together Sunday. I have only seen my best friend once in 7 months and I am spending the whole day and night with her tomorrow. Therefore, my boyfriend wanted me to come spend the night tonight, but that would mean I don't get to spend either night at home. I told my boyfriend I didn't feel like spending the night tonight since I'm going to be away from home tomorrow night. He got all mopey and grumpy and distant. We're getting engaged soon and if he could, he'd spend every second of his life around me, but sometimes space is nice. How do I get him to understand that we don't have to spend every weekend together? Literally, if we won the lottery and it was enough money for us to be out of work for a couple of months, he'd want to be around me 24/7. I love him and love spending time with him, but I don't need to spend every second of my life around him. I can't miss him if he's always around lol. We're in our late 20's, so it's not like we're some young, new couple. He always talks about his abandonment issues, but sometimes I wonder if maybe him being so clingy is part of what has pushed girls away in the past. That's the thing, Rowan. There has never been a time where he has wanted space or time to himself. He works a very demanding full-time job and is doing online college and he had homework tonight. I tried to use the excuse that he had homework, he's like "it'll only take half an hour." I don't know why he never seems to want some time apart from me lol even just a weekend. I'm the opposite, I'm very big on alone time. Leaving him isn't an option, I'm just going to say that now. You don't leave whenever there's a problem. He's not abusive, controlling, a liar or a cheater. If he were any of those things, I'd leave, but he's not. This man stayed with me in the hospital for 4 days while my mom was dying and he was rubbing my back as my mom took her last breath. He went to the funeral with me. He took me on a trip the weekend after the funeral to take my mind off everything. Nobody has been this good to me EVER. I just want to know how to tell him I need space sometimes without hurting his feelings. I told him we could spend some time together Sunday evening if he would like.

It feels like colored eyes always get all the love.

Me and this guy knew each other since kindergarten and we are in 8th grade. We talk a little during class, but he liked my picture on Instagram with me and my friend in bikinis. I also catch him looking at me a couple of times. Does he likes me?

My friend keeps telling me how funny it is when she rubs soapy water on her lady pouch and forces out little queefs to blow bubbles.. is this even possible? Has anyone tried this? Serious answers only please.

Hey guys so basically I met this really nice sweet and pretty girl on a cruise. We hung out a lot together and became pretty good friends with a little bit of flirting. I don't fall for girls often but she was just so nice and beautiful. We live one state apart from each other and had talked about getting together this summer when we're both out of school. I got her number and started to text her after the cruise ended and things were going well and I started to fall for her. I made a push by texting her a little more but she seemed to pull away. Now she's not responding. She seemed really happy to receive my messages but now I can't seem to get in contact. I've given her some space since then but is there anything else I can do? How do I get her back? Is it over? I wanna see her again. We had such a good time on the cruise.

Exactly a year ago I literally went to my crush without even talking to him before and panicked and asked him why he doesn't talk to me. I did it twice. He thought i was so weird and I don't blame him. It's an embarrassing memory of mine. But since that was an entire year ago, could I have a chance now? Or is there no way? What should I do

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I recently found out that one of my friends liked the girl I like. I feel terrible since before I found out this I talked about her nonstop in front of him and then another one of my friends decided that they should only just tell me about his feelings and that I shouldn't make a move on her but the problem with that is he already has a girlfriend and apparently he has liked her for five years now AND has a girlfriend so why can't I make a move on her? I am not saying she likes me back or she would prefer me over him, I respect her. But I don't respect him for deciding I am not allowed to make my feelings present.

To make it short as possible, a girl I like asked for my number. so I gave it to her, a couple hours later around midnight she texts me to let me know it's her, also apologized since her friends were kinda bein weird around me. Anyway, she hasn't really texted me since, although it's only been a couple days so far. Any ideas on why she's doin this, has she lost interest or is she testin me somehow? Thanks for the help!

it's an LDR we met while I was home for break but I live in a different state and we have visited a few times.

If you were to mix roofies with wine, would the person be able to taste it?

I've known him for a few years now after my mom's best friend got married. He's a nice guy and I just started liking him recently. My mom and cousin both think he has an interest in me (they don't know I like him) and was teasing me about it. I honestly don't see any signs of him liking me though. My cousin, his friend, him and I have been hanging out more often recently. We've gone dodgeball, bowling, karaoke, dinner and now the carnival. I really like him and it's kind of driving me nuts. I want to confess but I don't see any signs that he likes me or not. I guess you could say we are friends as we text and hang out... What would you guys do? Please help! >.<

There is a really hot asian girl who rides the train with me everyday. I think she comes back from the gym. I'm not going to hurt her, I just want to grab her butt and maybe her rub her breasts a little and then just walk away. How do I go about this?

A boy tells you he likes you but he's not sure if you like him back

Ok so theres this girl at my college that ive been wanting since last spring semester. She had a boyfriend at first so i waited. Me and her would hang out all the time, and on the weekends and over break she would text me saying she misses me since we were apart. I would go home every few weekends to get my braids redone (im a guy btw). Anyways i texted her around april how i really feel about her. I wanted to do it in person but i was too shy to do it. She told me she was still stuck on her ex (who treated her like ****) and that she said we should stay best friends. I said ok and gave up for a while. She still wanted to hang out with me all the time though and i ended up catching feelings for her again. I never really made a move on her. This past week she hasnt texted me first to chill with her, i would have to because i wouldnt hear from her all day. She barely talks when she chills with me. She only starts talking near when shes about to leave me and go to sleep. What do i do? I still want to make a move on her and really try to show her how i feel but idk what to do.. Shes been giving me a cold shoulder of lately. I never annoy her. Instead of the typical "give up" answer, i really need help on how to show her i love her. Shes single now. My heart hurts because i dont know what to do.. i wanna change her mind and make her happy but shes starting to be distant.

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Me and a long time friend have been dating for a few months. As of recently I feel like he always tries to downplay me because he's 5 years older and has a little more direction in life. Me? I'm a free spirited person with a very rewarding career both financially and in a self fulfilling way. I am also in school for my masters. He trys to down play that by saying " I think going to school just to get more in debt is not smart, it's a waste". Says a person who had scholarships all his schooling years. I wasn't that fortunate. He is now dipping into stocks and IPO's and just landed two new business partners for his marketing company. Last night we were having a conversation and I ask how was his business meeting today and his exact words were "Great, we .... nevermind you wouldn't understand" I said "understand what?" And he said "nevermind". He says he would never try to belittle me but I feel a lot of animosity coming from him as if we're not on the same level and maybe he just keeps me around for sex. Am I overthinking? Or is he throwing some shade? If so, how do I address with me actions and not my words?

I dont have any friends and after my douche bag bf I would like to meet new good people to just be friends with. I decided to trust my instincts and let God put the right people in my life, and be open minded. Because I never talk to people outside of work. BUT I DO NOT WANT AN INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP lol I'm over that prison for now. The other day I met really nice guy I told him what I Told u. I don't want anything intimate or romantic, he said ok but keeps calling me beautiful, saying he wants to see me, just acting like we're dating. I don't think it's possible🤔 Is the possibility of sex.. not always in the back of a mans mind. I mean would they really resist a decent woman's offer if asked????? So then a decent female friend.. is still a possibility. And Honestly don't you think there are really only two reasons a men tolerate women outside of family is 1. For work 2. The "possibility"

Id prefer if a woman answered this but anyone can to help me understand this topic a bit better since im really confused about it and i love making research about any topics but thats the one thing im still confused about but most research say yes but idk if i can trust whats online. Im not a bad boy and idc to be one but im also a writer and would love to write about romance

We ve been together for almost 3 years, both 20. I don t know what it is, but he can get mad at me out of nowhere for not doing something or saying something that he doesn t like. It s been like this for the past few months. An example is the other night we went walking on a trail. He started going off the trail and onto his own path, but I stayed behind and watched because I was really cold and didn t want to go back there. He flipped out and said that I never want to do anything with him, etc, etc...even though it was my idea to go on a walk in the first place. I just underestimated how cold it was. To me, a normal response would be to ask me to come with them, not just ignore me and then flip out without me even knowing they were mad. It s stuff like that that happens constantly. He s irate and ignores me until he calms down, but then he wants to pretend like it never happened. I don t know if this is stress because he hasn t been happy for a while with school and work, or if it s me. Any advice for why he could be acting like this and what to do about it? I don t really want to leave him, but I don t see how to resolve it when I never know what s going to set him off.

Why is it ok for a girl to say I don't like short guys, but if I say I won't date a fat girl in an asshole? I can't help or change my height, but I person can very well not eat half a cheesecake a day

After spending the night w a friend of mine who ive had multiple sex encounters with i had a mental breakdown and was crying etc he was hugging me etc trying to make me feel better and afterwards we had really great sex probably the best weve ever had . ive felt different ever since . and im just curious as to why this time around was so much different .